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SELF IMPROVEMENTIntelligentEmpress/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:12 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTIntelligentEmpress/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 03:59 AM
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ADVICEIntelligentEmpress/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 04:34 PM
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My boyfriend used to watch Mr. Red Pill on YouTube, I was interested in the topic, searched it on Reddit and found the female version
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 01:22 AM
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What’s MMV?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 01:32 AM
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Sometimes when a loved one dies, we stop and remind ourselves of how appreciative we are of the loved ones we still have. I think that’s probably why you reached.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 02:49 PM
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So I live in Canada, so a lot of these things do not apply. We are both high earners with room to grow, so there are no tax benefits if anything it would cause us to pay more taxes. Being common law allows me to make medical decisions for him. We don’t have social security in Canada and I’d probably not qualify for spousal support in the event we break up because of our incomes. — ETA: in the event that he dies and I’m not in his will but we do jointly own property, I’d still get my share of the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:51 PM
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In what way?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:18 PM
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If you choose to disclose and make it legal, the rights are the same in regards to children and spousal support should it end. You’d have to put into writing an agreement for property division should it end & you’d need to be drafted into their will should they die. This post was to create a discussion so I could reflect on my choice. A lot of people have given me insight that I’ve never considered before and I’m really open to the information/criticisms/advice that I’ve received. Before it was …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:05 PM
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I really appreciate this post. I don’t think it completely describes him, but maybe I do have a fear of long-term commitment because of what I’ve witnessed. It’s not specific to our relationship because I’ve always thought this way. It’s something I need to really reflect on. I will say, with regards to common law relationships, you can “legally” make them as easy or as hard to leave as you can with a marriage. It just depends on whether you have a prenup in place or not. There was a comment abo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 10:30 AM
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I was the one to initiate this convo years ago and he agreed and gave me his point of view. So based on that, he shouldn’t be having children with me?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 10:21 AM
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I’m not sure if my wording is off in the post, but it’s been me who has initiated the “no marriage” talk and then he agreed and told me his point of view. For me, common law is not as legally binding because you don’t have to disclose that whereas marriage is recorded. If anything, it sounds like I have an issue with commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 10:20 AM
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I appreciate your responses and honestly I’ve put more thought into it today than I ever had before lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 02:08 AM
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Lol “outside at some rock” this is so sweet. I like the sentimental value of what they did & it’s private, shared between them which is what I’d also want. This gives me new ideas. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:26 AM
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May I ask why it matters? What about the document changes things for you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:17 AM
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They got married in a church or just a ceremony? Because we were thinking of that also
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/20 12:15 AM
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That’s what I think marriage is also. An event/date/occasion for other people to celebrate your relationship. But I don’t need that: we’re only children, our family unit is small, and our circle of friends is just as small. Everyone that needs to know that I’m committing my life to him will already know that, and if they need me to get married to prove this commitment then too bad lol By costs/benefits, what do you mean? What other options are there? We would look at our union as a marriage, but…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 10:56 PM
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I’ve never been forced to think of my decision so in-depth. I’ve normally just had to say “I don’t want to get married cuz they all fail anyway” and people just leave me alone lol I don’t want to get married because I think it’s a tradition that no longer applies and/or doesn’t apply to me. I’m not religious and I don’t need a day for others to celebrate the love I have for my partner. I happily do it every day. The tradition started to blend two families together primarily for financial gain an…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 10:45 PM
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But you’re protected with children (child support) even if you’re single. And it’s not even about the commitment, it’s just a tradition to me. If I commit to you 50 years married or 50 years without being married, does that document really matter?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 09:37 PM
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Before I met him, I didn’t want to get married because (a) not religious and I thought you had to be married in a church, (b) I thought weddings were a waste of money and didn’t know about courthouse marriages, and (c) all the ones I knew about ended in failure. I think the biggest driving factor for me is that it can fail, and when it does, it’s the most stressful thing to deal with. And then I met him, and he also doesn’t want to get married and I thought it was a match made in heaven because …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 08:00 PM
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In Canada, common law share the same rights as marriage with regards to children and spousal support I believe. But property division after a break up, POA/SDM if someone gets sick, and if they die without a will have different rights which need to be on paper.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 07:48 PM
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Lol I could be wrong, but you sound opposed to it, so what would your honest opinion be?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 07:16 PM
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We’re in Canada and in our province, it doesn’t come with everything so the agreement would lay out what each person is entitled to should it end. Otherwise you’d just take what you brought with you and go
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 05:44 PM
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Oh of course, we’ve agreed to do that too
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:52 PM
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Thank you so much for this post and for sticking to your guns with your friends. Honestly speaking, I have no aspiration for marriage (yes to children though) because I’ve yet to see a successful one in my environment, but this post has just set a different motivation in my relationship. I moved out of my family’s home in January when I turned 25 this year and my partner (32M) has lived on his own for a very long time. My partner and I have been talking about living together in the future (toget…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 04:27 PM
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What does her being “crazy” have to do with her attendance?
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/20 03:20 AM
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And that reason is citizenship
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 02:36 AM
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Tonight: A&W sweet potato fries, Oreo ice cream straight out of the tub, and a glass of wine.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 12:23 AM
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I’ve never watched her. What’s she about?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:15 PM
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Yea honestly
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 09:45 AM
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I want to try this! Do you usually wrap it around your neck or just let it hang?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 12:45 AM
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I like YouTube because I’m active on there, but I haven’t found many channels that I can connect with. A lot of them spew “femininity” content without actually being RPW-focused.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 12:39 AM
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I use powder foundation, and my routine is as follows: Wash, moisturize and prime. I use a mattifying primer because I have very oily skin. Eyebrows. I use ABH Dipbrow and NYX Eyebrow pencil. Concealer my under-eye and “highlight” my chin and nose with MAC Prolongwear concealer. I set the edges of the concealer and powder my entire face with MAC Studio Fix Powder Foundation. Bake my “highlight” areas with Fenty loose powder. Contour with a powder. Set my face with a setting spray from Urban Deca…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 07:18 PM
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18/2 = 9 + 7 = 16 lol how would that work? Unless you use his age
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 12:20 PM
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What everyone else here has said: just walk away from him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 05:44 PM
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This is so true! When I started listening to the advice from this subreddit, I started to feel better internally and it showed externally. The compliments you get from your loved one and strangers doubly encourage you to keep going. Keep it up missy!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 03:49 AM
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If it’s something fixable, you should look into fixing it. It’s well worth it
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 03:00 AM
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Lol did you also think of like skincare face masks when you read it? Masks are being worn where I am, but my mind still thought of skincare products
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:37 PM
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I am grateful for choosing a career that affords me to be able to take care of myself financially. I've been dealing with a lot of mental anguish from my family over the last year, and being able to move out alone and take care of myself was a huge step in becoming a better me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:33 PM
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I'm a nurse so I do shift work while my SO basically works on-call in a trade. We live about 20 minutes away from each other driving. I work every other weekend and get 2-3 days off during any given week. I don't see him on the days that I work unless he comes over or pops by my job during my break, and I dedicate (at minimum) one of my days off to myself. At my old job, I used to work 4 shifts straight then have 5 days off with 4 of them spent with him. I find this schedule works much better as…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:30 PM
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Your needs are just as important as theirs. You shouldn't feel like you're being clingy or unreasonable; it sounds like he puts you down when you try to address your concerns
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:21 PM
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If your bf isn't respecting your needs and at least attempting to compromise than he is not respecting you as a partner A lot of people don't seem to understand how important this is. You shouldn't have to downplay your needs in order to be with someone
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:21 PM
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I'm not sure how long you've been together, but if your needs aren't being met in the relationship after communicating them to your partner, this might not be the right relationship
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:17 PM
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pay more attention to what a man does as opposed to what a man says This is so important. People talk a lot and you must be able to decipher through the bs by focusing on actions and not words
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:13 PM
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The Feminine Fancy is amazing! I found a lot of femininity channels on YouTube after discovering this subreddit, but she happens to be my favourite. Above all, she seems genuine.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:10 PM
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for a long time I've suspected I have mild autism Not at all helpful advice here, but I used to feel this way too. I felt different from others, could not seem to form bonds, and sometimes missed a lot of social cues. Although I am thankfully not autistic, there was some childhood trauma that I had to deal with which was affecting me in ways that I didn't recognize prior
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/20 09:06 PM
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It’s awesome when you date a man with skills that they can teach you. It leaves you feeling so fulfilled
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 01:41 PM
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I’m not married but this makes me so happy to hear
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 06:35 PM
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I found the opposite with my PMS. I thought I was really suffering from depression, maybe even slight PMDD after doing some research. Once I came off of the pill, that all went away, but everyone is different
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 11:54 AM
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Great comment, well spoken. I agree with this
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 09:33 AM
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So if this is why it didn’t work out, why would you want to go through it again?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 09:28 AM
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I was on a combo pill from 16-22ish and I really enjoyed it, but I enjoyed my feminine SO much more after getting off the pill. I didn’t realize what I was missing. It’s true what all these comments say: - my sex drive increased (or normalized, depending on how you looked at it) - I felt brighter, more radiant, more sexual whilst ovulating - I enjoy going through the cycles every week - my PMS symptoms drastically decreased
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 09:04 AM
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It’s time for you to move on, sweetheart
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 12:20 AM
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You made some excellent points here!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 12:14 AM
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I actually just had this discussion with my boyfriend and my line of thinking was situation #2. Situation #1 looks appealing in the beginning to women whose personality traits I’d deem unattractive. Situation #2 is a more wholesome situation and is probably more ideal to a lot more women. I find men think that situation #1 is the better situation, but I don’t think they realize how emotional women are.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 12:11 AM
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He will state his issue. I’m quiet and reserved. If I don’t give it enough attention, he will stew by himself until I say/do something, but if I take too long he feels like I don’t care about his feelings and won’t want to discuss it anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/20 02:28 AM
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This sounds awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 03:42 AM
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I’ve heard about this technique a lot, oddly enough, on TV shows/movies where a character goes to therapy. In theory it seems to work very, but in practice — well it takes a lot of practice. I find that sometimes (or a lot) I listen to respond instead of to understand. Your response has reminded me that I need to be more understanding. Two ears, one mouth
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/20 03:33 AM
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I agree with this insight. OP is pushing much harder than he is because he’s already getting what he wants
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:12 PM
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You’re right about this. I need to look within at the root of this problem
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:06 PM
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This really resonates with me. I see that my actions have been very damaging, but I always fall back into the same toxic behaviour, and it truly is toxic even if it seems as innocent as being quiet. Thank you for your advice
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:03 PM
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This is such great advice. I’ll use this next time I clam up Edit: I would like to add that, in no way, am I trying to be manipulative or give him the cold shoulder. It would be super beneficial to explain why I’m being so quiet and to say what’s on my mind instead of trying to be “safe” and keep it to myself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/20 02:00 PM
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I wouldn’t even give him the time of day. That’s the best revenge. It’s killing him that you haven’t reached out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 09:12 PM
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My red flag is/was communicating my needs. People take advantage of my kindness because I don’t speak up and stand my ground. It was brought to my attention by my current partner. I use is/was because although I’m actively working on it, it is still a problem for me. Up to last night, it led to a disagreement between us.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/20 03:46 PM
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I didn’t know you could use Bumble to find friends. I guess dating apps could be good for other uses as well!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:31 PM
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As a WOC, I agree with you and I think you should definitely vote in your elections as your voice still matters. I live in Canada, so I obvs can’t participate, but there are a lot of people who think like you and voting is always a sure fire way to ensure your voices are heard!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:29 PM
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Yes, go with the flow and see where things go in the next year or two. In my opinion, your ages play a greater factor in this than anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 02:07 AM
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I really tried to encourage one guy to step more into an alpha role, he tried but ultimately was unsuccessful. We broke up and tried again once more, but fundamentally we were just different. Values, mindset and his beta nature made me unattractive to him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 02:06 AM
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From your post and your replies to the comments, it seems that you understand that you are rushing things quite a bit and do need to slow things down. You're both very young and have not really explored life yet. It would not be a good idea to give him a deadline because truthfully, this can push him away and you may lose him because he is just not ready.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 10:56 PM
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My boyfriend (32M) and I (25F) have been together for three years. His personality is that of an alpha male: assertive, responsible and trustworthy. He is able to communicate his wants/needs clearly and respectfully, and he makes no excuses for who he is. He is a leader in every sense of the term. In the past, I have dated betas who were passive, made a lot of excuses for their shortcomings, and were no Captains in my eyes. During these experiences, I felt forced to take on an Alpha personality …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 10:48 PM
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I agree with all the women who've commented thus far. She's not a good friend to you when she's cut you off for months because someone liked you more than her, and if she can't be happy for your blessing (when it happens). As far as what you should do: tell her and see how she responds. If she isn't happy for you, that's her own problem to deal with. Dwell in your happiness for as long as possible. She will come around, and if she doesn't then she isn't your friend. You've also told someone else…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 01:27 AM
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Super creepy! Absolutely not normal.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 03:48 PM
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I agree with this. Let him take the initiative to reschedule
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 03:44 PM
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I second this. Great advice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 03:39 PM
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This is really amazing! I’ve always thought that weddings were a giant waste of money. 150 people can see what they “missed” on some varying social media platform lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 10:05 PM
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I actually appreciate the honesty because it allows for self-improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 10:32 PM
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Fortunately, it was a friend that said that
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 09:42 PM
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Thank you! That seems so helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 12:19 AM
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!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 12:00 AM
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Thank you for this
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 12:00 AM
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I find that I have a hard time connecting with people in my personal life. Like you, there are people who are drawn to me and others who think I’m not that interested. Unfortunately for me, the people who are drawn to me are my coworkers and those who aren’t happen to be my friends.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:16 PM
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I really enjoy this comment. I need to find something to be passionate that I can share with others.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:14 PM
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I really do have to work on that second part of your comment. When I’m thinking “oh whatever” in the back of my mind, it really shows on my face, in my tone and just everywhere. I haven’t grasped the skill of not leaving my emotions on my sleeve. I don’t even think I try to hide it either. But I want to be more capable of coming across as engaging and interested as much as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:13 PM
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With what he said, he was being honest which is why I’m genuinely trying to get advice on how I can improve my communication with others and not just him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:11 PM
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I said “SO and friends” .. he’s not the one that said dull and lacklustre, but he has said that I’m disinterested and not engaging
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:10 PM
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To be fair, all those comments didn’t come from the same person. It’s everyone in my life and I just grouped their comments together. He’s said I seem detached, disinterested, so on..
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:09 PM
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I feel red pill comes naturally to me especially in a relationship with a dominant man. I do believe I’ve had to further cultivate RP theory as I’ve learned more about it since I did not know it existed prior to a few weeks ago. I find that being in a submissive role in my relationship with my partner happens subconsciously. In my previous, short-lived relationship with a beta male, I did find that I took on a more dominant role because I didn’t trust him to be my Captain — to lead me. With an a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 02:33 AM
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I definitely find it gets better overtime. You definitely want to avoid going around the week of your period as your vagina is super sensitive, and even I would shed a tear. It also doesn’t hurt to try different places to find a really good waxer who has the expertise to make it less painful. A lot of people say sugar waxing is better than hard/soft wax but I think they all hurt the same. Definitely wouldn’t go to an Asian nail salon to get a wax though — I only let them do my eyebrows.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 05:06 AM
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Nair and Veet last probably less time than shaving and can result in ingrowns as well. Waxing hurts, but everyone’s pain tolerance is different. My first wax was not nearly as painful as other women made it seem, and I’ve since been getting them for years. My best friend, however, you could hear screaming from down the hall.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 04:45 AM
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One of my goals for June is to become a more active participant in conversations. I have received criticism from SO and friends that I’m “dull”, “lacklustre”, my tone of voice is “dismissive” or seems “disinterested”, etc. It hurts to hear these things about myself. Any advice on how I can improve? TIA.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 03:12 AM
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My goals for the month of June: Stick to my diet which includes CICO (1200-1400 calories a day) and IF (eating time: 12-8pm). I slacked off in the last two weeks of May and stopped seeing results. I started at 138lbs in April. My long-term goal is to weigh 120lbs. My goal of June is to hit 125lbs. I currently weigh 127.2lbs and have been “stuck” there for a few weeks. I had a personal trainer prior to COVID. Since the gyms have been closed, I haven’t done any exercise. I ran once for 10 minutes …
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 03:10 AM
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I bought myself a new car!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 12:48 AM
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