InternationalIce5237 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Timing - When to File?		InternationalIce5237	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/22 09:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I sat on a bench for 7 hours Agreed, but would you ever advise a client that it is ok to not pay alimony bc incarceration is unlikely? I doubt it, the threat & possibility are real.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/23 05:25 PM
2	I sat on a bench for 7 hours True, technically being incarcerated for constructive civil contempt isn’t “being arrested”	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/23 01:11 PM
2	Temporary Custody Order debacle What jurisdiction are you referring to? In the US you are wrong.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/23 12:43 AM
1	Timing - When to File? In MD even if you have 50/50 custody child support can be ordered…. Thanks for your feedback, I’m on the fence about joining a firm but may end up going that route. The financial uncertainty of being a solo sucks but it does have a lot of upsides, and in 12-18 months I’ll have steady court-appointed work to supplement my cases, which will put me in a very stable financial position. The question is whether I can and should wait for that.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/11/22 10:51 PM
4	Hiding money during a divorce This is wrong, at least in the United States. You absolutely have to answer discovery requests truthfully and fully (no lying by omission) and most states I’ve seen have a requirement that parties file a financial statement with their initial pleadings that would involve disclosing assets/net worth. Fucking around in discovery and lying in court can lead to sanctions and contempt, in addition to ensuring you get completely screwed by the final ruling	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 09:42 PM
1	how did you go about finding an attorney to work with? Always find out what jurisdictions prospective lawyers are licensed in and research to see if they have a disciplinary record. Take a look at what they were disciplined for, if it was a lack of diligence or some form of deception move along. If they fucked up their IOLTA accounting or some other shit unrelated to their advocacy I wouldn’t be as concerned, but zero disciplinary history is always best.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/22 04:52 PM
2	Kicked my kid out today......did I do the right thing? Got it. I hope you can sort it out with him. Being a parent is the hardest job there is, we all do our best but still end up fucking up along the way. You sound like a good Dad and like you are coming from the right place, but like others I don’t agree with your approach and suggest you take some time to rethink it. Stay strong and best of luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 04:05 AM
2	Kicked my kid out today......did I do the right thing? First your ex was out of line and should have talked with you before allowing him to get the permit. Yeah, I would tell your son that you overreacted, you wanted to stress that with new freedoms and privileges, like driving, comes new responsibilities. Driving doesn’t just use gas, you need to pay for insurance and vehicle maintenance. You want him to be a responsible adult, but still enjoy life, which is why you were encouraging him to get his permit. If you are mechanically inclined and have t…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 01:51 AM
2	Kicked my kid out today......did I do the right thing? I think you fucked up bro	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 01:27 AM
1	Need divorce help! (Male, 32, w 2 kids)Considering divorcing my wife..w/2 kids*. Reconciliation is bleak at this point. We have a house together. I want to move out and get my own place ASAP. How do I do this right? I'm so sick of the relationship my wife and I have. We both deserve better. I upvoted each one but it’s worth posting as well: don’t move out, consult with an attorney first before you make any decisions	/r/Divorce_Men	13/06/22 02:06 AM
2	Help needed. Shop around for an attorney. You shouldn’t pay for a consult, you may be able to find a decent one who will do it for a flat fee, but the retainer amount they quoted you sounds reasonable (they vary based on your location/jurisdiction). You should definitely retain counsel if you can. Edit: I’ll qualify that I’m not suggesting you should divorce now, just that if you do decide to file you shouldn’t try to do it without an attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 03:54 PM
1	Judge and GAL seem to be taking my side Guardian ad litem They can be appointed to represent the minor child/children in contested custody cases.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 01:38 AM