~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| – | Men not wanting to pay for the date indicates lack of interest and low aggreeablenessDon’t go on a date with them then. The world will keep spinning, don’t wait up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 01:25 PM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismMay I ask how old you are? I can’t imagine a guy in his mid 20’s needing a whole day to be able to get hard again without an underlying medical condition. And yea it’s not that deep. I’m not annoyed, I’m telling you to chill out lol. This quirky interest you have isn’t as revelatory as you think it is, and I’m making you aware of that. 45 million women having a higher libido, like I said before, doesn’t change the fact that vastly more relationships will have the man wanting sex more than the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:56 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismA “naturally long refractory period” is like 30 minutes to 1 hour for a healthy young man in decent shape. It’s not that deep. I’m sorry for the guy that experienced “emotional distress” but that’s not a normal reaction to not being able to get it up, that’s a catastrophic response. It’s not really harmful and this is a weird thing to get hung up on. That lot of women does not negate the fact that, on average, men have higher libidos than women. In much more relationships than not, the man will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:24 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismI agree that your experience and the experiences of other high libido women are real, but that doesn’t change the veracity of whether men on average have a higher sex drive than women. In the very article you sent, the author stated that it is very common for men to want sex more in a relationship than women. He provided an evopsych explanation for why women are more careful about “expressing” their sexuality, but for the purposes of material reality, you can say a man that is constantly wanting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:15 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Okay, the guy who will take you as you are isn’t exactly who you want, but plenty of women compromise that for a litany of reasons. It’s not the guy she wants the most ultimately, it’s the guy who stays around, is consistent, and tolerable to be around most of the time. I’m not sure what red pillers have to do with that. They’re men who are more likely beggars than choosers themselves so their lists are irrelevant. And they compromise on those standards all the time, just like women. Lets not ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 07:05 AM |
| – | Gender relationship are harmed by blank slatismYour experience as a high libido woman doesn’t negate the fact men on average have higher libidos. Like I understand how that must feel for you, seeing the popular consensus directly contradict your own experience, but try not to get too self-centered and personal with these conversations. Your “lived experience” doesn’t negate statistical fact or make it a harmful stereotype. It isn’t “harmful” to say men have higher libidos. It can become problematic if its used to justify shitty behavior, sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:52 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWhat you said undoubtedly takes nothing away from what I’ve already said. Great for her, great for me. We both have the privilege of not feeling the need to kiss the other’s ass. I get to date women who see me an equal, and not “undesirable” because I won’t accommodate their entitlement. I’m not cowed by the thought of losing a woman, because another will follow in a reasonable amount of time, same applies to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:51 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementLol, that’s what the privilege is for. If she’s willing to give up a great guy like me over a $100 bill, on to the next. Entitlement is an ick for me and I run a tight ship. If she won’t someone else will assuredly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:31 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementYes, attractive desirable men enjoy privilege. It’s great! You don’t have to deal with a woman that treats you like a beggar who has to prove something to her. She’s equally interested and you go into a relationship with her on equal ground. You’re way more likely to find a healthy relationship when you’re an attractive man, provided that’s what you’re looking for. Ironically, attractive men operate much more like women romantically than they do like traditional portrayals of men. No scarcity mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:23 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Hell yea brother, let them hear your roar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:03 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Even the most radical communist country on the planet (China) has a completely cutthroat capitalist system fueling its growth. Eat or be eaten. You only gain compassion if you work for it and force people to show it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:01 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.I said you can complain about it. Complain until you’re blue in the face. Don’t find peace with it, don’t change anything. Complain all day if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:59 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:58 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.You can complain all you want. Complain away, won’t change your material reality. Find peace with it or change whatever is necessary (within legal bounds) to free yourself from it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:57 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementReply to your edit: Yes, expecting sex from your partner in a relationship is entitlement and would most likely eventually lead to sex drying up. You have to put in consistent effort building and maintaining attraction, including maintaining your appearance. What was the point in making that edit? Are you fighting ghosts, because that came out of nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:48 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementCompletely ignore everything I said and replied to only my last paragraph. What was the point in even replying? You could have just ignored it but you put in effort to be lazy, remarkable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:26 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIt is entitlement. The “effort” doesn’t manifest in a single monetary contribution during our first time meeting each other. The effort manifests through consistent compatible behavior over an extended period of time. That’s a low effort cop-out to defend the maintenance of archaic standards as I said before, which just looks worse than outright owning it. Own the entitlement, tell us to kick rocks, but don’t gaslight us that that isn’t what is going on. Him paying on the first date won’t stop h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:23 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThis is why being a desirable man is peak, you don’t meet women like this that treat you like a supplicant beggar who should be grateful that she chose to bless you with her presence. It’s also refreshing to see these dynamics laid out bluntly, because so many women like to play coy like they don’t have this inherent privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:15 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThat’s beside the point that it is entitlement, which is the main point of the post. You can say don’t date them, and I agree, but it certainly sounds like you’re running cover for the entitlement when you just hand wave and say “don’t date those women”. Men are absolutely valid in complaining, especially in the fraught economic times we’re in now, that career women still expect archaic gender roles to be adhered to. It sucks to meet a woman who you think would be great, and she treats you like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:10 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Let’s not act as though there hasn’t been a major push for women to “decenter” men, not giving a fuck about actually appealing to and accommodating potential partners. Men are far more accommodating and willing to change incompatible habits to maintain a relationship, sometimes to a fault. But I guess that comes with the privilege or being the chooser, and not the chosen. You have much more freedom to act however you want, since you always know someone will take you as you are. Something women s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:00 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.Yes? If you work a shit job, and do not have what it takes to find a better job, accept the fact that you are undesirable and weak. There is no general strike in the dating world either, so increase your SMV or accept you’ll face indignities and humiliation in your quest for love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:54 AM |
| – | Just pick someone else is silly.You need to maximize your own outcome within the broader system. Become the type of guy who can confidently find another woman in a reasonable amount of time. Otherwise, understand your place in dating life and the fact you are the supplicant party in this situation. Pathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 03:53 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter