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That attitude won’t help you tho. Being Butt hurt won’t give you pussy bro. GL
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:27 AM
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Ok good, also keep in mind 2 things: 1) The times that we are living right now that promote social distancing are affecting not only you but the whole online dating system. 2) Don’t be afraid to call when you need to confirm the plans that a girl agreed on, the day of the date you could give her a call “Hey X, hope you are having a great day” have a quick laugh and tell her “See you tonight at 7pm at X, i’ll text you when i’m there” with enough rapport built before this will make her feel even m…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:23 AM
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Are you building enough rapport before inviting them out? Telling them “you got plans now, meet me x” without proper rapport would be super creepy and uncool. Stop following scripts and learn to engage in interest conversations that leave them wanting more, without this last element, the probability of them flaking gets higher.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 05:11 AM
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Plus he learns from the embarrassing moment, wich is good to get experience.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:24 AM
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It could be tempting but you have to look beyond pleasure and think of the consequences, if you don’t mind loosing that friend, go ahead. But don’t even try to hide it because eventually, he’ll find out. I don’t usually moralize here in TRP but that just makes you a shitty friend.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 12:40 AM
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A lot of my friends stop inviting me to parties and reunions because i stopped drinking and started eating healthier/going to the gym. The result? Better friends with better habits, hotter women interested in me, a better lifestyle overall. What happened to them? Obesity, alcoholics, and failure at life. So, if they care about you, they will still be your friends, if not, you deserve better ones.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:06 PM
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As someone who struggled with premature ejaculation, tried this and many other methods to last longer to please my partner, what i mean with "Fucks up how you feel about sex" is just as you read it. When you focus on lasting longer for your partner, it shows that you are insecure and would be willing to dump your own pleasure for hers. I don't know about you but when i used to cum before having sex to last longer, i never felt the same pleasure as cumming the first time with my partner. Your dic…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:01 PM
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Not a problem with fapping at all, but doing it just to last longer before she gets there is the most beta and insecure move i can think of. It is indeed a simple solution if you want to fuck up how you feel about sex. Edit: I think i was a little offensive, so i edited a bit, i apologize.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 08:34 PM
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As another comment said, focus on foreplay, get comfortable with how her body feels. After you have built that, penetrate and slow down man, don't try to be like "I HAVE TO FUCK HER HARD" if you know you still can't control yourself. She will definitely prefer slow but longer than hard for a minute and that's it. If you feel that you have to cum, you are getting to tense, you can go back to foreplay and try to relax your body once again. Try to do kegels and meditate. If you think about it, sex …
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:22 PM
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What the hell man, this is awful advice. I hope you are being sarcastic.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:22 PM
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That’s exactly the reason it went down. To please her you have to first learn how to enjoy yourself and relax, get lost in her body and you won’t have time to think unnecessary negative or positive things. Edit: Happened to me a lot at first, till i read The Sex God Method, totally recommended for anyone who joins TRP.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 04:33 PM
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Models by Mark Manson gives you a pretty nice idea of game.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 10:31 PM
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You know what to do, you just posted realizing every flaw you have. You need to take action, step by step. Cut your hair, start minimizing sugars and bad food. Start going for walks to get used to activity and then hit the gym. You have fucking idea what to do, you need to start doing shit bro. Good luck. Peace
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:58 PM
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There's nothing wrong with inviting with that kind of things, just don't let her get the wrong idea. You look like a beta when you invite her for a fancy dinner for the first date, because that's what she understands from that, but there's nothing wrong with coffee dates. You should let her pay from time to time or split the bill so she gets a clear idea.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:58 PM
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This. Most people think that a RP man just doesn’t get emotionally involved with anyone, and just thinks of everyone else as “things”. Great poing of view man, agree with all.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 07:46 PM
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Yes, people can bond with each other, just a matter that you prioritize correctly and not letting your emotions get in the way of your mission.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:10 AM
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Stop replying him guys, by his answers he is obviously a troll and if he is not, he doesn’t want his mind changed, just validation that what he wants to do will be shown as « masculine » to the girl...lol
/r/askTRP09/03/19 10:56 PM
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This. Go ahead man, she is clearly interested and something must have come up.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 04:35 AM
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Might still get a girl, but the girl will play and use him just like a toy, don’t see why a guy would like to be treated as such.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:33 PM
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Yes. Making her think that obviously you are not.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:13 AM
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Separating “8-9’s” & “Fat Girls” is just a way of pedestalizing, if you don’t get over the fact that they are all just women, even if you fuck girls that are not attractive to you, you’ll always get nervous around the ones you like. Just go for the one you like, even if you end up blowing it, that’s how you are gonna develop true confidence and experience.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:52 PM
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He will realize it when she cheats on him too, that will be his best wake up. You talking to him will just be a waste of time cuz he won’t believe you.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:53 AM
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You can do some mma, but i would encourage you to despite the sport you do, compliment it with weight lifting, it helps a lot making your muscles stronger with your daily life. But if it’s just a no for you, then do what you enjoy.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 03:12 AM
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There is, read my comment again, not only sex can be different as you though when you marry, a lot can make you unhappy because of your inexperience with women. Idk why you make a post asking about a topic you are way too closed minded about.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:40 AM
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It’s ok if you find disgusting sleeping with a lot of women, but you can have a couple of different LTRs to find what you like and what you don’t. I’m not telling you to do it with sluts nor doing it with 100 girls, but with cautiously selected girls who are LTR material. A mentality of ‘’If she is a virgin i will be happy with her all my life’’ is extremely risky, because in the end when you marry her, she might not be the type of girl you expected, thus making YOU unhappy. Who knows maybe the …
/r/askTRP23/01/19 01:24 AM
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No need to be offensive, this subreddit can be so toxic sometimes...
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:58 PM
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Joining a sports team just for social validation is dumb. People can see if you don’t do something with a passion, try for other hobbies that are not physical, painting, music, etc. It is good that you already started lifting, even if you think it hasn’t helped right now, it will in the future, trust me. Also, it seems that you need to care less about social validation, the more you try, the more people notice your efforts and the more needy you look. Just do things with a passion, build yoursel…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:15 AM
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It’s ok to fall in love, even a RP man falls in love, you have to let yourself go and enjoy the ride, but stay awake, don’t think she is different (Remember AWALT). Never make life changing decisions based on love. Never let a women affect you in other areas of your life, always keep on building yourself. That’s healthy love, that’s ok in the RP. Oneitis is not.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:29 PM
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After she replies just keep an aloof vibe until you set another date.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:45 PM
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This is definitely a no no, if it’s a plate sure go for it, but in a LTR of 5 years OP would be making it harder for himself. Just Next, never contact her again.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:36 AM
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Great things come with sacrifices, if you can’t afford a gym atm there are many other free training as calisthenics. Picking up girl doesn’t mean you have to waste money on em. Get a job and live alone, administrate your money and always seek for more. No excuses mate.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:36 PM
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Not at all, they might be the best for plating as they really know how to do you.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:33 PM
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Can't deny you got me there mate.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 09:29 PM
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You were right, if it were a plate it wouldn’t matter but in an LTR you both have to be respectful with each other. You can’t allow that kind of behavior. It’s likely she was fucking one of them.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:51 PM
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aight, just a suggestion, when you do find your perfect virgin girl, don't get too obsessed with her, to me it seems you will be so insecure and jealous that you'll try to control her and keep her to yourself no matter what. She is not yours, it's your turn. So if she cheats or something, drop her. Remember that virginity doesn't mean she will be clear of red flags.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:23 PM
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, you've got not the thing is, even if a girl is virgin, that doesn't mean she won't cheat on you, a girl who has a sexual past might be even more loyal to you than a girl who is a virgin and will always be curious about how would it feel to have another dick. If you want a virgin, then go find one, but keep in mind that AWALT even if a virgin or not.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 05:56 PM
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Wow seriously, reading comments on the Red Pill that are so closed minded is disappointing, i mean they don’t even evaluate anything anymore, they just post the same reply in every place. Look man, when looking for an LTR you plate first, if the girls shows value, commitment and from a couple of months starts pushing you for an LTR then you have good signs and can start evaluating if she has material or not. A worthy girl for and LTR won’t want to stay as plate for too long, is consistently tryi…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:16 AM
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Grading chicks is so much a way to pedestalize women, seriously, in this world there shouldn't be ''HB#'', there are just girls that: 1) You would fuck 2) You wouldn't fuck If most girls are in the 1), then thats the way you should go, despite what other people consider as hot or not. So in this mindset, of course your friend is Chad for fucking whoever he wants to fuck. *References by Mark Manson in his book ''Models''.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 01:16 AM
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Try to keep your daily sugar intake to less than 27g and make them come from natural sources like fruits, honey or the small amount in various nutritious food.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 09:20 AM
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Hell i just confirmed it, i talked to my gf about the topic, telling her to be objective about it. Guess how she reacted, telling me that it was the man's fault because he was lacking in other areas of the relationship. No matter the way i put it, the answer was always the same. I definitely would want to see the experiment with the genders reversed.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:16 AM
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You don't want to sleep with her. She's been a good wife all these years even though she knows you get your needs pleased somewhere else. Your kids are all raised and you want to keep your routine as it is. I think you should do it. Honestly, it's not something i would do (I would expect to always feel attracted to my future wife), but in an objective point of view, if you feel no attraction towards her and you don't want your life to change, i think that's the best way to do it. i think it's fa…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:20 PM
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Women love validation, some more than others, depending on what she posts, you get to know what type of girl you have chosen for an LTR (With all due respect). It's ok to tell her if something bothers you, she's your LTR, i would tell you to shrug it off if she was your plate, but in an LTR both have to keep respect for each other. Tell her it's not correct for her to do that but don't get angry or start fighting over it. Don't let the content get worse.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:17 PM
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Premature ejaculation is a problem completely related to your mind (unless you have some serious health problem wich i doubt). As a person who had this situation the first few months in my first LTR (When i was getting introduced to TRP), i found out that the more you though about ejaculating, the more likely you were gonna cum fast again. You must not only get rid of your negative thoughs during sex, you must also get rid of all positive thoughs, you DON'T have to THINK during sex, you have to …
/r/askTRP22/01/18 04:38 PM
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