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Yeah no doubt. It is hypocrisy. I figured if i do succeed in gaining a relationship i can't wallow in.tje resentment of my past. No doubt it will be difficult but i have no other choice. Who ever it is, she doesn't deserve that version of me. However i can adapt by being more like women in my selection criteria. Being a good human.beimg and having a pleasant personality is no longer enough. She needs to have a career, goals that she wants to pursue. She needs to be impressive as fuck. And if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:47 PM
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This is circular now. My behaviour is a response to.theor behaviour. Since they allow no grace for us, i allow no grace for them. The presupposition that even if she is struggling with mental health she deserves love becomes null and void with my mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:31 PM
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You are here in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:31 PM
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Maybe it's the pull yourself up by the bootstraps mentality at work. Knowing there is no net for you and that everything your mistakes and your quality of life is in you is a very potent motivator. A man running from a lion may run very fast but you won't bet on him in a race without that feat would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:28 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with someone who doesn't have a backbone'. It takes a bit longer fir them to come into their own but to they are also good men simply because they chose to treat others well. That's the baseline. Assholes don't even cross that. And if you repeatedly pick assholes over them that's on you. Women seem to believe that simps are the worst. Absolutely ridiculous. The best relationships are the ones where you simp for each other. You over estimate your need for an …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:42 AM
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I don't judge them for not sleeping with "good men" I judge them based on their past. Either she didn't consider sex very important ( instant deal breaker) or she doesn't have decent vetting skill ( so she is an idiot)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:26 AM
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As women here have proved multiple times - love alone is never enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:33 AM
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Well then don't be surprised when others judge you for it. It's the exact reason why i dont trust women who say stuff like " I have matured now" People don't really change, not until circumstances force them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:30 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uzjsqj/being_good_or_nice_is_not_the_bare_minimum_dont/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:04 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uzjsqj/being_good_or_nice_is_not_the_bare_minimum_dont/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:53 AM
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Suddenly the "how you treat the waiter" test is not good enough anymore. I would never date a bully or a mean girls type girl. What women call the bare minimum would be great if it actually was the bare minimum. Your behaviour as a group Rob's them of credibility when they say they want kind respectful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:51 AM
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I didn't want to bring up rape and sexual assault and all that to avoid sounding overly flippant. But the point still stands, if women treat men even sub optimally ( not even badly) then that is still her trauma, her cross to bear and not something he should have to put up with. It's not worth it to jump through hoops to keep the relationship stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:25 AM
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Does it really lol like that? I apologise if you felt that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:51 AM
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Boys are gonna be agressive. With socialization or biology... IDC. But you shouldn't punish it out of them, it needs to be guided to wards more constructive chanels. Being a peaceful person only has meaning if you have the capacity to wage war,not if you are incapable of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:50 AM
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How is she being lied to when she is the one engaging in deceit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:48 AM
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It's the amount of time dude. The mind numbing amount of time going over events i habe no relation to and people i don't care about. Sexual trauma is one step above that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:28 AM
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You are right. There is more to realtionships than just fun. If it was just fun and meant little my standard would be a lot like womens in their 20s. To me the continued preservation of my mental peace, the creation of an optimal environment to have children... They are paramount. I will sacrifice 'love' a hundred times if I need to. I have a lot to thank women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:26 AM
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You go to the restroom - lift toilet seat - look at water - found place for shit take - gastongang happy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:18 AM
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Regardless, not something.men are.obligated to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:17 AM
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Suppose I love skating on ice and winter wonderland? Suppose all of my key memories from childhood are related to Christmas and snow and trees? Why would I want to be with a partner who is worse mentally at that time. What obligates me to deal with that. Many women refuse to date down because they don't want to fund their partners life with them and want something better for the Future. Surely wanting a not depressed woman as a wife is within my rights as a man? And since women do not consider t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:16 AM
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I can have deep conversations with a prisoner on death row, doesn't mean i am gonna write a letter to the governor to stay his execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:11 AM
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Call it what you want but they are trauma responses. I am even sympathetic to the first one, that's wh y i don't talk about my job with people until i get a good sense.if them But 2 is completely a self image issue coupled with mysoginy. If she is gonna second guess her wants and needs through out the relationship... - life is too short to spend with a woman who doesn't know what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:10 AM
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That's fair. But he feels like he needs to jump through hoops to get you to trust him, he shouldn't stay either. That's your cross to bear,not his.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:04 AM
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Maybe in a more commited relationship but i am not giving mindspace ro someone i met 2 months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:02 AM
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The only reason you haven't heard it is because you are a woman. She is a "nice girl" is a conversation that comes up far more frequently than "he is a nice guy" ( I will conceed that as i ama man i am not likely to ha e heard the "nice guy" apeal as much as women) And in any case, anytime men bring up an issue with how women sleep with them much later than the men she was seeing causally, one of the most sited reasons is that she Wants to ensure that he wants her and not just her body - sounds …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 07:01 AM
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I think women are doing the right thing and prioritising their own mental health. I absolutely belive that men should do the same. No one is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:55 AM
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Here's chemo to save your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:44 AM
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Women do it too. Emotional labour, " we are not your therapists" etc. The conversation comes us.when men discuss opening up to women and how more often than not it leads to a breakdown of the relationship. Women spin this in 2 ways - That men have only one emotional.outlet and put a lot of pressure on their SO. That we trauma dump when we express emotions causing the realtionship.to fail Any push back with there 2 will result in the issual of the clarion call " women are not your therapists" I j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:41 AM
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If everyone gets into the 20% then it's no longer the 20% Best to not play at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:57 AM
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Yeah. That would be the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:52 PM
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Few do. Fewer still treat them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:41 PM
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You are reaching. This is not anything suprising you know. Women who raise boys alone are attracted to masculine traditional men but end up raising boys who are cowed because any sign of regular agression is shamed and not modulated or redirected. When the describe a romantic partner, the will describe a masculine ideal, and when describing their son they will produce a BB on paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:36 PM
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I guess men who want to feel desired can go fuck Rick's then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:26 PM
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That's fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:24 PM
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It's amazing how aware women are and simple don't give a single flying fuck as to improve. We suck, we are told to improve while holding the relationship hostage. They suck and we complaint they hold the relationship.hostage. It's all our fault, should have become eunuchs when we had the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:18 PM
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Nit a monolith..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:13 PM
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I think some women don't. I wait for interaction to render judgement. If they donr seem to think i am worthy of basic human respect, i pretty much disregard anything they say or do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:06 PM
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This is not the own that you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:04 PM
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No. He wants his daughter to be safe from all harm. That's the burden of being a parent. With a equal partner the risk of them leaving ( even organically ) can cause great emotional pain and he will not want it for her. He would want his daughter to be self reliant to the point she can leave if she wants. But the guy to be incapable to cause the same harm to her. Her pain will cause him pain. In his own relationship the desire to control is from the same place. To avoid pain from what he conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:02 PM
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This is not a double standard that you think it is. Women will frequently prefer more dominant men but given the opportunity to guide a youngmans growth they are likely to demonise any signs of agressiom let alone teach him to modulate it or turn it into drive. They definitely wouldn't want their sone learning game because they would worry about the girls hearts he breaks while being a player. They will only learn the error of their ways when their son becomes an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:58 PM
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But thats not truely in his daughters best interests is it. Most women don't want a simp I should know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:55 PM
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Respect requires acknowledgement as human beings with thoughts and feelings. Both sides make this mistake but fir men this is pretty much the major criticism we here since puberty. Women don't. They get into relationships easily and when the relationship fails, they don't have to struggle to get into another. It delays self awareness and growth because No one calls them out on it There is not enough emotional downtime to work on yourself. Many of them remain stuck in how he makes me feel vs how …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:48 PM
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Women care about other women. Men at the top care bout women(at least more than men - because it is expedient to do so) and power. Men in general don't have any power except physical. This is self evident in society ( homelessness and suicide ) So no - i don't accept it as a collective failing of men. So either help us or let us just die. Not like the world will care either ways. Incels are solving that problem for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:43 PM
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Why respect women when they don't really respect us? Interms of dealing with very one at n even level, sure. But respect by virtue of being women? Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:23 PM
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I don't get why that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:21 PM
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Oh sure. I'll try the approach that's been my default since years, that only now working since I have a job in the medical field! Could be nothing to do with that right, it should be because my personality final shines through!!! How much of a moron do you think i have would have to be to belive that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:20 PM
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Are you seriously preaching spirituality brother? What did you do? Get high in a yurt and cone to some all encompassing truth? Or did you lose a leg in a bike accident or something and graduated from a dude bro to a Sage of the Hashpath? Fucking lol dude. Take your cringe elsewhere.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 01:32 PM
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Doesn't stop them from trauma dumping on us when they finally give us a chance you know. All those things her past boyfriends and lovers did that we are somehow now responsibile and should be mindful off. Seeing as they dont really have any restraint on that, and then have the gall to fuck with the guy based on his past and his insecurities, i am gonna take everything said with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:29 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:43 PM
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Seems to be empty rationalization after the fact to me. I have met a few love less men who remained so because of extremely strong morals and saw themselves above deception for pussy. What does good mean in this context. Anything that can benefit women?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 04:41 PM
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You are probably incapable of it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:36 PM
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the exact same boat. Do you feel lied to? How do you deal with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:10 PM
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that was too real
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:13 PM
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they will extolt the virtues of being a homemaker but will ( as a group) not allow men to step into that role. They will refuse to marry down from an economic stand point given the choice, and when the decision to decide the majority care taker of children comes along, they will magnanimously give u their careers and their progression, or they will hire help ( it makes economic sense after all, if he makes more than her ) When they have episodes of bad behavior due to pregnancy and PMS they will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:59 PM
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I went too far. I am sorry. but your responses are emblematic of what i have to deal with. You weren't really interested in a debate either. Your response prior to mine wasn't a debate, it was a dismissive dismissal. I don't need your empathy, but i cant abide bad faith. and even in my outburst, i provided legitimate counter arguments for your ( excuse me for say so) asinine conclusions. i don't hate my mother or my sister. I do think they failed me in teaching me how to socialize because i did …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:38 PM
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And yet you lot seem to fail miserably when it comes to understanding men. Oh sorry. you have to care about them to want to understand them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:35 PM
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The draft would be made null and void if it was gende nuetral, I promise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:30 PM
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What is the point of this? I am barely dealing with this shit and then you come along and treat it like a nothing burger? do you realize how invalidating that is? Just because you had a normal sexual progression and got your back blown out by your boyfriend when you were 17 or what ever doesn't make you a better person. You as all these questions as if to try and make sense of my views and don't even bother to engage? why? do you have no counter arguments? DO you see that i am too entrenched in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:25 PM
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Women don't want real equality. They claim they do but they don't. Being hit with accountability everywhere gets old real fast. The current social order works well for them, they are never gonna give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:06 PM
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They could have been that, but you all want show dogs. You implicitly prove that not all dogs are created equal. That is as far as i am stretching that metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:03 PM
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Thanks for confirming that men are right to behave that way. You cant expect people who are pushed to the fringes to have societies best interests at heart. They are going to prioritize minimizing harm to themselves The argument that they should sacrifice a little so that "everyone can benefit" rings hollow when they were never considered a part of "everyone"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:02 PM
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Puke
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:57 PM
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Its amazing that i can see why this would be the way it is and most of you ( women especially) can just chose to mock. Like i get it, you want to continue to benefit of their backs as you always have but you want them to be happy about it.them being unhappy about it makes you uncomfortable but the rationalize it away by thinking " they are all terrible people anyway " because if they are terrible people they deserve to be unhappy We should try to build a world where boys and girls can expect kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:56 PM
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Pretty much As it stands men contribute more to taxes and tae back very litte interms of health care and retirement benefis. We dont take care of ourselves, we dont argue for our well being and ironically we retire later ( and only allowed to retire later) even though we die faster. A more fair way to do things would have been to extend the mandatory retirement age for women beyond men or reduce ,mens retirement age by 5, but no... that would imply we give a damn about the average guys quality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:49 PM
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You say that as if it was malicious, as I responded to pigeon if womenare expected to teach these life lessons it will be from a femaleperspective. We’re other men not around? It may as well be. Especially with how women and society react to people like me after the fact. Adhominem attribution of us being creepy some how (ironic no, in our effort to not be the creep, I have become the creep) leading to us being unsuccessful in our love lives. We are seen as lesser men for not being bold and seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:31 AM
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Source on the arrests?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:55 AM
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LOL at your username. You are right, being overly concerned about the possibility you might accidentally cross someones boundaries does make you seem more creepy than otherwise. I guess its better to fumble and fail and cross boundaries a few times and learn from that. Its far more authentic atleast. Mean while the careful guy remains almost robotic
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:52 AM
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Ill remember that the next time a woman goes ballistic at me because i swore while in her general vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:39 AM
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Edgelord is a good descriptor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:38 AM
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Well, i am not particularly interested in changing myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:36 AM
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In think i am simply incapable of doing that though. the best i can do s simply not care about other. The world is a lot more lonelier but a lot more peaceful too. I don't respect Sneako. I an mystified by his popularity, but what i saw in the world does seem similar to what i saw on that stream
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:35 AM
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Throw them a bone while they get used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:30 AM
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Thats a bit too, calculated, bordering on Machiavellian.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:20 AM
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TEE HEE
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:19 AM
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True. but the world runs the way it does because men of varying chrecter are incentivised to be good. Cops, politicians, and government servants should be morally just, however not giving them a baseline of privilige ( decent schooling for kids, allowances for household expenses etc) makes it more likely to compromise to take care of themselves or their family. Not a controversial take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:19 AM
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Mr Girl is hardly what you can consider a pushover.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:15 AM
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I think that Mr Girl believes that the movie is a good expose on the pageants propensity to sexualise young girls and believes that the sexualisation of the girls in that movie was problematic. That is not a weird position to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 10:14 AM
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You could just, smile shyly, tuck your hair behind your ear and just say "It just happened" she would be the asshole if got upset at that point. It seems to work fine for girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:37 PM
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Have you heard of stylemogging?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:33 PM
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why does everyone think i Idolize sneako?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:17 PM
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​ IN most debates on this sub when men claim that women chose bad men, the common refrain is that they could not have possibly known. However in this situation, the co panelists knew about Sneakos and MrGirls positions and stand. You could be forgiven to expect a visceral distrust to sneako because of who he is. That didn't matter though. All that matter was " He seems fun"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:12 PM
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great insight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:57 PM
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So what women are spending time with him to rehabilitate him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:55 PM
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More likely to die at roughly the same time considering how long they live now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:00 PM
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I think i truly resent myself. For ever believing women when they say things like i shouldn't approach and that i would be creepy if i did. that fear of causing harm kept me passive for a crucial part of my 20s. Mean while the creeps got better with time and are now in healthy relationships. Is it wrong for me to feel lied to? I definitely hate my mother and sister for their role in it too. They told me that guys like me would get the women when we get close to settling down. Ie when i get a job…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:31 PM
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Throughout the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, the majority of pro-feminist authors emerged from France including François Poullain de La Barre, Denis Diderot, Paul Henri Thiry d'Holbach, and Charles Louis de Montesquieu.[1] Montesquieu introduced female characters, like Roxana in Persian Letters, who subverted patriarchal systems, and represented his arguments against despotism. The 18th century saw male philosophers attracted to issues of human rights, and men such as the Marquis de Cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:13 PM
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I think you will be better off if you state it as a boundaries or situational preference vs a personal preference. Saying that "I have a strict no dating coworkers policy" or " I don't shit where I eat." will go over better than any reason that gets more personal . Eg " I am sorry, you are not my type."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:46 AM
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worth because of an inherent characteristic vs worth of utility are totally different things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:21 AM
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Fuck therapy. I am probably the most self aware man you will meet. Doesn't mean i cant get pissy over the unfairness of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:19 AM
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Oh OK! I gues ugly guys need to be have blackbelts in being zen, and being above avergae interms of job and financial stability too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:23 PM
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Probably. If they didnt resort to screaming and just tided over it it would be an example of very alpha behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:59 PM
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If was atracted to men sure. i think its more accurate to say be sexually assualted by grannys. i think i would still take that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:50 PM
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What makes you think older women don't want to use younger men for sex. Personally I find dommy mommy to be very attractive. If it wasn't for the fact that i want kids they would have been my preferred demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:47 PM
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I am an unattractive man. what the hell else are we supposed to do? Go get therapy because my years of being alone has convinced me that i i will die alone and that fear cause me to grab onto any possibility of love like a life raft? do you expect al of us to be shelf stable monks until one of you oh so special snowflakes picks us out and gives us value? the only reason i am not feral is because i had ONE tryst with a girl where she pursued me. I should hate her because she slept with a friend a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:45 PM
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Most son worshiping societies favor sons because they are are the retirement plan
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:19 PM
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While men do not get more attractive (sometimes they get less attractive), women do want to settle down at that point and try for a family. since the no of men and women are roughly equal it means women have to be a bit more realistic about their options and the previously low action guys begin to get more interest. That is not a good thing. I have been the same person i have been from my early twenties until now ( late 20s). I have begun to get more attention, but i have no experience so i don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:03 AM
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