Hello guys,

I really don't know how to write all of this since my english writing is not very good... but I need advice since I feel this conversation with this girl is going no where... I need to put more pressure and get some escalation going but I don't know how! I'll try to be short...

I got matched with this girl on Tinder that live 45min away from me. After talking for a bit, I jokingly asked if she was giving private english lessons and that I'd love her to give me some over a glass of wine to help me loosen up my english. She accepted and we exchanged number. Then we texted, texted and texted. About all and nothing. Conversation is going smoothly. 3 weeks later, I pressure her into giving me her availability since every other time I tried she was too busy or something. We then had our first date. We went ice skating. It lasted a solid 2 hours, she told me beforehand she had a curfew since she had to prepare a class later that night/morning. Everything went fine. Kino was not very easy but I manage to do some... (highfive, held her hand while skating to help her out, put my hand in her back while going trough doors). It's been 2 week since and we keep texting a lot. Not a lot like non-stop texting back and forth. I'd say we text like... long text (2-3 scroll on iPhone) about once each, every day or every other day. It's been like that since the beginning.

Now, we were supposed to meet this week and she keep telling me she'd get back to me with a date but she is extremely busy (which I believe her from what she tell me). Yesterday she asked me how was my week was planned. I jokingly told her that I might meet a girl. She then replied that she was very sorry for not coming back to me but she was very busy blabla but she would get back to me as soon as she knew.

I know this is vague, therefor I don't have much expectation from you guys, but I'm kinda lost in this. I need to come up with something but I just don't know. I feel like I have to put some sort of ultimatum...

Is she seing someone else? Is she like... very careful and want to take her time? She's very busy of course, but we all know this is often bullshit....

I feel like I could add way more details, but I'll leave it there... Any though?