Techniques to keeping an "I'm the catch" frame with VERY successful women

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-10-13T19:50:00+00:00

Stop comparing yourself to her. Stop comparing other women to her. Appreciate what she is, without judgment. I guarantee you that she is aware of her status and is tired of people (men and women) that treat her differently on account of it.

joshsway · 2014-10-13T20:00:36+00:00

Let me ask you something: Is your goal to "maintain frame" or to get the girl? You don't have to be better than a girl at everything to get her.

TheJaguar77 · 2014-10-13T19:03:47+00:00

Love to hear more from other PUAs here, two things I do:

*Acknowledge there is one of you and 4 billion women - if it doesn't work out, it's not a big deal.

*Find flaws in her and focus on them, become unattracted. I personally loathe the idea of using this tactic, but it works. There's something about her not quite right, doesn't get jokes right away? Wears too much makeup? You can make it bigger than it really is in your mind. There are also pros and cons to everything, do you want to deal with the responsibility you'll have when going out with her?

Another one I've been trying lately is just to accept it as a challenge, have fun knowing that she's 'better' than most girls. Think of it as playing a game of chess with a nemesis you've come to adore. You can find it funny if you mess something up.

rmbarnes · 2014-10-14T12:37:40+00:00

Women's value comes from her looks and femininity. Their career success is meaningless to me. A hot, sweet waitress > a 35 year old CEO.

Also, I'm looking to give a girl adventure sex, not a be her provider.

SpaceTire · 2014-10-15T06:43:56+00:00

I've listened to this half a dozen times. Really like this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9kOMn5kwII

Title	Techniques to keeping an "I'm the catch" frame with VERY successful women
Author	youlovethisish
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 13, 2014 6:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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