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You say that but you can’t seem to elaborate how :( C’mon, use your words, argue your point effectively you’re a big girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:54 PM
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Lol so you’re back on bsing me. Are you gonna directly argue against OP or keep waffling about? Are you capable of earnestly addressing an argument in good faith? “The individual decides what is an entitlement” is mealy-mouthed nonsense. You want to preserve your privilege and hold the other party to gender roles you’ve already abandoned. I see why you think everyone is a hypocrite, you’re patient zero. Like I said we can talk compatibility after if you want, but that’s not the focus of the OP o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:53 PM
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And you get heated and bothered too when a man looks you dead in the face and expects you to pay your half. I’ve seen it in real time and its hilarious to see the energy shift when a woman shows her true colors. Saves an enormous amount of time sussing out compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:44 PM
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What a riveting debate Axis_Control. You really had me at the edge of my seat with your expert appeals and carefully crafted arguments. You’re a top 1% commenter and yet all you do is troll? Such a sad life I want better for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:41 PM
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They think we’re dumbass middle school boys and not grown men with options. That’s not my dream woman lol. That’s an entitled headache that isn’t compatible with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:40 PM
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As you should queen. Make your boyfriend’s pockets hurt sis
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:39 PM
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Do you want a cookie? My statement still holds. Go tell your boyfriend to pay for your dinner and be your pay piggie weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:34 PM
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Do that then? You’ll probably end up back on reddit complaining about that man anyways so none of us will be standing around with bated breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:29 PM
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Serbia is different than the states. Plenty of people do dinner dates here for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:28 PM
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LOL, you’re not my “dream girl” if you go into our first meeting with each other already brimming with entitlement. Next! No self respecting man is cowed by the thought of losing a woman. No woman who actually likes you will completely cut things off over a $100 dinner bill. That was really funny though thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:28 PM
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Don’t go on a date with them then. The world will keep spinning, don’t wait up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:25 PM
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I’m gonna order you a chia pet so you can feel a semblance of grass. A woman expecting a man to pay for her dinner indicates she’s entitled and low interest herself. She should want to be there because of me, and my interests should manifest through the fact I invited her out and showed up. Insecure much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:22 PM
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Uh oh I used too many lols, you’re so weird. Argue away since you’re so passionate about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 12:35 PM
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May I ask how old you are? I can’t imagine a guy in his mid 20’s needing a whole day to be able to get hard again without an underlying medical condition. And yea it’s not that deep. I’m not annoyed, I’m telling you to chill out lol. This quirky interest you have isn’t as revelatory as you think it is, and I’m making you aware of that. 45 million women having a higher libido, like I said before, doesn’t change the fact that vastly more relationships will have the man wanting sex more than the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:56 AM
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The issue is gendered in the sense women and attractive men have the unique privilege of being the “choosers” and with that, it is much easier to decenter dating, since you can know there will always be someone there to take you as you are. That security alleviates an enormous psychological burden in the shape of an abundance-like mindset rather than scarcity. Women are on dating apps, they’re just not consistently on there. I have woman friends, I’m Gen Z and college educated. It comes and goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:46 AM
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A “naturally long refractory period” is like 30 minutes to 1 hour for a healthy young man in decent shape. It’s not that deep. I’m sorry for the guy that experienced “emotional distress” but that’s not a normal reaction to not being able to get it up, that’s a catastrophic response. It’s not really harmful and this is a weird thing to get hung up on. That lot of women does not negate the fact that, on average, men have higher libidos than women. In much more relationships than not, the man will …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:24 AM
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I agree that your experience and the experiences of other high libido women are real, but that doesn’t change the veracity of whether men on average have a higher sex drive than women. In the very article you sent, the author stated that it is very common for men to want sex more in a relationship than women. He provided an evopsych explanation for why women are more careful about “expressing” their sexuality, but for the purposes of material reality, you can say a man that is constantly wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:15 AM
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Okay, the guy who will take you as you are isn’t exactly who you want, but plenty of women compromise that for a litany of reasons. It’s not the guy she wants the most ultimately, it’s the guy who stays around, is consistent, and tolerable to be around most of the time. I’m not sure what red pillers have to do with that. They’re men who are more likely beggars than choosers themselves so their lists are irrelevant. And they compromise on those standards all the time, just like women. Lets not ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:05 AM
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Your experience as a high libido woman doesn’t negate the fact men on average have higher libidos. Like I understand how that must feel for you, seeing the popular consensus directly contradict your own experience, but try not to get too self-centered and personal with these conversations. Your “lived experience” doesn’t negate statistical fact or make it a harmful stereotype. It isn’t “harmful” to say men have higher libidos. It can become problematic if its used to justify shitty behavior, sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:52 AM
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I don’t agree that compatibility is in anyway pertinent to whether or not that expectation comes with it a sense of entitlement. You’re trying to squirm like you partner in the thread, who eventually gave up by stating I have “black and white thinking” and then when I countered, decided to go with “everyone is a hypocrite”. It’s not looking good for you guys, you’re waffling, so let’s stay on topic. Is someone, man or woman, expecting another to pay 100% of their bill on a date entitlement or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:40 AM
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Regardless of compatibility, it is entitlement. Stay on topic, okay? I made the mistake of centering myself in this. Do I take it that you agree it’s entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:26 AM
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Wonderful love. Hope that works out for you. Never settle for less, even if it takes you years to find that perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:18 AM
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An expectation of 50/50 is good An expectation of the other party paying 100 is entitlement Do I need to go slower for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:14 AM
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Yes, rapists say yes. A rapist would say yes to your hypothetical, none other would. Rapists operate on power, domination and entitlement. I’m not sure where this is going. You just brought up that wild rapey shit to justify your entitlement to a man paying for your share of dinner, and that doesn’t sound crazy to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:08 AM
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You are a hypocrite, particularly when it comes to dating, so don’t project that onto others what applies to you primarily. Your cynicism is your own cross to bear. What’s in my interests romantically does not conflict with my principles and beliefs. I expect 50/50 because I’m a post modern man who believes in equality, acceptance of others of different identities, and progressive ideals for the betterment of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:05 AM
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No??? What the fuck? I want my partner to want to have sex with me. What type of sicko would say otherwise? Would you? Are you fine coercing others to do things they probably don’t want to do, as long as it makes you feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:59 AM
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Someone else gets what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:58 AM
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Oh so I just need to get older to see that I’m a hypocrite? Lol, I don’t want to sound mean but I’m starting to feel bad for you. It is not okay to have “dual thinking”. Where I’m from we call those people “fake”.That will manifest in problems in your relationships, especially as people get closer to you. You probably need to fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:56 AM
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Someone else gets that you’re also fickle, unprincipled and a hypocrite? Like attracts like for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:54 AM
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What you said undoubtedly takes nothing away from what I’ve already said. Great for her, great for me. We both have the privilege of not feeling the need to kiss the other’s ass. I get to date women who see me an equal, and not “undesirable” because I won’t accommodate their entitlement. I’m not cowed by the thought of losing a woman, because another will follow in a reasonable amount of time, same applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:51 AM
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Lol, that’s what the privilege is for. If she’s willing to give up a great guy like me over a $100 bill, on to the next. Entitlement is an ick for me and I run a tight ship. If she won’t someone else will assuredly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:31 AM
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Yea and ironically your cynicism manifests itself in you exhibiting those exact same tendencies. Not everyone is unprincipled, fickle and a hypocrite. And thankfully those are qualities you can improve on as well. Whether through self care or therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:28 AM
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Yes, attractive desirable men enjoy privilege. It’s great! You don’t have to deal with a woman that treats you like a beggar who has to prove something to her. She’s equally interested and you go into a relationship with her on equal ground. You’re way more likely to find a healthy relationship when you’re an attractive man, provided that’s what you’re looking for. Ironically, attractive men operate much more like women romantically than they do like traditional portrayals of men. No scarcity mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:23 AM
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Now I “see things in black and white” lol. No, I just hold consistent beliefs and principles. I don’t bend my understanding of words and rules to benefit myself. Sorry, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:16 AM
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Yes, we agree on that I already said that before. They should leave. He should feel grateful he dodged a bullet from an entitled woman. But it’s still entitlement. No “some feel entitled some don’t” nonsense going on. Don’t try and squirm right now. Is it “some feel entitled some don’t” for husbands too? You have such an odd way of debating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:07 AM
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Nah, I just wanted to be funny. You can have it bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:04 AM
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Hell yea brother, let them hear your roar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:03 AM
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Yes, and the entitled husband who wants sex from his wife even when she doesn’t want it also wants to feel special. Doesn’t change the nature of the entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:03 AM
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Even the most radical communist country on the planet (China) has a completely cutthroat capitalist system fueling its growth. Eat or be eaten. You only gain compassion if you work for it and force people to show it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:01 AM
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I said you can complain about it. Complain until you’re blue in the face. Don’t find peace with it, don’t change anything. Complain all day if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:59 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:58 AM
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You can complain all you want. Complain away, won’t change your material reality. Find peace with it or change whatever is necessary (within legal bounds) to free yourself from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:57 AM
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I think most people would agree a partner feeling entitled to sex in a relationship is an abhorrent attitude to have. That sounds disgusting no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:55 AM
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That guy told you all that on the first date? He needs to decenter women and humanize himself, he sounds like a walking wallet. Obviously if one party insists then the onus would not be on you to insist you split. But, being social animals and having social conventions that have spanned centuries, the archaic expectations would be on the man to pay 100%. Thankfully we live in a post-modern society, so that is entitlement since women work jobs and can provide for themselves fully without a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:54 AM
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Reply to your edit: Yes, expecting sex from your partner in a relationship is entitlement and would most likely eventually lead to sex drying up. You have to put in consistent effort building and maintaining attraction, including maintaining your appearance. What was the point in making that edit? Are you fighting ghosts, because that came out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:48 AM
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Anybody who’s older than like 35 shouldn’t comment on how young people date. You exist in a reality fundamentally different from young people, and your advice is obsolete and nearing obsolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:44 AM
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Wow this is a new, bespoke, form of thinking I’ve never encountered before. So it’s “equity” to expect a man to pay, and not “entitlement”? This is some marketing magic wordplay at work here. Seems to me you cynically and arbitrarily bend rules to benefit you. It’s entitlement. Own it if it applies to you, it won’t hurt you. I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:41 AM
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That is the basis of the original post, so yes, I am debating on the merits of whether it is entitlement. I thought this was a debate sub?? If you can’t handle the heat get out of the kitchen my goodness. “Women are different than men” until you conveniently want to be seen as the same. Does it feel good to navigate the world with no principles?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:32 AM
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Completely ignore everything I said and replied to only my last paragraph. What was the point in even replying? You could have just ignored it but you put in effort to be lazy, remarkable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:26 AM
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Are those relationships good relationships though? Do those men feel valued by their partners? Not all? i can tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:25 AM
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It is entitlement. The “effort” doesn’t manifest in a single monetary contribution during our first time meeting each other. The effort manifests through consistent compatible behavior over an extended period of time. That’s a low effort cop-out to defend the maintenance of archaic standards as I said before, which just looks worse than outright owning it. Own the entitlement, tell us to kick rocks, but don’t gaslight us that that isn’t what is going on. Him paying on the first date won’t stop h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:23 AM
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This is why being a desirable man is peak, you don’t meet women like this that treat you like a supplicant beggar who should be grateful that she chose to bless you with her presence. It’s also refreshing to see these dynamics laid out bluntly, because so many women like to play coy like they don’t have this inherent privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:15 AM
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That’s beside the point that it is entitlement, which is the main point of the post. You can say don’t date them, and I agree, but it certainly sounds like you’re running cover for the entitlement when you just hand wave and say “don’t date those women”. Men are absolutely valid in complaining, especially in the fraught economic times we’re in now, that career women still expect archaic gender roles to be adhered to. It sucks to meet a woman who you think would be great, and she treats you like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:10 AM
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They want the other person to kiss their ass, yet do not make said ass anywhere near worth kissing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:04 AM
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What’s with the fantasy that these men are showing their misogyny early on in the relationship? In this very thread are women complaining that men fake interest in order to date women. Why then, are you claiming that their misogyny hampers their dating chances, when you never even get the chance to truly show that side? Poor reasoning imo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:03 AM
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Let’s not act as though there hasn’t been a major push for women to “decenter” men, not giving a fuck about actually appealing to and accommodating potential partners. Men are far more accommodating and willing to change incompatible habits to maintain a relationship, sometimes to a fault. But I guess that comes with the privilege or being the chooser, and not the chosen. You have much more freedom to act however you want, since you always know someone will take you as you are. Something women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:00 AM
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Yes? If you work a shit job, and do not have what it takes to find a better job, accept the fact that you are undesirable and weak. There is no general strike in the dating world either, so increase your SMV or accept you’ll face indignities and humiliation in your quest for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:54 AM
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You need to maximize your own outcome within the broader system. Become the type of guy who can confidently find another woman in a reasonable amount of time. Otherwise, understand your place in dating life and the fact you are the supplicant party in this situation. Pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:53 AM
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