Hey y'all. This may sound a bit esoteric, so bear with me, and if it makes any sense, feel free to feed back so I can edit/modify in order to help a broader audience understand.

So basically, I feel like I have the concepts and theory of attraction down pretty well. Once it comes to execution, it goes decent, but I feel like there are times where I'm still not fully in control of the situation, or aware of the overall interaction's standing with the other person. I guess it would be calibration, but this feels like a more advanced level of calibration, like more focused on subcommunication and overall 'feel.'

Ie - in online interaction, when a girl bats away much of the requests to move this forward to something more personable, I feel like I'm being taken for a ride and not in control of the interaction. When I'm in front of a girl and while we hit a low point in convo (this is easy to overcome in one-on-one hangouts as the person is stuck with you, but in a fleeting, standing-up, I-just-dropped-in-to-talk-to-you situation it's a little harder), I sometimes feel a creep of worry that I'm not fully aware of how she feels. Even upon reading body language and expressing myself similarly.

I guess I'm wondering what the next level is. How do I go from having the groundwork down to really commanding the energy of the interaction? How do I go from learned to natural? I've already been told I'm quite a bit natural by lots of the guys I've interacted with who are or aren't aware of this world, but I'm trying to take it a step further. Really get all this at a high, above-the-neck level that I'd almost be happy not being able to articulate, just because I 'get it.'

Any thoughts, you advanced guys?