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| 1 | Why You Aren't Getting a Second Date | 7 Surprising ReasonsThis depends on your environment, but if you live in a city, pick a couple bars that are more interesting than just a place to talk. Eg. Arcade bar, live music bar, pool hall, etc.. You can also just go out to places in nature too - waterfront, mountains, big field, anything. Avoid dinner type situations. | /r/seduction | 10/07/19 03:29 PM |
| 14 | If you have never been the casual sex guy, you do not know womenThe best summarization of RP action items I’ve ever read. Each comes with its own amount of work and discipline, but do them all and you’ll reach your own best potential. Just know that your own best potential will vary compared to other men’s’ best potential. And to be angry about that fact will not help you - humans have always had a totem pole. Learn where you lie and work the cards you’ve been dealt as best you can to win the game of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Ironically, it's faster to walk up the stairs than to just stand in the escalator lol.Have they ever defended this blatant censorship with any sensible logic? Like, has anyone who’s gotten banned asked and gotten a halfway decent response? | /r/MensRights | 23/04/19 08:53 PM |
| 24 | Man Sues Wife After Doctors Reveal He’s Not the Father of His 3 Sons Because He’s Infertilethis article goes over how paternity tests can give “false positives” or “inconclusive” results. Seems like it’s more a process of elimination than an exact science. Eg. Both guys gave crappy samples (not enough DNA for accurate testing), and the report came back with what percentage of the DNA samples matched against what was tested in the baby. In this situation, maybe my buddy’s bad sample just had a slightly better match than the other guy’s bad sample. I’d also hypothesize that it’s probabl… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 07:59 PM |
| 134 | Man Sues Wife After Doctors Reveal He’s Not the Father of His 3 Sons Because He’s InfertilePostnatal as well. My buddy got called up by a fuckbuddy. She was preggo. There were three guys standing for DNA tests. One guy got a 0% chance, other guy got a 97% chance, and my buddy got a 99% chance. Given that he got the highest score, the families collectively moved forward as if there was no doubt that my buddy was the father. Delivery day comes. They are harassing him to sign the birth certificate. He refuses to until he gets a postnatal paternity test. 0% result for him. 99% result for … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 07:14 PM |
| 5 | A quick reminderThat intention isn't something created from your own free will. It was programmed into you by fem-centric social conditioning. Appreciate the sentiment, but that's not a fairy tale for us, it's a fairy tale for the female. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/19 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Exclusion behavior by groups of womenFair, but lol - given that this is such an immediate and primal judgement of SMV I would argue that adherence to commercial physical beauty standards will work best to garner positive attention. Thus, there's not much a short South Asian guy in America can do. Luckily my SMV grows the more people interact with me (I have [edit:] great body language, am very engaging and have no problem with game) but even when I was completely jacked/shredded, I wasn't turning many heads off the bat. Not much I … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 8 | Let’s Make Gillette’s new ad the most disliked video on YouTubeI’m really curious to see how this pans out. A company puts out content that demonizes and marginalizes a group of people, then sticks their fingers in their ears and go “LALALA” when met with backlash. Is this how companies should be responding to most effectively thwart backlash against their actions? If so - next time a company breaches political correctness, have them behave the same way Gillette is behaving now. Kill the backlash by not addressing it. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/19 02:27 PM |
| 8 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenYou're citing a very specific circumstance to base your entire argument on, and it's flawed because of this. The flipside could be true as well. Say you're having a bad day, and this cute, well-mannered and friendly girl comes up to you and compliments you. It's the best feeling in the world, it'll leave you with a goofy smile on your face for the rest of the day. You make so many negative assumptions - the most paramount being you assume the approacher is fugly and clumsy. In your context, you'… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | 5 exercises that will boost your charisma with girlsAnd then get banned bc if you ask a question in /r/fitness and there’s a single search result from query-ing any of the words in your question (including “a” and “to”), they decide you’re a spawn of Satan and deserve the electric chair | /r/seduction | 21/12/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Holdtight fam wit bare jokes I have no idea what I’m saying, you English people just sound cool to us Yanks. | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 02:44 AM |
| 4 | 7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About WomenInstead of complimenting her, ask her a question about the cool shit she’s talking about. This let’s her talk more about herself. You can also playfully tease her about it too. Either the cool thing she does or the fact that she does cool shit. Teasing does not translate to evil - I tease my buddies that are crushing it at life all the time. It’s a great way to build rapport. | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Cosmopolitan, it is not OK to objectify anyone.Did you reply to her comment? “Stop objectifying Lenny Kravitz. #misandrist” then when she responds, say “stop #femsplaining me.” Then watch as she claims a false rape accusation against you. You’re either in jail or dead, she gets away scot free, happy ending for the social paradigm. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/18 07:51 PM |
| 4 | 13 ways to make a girl want youIt’s sad that that’s the social consciousness. If people were more self-aware and in-tune with their standard biological nature and accept it, instead of fighting against it with narratives like “I can’t be won over by seduction techniques,” people would be much happier. Sad that human nature is considered something to be fought against as opposed to embraced and leveraged. But glad that you have a decent amount of self awareness. Don’t be not proud! Be happy :) | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 0 | 13 ways to make a girl want youLol people want results without putting in the work | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | 13 ways to make a girl want youWhy does that make you not proud? Lol I don’t understand what’s shameful about it. | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Grew a beard. Life changed. [Semi-FR w/Tips]Thanks so much! I only wish I had known the impact 5 years ago O_O | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce girls as a trans man?Hahaha welcome to the truths of being a man. It’s not all rosy and perfect the way the social narrative tries to make it seem. Even when you get to being VERY masculine, you will still struggle. Because all men do. It’s not as easy as it is for women. You’re using your trans status as a scapegoat. The real reason is your lack of confidence and the ability to make a woman feel good. And you should know the latter way better than any born-male man can. Leverage this knowledge - and don’t use scape… | /r/seduction | 06/10/18 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Why you can't win with a college feminist....For millions of years, we were not. Think that amount of evolutionary conditioning changes overnight? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/18 08:47 PM |
| 35 | Why you can't win with a college feminist....Because from an evolutionary standpoint, the female life is more valuable than the male life. It takes a sea of women to carry the population forward, but only one man. It doesn't work nearly as efficiently in the opposite environment. Given this, women will always have it easier. Our society is built to preserve female life - which is why they simply don't need to understand the hardships of being the expendable gender. edit: This is why politicians and prominent supporters blatantly ignore the… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/18 02:48 PM |
| 2 | The Power GameFighting is probably the most invigorating thing you can get into. You NEED to be in good physical shape to survive in a ring. Training conditions you, and fights test you. This process is really the best track to growth. Another thing you'll notice is that when you fight, you're the closest to death that your fight-or-flight response will ever be. It really brings a weird existential peace to me knowing that I can take a hit, and also how to land a hit. Haters will ask "so you like getting your… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 05:09 PM |
| 0 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onI think it's less that and more standing your ground in shit testing situations. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onPartially true but not completely. There are ways to increase your social value even after you've hit bottom. It's difficult though - so honestly finding a new social circle may be helpful. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onYou really think he'd be posting here if he knew how to do that? | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:27 PM |
| 3 | How to stop being the friend who gets picked onWhy has no one posted this here? | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Asked out the girl at the pharmacy yesterday.I am from the Midwest and just hate bothering people. That ain't a Midwest thing, hun, that's fear of rejection. Give yourself a little bit more accountability in life and it'll catapult your game forward even more. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 03:31 PM |
| 7 | 3 Body Language Tweaks That Actually WorksIt's so effing nuts how much this affects the way people perceive you. You literally go from invisible to a force to be reckoned with. Fucking amazing! | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Girls mocking me?To rest the issue: You're not an unattractive guy. If you're tall, that's definitely working in your favor too - chances are you're pretty good looking IRL. But this is less about the objective truth of that statement and more about the way you perceive yourself. What's the point of viewing this single interaction as something so terrible by a few random girls when you can view it as a positive interaction where you could easily be happy? Happiness starts with attitude. Interact with the world f… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Ann Arbor Pick Up Meetup.See if you can find an RSD group in your local area. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Girls mocking me?I mean you don't look bad. There are two ways to perceive this. 1) They were laughing at you. This makes you feel small, weak, unattractive. This viewpoint doesn't help you in any way. 2) They were attracted to you, talking about how cute you are. This bolsters your self-confidence, you get a little boost in ego and can use this to create a more positive energy. The great mid-2000s poet Lady Sovereign said it best: "love me or hate me, I'm still an obsession." It's up to you on how you interpret… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How to hook a girl?Dig it. Can't wait to read more comments on this. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.nobody gives a fuck if you have a pimple on your left ass cheek. Can confirm. Source: Sat in some oil. Rest is history. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 01:46 AM |
| 4 | 8 out of 10 sexual accusations are false according to the criminal police departmant of Rostock, GermanyBut if he doesn't call the next day, it's definitely rape. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/18 01:40 AM |
| 3 | She wants to feel smallWhat do you get, my dear? What do you get that's so much holier than all of us? If you're going to engage, bring value. Otherwise you're just as worthless as when you stepped into the discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | It’s one thing to be ugly in one country... it’s another to be ugly in ALL of them.This is brilliant. Super insightful and helpful reply. Any other resources that could further augment my cold approach bar/club game? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | It’s one thing to be ugly in one country... it’s another to be ugly in ALL of them.So what can I do to stop being so brutally rejected every single time I try to approach? What are the right openers? What’s wrong with my presentation? If you have hypotheses, I’d love to hear them. Bars/nights out seem to be the place I do the worst. No problem getting lays from online or social circle game (if I’m getting IOIs). | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 02:24 PM |
| 12 | Make her day.Yeah. You'll also notice that the more you do it, the better responses you'll generally get. This is because there is so much about your attractiveness that still depends on how you come across/your nonverbal language. A guy faking the "coming from a place of power" compliment is easy for a girl to identify, based on his body language. And chances are, you'll be starting out by faking it. The more you do it though, the more you'll understand how to give these compliments from a place of power - … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 04:16 PM |
| 4 | STEM fieldsYour entire philosophy is built on a false pretense. Read number 6. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/18 03:36 PM |
| 52 | STEM fieldsI mean "sexism against men" may not have existed with that particular description, but "apathy to the male condition" has been the default of humanity since we were reptiles. We're the expendable gender. And still are. Only now, society is having its privileged rebellious teen years, screaming "I HATE YOU DADDY I WISH I WASN'T BORN" cuz everything is too comfy. It's all cyclical. Wait for the next massive social decline or risk of extinction to happen and we'll quickly revert to our biological s… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Get fucking CUTWhat program were you following before? And what is it now? I keep saying stronglifts because it WORKS haha. Even after lifting for a while, especially after hiatus. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Get fucking CUTPointless, but also difficult. For a couple of reasons. 1) You don't have any muscle mass, so your basal metabolic rate is very low. Which means you'll need to eat at a very low caloric intake amount (we're talking dangerously low) to lose weight. 2) Your body will quickly go into survival mode. And when it does that, it will fight harder to keep that belly fat. Belly fat is the most stubborn because physiologically, it's at the center of the body. Thus, it's the last fat reserve that will be ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Get fucking CUTI was skinnyfat my whole life. I only made progress by bulking. You need to bulk first. Like - a LOT. Get your 3RMs to at least 1x body weight for bench, 1.5x for squat, and 2x for dead. Otherwise you’re gonna cut to skinny with no muscle. I was eating a ton and doing stronglifts. Only recently started a cut and while I’ve deflated, I’m actually seeing definition pop out. Focus on the bulk. Skinnyfat = no muscle to cut to, so why cut first? Build the mass, then cut. The other good part about bul… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to be sociable without "blabbing?"So how does one gather and absorb information while still flirting and giving women an emotional experience? I wouldn’t want to sound like I’m interviewing a chick either. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.messaged you on reddit chat | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.So I'm currently somewhat incel, living in a small town where not much happens and all the college girls aren't interested in me. It's not like this when I visit other, big cities - but my attempts at monk mode here have just made me much more insecure. It's starting to leak over into my interactions when I visit the big cities. Meditation is huge, though, I wholeheartedly agree with you. Will pick this back up. When I was at my best I was meditating every day. But nowadays I'm just left sitting… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.But that's the thing - I was SO optimistic, driven, passionate, engaging, and charismatic. Much moreso than said classically attractive people in my life. But it wasn't met with that much more real interest. I'd engage, women would enjoy me... then go fuck the more classically attractive ones. I'd have social proof, social circles and people would enjoy my company... but it would never amount to meaningful interactions. But those seemed to develop very effortlessly with the classically attractiv… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.Let's talk. I would love to hear you out. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.I wear shoe lifts. It's helped... a little. Definitely get more interest on the dating apps when I list myself as tall haha | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.Women aside - my life still gets shit tested much harder than the classically attractive. And the worst part is this underlying theme of apathy. Like the shit tests are just their entertainment - they've already etched me low in the totem pole, so regardless of whether i pass or fail - i'm still just worthless to them. Family does this. Work does this. Social circles do this. It's everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.So this confirms the black pill, then. That there is a glass ceiling to it based solely on the physical attractiveness level I'm at. I'm low on the totem pole, and my use is to give chads the pussy and be the beta cuck provider to a woman. I've already left the city in which those friends and that culture lives. But it's clear that I've simply ran away - not conquered it, and left on my own terms. I left because I couldn't conquer it. Just the same as if I was to stop busting my ass to game. I w… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.That is helpful but it's a partial solution. You're right, my frame NEEDS to be rock solid - because the things I do get shit-tested way more than if the classically attractive do it. But it doesn't matter because of that underlying theme of apathy. Since I'm not classically attractive I'm just fodder for people. Either for shit tests or something else. They've already made their decision that I'm lower on the totem pole - the shit tests are simply there to entertain themselves. If you have some… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:25 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.Thanks for the comment. I agree, that simplification of the Chad isn't. But the CEOs, the war generals, the entire concept of Chad that's been immortalized as the goal for a male existence... even if unremembered, living that would be great. Have money? Fucking be a sugar daddy. But the thing is... Chad would never need to do that to get pussy. The pussy would fuck him for free. I know bc I've been fucked for free before... seldom, but it's happened. An absolutely no-further-exchange interaction… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:13 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I'm starting to ingest The Black Pill.I'd believe it now. I certainly see less interest with this attitude than my optimistic views of before. What brought this on though is that... I was SO optimistic, driven, passionate, engaging, and charismatic. Much moreso than said classically attractive people in my life. But it wasn't met with that much more real interest. I'd engage, women would enjoy me... then go fuck the more classically attractive ones. I'd have social proof, social circles and people would enjoy my company... but it wo… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | To Those Who Haven't Completely Swallowed the PillI have the opposite problem. My dad is like a foot taller than me, red pilled as fuck and super manipulative. He still sees me as a worthless little shit. I think there's a glass ceiling to how much RP you can really be when you're short and unimposing physically. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 06:11 AM |
| 7 | To Those Who Haven't Completely Swallowed the PillAt least in the stone age, if you were beta you'd would quickly die instead of being strung along in this placid, empty life. Nowadays you can spend your entire life being a spineless beta cuck and die at 90 without ever having been an ounce of important to anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 06:09 AM |
| 26 | In which a nice guy is disassembled for being nice.but at 2am on a weekend they are gobbling down alpha dick and Double Cheeseburgers I wonder if they taste the same... shower thoughts. no homo. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 12:51 AM |
| 15 | Jordan Peterson: On the New York Times and “Enforced Monogamy” | Just as with James Damore and the Google memo, feminists again misunderstand a scientific term (perhaps deliberately) and freak out for no reason.Marriage oppresses women and all that. Well, if you choose to marry only once. I know one girl who had 3 marriages in her 20s, and makes 6 figures off the alimony. She doesn't even have kids, just really good divorce lawyer family friends. Feminism should be happy that marriage is now simply a legal construct that allows easy redistribution of male wealth and resources to the female populace. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingwhich would have made him the alpha hero In his own mind. He's still a beta to the dude that just smashed his head in - and everyone else. Once he's dead no one will think a second time about him. But he'd have died in the absolute happiest possible emotional state he could have. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Life or primitive Jane: the boys are huntingkilled off Uma and Jane That's not an evolutionarily-sound move. Their wombs are more important than Bobnick's life. Killing the women reduces the offspring that can be created. Killing Bobnick is just a display of power - he's guarding his status as the alpha to the rest of the tribe that just witnessed the killing. Some of the further points about entitlement and the such ring truer when society is doing well - but quickly fall off when society is not doing well. In hunter-gatherer tribes, you… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out EverydayBut its also important for your wings, for example my wings are both 6'1 so even though I'm 5'10, I look really short compared to them wearing the wrong shoes. So in order to fit in, in sets I have to wear proper shoes to match them. Dude this is paramount. I used to hang out with a group of VERY attractive 6'+ males and would constantly get rejected while they slayed the pussy. I'm not an unattractive dude, either - it's relative attractiveness that kills me. And, of course, I slay when I'm out… | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out EverydayLooks matter: being in shape, well groomed matters. Some girls will just blow you out on the open because you don't hit their minimum criteria for a suitable guy. I'm going to get roasted for saying this, but if you're short, invest in high quality shoe lifts or elevator shoes. The couple inches seriously add a confidence boost - and do strange things to open a gambit of women who you wouldn't originally be appealing to. I'm 5'9" and hit a cool 6' with the lifts - it's crazy how much of a differ… | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I went on a date with a girl in a committed relationship?Hypergamy. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Introducing Rough Sex. [Long]One thing about choking that I should note is that while the act is inherently dominant, the focus is physiologically on her pleasure. So even if she's not into it from a conceptual level, you can open her up to it by saying something like "but have you ever had an asphyxiated orgasm? It's only the best orgasm you'll ever have." Vanilla girls ain't mad after they experience that. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Introducing Rough Sex. [Long]One thing I should note is that while the act is inherently dominant, the focus is physiologically one of her pleasure. So even if she's not into it from a conceptual level, you can open her up to it by saying something like "but have you ever had an asphyxiated orgasm? It's only the best orgasm you'll ever have." Vanilla girls ain't mad after they experience that. | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Sad, but okay. Moving forward to your other points. So r/seduction is about how to have sex while you're in a permanent relationship with somebody? This is one of the various topics that r/seduction goes over. Well I do in the sense that this sub is trying to do it What is your perception of how this sub attempts to do "it?" Doesn't make it right Correct me if I'm wrong but I'm understanding this statement to mean "an action being responsible for someone's existence doesn't make it right." To th… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Well I do in the sense that this sub is trying to do it This is still moving the goal posts. Your original statement said "in general." This statement is in a specific context. Please address the original argument. Doesn't make it right Further moving the goalposts. Morality was never discussed, only agreement and disagreement. Please address the original argument. if somebody was raped and bore a child you could say that if I hate rape then I hate the principle that's responsible for somebody's… | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.You've moved the goal posts. Your original point is: I just disagree with seduction in general I responded by pointing out that you're: disagreeing with a principle that's responsible for your existence. Everything we discussed from that point forward revolved around these two points. You failed to address these two points with your latest post - which poses a new argument - one about this subreddit and its context. I'm open to discussing that, but please be courteous enough to close the prior a… | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Right. And your mother (and/or your father) enticed the opposite into the sexual activity that created you. Your mother and father seduced each other, in order to have the sex that created you. What was the point of posting that definition? | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.That's like saying fabric isn't the same as a shoe. Everyone knows that - but you can't have the latter without the former. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Alright. Have fun disagreeing with a principle that's responsible for your existence. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.And? | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 05:47 AM |
| 40 | The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and LiftingThis is what Trp used to be filled with. It was great. I will say, however, allowing the anger and shitposts that happens on this sub with the influx of new, frustrated betas is necessary for the sake of their growth. We as men really have no more quality "safe" spaces left. Places where we can spew the anger we have from the injustices and misrepresentations of society... throw our temper tantrums to then grow out of them in order to learn from them and become better men. I think the mods and t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and Lifting/u/unrealenting covered it, but also eat clean. Do whatever physical activity you CAN do and your shape will at least work for you if not your sheer size. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and LiftingDude all of your posts are effing brilliant. So glad to have you on this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:40 PM |
| -5 | The Holy Trinity of Masculinity: Frame, Game, and LiftingAaand with that, you lost this one. Sorry champ, better luck next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.I wonder, however - does this come simply from poor marketing on our part? Kia now makes luxury cars, and they're damned good... The results of using the knowledge from /r/seduction speak for themselves. Could we just be poor at conveying that - and should optimize this somehow? Genuine question, as a mod, you've probably fought this battle more than any of us here. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 07:19 PM |
| 19 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub."What would you do if you found out that the person you're dating wears makeup?" Oh, all of a sudden, falsifying aspects of yourself for the sake of sexual attraction is perfectly fine. Which isn't even what we do - but it's what people perceive that we do, and then attack us for while conveniently letting other examples of it slide. Sucks, man. It truly sucks. Got a link to that thread, out of curiosity? | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Ugh. I suppose spending so much time aligned to these schools of thought has messed up my perception of how we're generally received. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 06:51 PM |
| 20 | Banned from /r/socialskills for referencing this sub.Fight club grew because people broke the first rule. The rule was made with the knowledge that it'd be broken. I'm surprised you didn't know. Shows a bit about your life awareness. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisThanks for the reply. Any suggestions on capturing the emotional investment of a woman quickly? Cold reads, push/pull, and banter are always good, but anything else you can think of? | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 02:52 AM |
| 3 | 5 Keys To Be Amazing In Bed - More Guys Need To Know ThisThanks for your input, always good to have some opposite gender representation here. That said... While your focus on hooking her mentally is very important, there's one thing that you're overlooking here. hot or good looking guys are such dish rag. They're so boring. The hottest guy I've ever got with had the most tinist dick ever. But you still slept with them. You gave them the opportunity to bed you even when you weren't mentally stimulated by them. When it comes to the short game, this is g… | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Farewell BSA: The Death of a Great Male Spacecountry's goin to shit, i tell ya. i sound like a white protestant boomer who lives in a farmtown. and my brown ass is sitting here in a highrise studio with skinny jeans on. i guess that's when you know the country's REALLY goin to shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The importance of low body fat and how attractive ypu could beThis makes a good case for investing in facial surgery. Seems like the moment you get a strong jawline it's over, the poon falls into place. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/18 01:21 AM |
| 4 | The importance of low body fat and how attractive ypu could beThis can be corrected if you genuinely don't believe it's working for you. Either through surgery or facial hair and hair styling to cover the forehead. No excuse to have gotten so fat. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Hamster pushed for divorce, then became jealous when ex-husband got in shape and found a younger, prettier SOIMO - It may feel like luck due to the Pareto principle or 80/20 rule - 80% of your results come from 20% of your overall effort. However, if your overall effort is larger, that 20% gets proportionally larger as well. It feels like luck because it's such a small part of your overall effort - but it's still attributed to the quality and breadth of your hustle. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 04:42 PM |
| 22 | Hamster pushed for divorce, then became jealous when ex-husband got in shape and found a younger, prettier SOThis isn't dependent on luck. This is dependent on hustle. Luck favors the perseverant. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 01:41 AM |
| 22 | Hamster pushed for divorce, then became jealous when ex-husband got in shape and found a younger, prettier SOI think it's important to remember, however, that you need to capitalize on all that 20s knowledge in order to make your 30s amazing. It doesn't just magically happen - if you were fat and ugly in your 20s, and stay that way in your 30s, you're not going to see that much improvement. You have to keep hustling, building your legacy, focusing on your purpose, working out and eating healthy, generating power, and creating solid social presence in order for all this to work in your favor. It doesn't… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Woman leaves ex-boyfriend with horrific injuries in an acid attack, led to man's euthanasiaBeing a male in general is slowly getting to that point. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/18 05:58 PM |
| 2 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.There is enough evidence for rape. We have extensive DNA testing abilities and if a woman was raped, the evidence is in her body. If you walk into a police station with the DNA of a man on you, and claim that he raped you, you're almost guaranteed to get him thrown in jail. There's always ample evidence - if you report it and go through the standard processes that exist for it - like you would for literally every other crime that happens in this world. But for some god-forsaken reason, people do… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble with "don't care what others think of you."Thanks for the in-depth post. Will be diving in. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble with "don't care what others think of you."Long post - started by answering your q, then moved on to a lot of thinking out loud. 5'8.5 (used to be 5'9, don't know wtf happened), dark skinned South Asian. It's hard on these streets. Many of my friends are taller than me and it's crushing to watch them easily capture all female attention directed at our group, while said females will flat out reject me. This extends to all interactions, not just women. I've been jacked, skinny, dressed clean cut, dressed urban (refined urban... denim/leath… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:30 AM |
| -1 | I never got around to thanking you guysBut if you make money, and are still short and genetically unlucky, people will only want to be around you because of said money. Women will poke holes in condoms when you fuck them bc they want a cut of the pie - not because you're the alpha they want to fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 10:32 PM |
| 0 | I never got around to thanking you guysHonestly it doesn't seem like a bad option now. I've only ever consistently been the object of attraction from women in the vein that they want see me as good "commitment material." It's the transactional attraction that comes with not being the alpha they want to fuck simply for the sake of fucking. It's heartbreaking to watch all your naturally RP friends (who are over 6' and genetically lucky in the way of physical attractiveness and resilience when training) easily fuck and not be presented … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 06:44 PM |
| 3 | I never got around to thanking you guysFor me it's been cyclical. I've gone from feeling on top of the world with TRP to feeling like absolute worthless shit. Furthermore, physical limitations are starting to set in and I can't lift super heavy like I used to, and am starting to lose hair due to skin conditions. I'm literally roadblocked to be physically attractive - and that means so much in this shallow world. Not sure what to do, wondering whether life's even worth it if you can't be amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Just A Bit Too Close ... An Introduction To Body Language.I'm wondering what tools are in place for this to not bite you in the ass in this #metoo world. The feminists have virtually repealed implied consent. And, the typical answer of "just be alpha, hold frame, etc" won't do - you will, at some point, matter less to this woman than her need to feel right/vindicated for whatever perceived injustice she created in her mind since the time you were involved with her and that future present. Maybe you left her because she was acting up? Maybe you became l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 05:27 PM |
| 17 | My biggest key to having a high success rate with women.You're getting downvoted but it's true... IF you're unattractive. If you lift, eat healthy, get enough sleep, dress well, and take of your skin/body/appearance in general, you're at less of a risk. Like, a dude with a scraggly beard and unkept, dry or zitty skin, wearing an oversized metal band hoodie and ugly pants checking out a girl's ass is definitely at higher risk of being accused of sexual harassment (unless he's rich and famous) than a very well dressed, clean cut, vibrant skinned guy. | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 23 | Seduce her with your eyes!That's really exactly what it is. The difference between creepy and hot is how attracted she is to you. It's a manipulative way to give a behavior-based reason as to why she's not attracted to you - when in reality, she simply isn't physically attracted to you, but saying that outright would make her seem shallow. edit: furthermore, it creates a shaming tactic women can use against unattractive men, vilifying them for having sexual feelings at all. These manipulative models are commonplace in pr… | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Hooking up with a friend?I've managed this a few times. If you're certain there is ongoing interest there, you can easily bring this to a point where you two can hook up. You're friends, right? So hanging out is NBD, but you can tease her a little more than usual. Kino can be done as well, and you'll be able to tell if she's receptive or not as you do it. The eye contact thing that someone stated earlier is a good place to start - hold it for longer than usual, feel free to interact in a more flirtatious manner. Say you… | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | As a female, how do I encourage seduction?So to be frank, a lot depends on how physically attractive you are. Are you? You need to be attractive for a male to engage with you, plain and simple. It's due to biology, and you have a slim chance of changing that with your personality/wit, and even that will take much more work than simply displaying yourself as an attractive person. | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 01:32 AM |
| 5 | Everything is misogyny!!!LMFAO ded. You win the internets today. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/17 07:11 PM |
| 17 | (Un)Conventional Ways To Become A Verbal ExpertI've also noticed that not fapping helps with this. Go a week without and somehow I'm the wittiest, most nonchalant fucker alive - and I talk for a living so this shit is super useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?Models is a great start. The Way of the Superior Man. The Shit Test Encyclopedia by IllimitableMen. Mystery Method. But one of the keys here is don't get wrapped up in theory. Go out and apply everything. The 3 second rule is probably the most important, for example - it's the absolute first step to learning pickup. Talk to a girl within 3 seconds of seeing her. None of the theory matters if you aren't out there applying it. So read, but go out and apply in parallel, because a lot of people hide… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?Worked out and ate healthy. Significantly better physique than my genetically predisposed skinnyfat figure that I'd had my whole life. Stronglifts 5x5 works well for your first year or two, while following a ketogenic diet in a slight caloric surplus will help you build muscle without gaining much body fat. Throw in some drop sets and volume training, maybe HIIT cardio a couple times a week to supercharge it. I joined several registered student organizations in college to expand my social circle… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 09:43 PM |
| 6 | Being a virgin is ruining my life- is there even a point?Checking in as brown and not much taller than you... and have had to bring my scuba suit to life on a few occasions cuz I was drowning in pussy. A lot of this is constructed in your own brain, man. Who says anyone needs to know that you're a virgin? If you're jacked, the stretchmarks on your back simply won't matter - your shredded pecs will. Lift. You've definitely bought into the glory stories your brown family has told you about "working now to enjoy later." That shit is bullshit - you need t… | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Help me make conversation (please?)LOL yes. But it's only legal in some states so watch out where you doin this shit. | /r/seduction | 13/10/17 05:36 PM |
| 4 | What do you say when a girl asks "Is it a date?"This doesn't matter. You're a man, you pursue a woman you're interested in, and if she's not interested back, you don't give a fuck. Any "awkwardness" you're worried about after the fact is a product of your own insecurity and actions. Pick whichever one you feel comfortable with. If she rejects you, say "Cool, no worries! Catch you later :)" and be done with it. Pretend nothing ever happened, as if you never asked her out and got rejected. Be cordial, don't be afraid to even playfully banter an… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:36 PM |
| 0 | Finding quality girls?They don't exist anymore man. Not in the west, at least. Society has hammered into women that they're these special unique snowflakes that can flippantly follow their emotional state and dog gone it they're allowed to do it and will never face repercussions. Look at the consequences of false rape accusations and the devastatingly shattered men that exist as a product of the racket of the divorce industry and family courts if you don't believe me. They're societies spoiled rich kid. Good luck, ma… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about "The Art of Seduction" of Robert Greene ?Models is more effective. So is Way of the Superior Man. So is IllimitableMen.com, if you wanna go that route. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Tips for snapchatting girls?Lol you're gonna get heckled for posting this bc old timers don't understand how technology has changed communication. It's an evolution, and nowadays, it's important as ever to have effective text game to get past this new first barrier to interaction. First off, though, stop asking for snapchats. Ask for numbers. They're still considered more intimate than snaps. You can add her on snap from there. If she declines, then ask for snap (if she's still showing interest. If she's not, then fuck it,… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:02 PM |
| 7 | What do you say when a girl asks "Is it a date?"Lol there needs to be context here. There are various ways to respond to this. But, ultimately, it's a shit test. Use principles from IllimitableMen's Shit Test Encyclopedia. Agree and amplify: "Yes, I'm lonely and have terrible game and I need to practice on you to get better." Disagree and amplify: "No, I just want to get you out with me so that we can have a riveting conversation about paint drying." Pressure flip: "Are you hitting on me right now?" Ignore: "See you at 8!" Misdirect: "Ooh, th… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:53 PM |
| 87 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?Ask her if she reads the news. Ask her what makes her tick. Ask her questions that she can expand on from an emotional standpoint. But disqualify her. Every fucking person in her life agrees with her, disagree with her. Playfully, of course. She can't help but be enraptured, bc NO ONE disagrees with her. The "little sister" thing is important here. You need to be completely unintimidated by her. You can establish that you're attracted to her but don't harp on it. You can get anyone like her, why… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Help me make conversation (please?)better suited for /r/askseddit, but i'll entertain anyway. "What're you up to this weekend? I was gonna insert fun activity here and wanted to invite you! I feel like we just talk about school so let's do something cool instead." You're thinking way too hard about this. How do you ask your guy friend to hang out? How do you ask your little sister to hang out? Ask the same way. How do you treat a little sister? Playful teasing. Treat a girl you're interested in the same way. Be comfortable around… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Today I asked a woman to stop looking at me and was accused of sexual harassmentYeah boss, I'd say you should see if you can squeeze some meditation into your days. 20 mins in the morning or so. Aside from the premise, would definitely agree with the other people here saying that you said too much. But I get it, we buckle sometimes when the pressure is monumental. Engineering school was no joke. Many a cigarette smoked those days. Honestly, I think meditation will help with focusing on the task at hand. In turn, you'll be less moved by the stares, and it'll be easier to rem… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Walking with a girl in publicEverybody here says "get jacked," but your pool is still drastically smaller than that of a 6-footer. How okay you are with that is up to you. You could wear boots with lifts in them, get leg-lengthening surgery, or move to a country where people are shorter. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Walking with a girl in publicI literally watched him throw a guy two meters once. right but was he getting laid? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 03:51 PM |
| 11 | The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriendI didn't move here for the pussy Good - not quite what I was saying. Western society has been royally fucked by chasing hypergamic woes - it extends beyond pussy. Divorce laws, suicide rates, and custody battles are good examples of where it hits us the worst. Awesome that you had the opportunity to move out there! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 03:13 PM |
| 21 | The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriendThe more I read this shit the more I thank my lucky stars that I live in Asia. Legit worth moving there for this alone. QOL goes up so much when hypergamy isn't the dominating driver of society. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Shift in the social seismic platesStature Lengthening Surgery | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Shift in the social seismic platesTall is like blatantly the first item in the sentence... Not even here, the saying "tall, dark, and handsome" STARTS with tall lmao. Tall matters so much. Does anybody have any tangible ways to get taller or display yourself as taller? I know the posture thing is one, but if the things I've listed "make you look like an insecure idiot," what can you do that doesn't and still caters to female superficiality? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 05:09 PM |
| -9 | Shift in the social seismic platesit's always been a buyer's market for the tall buy shoe lifts get legs lengthened growth hormones Am I wrong here? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 03:10 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread September 13Word. It's funny cuz they always end up trying to wriggle back into your life at some point when they see how well you're doing. Just keep doing you, my man. Congrats on a job well done so far! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 01:03 AM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread September 13I mean the best he can do is lawyer up, you can only pick up so many of the pieces after throwing shit at a fan. He trusted the whims of female emotion enough to tie a legally binding contract of matrimony and he's losing his family because of it. Let this be a lesson to him. It's time to train him to look forward, and only forward. Show him that it's time to start a new life, and that he has to mourn and accept the loss of his family like a death. Lawyer up and maybe there can be bits of that l… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:03 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread September 13Excellent story man - would've paragraphed it myself but still. Have either exes tried to contact you since? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 13There's a slight rift in communication here. I think you're discussing the blog. He also wrote a book called "the Rational Male," which is what everyone is referencing. Definitely one of those things you need to read in order to put all the blog posts into place. Give it a try! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 13What're your tactics to getting people to talk about themselves? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 07:10 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread September 13Amused mastery. If she's really trying to be malicious, drop her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 06:54 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread September 13Checking in. For me, it was the process of realizing how beta she's making me that caused me to dump her. Best thing I ever did. Studied illimitable man extensively. Started pimping hard af and fucked her again a couple times too. It gets better man, seeing how disgustingly sick this world is empowers you to take it by the horns and fuck it senseless. Good luck man. You're in the right place. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 06:44 PM |
| 27 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethThere's one factor that determines your online dating success. Physical Attractiveness. If you're not in the top 10%, you're generally not going to get amazing results from online dating nowadays. It was better way back when it first started, but the market is atrociously saturated now and the main reason it's used is to gain validation. Have it as a diversification of your prospects, but know that nothing replaces cold hard approaches and tight game. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Soft-opener Strategy - Indicating interestPresent it with confidence and congruency and it's not so cheesy. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | What we should learn from James DamoreThat's great, but that doesn't change the fact that: 70%+ of divorces are initiated women. 94%ish custody cases are won by women. Over 90% of alimony is paid by men. False rape accusations go unpunished the majority of the time. Society generally sides with women in male-to-female conflict - look at any divorce fb post or any domestic abuse 911 call made by the male. Considering the 1st marriage statistic, you get one shot to prove to the world that you're destined to a happy married life. A suc… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 4 | What we should learn from James Damore6/10 marriages end in divorce. 70%+ of divorces are initiated women. 94%ish custody cases are won by women. Over 90% of alimony is paid by men. False rape accusations go unpunished the majority of the time. Society generally sides with women in male-to-female conflict - look at any divorce fb post or any domestic abuse 911 call made by the male. With the odds stacked this far against your favor, the only way you could win is with a ridiculously accurate calculated risk. But, in the world of wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Girls and Height?"everyone's the same height in bed. Unless you're fat, then you might be a little taller." | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Girls that text back fast - but never advance the conversationThis. You're the lead, my friend. For millions of years, your male ancestors were the lead. That won't change just because we have "strong independent empowered triggered womyn" now. You still need to lead. It's up to them to follow. Get it to an invite, and if they don't bite, on to the next. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How to play out athletic build? (small humblebrag)This. But I should also note that you can't depend on physique alone. Your game still needs to be tight. Tons of super well-built guys get rejected because their inner and/or outer game sucks. Keep learning, keep applying, keep approaching, keep growing, keep banging! | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Question about dating coaches and YouTube PUAs...I mean, if they can get it to connect - both at a sexual level and at a professional level - why can't you? And I know seddit is about that triggered lyfe sometimes, so when I say "you," I don't mean YOU directly, /u/savagesteve_13, I mean guys who are attempting to make it connect. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Anything From Anyone: The Law of Social ExchangeIf observing human behavior and modifying your own behavior in order to better calibrate to the world and maximize your ROI on life is shallow, I'm gonna be the most shallow fuck out there. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouragedStay tuned - I just bought 2 inch lifts and we'll see how much more pussy I slay - if any. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Girl gives me her number right after saying she's not going to give it to me. Test, ASD-barrier or what?Haha I love it, "when you're done talking to your ex you can give me a call." Perfect level of snark. Stop overthinking it. You came off as nonchalant - text her whenever you're interested in going out and doing something fun. No need to go back and forth a ton via text. | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What is shit test?The Shit Test Encyclopedia | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Some basics for y'allGrats, homie. Based on your previous posts, sounds like you've got a natural knack for this stuff. Keep sharing any advice you can on this sub and continue to grow yourself and you'll be unstoppable! | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls still reject even though I'm trying to be friends?It sounds like you're getting rejected before you even get a chance to establish your intent. This is a wholly different problem than getting rejected after stating/establishing intent. Hell, you getting rejected itself is the only part of your question that matters. I think this takes a lot about figuring out your approach. Judging by your past posts, you're new to all this and need to really find your footing in regards to the dating world. There are several components to doing this. For start… | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | In search of ex-overthinkersWelcome to the first step of recovery - admitting you have a problem. "Overthinking" is a concept that's thrown around so casually in our world nowadays, as if it's just normal for everyone to do. While it may be becoming the norm more and more, it's actually quite dangerous to the (especially male) psyche and strays from our normal evolutionary behavior. For millions of years, we didn't have a chance to "overthink." You were hunting for food, and a tiger came upon you. There was no time to over… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.No problem boss. So generally I never calorie counted. I eat lots of white meat, eggs, complex carbs (brown rice, quinoa, sweet potatoes), and red meats too, but generally slightly smaller cuts than the white meat cuts. The key to it though was filling half my plate with cruciferous veggies. Broccoli, cauliflower, kale, brussel sprouts, etc.. Other veggies are good too, but make sure they're not starchy and carby like potatoes. It was super helpful in portion control and micronutrients. Got pret… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.Yes! Read your history, getting a basic idea of where you're at, and I have a few suggestions. First off, if you're attempting to cut body fat right now through your extremely low-cal keto diet, it's gonna be tough luck for your arms. You're not getting enough cals to grow the muscle. My current routine is some weird hybrid of StrongLifts and Starting Strength, with drop sets as a part of that. That said, since I started lifting 4 years ago, I always finish every workout (even when I was doing 4… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.You. I like you. | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 05:02 AM |
| 124 | THE ONE HACK WHO WILL GET YOU LAID. You do this and girls will stick to you like flies to shit.Can confirm the first part. Source: Am Dancer. Used to be competitive. Don't stop lifting. Source: Am lifter. Girls like me more with muscles and less dance skills than when I was a stick and danced extremely well. Don't stop learning game. Source: Have learned game. Girls like me more when I'm witty and muscular with less dance skills than when I was a stick and awkward and danced really well. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 06:46 PM |
| 12 | To my fellow "Brown/Indian/Asian guys" or "low SMV race" members:lol low SMV races are the ones that need TRP the most. This sub can save so many lives - let the brown folk see the light! | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/17 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want monogamy or courtship so men don't offer itSo we may be talking in parallel paths here. You're right that calibration is important at the micro/day-to-day level, but at a macro level, the template still applies. If we take timeline into consideration here, I assure you that at some point in a woman's life (be it an hour, or for her entire 20s) she will want the "player-" loosely defined as a noncommittal highly sexually attractive male, or "Alpha Fux." Aside from that she will want a provider type - we define those as "Beta Bux." Your ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want monogamy or courtship so men don't offer iton a girl who fucking hates players. A player is akin to a high-SMV male. She most likely "hates players" bc a) she can't mate with sought-after alphas anymore due to her expired SMV, or b) she's ready to secure the resources and status that comes with an effective beta and marriage/stable relationship. AWALT, my friend. The dualistic mating strategy is a fact of evolution - and TRP's sexual strategy works on them when applied properly. She wants to be the soil in which an alpha sows his seed, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Enjoy the DeclineThis has actually happened in the past. I don't remember the exact post but there was one on TRP where someone asked an anthropologist how he felt about female oppression. He replied by saying (and I'm paraphrasing) "women have always had the upperhand in literally every society that has existed since the dawn of civilization." He then proceeded to summarize how the Roman empire fell due to "female empowerment." (edit: to summarize, basically once the empire was no longer faced with threats, wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | A girl I'm hanging out with insists on chatting over text. What should I do?Interesting that you feel that way, and thanks for being so articulate with your response. | /r/seduction | 25/04/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A girl I'm hanging out with insists on chatting over text. What should I do?great, but that doesn't make the actions in my advice any less pertinent. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 03:59 PM |
| -1 | A girl I'm hanging out with insists on chatting over text. What should I do?Everyone here is right, she's just using you. But you might as well have a little fun with it. Utilize all the points mentioned here, but also don't be afraid to make the text conversation sexual. sextual, if you will. You'd be surprised at how quickly a deeply descriptive erotic paragraph will moisten the loins of virtually any woman (edit - if she's already at least mildly attracted to you). If you're articulate, do it yourself. If you're not, ask your English major friends for help. | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | You are invisible. And why that is perfectly OK. (Beginner thoughts and observations)Many, but most? If we look at the depths of anthropology and all of human history, it can be argued that the cultures and sub-cultures you're citing are the minority. The waters of this subject are further muddied by the fact that many societies say they want one thing but behave in a completely different manner. Case in point... "I want a nice guy." Arguments can be made about the definition of "nice guy," but note how many women do not actually date the "nice" guys until they've surpassed the … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Advice for Indian Guyswhere brown guys start ranting and whining about how it's harder for them That's a part of the growth process. They'll get a swift kick to the proverbial taint by everyone here once they do this whining dance, and that's going to the be filter that weeds out the ones who want to stay in their BP reality or actually push through and go down the rabbit hole. You've seen how it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 09:18 PM |
| 11 | Don’t just give her something to believe in, give her someone to worship.Definitely clear that your emotions are getting a hold of you here - it's easy to sense with the mildly scatter-brained flavor of your comment. Take a deep breath. Meditate. Remember that you cannot let your emotions take hold - nor can you allow overanalysis (which is simply a rationalizing manifestation of your emotional attachment), as both will trip you up equally. Clear your brain and focus on the basics of TRP that you know already - frame maintenance and your own vision/goal/purpose are a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 09:01 PM |
| 6 | The Indefinite QuantityAlso very interested in the manifestations of this concept. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 03:36 AM |
| 10 | How to Flirt by Todd Valentine (honestly the smartest guy in this business)He has a particular style - some of it verbal, some of it nonverbal. It works for him. Take what you can from it and leave the rest. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How to draw boundaries/handle a few shit tests/bad behavior.Thank you for your reply. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Having a lot of trouble accepting my lack of power in a breakup.Thank you sir - one of the few times I've come to TRP and not been met with a series of empty attacks and curse words. You've made amazing points throughout the post - definitely feeling much better and more optimistic to get through these times. Will be applying. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to draw boundaries/handle a few shit tests/bad behavior.I love it, more cursing and personal attacks, can always depend on askTRP. We can convey these points without devolving to aggression. While "demote to plate" is a good generalized response, it ignores the "setting boundaries" portion of the question. When one comes to askTRP, they're typically looking for actionable content beyond the buzzwords we've been reading on TRP. Are you crying already? My gosh. ^ and this response actually does nothing for the interaction. Regardless, I appreciate your… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Having a lot of trouble accepting my lack of power in a breakup.I've heard the friends thing but that doesn't help with the cunt. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 07:21 PM |
| -1 | Having a lot of trouble accepting my lack of power in a breakup.I've heard the friends thing but that doesn't help with the cunt. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Two life lessons I got from my cousinSo obviously the shit test 101 post in the sidebar is a good way to set boundaries and show people you won't be fucked with. But what are some other methods? How do you put your foot down - and when is the right time? The caveat is that if you're perceived as bitter about it, people will not want to be around you anymore - people who you could potentially gain from. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Right now, my self worth hinges on the amount of quality women I can bed.Reading this now, I realize we all have demons that we wrestle with on this journey. Like, to me, that doesn't sound like a big issue haha. Can still game. Maybe it's just a matter of us ignoring our circumstancial hindrances and powering on. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Textbook Nice guy --> Finding Genuine happiness in lifeWhat sort of action dates? | /r/ThankTRP | 20/10/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | A personal epiphany on frame.... Funny. It's been a year, and I feel like I'm just starting out. That's how I feel now, my friend. I've loosely known the RP truths for a while now, but I only recently read the Illimitablemen stuff and am only now uncovering the power games that are constantly at play, and how to navigate them as best as possible. It's liberating as all hell to have the sheets torn off of your eyes and seeing the underbelly for how astounding it really is. May I ask - can you link me the MRP sub and jack10 c… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | On Being UnemotionalWhat I do not feel is anxiety, depression, and longing. This is where my mind is currently in a fix. Losing these particular emotions are the ones I'm having trouble with - anger motivates me, but these are debilitating. How does one lose them? How does one stare his former emotional triggers in the face with a blank expression, chuckle and keep walking? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Suspected Dark Triad woman infiltrating my social circle.Haha, excellent advice. Thanks a bunch. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Suspected Dark Triad woman infiltrating my social circle.Do you see any way that I could salvage a reputation with this social circle if she was to begin hurting my standing? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Suspected Dark Triad woman infiltrating my social circle.Anything she says will seem bitter and harridan-like in comparison. The issue there is that I'm worried about the level of sway her words have. I've been gone all summer and we broke up halfway through the summer, but she had infiltrated the circle while we were dating and now considers them to be "her friends too." (edit ->)She's had the summer to build that connection while I've been away.(<-) I'm not sure that this friend circle is super aware of the world of manipulation (they've said blue p… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I have this sick feeling in my gut after realizing all the manipulation my ex dished out on me. Wanting to learn from this.Excellent advice. I've been on this sub for a very long time but honestly things haven't connected the way they did this morning. What suggestions do you have for further growth? What did you do? RP is a series of various and while I'm gaining a better understanding, I still feel like I'm floundering through not only the various types of content, but also the various (and sometimes conflicting) messages. Right now, I'm focused on learning to understand power dynamics, manipulation, powertalk, an… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I have this sick feeling in my gut after realizing all the manipulation my ex dished out on me. Wanting to learn from this.Very good point. Thanks for the feedback. So I suppose my follow up question is how can I use this as a vehicle to learn effective defense and practice of manipulation? I know the 48 laws of power and 33 strategies of war are good starters, but is there a set of concepts I can use to learn how to avoid getting duped and to be the one in constant power? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | My ex is hanging out with my friends and it's bothering me.Haha so the delete snapchat makes sense - but I actually am out having a crazy set of days/nights in a new city this weekend. But I feel your concept - remove yourself from the triggers and continue growing and bettering my life. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/16 04:13 AM |
| 1 | My ex is hanging out with my friends and it's bothering me.They met her about when they met me, so there's no total loyalty. Not to mention, ex been asked point blank if I'm okay with her hanging with them and I responded "you can do whatever you feel is right." They've hung with her without me before - so there's a friendship that was there outside of her being my gf. I think it bothers me more that she tells me she doesn't go to festivals anymore but straight up flies to another state to attend a music festival with my friends. To me it's clear that i… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/16 04:05 AM |
| 7 | The Psychology of Approaching Groups Of Women In Bars (with a little social engineering too)I feel like this post begs the introduction of a new RP Flair category: Sexual Strategy. High quality stuff! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Best reads for seductionWay of the superior man. | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 02:42 PM |
| 4 | 6 Mistakes Most Men Make With WomenThese statements sound like a few excuses for inaction to me. The fact is, one needs to put in work to get better - and that means either exchanging time from one's other "commitments" (I put it in quotations because many a time, it's Netflix and ice cream and fapping) to work on this, or integrating these actions into existing commitments. ("Social life" sounds like a perfect opportunity to practice - and if the people around the guy practicing are getting skittish because this person has the b… | /r/seduction | 03/08/16 03:58 AM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag if she never asks about you?It's typically an indicator of disinterest. But you can spin it: "Well, I feel like I really know you now. Let's hop to the next bar!" Sometimes, you'll get a "no..." and you ask why, and they say "I don't really know you..." and you reply with "well, you never asked." Wink, smile, and put it in her butt. | /r/seduction | 10/07/16 02:34 AM |
| 4 | When I turned eighteen, I wanted to make a big change in my life as I was insecure of so many things and a little over a year later here are my results!Reppin hard for the sexy brown men of the world. Keep at it man, we unstoppable! | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR/Question] Women can see right through "fake it til you make it." How to gain authenticity? And more...Thanks for the reply. You do. You can't copy random TRP concepts and just put them in with a douche-package and be attractive or smart. You come across as immature and faking it. So how can I refine these, based on what you've read so far? What actionable advice do you have for me? | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | No matter what I do, I cannot establish a role of dominant male in a circle of high value persons.I like the insight. It's good to be reminded of these things - I've caught my indecisiveness in the past and it's helped me to be a bit more self-aware. Obviously, I lost that on this trip haha. But it's a learning process. Thanks for the sound advice. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 05:37 PM |
| 1 | No matter what I do, I cannot establish a role of dominant male in a circle of high value persons.These three bulletpoints are awesome. It's like a cheat sheet for these kinds of situations (which we face quite often). Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 05:35 PM |
| 3 | No matter what I do, I cannot establish a role of dominant male in a circle of high value persons.Absolutely excellent advice. Thank you so much! | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What if things get hot and you have no place to go?There's nothing wrong with approaching girls to get laid lol | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 05:34 AM |
| 0 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.That's the route I'm going. Reading a lot of illimitablemen content now, it's actually helping greatly. Thanks for giving actionable advice instead of negative reviews and then ambiguous "don't do that" comments. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 12:14 AM |
| 1 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.YES | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 12:12 AM |
| -1 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.What I'm not understanding is how to stop letting them shit on me while they're in my presence. They talk shit, regardless. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 10:09 PM |
| -3 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.But how does one actually become a respected presence? I can lift all I want, make all the money I want, but that's not going to get me respect. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 10:06 PM |
| -1 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.It's hard when people close to you start alienating you. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 10:05 PM |
| -6 | As my cousins have grown, they've become more disrespectful of me.Awesome, now - to review the factors. Pluses: - I lift every other day. I'm pretty built. - I dress well. - I live anywhere I want to. - I work a very fun job, paying me 6 figures. - I consistently sleep with good looking women. Caveats: - I'm significantly shorter than all of them. - my BF% is about 17%. - I get the feeling I have a problem with presence. I think the way I walk/talk seems too excitable/needy, and my voice is a little high pitched. - I fail shit tests. This has always been a pro… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP approach to handling other men?Yeah, I do sense a bit of insecurity from this one "Check this song out" "It's good but not as good as the one I showed you" LOL | /r/askTRP | 25/11/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Plateauing on social skills - need resources for a plateau-breaker.If you don't have a tendency for manipulation you likely will struggle very hard to understand it. CHALLENGE ACCEPTED. Besides The Charisma Myth - which I'm definitely going to read ASAP - what can be done to learn this? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Was this an RP handling of the situation?Invoke emotion through text? This directly conflicts with "only text to set up logistics," school of thought, but texting is all you have to build emotion in a woman when online dating. How exactly does one make a text conversation interesting when introductions are all online? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Was this an RP handling of the situation?Fucking love it. Thanks so much. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Victoria Secret Models: The IDEAL female physique being tall, thin and YOUNG. No BBWS allowed!6 inches? That's all they want? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Read all the theory... no clue how to apply.Where can I learn more about what you call "passion game?" edit: I should also note that I want sex because I'm horny. Like most people. The "validation" isn't really my end goal. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Read all the theory... no clue how to apply.Significantly better insight. Thank you. edit: But still - let's say you're interacting with people and your auto-response is something beta. What are the pillars of thought that guide your mind directly to something alpha instead? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Read all the theory... no clue how to apply.This is more or less the advice I expected to get. There's only so long that a rich, muscular, social man can have sex with his hand before he needs better stimulation. So, I'll ask again - what are the key tricks to hooking in such a way that she chases you? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Always Default to GameSo I must ask, What's the best place to start on simply GAME? Not "Models" by Mark Manson inner game, or the seduction subreddit's style of "just be you, bruh" game - where should I go to learn the basic concepts of social gymnastics that make up "game?" Let me know. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 06:27 PM |
| 77 | FR: Mirrored Postureout of the blue. Everyone here is. Heh, get it? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How to Take a Girl From Polite Chat to Super Horny in Less than 1 HourSo I tried this, via messaging, and it was really easy to catch on to how it was a bit of a sales pitch. How does one remove that from it? | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)This has been such an eye-opening post. There is so much about the hamster that I've internalized, just being in such a femme-dominated society, and having no great connection with my father. I would fall for this shit daily. Thanks, TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 02:33 PM |
| -1 | HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your BitchesAwesome guide. I do have a question though - what about the stuff that happens before she becomes invested in you? How do you get a girl invested in you in the first place - at that coffee shop, for example? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Using TRP to take back my masculinity within my family.Haha, I was using that only because another comment used that "prince" terminology. Im entitled to not being treated like a joke by my family. I've accomplished too much for that. Edit - but that conversation takes away from the topic at hand. You're right, I need to get better at shit tests. Thanks for all the advice. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Using TRP to take back my masculinity within my family.Awesome advice. I doubt it'll ever come to blows - the man's mental gymnastics are pretty spectacular, so if anything, I just need to be able to navigate his far superior shit testing skills. I think it's getting to the point where I need to call him out on his insecurities and bullying in front of the family - I know I want to take this throne, I know it belongs to me. I am the prince, and I deserve it - I've accomplished too much to allow myself to be treated like this. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Using TRP to take back my masculinity within my family.to address 2 - So he actually lived in another country for the last few years - years that I've actually grown so much from soul-searching and understanding and claiming my masculinity. I've noticed, however, that in that time, the extended family still doesn't respect me. He was out of town, but my extended family is in town and I still visited them over the course of the last couple years. I saw similar behavior from them - namely, my younger cousin who's in college now. They're all similar - … | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What if it's your personality and way you speak that need changing?That's only if you've established dominant presence. Without that, no one's waiting around to pay attention to you. So there's something to be done prior to all this as well. Call it body language, call it "alpha..." Something that no one has really articulated well and may very well not be articulable. It's just "it." That x-factor. I think everyone here is chasing that x-factor. | /r/seduction | 19/10/15 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What if it's your personality and way you speak that need changing?Dude, I know this feeling haha. I currently feel like it's my talkative, high energy self that needs to change. I read a post on here that said something like - "when talking, use thick, meaningful sentences." Basically, cut all the bullshit words in our sentences. Say only meaningful things. That may help to cut down on what people perceive of us as "too much" talking. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Understand the difference between laid-back and boring.Here's my caveat - I'm pretty fun, and I provide entertainment value, but that doesn't make me sex-worthy. I'm "class clown," albeit long-graduated at this point. How to provide calm, cool, collected, seductive value, while still being fun? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Seddit where do you find girlsBut you could be right! LMAO dude, he is right. The fact that you even think twice about "rumors," and "shit you know about other people" shows where your mind is - you're far from a confident, secure male right now. You sounds more like a high school girl complaining about not having enough instagram likes on her photo. Go to malls. Go to the local downtown area (if you live in a suburb). Go to after school activities. Go to high school athletics games - not necessarily your school, but other s… | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Understand the difference between laid-back and boring.So, how does one become fun and value-providing? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 07:02 PM |
| -1 | Girls will try to make you a nice guy by defaultI LOVE IT. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 07:01 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I'm getting worse at this.Yeah, you're completely right. I'll tell you what, the first time I read Models, it was life-changing - I really was able to embrace myself and empower myself. But I started a relationship for a year, ended it, and now I feel like I'm starting back at square one. It's evident that the foundation of self-confidence I built after Models was very unstable, and crumbled when I wasn't building on it. Any pointers on how to build lasting self-confidence? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Logistics in texting/tinderIf that truck is Optimus Prime. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Logistics in texting/tinder+1 - I invited 50 girls out in the last week, 3 accepted. It has to be something I'm doing wrong. I used to be able to land double-booked nights, dammit. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a book about tinder game and want to give it away to you for free. No strings attached.Skimmed through it - really good stuff! Can't wait to read and implement. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?Hahaha, dude. You're just as insufferable as the chick who came over late on Friday, started cursing at everyone, slamming all the doors in my apt, stomped around in her heels and woke everyone up, got kicked out by my roommate, and then started crying in the stairwell because my roommate was "being so mean." You know what we did with her? Threw her ass out. Alas, I doubt the moderators can REALLY do that to you, but seddit doesn't tolerate this entitled shit. Morals morals morals, grow up, we'r… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Treat it like a gameAwesome post... but I'd go a step further. 15 minutes of conversation really is just about enough - now, it's just a matter of learning how to talk in those 15 minutes to "scale the wall" (I'd rather call it "finding the trap door," because this isn't a brute-force game, it's a game of wit). What high-level concepts would you point to as further discussion points? | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 06:01 AM |
| 6 | Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?Or, instead of shifting the blame to something else, own up to the fact that you were responsible for your own virginity. Then, after realizing that responsibility, become a better person, so that you put yourself in situations where a women is willing to sleep with you (without the assistance of date rape drugs or any other fucked up shit like that). | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?Point = missed. But to address what you're saying - there's a good chance they didn't work on creating a good sex life. That takes hard work too. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Do other people do this whole "pick-up" thing?Consider this a place to self-actualize while learning to interact in a way that's more in tune with the female psyche. It's basically sales, but to a specific audience (of approximately 3 billion people). | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How to not get sad when comparing yourself to more attractive men/past lovers?I can tell you how an example of how I progressed past some of my insecurity. While I was reading Models, a passage struck me very deeply, and I stopped reading for a moment because I realized that I acted needy and sought attention because it was my coping mechanism for my shoddy relationship with my father. It took really diving into where my insecurity stemmed from to truly understand and address it. Let's address your cheating comment. Did you have close family members that cheated or have b… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | HELP, not where i want to beDo this, but OP, if you can add all this info in this post as well (however much you're comfortable sharing), you'll get better answers. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What is the best response when you're not getting IOIs?Yo... this stuff is super hard to ingest. Like, there's very little guidance on the proper way to do these things - like, no comment on opposites to a lot of them. Do you know if there's anywhere with a more palatable and actionable breakdown of these points? | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Presenting myself in lingerie (x-post r/asksedditMay I ask how he "ruined it?" | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: Presenting myself in lingerie (x-post r/askseddit^ I would take this with a grain of salt. Yandy.com has a bunch of AWESOME lingerie - I know no man who would say no to his woman in lingerie, lace or otherwise. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 11:27 PM |
| 2 | How to not get sad when comparing yourself to more attractive men/past lovers?Some things in life are worth buying. This is one of those things. But if you're truly so broke that you can't afford a ten dollar book that will change your life, I'm sure someone reading this has a PDF link to forward you. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you put yourself in a situation to where you are constantly interacting with a lot of decent looking women once you're done with college?Please don't say just cold approach and online dating. Why not? Fact is, post-grad life is not the socially-amped environment that college is. You will need to work to gain an active social life. So don't rule anything out. Cold approach, make some online dating profiles, join meetups (meetup.com), find groups that are interested in your own hobbies, attempt to live in a big city if possible, and don't be afraid to get rejected. edit: I missed the "just" you had in that sentence, but I suppose t… | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 11:01 PM |
| 2 | How to not get sad when comparing yourself to more attractive men/past lovers?1) Realize that while looks are a large portion of the way you value women, looks are not a small portion of the way women value you. 2) Your gf is with you because of the way you make her feel - and the moment you become insecure, you're going to stop making her feel good. So get that shit of your head. 3) You need to be a confident, secure enough person that you can handle being single. Your gf shouldn't be such a huge pillar of your happiness - she is the cherry on top, not the whole damned c… | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 10:10 PM |
| 12 | Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?I'll tell you what, young grasshopper. The short answer to your question is - yes, it's completely possible. Many men are doing it and enjoying it. But not the majority, for many good reasons (and chances are you don't really care to hear about them). The fact is though, you will get NOTHING you want out of life until you've GIVEN something of value to the world. You failed to have sex in college not because you weren't in a fraternity, but because you provided no value to women. Take responsibi… | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 10:06 PM |
| 10 | Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?Can confirm. Source: Wasn't in a fraternity. Fucked like a jackrabbit. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Why You Must STOP Explaining Yourself To WomenThis reminds me of a post made on here referring to "thick, meaningful sentences." Cut all the bullshit fluff out of the things you say. Make your questions pointed - instead of "So I'm wondering, what exactly are your thoughts on the taco joints in this city?" --> "What's your favorite taco joint?" If she responds without explanation (which is rare, because we know women love to talk), follow up with a real simple "Why?" Apply this to every facet of your life. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Any definitive reading material after Models?That's better for if you legitimately have absolutely no clue how to be masculine. I would argue one should read NMMNG before Models. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 11 | Don't be shy, don't try and hide your intentionsHahaha, this isn't surprising - it's like if anyone uses terminology from the pickup artistry era, or even hints at working on outer game, seddit goes into a blind rage. Believe it or not, those terms don't immediately mean routines and canned openers. They point to actual traits/actions of people practicing seduction. You can be a "man" (in your words) and still have "social value," see "iois," and use an "opener." You can do all these things and still see a woman as a human. Humans behave in p… | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Don't be shy, don't try and hide your intentionsGetting praised by Nizzle, Jim, and Bizzey... I can die a happy man. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 10:46 PM |
| 28 | Don't be shy, don't try and hide your intentionsSo... you're probably hot. Lol edit: I'm being facetious haha - I do appreciate your POV. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 06:59 PM |
| 2 | When to reveal insecurities to girls?This really should be the most popular comment. The only thing it lacks is the differentiation between vulnerability and insecurity, as discussed by /u/daygamecoach. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:45 PM |
| 113 | Don't be shy, don't try and hide your intentionsSo here's the thing, I have a bit of theory about this. I believe that intentions are only going to push the interaction forward if you've already established attractiveness. What are the ways your level of attractiveness is established before you get to know a girl? Physical Appearance Approach Social Value (coming from entertaining a big group of friends, etc) See, the direct approach is fantastic - if they've already decided that you're attractive to them. If you're not attractive to them, th… | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction?I've read models, Mystery method, the manual, and the game. Still struggling. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 02:16 AM |
| 9 | I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction?Hahaha, I figured I'd get a condescending response or two. Just remember that people can be looking for different things. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction?I like all those suggestions. You're awesome. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 04:33 PM |
| 29 | I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction?You. I like you. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 04:32 PM |
| 3 | I'm not about to keep buying drinks for these girls over and over. How to gracefully not pay, but maintain attraction?"Husband for tonight" is a joke - I wrote it that way meaning for it to carry a humorous note, but still convey that I want to be casual. Ever heard the song "Shorty Wanna Ride" by Young Buck? "You can be my wife, but, only for tonight." A play on that. edit: Aside from that, good advice in that link. This is date 1, after meeting online, or opening a girl at a bar. | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How can a 36 year- old, Single father learn pickup.after all the club bathroom bjs in their 20s | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Text Game - How to provide value without asking questions?good start, but doing the same thing 1000x over isn't experience if you're doing it wrong the whole time. you're not gonna get a big chest from a hundred curls with 10lb dumbbells. any pointers on how to get better at conversation? | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 03:44 PM |
| 0 | Text Game - How to provide value without asking questions?I tried that. It doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Are women turned off if you have a dog (that sheds particularly)?Man, dogs have always helped most men get laid. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Money, it's a hit...Man, that wicker/logan crowd is fun. | /r/seduction | 07/08/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A word of advice from my roommate's girlfriend.Lay your sentences like you lay the pipe - good and thick. | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!I had to squeeze into a corner near her so I just asked if it's cool and then went on to "so how's your leg day going?" Clearly, it was going bad. She was on a smith machine. -_- | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Unleashing a girl's most primal instincts.Take a look at /r/relationships. Countless stories of women cheating on their men to do all the things that they won't with their SOs. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 01:46 PM |
| 3 | girls plan'sI wouldn't waste much time thinking about it. Just invite her out, be a bit persistent, but if she rejects you twice without creating follow up plans, peace out of it. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 09:17 PM |
| 9 | What are some thing you've said that keeps a girl talking to you?Any advice on what the 'right questions' are? And how to ask them? And when they're appropriate? | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Cooking a Girl Dinner Tomorrow Night - What is your Go-To Meal?chicken alfredo, or grilled skirt steak with veggies and mashed potatoes. Plus, I ALWAYS start out with kale chips. They seem to love that shit. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:41 PM |
| 12 | I'm reading Models by Mark Manson. What do I tell girls I'm reading when they ask?Isn't the book all about honesty? Tell them exactly what you're reading, and be confident in it. If a girl thinks you're fucked up for trying to improve yourself, she can fuck off. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 08:52 PM |
| 16 | It's hard to call for equality between genders when stuff like this is so openly accepted by places like Universities. (xpost /r/TumblrInAction)maybe s/he's the real mvp | /r/MensRights | 20/05/15 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Tips for creating presence with othersI'm legitimately having a text conversation with my lady friend about how incredible this shit works as I type this. I took a one-week hiatus, fapped this past weekend, and haven't fapped since. Friday/Saturday, I was so energetic, outgoing, and happy. Fapped Sunday. Monday/Tuesday, I was tired, head was foggy, I was pissy/lethargic, nothing felt right. Feeling way more cleared up and energetic now. Guys, try this shit. It's seriously a miracle. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 03:14 PM |
| -3 | 5 Key Steps To Approaching Every Woman, EverywhereSEXCELLENT! | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Feminists Always Lie About Rape.I'm afraid that's not how it works. By using a clickbait title, you've essentially turned this into something they'd do. It discredits our movement as fanaticism - it sounds just as absurd as when feminists use phrases like "war on women" and "rape culture." The last thing we need is these kinds of exploitable article titles - it'll turn even more people away from us, and it's hard for us to gain traction in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/15 09:45 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Dating Captain Underpantsa fucking shamwow. i love it. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:00 PM |
| 2 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!I mean it's definitely easier to mingle when it's nice out - but you can still mingle indoors during the winter! | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 02:50 PM |
| 8 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!Perfect. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:08 PM |
| 7 | HOLY COW day game is easy! Terrifying... but easy!Yeah, I was torn about it. Then I did it, and it left a sour taste in my mouth. That eventually faded bc she had a nice booty, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and assumed she did real skwatz too. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Thank you! Thank you so much!Haha isn't it great when this happens? I had a girl reject me numerous times. A short while later, with the help of understanding attraction and becoming a better man, she basically jumped me when we ran into each other at a bar and then went back to her hotel. It's good shit, man. edit: A short while was actually a few years later. But it was still awesome. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 03:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm totally going to see Mad Max, who's with me?You're thinking of Julien Blanc - a brilliant fucking man aside from his bad press. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/15 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Eating less takes zero money and the results get you more attractive people. This whole journey is about delayed gratification. So harden the fuck up and invest in your body.I didn't know eating would make me hard. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The Lean Wardrobe Model – 90 Days to Achieve Closet MasteryOld navy's v necks fit me really well. As do Mossimo v necks. You will have to try a couple (of the same size and color) on to find one that fits perfectly (thank quality control for that) but these shirts are the ones I wear most. Durable too! | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 08:54 PM |
| 6 | A little mental trick i use to help me overcome some approach anxiety.Dude, this is brilliant. I am thinking back on how I approach friends waiting for me (with confidence and purpose) and can see it working wonderfully with cold approaches. I'm totally going to be using this one big time. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do women talk so enthusiastically on dating apps, then go silent when you ask for their number?great advice. but I guess that's where text game comes into place - what exactly can be done to communicate that I am "good enough to communicate with outside that dating app?" | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:26 AM |
| 9 | Can't express my sexuality?Straight preaching right here. I absolutely love it. This needs to become more popular. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Pick-Up Paradise- Las Vegas [General Advice]Haha really? I hope you're not joking - what makes it pickup paradise? | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What's your inner game "diet"?Models changed my life as well. But one of the biggest principles (that you may have lost in your bout of estrogen-gaining) is not letting other people's viewpoints affect you. All those glorifications you'd read about are simply projections of insecurity and a status quo of women needing relationship as some major part of their lives. You really don't - at least not in the same way. Honestly, Models's principles are all you need to create and maintain strong inner game. NMMNG is alright, but I … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Pick-Up Paradise- Las Vegas [General Advice]College towns. THAT'S pickup paradise. <3__<3 | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 05:07 PM |
| 94 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?Approach. You won't die. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Tips for someone who doesn't have guy friends to go out with.I may get roasted for this, but if you're looking for guys specifically to go out and practice gaming with, find your local RSD circle or other pickup group. They're in every city. In my experiences, most of dudes aren't all pickup tactics and shit - they're more about self-improvement and applying that to interaction with women, just like this sub. edit: also, take a peek at the IRC chatroom - pop in there and see if you find some dudes in NYC. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Worried I've messed up?Haha interesting situation. I wouldn't think too much of it - you may have lost her solely on the fact that your game wasn't tight with that other girl. Women love competition. Just go out to a happy hour tomorrow and blow off some steam by approaching a few. You'll be fine - there are a billion cute bartenders in the world. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | eye contact gone so wrongDon't be. Identify that it's not your own shortcoming - it's typically an insecurity on the other person's part. Just don't break frame and you've successfully proceeded through the interaction. If they turn out to be someone you wouldn't want to associate with, simply bid them adieu and be on with your day. Chances are they'll walk away feeling terrible about being so insecure and negative in the face of your positivity and outcome-neutrality. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 03:52 PM |
| 3 | eye contact gone so wrongIt doesn't matter where her reaction seemed to have come from, the important thing is that you don't break frame. If she's trying to be pissed off about someone looking at her and you laugh it off, you've got the upperhand, because you're unfazed and she's fazed. When you say targeted female friend, what do you mean? You want to get with her? | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Post-breakup sadness.. Hear my story out.Dear god. You are seriously a trainwreck rn lol. /u/SoldierGenerale said in layman's terms what everybody on this sub is probably thinking. Fact is, you've gone haywire, and are bleeding estrogen out of the holes in your face and the tip of your penis. You think James Bond does the kind of stuff you do? No, James Bond doesn't. Be James Bond. Start by reading Models by Mark Manson. This will allow you to take your focus off her and onto yourself - you've really displayed some painfully beta behav… | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 05:46 PM |
| 25 | eye contact gone so wrongNext time: "I just thought you were cute." smile. "We're having a staring contest, you just lost." smile. "You looked familiar, but I'm guessing we don't know each other yet." wait for response. If not in ear shot, just chuckle. It'll pique her curiosity. At that point it'll either end or you two will begin talking: Then: 1) "What's your name?" 2) Put your finger in her butt while you're doing her doggy. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:57 PM |
| 7 | What's A good Second Date Idea?I vote home-cooked goodness. | /r/seduction | 20/04/15 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with rejection...seriously this is getting old guys.I don't know why you're getting downvoted - probably because you used the term "Alpha male" and here that's like saying "jerk off" at nofap. To an extent, you're right, I'm betting there were confident, dominant characteristics he didn't display - and I think that may be in both subcommunication and otherwise. | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Self-Improvement and Mark Manson's 'Models'It's safe to say that Models changed my life. For me, I feel very different, while the things surrounding me aren't vastly different. I am reading more, I'm working out consistently (although I already was), waking up earlier, and all that - but I'm still at the same job, doing the same hobbies, and have the same "status" that I did. But mentally, things are different. I've taken the vulnerability concept and ran with it. This has allowed me some good success with women, being that I'm definitel… | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:39 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15Kinasthetic escalation - the act of escalating using touch. There's the saying that goes along the lines of "only 10% of what you communicate is verbal - 90% of what you communicate is nonverbal." In the attraction world, touch is your most powerful nonverbal communication. It does, however, need to be calibrated. Don't dive in and start grabbing asses - escalate... like you're on an escalator and slowly moving up levels in order to finally kino your dick into her ass. Start with a light touch o… | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15Basically, abundance mentality means realizing that there is more than one or two women in the world with whom you can interact. This is important to remember since a lot of guys get hung up on one girl and don't realize that they can always walk across the street and meet a million new women in the same day. The best way to breed it is to go out and approach a LOT of women - you'll realize that there will ALWAYS be another woman to approach. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 04:37 PM |
| 14 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15"I say we get out of here - do you live nearby?" | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 04:35 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 4/6/15Depends on the medium. If over text, I typically give something of value (a joke, a song link, a story) and then move on to an invite. "Well hey, I had fun with you the last time we hung out. Let's do that again this weekend. Saturday at 8PM?" edit: The value-add makes it easier to respond to you. A "Must-React" system, if you will. | /r/seduction | 06/04/15 03:44 PM |
| 4 | What's been your experience with Tinder? I thought I was pretty good looking, but after 3 weeks only have 34 matches.You really can't take online dating seriously. See, women love Tinder for one reason - to stroke their egos. Even the least attractive girl on there is getting matched (because men just swipe right without discretion) and are getting messages too - what do you think this does to their egos? Inflates the living fuck out of them. Now, if that's happening with ugly women, imagine how much that multiplies for an average looking woman - and the unfathomable amount of ego-stroking messages an attracti… | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | A simple but incredibly effective tipThe one part I'm trying to grasp is how to break into an unforced/natural smile when your face is completely at rest. I really want to be able to but I'm not sure how to go about doing so without it looking completely forced. Maybe just nut up and smile? Do it enough that it becomes natural? | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 07:01 PM |
| 82 | A simple but incredibly effective tipExcuse for inaction. You're fucking sexy, whether you like it or not. Smile away. | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to go on datesYou're coming from a very transactional frame. "If I do this, then I deserve this, and it's wrong that I don't get that." It's simply not like that - nobody owes you anything. You're not entitled to her monogamy just because you spent a few bucks on a dinner. Not to mention - I don't buy more than a drink for a girl on a first date. This keeps things more casual, you're not "investing" more than a few dollars and some time - time that you're getting a direct ROI on (practice, meeting someone new… | /r/seduction | 16/03/15 12:27 PM |
| 12 | I don't want to go on datesdude, girls aren't fucking aliens. they eat, shit, and piss just like you. if you can hang with a guy, you can hang with a girl. edit: you need to think critically about your pain points. why are siked out? why is it 'too' official - why is it bad to express that you're attracted to a woman? | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendVery good point - thus my reference to fshep's comment. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 09:29 PM |
| 12 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendBeing the close friend to a couple very beautiful women, I can see why this is an issue. From my perspective, I'm lucky to not be an orbiter, and actually just be their friends because (believe it or not), they offer so much more than their beauty in friendship, and we click very well platonically. The guys involved romantically can always be a little unsure at first, but in all reality, it'll take equal parts YOUR effort and MY effort to become friends. We - the confident, secure, getting-laid-… | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?Sorry, polyamory is what I meant lol. Swinging for example - I've always been down with that concept. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 01:45 PM |
| 3 | The key principles I've taken from attraction study.My personal journey. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | The key principles I've taken from attraction study.This is my first gold evar! I feel like an excited little girl edit: goal is not gold | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 01:44 AM |
| 6 | The key principles I've taken from attraction study.Listen to what they say for key words/ideas. If something sticks out to you, note it mentally - you can transition to it as a main point by saying something like "Yeah, you mentioned ____, I actually know someone..." This can be something as tiny as the way a person says "AAAAAND!" or the entire concept of everything they said in their turn of the conversation. It allows for pretty much endless conversational opportunity. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Help. I can't get past the first meetingYour frame here is a little destructive - sounds like you're in a negative feedback loop. Fact is, you need to switch your thinking. If things don't work out, then you've a) learned something, and b) weeded out another potentially useless person from your life. There could be numerous reasons for a first date to not work. They could either be in your control or out of your control. The best way to think about this is to consider yourself a "work in progress" in regards to the things you can cont… | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Are women attracted to Creed Aventus?I'm sure you're going to get a woman's loins terrible soaked by expressing such refined fragrance tastes in such a vehement manner lmao | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to Creed Aventus?A good scent may work in your favor a bit, but don't depend on it. Don't even expect a woman to comment on it. Everything else is what's going to get you laid. Find a fragrance, shower consistently, and work on everything else as well. I hear Invictus is pretty popular. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 06:35 PM |
| 7 | You say 'hi', woman says 'hi' back. Where do you go from here? Discuss"How's it going?" is what I typically say. And that's the least important part. This is about delivery. You need to let your body language convey confidence. You can literally say anything - "You kinda look like a duck." or "So I was in Amsterdam, right?" - but the key is to deliver with confident body language. Deliver your words with good eye contact, good posture, confident tone and a voice projected from your chest. You can say anything about anything, and if it's delivered with good body la… | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Shit tests, shit tests everywhereTHIS GUIDE is the absolute best literature I've found on shit tests. It breaks the concept down very well, allowing a process-oriented solution and easily executable fixes. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Successful 'ugly' sedditors: how did you get over the fact that you're ugly?Could just be comfortable with the situation. I know most people sign on to the concept of monogamy, but it's losing its relevance - especially to the seduction community - so I know many people who just accept polygamy without any sort of religious (edit: or social) justification. | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 01:17 PM |
| 7 | [FR] I'm shy. But last night, I had the smoothest game and got laid with a striking hot woman.IT WILL! Keep at it man! | /r/seduction | 11/03/15 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed!You've got this man. Rise to the challenge! | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How my game has changed negatively in one year.Game definitely changes when you're in a new situation. This is where social calibration comes into play. I went from university in a college town to the 'real world' in a big city, and noticed that there is much less receptiveness overall. You'll need to start showing that you're actually a worthwhile individual behind that dashing smile now. Get ready for a reshape of yourself - gain authentic interests, learn social calibration, and prepare for rejections. This will all be a learning process,… | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being labeled as having an "Asian Fetish" just for being white and asking out an Asian woman? These women have been impossible to even really talk to.This sounds more like a subcommunication issue. Body language is key in any interaction. I've also done best when I simply don't bring up cultural background/heritage/anything of that nature EVER during initial attraction - unless I'm telling a story about my own culture. Fuck her, then you're free to ask what her nationality is. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants)This should be cued by instinct, not strategy. While this is true once you've learned it (as is true for anything you're good at) - don't be afraid to strategize, kiddies. If you have poor social calibration/intelligence now, there's some honing you will need to do - using strategy and practice - before it becomes instinct. That being said, release your inhibitions and don't be afraid to test something out. Outcome independence = success. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Too much texting without escalation, some advice needed!Swipe right again. Losing this one isn't the end of your sex life. You framed yourself as a texting buddy. Next time, frame yourself as the guy with a life too busy/awesome for texting buddies. Yes, there's a bit of rapport that can be built over text, but you don't want to become the TBF (texting best friend). Couple witty quips, suggestions for hang outs, no more than a few text interactions a week. Bring value with your texts (jokes, something funny that happened, a song/video link). There's … | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Lined up a few Tinder dates, but I've never been on a date in my life!You're already invested and you haven't even met these girls! It's not practice unless you want to get with them. Which means you can't back off from opportunities because you feel "unprepared" - fact is, the only way to get better is to practice. ALWAYS go into an interaction with the 'practice' mindset, and you'll ALWAYS come out with something of value - be it a great fuck, a hot friend, or lessons on how you can improve your game (not something the girl will tell you directly, but lessons yo… | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Being needy VS. Showing interestAll behaviors that are described in the other comments stem directly from this philosophy. Burn this into your brain as a basal instinct during interaction. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Is it a IOD (indicator of disinterest) if a girl is comfortable not wearing makeup around you?If you're asking the question, you may as well throw in your chips. Assume attraction, don't be reactive. Escalate smoothly and you'll find out if she's disinterested. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 11:55 PM |
| 16 | How to approach a group of girls?Or reject you lol | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 05:47 PM |
| 13 | Simple eye contact trick for sexual tension.If you're ever afraid of being "that guy," you'll never truly progress in this craft, and will never fully grasp social calibration. You gave to stick your neck out sometimes to know what you're really made of. | /r/seduction | 18/02/15 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What are your fun first dates?Haha it's somewhat non sequitur, but Models by Mark Manson is one of the best books on attraction that a man can read. I like to describe it as a self-actualization guide disguised as an attraction manual. Take a gander! | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 09:15 PM |
| 5 | What are your fun first dates?Just make sure you're doing more than one thing for the date. Switch venues, locations, activities... at least once, ideally twice or thrice. Even if it's just going to the mall, hopping over to the skatepark, and finishing off at the ice cream parlor (things I figure suburbanites would do - if you live in a big city and can't think of anything, you're lame and should read Models), make sure you're making a dynamic experience out of it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 06:09 PM |
| 105 | What are your fun first dates?oof. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Those who emasculate you.This one seems to resonate with me the most. Let your body language do the talking, I like it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Holding back can be one of your most powerful toolsLove it, but how do you apply this when girls aren't fully invested in you yet? ie, first date, girl you're interacting with is inherently somewhat neutral? IE: Explain Like I'm a guy who never has a girl kiss HIM, he's always gotta lead to get a kiss. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 09:35 PM |
| 7 | How to Transition After a Dance?Put it in her butt. Jk. Isolate and start chatting a bit. Keep it light and flirty with body language that is similar to what happened on the dance floor. You can k-close pretty quickly from that point forward. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 09:32 PM |
| 2 | It's always POST-hookup etiquette that I don't seem to have a grasp of.I've had the EXACT same issue for so long. Stop fapping, if you haven't already. Stop watching porn, do your best to avoid the so-readily-available images of the nude female body that have permeated our existence nowadays. I think there are meditation techniques to clear your mind during sex. If I find anything valuable I can put it up here in an edit but... The best way to attack it is to make sure you're not putting pressure on yourself. I never have performance issues with girls that a) I KNO… | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 03:50 PM |
| 1 | It's always POST-hookup etiquette that I don't seem to have a grasp of.Haha damn, did stating that I have abundance mentality really come off that snarky? My bad. I'm past the whole worry of how a girl views me, at least until things get to the socially constructed point of "serious." | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Is going for a lunch a bad idea for a first date?It's really all about how you handle it. It's a very good way to test your day game, and no one will have to hide behind the "I was drunk" excuse. Now, if you treat it as a business lunch, you're not gonna get very far. You have to escalate... but in spite of the fact that the vibe isn't predisposed to be as sexually charged as it is in the nighttime. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Pheromonesany way to augment, however? I know that having more testosterone (ie - not fapping, being physically fit) generally makes you release pheromones better... but anything else? | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How much of a difference will bulking up make?Sounds like you're doing well for yourself. Truth is, you don't want body image to become a source of insecurity for you, because that'll project onto your body language a lot. If I were you, I wouldn't make it a goal to become a gym rat, but I'd definitely take the time and effort to start lifting and eating right. It does wonders for your health, and that in itself will help the way you carry yourself. Not to mention, you'll make whoever you do get into a LTR with VERY happy ;) Also, that goal… | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 12:54 PM |
| 8 | How much of a difference will bulking up make?1) The one thing that it'll probably help that's more valuable than your actual physical appearance is your confidence. Women aren't biologically wired to be attracted to physical appearance the same way that men are. 2) It's not a "this or that" type thing. Learn seduction, learn social skills, and workout, all at once. 3) Stop being so invested in your results with women. Only then will you see real success with women. | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What does confidence sound like?Body language conveys 90% of communication. chin/head/chest up, pelvis forward, facial expressions lacking apprehension. Eyes contact locked in. Avoid too much vocal inflection - use tonality that almost speaks 'this is a fact of life.' Deepen your voice - speak from the chest, not the throat, not the mouth. You're the man, and that's what everyone should feel. edit: AllfoShow's comment speaks volumes on outcome independence - eat that stuff up and make it a part of your primal instincts. | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | What if she plays hard to get AFTER you've already had sex?Did text her a little bit ago, without setting up a meet up. Gonna go ahead and do that, Hoping it's not too late. edit: are there time constraints to this? Or should I just stop giving a fuck about social paradigms? | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Techniques to keeping an "I'm the catch" frame with VERY successful womenWell, the frame isn't to feel better than her. Just to feel confident in yourself, and project that confidence in a way that stays attractive, even in the face of her successes. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 05:06 PM |
| 6 | How to prevent falling in love/developing oneitis?Don't allow your happiness to be derived from her. This will make you needy - you'll be seeking to please her and it won't help your cause. Make sure you keep a strong sense of identity, keep it "me, myself, and i... oh yeah, and her too." don't let it devolve into the "her bf." Stay in touch with your own passions and morals. Don't let your views change because of things she says or does (unless it's something mind-expanding and she actually is helping you to become a more open-minded individua… | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 08:13 PM |
| 6 | I went for itIf even one person is helped by the principles taught here... http://myreactiongifs.com/gifs/happyguydance.gif | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | On Neediness: Complete disregard of what people think of you?^ To give my two cent expansion on that: Being invested in the process is not needy. It is a part of bettering yourself - for yourself. You want to get better at social skill. Look at social skill as just that - a SKILL, one that is important to YOU and YOU want to get better at. Thus, focus on process, be outcome independent, and you will not be needy. Read Models for its value in teaching you social skill, apply its principles because you want to have good social skills, and enjoy the side-eff… | /r/seduction | 02/10/14 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm 19 and looking for advice with womenI would recommend the book "Models," by Mark Manson. You'll understand what frame to come from when approaching the learning associated with all this. From that point, follow seddit, and go out and approach! | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 06:24 PM |
| 2 | What valid reasons are there for you cut off contact with someone?Flakiness, dishonesty, neediness, rampant insecurity, psychological issues that undermine the person's ability to have control of themselves... I may edit to add. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm 15 and I have no idea where to startI'd start with "Models" by Mark Manson. Read it, learn it, love it. Once you get the basic concepts, just go out and start approaching. Malls, parks, whatever you have access to. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 08:23 PM |
| 7 | I really don't know what to talk aboutThis. And to expand: Body language is going to communicate most of what you're conveying. You can say something about a purple elephant playing with a puppykitten, but if you're doing so in a confident, collected, forward way with sexually charged eye contact and body posture/language/kino, your words almost fall to the wayside. You're conveying sexual interest through the most important communication tool of ALL TIME - your body. edit: run on sentences suck. | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Some very basic tips & observations for beginners, from my experience:"Some of the methods and techniques that you see on this sub and elsewhere are extremely powerful on some people, be aware that a woman can become "sprung" from it and the animal within her can emerge." Care to elaborate? Which ones? Everything I've used so far causes only marginal attraction among the girls higher on the attractiveness scale. Edit: I suck at quoting | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 08:27 PM |
| 6 | Very curious about... why all my pulls/closes are all successful when I approach "shyly" and "cute"So awesome. So what about for the less attractive under 6 foot stereotypical looking male? | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit, I need some guidance...So uh, came across this video that profoundly helped. Enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aE9QSuSxIMY | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit, I need some guidance...So I was literally just about to post the exact same thing as OP. I have this feeling that isn't really in the pit of my stomach, but spreads from under my sternum outward. It's a feeling of extreme uneasiness about myself as a person. Many of my traits are similar to OPs, but to expand, I'm having some serious trouble getting over an ex that was amazing (broke up because we graduated college I was moving to a new city and wanted to screw around with new girls) - I think it's more me incapable o… | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting over an awesome ex?Haha I like the perspective. We did actually recently go to a music festival and were in each other's company. I wasn't about it the first day, but did my best to not let it show. The next day I saw her and was totally unphased, having a lot of fun and genuinely unaffected by her presence. That being said, the feelings did come back up later on thanks to me thinking about it and seeing her online profile, and I'm coping. I suppose it'd be good to get more hangouts like that second music festival… | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting over an awesome ex?Haha yeah... already made that mistake. Few months back we made out when I was hammered, but ended up attempting to get her to agree then and there and she just exited the situation. It turned into a huge discussion the next day. She was still defiant. We talk less now but still talk. I know I've been messing up, so I don't know how to progress at this point. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Getting over an awesome ex?I actually have! I'm on all the dating sites, always opening on public transportation, in shops, on the street - and closing with a dececnt success rate too. Which is why I don't understand my current mental state. edit: by close, I don't mean f-close (that happens, but at a lower success rate), but at least take the girls out, spend some time, get into intimate situations. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Calibrating Quickly: Any quick methods to understand and implement the pace/style that works best with a given lady?Haha good point. But I suppose the word 'listening' is rough - like, you can listen, but when it comes down to it, you're going to take an interpretation away that may or may not reflect the point the other person is trying to make. what's the best way to make sure you're getting the closest thing to what the person means? If you have some good 'how to listen better' resources, that'd be awesome. I've tried snooping but all I find is weird sound analysis stuff lol. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Calibrating Quickly: Any quick methods to understand and implement the pace/style that works best with a given lady?Awesome. What would you say is a good way to see what I'm doing with the lower-scale women as opposed to the higher scale women? Record myself? Keep a mental checklist, and check it off when I've 'accomplished' the things that are supposed to be done? | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | "Trying too hard..."Excellent! Thanks so much. Just for a bit of clarification (for me, and for any others who might come across this): speaking slowly is better? "moving around" in general is bad? I understand fidgetiness being bad, but if you take to the point of hand gestures, would that be the bad kind of "moving around" as well? Are facial expressions supposed to remain flat or show changes? Is exaggerating them a good or bad thing? Thanks so much! | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Calibrating Quickly: Any quick methods to understand and implement the pace/style that works best with a given lady?So what about the girls that are not indicating as such? they'll do the hair flipping around, slight body mirroring, but beyond that not much. I feel like I don't get much than that for any Girls higher on the scale - the ones that are lower on the scale, not really up to my overall standards, always do this kind of stuff. But the ones high on the scale, hell naw. Is this where leading comes into play? Be the first to touch during a laugh, be the first to hold the small of her back when leading … | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What pushes you to step up your game?That sounds a little cryptic lol. I suppose there's a text I should refer to to gain a deeper understanding of the concept? I suppose social dynamics has taught me that I'm way less aware of my surroundings than I thought I was. Scientists would correlate this to intelligence. Maybe this conversation isn't appropriate for a comment, but I wonder how to push yourself gain better awareness and - in your words - "understand yourself in this life?" | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What pushes you to step up your game?But the contradiction!!!! Social validation sounds - to me - like living for how others perceive you. Would I be wrong? | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?That being said, there's gotta be some way to bypass the bitch shield that's so much higher in the online world - certain things you could say that remove the shallowness from the situation. Or is that just wishful thinking? | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 11:53 PM |
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