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my coworkers who are women tell me I come on to strong with that line of mine lol they tell me all the time to go indirect, casual conversation. Sounds like you're creeping your coworkers out. Women are very good at subtly telling you to chill out. Take their advice. Edit: Don't put your job in jeopardy over game. I was banging a few interns - without complaints - until a hater coworker ratted me out. My boss didn't even care, and my bosses boss saw me making out/cuddling w an intern at work one…
/r/seduction27/01/15 04:27 PM
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One way to handle this might be to apologize formally in an unaffected tone almost to highlight their absurdity, "Gentlemen, I apologize for any inconvenience that I may have caused yourselves." Either way, your biggest mistake was to be weak 'cmon guys' and not react confidently one way or another.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:10 PM
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If you're not having fun with online game you will not do good. You have to have a certain attitude that you're not afraid to lose the girl you're talking to in order to make her think you're not needy - all the subtle subcommunications of bodylanguage are not apparent via messaging!
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:06 PM
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OK Cupid = people read your profile, although match by photo has had the best turn around rate for me even on there. Although I have a sneaking suspicion women read your profile before replying, as a result OK Cupid has worked quite a bit for me, Tinder not as much.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:03 PM
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Biggest Tinder turnoff for me is women that don't smile. Also, wearing flawless makeup and nice hair/style/outfit can make or break getting a date with me if the girl is borderline good looking enough.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:02 PM
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Most of this article can be summed up in one sentence "be good looking and have great photos in great outfits." Only two really useful bits here "3. I used photos that ‘screened’ for girls I don’t want to waste my time on." + End Notes section.
/r/seduction21/01/15 02:59 PM
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One of two things. 1) Shit test / wants you to displayer higher value. 2) She's genuinely not interested in banging you yet. The only girl I've ever had called me 'too fast' in seduction was a girl who only had sex with one guy and was socially awkward.
/r/seduction19/01/15 04:46 PM
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People like this have an inner idea that - even if they are scumbags - they are to some degree gentlemen. I'm sure if I had crossed a line by outright insulting him without following a direct neg from him, then he would have tried to KO me. If I felt endangered, I would have left, it's not worth getting in a fight over - unless you enjoy fights of course.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:31 PM
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Hi Adam, I've been a fan ever seeing your awesome 21 Convention presentation on qualification (among other things). I currently have two beautiful girlfriends. They know I am seeing other women, but whenever one leaves signs behind, the other gets extremely jealous and upset. Please describe your technique for creating a relationship with two women from start to where you are now. How do you avoid/deal with jealousy? Please describe your frame for making this happen in a sentence or two. Or, how…
/r/seduction21/11/14 08:53 PM
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Well said, it's not everyone's cup of tea, but it is something I enjoy. I think the enjoyment comes more from understanding and influencing the architecture of the social exchange, many people have amazing game without this, but it is something I have found to work in my favor.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:39 PM
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I appreciate your concern, thank you for caring enough to express your views. We will have to agree to disagree.
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:35 PM
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I find human interaction and psychology to be interesting. So I found this exchange to be fun. If you wish to frame this in a negative way, I suggest you try to look for the good in situations rather than the bad. This one trick can change your life. There are positive & enjoyable aspects in every interaction. If you would like, I can point you to some useful literature on the subject.
/r/seduction11/11/14 06:04 PM
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So you're saying the girl should hold eye contact longer? I don't agree with this. However, if the girl looks away - even for a moment - this is a good time for the guy to do so as well - otherwise it's creepy as you said. OP: You're trying to show you're not afraid, you're not trying to have a staring contest.
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:34 PM
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I always sit next to. When we go to sit, hold my hand out like 'you first' then sit next to her. No reason for it to be awkward, it's perfectly normal in fact.
/r/seduction11/11/14 04:26 PM
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I found it to be quite fun. Now that I understand subtle subcommunications, I understand what is going on in the interaction - and can try my hand at manipulating the situation in my favor.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:54 PM
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Yes. Looked and acted the part! No Australian accent doe :C
/r/seduction10/11/14 06:48 PM
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I know this feeling. You don't have to say anything important, but you have to say something interesting or fun. If what you're saying is not amusing yourself - then shutup. Slowing down your speech can help a ton in this regards, as well as breathing exercises <- list of things I need to start doing again.
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:44 PM
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There's a difference between being confident and an arrogant asshole. Also, being an arrogant asshole comes off as a defense mechanism - the subcommunication you're trying to emit is 'i'm too cool for you', but really reads 'i'm insecure, so i'm going to act like an asshole and blow you out before you blow me out'. Think about this next time you're on the fence about what you say, it can tell you a lot. Models and 60 Years both talk about being confident, nice guys. These books helped me a lot w…
/r/seduction10/11/14 05:22 PM
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At any point you can say "You seem cool, you can give me your phone number and we'll hang out sometime... if you're a good girl". It's always on until she tells you otherwise.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:34 PM
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Johnny Berba & Squatting Cassanova have some incredible in fields on YouTube for daygame.
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:32 PM
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The trick to opening on dancefloor not too directly I feel is to smile and make eye contact in a 'I haven't been staring you down all night' kind of way. I usually do this by dancing close enough for her to see me, but not overtly facing body language towards her, making eye contact, holding, waiting for her to break and peripherally seeing her check me out. Then going back to initiating eye contact. It's a bit of a system, but if I can do this before I've had better luck this way then hand of g…
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:29 PM
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Not replying was a shit test. You won but not initiating day of. How long before you planned meeting did she text you? Curious how close she played chicken with the date...
/r/seduction10/11/14 04:24 PM
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What if your girl isn't willing to do this?
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:35 PM
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Get some champagne, joke, make her laugh, eye contact + makeout then escalate. Don't ask permission, but if she wants you to stop, then stop and backup one step. You can always retry a couple minutes later and she can always tell you to stop again. Also, listen to her tone of voice, if it is serious then take a few steps back (lookup freezeout). But, if it is playful - still backoff, but you are free to retry again 5mins later.
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:52 PM
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Lots of kino when mood is right, first night. Smiling, eye contact. Escalate when mood is positive. Waiting a month is defo friend zone. Better to eject, wait a few months then retry. Try reading books 1 & 2 of 60 Years of Challenge.
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:46 PM
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Also, don't plan to talk nonstop. There should be natural pauses in convo, let convo flow. It's ok if convo dies every once in a while, no one wants to talk for hours on end. Just make convo fun and/or interesting whenever it happens.
/r/seduction05/11/14 06:42 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/2l07no/always_gamble_on_an_empty_stomach_hunger_is/
/r/seduction02/11/14 04:37 PM
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I agree with this. I actually do not prefer 1st night Fcloses for the same reason as you. Got to stay up late. Also, when I'm shitfaced, fucking isn't all that great, better to be more sober. That said, I 'try' to have sex even when I don't want to just so they think of me a certain way. Even if it's a soft try that I know I will get blown out of. This eliminates the possibility of them thinking of me as a pussy (hate to say it that way, but girls seem to think guys are "lucky" to have sex - and…
/r/seduction29/10/14 06:02 PM
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I meant any advice on how to act Day 1 to ensure Day 2? Little things other than being fun - I've read no makeouts, just a little kissing - any things like this? I close Day 2 pretty consistently.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:49 PM
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Interesting, I think that if the guy doesn't at least try then he can be looked down upon as beta by them.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:40 PM
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Good read, would have liked if there was a bullet list of 'fast' screening methods in here.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:33 PM
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Thank you for this post. This is something I've been giving a lot of thought to lately. I've noticed for online game, even when I get girls to my place on Day 1, sex usually doesn't happen even though I got for it - because I'm able to make them feel comfortable, I don't blow the set and still get Day 2 closes. I believe I have been blowing a lot of chances in clubs from trying to make Day 1 happen, largely because of the amount of flakes I have received which makes me think Day 1 or nothing (fl…
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:08 PM
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2 girls is not a lot to manage. Best way to do this is see them twice each during the week day and maybe one day a weekend on occasion. Plans don't always work out, so it will often just end up being once a week, which leaves plenty of time to game.
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:28 PM
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Reopening when you have a # is easy because when you see her you can reopen her with, hey hows it going? Small talk. Then reopen with text later, 'nice running into you today, completely forgot i had this'.
/r/seduction28/10/14 02:26 PM
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Situational comments are always less direct. Come in with this angle, test the waters, work slowly from there.
/r/seduction24/10/14 02:36 PM
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Funny, I've thought about this - but in a different way. Tolle describes the mind always wanting to focus on the next thing, if i'm at least subconsciously focusing on being hungry, then I can't focus on the next thing in the life of male animal - mating. I'm not worried and become less nervous it seems. Also, a bit more tired, but in an apathetic way that allows me not to worry about blowing a set. That said, I don't go hungry, just noticed this when I'm not as 'full' as usual.
/r/seduction23/10/14 05:54 PM
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A very good friend of mine gets instant attraction based off his looks and personality. He is very talkative and keeps everyone's attention. I'm more of the opposite, build attraction more based off on a Mystery-style 'you cant have this' approach - this style just works better for me. However, I've found that he keeps the attention of sets to a degree that my style becomes ineffective around him. I've come up with some solid AMOG that would allow me to steal the HBs, but I wouldn't AMOG a frien…
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:35 PM
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Talk about something you both might enjoy. It's too easy to find differences with someone, better to find things to enjoy talking about together. Or just play silly games that doesn't involve any serious conversation, talking in circles and purposeful misinterpretation can be fun.
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:27 PM
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A girl did this to ME on our second date. I just repeated myself slow and suspiciously as a joke.
/r/seduction13/10/14 09:21 PM
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Adding to this ^ don't read too much at once! During my first 8months of so of PUA, I read too much and became confused with too much info. Try out as you learn, keeping what works. You'll probably end up forgetting most of the stuff this way anyway - but you'll naturally retain what is useful and it will become second nature - instead of a memory you're trying to recall.
/r/seduction13/10/14 07:10 PM
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Love to hear more from other PUAs here, two things I do: *Acknowledge there is one of you and 4 billion women - if it doesn't work out, it's not a big deal. *Find flaws in her and focus on them, become unattracted. I personally loathe the idea of using this tactic, but it works. There's something about her not quite right, doesn't get jokes right away? Wears too much makeup? You can make it bigger than it really is in your mind. There are also pros and cons to everything, do you want to deal wit…
/r/seduction13/10/14 07:03 PM
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Call another girl or go out and socialize.
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:00 PM
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It's a shame this is what many PUAs feel like what they are supposed to do - largely due to many great PUAs trying to keep their highlight reels full of turn arounds after getting blown out & "you can win ANY girl even if she hates you!" style marketing. Gaming a girl who is blatantly NOT interested in you requires a master level of calibration not to freak her out / harass her - let alone win her over.
/r/seduction10/10/14 08:57 PM
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Adding to what has been said. OP needs to limit his amount of drinks. Should be no more than 3 or 4 a night for the time being. Don't make being an alcoholic part of your identity. Indulge moreso once every blue moon until your game is on track & just as often go out without drinking.
/r/seduction10/10/14 08:52 PM
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At first she can't make it, then she can? Dunno man, sounds like she was trying to reprioritize and slip some other thing in first (have a coffee with her best friend, do laundry, whatev). Hard to tell just based on this though.
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:34 PM
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Adding to that - there was a time where /b/ was a great source of comedy & would always put me in a great mood. Oh how times have changed smokes pipe
/r/seduction10/10/14 03:57 PM
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Bowling alleys, teen nights at skating rink etc - anywhere their parents can't cockblock. Best is school though - even though there's only so much you can do, you can make plans for after doing something at one of your houses.
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:20 PM
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I keep it fun and flirty and always drop hints about other girls - not in an asshole douchebag player, but in a jokey fun cool guy who has other girls in his life way - avoid saying anything that will make them feel like whores - do not sleep with them until they get the idea.
/r/seduction07/10/14 07:44 PM
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If you don't have a job you should be pulling more pussy. You can literally game whenever you want! Order water at a bar, who cares? Girl wants a drink, "you're going to buy me a drink HB? so sweet of you" smiling.
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:12 PM
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From watching Johnny Berba - seriously watch this guy - escalation in day game isn't terribly common. More of a day 2 thing. But if you're trying to pick up same day and fuck from day game, I'm sure it's possible... Day 1 nice convo, number close, make plans to meet up, hug, bye. Day 2 night drinks, back to your place f close. I got a Day 2 fclose yesterday during the day time - movies at my house (in my bed) - that strategy might help. All that said, I'm VERY curious to hear more advice about t…
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:25 PM
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Confidence. Experience. Following instinct. Not second guessing - but learning from mistakes. Leading. HAVING FUN. Not caring if I lose the set.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:08 PM
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I try to hold eye contact slightly more than them. I don't look away when a girl is staring into my eyes - it's submissive. Beautiful women do this all the time to test your confidence. A good way to make staring 'uncreepy' is to have a grin like 'ok game on, i know youre testing me - im testing you too'.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:06 PM
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This is a pretty shit PU line IMO. But OP turned it into a fun game - made it work.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:03 PM
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Day game can require tight calibration, you might want to learn some bar/club game - where you can get away with making more mistakes, where it is expected you will flirt, kino etc. Personally, I would find it nerve wrecking to start out PU in exclusively a day scene. Also check out YouTuber Johhny Berba - tons of great daygame PU vids - although his style is more street game oriented, you will find a lot of useful stuff.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:00 PM
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Whenever I talk to girls, I have fun with the conversation. I don't try to be factual or serious. Look for ways to playfully misread what they say. Remember girls are emotional. As others have mentioned, good idea to talk to everyone the same way then you talk to cute girls you will just be your best self. It can be easier to practice conversational skills with not-hot girls and your new skills will become apparent with talking to anyone - hot or not. If the convo turns serious and I disagree, I…
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:52 PM
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When I have an HB over for a movie (usually how I F-close on day 2s), we don't sit in the living room, but up to my room, where I have a bed facing a monitor. Start making out almost right away, whenever LMR - blame it on her in a playful way - if I'm leaning over her making out, min later start grabbing boobs she's like 'omg no', I will laugh and say 'I'm trying to watch the movie, quit distracting me' then back off. I have a bunch of little lines like this for every step of LMR to keep it fun …
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:38 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:38 PM
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Interesting. I prefer to take charge, but at the same time her grabbing you is definite investment and probably has a better chance of a day 2. Glad I read this.
/r/seduction06/10/14 03:33 PM
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Not at all, No means back the fuck up. But she will be glad you tried. Basically: lead.
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:50 AM
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No means no & 'thank you for having the balls to try, please try again in a bit'
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:17 AM
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You seem like a messy girl. I bet you got clothes and dirty plates and pizza everywhere. HB blah no i'm clean. PUA: You're going to have to prove that.
/r/seduction03/10/14 06:42 PM
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Break habits, even small things. Don't order the same sandwhich at lunch. Bigger habits even better to break. Break mindsets. Explore. Add more and different stimuli to your walk of life. Keep what fits, reject what society forces.
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:18 PM
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Very minor thing that doesn't at all address what you are saying: "we should move to a quiet place" I NEVER use should. It is a trigger to make us want to do the opposite. "You CAN join me, let's find somewhere quiet to talk".
/r/seduction03/10/14 04:14 PM
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Half of this list is good. Half of this list is what women think they want. This one annoys me: "Always offer to pay the bill on a date. Believe me, most women don’t get angry at the idea of a man wanting to pay for a lunch or dinner. You don’t have to be very forceful, but do insist on paying the bill." If she asked me out, I am NOT going to be paying.
/r/seduction30/09/14 01:34 PM
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PUA instructors often get attention / hits based on how outrageous they can be and still pull a set. Hardly makes it the best approach, newbs don't realize this.
/r/seduction29/09/14 09:39 PM
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I like to establish a frame right away of telling women what to do (in a funny way!). I usually start this in a joking way by being purposely inappropriate and playful 'you are taking me somewhere really, really nice right?' and keep that 'i'm the prize' humor flowing. It's important not to do this like a douchebag unless that's your identity. You can always just buy, when you want her to put them on, just take out of the bag, hand it to her and say 'put this on'. You're not making an outrageous…
/r/seduction25/09/14 01:49 PM
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In the last month or so, I've had three girls pull the 'can i bring a friend' OR I even invited the friend trying to make it work out as a challenge. The girl always tries to see how 'cool' she can be an acts disinterested. Under normal circumstances I could have f-closed at least 2 of the 3. If my tale is of value, don't waste your time. One line I've used in the past is "Have fun." That's it, basically says "don't waste my time". Any girl who will bring a friend to a date is probably going to …
/r/seduction25/09/14 01:33 PM
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Thanks. At one point she said something like 'no we cant on the first date' - even though her jeans were wet. Probably should have taken her to another location that night and built a little more comfort. Excuse goes: it was a weeknight and was under the weather - had to work early the next morning & at that point it wasn't gonna happen on night 1. This line has worked well for me in the past too :) Think I pulled her back to my place an hour and a half after meeting on night 1.
/r/seduction18/09/14 01:42 PM
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Like 4 or so. It's documented in the text game / description so u can see the progression day by day.
/r/seduction18/09/14 01:39 PM
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ty, 27
/r/seduction18/09/14 01:10 AM
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By testing. There's a club in Orlando with an upstairs make out spot. I usually ask 'have you seen upstairs yet'. They know what I'm up to... if they say 'no' or don't reply, I grab their hand and say 'let's go, its only polite that I show you'. But I have gone into bars I don't know the layout and do the same thing but say, 'let's explore this place' hand grab, find a good spot, sly smile 'this is the best spot in the club'. Girls know you better than you do. She knows why you brought her there…
/r/seduction04/09/14 08:09 PM
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I agree with this. There can be a small window of time to appropriately escalate before she feels either 'too slutty' or pissed that you didn't continue escalation fast enough (if you continue same kino over and over you look inexperienced and she gets the vibe that you're just getting lucky, not natural). Pulling her to a darker area of the bar / or trying to - will help you know whether you can escalate more or are moving too fast. If she ejects like that, you can always call her 'shy' to refr…
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:49 PM
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