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Here’s a meme about young women wanting men twice their age, and has lots of comments from women about how they want to do dads and such. https://np.reddit.com/r/LetGirlsHaveFun/s/LckjyXIylO It’s fairly common for young women to find some older men attractive. I’ve met dozens of 19-24 yr old women off dating apps wanting to hookup with me as an older man. Some younger women want a relationship too. There’s nothing wrong with the girls, they don’t have daddy issues. They don’t want to be a sugar …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:56 AM
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Yea that too, I really don’t want to hear how virtuous women are and all these preferences. If a girl is very pretty it’s usually either hot or rich guys, they get with them casually quickly too. When a girl is average or below then she got all these non superficial qualities she’s into, only then. Turn her into an attractive woman, she’ll run straight to the hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:24 AM
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I know 3 very handsome well off guys. Their hot girlfriends often with good careers are instructed by them to go find them women for threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:01 AM
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I’m not so sure that’s the best comparison, maybe kinda. If you want to get women casually, it’s important to be very normal, and don’t let her see an ounce of nervousness or awkwardness. For me to get over this I realized you can’t really impress women with how you act or what you say. Just have a conversation, she either wants you or doesn’t no reason to be nervous. If you’re just socially awkward you need a friend to help you with your weird nervous ticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:47 AM
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It’s more than fitting in, they want to satisfy lust, make others jealous, and live a fun life. Women more often look to men to provide this, even if they have money they just want a man with money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:31 AM
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Social media is ruining the minds of the majority of young women. They subject themselves to constant unrealistic comparisons. They facetune their face so much they believe that’s the real them. They sleep with men out of their league they know are whores, have something to brag about to validate themselves. They virtue signal. Women take every opportunity to get attention. Most of all, women are obsessed with “fitting in” with the status quo. Then they end up feeling like frauds trying to hide …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:28 AM
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Not sure if it’s propaganda, it’s social media and dating apps that gave women tools and lets them see all the things they want on a constant basis. They seek validation, attention, fake virtue, comparison of others, next best thing. Not all women under 35 are addicts to this, just most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:54 AM
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I don’t know that you can characterize all women like this, but if it’s more than half I’d believe it. Other than that, absolutely. You’re spot on, in a ridiculous way I can’t believe it’s not openly discussed, women desperately want to fit in with the status quo. This is why women shit on men so bad, they want that I’m a whore too look who I fucked or this simp bought me this fitting in feeling. What’s weird it doesn’t really work in any way they hope, it makes them depressed, feeling like a fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:46 AM
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To some average women yes, it’s a significant percentage but not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:26 PM
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These are common scenarios you listed, there’s many others where people are just happy to go on a date and they both think each other is cute, which is also common. However, what I’m discussing is there is a lot of average women that would like to date, aren’t sexually forward, and don’t know men who date on there treat it like college hookup culture. They’re just going to think badly of dating apps. Is there average women that hookup a lot and find real boyfriends on dating apps, that happens t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:02 PM
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Yes the algorithm doesn’t like it when you match with a bunch of girls you won’t talk to or ask out, or if you just swipe right every time it lowers your internal score. This is theoretical which can be determined by having times where you’re not picky and just want to see how much you can match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:51 PM
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It’s assumed swipe right on everyone, minus inactive accounts. Wrote that in first sentence. It’s based on my experience of having better pics and looksmaxing over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:42 PM
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Of course they do I don’t think you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:08 PM
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There is an attitude that an average woman with a good career, could step into a dating app and do well and land an above average man. A significantly better chance than above average women trying to land dream men. You have to play the game though and realize it’s an arena a lot like college hookup culture. Which some average women don’t possess that sexual forward confidence naturally. So they get scared off by men sexually vetting them before the date and after for affection. I don’t think al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:06 AM
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Women do once they reach the end of the app, and there isn’t so many of the previous caliber popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:01 AM
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You’re running under the assumption that women don’t have unrealistic expectations, which they often do. Sure they go on some dates and it doesn’t work out, if they keep going and no one wants to claim them they can get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:08 AM
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We have one guy so far that claims to be average banging out average women he says that only want him for sex. I’ve requested a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:03 AM
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It happens a ton on dating apps, the 2-8 week relationship. I think the women on apps push it just as much as the guys. I’ve suggested that the modern young woman has a lot of short term relationships, and like anything you think about women as a guy, it’s met with a “hell no you’re an idiot” response. If I was a woman saying it then I’d get a lot of people agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:58 AM
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She may not be delusional though. The most annoying women on dating apps are above average women that believe a dream man is going to marry them because every guy on the planet wants to have sex with her. This is where hypergamy goes wild with Instagram and dating apps for women. If an average woman wants to be entertained by an above average man she’s just exploiting a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:51 AM
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It’s an alls well that ends well situation though. I had one girl that got upset and started crying in front of me on the date when I said my age. She was ugly in person though, rare catfish. She said her former fiancé lied about his age and it just proves you’re a terrible person. 70 other women who found out said oh whatever, or like cmon. They don’t get you get filtered out though, it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:29 AM
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Average people don’t have much nice to say about dating apps. Men it’s I can’t get matches, average women is I’m treated like an option or just screened for sex. Above average men and women don’t necessarily have glowing reviews of dating apps, but they don’t hate them either. It’s an interesting and valid thought that online dating is affecting average people more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:26 AM
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We need to see a full body pic, cross out your eyes or something. There’s this unicorn that exists online that people keep hammering that average guys are players too. I’ve known 2, but they had incredible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:23 AM
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I’m in my mid 40s and everyone thinks I’m 35 in person, so when they find out sometimes they are slightly annoyed but mainly they don’t care I say I’m 37. Never been an issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:15 AM
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If the woman likes what she sees, you have good convo, and she has any inclination to want to see you again. It’s a hookup fest on dating apps, can happen most the time if you don’t mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:13 AM
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How much do you enjoy dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:12 AM
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I’ve had 19-24 almost always hookup. Then had a bunch of more average women in late 20s and 30s get upset when I ask them over after the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:59 AM
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Age range?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:55 AM
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Most women just lie, who’s going to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:52 AM
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Sexualized banter?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:49 AM
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Did you make sure they were interested in that to some degree before the date? Because I just ask women out, I’m not all crazy flirty. What I believe is men check this out with average women before they agree to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:48 AM
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How is it that women on this sub can only make an argument by saying the most extreme thing. Of course not having sexual confidence does not mean you see him and pull down his pants and have sex with him. It does mean that you will express physical interest with him and be passionate. I keep hearing women on this sub how they get treated so bad on the apps and basically asked for sexual interest immediately. The reason I think that’s occurring is there’s too many average woman that lack sexual c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:42 AM
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I don’t screen for sexual interest first, if I did then I’m sure those ones would. When I don’t they act frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:32 AM
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How body count could ever be considered or known off a dating app is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:18 AM
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If they are on a dating app yes. The reason average women are getting screened for sexual interest on the app before the date, is they just waste your time by not even trying to be physically romantic at all, it’s a lack of confidence. So this why average women say guys just want sex on dating apps and don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:14 AM
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I’m waiting for the guy that says he hookups and dates average women a lot off dating apps and why. Because I’ve only been able to do that with above average women. You write posts to see if you can find out what’s going on, because what I think average women are doing is trying with above average men then get intimated by the situation, then just get mad at the man. When she just sat with her guard up for 2 hours. Then they match with above average men and a lot just ask for sex, because a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:08 AM
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If you say dating apps don’t work because of the 80/20 rule you’ll get 50 comments that it’s made up Redpill horseshit. Then you explain this and how average guys can’t get dates. The reality is women are caught up trying to chase above average men and for half of them it’s just going to be extremely frustrating. Then women say, “I hate dating apps men just want to fuck.” It’s no you’re just a fish out of water with these men and have no idea how to act or land one. They would be fine with no se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:03 AM
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I believe most girls go to dating apps mainly to find a boyfriend if they are over the age of 22. The fact you say women just want to fk on apps, I don’t think so. Maybe that’s somehow you and imploring why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:00 AM
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I think average women attempting to be with an above average man has no path to success. They can’t hookup or pull back. They want the date paid for but they don’t want to act like a sexually confident above average woman. So when I hear average women bitch about dating apps, they were just unwilling to participate in them in any fair manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:52 PM
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It’s my experience I’ve been out with 20 average women. One fell asleep on my couch but didn’t want any clothes off. I’ve been out with 100 above average to great. 70% of those come over and at least make out. Lot stay the night, bj, sex. If they like you more, they want to come over on the weekend for brunch and lots of sex. Average women get offended when you ask them over after dinner. I think they don’t have the confidence to be forward sexually or they tried before and it never works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:41 PM
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I don’t understand how you could be considered even close to average then. It’s like you exist out of the range of hot but you’re handsome, but don’t have enough going for you, I don’t get why they want the hookup but nothing else. Which is what happened to me in college, I’d get hookups but they weren’t serious with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:38 PM
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More than half the time a woman off a dating app hooks up with me, it’s because they also want me as a possible boyfriend option. The concept that women go on dating apps to hookup is largely not true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:33 PM
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What I don’t get though is you’re on a date with above average woman, if she likes you there is a strategy to get access to you, more dates, and boyfriend. The above average women do this by going back to your place and maybe not have sex, but make out or stay the night. Then you paid for the date as the guy, you won, you both win. The average women I’ve been out with are working professionals and they want an above average man. Then they aren’t even confident with the kiss outside, then get off…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:24 PM
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I’ve been on dates with average women on dating apps and above average. The above average can more sexually gamify the system. The average women seemed less interested in hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:50 PM
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Yes I realize that but I’ve never met an average guy that gets the average women off apps regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:43 PM
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Let’s assume you swipe right on every single girl and it’s active accounts only. I’ve been I think on each tier except bottom by looksmaxing and just working on better pictures. Bottom 50% of guys next to none or 1-2 matches week. 50-80% of guys matches with average women 2-5%. 80-95% you’ll get cute and average women matching 5-8% match rate. Top 5% of guys match rate 10-20%, attractive women will go out and hookup. Top 1% of guys, match rate above 50%, hookups are easy with very attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:43 PM
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Every girl I’ve known that had a successful onlyfans, travel ho, sugar baby we’re literally hot af. I’ve never even met a 7/10 girl that could consistently succeed in that world, some said they tried. You need to be able to attract rich older men with sugar baby, if they got money they are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:20 PM
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Ha I could see that. I would imagine offering enough money will overcome that for most of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:05 PM
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Most everyone in my city moved to Hinge seems like, you get the basic subscription and you can unlimited swipe. I used Tinder and Bumble too, I reached the end of those in a few weeks, so ratio prob not good. Those apps were good when I used them 7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:52 PM
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Guys want to attract women, you do that by being attractive to women. The only way you’re going to be able to attract her via personality is you have repeated exposure to her through work or social circles. Men want to attract the attractive women they see in real life and online. They just want pretty girls to want them back. You bend the rules through female perspective, guys want what half of women get, instant desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:37 PM
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Wtf you intentionally stripped off the second part, women definitely care about your personality, but only when you’ve passed her superficial attraction requirements first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:19 PM
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Hinge is 60/40 gender ratio. I was on it previous year everyday for 9 months and never reached the end of it. I also matched with couple thousand women and went on around 40 dates, beautiful women too. This narrative that women barely use dating apps is completely false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:17 PM
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Guys get attractive women easily with face, body, lifestyle, and an above average d. That’s the end of the story. If she has a bad personality, but she’s hot guys still get with her and just move onto the next. Many guys just really really want the affection from beautiful women, but they set the bar superficially high to start with because they can. No hot chick cares about your personality, they will if you satisfy her high attraction requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:12 PM
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Once again nothing to do with what I’m saying, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:20 PM
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There is a lot of women out there that can never admit to any wrongdoing ever. It gets really difficult when they start doing bad things, because they won’t even believe it’s bad somehow. They also have ridiculous double standards, they think whenever they do something it’s fine, when you do that same thing it’s the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:58 PM
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She cheated too and didn’t want me anymore. It could be 60% my fault. You’re missing the whole point intentionally, by a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:44 PM
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Yea of course it ended. However at no point in years would she admit to any wrongdoing, it’s just your fault. So you can’t resolve anything. Of course I know not every woman is like that, but my goodness it seems like at least half don’t understand double standards, or can see through other peoples perspectives. Guys get broken up with I’ve never heard them say it was 100% her fault, only girl math can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:54 PM
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Women will put you in a dead bedroom suddenly after being together for 10 years, act totally disinterested in sex. You take her on a romantic weekend trip, be sweet to her and let her know she’s loved. Then she kinda thinks you’re pathetic for having to try so hard and pulls away when you kiss her. Things like this go on for a year, you realize she’s texting guys on Snapchat and prob cheating. You ask she says no I would never I love you, her friends say she did. So you say f this and find a sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:12 PM
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What are you supposed to date a woman for? If she’s got a job and beautiful that’s my requirements and I go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:40 PM
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So men want college educated women that want to quit their jobs that are their looksmatch, while he makes $500k/yr and she even refuses to be a tradwife? Because this what OP is claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:07 PM
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Did you read this post? What did this guy who makes 500k/yr get in return. His looksmatch sahm. Yikes, if she’s going to do nothing with her life at least she can be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:01 PM
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Most people don’t want to be with someone from another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:59 PM
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I’d have to see the couple, if he looks like a guy that’s never had 10 casual hookups with attractive women before, then having a looksmatch high value woman who has a great career is awesome. Who gives a flying duck about education? Also there’s some guys that have no care for thots and don’t chase women, and they just settle on who comes along, which is fine too. Guys that are pretty attractive and tall and got money date total baby dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 04:15 AM
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These scenarios become impossible until you can see what both of you look like when you met, and how much he was making at the time. All of this you say could be very relevant if I could see what you looked like when you met and what age. You were probably more attractive and he thought you were cute and loves you to this day, which is great. 36 year old successful fit men that are fairly handsome are dating sexy women with a job. They don’t care about these things, these are youthful ideals tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:36 AM
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There’s a fine line to this that I think I could solve if I could see you and your husband when you met and what his income was at that time. If you’re 4/10 guy and you get 6/10 woman and she’s educated and has a good career, then you killed it as a guy. Or if you just got wealthy later and you’re a good looking guy, you missed out and you’re secretly upset about not going after gorgeous women. If you’re a 7/10 rich guy and you married a 7/10 woman that simply was educated then you didn’t win, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:28 AM
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If this is some high society East Coast thing I’m not aware of where you need to marry in social stratas like Cruel Intentions movie then I guess. I can confirm in Florida and West Coast the men mainly want gorgeous women, they’re not verifying what college she went to. They could have any type of career and come from anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:20 AM
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Not the youngest. Hot, respectable, and classy yes. Most guys don’t want to marry their looksmatch, this is crazy talk. Many times they do, but that wasn’t the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:48 AM
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As long as the woman isn’t a loser trying to be fully supported and she has a job, all the men I associate with never talked about her educational background being of importance. They wanted to show off how beautiful she is primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:46 AM
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No way I’ve always got girls easily. What are you suggesting men actually desire, a woman that’s their looksmatch that makes a similar amount of money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:37 AM
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I wish I could show you all the men I know that make $250k+ and who they are currently with and who they married. They married and are dating gorgeous women, more attractive than them no question. I don’t know what planet you are from that you think guys in general aren’t very looks focused. I am the same way, I date the most attractive women I can get with a job. Men don’t hope to marry a looksmatch, same income, with compatibility. Men dream about a beautiful woman they can’t resist who loves …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:15 AM
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Men making $500k/yr is 0.2% of American men. If you add up any other quality you’re talking a 1 in 1000 guy at least. Looks matter a lot to women but so does status, if the women are attractive they won’t date ugly or fat guys, but they will date down in looks. If you make great money, you’re going to be batting out of your league with women easily. If you’re a 7/10 guy with money and single, it’s going to be only total hotties 9+/10 for him now, that’s what men want is access to the most beauti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:27 AM
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Dating women want the most desirable guy they can get to take her out. This will almost always conclude that he has lots of options or he views her as not in his league for a relationship. Only when this keeps repeatedly failing, do women stop to consider what types of men would be more into having a relationship with me. This is called af/bb and yes women can easily spot the difference between a guy in with girls casually or not as much. Guys don’t have this problem, there’s no reason to not al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:04 PM
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Redpill just means to me you critique women and observe behaviors. There’s no guidelines. Women are darn near the same things with a bit different hormone chemistry. They are smaller and bear children so they desire security a bit more. Too much goes into the differences you have to make it extreme to sound interesting, both are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:04 PM
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The idea of a girl being suggested me and says, “eww” based on the way I look physically is one of my biggest fears, if I heard it I would die inside. Girls call guys creeps for all sorts of reasons, sometimes it’s because she used to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:07 AM
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The approachable concept is interesting that’s still lumped in with attractiveness. Most big players I’ve known are cocky dicks that look kinda intimidating, but they also are good socially. It’s all a balance of good appealing things that can swing in directions. If you’re a cute guy just go somewhere where it’s socially acceptable to be alone like a restaurant bar, or a simple bar, and women will like that your friends aren’t around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:40 PM
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You’re in the top 10% of looks. Girls have to do somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:13 PM
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So be good looking and be a baseline human being capable of conversation and you don’t need social proof, got it. I attract women because I’m tall and handsome, I’m not that outgoing, I don’t need another girl or other cool guys around to get women to want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:28 PM
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I agree, I don’t think women stay with a man because he’s a great lay, guys think their woman is and will tell him he is to gas him up. A girl staying with you simply because you make her come is stupid to me, it helps some.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:23 PM
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Red pill talk is designed to help and be relatable to experiences. It also opens up the idea that women act selfishly like other people and aren’t that much different from men. Blue pill and women in these comments will grab the 1% worst things they’ve heard and tell you how stupid you are, prob call you an incel. You don’t question or believe every woman is not a unique butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:21 PM
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There has to be something great about being with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:17 PM
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He’d have to be extremely good looking and giving her a baby to hold onto a girl as a guy barely making any money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:48 PM
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You just explained how a cute guy without social proof and is shy bad at conversation still gets girls. If I’m standing by myself girls will take more opportunities with me. If I was ugly they’d think I was weird and alone. Beauty halo and how people are drawn to looks is a pretty big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:53 PM
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You really don’t if you’re cute and alone you’re independent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:35 AM
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If you’re average looking guy you need social proof, if you’re good looking guy you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:24 AM
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I’ll go b, it’s just too much. Those are high priced hobbies and I would prob assume she had a man before paying for it. You want to show your girlfriend the world not she already seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:10 PM
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Red pill is saying it’s not sustainable, based on historical observations of an increasingly imbalanced society. As society splits more between the haves and have nots with the destruction of middle class. Women chasing the men with the haves of attractiveness or financially comfortable. Add to that women have full rights and don’t need men. Now you have too many women seeing men as either entertainment or lifestyle enhancers. Now we gave women the internet and smartphones. Women that are fit an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:42 PM
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What women are going to filter on is your frame, that’s what they do mostly now. Women like muscle tone sure, they want tall wide frame more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:45 PM
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Most of Instagram is cringe, even most the stuff my friends post. When I post it’s half the time cringe. You can’t barely open up insta without wincing from cringe. It’s embarrassing narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:53 PM
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It would for a lot of physical traits more, just athletic and lean isn’t universal enough. If you’re athletic lean and make a lot of money or famous for it, now women’s hypergamy goes into overdrive because now it’s directly tied to status. Imagine a world where every guy gets a mansion. Now women’s hypergamy will say I want the guy with mansions on the beach or view, best location, and newest and nicest. For financial and lifestyle scenarios, women’s hypergamy knows no bounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:16 AM
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You’re just cancelling out and assuming that better and better physiques would just separate out on a finer level. Whereas what you’re saying is more like okay now all eye color are green, now women want the better greens, which doesn’t make sense. There’s no perfect muscular tone for all women. Some women into muscles some not, but just don’t be fat that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:58 AM
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I think this works more with height and other physical and financial arguments. Not with being fat. More guys would be seen as dateable if everyone stopped being overweight. Consider how many more women you would date if no woman was fat. The same goes for women, most just flat out refuse to date a fat guy, or a guy with a gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:47 AM
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Most guys absolutely suck at marketing themselves to women. Every time a girl who is a friend is going through an app I say let me see and go through mens profiles. Then I just shake my head at 90% of men’s profiles. Here’s apparently what men think women want. I’m holding a dog/fish, I’m in a suit at a wedding, I’m trying to be irreverent photo, drink with bros, here’s a selfie in front of a mirror. No wonder guys think only Chads get easy lays, because with the profiles they submit that would …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:39 AM
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Explain that more?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:29 AM
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I don’t judge women who make money from simps because it’s an incredibly envious life to have. Women and men can judge and call her a prostitute or whore with mental issues. She isn’t even my gf anymore, she doesn’t seem like a bad person. The reality is at least 90% of women would happily have simps for $30k/mo. I would venture some might kill for it under the right circumstances. If they can’t do it they judge, it’s jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:10 PM
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Lot of jobs people do are for companies that are nearly straight up evil and because they aren’t in control they abstract themselves from the responsibility of how they affect people like cowards. When you’re in business for yourself or own your own business you have to face the moral issues of a market directly. I’m not sure having simps is morally wrong, I’m not sure nudity is morally wrong, you go to many beaches in europe there’s a bunch of naked people and there’s not a fuss. If you send a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:49 PM
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I’m not sure any of it is wrong, just happens a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:38 PM
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Haha, thats an excellent comparison. One time a guy called dating apps, a male brothel for women, and that stuck with me. Whenever I hear men complain about dating apps, I wish they understood that metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:24 AM
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I don’t think people read, top 30% of women get lots of attention online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:45 AM
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Diamond Dave is iconic and could rock a stadium with one of the greatest bands. This girl has a legion of simps acting kinda babyish and anime mindless lip syncing, I mean good for her I guess. She’s not the only one. The point is it trickles down to the everyday girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:44 AM
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Women in general just get a lot more attention on social media. I don’t think women are necessarily bad for seeking attention online or benefiting from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:41 AM
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Twitch is kinda, online gaming is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:38 AM
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There’s something about guys trying to be sexy online and really needing either an amazing body, incredible face, or an outline of a giant dong to get a positive reaction. I think what you’re talking about is why the bar is so much lower for women to be allowed to be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:12 AM
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I’m actually really happy I get 20 to 70 likes on my posts. If I was trying to get a bunch of likes and comments from a bunch of random people I would find that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:52 AM
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People usually only have 3 or so real friends and a bunch of acquaintances, and even way more random people on social media. What do you have 50 amazing friends cheering you on for your shirtless selfie and blue steel face? That’s amazing bro, I guess you’re just way better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:42 AM
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It’s quite the paradox that according to women there is this majority of subpar men. Yet somehow some way, nearly every man will end up with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:40 AM
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It’s not that weird because modern society is near brand new and is rapidly changing yet we keep wanting the same things. It’s going to take at least another million years of modern evolution for women to stop liking tall muscular intelligent men in general. People want to live good lives and breed with superior strong and intelligent genetics. It’s probably never going away. The times and rules change, for example if polygamy is the best way to achieve what you want for your life and kids you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:35 AM
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If you keep a focus on hitting on women but not trying too hard or repeatedly you can strike the right balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:27 AM
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I’ll split the difference and go top 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:24 AM
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I’m not pissed off that women get attention online. The only thing that makes me slightly irked as simps that keep giving them validation. Still to that, whatever these simps will not get the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:23 AM
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It seems like a continuation of high school popularity and social hierarchy for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:12 AM
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I think young men become impressionable to the idea of how easy it might be to obtain status, or alter their perception on realistic beauty standards. Not even close to near the level that women addicted to social media take it to. I never met a man having a real hard time with social media making him actually depressed, he’s depressed because his life sucks. Women get depressed because they perceive other lives are so much better and can’t be happy because someone else is doing or has what they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:00 AM
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That women posting online can’t win, there’s no perfect guy that makes all your friends jealous and worships you, no perfect cute kids, half your friends aren’t that cool and are flakes. You go on a trip if it’s not a girls trip and you don’t post a man you’re a ho. You post at gym you’re an annoying thot. Then you also get a bunch of compliments and attention, hits a dopamine so you keep going with it and envying others who have more. You start to feel like a fraud. This is women who get addict…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:55 AM
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It becomes a hater thing too, if you post a sexy photo of yourself unless you’re the most obvious hot chad, your bros will just make fun of you. Because they don’t have the balls to do it themselves. I’ve posted things that got a bunch of bros laughing in the comments, I thought it was good and women are liking that picture on Hinge. Guys get shamed for trying to be models unless they really look like one, average women are praised for it. That’s just the way it work, but if you think a photo lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:46 AM
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Women get to experience more of what they want, but can’t make things stick. Which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:42 AM
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You’d have to define smart, it can end up almost like chasing fame and highly intelligent people get wrapped up in it all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:38 AM
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If you can get 20 likes on a post as a guy you’re practically killing it. If 10 people like your story it was actually really rad. You just have to factor in women are going to get 20x more likes and comments for doing worse than you do at the same thing or in the same scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:37 AM
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They still feel that superiority over most men, which is what adds to their madness. Pretty girls on Instagram taste the benefits of the best things only to have it near instantly ripped from them. I’m getting cool hot friends, no they just need you as a spot for this event that’s guy sponsored they don’t care about you. Get involved in sex work via DMs, gets degrading and sometimes humiliating. Handsome rich guy takes you out in his rolls royce, a nice date then one week later turns into asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:33 AM
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You can definitely try to be sexy as a guy and if it hits the mark fairly well you’ll prob never be without female company again. I’ve worked off and on with it for nearly a decade I got 2 pictures that really work on dating apps and insta. The bar is so high though compared to women and I don’t think most women actually recognize this. There’s videos that seem to be tailor made for simps obsessed with women acting brainless and having neoteny physical and facial qualities. That one hits the nai…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:47 PM
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The pill you can’t speak of and red says the simp is the enemy of man and I agree. You can simp for your girlfriend/wife sometimes, she puts up with you everyday. Anything else is a degradation of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:21 PM
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The self objectify, creating envy, and wrong attention is what makes Instagram such a pitfall to women. For women overcoming the cringe of insta feels impossible, if you’re on a euro trip some guy paid for it and it’s a ho trip. Simple sexual objectification of yourself is too easy and attracts the wrong type and you end up having more haters. Instagram has a hurdle for men to overcome the cringe of posting. Once you do, you will attract women and men want to be your friend. I see my Instagram a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:17 PM
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I appreciate this opposite argument. I think this is also true and social media is a reflection on women to themselves on what they are valued for, it’s a double edged sword. Women still do it, I followed a woman in her late 40s that had large naturals and posted them every single day like clockwork. Nothing in the background, nothing about her personality, or what she does, she effectively reduced herself to a heavily filtered face and boobs online. That’s all she thought she was worth apparent…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:43 PM
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No I agree, but if you follow a bunch of dudes you like and barely any women and only like dude posts and guys trying to be sexy to support your bros like women do, then women prob think you got gay tendencies. It’s dumb fk women and what they think, he’s a pussy for saying that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:38 PM
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I don’t do either and unless a girl wants to fuck me or share mutual respect, she’s dead to me. We got to stop giving women unwarranted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:10 PM
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Women do 30x more than men online just for being pretty. Sexy baker still has to bake and not just stand there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:58 PM
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Guys have to understand your attitude though, there’s a positive message in there. It doesn’t mean you can’t admire a pretty girl, it doesn’t mean you can’t hit on women. However, the moment she doesn’t reciprocate some actual respect or interest back to you, forget about her. Women largely are able to do this, men can’t stop daydreaming about having a girl that doesn’t even think about him. Stop it with the public simping and oneitis, women see those men as a loser, and it’s only pumping them u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:51 PM
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Yes once I get on t and more then become a chiseled masterpiece Greek god body with a very handsome face and lantern jaw I’ll do the sexy baker thing I checked it out thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:39 PM
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If you’re a rare enough genetic beauty you will be richly rewarded anyway you see fit, same for guys and girls. The attention a cute woman can get online for sexualizing themselves or pretending like they are a local popular socialite, ends up being a never ending pit of despair of never being good enough. Might get you in some short term relationships at best or some random friends that share in your own narcissism. For most guys who get attention, they earned it and they are respected for it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:35 PM
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What in the world, no mostly Instagram posting by women are just women. Mostly no pimps, no onlyfans, no escorts. I mean maybe 5% is, sure. Mostly just regular people showing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:27 PM
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The biggest supporters of escorts I know are men that get women all the time. It only really going to matter if she thinks you’re a loser or if you keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:26 PM
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Show me on Instagram where this is. Maybe on reddit in some small areas or a Facebook group, couple random forums online. What I’m discussing is 100x bigger than your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:24 PM
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Well okay the super juiced ones. A lot of women still like cbum though. I’ve never met a woman that didn’t appreciate big arms and broad strong shoulders, unless she was insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:22 PM
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I know you got me I’m so mad at women, all this attention grrr just boils me up inside. Actually I’m not, I think it’s warping their mind on what’s real and in the end makes many of them miserable. It makes me hope my own daughter doesn’t go online trying to join the sexualization of women arms race and participates in something of value that’s not about that. You got no argument probably because you can’t make one, so you resort to low iq trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:18 PM
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I see way more women addicted to many different aspects of social media than men. I’ve known 3 guys addicted to dating apps and dozens of women who are. It comes down to how much attention and potential benefit they can receive. If you’re a pretty female, it’s a whole lot compared to nearly any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:17 PM
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If her looksmatch as a guy posted anything like that video it would be considered cringey as hell and mocked. This girl because she’s young and cute is reveling in money and attention for it. Women see that, they emulate on some level, mostly just for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:13 PM
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Can’t have any observation about women online and have it not be that I’m a jealous miserable incel. Thank you without fail every single time. Yes I’m sooo miserable the video makes me cry and be sad about being a man, you got me good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:11 PM
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This is more about how much women get more attention as a whole, not just female influencers, but that concept resonates in women’s minds too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:06 PM
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Women fake support each other all the time like you’re explaining. No one can lose an argument online, she only receives complete and full support from women, yea right give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:04 PM
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I’m barely on instagram, I created a profile and posted my vacations to pull chicks and it worked. Anything else is a ball of capitalism want and narcissism to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:00 PM
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You can be a guy and sexualize yourself if you’re very attractive, it works. You’ll attract prob more gay guys, but still you can get women simping too, the bar is significantly higher for men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:59 PM
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Once again, most all women who post on instagram do not have an onlyfans and are not a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:57 PM
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Most all the women who do this don’t have an onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:54 PM
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Sophie just the most extreme example, it trickles down to a large percentage of especially young women sexualizing themselves online for attention. Sophie is supposedly a good Christian girl according to a daily mail article I read. Women are right about some men, out of the women on onlyfans that are famous for being on onlyfans, it’s largely a bunch of very young looking women raking in the cash. Sophie looks like she’s 15 to me. Bella Delphine is very baby looking acting all infantile it’s gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:51 PM
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I have a friend and I asked him, “why do not like my posts or any other guy friend you know.” For 10 years I don’t think you’ve liked one guy posts but then like girls on the daily. He replied, “if I like a bunch of men’s posts and they see women might think I’m kinda gay.” You know, as fkn stupid as that sounds and how pathetic simp he is for doing that, there’s truth to what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:44 PM
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It’s cheaper to have one woman attach herself to your life than to be single and entertain yourself. It’s marriage that’s expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:41 PM
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Every social media platform is dominated by women with attention. Except Reddit, which even half the women on here just assume we’re mostly incel losers along with most the world. The shit women are posting on Instagram is by all measures mostly embarrassing to look at. It’s a bunch of girls acting politically important, insanely virtuous, or just overtly sexualizing themselves. They curate everything so almost nothing is natural, and facetune themselves that makes them more into the uncanny val…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:36 PM
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No I was happy for her in a way, but at the same time I was baffled by the men’s behavior and seemed disappointed about how many men just give money to women that actually despise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:20 PM
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The simple observation that women see other women with more likes and she has more likes than most men shows the importance of herself. Where it transfers into why social media makes women miserable is everything you explain. I talk to young people all the time that have convinced themselves that glamorous lives are normal and they will be a failure if they don’t get it too. So women are trying via sexual attention and men are thinking about being in a grind to achieve, whereas it takes interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:18 PM
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If a woman isn’t going to care, barely respond, or doesn’t think about you in any romantic sense and she’s not directly in social circles. Stop the simp, it’s making women feel superior to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:00 PM
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No they get chicks doing it too, gym chicks are into gym guys with handsome faces. Women admire and are turned on by pecs and a six pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:58 PM
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Women are all about supporting other women online as well. Guys don’t do that with other guys unless it’s a fitness influencer and he’s into working out. Women follow friends and random beautiful women and like and comment on their posts significantly more than random guys. If I didn’t know any better I would just assume most women were lesbian based on who they randomly follow. I’ve asked women about this and they say they just prefer to look at random women more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:39 PM
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YOU CAN GO TO GYM AND JUICE YOURSELF WITH TREN AND FLEX AND ITS THE EQUIVALENT OF A BUTT SELFIE. I know guys that do that and they get similar attention, but that also requires diet, hormones, and work, not just having a butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:31 PM
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Incredible debate skills you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:30 PM
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For a very small percentage of women with an instagram account it’s about making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:29 PM
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The only reason I have an Instagram in the first place is 2 friends of mine were constantly pulling girls with it and always sharing it with girls when we were out, and always had girls that wanted them as a result. So I did it too and created a profile, for the purpose of getting girls and it works great. Aside from picking up girls aspect of having a profile, I pretty much hate Instagram and largely despise being on it. It warps peoples reality of what’s normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:26 PM
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If you’re a woman at the point just making money posting a selfie that’s going to explode your ego. For most women online, it’s a bunch of hits of dopamine and feelings of importance and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:23 PM
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It makes women miserable, they are constantly comparing themselves to others. Comparison is the thief of joy, and they can become never happy with their own situation because they perceive other people have it so much better, when most of it isn’t even real. You want to get women on Instagram? Show you have a cool social life or go on trips a few times a year. Instagram girls want to be with guys that can help them manufacture envy. I’ve gotten so many dates just because I’ve taken 10 exotic tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:19 PM
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I don’t like insta reels or tiktok I just look at friends stories and close the app and argue with people on Reddit instead. Women have been getting a superiority complex over men when they use social media, it’s an actual phenomenon that gets debated on this sub, and social media teaches them to justify their narcissistic behavior and thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:16 PM
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Even average women online at least got a handful of simps, it’s not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:14 PM
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I’m on Instagram 5 minutes a day looking at my friends stories, then 5 minutes looking at my messages. I don’t use TikTok, and I don’t use Facebook. I write dumb observation posts on Reddit instead of doomscrolling, I think I’m somewhat different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:12 PM
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If I could write a post just about my following and how women in my social circles get 20x the attention of the men I would. You keep talking about influencers to make an argument. Yes famous men exist online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:06 PM
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Young women especially are having their mind warped on the importance of women doing anything online in comparison to men. They start to feel superiority on social media, they actively support other women and ignore nearly all men. Women are heaped praise on women and men for just posting butt selfies for attention. Men can do this too, but far far fewer men get barely any attention whatsoever in comparison to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:03 PM
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I don’t follow one girl that doesn’t follow me back and only interact with women that share mutual respect. If I hit on a woman online and there’s no response, it never happens again and I’m not going to pay any more attention to her. I also don’t barely watch those videos and actively avoid them. Insta still keeps pushing because that’s what gets the views. Female narcissism is going crazy online, it’s not just influencers. The fact this sub wants to act like women are more demanding now and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:56 PM
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Debunking one example and pretending like many other examples don’t exist of women receiving constant validation online is not an argument. We’re not just discussing online famous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:54 PM
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Yes the visual aspect and how millions of girls can simply post online, “I’m sad” with a frown and receive a ton of messages of support overinflates their self importance and superiority over men. She can get lots of attention, the world centers around her. This does affect the mentality of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:51 PM
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More than half the women who post online get lots of intention you don’t need to be anything close to an instamodel. Woman post heavily altered facetuned photos and get tons of likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:47 PM
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You can justify it all you want, social media is actually affecting how women view most men more than ever. All these complaints about how women are changing and dating is harder last 10 years, is largely rooted in the constant online worship of women translating into real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:44 PM
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Happens everywhere with most guys participating in continuous hitting on women that are never going to be interested. You see this with the fairly pretty girl at work constantly being hit up. Social media expanded the concept greatly into a daily activity of women posing for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:41 PM
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Well not every girl is going to make 42 million, but it trickles down to most young women being able to garner this attention to some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:38 PM
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That’s a guy that’s popular online that is making fun of how simple it is for women to get attention. The comments are jokingly gloating how amazing he is for his dumb dance. He’s delivering a social commentary on simping. He also prob has a lot of gay fans as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:34 PM
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The bar for men posting to simply be admired is astronomically high and usually involves a crazy physique as well. The bar for women online is look decent and don’t be too fat. If you are too fat, then you’re being empowering and that’s great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:29 PM
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Women are largely supportive and simpy men give her the constant validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:27 PM
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That’s a comedic bit that’s actually funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:23 PM
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Women use social media and are shown they can be revered for not doing much more than existing with a phone camera. It’s affecting the mentality of women of feelings of superiority and how they treat and perceive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:22 PM
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He’s dominant, he can act like that because he exists higher in the social hierarchy, that’s the reason. Steve Jobs was an asshole boss to everyone, he got tons of respect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:19 PM
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You see this so much with the asshole getting the pretty girl to call them all “selfish bitches” is grossly oversimplifying what’s going.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:10 PM
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Asshole guys aren’t assholes all the time. Plus, he could be an asshole to most other people and treat her really sweet behind the scenes so she feels special. There’s also an element of dominance with women, he needs to be able to put her in her place sometimes to feel turned on by him. This is a concept that gets lost on nice guys and simping for women, you lose their respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:48 PM
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A lot of people in general are only nice to other people they think they can use and benefit from. The way in which men are simps to any cute woman in the office gets to be a problem for her, because she wants to use the ones she can benefit from. Then she has to be totally indifferent to others or she will just constantly be bothered. When this happens to men they say, “I was just trying to be nice,” no you just want to have sex with her and she knows it, she has no benefit to having any relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:51 PM
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There’s this great blend of bipolar, borderline, and narcissism that gets confusing. If you’re not following them around I think they can get easily misdiagnosed. Also, fixing these things might be impossible for many from what I’ve seen. I’ve dated a diagnosed bipolar and undiagnosed what I thought bpd. It gets hard trying to explain the difference even to myself. The way in which bpd can experience intense joy or intense sadness based on the situation they are currently in is actually terrifyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:02 PM
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Entering the positive feedback loop with women with consistency that leads to casual romantic affection is another world to some men. They just think you have to get lucky or get jealous and call the women you’re getting with sluts in hookup culture so they don’t have to face it personally. Effectively you’re right, but I also believe half the guys don’t have the chops to actively successfully pursue casual affection nor do they have the real interest to do so. I wanted to be the guy that met a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:43 PM
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There’s a strategy and method to what you are doing. I’m tall women call me handsome and I have a sweet life, I express that to women and they some want to sleep with me. I’m not just going up to any woman I fancy and talking, there’s a strategy that gets that woman I want point A to in my bed point B to a relationship point C. However, my strategy is probably not going to work for most other men. Like your strategy is unique to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:19 PM
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Telling 5’5” chubby guys average women are reasonable is something that you personally figured out how to navigate. Your experience and what you did, may net nothing to another person like you. Plus, you’re not really explaining how, just mainly saying, go talk to her bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:57 PM
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You can try to talk to women you fancy that give you some choosing signals first. This concept that you can just start hitting on women at random and net results without being physically attractive is pretty crazy. Some guys can, most others rely on proximity and asking if she has a friend. Players who can just work dating apps and the wild at will have obvious desirability, you generally got to put in the work for that and also have some god given attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:45 PM
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BPD people fight really unfair, and they will justify any action, even the train concept makes sense to them. It is terrifying they will intentionally ruin your life while they ruin their own. They can’t maintain friendships so you can feel stuck with them because you’re that persons last resort to live. I was broken up with a girl that I just could not stop her from trying to cheat and monkey branch. She would just break into my house and stay. My friends and her own family made fun of me so ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:43 PM
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It’s not necessarily hell, and you can be with someone and it happens and they were fine before. Borderline people have an intensity to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:10 AM
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Borderline people intentionally sabotage their own relationships, then think it’s everyone else’s fault. It’s also aligned and confused with depression and narcissism in the way they chase dopamine. They have delusions of grandeur of self importance as well, so it also gets confused with narcissism for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:31 AM
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Ha, I know guys that like big ones. Never heard of a girl that’s slim and attractive so that, unless it’s for security and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:37 PM
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2 felons is great, dang.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:28 AM
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Every man, woman, grandma is shallow. If you’re ever gone through a big glow up you can go from no chicks, barely any friends, girls turning around and walking away when you say hi, men ignoring you. Then you go through a glow up, get fit, and and get some cosmetics done. Then women are all interested in you, dates whenever, guys are coming up to you to talk, grandma is talking to you at the register, making sure you got all the coupons. You walk by people deliberately look at you and smile. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:21 AM
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It’s nothing like that, it’s that if you’re just glancing and reading. If before every single time when you say “women” it’s not “sometimes some women may do this under this scenario” then there’s an instant flurry of replies, “not me”, “not all women”. It’s just the instant knee jerk response when a man says something about women that’s not a glowing 5 star review and represents a critique based on circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 10:09 PM
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If you’re looking for choosing signals, open to lots of different types of girls, you got a sales pitch, got a social profile to share, or pictures for dating apps. It’s a lot of up front to figure out, probably going to take you years. Then you have to get used to rejection and women flaking. Not being nervous at all around women. Once you’ve got all that down, then it’s just integrated into your life. You’re just operating on instinct, having fun, and getting lots of girls with minimal effort …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:24 PM
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There’s genes, there’s lifestyle, there’s social status. Girls can come up with some crazy expectations for guys. I just go after pretty girls, there’s only so much quantity to be able to handle or want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:27 PM
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People talk like top 1% people are just normal. They don’t survey average people outside and just look at beautiful people on their phone. They’ve got a skewed expectation from people. Guys who can date around are going to do it until he finds a girl he can’t live without. The fun thing about getting to date is you might meet someone who really pushes your buttons and you like spending time with. Guys who get to date around are the ire of dating women. They want to have options but for guys just…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:39 PM
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These are cute guys with money. I think they just didn’t want to date average women. So they were alone. When an attractive girl did come around, they locked her into lifetime commitment. I get what you say though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:30 PM
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Sure, but they’re not the most desirable option to men with options, and they are also single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:45 AM
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There’s very few alphas, very few chads, and very few successful sigmas. These guys can all but snap their fingers and have women. They start choosing exact types of women they want if they have above average looks. There’s plenty of cute successful beta guys who won’t date average women. There’s also an abundance of attractive women in comparison to the alphas. Alphas pass around the beautiful fit women. They get tired of being passed around they step down the ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:44 AM
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They picky betas without high sexual drive, they got attractive high value women then locked her down immediately, I think mostly due to fear of being alone again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:36 AM
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No it means you serve the alphas. You’re 2nd in the hierarchy, trickle down babes. Then blue collar deltas, then the lowly omegas. Sigma is a lone wolf, he might be good or might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:30 AM
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You’re talking about deltas and unless they are extremely attractive they don’t get any sort of dream girl. Betas can be successful cute guys capable of getting beautiful women. There’s very few alphas, chads, and successful sigmas. All of them combined is a lot less than the total of beautiful women. Any top guy on the hierarchy all but hand picks his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:24 AM
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They don’t, they just along for the ride and seeing what can happen that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:53 PM
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I never said this romantic exile wasn’t partially self imposed. To me the smarter man who wants women, settles into a zone of women who want him to avoid exile. These guys aren’t ugly incompetent dorks by any stretch. They do not want women in that zone of who would date them, so when they get their type, they are going for the lockdown. The girl from my perspective just agrees to go along for the ride, there’s no great repercussions and only benefit for her to do so if she likes him alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:57 PM
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I’m not sure it’s bad, I’m not sure the relationship is good or bad. I’m not sure it’s more likely to end in divorce. The whole situation would scare me, but I haven’t put myself in romantic exile for years to understand the motivations behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:51 PM
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I’m not sure how it works with lonely women. Part of them are cute and just don’t seem to have interest in guys on any sort of random sense. Part of them are very unattractive and I can’t imagine that’s easy to navigate at all. I can’t speak from the perspective I don’t have enough knowledge in, there’s the argument that there is not true femcel as well. These guys largely put themselves in romantic exile. They may not be great at instant attraction across broad swaths of women, but they also ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:12 PM
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It gets really annoying with women in their 30s and with kids overtly treating you like Billy Beta. It’s unavoidable, I just switch to women in their 20s who want older men. You don’t have to deal with this constant pressure to agree to her rules, younger woman like hanging out and being a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:35 PM
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You need to write books, you have a gift. Most of the problems of men dating is an economic one. I’ve said this before as well, then you inevitably get the you’re just attracting gold diggers rebuttal. It’s more about online comparisons to other people and destruction of the middle class. You beat the system by having an online sales pitch that partially supplies it’s promise. You have to fit in with a form of female desire and this can be muscles/height/masculinity, vacations, attractive social…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:17 PM
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Above average guys can get too picky and get lonely. Then anything comes up that matches their requirements they hodl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:56 PM
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In a lawless society women in history most often choose polygamy. Casual dating world tends to be very polygamous. Men at the top passing along the women. In any society where polygamy is allowed it’s incredibly prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:44 PM
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Women have preselection tendencies to select men who have lots of selection and acquire them. It’s an evolutionary instinct that is survival of the species and her ticket to immortality via strong intelligent social adaptable genetics. If other women openly express interest in him, this heightens her desire. Because society and evolution are always at odds, she moves to a safer more easy pick with a man without current choice. Not every woman story ends up that way, there’s a part of her that st…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:35 PM
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Well things seem to work out for people like that, there is this grand tendency. If it didn’t people go extinct fairly quickly. They’re both forcing the action, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:31 PM
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I’m not sure, I was hoping you had some time theories to debate. You said he was never lonely, so it got me thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:27 PM
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If I have to date a 3 I’ll date a 3 and I’ll still be happy about it. I’m not sitting lonely, f that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:26 PM
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Male loneliness can result into an overreaction to rapid lifelong commitment. On the other side, women know they won’t be lonely because there’s too many lonely guys for that to happen. Heavy duty stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:25 PM
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That’s a lot to extrapolate for saying I’m not picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:23 PM
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I like to believe in total serendipity. That’s why I shun women at work and in social circles. I want the universe to bring together our souls in eternal harmony and she can only be discovered, not forced proximity match. So I agree with you, it’s fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:18 PM
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In the time parabola his future self with the woman was always there, he’s experiencing time in a line, but in reality it’s actually flat curve on itself. His prior and future self are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:05 PM
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I’m dating who I can, I don’t like being alone for too long. I’ll go crazy. Friends a couple times a week not enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:02 PM
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The guys were romantically lonely before that, years. Do you understand how time works? Perhaps to you time is a parabola and not a line, so technically he was never alone, he always had her inside the time parabola. Lot of people think time is flat or rounded and not a line, so we should cover that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:57 PM
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General observation, take whatever meaning or wrongness about it you want. Male loneliness gets talked a lot about on this sub, where ya been?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:53 PM
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Yes eventually they find the guy “that worked on himself” and keeps him around for the good mule he is. She just can’t play those games anymore, life gets to be a time crunch, you switch gears and play a different game not directly rooted in social status, erratic passion, and lust. The cool dudes she wanted will eventually settle, just not with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:51 PM
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What the lonely guy doesn’t know or is unable to execute, is toxic guys are lot more fun to most women. They love his indifference, they love that he chose her among his many options, he doesn’t need her he wants her, he’s more interesting and difficult. Women chase these guys, they can have a lonely simp whenever she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:44 PM
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She gets caught up in all the instant commitment kerfuffle too. She prob hoping it works out knowing she wish she had a guy that was more difficult, but she played chess and lost. Now she’s moving to chutes and ladders guy that easily lets her win.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:40 PM
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Just make her be your girlfriend first for at least 3 years, don’t jump to any lifelong commitments, make her go on your terms. The moment she knows this if she doesn’t like the real you, she’ll bail. If she likes you, she stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:37 PM
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Doesn’t have to be, it’s just a post. You could just accept some women do that, and move on with your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:36 PM
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There’s more above average looking women than there is cool dudes for them to flex to their friends on. Chips have to fall somewhere eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:33 PM
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Hot women with jobs are just the rare card. We only think they are more difficult than above average women, because you don’t see them very often. Hot independent women do what feels good without societal judgment or constraint. Not any harder to get a 6 or a 9. One is just more rare and bit harder to get the hot girls attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:26 PM
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Most betas date and aren’t lonely. They meet the girl of their dreams and get engaged 4 years later. Kinda afbb though for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:17 PM
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Nah it’s all cuckfiction, I have no frame of reference, chronically online take, I’m actually just ai partnered with Reddit. Beeboop.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:15 PM
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Dead bedrooms go through different paths. This is more short term, extended love bombing done by the woman to acquire the commitment and/or kids. If that’s the case, at best he’s going to be treated badly and cheated, then likely divorce. If a woman knows she can have much more attractive men as boyfriends, she intrinsically won’t respect her husband. Before him, he was sad and lonely and instantly threw everything at her, minimal effort simp to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:11 PM
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An attractive, good career, social circles woman that’s 36 years old is the hardest to get. You can’t woo her, you can’t bait her, she’s already had hot guys and guys with money. She still gets to hand pick her dates, she has no need for men. Now this is a very archetype person, most women need men or they very much improve their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:08 PM
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Just go to a cheaper place and pay for the date, share a pizza or get some Thai. What every date has to be marriage material that you have to establish 50/50? I’m trying to get some easy affection, don’t want any rift, I got 30 dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:03 PM
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You can be a beta and not be in romantic exile. Betas who get themselves so lonely do it themselves by not accepting their looksmatch. They’re not incel omegas with no choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:23 PM
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Many of these women come to the lonely man already toting a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:20 PM
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I created an Instagram to pull chicks alone because my other friends were pulling lots of chicks with their profile, and after awhile it worked. Can’t fkn stand Instagram, just a ball of want and fake BS. Girls get obsessed with it, all this envy and attention, it’s mind corrupting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:17 PM
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You’re never going to be satisfied with what I have to say, yes some went to the courthouse. No they weren’t mail order brides. It takes 9 months for a baby to pop out, they didn’t have a baby or a girlfriend before, then they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:10 PM
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Date what’s available is my advice, it’ll keep your sanity and wits to women trying to exploit your weaknesses, and loneliness is one of the easiest ones. You don’t want to be completely dehydrated in the Sahara when that one woman comes along with water.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:08 PM
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Couple months to marriage to a year, some making babies quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:05 PM
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My life’s pretty fun, thanks for inquiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:02 PM
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At some point a woman has to be abandon her curated fake life on Instagram. Then navigate what’s practical in the real world. Women latch onto the men that can build this online curation or other beautifully facetuned people to stand with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:58 PM
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There’s no studies to track how lonely the men before they got married quickly, and that she wasn’t lonely. Which do you think is more common? I’m sure someone is about to comment for the stats on this that don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:54 PM
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So you hate romantically lonely men? Some women do, if they think you don’t pull, they don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:52 PM
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Women can want a guy that’s lonely. In the moment I think these women found it highly preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:50 PM
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Okay you got me, 4 friends, 1 family member, 2 guys I work with. All fairly recently, guys in 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:48 PM
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They can see the men that date and why, and why another guy can’t. They hear all the cries of loneliness online and in real life. They see lonely guys at work and everywhere. It’s those lonely men that give the single women comfort to know they never will have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:44 PM
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Some women specifically target lonely men at some point in their dating lives. AF/BB is a dual mating strategy where they end up with a guy that’s less dominant on the hierarchy, not necessarily lonely as hell. No one forced you to be here on this one single post among your infinite options on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:40 PM
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It’s a spin on why it works so well for women and extends beyond it. Women want to date guys for all types of reasons not just “he’s Alpha, he’s Chad,” but those other reasons still draw other women’s interest. Women aren’t thinking, “he’s beta,” they just know he’s lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:35 PM
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My advice is to wait 3 years on this. If she’s still all over after 3 years and you didn’t just fully take care of her, it wasn’t an act. They get incredibly anxious to just do what they have to do to keep her. If you marry a girl too quickly and simp too hard, get ready to get walked on by her, you lost her respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:31 PM
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You could look at it all’s well that ends well, but it’s not, the guy is placed in a desperate scenario because the loneliness is silently destroying him. He’s in a constant cope that having no women is okay. He could be initiating the commitment, so he doesn’t lose her, and she goes along with it. Part of the problem with these guys is they refused to settle with their looksmatch, so this is what they have to do when the opportunity comes around is just give her what she wants quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:22 PM
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5’9” is my favorite height and I like 6 footers, but I haven’t thought about height a lot, you’ve experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:54 AM
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I don’t get it as a guy, but fine. I’m 6’1” I feel like I’d have to be cooler and much better shape if I was 5’8”. Why that is a preference is largely instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:25 AM
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Everyone is different, height is the most nearly universal attractive quality though. Plenty of girls said they don’t like all muscles, non girl ever said she won’t date a guy bc he’s 6’2”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:14 AM
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You’re talking about women who advantageously can date outside, and who want to date around with higher value men, or type of guy, and not disturb social circles. These women are usually above average, quite common I agree. Many other women a social circle guy is their best option. They can’t date the men they want effectively or just don’t have the interest in exploring outside much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:08 AM
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Guys hate simps, white knights, and the giving of unnecessary validation to women that don’t give a care in the world for them. Be engaging but act indifferent about your need for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:04 AM
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That’s glass half empty. If she really likes you, what girl wouldn’t think it’s fun times to snort coke from her asshole, we’d prob just be laughing doing it. If it’s some weird depraved situation then that’s different. Glass half full with young women and older men, is it’s similar to young men who want a milf, just more prevalent. Some girls want to experience an older guy or just love bombing you because they want a boyfriend. The other part is, I’m not sure a lot of hookups the woman is expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:37 PM
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Women are highly attracted to manwhores, it’s biological. Women only got one egg and have to bear the child, so they choose the best option that have the most opportunity, for the continuation of future smart attractive offspring. Monogamy was not the norm through most human species, polygamy with many women attaching themselves to one man with lots of resources and/or beauty was. Women instinctively want to breed with the most genetically superior men, that’s their ticket to immortality. A celi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:01 PM
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The type of guys that would fashion himself as a HVM. So those types project about life aspiration, so they prob just talk about having a family more, and are more consistently on board about having kids. So they just more likely to have kids as a result. However, most people at some point in their life are interested in having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:39 AM
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Men primarily write comments nonchalant just for fun, it’s not that dramatic. I think pill guys want to just let people know these women are nearly like men. They experience very similar things and act on selfish impulses like men do. No big deal, just realize that. If you keep simping, validating women, white knighting, and put women on a pedestal. Pills thinks that’s dumb because men and women are morally the same. Undesirable men are worth to stick up for because you have to navigate how to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:15 AM
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This is the Blue Pill superiority complex, women on this sub have it too. What he perceives to be the issues by pointing out the top 1% negative things of what he read or heard. Pills are 99% of the time not an attack on women and blaming them for problems. The problem you have is you perceive any analysis of societal issues causing loneliness and involving the state of women with it, has to be a misogynistic point of view. To you, any guy has any points it’s a lack of individualism and moral ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 04:29 PM
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Most girls are sluts for guys they want, none of this info would be relevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:15 PM
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No question, on one side of their mouth their overweight man who makes 70k/yr was their dream guy all along. Then on another side she says she could do so much better but prob can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:18 PM
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Ha yea. I get it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:14 PM
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I’m in my 40s and mainly date women 20-24. They just are more fun dates, and lust for me more than women my age. They match with me on dating apps and I find them on insta and some seem interested so why not. I’ll accept that I’m immature and fairly dysfunctional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:13 PM
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So their man is ugly so they bitter online? I give up idk what your deal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:10 PM
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Women are smart for being genetic profilers. They even go for offsetting features so there is balance. I partially like tall women because I want tall boys. My son is in gifted and is 5’10” at 13. I’m very happy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:06 PM
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With their not so attractive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:03 PM
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I don’t know what that middle sentence means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:39 PM
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Women don’t want to spend the time to write an argument that may have detractors or exposes any negative sides to themselves for criticism, they are adept at avoiding downvotes. I’m often left very unimpressed by the simplicity of a rebuttal for rebuttal sake that doesn’t hold up to any logical sense, or lacks any willingness to engage in a real debate. Sometimes women do, often not. For the most part women like men and don’t want to short changed by a short man. Women’s feelings beyond evolutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:22 PM
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The internet is full of free entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:01 PM
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What is a woman like or dealing with having a not so attractive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:59 PM
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I don’t know why but I think a tall women with a shorter guy is a good look, better than 2 tall people. I’m attracted to taller women though so maybe im biased. Surprising enough calling out girls for nonsense has women commenting like regular thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:04 AM
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Yes guys find girls for relationships it’s real, all types people are happy, everyone got flaws it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:01 AM
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I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:27 AM
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I’m simply enlightened by my own height. I’ve had a bunch of women I thought were totally gorgeous on a first date all over me. I think thank goodness I’m not 5’8” because I’m not cool, hot, or fit enough to make this happen without being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:14 AM
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There’s nuance and a good argument here and it also applies to a solid percentage of women because it makes sense. Not at all what’s being referenced in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:12 AM
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Dating apps didn’t work then worked for me later. Because I was depressed and looking for dopamine I went on a bender on them the first time through. I’m not mad at women for seeing what’s out there, having fun, being entertained by a very desirable man. What there is a lack of, is how morally corrupting it is to stay on them and to start thinking unrealistically about relationships and using other people. You need to be thinking about finding a relationship on them, if you’re not and just going…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:36 AM
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Sounds lame to say but if you’re relatively healthy looking, most people have a bunch of attractive features. Sometimes what’s traditionally unattractive features they might have is a unique appeal. Homosapiens have gone through prob few hundred thousand years of evolution and were prob a good deal cuter now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:29 AM
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Slender big boobs is just prob the majority type but you’re right, but to say men don’t is still strange. Face is always going to be top, but height is a real deal thing. I can’t think of one physical attribute that is more generally desired than height by women. I see a lot of girls scoff at muscles, never heard a girl say I like him but he’s 6’2” and I just don’t like tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:25 AM
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Sure some guys do and I’ve prob been attracted to a few, but just being sarcastic. Men usually don’t prefer that, sometimes though they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:20 AM
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Guys actually really like chubby flat chested women, that Pam Anderson stuff guys aren’t really into that, she’s like looking at a juiced roidhead for a girl, kinda gross really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:48 AM
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Men don’t go after slender women with big boobs really, they don’t have personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:23 AM
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If there’s one thing women got on men is they can always get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:17 AM
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You could tell me shorter guys are more often in relationships and I’d believe it. I’ve only known a couple good at dating. The short guys prob get a girl and hodl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:14 AM
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Ha yea that’s the go to for women on Reddit too, assume he’s an incel. What a pathetic miserable person, right? Let’s get off on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:47 AM
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There are privileged people among us. To comment they aren’t actually obviously privileged for attention is ridiculous behavior though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:40 AM
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Women’s more intense feelings get in the way of seeing all sides of an issue. No one likes to correct a cute woman because they want her validation, so she goes on saying and doing things that appear unhinged to many other people. The modern woman’s addiction to attention and validation is the reason mental illness in young women has skyrocketed the last 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:35 AM
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All this would be okay if a woman says it. Women don’t appreciate commentary by men about what they like or how they act. So they just troll and gaslight them or point out exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:26 AM
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Tell me which guy who’s 5’6” dated around with a bunch of cute women all the time. I know 2 short guys that were players, any exception to anything is bound to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:25 AM
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6’2” handsome face guys with above avg Ds are highly preferred by a majority of women, I think I realized this fully when I was 15 yrs old. Women saying otherwise is just an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:07 AM
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Short guys are born with insecurities it didn’t somehow happen by societal influence. A 6’6” you knew was a dork so tall guys aren’t all that to women. Most women want just average Ds, because the above average ones hurt. Okay got it, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:00 AM
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Good portion of reddit is gaslighting and trolling. Men and this post are no exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:49 PM
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Any man of below average height is at a significant disadvantage from casual interest from women. All men who are 5’8” or under represent only 15% of right swipes by women. 80% of women set their height filter at 6’ or above. If you’re wondering why they develop insecurities that’s one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:47 PM
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I’ve never heard a woman talking about swearing off guys that are above average height or d size though. Always those pesky Napoleon shorties they just can’t deal with anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:41 PM
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No they state it as if the obvious is wrong, they are virtuous for pointing this out and challenge some very obvious narrative. They get karma for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:22 PM
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Dark triad men have the most success within women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:41 PM
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Lot of hot chicks aren’t that slutty unless a top guy shows up. I’m not aware of any guys that can consistently get causal relationships with women out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:11 PM
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Stop living there geez.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:08 PM
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I agree with this, but that can start at 27 though for a guy if you get your life moving in a good direction quick enough. I pull way hotter women of any age at 44 vastly better than I could at 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:11 PM
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Did you get a girl or did you get to date a bunch of beautiful women and pick one. Most guys would like to open up a dating app and have a bunch of pretty chicks wanting a date, then get to pick. It’s a paradox it doesn’t scale down for way more guys for that to happen like it does for women whenever they want. That’s a source for red pill podcasts and a lot of confused sentiment online. You can just ignore it and a woman will likely enter your life at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:48 PM
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The denial is that to men getting women is all god given genetics. Whereas guys who get chicks get in the gym, they live fun lives take pics of it and post it for apps to sell themselves, become more successful. Then try and charm a bunch of women and it works. Most guys don’t want to think about all the effort involved to bag a bunch of beautiful women, they just want a beautiful girlfriend now so they don’t have to be lonely and have the type of girl they want. Meanwhile that pretty girl is tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:42 PM
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I know I put that in the post as a solution and people start throwing around r word. If you got a fast high pitch voice it’s highly advantageous to not do that immediately for prospective romantic partners. It’s not like when they found out later they call me a liar, was trying to be smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:11 PM
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I’m a nerd with a high pitch voice. I hide that greatly on a first date talk low and slow and don’t go into any nerdy hobbies. I literally go into a date telling myself I’m the man of her dreams. She finds that out later when she wants to be my girlfriend and she can accept it without being turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:59 PM
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Women are incredibly bottom line oriented and opportunists. They know what handsome men look like that other women would think as well. They know their life will be better with a high salary man. What in the heck are we expecting women to do, not try? Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:56 PM
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I stopped trying to read comments, the other half I didn’t write and solution to this problem isn’t actually trying to be perfect for women. It’s to appear you are Prince Charming, every guy got flaws that will give her the ick if she doesn’t know you. You can let her know your flaws later, walk normal when you meet her, go back to walking goofy after 5 dates. Suck in that belly. Don’t tell her you’re conservative or liberal. Don’t let her know you got no friends. If you get to the point a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:51 PM
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Girl gets hot guy wanting to get with her, she gets with him. Girl gets handsome rich guy wanting her, she gets with him. In her mind one has to work out eventually. The fact that some men put women on a pedestal and women don’t want the most attractive men with highest status she can get her hands on, is total denial of common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:42 PM
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The only reason women don’t like dating or dating apps is the men that women can get non-exclusively is significantly more attractive than the guys that will have her exclusively. She will get to the other lesser guys that she knows will have her exclusively later. First, she needs to run through all the other much more attractive guys, that can hand pick their girlfriend and have as much casual sex as their heart desires to get her chance with him. Women love to chase players, they want what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:33 PM
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If your face looks like that in person you’re above average stop the nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:14 PM
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At 40 you prob need to be top 10% which makes you top 30% overall. I love women that make money as opposed to poor chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:51 PM
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Women make themselves incredibly available to the guys they really want. They chase the men and love bomb the men they really want. They just don’t often end up with the men they really want, and block that from the their memory and just call it an all situationships they were in control of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:28 PM
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If a woman isn’t all over you by the 3rd date, throw in the towel something is wrong. Could be she doing other guys, got low libido, or just likely don’t want you that bad. None of it is good and you need to bail and stop trying with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:23 PM
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Men who get into friendzone relationships where he wants her and she doesn’t are the loneliest men I’ve ever met. I don’t know what their deal is, I think their bar is that girl that put them in the friendzone and they won’t accept less attractive women than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:17 PM
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The uncontrolled world of casual dating is a polygamous society where a smaller percentage of men attempt to hoard women. Women have put themselves on such a pedestal and some other men too that they say women are fucking down on less desirable male options. No, it all flows upwards to the more desirable guys like early days of agriculture land owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:09 PM
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It’s not it’s largely a waste of the woman’s time. It means her being told what the man thinks she wants to hear so he can get with her. Male thirst doesn’t inflate your ego, it’s so prevalent it doesn’t feel all the great because it’s largely disingenuous. If guys could do hot women just by making themselves available enough, it would cease to be interesting after a couple of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:08 PM
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Women want to date men that can have many other women like her. That’s her built in power imbalance, she goes in as one of his many options just hoping to be picked. Women will argue up and down that isn’t the case, because it’s a hard thing for them to own up to, until they have to date for real and then face the reality of their prior actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:04 PM
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I would say for a date if he has choice is largely just looks. For women it’s more the type of boyfriend she’s looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:40 PM
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The fact that women will often end up with women vastly more romantically experienced them makes them less desirable. There’s nothing less appealing to me than a 37 year old woman who’s never been in a relationship longer than 5 years, but has lots of random dating experience, now looking for a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:39 PM
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Nearly every guy I know filters for dates for the best looking women, period. They could be unemployed horror shows of a life, if she looks sexy he’s down. He prob won’t make her exclusive though, other guys who can’t get sexy girls so easy will. Who the guy ends up with is not just who was the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:36 PM
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I would tend to argue that the men she dates that she doesn’t know are going to end up being different than who she ends up with in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:21 PM
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They tend to believe that by continuing to use the example that average men eventually find girlfriends. As hard as you don’t explain casual dating with men she does not know. 30 comments will say, I know average guys with girlfriends or wives. For some reason people’s minds cannot separate casual dating with end result long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:06 PM
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Dating between 2 people that don’t know each other is largely dominated by men who have near endless options. If a guy can make women stop and say, wow that would be a nice boyfriend to have too many other women will have decided the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:02 PM
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Women do both. If a guy is attractive enough she will look past flaws because she wants his affection. If he’s shorter, smart and nerdy, and successful, she desires him prob more it’s just not only physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:54 PM
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Some chicks are hot and make a lot of money at 40. That’s top 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:52 PM
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When a woman chooses a man largely for looks alone, she flips it and tries to ignore flaws. If he acts too weird or has too many flaws, women will still bail on it often before she sleeps with him. If a woman is attractive enough and just making herself fully available, guys will look past near anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:37 PM
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In theory I do, just not as easy as women to get dates. I just go for the best looking woman I can get, then see what flaws I don’t like later. If a woman has chosen a guy largely for looks, she will do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:34 PM
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He gets sex, just when she’s bored and wants attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:28 PM
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Barely cute and presentable body and 20-40. 30% of adult women walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:56 AM
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Yes, top 30% of women have darn near the entire stack of men to choose from. If you’re top 10% woman it’s nearly every single man on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:44 AM
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Some are kinda big, some are very trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:30 AM
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Who she ends up in a relationship is different than who women get casual dates with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:28 AM
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People still meet a lot through proximity and not really dating. If she relies on him as emotional investment or is in love with him. Guys can get by with so much. If you are in love with someone, they can walk all over you and you’ll take it, love also has a trapping feeling to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:16 AM
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Just factor into the dialogue by default it’s going to be 60% looks. Then you’re not just talking about looks. Also, I don’t make the rules. Some average guys are big players, more often it’s attractive guys. Isn’t it more interesting why and how the average guy is a player as opposed to the hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:44 PM
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The average libido woman desires less sexual variety at a lower rate compared to men is more the reason. It’s not that women don’t want to have sex often, most definitely do. The reason women’s attraction point is higher is they can satisfy their desires romantically at that attraction level, so they have no reason to go lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:38 PM
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Of course if she finds you very attractive she prob look past at least a few flaws. You can’t write posts about looks on this sub though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 11:32 PM
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My theory is you know how women need just not to be too big and one nice feature and they’re in with guys. For guys it’s kinda the opposite, you need to have nothing wrong with you. So if you got a gut, you’re out with women for casual interest, not masculine enough, too short, stutter, you’re out etc. If you’re walking around with any social or a physical flaw random women won’t consider you as a sexual option. Something strange how casual interest from women doesn’t scale down for average guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:33 PM
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It’s the looksmaxing by that ex gf, and her helping me take better pictures. She told me, people you meet that you don’t know are naturally shallow and make judgments, the way you are perceived is the reality. Once you enter a positive feedback loop with women, then getting women becomes a non issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:27 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous. I think guys are so used to getting sex in a way that’s ego inflating and fun, they don’t know it can happen other ways that’s kinda humiliating. Women have to get the guy to actually desire her and respect her on some level in the moment, or it’s not going to be enjoyable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:08 PM
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There’s 2 ways a guy can be real friends with a woman. He already had sex with her, or he doesn’t want to have sex with her and doesn’t wish she was his girlfriend. Then it’s fine, if he’s secretly pining for her all the time it’s problematic for him and the relationship becomes one sided to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:04 PM
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The woman who did the college study was on a npr podcast, I’m sure the study is online. Google the hinge or dating apps data, I’m not your errand boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:42 AM
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Search top 10% of guys match rates on dating apps. The original 80/20 was coined by a woman who studied hookup culture on college campuses, since then it’s been applied other times. She said 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:36 AM
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Top 10% of the guys on dating apps get 70% of the matches, and even higher % of the dates. Real life through many studies has shown 80/20 rule. Online data indicates it’s more 90/10. Dating apps seems to be feast or famine for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:30 AM
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You can just be interested and passionate and avoid sex until exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 03:19 AM
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Before 20 I had 0 hookups, 3 gfs. From 20-22 in college I grew 3 inches and had full facial stubble and had around 24 hookups the next 2 years, handful of random gfs and fwbs. Was like living in a different world with women. Got married then divorced mid 30s, I had a gut and balding. Managed to get gf through friends, she helped looksmax me, gym, froze gut off with cool sculpting, hair transplant, then worked on taking pics for instagram. We broke up and I went to dating apps, which I got one da…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:31 AM
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I’ve been average and top 10%, the difference is you have to do a lot of social interaction as an average guy. Lot less choosing signals and a lot more rejection. Top 10% you can just be online mostly and land dates and hookups. Getting laid quickly happens but not as often as average guy. You also get better looking women and more of them instantly want to be your girlfriend in top 10%. I could still get girlfriends being average just was harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:19 AM
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I’ve got girlfriends off apps and I like most the dates, no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:12 AM
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Guys befriend a really sexy chick and act all simpy for her the friendship is never balanced on many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:20 PM
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If you live in a city and have a great profile as a guy you can get a date with a beautiful or high value woman whenever you want, speaking from experience as a non Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:15 PM
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I just pick them because they’re hot and I want to make out with them, if there’s issues I’ll find out later if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:03 PM
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How do you screen women online you don’t know. If she’s hot im just trying to make out and see relationship possible later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:09 PM
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I’ve never met a girl that was going out with a guy and thought hopefully this is a really good pump and dump. I’m getting all dolled up for this handsome tall surgeon so we can just have sex. Random hookups happen, most conscious dates and hookups from a woman’s perspective is at least half “i would like to have him as a possible boyfriend, or omg i wish this was my boyfriend i want to show him the passion i have for him” Do some women slut around without any thoughts or intentions about the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:03 PM
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This would be more like you’re going on a date and you hookup. If you’re out of town it’s different. Also, sometimes women have sex and they are iffy. If you’re getting amazing sex right after a date, that signals usually she sees you as a boyfriend prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:23 PM
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If a girl wants me as her boyfriend she appears to be quite enthusiastic about it. If it’s just sex it can be whatever. Why do you think way way less? Is that just you, you think or that you think most women aren’t big on hookups. They seem to do it a lot on dates, but I’m making the argument that half of it is an intention for possible outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:31 PM
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If you hang out with a girl as a friend, and you think about being in a relationship and having sex with her each time. Then she generally doesn’t. Then you’re a friendzone total beta male. It’s really sad to me to see a friend being treated in an imbalanced friendship and he’s wanting to do her every time they hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:16 PM
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That’s a difficult question to answer, I can get dates nearly at will, and 2/3 hookup first date. Lot of matches don’t want to go out that I want to though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:46 PM
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My argument is that at least half the time women keep hooking up with a guy they are vying for a real relationship with him. Which in my experience and all observations I’ve had that seems to be the case. Now go read the women’s comments, sex is just sex and they have no intentions apparently. They never get disappointed by any outcomes, they just going with the flow and fkn. Women try to lock down players all the time and they leverage their bodies, doesn’t work very well. For guys she’s doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:43 PM
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Yea you’re right, but also that’s women. No one is coming out of a vacuum seal just for you in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:40 PM
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Listen to women say I hate dating apps because all men want is sex. Then on here, I just have sex for fun and good vibes. I do think maybe half the time women hookup for whatever reason other than I would like this guy as my boyfriend. They’re going to try harder with boyfriend material.m though. There’s the concept of sluts and easy girls that’s have been mentioned which is another type of situation. I think girls hookup with guys they really want to have, at a majority, especially if it’s more…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:39 AM
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If you can somehow make a top 10% profile on the app getting matches and dates are pretty cake, that’s my theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:35 AM
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What’s your profile like?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:12 AM
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I think the point of the post is lost in women’s sexual liberation to just have sex. Half the time a woman has sex she may not want a relationship. Half the time she does or more especially if she keeps doing it. It’s good odd for guys, but if women does it for relationship bad odds for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:47 AM
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I guess I see sluts as proactive and easy chicks as just very impressionable to advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:43 AM
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I guess I feel like 10% of girls are easy and 10% are sluts. That’s like 1/5th in my head so it’s quite a lot. Why can’t average guys access these women on dating apps or just online in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:39 AM
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I get your perspective, you’re right. That’s a good spin on the mindset. I still think a lot of them half the time they would like to be an exclusive relationship if she keeps doing him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:10 AM
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Most sluts are picky though, they just go up to a hottest guy in a room or on dating apps, they don’t get down to average guys that often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:08 AM
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It’s insane, if you’re pretty hot chick dating apps are so crazy. You got the hottest dudes possible, guys with mansions. Chads take women on real dates too if they’re hot. The women don’t land them if so it’s temporary and he needs threesomes, they just super slut guys from what I’ve seen and known of the guys. That’s why the hot girls I want just agree to a relationship with me. They been there done that with biggest players.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:06 AM
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Yea I mean if you want to say well 2% of first time sex is vacation sex so when they are home that same rule applies. Just sit and think about it for one minute. People don’t randomly have sex, there’s meaning behind sex. That’s often I think I would like a relationship. If she’s had sex with you 10 times over 2 weeks, that’s only more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:53 AM
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Oh dang you hit the nail on the head right there, unless you met her at a club. Always someone, if not she got some other date she looking forward to as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:51 AM
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You know what, maybe you’re right when I think about it. That super low hanging fruit is definitely saying yes to an exclusive relationship though. If she’s doing me with no effort, she going to be my girlfriend too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:47 AM
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Women do guys on vacations. What percentage of first time sex between 2 people is that? Can’t be any more than 2%, people spend most their lives not on vacation. What argument is this give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:42 AM
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Wow okay, these women that just do anything so easily makes you wonder why so many guys on dating apps can’t get any dates. I’ve known total sluts, they are rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:41 AM
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I don’t know very many women that would just do any guy, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:37 AM
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How many dates and women have you slept with? Over how long of a time period? How many long term relationships over a year have you had? This concept you have that slumpbusters just randomly do anyone? I’ve known very very few women like that. A slumpbuster is a sure thing for you, not she’s super unselective about all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:34 AM
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If she hooked up with a guy more than twice she’s probably looking for a relationship. At least half the time. The only other alternative is that women mainly act out of slutty impulse horny decisions in perpetuity with men they only half like. Which is ridiculous. The flawed logic is every person that acts like women just sexually verge for the strongest sexually compatibility or just for fun all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:30 AM
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What percentage of guys that you hooked up with at least twice, would you have said “yes” to an exclusive relationship with? How many guys have you had sex with more than twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:19 AM
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When a woman has sex with me for the first time it’s mostly about “I think I would like this man as my boyfriend perhaps.” She may wake up and decide otherwise, but most of the time sex outside of a relationship is about having a relationship. I guess I’m just a stud and so fun she doesn’t even think about having me full time in a relationship. Weird thought, kinda counterintuitive, but that’s the logic for most of the commenters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:12 AM
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I’ve been a back burner option for a girl and still got laid, it’s still about a potential relationship. I get it though, every woman that has ever had sex had zero other intentions than just fun. I don’t buy it for a second but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:07 AM
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You asked the “point?” I gave you the point 6 ways to sunday, women hook up in attempt to land the man, but it’s a bad numbers game for women. High numbers game for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:01 AM
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What percentage of women that you hooked up with more than 2 times would say yes to being your girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:59 AM
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My best friend has hooked up with probably 250 women and I’m at 140. Was it sometimes simply for fun for the women, sure I think so. Most of the time it’s about a potential relationship, she could go get an even hotter guy if it’s just about sex. If she got the even hotter guy, she’d prob want a relationship even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:57 AM
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Because everyone knows the majority of women the majority of the time hookup with men they would like potentially to have a relationship with. If they keep hooking up with them it’s even more for that reason. Is there exceptions sure, most of the time women hookup in an attempt to secure a relationship and also fun, but it’s not just for fun most of the times. The only rebuttals is they have sex on vacation and women just be having sex for no reason other than they are horny. Funny arguments and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:52 AM
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Out of 140 hookups I’ve had, maybe 20 just wanted sex. I’ve they kept hooking up it almost always meant they wanted a relationship. There’s another guy that claimed all of them wanted a relationship. Women aren’t going to online and talk about all the times they were used for sex and actually wanted the guy, but that’s more often the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:07 AM
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Interesting I thought because you were implying you’re hot, it might be lower than me but it’s higher. Women wanting to have a relationship with a hot guy they having sex with is not a surprise though. Sometimes I’m just one of the guys she’s juggling and I’m still just an option, but if I have sex with 3 girls at least one wants me exclusive really bad after the 2nd time. Women more often hookup with men they actually do want for a relationship. You can’t tell that to all the women commenters o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:19 PM
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What % of women that you hookup with, do you think would be your exclusive girlfriend the second time they have sex with you? What % of women the second time you had sex with them, if they asked you to be their exclusive boyfriend, would you say yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:56 PM
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I think that’s a myth, the ones I don’t give an orgasm too and don’t try as hard end up wanting me more. If I’m all anxious and eager to make them come a bunch, they slap a simp beta label on my forehead. You got be indifferent and let women come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:51 PM
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Women don’t get to have relationships when they want from guys they hookup with. The fact that women get sex so darn easy comes with a surrendering of control to the man. They often pick guys that are clearly desirable to other women like her, which greatly lessens their chances. I write about things that are obvious truths about dating, women fuck up with men, men fuck down. It’s well known and that’s why the top 5% of guys are getting more random women than the bottom 50% of guys. The top 5% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:37 PM
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When I’ve been the most depressed mess of my entire life, it somehow how I was made me a magnet for women to want to fuck me. When I’m happy and confident in myself, women throw their guard up. I’ve had other friends say the same thing, maybe women want to heal the broken guys. Half of the women I had sex more than twice with would still be my girlfriend, even though I was an erratic emotional disaster. If women could just have half of their hookups be a potential long term relationship that wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:34 PM
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Women can have sex literally whenever they want. If she looks presentable in a swimsuit nearly every straight single man on the planet will happily have sex with her. Sex in itself I don’t think is that interesting to women. What is interesting to women is when they see a guy they want online or wherever. They say look at him he’s cute, oh it seems like he has a kinda life I would want to be a part of. Then he’s charming wants her back, they get horny and have sex with him. When it doesn’t work …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:27 PM
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Women often have casual sex, accept fwbs, and get into situationships this happens a lot. Women put up with it in hopes of being picked by a desirable man with options. It’s a bad numbers game that rarely works out. The only response to this from women, is oh no it’s just sex, we just have sex. Just going with the flow and fkn, that’s all. To me that’s bs. They fkn that guy and hoping to get picked, I don’t think women just hop dick to dick for no reason, I don’t think most women are slutty in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:22 PM
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Sometimes women are just in the moment and they have sex and that’s it, on an occasion. Sometimes they went into the date and hookup wanting more and didn’t after. Many times they hooked up with him because they wanted their chance to be with him and it didn’t work out. Then they tell everyone, it was just sex, but they’re actually hurt about it, and move on and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:13 PM
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I have experienced this, but it’s not normal. I’ve also hooked up out of town. This would be less than 20% of my hookups. We need a guy that explains women just use him for a hookup the majority of the time and if he asked for a relationship, the woman would say yo you’re just a hookup, my fwb only deal with it. I’ve known 2 unemployed Chads that had women still up their ass for a relationship. According to here, women fkn just for fkn is normal. Not in my experience or in most experiences of gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:08 PM
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I would say women hooking up with men they know they aren’t going to see like a vacation, represents maybe 3% of total first time sex between 2 people. Yea I’ve done that too, that’s a small percentage of my hookups. So your theory says when women have sex for the first time with a guy, it normally is on vacation with guy they’ll never see again, it’s not that’s an off occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:55 PM
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She’s flipping the script so she feels in control in hindsight. Women get really sick of being used by men when they want to have sex with one, don’t get it messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:50 PM
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I called them easy, when women are easy it’s because they potentially want a relationship from you. So they are being compliant with your wishes and they want you too so they respond with passion. Every comment wants to say no women just have sex just to have sex, not in my experience most of the time. If that’s true then why most the time I ghost a girl right after sex she goes into an angry tirade about it? She’s just having sex, what’s the deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:47 PM
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I would like to hear a guy pipe in and say yea women just do me for fun, no feelings. Just horny sluts ya know, women just get horny what you going to do. They just love me and leave me, never want anything else. The only guy that might be like that is a total freaking loser that’s also very hot, which would be a rare guy. I’ve had lots of dates and hookups and it’s not my experience with most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:34 PM
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Women showing up to first dates because their horny is a rarity in my mind and experience, but women seem to think other women doing that is significantly more prevalent than it actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:31 PM
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I legitimately think most often when a woman hooks up with a guy, in that moment she hopes it’s more than just a hookup. Please enlighten me why that’s dumb though. I’ve had sex with around 140 women and all but about 20 times or so, I didn’t think this woman simply is horny right now. The comments would tell me 130 times the women were just horny and I was attractive meat for temporary enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:05 PM
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You don’t think it’s ironic women say they don’t like it when men just want sex. Then women have sex and it doesn’t result in much more, they claim it’s just sex and they just going with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:58 PM
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I guess you can’t say as a guy I don’t think most girls are just being horny sluts when they have sex, there’s feelings and intentions behind it too. I’m being sexist apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:44 PM
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For real, women will harshly judge your first sexual performance as a marker for compatibility. I got self conscious and couldn’t get it up a few times, the women didn’t give me a second chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:30 PM
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At the end of a revolution the usual next order of action is to take away women’s rights so they will accept average guys. Look at the history books, even the American revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:25 PM
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Older men and be in a relationship with a guy that doesn’t know he’s in one. It actually supports it great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:19 PM
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Tell me you hookup with men and then don’t care if they ghost you the next day. I know I don’t, makes me feel bad. Tell us you do random guys just for fun most of the time, with zero feelings or intentions for him. That’s what you’re implying. I don’t think most women do that. 4 times in my life I woke up from a hookup, and said “let’s be bf/gf” they got a big smile and said “okay..” then had sex with me again right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:13 PM
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All women are unique butterflies in their own mind, and they could never be seen as predictable in their actions. When some guys say they are and give examples and guys agree, that’s just anecdotal and could never characterize any subset of women. Society doesn’t teach women that when you insult and make broad judgements on male behavior, men should be free to hand it back to them. Women don’t like it when men do it, it makes them mad, it’s sexist. They report your comment on socials so you get …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:09 PM
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Right, so when they find that guy that gives them those feels, she hooks up with him. She’s actually going to be sad when she finds out the next day he just wanted sex once and that’s it. What she actually wants to hear is I want you to be my girlfriend after the hookup, then she can have him to herself when she wants. Not every girl wants a relationship immediately after sex, but if she has nothing else going on she’s highly likely to agree to it. Men get this luxury of choice with hookups, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:56 PM
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I think most women are easy and love to have the pants charmed off them. At the same time, I think women just being whores jumping on guys for no reason is rare. Sometimes women just get hormones going and want a random guy, but often it’s more than only lust why she’s hooking up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:44 PM
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Hookups often occur in response to the desire to have that man in their life. Do women hookup occasionally without those feelings, sure. Most of the time she’s hooking up because she wants him for a possible relationship in that moment. The reason guys get hookups with women and why the bar is set high. She has to subconsciously process that having a baby with him would be okay. His genetics and life have been processed to make it okay to proceed with the risk. She may not want a baby at all, sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:31 PM
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I’ve hooked up a lot in my life at college and dating apps primarily. I rarely felt like, oh she’s just using me for my body for fun, just random d and flesh to her. Sometimes I did, but I’d say it’s rare. What I feel like is women say it was just a hookup in hindsight to protect their ego. I’ve been hooked up with and ghosted, my feelings were hurt. Women aren’t so different, they are less cold about sex than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:18 PM
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Cool, why are you commenting just to be crappy. How about just ignore it, or offer some form of intelligent counter argument. There’s literally a million other posts on Reddit, why just say it has no point? It had to strike you somehow to come back twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:13 PM
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Method 2 is going to work more often, but if at any point the woman feels waning of interest and they want him, they will just switch gears and try lust. I think women go on dates, try to hold back passion, then just don’t get the second date. So their adjusted response is to hookup quickly to have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:11 PM
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If you get a hookup as a guy it’s a great numbers game for a relationship. For women it likely gives you some extra time, but prob isn’t going to work out based on who they usually pick for the hookup and reason she did it so quickly in the first place, he’s a wanted man by other women. She knows there is a competition for him, so she wants her shot with him, so they hookup. Playing hard to get doesn’t work these days, it will just confuse the guy on how much she likes him. The guy has other mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:00 PM
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Nearly twice as many women are in a relationship under 30 than guys. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:54 PM
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No doubt, just go for women you want. Women want guys, get over it. Once you want her for a relationship do some evaluation on her perhaps. What are you really going to know about a woman you barely know, just have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:44 PM
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You need some desirable combination or just be willing to go lower with enthusiasm. From soph to jr year in college I had 0 hookups all time. Then I grew 3 inches, got full facial stubble. Then the next 18 months, 24 hookup opportunities came while out at parties and clubs or finding study dates etc. I think it mostly just happens for a guy crossing an imaginary line of visual appeal, you have to contain something that’s worthy for the girl to chase, and by default face and height are those thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:43 PM
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Yes when you do have sex you are expected to sexually perform as well. You have to make it good, or she will get bored again and move to the next guy that can bring the fireworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:21 PM
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Who’s average and below average women casually dating and hooking up with, is it the top 20% of men who aren’t selective. Or more often an average looking player? Why does it seem like average looking players don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:16 PM
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This isn’t exclusive to Stacies, but Stacy doesn’t want Chad, she wants hopefully Brad with a great career and lots of intangibles of social status. There’s also some gorgeous women obsessed with fairly handsome successful men with brains and just cute. Women I think rightfully think about the future life of their children and know it’s not just looks. Women on every beauty scale are more than happy to exchange their beauty for other life benefits that the man has to provide, it goes beyond mone…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:03 AM
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You have to project some form of desirability or overall status and some looks. I think top 10% of guys on apps see it as uber eats for company and affection. Prob works for 20% more guys fairly regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:30 AM
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You should actually read the post and get back. I clearly don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:16 AM
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I go out with attractive women, most of them are nice. No complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:38 AM
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Because the only reason guys bitch about dating apps is they don’t get dates with women they want. That’s the point of the post. I never met a guy that said “dating apps suck!” Then had 2 hookups off them last week or finds a great girlfriend after couple months. Dating apps suck to men because the women they want won’t give them affection. There’s tons of beautiful women on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:04 AM
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Why does a local hot chick need 50k followers? Most aren’t. I’ve been out with women with more than 50k, they just bought most of them to make them seem important. I have guys who are friends who did the same thing. Women can have 300 followers and be hotter than one with 200k followers all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:02 AM
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What went wrong on the dates, I don’t get it. I enjoyed most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:11 PM
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If you like the way she looks and like to hang with her I don’t get any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:37 PM
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Dancing and theater I’m sure works. If you’re genuinely into it, and decent women there find you very attractive. If apps and insta don’t work you need other arenas if you want random women. I was good at yoga I’d just go to a bunch of them and just hit on women after. I know some guys who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:50 PM
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Why do you think guys complain dating has gotten harder the last 10 years. Women now have every guy in a 50 mile radius as a potential date. They don’t need to sift through real life and singles bars anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:17 PM
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You go on cool trips with great backgrounds. You got a pic in your nice house. You take one clear selfie to sell your face. You take your shirt off or wear very tight clothes so she can see your body. Then if she can lookup your career and find you online, then that helps a lot too. Most adult women are not simply trying to get the hottest guys possible, they’re trying to find a fun boyfriend with a life more than just looks. They want looks too though that’s why you do the selfie and body pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:14 PM
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145 currently I’ve had 350. Too many women followed me off dating apps for 8 months I was on them and had to remove a bunch because women just thought I was a player. Then my last girlfriend didn’t like women responding to me stories so I had to block 20 of them or she would freak out. You know what really works is who likes your posts. I got a couple with at least 50 very attractive local women who liked a post. Once a girl prospect sees that, they have social proof that attractive women want y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:08 PM
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Most people with big followings just bought them, then also pay for likes to a post. More dates and relationships form through Instagram and all dating apps combined. Also, you get a match and date I normally just share instas. Yea I know 3 guys and myself that can get matches and dates all the time off dating apps, then every other guy I know they basically don’t work. The difference is these guys made a cool instagram to have great photos and social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:05 PM
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The reality is virtually no woman will date down more than 2 points on a 10 point scale on a man for any reason whatsoever. Looks trump everything, women are shallow. If you’re a 4/10 guy best you’re going to be able ever reliably pull is a 6/10 no matter how good your game or status is. You might strike oil and get a 7, but hotties won’t look twice at you. If I drink too much beer and my gut gets big, no women want to f me. There is a bar for casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:32 PM
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I agree with female side. The thing about the guy side I never quite get, you have to let yourself be used. This rarely happens but some women may say, want a sugar baby, buy me a purse, I want a trip, money for a date, I want marriage and babies quickly. These occasional scenarios, you do one simple trick, ignore them. A woman got 3 dates maximum to express a lot of lust, or else guys are moving on. Most all guys are not hot enough to land babes without expressing some lifestyle. Most women don…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:29 PM
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Online yes, but it’s not just about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:20 PM
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Yes most guys either don’t have the chops or don’t really work in a profile that will capture women’s interest. The big net will sometimes grab a rare high value or hot one. That’s when I really lock in, ask them out quickly and on my best behavior on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:06 PM
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Instagram has all the single hotties in your area so it’s not fair to compare. Dating apps still get 10% of them at any given time. Attractive women use dating apps and when they are on them, they want dates. If she’s just on Instagram she might not be wanting dates at that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:40 PM
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Guys will never get this. Yes Chad takes a selfie and takes his shirt off and makes women swoon. I’d make the argument a 6/10 guy could put together actual cool photos and look cute and pull more than Chad at nearly the same good looking women like 7-9/10. Women are super shallow about looks but they will date down in looks for a fun guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:34 PM
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A dating profile that works is like using drugs, it lights up the same pleasure receptors drugs do. People get caught in a cycle of addiction. Match-Date-Hookup-Situationship repeat. There’s a huge and important difference between guys and girls who use dating apps or insta to meet guys. A guys SMV and RMV is usually very similar. A woman’s SMV is usually higher than her RMV. So she gets caught up with a bunch of guys who are never going to claim her for a real relationship. This is the reason w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:22 PM
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Having a cool Instagram means your bed never has to be lonely again. I’m so glad I’ve worked on mine the last 8 years. I only have 20 posts up and 50 stories up. However, there is a dozen really good photos that took me years that catch women’s attention that makes dating apps a breeze and fun. Pulling women on Instagram is like working with cold leads as opposed to hot leads on dating apps, just find it a bit more frustrating on insta, it can work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:15 PM
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I think 80% of the women who go on dates off dating apps or insta are in a hoe phase. That’s how they land men, is leveraging their bodies. Most women aren’t sluts to their core, they mainly being affectionate with some men to get his attention. Women want the affection back and they think it’s fun, but part of it is a strategy. The hookup can lead to a relationship, it’s just not as reliable as a method as a guy. If you can get hookups as a guy, a relationship is inevitable. For women, that’s m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:59 PM
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Kinda cute girl wants a hot guy, sexy girl wants a dream guy or in cool social circles. Hot girls exchange some looks for status. You still have to be above average looking, hot girls only date down looks so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:51 PM
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How do you do it? I like some of her posts and stories, see if she will like some of mine back, then dm. It’s worked I’ve got a few dates sometimes, but it’s not been that good. Wonder if better strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:38 PM
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Cute nerd girl and band geek wants to f the jock ie Swift/Kelce. So yes, cute nerd girl sexes herself up in pics, to attract the universally attractive man. She busts out the yoga pants and tries to act like an insta thot. Many sexy girls don’t want hot guys anymore, not useful to her and old hat. They want a well rounded cute nerd guy, or a successful bad boy who is in a social scene to expand her social circles. It’s more often the basic 6/10 girl who’s focused mostly on a guys looks, they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:34 PM
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The sex appeal element is the big part most guys don’t get. If a guy is not a chad and overtly tries to be attractive, people and especially your peers make fun of you and tear you down. However, when you do it for a dating app, women appreciate it. They want to see you in tight clothes or shirt off to know what you look like. They want you to go for an attractive look at a camera. I put pictures up on dating apps that would get me laughed out of the building on facebook. Society doesn’t seem to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:17 PM
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While dating apps are harder than when I first tried in 2017, I don’t think it’s night and day like you’re talking. To go from thousand matches to 2-3 per week would indicate to me you’re trying to land dates and not just see how many you can match with. Everything else about this is a good analysis of why the top 10% of men are capturing 80% of the action on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:13 PM
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The bar for any woman to show up for a guy she doesn’t know requires a reason. Sometimes he just has a cute face and nice body. Sometimes that’s I wish that guy was my boyfriend. If you’re not hitting one of those 2 reasons with a demo of women, dating apps are useless. Women date online for dreams or lust, you need to supply the goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:57 PM
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Basically all the same things you would see in a guys instagram with lifestyle, and trying to appear attractive or social, ports directly to dating apps. You really have to elevate yourself above the average man to catch women’s attention online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:51 PM
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The 3 other guys I know that kill on dating apps are handsome, 2 successful as well. I’m aware of a couple of Chads that women talked about mutually meeting. I’m sure they do well, you don’t need to be hot and buff though for dating apps to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 PM
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I just talk to them, don’t flirt, just have regular conversation. Go to a $20 or under plate restaurant by my house. Then kiss them outside and ask them over to my place. From there, they may just make out or want an all night sexathon, just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:41 PM
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Yes my first go at dating apps after my divorce was pretty terrible. I regrouped with new photos later and it started rolling. It’s feast or famine on dating apps for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:37 PM
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If I couldn’t get her over to my place after first date, then those women don’t even want to text me anymore. It’s like you failed to build attraction in her and she has no interest. Microwave short attention span society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:35 PM
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I just ask my matches I want out on a date fairly quickly. Age range 20-40. You’re not going to get sex everytime, but I get 2/3 first dates over to my place after a hour or 2 on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:26 PM
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Haha I never thought about it like that. It’s like that on hinge, they show you your list of insta thots for the day, then it suddenly switches to the gorlocks. Average women maybe don’t like dating apps as much, not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:24 PM
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I like tinder, I end up having to use super likes on women I want though to get matches and dates. I don’t think hookups are more of a guarantee on tinder, but the women on there don’t seem to take themselves as seriously. Tinder and Hinge are basically only ones I use.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:21 PM
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The cute nerd girl does seem to be underrepresented on the apps. It’s more of women trying to be sexually flashy like insta, there are some though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:18 PM
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I’m not sure why looking for a relationship is bad unless that made you a boring date. Dating app women are looking for a spark, you got to be able to escalate quickly or they just move onto the next. Once you hookup, then you can start into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:14 PM
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Tinder I think is harder and has less women, the ratio seems bad on that one, I still can get dates just not as easy. Bumble just seems way less popular then last time used it years ago. My city seems like everyone migrated to hinge could be different in other cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:12 PM
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Buy hinge premium for endless liking of profiles and try that. Bumble and tinder have kinda died off in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:07 PM
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Most all the attractive local women are on Instagram. If you go through other people’s follows you will find them. You can like their posts and stories, many are public. If not you can friend request them. I don’t think dating apps are a scam, but I’ve tried to find women on insta too, it can work to get dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:03 PM
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You ever know a guy that dislikes dating apps and won’t use them, even though he matches and gets dates from women he wants easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:58 PM
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It’s one of those things you have to do and you’ll understand it. It’s easy to say anything isn’t life fulfilling if you haven’t done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:26 PM
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No people are going to really regret not having at least one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:04 PM
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For women it’s even more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:03 PM
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It’s actually true though, your life feels more complete once you’re a parent and you find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:10 PM
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You can have time with bros, time to focus on yourself. Life is better with a relationship, there’s no replacement for a loving partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:21 PM
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People don’t get it, they don’t date cute women sucked into the addiction of attention and the dream of what one man could provide to change her social status, lifestyle, and envy of others. It’s why women in their 20s are experiencing record levels of depression and mental illness. People don’t know what it’s like to have a girlfriend by every indication seems to love you but cannot stop trying to leverage her assets for attention and social currency. To others they think it’s like 1% one off, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:02 PM
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You’re never going to get the full life experience without being in love a partner and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:43 PM
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Women are so sensitive to that if they not #1 the whole time they get all butthurt. If been a backup and lived with it and ended up in a relationship, world doesn’t revolve around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:12 PM
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If you’re a genuinely ugly guy that sucks, women are shallow, everyone is about looks. You get in shape men are way nicer to you. You just find someone who likes you it happens and it might be at the bar. Women like being the cute one in a relationship as long as they get something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:49 PM
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I don’t find it hard, I just listed her other types of men she prob got.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:39 PM
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If you’re dating a woman and you ask her to come over and she has to set a date to come over, she got other men. If she doesn’t return texts or answer calls sometimes she got other men. It’s very easy to know you’re not #1 to her, youlll find out after the 2nd date. If you are #1 and she just drops anything for you, then it’s hard to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:37 PM
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Borderlines pour gasoline and light a match to every meaningful relationship they have and blame the other person for it. Borderlines are often coupled with depression and narcissism. Bipolar flies off the handle for every little thing, most of the time you’re on a pedestal. She will knock you off of it for the tiniest reasons and freak out. Bipolar people are anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:19 PM
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Because when a man is spinning plates he’s being the right amount of attentive and inattentive. When you got one girl you can’t help but look desperate she will smell it on you. Women know when he’s got other women and it puts her competitive spirits. Women actually think it’s hot when he has women that are in her same demo wanting him too. If a woman does this to a guy juggling men, it’s obvious and he no longer wants to take her seriously. You have to cast her to the side until she complies wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:14 PM
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It goes both ways prob fairly equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:08 PM
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It’s just a list of the 4 main types of guys she’s going to have an association with. It’s not a condemnation of dating women. Guys get all bent out of shape and blame themselves with women. Sometimes it’s your fault, many times she just wants to be single and explore options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:03 PM
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Women juggling men is more costly to the new men she meets than spinning plates is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:58 PM
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Ha yes, that’s the metaphor. They might last a few months. Good high value people don’t swim in hookup swamps labeled as “dating” very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:41 PM
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If you’re headed to a date with a girl you don’t know if you pass the eye scan and her eyes get a little bright and subtle smirk. You just talk to her about what she wants to talk about (avoid politics and past relationships). Don’t directly answer any interview questions. She’s coming back home with you and she’s yours, just be normal is the key. If you fail the eye test and her eyes go flat, you can just end the date right there, never recovered. In casual dating women are shallow af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:33 PM
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The modern dating woman goes kicking and screaming into monogamy, but likes it when she does. Some girls get the itch and go cheat behind your back, then lie they didn’t. Male attention is an addiction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:22 PM
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That’s interesting, makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:12 PM
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It’s going to be 9 out of 10 times depending upon where you meet her. If it’s any place where singles reside online like insta or dating apps, or clubs/bars/events and she just agrees to a date, she prob got other dudes. If you just know her kinda and she never has guys around and doesn’t talk about dating, she probably still has one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:05 PM
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Women are fun and offer companionship. Despite all the headaches and heartbreak they can cause, it’s worth it. People want to be loved and cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:22 PM
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So she sounds like girlfriend material, she wants you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Some women say they will and just go f their other guy, have to look out for that. Women who were anointed girlfriend status usually try not to leave your side to see if you’re being for real and you don’t have multiple girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:01 PM
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Women lie too, they all say they haven’t had sex in months, then you don’t label her a slut and she gets treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:58 PM
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If you’re a guy that gets a lot of dates, the goal is to extract the best sex from her. If you say you got other chicks, she’s just going to have her guard up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:54 PM
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I’m only picking women I think are beautiful for a date. I just want them, whether I get a relationship or not is no big deal. Most girls who go on dates got other men, can’t avoid it. I want her in my arms that’s the goal, then go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:48 PM
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I had a girl I’d been dating ask me to drop her off for a dinner she said it was friends, I actually dropped her off to another guy she’s dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:46 PM
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Why would I ask that I don’t want to know, I just want a date because I want to make out with her. Anything past the second date I’m just going to figure out naturally. I’m not turning down a date with a hot chick bc she got a few other dudes, I’m going to assume that even if she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:44 PM
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I’m literally only picking women I don’t know and if I think they are hot. I don’t want to know because I want their affection, any bad stuff she won’t say anyway and illl find out later, I just want her in my arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:42 PM
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Block out their eyes and show last 3 dates in reply comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:37 PM
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If you’re profile is good its a way for guys to order company and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:37 AM
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I would because I said 20% of the women I’ve been out with have been cheating married or living with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:27 AM
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Can’t f girls with your ex at your place. You need your own place as a guy or at least a guy roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:40 AM
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Women have to date somebody and get a boyfriend if they want to be happy. Keep improving yourself and life, do your own thing l and just be aware of any interest. It’s too hard at 21 with women, it’ll be lot different in 6 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:36 AM
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The headline is more, “80% of the women you go on a date with you don’t know, they will already be with at least one of these 4 guys.” That’s a confusing headline. You need a headline that captures interest and makes people at least scan your text. I do online content and marketing for my business. The problem is you get people that take your headline verbatim don’t read the context, then say that’s porn brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:31 AM
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On dating apps who half of women will try, prob half of those use often. That’s common, when you get a date as a guy it’s normally with a girl who dates. It’s a lot of single girls out there, but it’s a type.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:26 AM
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I think other guys affect her more than other women to a guy. Women are messing up keeping these relationships, it hurts them to connect with dates. To men you got 5 hoes you’ll drop it if you need to for one. Women get mixed up, they just can’t hang and f just for fun. Some women can maybe 30%, but most girls don’t enjoy being sluts for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:23 AM
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Tinder is the hardest one, it doesn’t guarantee you’re getting laid any more than any other dating app either. I just pay for 100 super likes and shut it off, might get 2-3 dates prob hookups too. Hinge is better these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:19 AM
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I should’ve asked if there are any other types of guys you might be competing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:18 AM
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If you’re better than what she can easily get, you’re prob fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:17 AM
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Generally yes both sides are dating, people take dating too personally, life doesn’t revolve around you just be happy you got a date. Here’s why this sub is funny, I just listed types of guys she might be hung up on or in her life, most women won’t have all 3. What you realize when you write it is not one person will list another type of guy. Instead, it’s mostly talk about how big of sluts my dates have been or how women aren’t like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:07 AM
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Living with him is a complication. As a girl you can get by with not having your own place, I wouldn’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:01 AM
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When you’re spinning plates you have to entertain in spurts and go back to others. If you let her go for too long she knows she’s just being played and will drop. You keep having to add plates to get your rotation going. Like spinning plates it’s a hassle. Women juggle multiple men not because they are horny sluts that just want sexual variety and new dick. They do it to maximize their current options and to not be too needy to the men they want. It doesn’t work though, at least for me I’m not g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:36 AM
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The girl with borderline I was with her for 3.5 years, she just cracked. She left my house, ran to California with a friend. Then came back 6 weeks later, nuts. I wish I had the balls to tell her no, because the next year was a horror show. Borderline people are apparently are very messed up I guess, I could not get her out of my life it was scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:31 AM
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Okay, I’m not complaining that much it’s only been a deal a couple of times. I can’t stop women from lying to me and cheating on their man. It’s happened to me too, all women are sweet and cupcakes until they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:28 AM
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You prob didn’t f it up, just don’t be needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:13 AM
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That rocks, if you can get dates as a guy you’ll get a girlfriend soon if you want. It’s inevitable, don’t take these girls serious until you know they really want you for themselves then evaluate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:11 AM
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Yea that’s what I would say, it might be just 7% of women 20-40 of the total. It’s a subset of single women, that are interested in meeting new men. If you’re at a singles bar or on a dating app they are the norm, but not normal across the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:10 AM
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I get really attractive women off dating apps and insta pretty easily and most will hookup after a date and be in a situationship for awhile. Unlike college though, it’s more of an overt attempt to land me in a relationship. So it doesn’t have the same zing after awhile, it’s not pure lust it’s more I’m trying to give you the best sex and oral so you’ll pick me. I would bet a lot of girls are putting up with the way you are, but wish you were different. I end up enjoying having a girlfriend more…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:06 AM
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What’s never talked about is how cool and empowering it is to be a guy. Get a girl to give you an incredible bj, you don’t even have to get her off. Just ask her to be your girlfriend in the morning good chance she says yes. Women get to f Chad, what they get is to be his sex toy for that night. Then get to be is sex toy again until he’s bored. Then she’s got to go spin the wheel again with another desirable man that can get girls whenever. It’s exhausting and tears away at their ego, makes them…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:45 PM
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You date mentally ill women too lol. I went from a borderline girl which was disastrous, to bipolar which is more manageable. You get addicted to their intense joy and passion for you, but that comes at a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:34 PM
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It’s just a personal philosophy I don’t want to disrupt social circles or my workplace with dating. I’m probably not going to pick her for a relationship so I don’t want an angry coworker, or awkwardness in a social group. Also, meeting someone you don’t know I find to be much more exciting. That instant connection and rush, can’t beat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:31 PM
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I can see that perspective, but dating apps and instagram create this disillusionment to women that they aren’t just fucking up because they are getting “dates.” Which are more like booty calls, they just start with a couple drinks first somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:29 PM
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Ha funny because it’s true. Cute girls with no kids on dating apps is insane, I’d love it too for awhile. They get off on it so much. Then when they reach the end and got no boyfriend and find out they were just used as temporary nonexclusive entertainment then they get all sad. Women usually end up with their backup, then pretend all those other guys never happened, especially to the backup guy, she will tell him she wanted him all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:25 PM
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It’s generally going to be at least one guy. I’ve found with dating women they want a boyfriend, they’ll want you. They still go kicking and screaming into monogamy and doing whatever they want at all times, it’s a transition of life for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:21 PM
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Most of my dates I’ve had are fun and women are pleasant. You’ll find out why they are single and nuts later. Most the dates though are good, no complaints. There is 30% of women on a date are awful to you for no reason. The reason usually is, she wants this other guy but he’s a player that’s got 4 other chicks and he’s never going to pick her. Dating women will pine for the biggest slutty guys in your city, I feel sad for them. I’m like you literally realize that guy takes tren and has been wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:13 PM
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Stats of stating the obvious of life observation and your own experience. If you’re in the top 20% of men, women make themselves available for you. Bottom 20% women are largely avoiding you. So that’s going to make finding a girlfriend a challenge. If you’re average you prob can’t be a successful player and date to your hearts content, but you can find a girl that will claim you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:06 PM
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You know what you do when you find a gf, you make her share locations with you. If she doesn’t want to, or she turns it off, or you can contact for a long period. She’s not yours. It’s weird because the women act super into me, get really pissed off when I break up with them. They know they were cheating or exploring options, using other men for entertainment. Rules for thee but not for me is women’s motto these days. Women get too addicted to all this male attention, they can’t quit it. No matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 11:01 PM
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If you’ve dated women who date, you’ll understand this post. It’s a reflection that how women respond to you may have more to do with her feelings for other people, you can’t take it personal. If you don’t date around, you say things like, “sounds like you’re dating whores, you should pick better.” If you want to date women you don’t know, then your anecdotal analysis of the modern dating woman you’ve presented is very common. Doesn’t paint a good reflection on women, but they become very selfis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:19 PM
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80/20 rule. If you’re in the top 20%’of men you got women chasing after you, you can’t even talk about being lonely totally self inflicted. The middle group is desirable to women, but maybe not immediately, just have to keep working it with women. Bottom 20% of guys are going to have a rough time, it may take years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:40 PM
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If you’re saying 30% of single women have this going on if you’re on a date with them or at least 2 out 3, I’ll buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:37 PM
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In my city it’s the only one that matters anymore. It’s like the Zillow of single people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:12 PM
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Dating women are often being promiscuous at that time of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:11 PM
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Yes dating women want matching energy, good convo, passion, escalation, then exclusiveness. You can go on a date and accomplish all this by the morning the first night you meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:08 PM
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The bottom 20% of men got a real tough time. For the rest, unless you’re in the top 20% of guys it’s going to take some effort. Women don’t go on dating apps looking for average guys, going to have to meet someone somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:42 PM
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That’s the obvious answer to dealing with women who date. Then just having awareness the world doesn’t revolve around yourself and other people have lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:18 PM
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Yes if you open a dating app in a city there’s prob 10-20k women on Hinge. Out of what a million? So 2%-3% of women are currently on dating apps. So if you’re using dating apps, that’s a specific woman acting a specific way during a perhaps brief period in her life. In no way shape or form can you form an opinion on 2% of women who are using dating apps right now as representative of women as a whole. This sub keeps saying, oh not everyone. Yes it’s a specific context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:12 PM
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Oh no, I don’t like to know anything about them. I just want them to be cute and on a date with me. Dating women in social circles or work I can’t stand and actively avoid those women. I want women I don’t know and have no connection to with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:06 PM
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Most people don’t casually date. That’s why this sub is interesting I think. You’re explaining the most common scenario that would exist if you were to date women who also date around. Then people say, what are you talking about? I’m talking about people that date around. I don’t do that you have a pornsick brain and you’re wrong. Then I say we’re talking about less than 10% of women walking around here. 90% of women this may never and doesn’t currently apply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:59 PM
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So if he’s dating 3 fine as hell women, but you’re the 4th. You realize you want to be with him exclusively, he says I only want you these women mean nothing to me in comparison to you. Please be with just me. You just block him? You wouldn’t, you would be so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:51 PM
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I think women who date around, on dating apps, at clubs/bars, post thirst traps on socials. A body count of under 20 would be alarming to me. You get a date off a dating app, odds are you’re hooking up. How in the world would I ever think her body count was 4? That would be insane, there’s no way I’m that special. Also if a woman only been with 4 guys she better be less than 21, or been in a relationship the whole time. I don’t want a girl with that low of a libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:47 PM
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Women cheat way more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:43 PM
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Top 30% woman can date like the top 10% guys. You don’t need to be a super attractive guy or girl. Super attractive people exist on another plane, they often are free mentally of judgement of others and any societal constraints. Super attractive people are like 3 year olds before they gain self awareness, just existing in the moment. This is why I say it’s more difficult to get a 7/10 than a 9/10. The super hottie guy or girl just goes on instinct once you got their attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:41 PM
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You could flip this about men who are single and casually date and it’s worse. This is why I’ll never envy women for their ability to easily date, comes at a big mental toll and time cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:37 PM
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Agree with first part. If you hooked up with 100 girls and only 1 was in a relationship already, that would be like winning a lottery. It’s going to be at least 10 women cheating if you didn’t know them prior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:34 PM
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Dang some people are really hung up on the fact that 20% of women I’ve been on a date with were cheating. I think it’s 20% of guys who date will do this too and try to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:31 PM
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The fact that you write a post about dating and what you said isn’t inherent obvious knowledge of casual dating, is why many Reddit commenters like to be annoying and just want to argue semantics. You often get dates with women who go on a lot of dates. They like having men in their life, they use them for entertainment. If you’re meeting women in singles arenas then you’ll run into this. Is it normal for every woman walking around, no of course not. “That isn’t most women,” fk me I know. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:24 PM
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Those other women become very negative when she decides she wants that man to herself. Once you realize she has decided that and you visibly drop them and say I just want you, she will melt in happiness. This is a dating woman’s biggest battle, getting him exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:19 PM
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There’s a top 20% of men that are single and dating, then there is a top 40% of women that are single and dating. So 15% of the female population at any given moment trying to get with the top 5% of available men. So yes the 5% of guys (that are desirable) can just lay back and get chased by 15% of single women looking for dates. When you’re talking about active dating people it’s like 10% of people if that. Eventually over time it’s a majority, at any given time it’s a small percentage of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:15 PM
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Casual dating people you don’t know is much like using drugs. It also often involves alcohol, weed, or other substances. Not that you’re wasted but to get over the awkwardness of it all to use someone for a dopamine rush. Women are searching for that big hit, where the guy commits after. Men want to feel the ultimate high from a woman then have an amazing connection. Casual dating is a bunch of people with ridiculous expectations for others. It should be avoided, but it’s sometimes highly enjoya…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:03 PM
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Is red pill in the context of dating ever not about the top 30% of women? For women it’s 80/20, for men it’s 70/30. Most people aren’t desired or relevant in the casual dating world. If you’re a below average woman you can get sex that’s your big privilege, big deal if that’s mostly all it’s going to be, people want to be adored and loved not just poked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:56 PM
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That’s a small percentage of a percentage, are 2-3% of women walking around in a relationship looking to cheat and monkey branch, you bet. I would venture to guess only 10% of women are actively dating at any given moment. Start going on a bunch of dates and you’ll find some of them already got a man. Women run into the same problem with dating, but when you call women out for doing the same thing it’s crazy talk, no it’s not women cheat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:46 PM
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No I think it’s worse for women. I’ve never had my time wasted by women for weeks, months, years. Entitled men are the biggest pricks on the planet, thank god I don’t have to deal with desirable men. If you’re on a date with a hot desirable high value woman, chances are she’s going to be really nice and not a slut just looking to mess around. That’s great, I’m not sure women run into that as often. That’s why players feel so much satisfaction, most women aren’t having sex for no reason, they wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:40 PM
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Sometimes you just want that girl. It’s too difficult to avoid because too many people want options. They want to turn it into a game, have fun, be self indulgent. People are not going to comply, you have to give them a reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:39 PM
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Ha, now we are talking some sense. Absolutely, I don’t even think you can land any woman exclusively who dates without showing you’re clearly sexually compatible first these days. Don’t be thirsty at all, don’t give away you just want her affection and you’ll see what happens from there. The quickest way to a relationship is to put yourself in player mode, be charming and get what you want. Don’t care about these other men, but don’t get bent out of shape when you’re not her #1 option either, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:35 PM
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Not at all, she’s cute and I’ll find out more if we continue to date. I go for dates because I want that girl, then a relationship if I really want to keep her. That’s an afterthought, can’t go into dates thinking this is your wife, you’re going to deal with a lot of let down, just go have fun and let the chips fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:27 PM
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Women might enjoy sex more than men do. However, most women aren’t as keen on all the sexual variety at a regular rate and dealing with multiple men at the same time like a lot of men. Women need more emotional connection and like the idea of having one guy, guys can just have fun and move onto the next more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:24 PM
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Yes, I try to write the most obvious things I can come up with. Then see comments that it’s not at all obvious somehow. When you casually date this pretty common occurrences. I wish the women would come on the date free of every romantic connection, but that’s rarely going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:20 PM
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Because sometimes dates don’t go well, sometimes you get ghosted out of nowhere. Then as a guy you think, “what did I do?” Nothing, she just got other guys usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:17 PM
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No not preying, just women normally got at least one other guy. Sometimes if a date doesn’t go well or she ghosts you, it has nothing to do with you. It has to do with her hang ups on other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:15 PM
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Sometimes you’re on a date with a woman you don’t know and she got no guys whatsoever. Sometimes she’s got the 3 other mentioned, or at least one. If you date around, just a common scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:14 PM
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It’s insane until you get one girl you’re dating, now suddenly getting 3 girls was way easier than getting the first. That’s why the term slump buster exists, gets your mojo back. Women don’t like guys who can’t get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:09 PM
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Yes guys are ridiculous, if you look cute and he’s remotely available he’ll prob do you. That’s why female privilege for affection isn’t a privilege. It’s more like guys are horny, big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:07 PM
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I don’t care about women’s promiscuity. If you’re on a date with a girl she’s prob has at least one of these other men. Just something to consider. People go on dates, popular topic on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:05 PM
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It put her off because the moment she wanted you exclusively you didn’t do that. Of course she doesn’t want to be in a harem if she wants you to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:04 PM
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I would say this is the only annoying part of dating. 30% of my dates that were acting weird and annoying, the usually just hung up on another guy. My last girlfriend dated me off and on for months, I said what was your problem? She said I was still kinda with my ex and dating other guys and not just you. I wasn’t mad it was kinda obvious, I thought she was fun and really hot so I just wanted her to myself which I eventually got. People have weird expectations for other people and don’t recogniz…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:02 PM
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She will say she doesn’t or they are getting a divorce and it’s not finalized. She wants you to take her on a date, she will lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:58 PM
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I tried to write in the edit that I’m not attacking women or calling them bad. They’re casually dating men they don’t know, they prob got at least one other romantic connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:41 PM
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In no way shape or form did I say 20% of women are cheating on their man right now. 20% of women who are actively casually dating is what I’m saying. Guys do that too, date sometimes and lie they don’t have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:38 PM
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If that was the case I’d probably never stop dating. That would be incredible, just pulling women out constantly with zero romantic connections, dream world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:35 PM
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If you’ve been on 200 dates you can recognize patterns. If you know girls you see what they do. You can talk to friends about their situation. That’s a larger more diverse sample size than people’s precious online studies that are made up for seo money making purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:33 PM
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Yes but I just broke down who the other guys are in her life. I didn’t just say she’s got other guys, I made a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:30 PM
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Most women want men that other women want. If you’ve been celibate a few months women can smell your desperation and get the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:29 PM
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Yes I’m clearly talking about casual dating in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:28 PM
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You will not know unless you know her personally beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:27 PM
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Yes that’s what I’m saying. Based on women’s experience with dating, I think many women would confirm the same thing. They are sometimes taken out on dates by men already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:26 PM
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No one wants to go back, just some basic info about dating as a guy, and free entertainment online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:24 PM
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This is definitely not most women, I would estimate it’s less than 10% at any given time of the total population of women 20-40. However, if you’re on a date with a woman you don’t know, quite common. It’s so tiresome to write a post that has a clear context and have to explain, yes of course this isn’t women in general, it’s not even most single women, but if you’re on a date that’s when it’s applicable. Redditors seem to want to ignore context and say “not all people!” Well of course not, how …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:21 PM
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I would agree, this post is more about casual dating. Many single women don’t date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:18 PM
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I said probably 20% already have a guy that thinks he’s in an exclusive relationship with her, but she’s dating and cheating. This isn’t that uncommon, also that’s one small part of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:16 PM
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Most guys don’t throw their dicks at anything. If she has a cute face and looks presentable in a swimsuit and she’s clearly interested, many guys will though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:14 PM
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Women you date that you don’t know prior. Pretty common, many people on this sub seem to think you have to make a post about every single woman on the planet, you don’t. Then they will say “not all women” well of course, most women aren’t dating. If you read the post you may understand the concept of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:10 PM
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That has happened yes, dating apps, and just meeting women anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:08 PM
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Definitely shoot your shot. You can catapult to her #1 and she is hoping to get picked, so she doesn’t have to date or deal with any other men. That’s her goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:02 PM
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It’s fairly common for dating women to have other options, I just listed out who they usually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:00 PM
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I mostly date women out of social circles. I meet randomly in the wild, dating apps, or Instagram. I’m big on serendipity, my soulmate isn’t my friends friend in social circles or at work is what I believe, I have to find her organically. There’s no way to tell if they are taken, until after the second date you will rather quickly. Many times she will attempt to explain her situation. 3 times I met her boyfriend/husband, and he did not know what was happening at all, it was quite devastating for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:50 PM
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Most aren’t, just dating women. I’m not even sure this is a high percent of women under 40 at any given time. Prob 10%, but it’s 70% of the women you’re going to meet in the casual dating world. That’s why it’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:48 PM
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You know how to really make a woman happy and desire you? Have 4 other hoes she’s aware of, tell her you want only her and block the other 4 hoes on Instagram. She will light up like a Christmas tree when you do it. That’s like modern dating women’s biggest wish, a man to choose her. If you got no options, you’re less exciting to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:46 PM
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Men have harems to satisfy their ego and have sexual variety. Women do it more often to maximize their options to land a relationship. To circumvent this issue with dating women, I will just immediately ask women out exclusively and stop dating. If she starts acting flaky on you after that, she’s still juggling men and you dump her. Most women will drop their men too though if you ask for exclusivity. Women tend to sleep around to gain access to men to get exclusivity not just to be promiscuous …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:42 PM
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If I ever met the owner of bumble I would spit in her face. I’m so glad that women left that app. I’ve never used an app where it so clear the designer despises men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:04 PM
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It had a solid feminist gimmick to get it going, they should’ve changed it years ago. I think the female owner despises men and wants them to feel the most annoying experience possible. I cannot stand bumble, to match and watch half your matches not say anything. Then they almost always just say “hey” the app is the biggest fk you to men ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:46 PM
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Club popularity has declined so much it’s insane, they just are table clubs mostly now where they charge you thousands for a bottle of vodka. I hate them now. Women still go, dress up, take pictures for gram, get free drinks, talk to guys it’s still a thing but far less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:33 PM
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To think that a majority of guys are acting like this is mind boggling. Just hammering sex I can’t even imagine that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:20 PM
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This is exactly what happens with women who use dating apps. They pick the best guy they possibly can and then wonder why it keeps not working, because guys will date down, but not commit down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:44 PM
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Guys have the same sense of how desirable to other people she would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:41 PM
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Same goes for guys and it’s even more concentrated on looks, guys just have a broader spectrum on what’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:31 PM
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The app and some of the dates it’s definitely euphoric. Have you ever saw a hot profile, met up, loved talking to them, laughed together, then went back and were passionate with each other. If that’s not euphoric you’re not alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:29 PM
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I’m not sure why it’s so much different meeting someone randomly and asking them out. I’m starting to think guys asking for sex is similar to the girl that wants to talk, but not go out. If you show up for a date, act normal, have a conversation, she is usually down for some affection. I never mention or infer sex once it just happens, guys asking for sex is just ruining your match. If you want to have sex with her just take her on a date and bring her over. That’s still incredibly easy sex, a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:26 PM
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Oh wow I’ve met so many very attractive and high value women on apps it’s crazy. You truly have disillusioned yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 01:20 PM
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I think they do, women talk about men a lot. They like to get with them, have a boyfriend, be in love, make babies, grow old together. Dating apps have a lot of allure to many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:00 AM
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There’s only one difference, most women go to dating apps t find a boyfriend and to fuck. For guys who can match and get dates, it’s to fuck and maybe a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:58 AM
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I don’t disagree with what you have to say. I do think women seeing a guy on a dating app or Instagram and the reaction by 10% of women is I, want to go out with this man, it’s for guys that can project desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:56 AM
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I don’t think dating apps are for half of guys or girls, just not going to want to explore the full appeal. Your assessment makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:53 AM
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You have an understanding of what’s going on, women on apps are often just picking the best they can get. Half of the guys in the top 20% are going to be on dating apps. Just by factor that half of men don’t care to date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:51 AM
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Just the way you wrote this I think you’re a top 20% overall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:26 AM
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There has to be 5% of guys that are above average looking and will do about anything, I’ve known a few, I think women meet a good percentage of super sluts on dating apps. Prob 30% of women on apps are very promiscuous but not to level it some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:17 AM
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60/40 on hinge, 70/30 on tinder. Those are the 2 I use.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:50 AM
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No I’ve swiped with women that were friends, I can get thousands of matches and dates I know what it’s like. It’s more fun for women, guys send lots of compliments. These were above average women as friends though swiping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:42 AM
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60% prob would def not 98%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:15 PM
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There has to be a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:50 PM
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I think women swipe right not only for their own interest, but there is an awareness that he’s desirable to other women under the same interest. Has nothing to do with compatibility, more trying to land a prize that others are going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:18 PM
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When dating apps work for women it’s when they match with a guy that doesn’t have tons of options for dates. However, women are incredibly capable of knowing what types of guys have many options and the guys who don’t. If it’s clear the man is not universally attractive to a certain demographic of women they won’t swipe right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:52 PM
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I have friends who are girls and we swipe together before, I match, but they match like crazy, get compliments, land dates. They really seem to like the app experience, they also enjoy the dates. These were above average looking women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:48 PM
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No I like apps, I think they are trying their best to get people on dates, because ultimately that will make you way more money. If people don’t like your service or product they will stop using it, people use it largely to get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:44 PM
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Many dating women are delusional, average women are chasing above average men, above average women dating the elite desirable men. Dating apps for women is more dating for dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:25 PM
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Yea makes sense, think you prob got it. Hence some women claiming only men sending d pics or asking for nudes. Women en masse who are average don’t want to see themselves as average and end up having a bad experience that doesn’t end in many dates. When it does the guy is probably looking for a hookup because he’s desirable, but not selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:16 PM
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I don’t quite understand this phenomenon. I sucked at dating apps after my divorce, said okay whatever. Found someone in friend group, and we would take pictures and put them on Instagram. I came back to dating apps with great pics and now matches and dates are a total cakewalk. Somehow there’s no middle ground on dating apps, it’s either you’re deemed attractive in general or not. If matching is not regularly occurring, then forget it, the whole thing won’t work. The only thing that makes sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:08 PM
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Hinge I believe really does this, I’ve had guy friends say it’s only loaded with very unattractive women. I’m like uhh no it’s not, I think they’ve restricted those guys from even showing them to attractive women, because Hinge sees it as waste to the woman’s time to even have his like in her list.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:00 PM
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So are average women not getting dates? Are they just getting tested if they are an easy hookup by the desirable men? Because I really do believe average guys would be more than happy to have a harem of average women. However, average women will only agree to a casual relationship from an above average man. Based on women’s standards, is casual dating only for desirable men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:53 PM
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It took me quite awhile to get a good Instagram and 6 great photos where I’m matching at 20% and being selective. To get yourself in that top 10% of profiles, dating apps become fun for guys. Most of my dates if they showed they were pleasant, some really wanted me and of course that’s more fun and then you can get a girlfriend. Here’s the weird thing to me and you mentioned this. How is it feast or famine for guys? Why is it that some guys I know get dates and hookups from attractive women when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:43 PM
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Yes I agree, a dating app is a casual dating environment. If you’ve never casually dated, the chances of it working well for you as a guy is not high, unless you’ve put a lot of effort into 6 great pictures that women find desirable. Most guys aren’t physically attractive enough for random women to just show up, you need to express your value and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:34 PM
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Whether it’s dating apps, social media, or anywhere else online, the majority of people are now finding people online for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:31 PM
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The simple act of 2 people meeting via technology designed to help do so would greatly indicate it’s not a scam. Is their qualities that are predatory and designed to extract more money, sure. Once the dating app got 2 people to meet all bets are off, the dating apps is not in control at this point, it did its job. Dating apps are actually trying to help you get a date, but they can’t control who you pick and what happens on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:28 PM
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If it was only about ropes and you didn’t land this man you really enjoy then you’d think differently. Of course some women like dating apps, probably the majority do think they are fun and useful, I’m glad for you that you had an overall good experience. There’s way too much dating app negativity the ones that have a problem or say they are bad, don’t want to point the finger at themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:24 PM
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No I like dating apps, the dates, and most the women on them who I’ve gone out with were nice to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:06 PM
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You read it and made a lengthy comment, had to be somewhat interesting. It’s free entertainment, very easy to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:59 PM
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This is every woman that says dating apps are bad, shallow, or men that use them are just looking for hookups. Look at some of the comments, no woman is going to own up and say I’m only attracted to men out of my league for a relationship. They found out where they stand, and they want to blame the system and men on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:58 PM
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This is something that gets said is just online brainrot theory, but it’s actually not. There are lots of women that get addicted to dating, they get in non exclusive relationships. They are perpetually single, but tell themselves the relationships they have are real. There’s no woman that is going to comment on this reality. People will downvote your comment because it’s not nice, but it’s actual reality for many women. Maybe not just for Chad though, just any universally desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:54 PM
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Dating apps operate more like a nightclub. It’s like men who complain about not getting matches, it’s like can you just go to a bar or club and land dates or hookups? Because if not you’re not obviously attractive, and you’re going to have to make a cool attractive profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:49 PM
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I agree, I know many women that enjoy dating apps and don’t complain much about the men on them. They say they find great options for men on the apps. This post is not about all women hate dating apps, most don’t who use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:45 PM
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I don’t believe men are any worse acting than women. You can call men bad and say women are not, but it’s not true, they probably near equally good and bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:42 PM
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You’ve never seen a cute woman use a dating app? They are giddy about it and get excited when they match with a guy they want. They look forward to dates, some women get addicted to them, the experience is a rush.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:39 PM
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What’s the reason you don’t like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:37 PM
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I’ve never been able to reach the end of Hinge and I was on it for 9 months. Every single time I opened tinder always some new women to swipe through.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:36 PM
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Guys that say dating apps are a scam, it’s to protect their ego. There’s tons of women in your area who date on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:35 PM
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I’ve never met a guy matching and getting dates complain about women and dating apps. They have some complaints, but they’re not saying women who use dating apps are bad or the apps are useless and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:34 PM
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I’ve been on countless online dates once I got a good profile going, found 9 girlfriends the last 8 years, one was a 4 year relationship, other was 2 years. 4 out of 5 dates the women were pleasant and enjoyable to be around. Saying that dating apps are only loaded with terrible men acting terrible is not the case. There’s lots of decent men on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:30 PM
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I’ve used Hinge a few times and I can never reach the end of it, just endless women. If you don’t live in a city that’s probably not the case. Tinder never dies because women keep popping on. Bumble seems to be on a decline. Same number of men and women are going to use dating apps. The concept that dating apps are just a sausagefest is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:25 PM
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Guys think that women’s ability to get paid dates and hookups is this privilege they need to own up to. Whereas I don’t see women’s ability to do this like that, it ends up being a hassle, time wasting, and feelings of being used. Guys should not be jealous of women’s ability to easily date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:23 PM
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The only reason women don’t like them is they get tired of getting treated like an option. This can happen to some men too, but it’s not the reason men don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:21 PM
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Hinge is 60/40. The ratio on most of them is not close because women don’t sit on them with their public profile active all the time. The same percentage of women and men use dating apps, men just don’t get off and back on them as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:14 PM
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I’m not even sure if most women hate dating apps at all, I would guess the majority probably enjoy them when they used them. For the women that lament about them, I’ve found out they all had the same issue is never being able to land the men they really wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:05 PM
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Once women have spent enough time on them, that woowoo feeling doesn’t last for as long as you think. They feel shame for using their body too much, and they start to understand their worth isn’t what their market value actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:04 PM
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So all men on dating apps are bad? I think most men on them are trying to find a girlfriend, not just trying to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:01 PM
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If a guy is landing dates with women he wants to take out he likes dating apps a lot. I’ve not met a man that can open up a dating app and land 3 dates and say he doesn’t like them. I can get dates and girlfriends off apps, so I like them. However, when I first started and my profile sucked and women weren’t matching I was annoyed at dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:59 PM
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Some women have a keen eye for guys that will treat her well and adore her, those women think dating apps are fun and effective. I’m sure hot guys and rich handsome men are very appealing to date and give women many feels and validation, but if she’s not all that too she’s going to have a heck of a frustrating time landing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:56 PM
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Women will keep doing this until their ego takes a big hit, deletes the dating apps and then blames it on the bad dates. Where it’s actually about all the men she dated and really wanted, but she can’t have for herself and keeps getting treated like an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:52 PM
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When you’re a guy being love bombed by an attractive woman you are going to ride it out until you find out it’s not real or sometimes it kinda is. Women love bomb men by being crazy lustful, attentive, and easy going and not making any demands. Then she has to change gears at some point, she does this when she feels secured and he’s made her exclusive. Then she stops the love bomb, then the guy has to figure out how much he actually enjoys this woman. Often, she’s dropped by the guy because he r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:27 PM
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If a woman wants to peg her boyfriends, it definitely applies too. Women have kinks, she should be satisfying yours as well. Stop being a baby, if you love her make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:28 PM
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There is a double standard around promiscuity because average guys keep putting women on a pedestal. Women only just want slightly less sexual variety at a less rate than men. From reading this sub there are guys that think 5, 10, or 20 sexual partners is not marriage material. Here’s a wake up call, if she’s on a dating app or looking halfway good on insta, it’s way more than 20. She dates and she’s trying to attract men she wants, desirable men she’s chasing get laid easy. Average guys (especi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:53 PM
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Dating women generally have 3 men in their lives. The guy she really wants, but won’t take her seriously. Dates she’s trying to make an instant connection with. Then a guy she likes, but knows he wants a relationship. He’s her backup. When you’re her third man, she doesn’t respond to all your texts, then she texts you randomly when she’s bored to come over or go on a date. Women usually end up with the third man and fall for him, to protect her ego pretends she wanted him the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:26 PM
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There’s always an exception but that doesn’t make it a sound argument, sluts that have passionate sex for no reason or intention exist but it’s not a normal occurrence. Whenever I’ve had an all night sexathon with a woman, I’ve been able to just ask her to be my girlfriend in the morning and she says yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:57 AM
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At some point if she keeps acting fairly indifferent romantically, then you’re really going to question what’s going on and what she is doing there with you. Sometimes women want to take you on dates because they don’t mind you, bored, you’re a backup plan, or want a free meal. If she’s being very enthusiastic and giving romantically you know she wants to be with you a lot and likely exclusively. Whatever you’re attempting to explain has no conclusion or any sort of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:46 AM
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I’m not sure what you’re attempting to argue at all. What is your point you would like to make, because you don’t have one yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:24 AM
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Why do so many women on this sub think it’s called purplepillreactions. The lack of an ability of a clear debate response just makes your own comment seem more right. If a girl gives you a sexual performance you can just ask her to be your girlfriend in the morning. If she’s more just receptive to your advances then she’s iffy on you. Common sense really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 11:02 AM
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Skipping foreplay altogether sometimes is a form of foreplay. There’s a tendency for men to fall into predictable routines, I do x to lubricate, y to build up, z she has orgasm, then I get off shortly after. It’s predictable and beta to continue to have catering sex for her. As a guy you should switch it up, do things for you, reject her sometimes. Her falling into some foreplay princess mode each time will eventually bore her even though it achieves an effective result.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:40 AM
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Whenever a woman really wants you they are very pornstaresque. They seem to want to make any fantasy you want to come true and are enthusiastic lovers. I don’t think women are usually bad at sex. If sex is bad, sometimes women have half hearted sex and they aren’t that into you. I never met a girl who really wanted to be with me give me a weak bj or just lay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:37 AM
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Okay yes, coke guys can get by with being average and hooking up a lot. Think it works with crack too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:53 PM
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I’ve never heard of an average dude pounding out friend groups, but I guess it has to happen sometimes. Average guys get lucky, but haven’t seen them get texts for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:01 PM
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Do you live in a small town? How do all these girls know each other, how do the guys all know the girls to tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:52 PM
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So the average guy can’t brag about all his babes because he’s too low value and would embarrass the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:36 PM
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If your hobbies are fun times with other cool people, having a nice house, and going on trips, that’s the only thing random women are going to care about. Think about what works on Instagram, that gets posted all the time for a reason. Guys generally have guy hobbies, if they’re into astrology and yoga they are usually into it for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 08:19 PM
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I’ve never met an average guy talking about the chicks he randomly hooked up with that week and how freaky they were. I’ve heard lots of average girls talk about their recent hookups. Women in dating share the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:33 PM
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Women don’t care that much about orgasms, they care about how much they want that man. Would you rather just beat off or get with an ugly woman. When a woman doesn’t want you she sees him as completely undesirable and just rather finger herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:18 PM
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Men can’t be real friends with a woman he wants to sleep with, that makes him an orbiter to her. If he’s already had sex with her, then he can be friends with an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:50 AM
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People that don’t understand what OP is talking about haven’t gone on lots of dates and haven’t hooked up with women. Women love having their pants charmed off quickly and effectively. A first date ending in a hookup is more common than not. If she isn’t enthusiastically giving you a bj by the third date, just don’t even think she wants you. In this dating market and you aren’t pretty certain of her past, her not being very passionate towards you very quickly at least by 2nd date is a huge red f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 12:58 AM
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If you’re a man and getting pumped and dumped more than 30% of the time and she doesn’t really speak to you again, then you’re doing something seriously wrong. If a woman is getting pumped and dumped as a guy or she’s coming over and mainly only wants sex, she’s just picking the wrong guys. I’ve hooked up with at least 80 women after a few hours of meeting I never thought of it as masturbation or her as a wet hole. I genuinely thought we were having a good time, that’s why she wanted to do it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:42 PM
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Women don’t want 85% of men their age, then they don’t want 95% of men 20 years older. You’re just handing yet another reason for women to shit on men. If you’re attractive, you’re attractive it’s not an age thing. Some younger women prefer older, the rest is just going to be attracted to a lower percentage than their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:31 PM
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Guys that think that gym is the answer for women, like you need the physique to attract attractive females, there is a subset of women that like it, most could care less or don’t. When you pump yourself up like that you will attract the women who like that look, so you think it worked, but in reality you made another subset disinterested. Also guy just gives off a look and is dressed in a way women perceive as low intelligence. Not every woman thinks that being handed a gun and potentially kill …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:27 PM
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Yea guys don’t get that either, that’s why shorter guys with unappealing face keep building muscle at the gym and don’t get results with attraction. Women don’t like to see men overcompensating. Women are into attractive faces, men can just do a nice body. Women don’t they want the attractive face more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 PM
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Omg cmon, you have to explain why or you’re just baiting. It is impossible for him to be perceived as deeply unattractive physically. However, a large percentage of women would not date this man or have much interest in sleeping with him based on this picture. The reason is he has to be a narcissist and probably on hormones to build a body like that, women understand those guys are moody if they dated one. Also, he’s projecting low status. Guys would be alarmed at how much attractive women would…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:07 PM
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Wow that’s weird, I’m almost always excited. I try to get them off, kinda hard first time though, so you just make it passionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:55 AM
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Guys get excited about casual sex, most appreciate the girl and trying. I guess why would I know though, I don’t date guys. Gay guys normally talk positively about their casual sex, like they are into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:45 AM
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Most of known history people have lived in polygamous societies. Women are so hypergamous they just share one man with the resources. You weren’t likely as a man to have procreated the last 13,000 years. All women were though. Tinder is a polygamist society, that’s what happens when you let women go on their natural instincts, they just share the top men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:27 AM
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Every woman 24-99 wants guys between 28-34. It’s just not practical for them to date younger usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:00 AM
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You’re not going to be able to not take this personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:18 AM
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Oliver is ever, autocorrect. You can google them, I’m sure they are in the urban dictionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:52 PM
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I’m not that big on it I’m not going to start protesting, just women always being on a desperate cry for attention with some of them get ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:29 PM
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I find the very promiscuous men and women to be inherently evil in some way. They seem happy go lucky, or ethical in their explanation. Once you know them it’s more a psychotic disorder they can’t quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:57 PM
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I guess I find it annoying just how big of attention whores some women can be. It’s like we’re at a gym and you’re in a bra and I can see your whole butt, calm down, you’re actually annoying most guys and women around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:55 PM
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Total butt hanging out and ripped is kinda new. I don’t think it’s necessary to treat the world like the beach. In Europe you can just take your clothes off at the beach, but women aren’t going topless to the supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:49 PM
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I’m good at pua and getting dates and hookups, I could do it whenever. I find women to be easy, and they have a lot of passion to give. Say like a Chad he evokes what guys see as a more pure attraction, but it’s also woman’s want to have the guy that other women want too, it’s her own validation. With me, women seem to want the idea of me, the package. So they respond how they think I want them to. Which can be whatever I want sometimes. Which makes you right in a way, but wrong in the sense tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:42 PM
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Chronically promiscuous people have an illness, it’s a cycle of addiction. For guys they are addicted to new feelings of lust. Which will end up ruining their life of never being able to have a normal relationship, can’t stop cheating, and having unwanted children. Super promiscuous guys end up paying for a bunch of abortions, std infections become routine, lying and using women is just a means to satisfy a hole in your soul that they carved out themself. Women that are constantly promiscuous ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:21 PM
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Builds up over time, if people keep dating and being casual they lose themselves. Happens to guys too, but women lose more their sense of worth. For most women and guys yes, you might have a few fun times not serious things then you get back. Some women get in an addictive cycle of chasing the next best thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:01 PM
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I think men not being able to experience this “lighthearted” sex fun you speak of is a pillar of the major complaints on this sub. That’s usually reserved by women for attractive men or possess a desirable status. I call women easy and they all like to have their pants charmed off. However, this sex without expectation, just for fun and she doesn’t care to be with him. It happens, but it doesn’t often play out like that. Women are generally having sex with a man more than once because she wishes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:48 PM
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I was into regular yoga pants and tight dresses at the club. Now we got shorts full of holes with ass falling out, crack leggings at the gym where you just see her ass crack. Then just wearing lingerie and fancy bras to the club. It’s past any point that I care to see, let’s just walk around naked if you want at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:31 PM
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Well I got no interest in stimulating no pussy if the woman doesn’t fully want to stimulate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:10 PM
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Dang thats bleak. I wonder this sometimes, think women do things as a matter of circumstance of wanting a relationship and not because of unbridled passion. They just wish to have you, so it’s partly an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:04 PM
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I don’t want to get fked I want her to want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:00 PM
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You’re just spouting nonsense. You get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:58 PM
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It’s not sex, we could not it’s fine. It’s about her passion for me. If she’s pulling back or pushing you away but still coming around, you aren’t the one. You’re a backup at best. She’s lusting for other guys just not you, bank on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:54 PM
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You go to gym and some women got the yoga pants that go all the way up the ass crack. Then you go to the club and women are wearing lingerie. It’s some sort of arms race between other women. I’m fairly certain most men are not asking for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:50 PM
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How does nearly every single woman in the world claim to sleep with 20 or less men? It’s usually around 20 if she’s over 25. As long as you’re getting a relationship and you’re content in it, 20 guys is nothing. I don’t really care about how many men women slept with, that’s not the point. It’s about dating for dreams and not connection. It’s about women satisfying their list of requirements for a man instead of loving a guy they enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:39 PM
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It’s niche, also men don’t want to accept their wife af/bb them. They want to keep women on a pedestal and be pc and agreeable. Women don’t like to be judged, so they don’t. It’s likely ever going mainstream, social media wants it controllled, the pill you can’t speak of has been largely squashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:33 PM
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The problem with waiting is I have gave women the benefit of the doubt on this a number of times. They kept coming around for dates, and I thought they were hot and assumed she just didn’t hookup and needed exclusivity. All those women were all liars, they had 1-2 other men they were fkn and I was a backup. Felt like such a schmuck once I found out. So now they don’t have to have sex, but if they aren’t all over me first date then I know I’m not that woman’s 1st option. She got another guy she a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:26 PM
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So many men are oblivious to what’s going on. When you say things like you cannot get into a relationship with a woman that’s dated for more than 5 years. That unmarried women in their 30s are bad dates, bitter, and toxic as hell. You’re just labeled a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:14 PM
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There’s this concept that men want women to recognize their entitlement of getting affection whenever they want easily. I tell men instead be thankful you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:54 PM
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The way in which women can play this sad story on repeat to gain access to desirable men temporarily, is where the mental health consequences of promiscuity ends up hurting women more. I’ve woken up from a date that stayed over a handful of times and asked, want to be my girlfriend? They all said yes, women don’t get this type of control because men gatekeep the relationship. This is why I tell men don’t be jealous of women’s ability to get dates and affection, because often it comes with no mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:37 PM
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The issue with the modern dating woman is hypergamy was not supposed to scale like this. You shouldn’t be able to go on insta or dating app and attract thousands of men. When this happens it overinflates their ego. Women then misconstrue their own value and keep trying repeatedly with men out of their league. Men can offer a complete change of lifestyle and status, so she’s dating for dreams and not connection. There’s also hot men on her phone she can practically order on command to satisfy the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:29 PM
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You have an interesting way of presenting this argument, but most women do suffer more mental health consequences of promiscuous behavior than men. If a woman has sex with 20 men, even if they take her out on nice dates, are sweet to her, and adored her in the moment. If she just was just an option or gets ghosted repeatedly that hurts women more. I think promiscuity doesn’t affect guys mentally as much, because if you have sex with 5 women, at least one would just agree to be your exclusive gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:46 PM
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How did you watch that video and come to that conclusion? Men don’t like to be assaulted either. If a girl you don’t know gives you a clear enough choosing signal esp in a club, you can walk up and kiss and touch her, because she’s approved the man to advance, she will reciprocate the affection. That video is about unapproved advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:00 PM
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When you have sex with your girlfriend for over a hour, and you feel comfortable, have fun, your girlfriend comes 3 times, you edge together and have deep satisfaction and some of the best sex of your life. That’s why shallow lust is a seven deadly sin. Because you should be searching for that deeper meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:08 AM
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There’s a very popular singles bar well known in our city where young guys go to hookup with milfs. I’m told this is standard in other cities too. Older women who are attractive can date whoever they want, same with attractive older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:06 AM
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I’m not sure if I’ve experienced a real pure lust before and I’ve slept with many women. Women are often love bombing you and faking most of lust, in love with you, want to make you happy, she wants to get off, or you’re just best option in that moment. Chad probably experiences the most real pure lust, where a woman is just giving in to how attractive he is for no reason other than he wants his body. She doesn’t care if he pumps and dumps at all, she just has that craving.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:03 AM
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No warm feelings for your fiancé has nothing to do with lust. This is half of Reddit, just wordplay. You can call lust anything, it doesn’t mean it’s the normal application of the word. Lust is shallow sexual temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:49 AM
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That’s love, that’s you appreciate and are attracted to that person with meaning. Lust is omg I just want to touch that 6 pack and juicy pecs, suck on those big boobs. Kiss that attractive face. No matter the consequences. You may not do it, but that’s lust that temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:45 AM
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It’s all lust, every time you insert in and out it’s just levels of lust. I’m kidding, sex is not lust. It’s the craving based on shallow reasons, not the act or how great the sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:42 AM
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All women like their pants charmed off, if she had a few hoe phases that’s normal for a women with standard libido. If she’s been dating for 4 years straight and can’t pick a boyfriend that’s more of a concern. Whether I like to be around her and she wants me is what I want. You’ll never get the truth out of her anyway. Saying she should say it or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:00 AM
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Working class family, make around 200k/yr. Met her off a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:31 PM
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Sexual fantasies aren’t often what people actually do. There’s guys that care mostly about a woman’s enthusiasm. Then there’s prob more women that try to force it with a guy that’s not that into her he’s just good looking and makes sense on paper. As far as fantasies, all people tend towards someone that’s highly attractive that also really wants you too. They put Fabio on romance novel covers not some random chubby dork. Guys fantasize about a sexually enthusiastic woman, not a sexually disconn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:04 PM
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The 7 deadly sins was written by Geoffrey Chaucer in the classic novel Canterbury Tales. It’s a collection of stories about human fallacy. Lust is one of the sevens deadly sins. In almost all cases sex with your fiancé because you love him a lot is not lust. You’re intentionally genericising the word lust because you don’t want to discuss the guy you randomly did because you wanted him so bad, that’s lust. People that do that a lot are called sluts. You can’t spell slut without lust, the word wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:18 PM
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In the movie 7 about seven deadly sins. Did the serial killer find a loving couple experience warm feelings? Of course not, he went after the guy buying a prostitute to experience lust. Lust is associated with superficial desire, it’s often considered a sin of giving into temptation despite any consequences. Why do people have affairs? To experience lust. Like eating 3 slices of your favorite pie even though you’re on a diet, which is called gluttony another 7 deadly sin. Lust is about temptatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:02 PM
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Finding yourself in the mood and having warm feelings with your fiancé so you go have sex with him is not lust. If it was then 80% of the sex happening in relationships is lust, that’s not lust. You just explained love with your fiancé because it sounds nice. Lusting is seeing maybe a very handsome face, chiseled features, or a big d. Maybe he’s not all that but you find yourself incredibly charmed sexually by his presence. Then getting extremely turned on that you couldn’t stop yourself, you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:44 PM
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Lust by definition is “a strong craving for sex” it’s not about “warm feelings” with your fiancé. Lust is a strong word it’s not general lovemaking, it’s intense and almost always with someone new they find very desirable. No one says I lusted for this man, and it was like warm feelings of love. It’s more the opposite of that, you don’t know what lust is, it’s very shallow and intense. Lust is one of the 7 deadly sins, many people associate it with some negativity, it’s superficial desire withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:32 PM
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That’s not lust, it’s attraction, love, and wanting to make someone happy when you’re in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:15 PM
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I’ve dated rich women they still expect guys to pay for food and outings. They were attractive too and they can just get guys to pay for things and give them what they want. So if a rich woman isn’t going to give me anything, I’m not going to care that much what job she has as long as she has one. Rich woman also coming with a prenup, I’m not getting her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:54 PM
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Dang this is harsh, are you in your 20s? 32-39 who have never been married and no kids are not good to date unless you want to get married or babies quickly. They also dated too long so it’s old hat for them, dates are like interviews. Dating young is not going to guarantee you any stability for ltr. Unless you get her to fall in love with you, she’s young and doesn’t care about consequences. Younger women just tend to be a lot more fun to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:01 PM
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I’ve been to Colombia and Thailand and it’s hard to pull hotties or beautiful women no matter where you are. They got every option on the table anywhere. I will say my city has the most beautiful in shape women per capita. So statistically it does make it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:31 AM
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As a guy you’re validated by women with affection and open availability to be your girlfriend. Unless you’re a golden god guys don’t get showered in validation with words. For women, they have to show how picky they are. Then guys don’t promote other guys they see as their peers like that. So you have to wait for women to physically validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:46 PM
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It’s not super young just any obviously pretty girl can easily shoot to the top guys and get those guys to take her out. If they want a boyfriend they can get above average guys no problem as a boyfriend when they want to stop dating for dreams. The issue for some average guys is they prob landed one or 2 pretty girls in their life and get delusional. Then they establish that as a marker of what they can get, even though she didn’t even want to be his girlfriend. Then the average guys are lonely…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:00 PM
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I think the bar for being a beautiful or hot guy is just too high. For women it’s significantly lower. No one has ever told me that I’m hot or beautiful in my life. Most my girlfriends and even exwife don’t say I’m that great at all. So a lot of guys just classify themselves as above average. I’ve asked friends who were girls to rate me they say 5 or 6. Women smile sometimes, no girl has ever asked me out in my life. I think guys in general underrate themselves because unless he’s clearly gorgeo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:22 PM
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Okay according to facerate.ai they ranked me well and explained me good, perhaps I’m too hard on myself no one calls me hot. facerate.ai Thank you for sharing the image! I will now provide a detailed analysis of the facial features, assessing unique aspects like the eyes, nose, mouth, and overall facial structure, and rate them out of 10. Let’s get started: Analysis: 1. Eyes: The eyes are well-shaped with a strong and engaging presence. The slightly almond shape and the light color create a stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:08 PM
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A US city, you’re never going to believe me then oh well. Women don’t rate guys 1-10 and say yes he’s a 7 and I’m a 7 I’ll swipe right. They look at whether your pics are good and your job title.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:02 PM
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<image> Here’s a convo, she’s pretty cute. If you have good profile like myself and 4 other guys I know dating is not a shit show it’s easy and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:33 PM
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You don’t know guys with good profile, you don’t have a good profile. How much more do you need. I just took a screenshot again here below, this is my 3rd time on this post, I’m a handsome guy not hot. I’ve been on hinge for 30 hrs at this point. I could line up as many dates and most would end in a hookup in an endless loop. Most my dates are very attractive to hot. I worked on 6 great pics though, guys post whatever most the time I’ve flipped on women’s dating apps. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:09 PM
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You know what I found women often want the opposite. If she’s a bit thick she wants a guy with a gym body. If she’s slender she wants a big thick skin muscle boy. This goes down to certain features too I have a small nose for a guy, larger nose women more often want to get with me. Women like offsetting features they subconsciously think about what their kids would like. You want a girl to lust for you, get her convinced you’d make beautiful babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:56 PM
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If you act like you don’t care about $30-40 to pay for some decent date and thinks you’re cute. The bj is going to be that much better, you’re just on a date it’s prob not working out long term. I’m trying to get some affection I’m not ruining it over 2 twenties. If you care that damn much about $30 for a pretty girl that showed up just for you, then you need a better career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:43 PM
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What in the heck, this is terrible. I don’t even like to give away I even want them. I just talk to them, then kiss them outside so it’s more like a surprise and they feel validated. Some guys are simps, it must help them some way I’m not sure why they do this. I’ve asked women to be my girlfriend after one night together if she stays, I just say you should be my girlfriend and they say okay, women don’t like being all romantic these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:38 PM
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Romantic love can last 3 years or so. Then you can love someone like you love your kids, they’re just so much a part of your like and like them, it would be too painful to see them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:29 PM
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If you catch a woman looking at you, then you can approach. You can just totally cold approach but don’t expect her not to be annoyed. If she is, just say bye and walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:28 PM
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Women are more independent than ever, and they got the internet which exponentially increased their options with social media and dating apps. So the cute ones just keep holding off marriage for guys that have options, and don’t want to settle down unless he’s high value and handsome. Cute women pull this off, this is what red pill is generally talking about, cute women who date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:13 PM
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You can message me, I’m a guy in 40s trying to be sexy, which women of all ages like, but I got flat out harassed and laughed at doing a profile review on r/tinder before I started swiping after Christmas. The internet doesn’t allow above average looking men to show off and try to be attractive, guys cut you down. Until I had a bunch of babes following me on insta liking my posts my friends made fun of my Instagram, most guys are shitty to other guys and are cock blockers, they don’t want to see…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:07 PM
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Prob 10% of white guys get to walk around and have women want to have sex with them randomly. 5% of Indian guys get that luxury. There’s hot Indian guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:00 PM
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He would need to have an attractive face, some Indian guys do. Being tall and having Caucasian facial phenotypes is easier to be perceived as attractive. An attractive face is an attractive face regardless of race, and that’s going to be most of it. Middle eastern and Indian guys can be totally hot and exotic to women not used to it. I have green eyes and black hair and women often ask me if I’m middle eastern.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:36 PM
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If you’re under 5’7” it matters, if you’re over 6ft it matters. Being tall with an attractive face is generally most successful puas with women they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:34 PM
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You just work out upper body, don’t have a gut, you can be very bulky with some fat and women like that. Think defensive lineman, those guys are thick, but big. Women can be nearly as attracted to that as a lean muscular six pack. There’s that song called, I need a big boy, that’s the body type that works on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:00 PM
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You need one very clear close selfie of your face on dating apps, I put that as the first photo or the last. Then that’s what matches, face is what mainly gets you women. Looking tall will pull you more women than a gym body too. Women desire lifestyle and physical features that are hard or can’t change. Jaw implant and hair transplant is the greatest thing a guy can do cosmetically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:54 PM
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I’m 6’1” white and took 4 cool vacation pics and a selfie. I have a kinda shirtless pic, if you can pull off some skin that helps tremendously, women want to know what your body looks like. Before I got a hair transplant I was pretty bald and let me tell you having a receding hairline will give you way less matches. Women generally like a full head of hair a lot, it helps so much in real life too it’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:47 PM
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More attractive people are going to evoke more lust. A lot of times women love bomb guys they meet or just get horny sometimes. Women prob end up with guys a lot they never lusted for they just like a lot and want to make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:38 PM
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Guys have success with dating apps, not everyone hates dating. The ratio is not nearly as bad. If it doesn’t work people need an excuse and say dating apps are the worst, no they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:27 PM
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Ha, here’s a screenshot of some messages this morning. Hinge has some fake accounts occasionally it doesn’t have bots like Tinder does, I haven’t ran into any yet in couple days. There’s real women on Hinge, tens of thousand around me, they got to match and go out with somebody. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:23 PM
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Not as highly as an 8 upon first meeting, but yes. Stephen Hawking was a player, so women can lust for 1s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:16 PM
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If you were a 4/10 girl you could make yourself available enough to 7+ guys and you absolutely would have sex and dates every night of your life for years. A few years and not has to move.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:09 AM
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Yes but you’re trapped in a world of desirability. Any desirable woman who dates is going to have high libido too, which is also desirable. So you get some girl you want and enjoy and she will still go metaphorically kicking and screaming into a relationship until she settles down. At some point in the 2010s women became men, and men became women wanting romance and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:10 AM
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How rare are we, is it like 8% of guys. If you know cool dudes who are into chicks, they talk to me like I’m some loser. I’m like I pull girls, I just occasionally do it to find a gf. Then most people on here even most the women, I don’t think they’ve randomly dated around, it’s not something they comprehend. Then how many women? My guess is legit at least 35% of single at any given time. There’s a larger percentage of women who hookup. The casual market is always an option for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:08 AM
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Guys act like women aren’t on dating apps to some crazy 8 to 1 ratio, they don’t hookup, only low value women are on them. Women have low libidos. None of that I believe to be true based on my life experience and others around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:56 AM
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Every woman that requested a FaceTime off apps never went out. I’ve hooked up with 2/3 of matches first date, so I don’t think it’s bc I’m ugly or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:45 AM
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Women hookup with guys, happens a lot. They are sexually attracted to men, keeps species alive, do some research.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:44 AM
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How tf is it so few men seem to understand this. Men and women talk on this sub like I can’t even comprehend. Yes, yes on all of it. I don’t like to date too long because so many women are juggling men. Women screw themselves on the dating market because they are addicts looking for the next high.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:29 AM
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I’ve hooked up with at least 120 women off dating apps off and on the last 8 years, I thought all of them were attractive. Make up whatever fantasy in your head that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:24 AM
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More than half of women under 30 have used dating apps. If you live in a city and get on a few it’s an endless supply of real women that goes in for months on end. There’s hot chicks looking for action on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:20 AM
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Redpill is just talking anything about women and a label. Most women hookup but then half those I think do it because that’s how they try and get a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:19 AM
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I have hotter matches, but I would not say no to her. She got a nice figure and decent face. I can’t even swipe on hinge it won’t let me because I have to keep replying to women to clear out the queue then it will let me. Then I get matches and it fills and I have to keep texting, which isn’t how I work it. Then you’re forced to be too picky to not get the matches to stop, I’m annoyed only was on it for 45 minutes today before I got tired of texting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:12 AM
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It’s more about forcing men to pay than women. Just about everything online gets catered to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:07 AM
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Very hot and high value chicks are on dating apps, you’re really going to have to trust me and 4 other guys I know who get them. Being a hot chick on a dating app is a wonderful experience I’ve seen it first hand. Why go outside where random singles are when you can swipe attractive men at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:03 AM
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Well you don’t need to be jacked and lean to get women, that’s my only argument. Some women really like that though, so if that’s you that’s fairly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:47 AM
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I’m 42 but say I’m 37. I look young I ask random women they say 32 I got full head of hair and no wrinkles. Women in their 20s want me the most by far. Women 32+ are a pain on the apps. They just old hat jaded by dating I think idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:42 AM
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That latin girl in the red? Wth she definitely is not bad. I got like 80 matches today. Hinge won’t let you not reply to women or they stop your ability to match. I used to just rack up hundreds of matches and judge response and sort through them. It was a pain in the ass, they got a stranglehold on the market in my city now the effing around and made it worse. You can’t attach your insta anymore either which was killer for me. Everything good has to be ruined by corporate greed. Dating apps in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:36 AM
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The low value know how much access to top value men they get, and the nice dates. Pretty girls often get used and thrown into harems, get their time wasted. Women have to consciously not choose players, which seems to be hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:33 AM
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I had a gut before believe me I know. Once gut was gone, then girls wanted to suddenly f me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:31 AM
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I was shadow banned on bumble for years, because a girl I was dating grabbed my phone and started calling every match the n word. My account got auto-deleted. Then would I would try it later, it would take a few hours and just stop showing anyone. Shadow banning on apps is strange I can’t really explain it, I assume some women you’ve dated before just report you that’s what I assumed. You have the concept of dating apps nailed, do you consider yourself above average looking? People online say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:30 AM
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Dang this is the most blackpill I’ve ever heard a woman talk before. Women are shallow af I totally agree. However, if you got face, muscular body, and tall that just guarantees you pussy. There’s plenty of players out there that don’t match all that. For me I can be a big player, but I look better with some weight. I got fit and lean and I was out on hot women. Because I found out they liked me with muscle and some weight so I look bigger and my face looks better fuller.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:09 AM
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Unless she’s a gym girl and even then not usually, I’ve not heard this sentiment from women that I only want ripped gym guys. I’ve heard more women talk negatively about gym focused guys. Unless he’s got a great face or lifestyle, I also don’t see ripped guys pulling the best looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:50 AM
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Have you been on dating app and gone on online dates? I’ve been out with fashion models, rich attractive business women, some of the most high value attractive women possible. There’s crap at bars and clubs, all hot women got an Instagram these days. Attractive women love dating apps, that’s how they get the attention of the best men in her 50 mile radius. Although it’s way popular than prob most guys can imagine, most women don’t want to go out with a sugar daddy. They want handsome high value …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:41 AM
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It’s about the backgrounds, it’s about showing a lifestyle that reflects your personality. You can tell a whole story about yourself with 6 pictures and you add what your job is that’s all she’s looking at. Most guys miss that part of being interesting and trying to be attractive and expect women to rate you 1-10 like guys do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:36 AM
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Bio and prompts don’t matter. It’s interesting attractive photos, and a career sounding job. That’s what you need for matches, you don’t need muscles or be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:33 AM
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I agree, if you got a charming mouth and a face, you can be 25lbs overweight and pull babes no problem. Most women aren’t obsessed with gym bodies, they all love attractive faces though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:31 AM
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I think you’re off your rocker. Nothing about any of this would explain any normal situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:29 AM
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I’ve made this argument before and I’m always downvoted. Since the start of Instagram, if she’s sexy the likelihood of her currently or have participated in some form of the sex industry is very high. Hot women go on dating apps just as much as regular, they want a high value attractive dates, and maybe have a sugar daddy or have simps. They don’t want the simps though, they’ll use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:28 AM
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I’ve been fat before, women don’t want to go out with a fat guy, even a fat girl. So yea got to diet, helps a lot. Do you need toned full body muscle definition, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:23 AM
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Making up exceptions like you saying I sat on them for 2 years and didn’t go on one date, that’s not a normal experience. That’s not a real argument, of course they’re is every possible scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:22 AM
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You don’t need to go to the gym to get girls online and in real life, just don’t have flabby arms or a gut. If you start lifting don’t expect to get babes, it might not work. I look better 20lbs overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:19 AM
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I think that’s a stretch, what you need to not have is any protrusions of fat or obvious fat face, you don’t need muscles to get women. It does help though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:17 AM
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Women sitting on dating apps for 2 years and so picky they don’t go on one date, is not the experience of at least 30 women I’ve known talk about dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:16 AM
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I live in the US and the women are from the US within 30 miles of me, wth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:57 AM
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If you look at all the profiles on r/tinder it would be the same advice every time, be interesting and make a real attempt to be attractive. Average men are shamed online by their friends for doing that so they don’t blue steel or show off. If you do that, that shit works on dating apps, women like men doing cool stuff and acting tough or cute. Men want to praise each other for delts and triceps and that’s about it, if you try and actually be attractive they’ll make fun of you. I had guys laugh …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:54 AM
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You can’t get people online to understand that an above average looking man, easily matches and gets dates from above average looking women on dating apps. Women literally have to date someone, most women don’t want to go on a date with a muscled chad, if he’s handsome and got interesting photos they are down. Women are on apps and they are actually real. They definitely aren’t bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:50 AM
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They’re is 5 white American girls there, latin, and one black girl. There isn’t one Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:47 AM
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So you think you have an average face but everything else is good, or what do you think is the issue? You don’t need a gym body, but it definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:11 AM
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<image> Here’s screenshot reference from last paragraph of post after being on hinge for first time in 2 years this morning, with some matches responses. Since you can’t add pics to op.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:01 AM
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I think you obviously need to have sex and enjoy it. As far as intensity, how long, how great it is or isn’t, I haven’t found that much correlation in relationship happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:44 PM
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Passport bro isn’t 90 day fiancé guys. Guys who marry a woman so quickly are nuts, takes 6 months to see what relationship you actually got. Then 90 day guys you’re bringing that girl over, she may not speak English well, no job prospects, such a desperate move.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:33 PM
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You can’t marry a woman that doesn’t love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:58 AM
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I think the way men get older women is with fake business plans or fake investments. I’ve heard stories of guys that did it, I don’t know anyone. There was also this Italian movie on Netflix with this hot 40 yr old guy scamming this 70 yr old rich woman. He ended up not scamming her and he fell in love with her, it was kinda good my gf had it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:10 AM
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Can you just drive a 97 yr old to a courthouse, will they let you do it. She said it crossed her mind more than a few times and he said he may go through with it. Anna Nicole married a guy that old, they had a wedding though. The really old guy with lots of money showering a sexy girl with money 50+ yrs younger is not that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:02 AM
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I told the hot girl she should’ve tried to marry him, he had a 8 million dollar home. She said she thought about it, but his family would’ve stepped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:38 AM
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High level fraud for lots of money guys do that. The hot girl making 500k/yr she had a legit caretaker job, he bought her 150k car, sent her 2 kids to most elite private school in town, and paid her crazy hourly. She said he was in love with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:34 AM
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High level fraud for lots of money men to women. For a ridiculous exchange for someone’s time woman to a man. For petty money like $200 women to men, or guys pretending to be women online. I was kinda dating this hot girl who had big boobs and butt, she was a cutie. She was working for a 97 yr old man and she would just take him out to lunch and ran a few errands, she was making in total benefit 500k/yr, the guy died and she didn’t act like she was devastated, but she was devastated. Guys are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:27 AM
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Here’s what they looked like time share girl with rich parents was 36, others early 20s. The model had big boobs she just always hid them somehow. I tried to upload a pic that was Salma lookalike of her butt, comment keeps getting taken down, it was a masterpiece guess kinda have take word for it. I wanted these girls so bad for a couple months it was insane, thought I died and went to heaven first couple weeks. Then after awhile I didn’t feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:53 AM
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Guys like younger women because attractive successful older women are too demanding. Even loser older women living in a basement who go to gym. think they deserve something special. Guys just want to be loved and have fun and let things progress naturally. That’s what younger women do, they just want a fun boyfriend they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:39 AM
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I had a hot girl that had a time share business that made millions, her parents owned a large luxury hotel I stayed at with incredible mountain views. I loved her as hard as I could, but she was neurotic and demanding I couldn’t take it and broke up with her. My dream girl physically is Salma Hayek, she was like her with a hotter face, tight body, very long silky black hair, and big round butt. I fell in love at first sight, to this day I think she’s so gorgeous. She was a physical therapist, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:47 AM
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If you want a successful boss babe with great mental health go for that. Guys can fall quickly in love with damaged women, same with women. I’ve seen the most desire when I was a depressed mess, when I was happy and confident some women aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:31 AM
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If a man has his shit together, he’s in shape, got his own place, and car. He holds the cards, he does what he wants. Just don’t have a partner who has no source of income that’s not going to work well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:22 AM
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You’ve never had a boyfriend dang, find a guy who likes you and really like him back it’ll work out. If you don’t feel it after 2 weeks bail and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:18 AM
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If it’s just sex and physical in my experience I couldn’t last more than 6 weeks if I didn’t really enjoy them. I got some of my absolute dream women I wanted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:17 AM
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Without seeing you and your bfs who knows, some nerdy guys are actually quite attractive and they can do well with their brain. Women have a third eye they see overall genetics. Women tend to be a bit more into cute nerds than masculine jocks so tough to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:07 AM
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Women will go 2 points below their looksmatch no problem, if the guy has a host of other qualities that pique her own interest. Guys never want to do that unless he’s 100% taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:01 AM
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Don’t let a girl who doesn’t know you interview you, just get her talking and play off her. You just sitting talking about all your life goals and what you are looking for in a woman is not going to work. Plus, people change their mind, I thought I just wanted to be casual then the next day I said you’re my girlfriend and she agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:27 AM
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You’re trying to hold her interest you don’t do that by being an open book.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:45 PM
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Be mysterious don’t give yourself away, that’s common advice with a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:42 PM
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If she says she wants a baby in 3 months and you say I do too and don’t that’s lying. If she says what you’re looking for and you just say a girlfriend and maybe love at the moment, and be more vague it’s fine. Don’t be definitive and too honest with a woman you don’t know, she will not respect you or be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:40 PM
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You can’t give yourself away or give her any outs with a response she doesn’t like. So you be vague and just have a regular conversation not an interview. If you keep going and let her interview you and you just sit and be honest, she will think you’re an oversharer and clam up even if she likes the responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:37 PM
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You say what they want to hear and be mysterious as you can, don’t list out intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:08 PM
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Are you going to a small college or live in a small town in Utah or something. You’re dating, you are single until you’re not, talk to whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:03 PM
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When other women find out that you date attractive women or see you with an attractive woman romantically, they want to find out why. Most people don’t even know what red pill is, no one cares if a guy is a player, if they want him they want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:43 PM
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Women are easy, the steps are enjoyable. You see a pretty girl on a dating app, insta, or somewhere. You go out together and have conversation and fun. Then she comes over and gets with you. Then you might get a relationship and love. If there is some other process I don’t need to know about it, because the standard one of meeting someone is great. If sometimes dates don’t work out or she says no, oh well find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:13 PM
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I cook 3-4 times a week, I keep cars clean, I clean the whole house, I do laundry. They might help sometimes but I do the majority of it. That makes her want to stay with me, they enjoy it. The only situation it would turn her on is if he rarely cooks then does it. My girlfriends are highly attracted to me and would have sex with me anytime I want happily, but me cleaning doesn’t turn them on, it does the opposite. Also, so many women like yourself on this sub can’t debate. They just intentional…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:01 PM
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You want to get her to have the hots for you? Hire a maid. Women don’t get turned on seeing you scrub the bathroom. I’ve had 7 girlfriends see me do this, not one got attracted ever, there’s no choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:53 PM
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Yes I get told this all the time too, it doesn’t make them more attracted to you. Actually watching your man vacuum the house is emasculating in a woman’s eyes. Like is said, I’ve spent hours cleaning up the whole house, while they sit and watch Netflix countless times. I never looked back at them and they seemed attracted, it makes them less attracted. You want to get a woman attracted to you? Pick a fight with some annoying things she’s doing, then makeup and she will give you the best sex she…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:51 PM
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There’s not a way to game women, an example of red pill game advice is be less needy to a woman interested in you. Red pill would tell the incel to improve yourself and life situation, not do this one simple trick and you’ll be a player. What’s so terrible about that advice? Women are a monolith they all like looks and status, they are humans and have predictability. What women hate about red pill is it’s critical of their behavior, which they are a protected class online bc social media compani…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:44 PM
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Red pill in terms of dating is largely about above average women who date around and common behaviors between many of them. Which tends to be accurate with your own experiences, which is why it works. Women want to talk like red pill is chronically online hating women fairy tales and they’re all unique butterflies. People have common behaviors, we live in a society. The point of red pill is to say oh yeah that’s happened, then a guy offering a recommendation on how to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:36 PM
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Red pill is a guy saying I’m red pill and talking openly about women without being pc. That’s all it is, there’s no strict guidebook. I was told their kinda was one from a blog many years ago. Now it’s just a moniker for clicks. A red pill guy might offer great advice or he might not, and that could be different per guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:07 PM
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There’s truly not barely a straight single man in the world that’s turning down that 20 yr old Jake Paul ring girl. I would venture to guess at least 70% of men would cheat with her. She’s a dream girl, guys normally don’t get chances with a girl like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:03 PM
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You can have an emotional connection with a 20 yr old. I’ve met 20 yr olds that are much more mature, interesting, and respectable than many women in their 40s. Even if you would prefer someone closer to your age, if some hot 20 yr old wants to go out and he’s single, he’s not saying no, he will give it a whirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:57 PM
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There’s dates and relationships that form from social media and dating apps because they know some shared friends or met before already. So one reached out online and it went from there. That’s the majority now and a good reason to have solid social profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:29 PM
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That’s similar, that’s acts of service which every woman claims she loves that, it doesn’t turn her on it makes you look weak, it’s a reason to stay with a man, it doesn’t get her attraction spiking. You want women to submit to you, act aloof, bitch about them, then push them away. That’s what turns women on is being difficult. Women say they like a man who cleans the house. Throughout every relationship I’ve ever had I’m the neat one who cleans the cars, the house, makes dinners. The only time …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:20 PM
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It doesn’t scale linearly, women care about the top 20% in looks and status. Men care about the top 30% in looks. Tell a mid girl about AF/BB and she will be like I’ve done one hot buff guy, and went on a date with a couple guys who had bunch of money. It didn’t work out, give me a break, I bet you got a real pretty girl once. She can’t date like you talk, you’re discussing noticeably sexually attractive women who are addicted to attention and want a buffet of men to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:28 PM
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Certainly some average women who date fit into red pill theory. Average women can’t advertise themselves like above average women can. Avenger women can’t just shoot to the top with hypergamy like the pretty girl, it will only work out in being used. If you’re a cute fit girl and you’re dating you wield power, red pill has analysis on how that power gets used. The other side is anti-feminism. Which feminism has got so holier than though and annoying, I think half of women are tired about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:20 PM
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He was a jerk, ill tempered, expected women to lust for him. The other type of guys who get dates and gets upset at women. He is in a shallow market that is about instant attraction like insta, dating apps, singles bars and clubs. They can’t get a woman in those casual arenas to be instantly into him. They know guys who can so they are mad at women’s standards which are artificially high if she’s dating in casual markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:13 PM
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It’s a generalization of the women that’s relative to the single man who wants to date. He wants pretty women to submit to him sexually, he wants real options for a relationship. They take women’s issues and toss it out the window, because they can get sex they are privileged, which isn’t a privilege in itself, but to most guys it seems like it is. There’s girls in the dating market that are exploiting the other side, the only way women can do this is by being noticeable attractive. This ends up…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:03 PM
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There is a lot of sides to redpill the gender inequity anti-feminism stuff almost no one cares about. Reason is the top 20% of men have it so good, that women are jealous of them. Then all women care about is the top 20% of men, so any average guys concerns they don’t care. It’s a top man’s world and women have a glass ceiling to achieve a certain type of life fulfillment they know can’t reach top men, so they don’t want to hear about average men. Women are looking up at the top men who have it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:11 PM
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Most all women who can be are gold diggers, the other smaller percentage are boy crazy and chase after looks. Saying women are gold diggers is ridiculous because women who have many options for dates, tends toward the successful ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:51 PM
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Like a lot of things avoidant attachment comes from childhood. Give that to a pretty girl, and that’s why we say hot girls are crazy. The single hot women left on the market sabotage relationships and have a disconnect with reality. They keep doing this because they’re hot so they can self indulge in narcissism and still get by, which makes them act crazy and have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:48 PM
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The problem with red pill is it’s an analysis of the attractive, social, above average libido woman, who also wants to date around. It’s a fairly accurate characterization of the top 15% of single women that all men want. Which makes sense, the lives of a below average woman are not concerning because men don’t want them. Most women are not in any position to really ponder your list, they are just trying to find some decent guy. They can’t get the very attractive men or very successful men. For …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:32 PM
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When I’ve done this with even a long term girlfriend. That’s when their hypergamy sparks. They’ll start to think, I got this man to give me what I wanted, I should find another guy that can give me more and do it again. That thought alone, even if she doesn’t act on it, will make her lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:23 PM
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If they are in the bottom 20% of looks, if he makes $400k/yr he can still get bottom 40% women. Of course he’s not going to land babes, because looks is always at least half of it for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:17 PM
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The top 20% of guys should have near zero complaints about dating. If you say dating sucks and you’re handsome and you got your own place, then that’s totally on you. It’s not to say it can’t still be hard, but it sucks is ridiculous. The rest have too high expectations, people aren’t terrible. Many people who date have great expectations that are never going to be fully satisfied. You got barely above average women out there thinking they all deserve handsome, tall, successful men. It can’t wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:13 PM
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2% of guys are virgins by 25 and you are in the top 1% of income earners, that combo being countless is a giant stretch. I would say it would basically never happen. If you got a big nice house and drive a $100k+ car, you’ll instantly be able to pull more attractive women than you currently are. $400k/yr is a whole lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:07 PM
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I’m most turned on by the most attractive women who also want you back a lot. However, if you just end up with some hot lazy girl on your couch asking you what’s for dinner every night, you’re going to get sick of her even if she’s a 10. You can’t just have a lust relationship in perpetuity that wears off by a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:04 PM
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If you suddenly shower your girlfriend with love, affection, gifts, or a trip. They like it as it happens a lot, then something flips in them after the high they lose attraction. It’s because they got what they wanted and it wasn’t enough, didn’t sustain happiness. You pumped her up and now it’s deflated. There’s a saying, the quickest way to lose a woman is to give her everything she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:56 PM
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You don’t think making $300k+/yr is going to help you with women? Here in the US, it will all but guarantee him women. It’s not they are gold diggers, they aren’t asking for money, but they can attach to his lifestyle. Live at his nice place, drive his g wagon. Some guys get into relationships that financially benefit them and often get presents from their girl, I must say I’m jealous of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:50 PM
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If you go on 10 dates and not 1 had interest in a relationship with you, there’s something wrong you’re doing. You could be picking bad or acting bad. If you think you’re an average guy, not below average. You can’t get 10 dates a year, you say no women will date me. Then you’re not really trying, you’re not average, or you keep asking above average women. Average women will date average men, some won’t but average people are most likely to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:39 PM
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This to me is the worst part of dating is women not cancelling until I walk out the door. I check on them during the day, make sure it’s good. They say yes and confirm time and place, they reply looking forward to meeting you. A few minutes before I leave I text again saying I’m headed there and they say sorry can’t make it. The women won’t ever give you a reason why. I would not had cared if they canceled mid day. Women off dating apps would do this. This happened so often I wondered why women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:20 PM
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It happened to me in college a bunch, after awhile I started wondering what was wrong with me. I thought I was bad in bed, my personality was weird. I’m not sure what it was, college girls are flaky and I wasn’t that interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:15 PM
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I’ve been on lots of dates, 10% of the time I was the idiot, 10% of the time they were rude and annoying. 80% of the rest were just people hanging out, and most of them were enjoyable to be around. If you’re picking bad people consistently or dates are escalating to animosity, then there’s something bringing it there. It’s either one or the other. Most women I’ve been out with I didn’t know beforehand, and have decency and courtesy. There’s a friend of mine that’s handsome and was going on lots …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:10 PM
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Women with no source of income or some bs part time job should be red pill law to avoid for a relationship. A woman with a good source of income is a big turn on for me. I’ve dumped local young hot models because they made a few k a month with their agency with a few gigs a month and were just lazy as hell, gets old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:51 AM
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This is every woman who talks about fertility issues online. Their attitude is if women can’t have kids in their late 40s men shouldn’t either. Women can have kids in their 40s and men into their 70s with vast majority no issues at all. Whether they’re producing enough sperm or still releasing eggs is the main issue by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:26 AM
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For men it’s 55, for women it’s 50 that’s when people start really discriminating regardless of what you look like. You can have a kid in your 40s that’s fear mongering and shaming for no reason, just because likelihood goes from .5% to 3% and it’s 6x greater in 40s, it’s still low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:08 AM
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I would care more about her relationship status and for how long. If she slept with 10 guys in college and 10 guys while dating but was in a relationship 8 of the last 10 years, then I’m less concerned. She had 2 hoe phases to get over a guy and then picked one, I’ve done that and that’s normal. What’s not normal, she’s a girl that’s gone on 90 dates the last 7 years but only slept with 12. Then she kept 9 of them as fwbs while she kept dating. She likes dating and variety and not relationships.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:33 PM
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We shouldn’t judge women for how many sexual partner they have, we should consider what she does with her sexual partners and for how long. I would rather have a woman that had sex with 20 guys in 4 months and picked one for a long term relationship and was faithful to him. Than a woman that had sex with 10 guys over 3 years and kept 7 of them as fwbs or lied to them about being exclusive, while she went out dating finding other men. The dating women who juggle men or keep side guys, are the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:24 PM
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I would think more highly of her, most women abort the child. To bring it to the world and give it to a family who wants nothing more than a baby is a beautiful thing. She probably doesn’t say anything because some guys and women are dumb and would hate on her, she doesn’t have to disclose everything until she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:08 PM
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They haven’t tanked at all, if the woman has a career and they look attractive. Those older attractive life together ladies are more in demand for a relationship than young hot broke women. If she’s 37 and still looks good she can date 22-57 yr old men easily. Women don’t truly hit a wall until 50, that’s when even if they do maintain themselves well guys will still discriminate against her, she can still date just not in the top guys anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:06 PM
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There’s way too many men with money that can’t get a pretty girl very often, and will lock her down with long term commitment marriage and a baby at her request. Guys are absolutely suckers for pretty girls, like women are getting cheated on and pumped and dumped by hot men. We like to sit on the internet and act that very attractive people don’t have power over the mids in general, they absolutely do. I’ve told guy friends, don’t you dare give that broke ass ho attractive girl in her 30s preyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:19 PM
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Men would absolutely hate a pump and dump if it just kept happening over and over, they would bitch to high heaven about women using them if it started suddenly happening en masse. Pity sex can happen in relationships, then women wonder why they get cheated on. She don’t care to put in any effort anymore so men get super excited when some woman will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:10 PM
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I wouldn’t seriously date a woman with a sternum tattoo. Who cares if it’s a guy, he’s just doing a job they’re not getting off together.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:24 PM
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If a woman wants you to take her somewhere nice and out of the way for a first date it means she doesn’t want you. If a woman will drive right by your place and share a pizza at a decent place she likely wants you. If she wants you to meet halfway, or go by her place, then I say I’m not paying then. She gets pissy and bails and that’s okay she didn’t want you either. She knows you want a place by your place, so she can easily come over after and is resisting that thought. That’s fine, I’m just n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:43 PM
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Red pill is common flaws and issues you will run into with women who date, or things that happen in a relationship that isn’t necessarily your fault. How women act selfishly and what to look out for. Women and men on this sub will defend women’s honor or call it some outlier situation when it happens to you. This situation is debatable, but I believe men love women more intensely because that’s who we protect. We’re supposed to look out for them. They end up being more like one of our kids after…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:22 PM
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If you’re an above average looking American woman and you want to date, it’s a cultural issue that’s unique to here. If you’re a guy who wants to date and you’re attractive then you’re dating the above average women a lot. People use dating apps to get dates and hookup. Red pill stuff is real if you’re talking about specific types of women you meet while dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:22 AM
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Women don’t love you, they love what you provide to them. Some women are capable of romantic love and lust, but that’s temporary until she gets bored with it, which is a matter of a few years if you’re lucky. The only women that stay with guys long term these days know they won’t get any better than him. That’s why the more unattractive a woman is, the younger she gets married. Dating doesn’t benefit the ugly woman or come with any real dreams, she can’t get men part of the attractive status quo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:05 AM
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Now with onlyfans the business model has changed and they have an online pimp the owner of OF. Before being a pornstar to make big money you were a high end escort. Which is still done, but not necessary now with simps paying for porn content in exchange for some form of connection that most the time isn’t her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:00 AM
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Good lucking spending zero dollars on women, I know men who do it, they have to date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:14 PM
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I get over it by making her show up at a place by my house since she probably realizes I’m paying. Half the time I’m getting pizza or Chinese food and a couple drinks, she showed up so she’s prob down for affection, I just don’t care to possibly mess it up, odds are it’s not going to work out for a relationship, but her coming over after is highly likely. If you think $30 is a prostitute don’t ever ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 08:05 PM
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I guess, but I tend to go on dates for fun. I’m not thinking about a relationship I’m thinking about wanting her, because that’s why I asked her out. She might get with you anyway, but the bj will be that much better if you paid for a $15-20 plate of food and 2 drinks. Plus, I would like to see the guy that’s got a hot girl that shows she is way into him, that don’t have $30 to seal the deal. If she asks for a steak dinner, tell her to F off, just go somewhere halfway decent. If she’s mid and is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:18 PM
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Yes, I’ve experienced both sides of what he was talking about. Many women want what they can’t have, if you want them they think you are lesser than the guys that didn’t. It’s really messed up, plenty of broken women out there due to the sometimes intense dopamine release of sleeping and dating around with desirable men. Some women get addicted and get bored with their boyfriend because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:21 PM
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All men would take Margot Robbie in wolf of wall street out on a date if she made it clear she wanted him. Not Margot Robbie, but that type. If you’re a real sexy latin girl looking like Sofia Vergara that’s another every guy’s type. Some women are just universal hot and guys would get with her for being that attractive and to say they did. Some women give you status to get more women, if women found out you dated a 10 and dumped her, that tends to turn women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:14 PM
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Have you ever met a girl that you thought was hot and had a great body. She was lustful in bed, had one night stand or few weekends together. Then you don’t really hear from her for some unknown reason. Then you find out later from someone that she’s the type of girl that just sleeps around a lot with guys, she’s a loser, people don’t respect her at all. No big deal, it was fun and you don’t think about her and don’t care to see her again. This same scenario will happen to a woman and she still …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:52 PM
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This is 3 separate questions. Pornstars travel and often are escorts to make the real money. There’s all types of models so it’s hard to say, if they are successful then they prob want to be with someone to make them more famous or at least more rich, that’s hard to come by. As far as attractive, the less attractive you are, the more likely you are to marry younger on average because there’s no great benefit or fun to dating. If you’re a very attractive woman all men regardless of how hot the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:15 PM
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