Introspectah Archive

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1	Racial insecurity Do you see a way of connecting with somebody in such an intimate way that you could manage to draw out of them a certain clue as to what may keep certain women away from you? At the moment i simply cannot consider the idea that nearly all of them are repelled merely by your length. And both terms ugly and beautiful are indicators of attraction which will be distinct to each individual that comes in contact with you. So you can never be a generally ugly dude to every single human who encounters y…	/r/seduction	28/05/15 11:50 AM
1	Racial insecurity If they're in tune with popular culture, and thus flow in the main stream of racial conceptualization, this means they're condtioned to be fearful or cautious of you. Haven't you casually interacted with any creature of this seemingly foreign species yet? It would be good if you could establish contact with someone as to find out what may be the exact, or some of the causes for the rejection you regularly face.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 09:09 PM
1	Racial insecurity Is your school's population mostly composed of snobs who haven't got much experience with dark-skinned people and thus shy any contact with them or do you feel like it's more about your appearance and/or the vibe you give off than the race you belong to?	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:59 PM
1	Racial insecurity Hm, i see. So i'll go along in your narrative. What are some of the possible causes for their repulsion? You brought up your length/size, but i doubt this would make most women avoid you. Regular avoidance of eye-contact is strange. So why would they? Do you feel as if there reigns a powerful racial prejudice towards Africans in the area where you experience these troubles? Might intimidation come into play? And might the most recent eruption of African distress in Baltimore and such have anythi…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:47 PM
3	23-year-old ruined by anxiety, on the rise back up and need your help with the ladies (I clearly am doing things wrong) Gee, mister busy bee! I have no idea how to describe my looks, as I don't know if I'm attractive or not, but I would say I am. Mate, in order for you to be found attractive, somebody has to be attracted to you. So how can you define for your self whether you're attractive or not? And by what standards? Basically all you're doing is determining for your self whether you are endorsing the attributes and traits you bring into this world. Nothing wrong with a bit of self-validation---in fact, can't …	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:31 PM
2	Racial insecurity < well basically I think I take rejection and "dirty looks" from people far too personally. Understandable, and i relate. But there's got to be a part of you which desires to be accepted, then? I mean, what sort of encounters are you referring to? Random ones with unfamiliar ones you don't exchange words with? Women, mainly, i presume?	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:28 PM
1	Racial insecurity And it's almost as if people can't deal with someone whose not a walking stereotype. Ah, but that's a whole different matter to ponder. Would you rather fit into a stereotype; conform and be embraced ritualistically without much warmth generated in such shallow bonds typical of conformist approval, or do you prefer to develop your self with disregard to stereotypical constructs while risking regular disapproval yet setting the stage for authentic relationships to occur? ''I'm attracted to all so…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 07:58 PM
1	How to I get over the regret of not using my university years more wiser ''(...)and knowing myself I wouldn't really wish myself on anyone.'' This is the root of all the problems you've encapsulated. ''Lose your self to improve your self; only when we shed all self-definition do we find who we really are.'' ''In all reality the present is not a result of the past; the past is a result of the present. You are creating the past and the future from now. It is only an illusion that the present is a direct result of the past. You can create the continuum illusion, but eac…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 07:53 PM
1	Racial insecurity In order to be put down by racial prejudice some part of you has got to align with the prejudice, no? Perhaps a good question for you to ask your self would be, ''how do i perceive my race and, subsequently, my self as a part of it?''	/r/seduction	27/05/15 07:50 PM
1	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! The suggestion to call her was optional, not a necessity. In that case, if you do wish to make an end to, or at least diminish your vehement uncertainties dwelling in the abyss of misunderstanding collapsed in between both of your habitats, i strongly recommend you to ask her if she can set aside a brief moment in time for you so that you can finally ask the questions that have been simmering within your mindtank up to the point of boiling over and making a mess. I strongly recommend getting thi…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 11:44 PM
2	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! Mindgames, man, mindgames.. :-D Somehow this back-and-forth thing must be somewhat entertaining, no? At least i speak from personal experience. Unless you perceive the connection between you two hanging by a thin thread, then it's become less amusing. Evidently. Hmyeah, that's right. I momentarily forgot about the longitude of your conversational exchange so in a way she can't be blamed for not making her self known for a while if she keeps coming back with revitalized interest. I'd say best thi…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 07:00 PM
2	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! Hmn..24+ hours and no response seems fishy to me. Only thing you can do right now is simply ask her something along the lines of this: ((and i know cause i've been dealing with a situation similar to yours)) ''Look, i don't want to be a nuisance, but what's bothering me is not knowing why you're not responding to me for so long. If something is withholding you from being your self with me, i would like you to tell me now so that i at least know where i stand.'' At least something in the trend of…	/r/seduction	08/03/15 01:16 PM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! And...what did you decide to send?	/r/seduction	07/03/15 10:56 AM
2	When cold approaching girls on the street and college campus how do you keep a fun and light vibe? How do you make her feel comfortable talking to you, with you being a stranger? I suggest you amp up the temperature and generate some warmth. Whether that be via the aura you generate---of happiness, friendliness, charisma, unharmfulness---or by physical means via a cuddle. Whatever you decide to do, for instance in the case of throwing your self out there to give a quick cuddle, be confident and at least don't display any hesitation. Be your self, be different. There's no textbook method to be applied, and from the little you have shared i cannot correct your ways. If the…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 10:53 AM
1	Do you take a girl not responding to a text as a sign of disinterest/disrespect? I'd suggest so, cause perpetually stacking up digested matter is unadvised. XD	/r/seduction	07/03/15 10:48 AM
2	Do you take a girl not responding to a text as a sign of disinterest/disrespect? He's gonna undergo a sense deprived death if he's going to discard his ego just like that.. :-D	/r/seduction	06/03/15 08:46 PM
1	Do you take a girl not responding to a text as a sign of disinterest/disrespect? I lack the depth in reference and information to provide a cohesive response. In general, you want to keep in mind that there are several reasons why a female interactée is not (immediately) responding. One of which being she is afraid to express her thoughts spontaneously and is over-thinking her response, or you've hit a sensitive snare of whichever type of instrument and she's reluctant, inhibited to express her emotions authentically. If you do feel as if she's losing interest, be direct in …	/r/seduction	06/03/15 08:02 PM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! ''Why I haven't replied this time is because I really don't know what to say... she asked me question and I could keep answering and going back and forth with response and question, but I'm getting annoyed but it a bit. I like to learn about herself, even by text, but I'd like to see her in person too and I've told her about it.'' Say this. Not just the part about wanting to see her, but the entire thing. If you feel somewhat obliged to provide her a late response just tell her that you did not …	/r/seduction	06/03/15 04:46 PM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! Ha ha...quite remarkable how some parallels can be drawn in between your situation and mine. Let me ask you this, are you also attempting to not come across as too needy by postponing your response to her message? Whereas you'd normally be inclined to respond as soon as you have read her text, now you choose to delay the message until a decent amount of time has lapsed? If so, be radical once, and reply as soon as you have read her message, and see how she responds. Also, try to engage in some p…	/r/seduction	06/03/15 02:44 PM
1	Starting from scratch and in need of solid advice to get me going. Pleasure to meet you, buddy. No need to encapsulate your commonly experienced feelings of social and sexual anxiety under a clinical denomination. Feelings of nervousness evoked by encounters with a whimsical creature of the female species are not necessarily bad, just like nerves before performances are rather neutral in themselves. Depends on what you do with it. ''If you're not losing friends, you're not evolving.'' I say acknowledge your decisive move as a fresh accomplishment and develop th…	/r/seduction	06/03/15 01:40 PM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! Forget the majority, man, really! :D There's no real, viable way to give you a look into my background of seducing women but i can say in all honesty that i have mastered the art of seduction and, above all, i vibrate close to the wavelength of femininity. Even though i used to be quite the socially inhibited one, once a particular girl nourished my confidence to allow for my inner tendencies to emerge i proceeded confidently. It is confidence that appeals to women, but not the facade of confide…	/r/seduction	06/03/15 01:07 AM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! There's no textbook method to approach or seduce. And those that exist are dogmatic; irrelevant and irrespective of the diversity of personality that exists. So, no, there is no ''special text'' you can send her unless i had been roughly up to date with how your convo has been developing. Simply put, in order for me to know what to say to win her over to your side, i would have to know how she feels about you and in what manner you have been interacting with her all along... I can't walk in your…	/r/seduction	05/03/15 05:05 PM
3	Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed! ''Well I know what you mean, the thing is she always get back to me with equally long txt messages... And she keep asking me question about my life and all. She say she isn't used to texting message that long but she's liking it and think it's cool we still have thing to say.'' This says it all. She's interested in you. First i need to know how the dynamic is looking now? I'll give you advice once you provided an update. But i got one thing to say to you already: If you're really into her, be pa…	/r/seduction	05/03/15 10:57 AM
1	How could one go about getting nudes from women? I used to possess of the insatiable desire to lure females into exposing them selves to me through impersonal media of interaction. In time i've managed to derive numerous nudes out of various females, and even though a profound period of introspection provided me deeper insight into the inner tendencies which drove me to treat women this way, i am still tempted to inquire about photographic exposure of nudity. I am now aware that what drives me is a will to power---a notion central to Nietzsche…	/r/seduction	05/03/15 10:51 AM