| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 120 | Why is male sexuality offensive? | Question For Women | Intellig3nt_Act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:27 PM |
| 69 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it. | Debate | Intellig3nt_Act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:15 PM |
| 14 | What is toxic masculinity to you? | Question For Women | Intellig3nt_Act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:55 AM |
| 4 | Who pays? | Question For Women | Intellig3nt_Act | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:03 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Who pays?Yeah I think I misunderstood the underlying message in getting seperate checks… specifically a way to signal that “we are seperate today & will not be together in the future” Maybe a kind way to let a bad date down. I just wasn’t clued in. Thanks for the response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Who pays?Oh man. A lot of similar sentiments in these answers re: if she’s offering it’s because she knows there won’t be another. I never read that in the action, but damn, yup. Separate cheques (generally) means she’s not feeling it. tyvm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Best take in the thread! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Not my definition, I’m using a list of common traits identified as toxic masculinity in the top 5 results of a google search to “define toxic masculinity” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Homophobia is toxic masculinity, as the toxic men fear and hate the “other” orientation. For the individuals I’m referring, studs, the equal and opposite would be heterophobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.I have only some contentions with your point: Homoerotic assumes that men respect other men with a sexual desire imbued in their esteem. I may be an outlier as I was raised in a matrifocal culture, but in my esteem there is no eroticism from me towards the people I’ve chosen to admire, respect, revere, idolize, learn from, form attachments to, or desire. I feel like there are a lot of assumptions from all points along the gender spectrum regarding what others think and feel. I believe this gets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.What claim am I making? To think that caring is inherently feminine is doing men a disservice. Men have to care to be providers. To plant the tree today that will shade the next generation is inherently caring, and men have provided that care since the beginning of agriculture and animal husbandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Agreed, and in women too, which is ok; if both genders were equally treated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Do you feel applying the norms of female socialization to men is similarly futile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Sure, whichever terms you prefer work fine. The premise remains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.All of these are part of the definition of toxic masculinity. Toxic Masculinity Heterophobia was substituted for homophobia as it is the dislike of the opposite orientation for the individuals I am referring to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Thanks. Can the same thing be said about women and men? As in, women NEED to stop trying to apply sapphic-normative roles to phallic interactions? Phallic dynamics are different. Is that a viable opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:43 PM |
| -8 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Toughness Anti-femininity Emotional unavailability Social domination Heterophobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:36 PM |
| -9 | Toxic masculinity is supported and even glorified when women enact it.Toughness Anti-femininity Emotional unavailability Social domination Heterophobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 01:36 PM |
| 14 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Wow. Great response. That all sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?To get other perspectives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I don’t know honestly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Yeah that’s a dealbreaker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Sucks that guys have dropped the ball on treating you humanely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Great analogy. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I see. In what ways do women proposition women generally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?it never occurred to me that men vocalize desire by describing how hard their dick is. I picture vocalized desire as “would you like to have sex” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Yes, my experience is that a woman’s reaction to being propositioned by a woman is (generally) different than the same proposition from a man. I’m wondering why that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Yeah I think that feeling is common for men. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Amazing answer. Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Wow. Really like this insight. Can you say more about times you’ve found male sexuality offensive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Yeah that’s messed up. Along the same lines, if she had sent a boob/fanny pic without getting your consent would you have a similar reaction? Compared with the (likely) reaction to a picture of your intimate bits sent without consent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:18 PM |
| 6 | Why is male sexuality offensive?In a past relationship that was sexually adventurous my partner brought a friend over after a bar night with friends. I proposed a hookup after her friend mentioned how handsome I was, and my partner affirmed them. My partner and I have had group sex before, but she had proposed the idea each time. Her friend was immediately disgusted, and vocally shamed me for asking and pointedly told my then partner that I was a pig. I apologized multiple times but to no avail. They left, and my partner dumpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Interesting perspective, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?That makes them a sex pest in my books | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I may be. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I may be. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I see, good insight. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?Thank you. This was well put | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I don’t mean consent per se. I mean the general offensiveness of male sexuality expressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I am not talking about attraction. I am talking about the general disgust levied at men when vocalizing sexual desire. Not everyone will be attracted to a person. But men going out solely to find a hookup are generally demonized. Women are generally supportive of women that have chosen to go out solely in the pursuit of hookups. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I do. I am asking about the reactions to men from women when voicing their desire and/or pursuing sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I’m asking about the overt vocalizing and/or pursuit of sex by men vs women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Why is male sexuality offensive?No. I mean that the reaction from women to a men pursuing sex is different than women pursuing sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Why is male sexuality offensive?I’m inquiring about the reactions to sexuality. Meaning the reaction to a man going out specifically to attain sex and/or the reaction to a man asking for sex or physical intimacy vs. women doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 06:35 PM |
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