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| 6 | Chicks dig cigsYou are focusing too much on the micro level of things, get your macros right first. Get fit, dress smart and develop game. After that you could be huffing glue and still pull mad ass. Trivial shit like this doesn't matter at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 05:05 AM |
| 11 | Chicks dig cigsCorrelation is not causation. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 02:54 AM |
| 6 | If you want to get laid, be a toxic manIt's not morals, it's that women aren't or can't be original. They just go with the herd because it's the safer choice. When was the last time you saw a woman stand up against a majority on anything and risk being rejected or shunned? A man will stand up for his point of view and gladly face the consequences. It basically comes down to this, women think truth is defined by majority which is why they never really understand what's going on and just end up copying the latest buzz words. When it co… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/16 12:58 AM |
| 5 | How To Fix Your Sleep Schedule (And Maintain It Forever)From my personal experience you only need to do 2 things to fix your sleep and consequently your life. Work hard enough, as in actual hours spent focusing on a task that requires above average focus and energy, so that your body feels the need to sleep. Cut out all external stimulants. I used to have massive sleep problems, self and peer diagnosed with a billion sleeping disorders and got prescribed stimulants as remedies that really just kept messing my sleep up even more. If you're not working… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Sydney man who "degraded" female Tinder user on Facebook faces three years behind bars, WTF???Why is this idiot arguing with the whale in the first place? I mean what happened wasn't right but what the fuck was the point of it? Did he expect to convince a fat SJW with "Will suck you dry and have a sandwich with you" in her bio of her wrong doings? Did he expect her to agree with him and change her life and become a better person? Like what in the actual fuck goes through peoples brain when they argue like this? I've come to the realization that anyone participating in "social sciences or… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Sydney man who "degraded" female Tinder user on Facebook faces three years behind bars, WTF???They just more or less lost the 4th Amendment. More will follow soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 01:11 AM |
| 13 | Masculine Needs Form a Hierarchy. Design Your Life Accordingly.The way you beat addictions is by getting up close and personal with them, understanding their consequence and consciously keep track of them as they build up. You have to give your brain all the relevant information to be able to make an informed decision, your brain is not stupid, you are. People can't break out of addictions because they skip the feeling shitty part after binging. For games the usual way of "blocking" thinking about consequences is either work or pot + snacks. Work gets you t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 01:42 AM |
| -56 | 11 lessons from Donald Trump's The Art of the DealHis actual net worth is somewhere between $200-400 mil. He's so good with mass manipulation that he's actually fooled everyone into thinking that he's a billionaire. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 06:55 AM |
| 8 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Additionally there are many people who claim they're just fine at work after drinking and I used to be one of them. The thing is, you can't say you're just fine on Monday after drinking unless you take long time off drinking and then look at how much better you feel and operate. I clearly notice the difference if I have more than 2 or 3 drinks on the weekend. Now I really haven't been out drinking in a long long time and I don't miss it one bit. Same thing applies to a lot of other things such a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm curious what's the point of this subbreddit?A) You're uninformed. B) You seem to be suffering from extremely low self esteem. Every time you say "we" you really mean "I" but you have to generalize it because facing the truth is harsh and in fact that's what TRP is about. It's not about hating or loving anyone, it's about breaking the bullshit narratives that we're fed, understanding reality and then fully exploiting it to your advantage. C) Just so you're informed, the hate towards women you see here is generally from new comers in the "a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 10:11 PM |
| 17 | You'll be happier and more confident if you accept the harsh truthsHappiness is inversely proportional to difference between expectation and reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 06:31 AM |
| 3 | I'm curious what's the point of this subbreddit?A post full of conjecture complaining about conjecture. Muh Irony Overload. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Pure Logician.While you're at it, pick up Thinking Fast and Slow. It'll make you infinitely more aware of your day to day decision making. It's one of those things that you can't unsee. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Vice Documentary on Beta Males Trying to Redefine MasculinityYou know it's propaganda when they only show one side of the picture. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 01:39 AM |
| 1 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityI don't really know about the rules and regulations of American Unis but can't the even organizers make up a "no disruption" rule before hand, make people sign a form on entry and then eject anyone who creates trouble immediately. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityI feel exactly the same way but I shudder to even think about the back lash of merely alluding, out of sheer compassion, to an SJW that there's something wrong with their brain and that they need help. You've correctly identified the deep root causes but unfortunately that only confirms the fact that no amount of logic or reasoning is going to convince them otherwise. I come from a 3rd world Muslim country and I've seen, firsthand, the full potential of systematic brain washing of an entire gene… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 11:21 PM |
| 47 | SJW reaction to an anti-PC event co-hosted by Milo Yiannopoulos at my universityI always have a tough time deciding if they're that evil or that oblivious because evil demands intellect, albeit a misguided one. I think society at some point should start looking at "highly emotional" people such as SJWs as mentally ill just like highly unemotional (psychopaths) people. PS: Milo is the man. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 11:50 AM |
| 28 | The newest amazing discovery about the wage gap: maybe men and women have different attitudes toward work!No surprises here. Women don't know real passion and neither do most men which is why the majority of them are stuck in mediocrity. It's a common occurrence to have people stare at me blankly when I answer a query about my weekend with "Finished the book I was reading on neural networks". It's almost as if they're waiting for the "went to x and got fucked up bla bla bla" part. They can't fathom the fact that doing what you love can bring you infinitely more happiness (and wealth) than following … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 11:32 PM |
| 2 | A Plea For Irrational ConfidenceI think your main problem is your environment. Building yourself up is a one step at a time process and you have to have be in a environment that motivates you to go up but not make you look completely insignificant. Imagine if you put a 12 year old kid in an NBA game and ask him to start playing. Regardless of how much potential this kid has he's not going to come even remotely close to performing as good as even the worst players in the league because that's how high the bar is. This is what I… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | A Plea For Irrational ConfidenceI can't speak for anyone else but personally the way I differentiate between a cocky and confident person is awareness of limits. No matter how good you are at something you always have limits and being aware of those limits keeps you sharp. That doesn't mean you're always bound by your limits, just means you're aware. The mirror thing is neither cocky nor confidence, it's just a trick to snap you out of whatever state you're in. Just like raising your arms above your head in victory position in… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Using Instagram to realize how women behaves to men (and what to heal)It's simple, he's following the number 1 rule of online game: Be good looking. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | A Plea For Irrational ConfidenceI think confidence is more in the line of "I'll be fine even if I don't know, I'll figure it out" while "I know my shit" is cocky. If you think about it confidence only matters when someone is pushed into an uncomfortable situation, if everything is settled down than you don't even need confidence. That's why actually confident people never hesitate but are always humble because they know that they don't know but they also know that that doesn't matter where as the know it all types actually pan… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 05:30 AM |
| 2 | A Succint Look Of Why Confidence Is Crucial. A Succint Description Of What She Is Thinking When Attractivness Is Being Built.The AF/BB split is based on BEHAVIOR not STATUS. You can get laid without status but you have to have that "bad boy" self destructive kind of factor or some other bullshit sick fantasy that women get off on and I for one am not willing to live a fucked life in the name of pussy. The point is to have a life that YOU want to live and then find ways to attract women without sacrificing the life style that makes you happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Mind FullYour thoughts are very trippy, which is to say there is very little flow and coherence. Mindfulness is basically not being in mental fog and being fully aware of the actions and the systems that produced the decisions that led to those action. For example if my coworker Jack calls me as he leaves his house in the morning to get to work and I know for a fact that he lives exactly 10 minutes from work but he actually takes 15 minutes to get here. My boss asks me why Jack is late? If I'm a coffee p… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 11:34 PM |
| -2 | A Succint Look Of Why Confidence Is Crucial. A Succint Description Of What She Is Thinking When Attractivness Is Being Built.Confidence is a summary of that list, that was the point. Have you ever seen a guy that has all of the qualities on that list and not be confident? No, because the sum of those things IS confidence. Confidence is not a physical thing that's why you can't directly do anything to improve it, its more of a lifestyle choice. Confidence is like the color of your shit, you can't eat terrible food and have a normal looking shit no matter how hard you try. On the other hand if you eat good food you don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 02:21 AM |
| 17 | A Succint Look Of Why Confidence Is Crucial. A Succint Description Of What She Is Thinking When Attractivness Is Being Built.See, the problem with posts like these is that anyone who has confidence doesn't need to read it and anyone who doesn't has no fucking clue what you're on about. It's esoteric, not educational. Attraction is simple. It is a function of the autonomous part of your brain and that part looks at the world through categories and summaries because it's too hard to look at everything in detail. Checklist for a potential mate: Good looking Dressed nicely Is social Other people find him attractive Has re… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Remember the girl who dumped her boyfriend because he lacked "ambition" but was secretly loaded with cash, well here's the update from the same girlWhat a pig! It sickens me to see how he didn't have any regret of throwing away a wonderful relationship and then to top it off he brings a hotty with him to make this poor girl, who has recently been emotionally scared by men on Tinder for trying to fill a hole in her life that was caused by him to begin with, jealous. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 11:56 PM |
| 9 | How To Make Books Your BitchI think you are focusing a bit too much on consumption. Reading is a good thing but not for its own sake but what you end up doing with what you learn. Let's look at the numbers you've provided. You say you have 40 books to read and you read a a book in 4-6, let's make it 5 on average. 2 hours a day makes it a book every 2.5 days which means it'll take you roughly 3 and a half months, let's make it 4, to read 40 FUCKING BOOKS. The quicker you consume, the quicker you forget. That's just how memo… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Stories From the Nightclub: A Peek Behind The Well Hidden Veil of WomenI've often wondered what a shitty feeling it must be to truly believe that you have to put fake shit on your face to become temporarily likable. I mean the state of mind you'd have to be in to actually go through with something like that must be incredibly miserable and would explain some of the really fucked up shit women come up with. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Stop Thinking, It's What Got You Into This Mess.My immediate reaction to the title was "wtf". The "STFU and do x" works for absolute beginners who are literally incapable of any independent thought. It works off the idea that physiology has an effect on psychology but for anyone who has or aims for long term success should be working the other way round or at least have a healthy balance. OP is an "instruction", which is to say "Do x because it works for me" while very few posts are "advice" which is to say "Here's the why and what of your wr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/16 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Game isn't what you're doing, it's how people view what you're doing.What he is trying to say is when you live a genuinely happy and fulfilling life there is no more competition. You perceive situations as a game because there is supposedly some reward in it for you, the girl, praise, money but when you find the one thing that makes you happy all this other shit falls off. People don't matter, there are no "players". There is you and the problem that stimulates you and everything else disappears. This is not philosophy, this is actual science. It's called "optima… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 02:05 AM |
| 2 | "In defence of one night stands" - Article written by a female student, RP truths galore.The problem is that these women are giving away the best years of their lives for nothing and then at some point when they realize that they have nothing of value left they want something akin to a refund in the form of "a real man" but the real mind fuck is that even if by some miracle the alpha widow lands Alpha Bucks she will still get bored real quick and start looking around for some strange cock. The real problem is that women are perpetually stuck in "the grass is greener on the other sid… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Cities : Utopia or Concentration Camp?I was more thinking along the lines of major re-branding to make it "big" while still maintaining authenticity. A sequel to a movie that barely got noticed doesn't get much attention and Dredd deserves much more attention than it got. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Cities : Utopia or Concentration Camp?I wish they would do a good remake of Dredd, awesome movie. On a similar note My dinner with Andre | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Don't Do These 9 Things In Your Next InterviewBest way to get a job? Know your shit. All this other shit is just pseudo social science bull shit. What the fuck am I going to do with a programmer that can make good eye contact but takes a week to write something that can be done in 2 hours. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Confidence is key so behave like a kingIt appears that you are extremely angry and envious of people who are in relationships and have built a narrative that helps you keep your sanity and have now posted that narrative here for more validation. You need to stop ripping on other people and take a long, hard look at yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Youtube Girl Tells her 170k Subs how She Skipped taking BC to get Pregnant Without BF Knowing. Then doesn't let BF be with His Son. Wear a condom.Classic female decision making. Something shines, must be gold, I want gold, turns out to be shit, HALP! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 09:03 AM |
| 2 | The tone when conversing with girlsToo many guys let anger and some arbitrary sense of self worth get in the way of a fuck. You're on Tinder, the point is to fuck her, not to get her to admit that you're superior to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | The tone when conversing with girlsI always think someone who does that is psychotic aka Women. You're gonna have to give an example "Can I please have your fucking phone number", "See, perfectly well mannered" Usually you can put a fuck in the sentence or you can ask for something more. The fuck works if you're unsure but if this conversation had gone better and you had established a sexy, playful vibe you could have gone something like "Can I please have your number so we can get drinks and screw afterwards" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 02:54 AM |
| 3 | The tone when conversing with girlsYou could've simply said "Me too" and that's it. You don't give her anything to go on so she has to change the conversation. Or "I like girls who like guys who are well mannered" Or something you like that is completely unrelated to the conversation. Another quick tip, any time you ask a girl (or anyone actually) for something and they demand a "please", you give it to them but with a hyperbole of what you originally asked for. Also, if you feel like you've fucked something up it's often best to… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 01:17 AM |
| 6 | The tone when conversing with girlsYou're once again thinking way too hard on this. She said she likes well mannered guy, you assert you're a well mannered guy beyond any doubt. You don't have to prove anything, you don't have to show her you're a bad boy or anything like that. There is nothing wrong with being a well mannered guy. The end. Instead you made a very weak pointless statement which she took as a venue to press harder to which you reacted by trying to defending yourself and ultimately getting pissy in your last reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 12:27 AM |
| 9 | The tone when conversing with girlsMate, you need to stop thinking and dissecting everything so much. That's the key to banter which is 90% of Tinder game, the other 10% is closing. "My mama raised a perfect gentleman" "Absolutely, thanks for admiring my excellent manners." These 2 say exactly the same thing which is "I know what I am and I don't care what you think". Yours is flat and straight forward, mine is a bit more snappy. Also you don't seem to have a clear idea of what agree and amplify is. I suggest you read the side ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 12:08 AM |
| 20 | The tone when conversing with girlsAgree and amplify mate. You took the bait and ultimately had to defend yourself which is not where you want to be. Best response would've been something like "My mama raised a perfect gentleman" instead of "as do most people... well?", not sure where you were going with that one and neither was she but ultimately it came across as weak. I agree with your premise that men shouldn't have to audition for a fuck but your Tinder game needs work. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 11:36 PM |
| 0 | 1984: The RP Book You Should ReadAnd here we have the self proclaimed guru of TRP who has unlocked all the secrets to life and is ... chilling on Reddit. Your attitude sucks man. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | 1984: The RP Book You Should ReadYou need to read the side bar mister. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | 1984: The RP Book You Should ReadYour title however and summary however... Not going to argue semantics, just wanted to say something as this is the 2nd or 3rd time I've see 1984 posted here as "RP text". Well, it's not. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 07:02 AM |
| 47 | 1984: The RP Book You Should ReadCome on dude, I get that you've swallowed the pill and see the world through a different lens now but can we not reduce 1984 to BP/RP and sexual strategy. The book is a masterpiece and its message has nothing to do with RP/BP and pussy, it's way deeper and scarier than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The Caffeine ConnectionI can guarantee you the majority of people who brag about their lack of sleep and large coffee in take are no where as productive as they could be on more sleep and less coffee. I used to be one of those people, I was functional and not particularly lacking but since I've changed things around my productivity and general energy levels have sky rocketed. Some people might be productive with less sleep but there's really no way to know unless you give more sleep a proper shot. I've never heard any… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 10:09 PM |
| 5 | The Caffeine ConnectionPerpetual coffee drinking This is the one thing I never understood about Western culture and I chalked it up to the fact that they must have built up some resistance to caffeine because they have so much of it. It boggles my mind to see people drinking coffee at night just because they're bored or hanging out. How the fuck can they go to sleep. I have 1 small cup of coffee in the morning and that's it, if I have anything past mid day my sleep that night is terrible. I also don't buy the "some pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/16 10:44 PM |
| 3 | The Light-Switch Effect - Why Women Re-Write the History of Relationships.This is also why most women are "stuck" in life. They never move forward and learn from their past experiences because of the constant rewriting, they write it off as someone else's fault and then proceed to make the same mistakes stuck in an endless loop of "guy mistakes" or "drug/party life" or "it wasn't really my thing" or "I've rediscovered myself". They'll do right this time, not let that asshole fuck their life up etc etc. It's is also why they can't do well in STEM fields, you need to de… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 10:57 PM |
| 7 | The Guaranteed Number CloseThis is a Reddit arm chair PUA master piece. I'm fairly certain you've never talked to a women under the pretext of seduction in real life, everything that has been said here seems to be a compilation of PUA material you've read on the Internet. Not an iota of authenticity in this post. It also seems like you've literally been living under a rock since the turn of the century. Show her the picture, laugh about it together, and then tell her … “Here, I can send it to you, what’s your number?” Ser… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/16 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Feminism: Rhetorical Manipulation TechniquesThey basically give or hint the right answer in the question either by either subtly prefacing it with their opinion or shaming the wrong answer. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Comedy Gold! Wife is scared of husband's rising SMV.Not sure why you're coming across so aggressive. You call me an idiot and then proceed to agree with me more or less. I already said that sex isn't objectively (physically) not as pleasurable for women as it is for men which is why we play this game. A man will be satisfied after banging a hot blonde regardless of how stupid or shallow she is, same can't be said for women unless the bangee has social status to back it up. This is basically game for men, proving we're not just a pretty face where… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 10:55 PM |
| 11 | Red Pill Comedy Gold! Wife is scared of husband's rising SMV.I think women don't enjoy sex anywhere as much as men do Not gonna lie, this thought crosses my mind a lot. I think sex isn't objectively as fun for them, which is to say there needs to be some sort of emotional attachment to it for it to work for them, that's why tingles are very volatile. One moment they're their and the next they're gone. I wouldn't be surprised at all if there was some big secret men never got in on where the physical sensation barely does anything for them unless there's so… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/16 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How to Win at Life Through Emotional DominationFor anyone interested, Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman (Nobel prize winner) talks about this in great detail. He divides our response systems into 2 parts, System 1 and System 2 where System 1 is the instinctive, emotional, reactionary system and System 2 is rational. System 1 is where most of us live most of the time and success comes to those who are aware of both the usefulness and follies of it and have the ability to catch System 1 fucking up in the act and invoke System 2 immedi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/16 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Men need to unite in not paying for women for anything. (Male shit tests)Yea I'm not going to tie my masculinity to $30. I think it's worth a bit more than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men need to unite in not paying for women for anything. (Male shit tests)It really isn't, you're literally tying paying for dinner with your masculinity. Think about that for a second. Guys cling on to this concept because it's an easy way to tell yourself "I'm a man, I'm in control because I made her pay". I'm not advocating for or against it, I'm saying it's irrelevant and it's definitely not worth of a thread as proved by OPs own account. The girl paid, not because she was a good one or bad one but because she was asked to. She actually despised paying even though… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men need to unite in not paying for women for anything. (Male shit tests)But this is my point exactly, as OP mentioned she PAID willingly on the date even though she hated it. The fact that she paid didn't make her any more decent. In the same way, not paying wouldn't make her any less decent. The point I'm trying to make is that it doesn't matter that much and that this whole paying on date thing gets way more attention than it deserves because it's an easy out for guys to dismiss a girl or assert control or whatever bullshit people attached to it. It's really seman… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 10:30 PM |
| -1 | Men need to unite in not paying for women for anything. (Male shit tests)$30 dinner is how it starts That's where we disagree. I don't think paying for a dinner date is a "slippery slope". In my opinion it really doesn't mean much. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 10:27 PM |
| -3 | Men need to unite in not paying for women for anything. (Male shit tests)First off the title is very misleading. You made it sound like this was going to be about alimony or showering m'lday with gifts but instead it was about a $30 dinner which is actually the entire reason this problem exists. The issue is that guys here are confusing a $30 dinner date with some bitch walking around the club fishing for beta drinks with showering m'lady with gifts with letting her play with your wallet. Those are all separate things and paying for dinner date does not make you a be… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?That's pretty much the point I was making. If you ever have to extraordinarily hard, its a sign that the whole thing could be done a lot smarter. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?The problem I see with a lot of people here is the belief that discipline is an end goal in itself. It is not. It is a means to an end, a technique, a tool. You can have great discipline but without it leading somewhere and getting some value in return from all that restraint you will eventually break and all of it will have been for naught. You have to have goals and then develop habits to achieve that goal and then when something tries to interfere with your habits you will have on one hand yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?As someone who has been there and done worse I can tell you that unless you're managing billions of dollars, whenever you find yourself in that kind of situation for more than a week you have done something wrong. You've either fucked up and are making up for it or you're incredibly inefficient in what you do (lack of sleep starts this vicious cycle that is hard to see till you break out of it) or you're being taken for a fool and made to do all this work for barely anything. You probably feel y… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 11:14 AM |
| 7 | Tune-up Tuesday is back! What is your #1 issue you need help with the most?Basically this. The simple rule is : to get more done in a day you have to wake up early. If you get up at 6am you can bet your ass you'll be dozing off by 10pm. Here is my routine: 6am-7am. Stretch. Mentally prepare myself for the day by going through each task and making sure I have/can acquire everything I need to get my tasks done, this could be as simple as finding out there's no bread for breakfast or as complex as colossal work fuck ups. Spend the rest of the time on some light reading or… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 04:11 AM |
| 20 | The price of settling is too highThere is a difference between rights and unchecked freedom, neither women nor men should have the latter for society to work. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 10:48 PM |
| 3 | LSD: The most misunderstood drug of modern society. How and why it can benefit you explained in detail.LSD, unlike many other drugs, is not a mood enhancer. Instead, it magnifies the thoughts and patterns that already exist in your mind. You get to explore your mind in great detail not just intellectually but also physically and emotionally and you get a very distinct and measurable, lets call it, "reaction" when a thought you held is "resolved". All this occurs at relatively high doses. Anything under 150ug is mostly visual and a very mild experience, 200ug - 400ug is where LSD starts "breaking"… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Champion's Mentality - How To Stop Being A Loser & Become Epic - A spiritual successor to Monk Mode. If Monk Mode was "how to stop being a loser" this is "how to start being a winner""Everything is possible and nothing is easy" Starting with yes you can turn your life around, no it won't be easy. This is a champions mentality. Once you understand and believe this on a molecular level you'll start seeing the world differently. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Parallels Between Feminism and BrainwashingCan you expand on this a little bit, identifying specific parts of Marxist theory that feminism resembles because I can't make a solid connection in my mind. Mind you, I've only started reading Marx in detail a couple of months ago but I feel like most people, not saying you, who talk about Marxism literally don't know what it is and just use it as a buzzword. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 01:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Made beta boyfriend into a bitch infront of his girlfriendYou're an idiot. Make sure you have your lawyers number at the ready and your health insurance sorted because you'll need one or both of those soon enough if you keep this macho bs up. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Just had a seminar in university about feminism and 'the gender gap'Opposition to abortion is sexist!!! It's so difficult for women in some states to get abortions because...discrimination!!! While men can easily get abortions any time they want! This made me spill my coffee | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to Defend Yourself Like Trump: 11 Pro StrategiesRhetoric is only useful if the opponent is devoid of facts and data. Trump is nowhere near as successful, call it like it is and consistent as people think he is. All the charisma in the world won't save him against facts. When I think of Trump as president I see Terry Crews from Idiocracy. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Giving into the warm comfort of friendliness/gym slacking and other thoughts.Gym is at the heart of self improvement because it is entirely about investing in yourself. No one else will benefit when you hit that 225lb bench, no one else will benefit when that first shoulder vein pops, it's all about you. That's also why gym shaming is a thing, entitled people can't fathom the fact that you're doing something entirely for yourself and there is no way for them to benefit from it. Another great thing about gym that I haven't seen mentioned here is the fact that it is not ea… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | A golden example of social conformityThe Crowd by Gustave le bon is the defining text for me when dealing or thinking about people in groups. It literally changed my entire world view and a lot of the things that people did, especially social and political movements, that didn't make sense to me became painfully obvious after reading it. The book is a bit dense and gives you constant "duh" moments. Highly recommend to anyone interested in the subject. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 03:26 AM |
| 4 | This is crazyYou sound like a woman. Everything you've said so far starts with "I" and ends in "feels/looks/seems wrong" with no facts in between. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 06:04 AM |
| 0 | 'Too much pressure on guys to lift'. Boo-fucking-hoo.This is actually the hardest thing about lifting. It's pretty easy to crush an hour at the gym for most people but to have discipline in nutrition and sleep for the remaining 23 hours is the real test. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Plates pushing you on LTR with Dread GamesI love those texts. 2 months of radio silencer later I get a "how's things?" followed by a dozen "look at all these cool things I've been doing" texts. The real kicker was at the end where she says she's been dating some Engineer that's about to finance her trip to another state so she can check out a school she wants to go to. My replies were mostly monosyllabic and rather patronizing. A couple of hours later I get a "want to come over tonight?" and when I bring up the fact that she's dating so… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 03:31 AM |
| 79 | Want vs Need: or why you just can't seem to fix yourselfI did this a while ago and it actually works. I used to be your typical super smart lazy kid that needs to be "managed" to be productive. My boss used to cut me a lot of slack in terms of showing up late, lots of "sick days", messing around at work, taking hour long lunch breaks etc. I got several pay rises too but the idiot in me used the pay rise as a way to work less and make the same amount of money. One day, I was having a conversation with my boss about why I am the way I am (my boss is re… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Women have sex for validation, not for pleasureObligatory | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 07:51 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Going from 175 to 195 in 6 months. Dzuari's lazymans guide to getting jackedBoom. You hit the nail on the head with the attitude comment. Most anti steroid arguments are basically "life isn't fair" rants which is a key concept in TRP. Be a man, stop whining and do what you have to do. Furthermore, what most people don't realize is on gear you have to bust your ass 5 times harder, eat and sleep with more discipline because you're on a timeline and you can't afford to fuck up. OP talking about hard work while on SS makes me laugh. I'm not one for bragging but come back wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 02:51 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Going from 175 to 195 in 6 months. Dzuari's lazymans guide to getting jackedGood progress, bullshit story. You say you went from 175 to 195 in 3 months and then another 3 months later you're ripped but still at 195. That's a classic 12 week test/oral bulk cycle into a tren recomp. There's no way in hell you can recomp natty like that i.e gaining muscle and losing fat while on a caloric deficit. You said it yourself, you have to eat more to gain muscle and less to lose fat. You only get to do both at the same time if you include the secret sauce. So please, there's no ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 07:25 AM |
| 12 | Small kino trick that can be used in loud venues, like a club.Speak into her butt and let her figure out what you're saying from the vibrations. | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 06:42 AM |
| 1 | The red pill's bad after taste. What happens when your game is too strong. [Field report]Fair enough. The point I was trying to make is that you still have some anger in you and that's why this semi-FR turned out the way it did. This girls' hamster sounds like it's all roided up and in full control. If you played it cool you could've nailed her and got lots of little AWALT gems out of her which would've been both amusing and incredibly enlightening. Step 1 of TRP is distancing yourself from women and improving yourself so that you're no longer influenced by them. Once you're immune … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | The red pill's bad after taste. What happens when your game is too strong. [Field report]Honestly, this read more like trolling rather than sexual strategy. A big part of sending mixed signals, being mysterious/cold/cocky is that they're all about timing but it seems like you were doing these things all the time which instead of short wiring their tiny little brains, blew it up all together. It also looks like you've embodied all of TRP except the IDGAF. Babe you say you are sleepy, I say go to sleep that is me listening, caring, and all that. If you mean something else, say it. If … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Help me to qualify this interactionYou're either very lucky or she's fucking ugly. | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Mainstream Article: 12 Signs He's Cheating... Practically a Dread Game Blueprint.I think it might be due to herd mentality. Most people aren't fit so they must shame those who are fit to make themselves feel better but secretly they are mirin'. I recently started bulking seriously and my ex would give me a lot of shit for it in public but the other day I was changing and she barges into my room and the first thing she says is "wow, your arms are huge" as she felt them up. Same thing with my flatmates. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Wording how to ask women out"You should come over this weekend" This won't work. It's essentially a booty call which doesn't work unless your SMV is much much higher than hers. Ask for a coffee or some other fun activity outdoor while keeping it close to your place. Logistics are very important in breaking through LMR. text for a little bit I don't know how good your text game is but most new guys think they're fucking smooth when in reality they fucking suck which is why I recommend keeping texting to a minimum, using it … | /r/seduction | 18/06/15 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Isolation or Compound Movements Fpr A Skinny Guy?As a beginner you can do both and explode both in strength and size by doing something similar to Boring But Big. Chest/Shoulders day for example would look something like: Heavy Bench Press 3x5 60-70% of Heavy Bench Press 3x10 Heavy Overhead Press 3x5 Seated DB Press 3x10 Then you can do 1 or 2 more isolation exercises like Peck Deck or Lat raises etc. Same thing for lower body/back. Heavy/light squats and dead lifts followed by some leg presses. I'm no expert but I've been doing this for 3 mon… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/15 11:42 PM |
| 1 | I have only two modes of operation: needy and not interested in girls. How to deal with this trait?If she was attracted to me, I didn't put her on pedestal and wasn't attracted to her. When she wasn't displaying attraction, I wanted her, putting her on pedestal. This is how girls behave when it comes to mating. You're not in control of your emotions buddy. Read some books on self improvement, meditate and take a break from women. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Drugs and Self ImprovementI'd compare LSD, or any psychedelic for that matter, to a microscope or a telescope. You can use it for fun but if you really learn how to use it you can unlock the secrets of the universe sitting in a room by yourself. I highly recommend it but please for the love of Hoffman, do not use it as a party drug. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/15 04:59 AM |
| 5 | My experience with the "seductress."This was literally my 2014 with this girl. Literally, every single word. I couldn't have written it better myself. My story is up to the 1st line of the 2nd last paragraph and it's headed exactly where you wrote it. I know her true identity though. Despite of all the positive changes in my life and other women I feel like I have a real weakness for her which is why I'm going to try my best to steer clear. Appreciate the trip down memory lane with a heavy dose of reality at the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Common limited beliefs and how to overcome them?Talking about sex with women makes me look like a selfish douche bag who just wants to use them for sex. Sex is the ultimate human experience. Lot's of sex = Lot's of happiness. Women want to be treated like princess. Showering girls with money/gifts will increase you chances with them. I should wait a little longer before making my move. I can logic my way into their pants. Alcohol is the key. Don't be vague. Don't offend them. Good girls are a thing. Women are people too. | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 03:16 AM |
| 9 | How I got over my crippling fear of rejectionFear is a by product of escaping your comfort zone. Every time you leave your comfort zone and try something new your mental state shifts bit by bit from fearful to confident because you know what's going to happen as opposed to imagining things. The basis of all fear is not knowing. We, as human beings, always tend to exaggerate things way out of proportion in the absence of facts. Once you slowly start dealing in facts, even if the fact is that you're getting rejected, your brain switches to a… | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 02:40 AM |
| 2 | If a girl sees you get rejected....You're going about this the wrong way. You establish rapport with multiple women with very light kino like hugging, shoulder tap etc. This gives you preselection. Once you have that and a good vibe going you pick a target, isolate and escalate. Don't just go around asking girls for their numbers or try to close after a 5 min conversation, that's creepy and a very low percentage play. | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | If a girl sees you get rejected....There's way too many variables to have a generic answer to this. If it happened to you, you're going to have to give us specifics. What does rejected mean? Did you go in for the kiss and she pulled away? She slapped you? Called the cops on you? What's the relationship between the girls? What's the relationship between the girls and you? Where and why did it happen? How did you react right afterwards? Were you butt hurt or did you just laugh it off? How often does this happen? | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 06:34 AM |
| 1 | How to approach and have some context to talk to ?There is only 1 rule when it comes to approaching: Just do it | /r/seduction | 10/06/15 04:19 AM |
| 3 | What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me?3 words: Emotional roller coaster. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Question on booty calls.Dick pic | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Wanted to share my very positive and negative Tinder experiences now that I've hit around 100 hookups#humblebrag | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Whats the problem with oneitis?Nuff said | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit - Have you ever been the "other man"? If so, has it ever worked out in your favor?Don't put your faith in a woman's word, only her actions. Do not make any life changing decisions until after she's with you and has stayed with you for a while and you've assessed her to be worth your while. I'd also probe a little more into why she's breaking up with her current SO. "Not feeling a connection" sounds all well and good on the surface but what does it really mean? It sounds like you're just giving her the tingles and she can't help herself. What's to stop the same thing happening… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Is this how you guys feel?Once you get comfortable in your own skin and learn how to socialize sober you'll feel that way about not just women but men and not just about people but everything. The next step is to be aware of your surroundings at all times and pursue anything you see of interest as long as time constraints allow it. You see a cute girl you go talk to her, your jam comes on you start bobbing your head or whistle the tune like I do, if you see a beautiful sunset you stand there and watch it for 5 min and co… | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How long do you recommend staying in a conversation before getting a number? (Bars or clubs)As a general rule you should always make your move, doesn't matter what it is, at the peak of the interaction i.e when you feel natural chemistry. Doing this drastically reduces the chances of rejection because she's on an emotional high and when you leave her in that state and text her later she'll remember where you left off. That's why it's recommended to end on a high note. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How to continue if your first opener didn't get a response?And this is why you don't do canned openers. Why can't you just say hi? Canned openers are a crutch and you'll fall flat on your face at the slightest miss step. edit: Just noticed OPs username. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | I have a boyfriend syndromeI have a hitman. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Speaking with strange girls and implications ?Mate, all I read was excuses, excuses and excuses. If you see someone you like just go and introduce yourself. No one's going to call the cops on you for saying hi. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 06:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you all not care?I'm going to give it to you straight buddy, you've fallen for this chick and the bad kind of fallen. It bothers you because you have feelings for her. Do you feel the same way about other girls that Mr.Sleezbag has slept with that you know of? I'm sure you disapprove but it wouldn't upset you or make you insecure and angry because you don't have feeling for those other girls. Unless you get other girls this is oneitis in the making and your girl sounds like a player which means it'll end very ba… | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Sexual kino rejected, what did I do wrong?Yea it's a fine line and you just have to see what works best for you. Personally if I have to be persistent to make it through I always stop for a second right before going in and look her dead in the eye and ask "Do you want this?" and I've never had a negative response. It's the emotional equivalent of a coerced confession but if she said yes she can't say rape. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Two dates - no more contactDo you have a car? Cash for a hotel room? Go on adventure fucks with "I've never fucked in public, have you?". Logistics is are very important. Have a plan before hand because there's nothing worse then missing out on a lay because you literally don't have a place to lay. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Sexual kino rejected, what did I do wrong?You're almost there buddy, you just have to master the last few steps of sealing the deal and they include sneaking past their ASD ( anti slut defense) by being a seducer and shattering their LMR (last minute resistance) by being a man. After she's established that you're fuckable she still has a few hoops of her own to jump through. She has to somehow convince herself that this is OK, sleeping with you does not make her a slut. This is where you have to be sneaky through you entire interaction … | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 04:05 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Two dates - no more contactJust drop a casual text to hang out over the weekend as opposed to an actual date. You've got nothing to lose. Quick note, there is such a thing as too much kissing. I've fallen prey to it on many occasions because I love long wet making out sessions. I've noticed that there is a timer on tingles. When you get a girl laughing and start hitting it off you have to go to the next step. Sometimes I would just make them laugh and laugh and laugh and forget to escalate because I was having so much fun… | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 03:23 AM |
| 3 | How could i be more of an intersting person?3 things that you can setup in 1 day and will fill your life with productive stuff instantly: Lifting Join an improv class Volunteer for something You'll meet plenty of interesting people and gain an enormous amount of confidence from being on a path that allows you improve yourself physically and mentally and you're giving something back to society. Interesting things will happen to you if you just go out and do things. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Two dates - no more contactIt sounds like you built up too much comfort and now she sees you as boyfriend material. I reckon you should give it another shot, if she agrees make sure to set the date up closer to your place and try to f-close. If it works it works if not, you did everything you could and just move on. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Tips for living with a girl roommateYea, that's what everyone says but the problem is people giving out this advice have little or no experience doing it. I've done this 3 times now and the last time lasted for a year and a half. We'd fuck endlessly, she'd bring guys over, I'd bring girls over and then we'd go back to fucking each other. May be I've been very lucky but I'm just speaking from experience. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 11:28 PM |
| -2 | How do I start?You need to build the reputation of a fucking beast but before you can do that you need to be an actual fucking beast. Literally, claws, fangs, fur and the ability to take a shit anytime, anywhere because beasts are strong and the stronger your are the faster you peel off panties. King Kong totally had that blonde in the bag without saying a word. King fuck Kong. You. King fucking Kong. You. As a beast you take what you want, when you want. Everyone fears you and respects you and does not want t… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 10:40 AM |
| -7 | Tips for living with a girl roommateUpvoted for If the bathroom is a shared bathroom, it is not yours. It never was. It never will be. You have no power there. Remove your claim from it and wage war over a different room of the house. Downvoted for Do NOT sleep with her. It is not worth it. One day you might be tempted, but you have to walk away. It's so totally worth it. Having sex on tap 10m away from you is honestly fucking amazing if you're BOTH genuinely, and I really mean genuinely because this is the trick to making it work… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 07:17 AM |
| 1 | [FR] went out solo for nightgame for the first time, with amazing results. *tip* use improv comedy - it escalates!For 3rd wheel situations it could be the girl and I would be a couple going to a counselor (the friend) and would just start hating on her, I'd just pick things about her IRL and bring them up, her dress may be, her sense of fashion, how I saw her hitting on this dude earlier tonight as I narrate an earlier scene between us. all 3 of us are gay/lesbian but no one wants to say it openly yet wants to show interest. It turns into a hilarious game of entandres, double entandres and dirty puns. Liter… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Connecting with a girlShare a secret the most evil thing you've ever done the dumbest thing you've ever done the most embarrassing situation you've ever been in the 1 thing that instantly turns you off/on The good thing about these is that that 90% of the time you'll both end up laughing silly and laughing is like the equivalent of getting the tip in. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Fear of Women, not of rejectionUpvoted for gif, need sauce. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Beein a guy means showing/giving attention rather than seeking, BUT does increase your investment?It matters why you do it. Do you tell a girl that she has beautiful eyes because a)she has beautiful eyes or b)because you think it'll get you into her pants? With option A you're coming from a genuine place so when you throw out a compliment you have some context to go with. May be you knew a girl with similar eyes, may be her eyes resemble that of some celebrity or there's some specific detail about her eyes that really gets you going. Either way you'll be able to say it without hesitation bec… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:14 AM |
| 3 | As a minority bald dude how do I open up ?think of yourself as a big cock | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Fake Confidence is like Fake TitsFake confidence is like fake anything. It'll work against amateurs (in this case not so good looking girls with self esteem issues) but anyone who is even remotely knowledgeable ( hot girls used to dealing with studs) will spot it a mile away i.e you won't be able to pull anything of quality with it. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | No experience in dating; how do I approach this?Just keep it simple and literally say "Hey, wanna go to bla bla bla on the weekend with me"? Also, movies make for a shitty date unless you figure she's the kind of girl that'll pull a handy or go down in a theater or you're watching it at your place. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:42 AM |
| 1 | rsdmaxI could ask you the same question | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:36 AM |
| 0 | 18 y/o. How do I get over the initial fear of walking up to a random girl and striking up a conversation?Come up with a list of things that will happen to you in the worst case scenario. After that you have to assess if the risk is worth taking, in other word you ask yourself, "Will I be able to make a full recovery in a reasonable amount of time if things go the worst possible route?". In general I'd say it's worth it unless 1 of the following is part of your possible outcomes You die You get a horrible disease You get thrown in jail You lose all your money You get raped You get kidnapped by alien… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:35 AM |
| 1 | rsdmaxhahahaha | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:18 AM |
| 3 | When I'm with a girl and someone asks if we're together how do I respond to that?The truth? | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Text: "I can't spend much time without talking to you"Experience and we sext and she usually sends me pics of her tits She's sending the dude tit pics and asking why he likes her. It's like some weird bait n switch in their own minds where they attract guys using sexual strategy, which they're fully aware of, but as soon as the guy says "It's coz you're a cool chick" or whatever compliment they're fishing for at the time, a switch flips in their brain and they actually believe that the guy is attracted to their "unique personality". It's a survival… | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell if a girl answers texts out of politeness or wants me to be more direct?Sounds like she's uninterested but if you're not really sure you can be more direct and just take the rejection head on. I think it's better this way in the beginning (to be more direct) so you don't leave anything implied or you get into a habit of bailing at the first sign of resistance/indifference. Abundance mentality and all is fine but persistence is a valuable skill in seduction as well. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 04:16 AM |
| 2 | How do i come off as the "Alpha Male" in social situations?Talk as loud as you possibly can and say fuck a lot. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | A little trick to make her K-close you at a partyDoes this work for blow jobs as well? Like "You can't leave before giving me a bj first" | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 02:49 AM |
| 1 | [FR] went out solo for nightgame for the first time, with amazing results. *tip* use improv comedy - it escalates!Wrong question. The whole idea of improv is to get out of the "prepared for this particular thing" and move towards "prepared for anything" mindset. Anyone who has done improv will tell you if you think about a scene too much ahead of time it will be shit. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Text: "I can't spend much time without talking to you"She wants you to tell her that it's because she's so beautiful and an amazing person. She has a great personality and any man would be lucky to have her. She's seeking validation, do not give it to her. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Set a date for a week from today. What to do during the interim?What I normally do is set the date of the date up but not the location/activity and just say "Haven't figured out what to do yet, will let you know.." and then a day or 2 before I let her know. This addresses the "has she forgotten about me" concern in a natural way. Just drop her a text the day before confirming the date. If she responds you're good, if not no amount of analysis/strategy would've done you any good. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 12:56 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?Multiply all women by 0. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Tips for when you're in the field and you're forgetting crucial things you've learned!O yea, I'll make it very overt. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 11:23 PM |
| 4 | What "vision" means to a leader of men.Alan Watts is the man. Recently did LSD and started reading his stuff half way through the trip with some chill music in the back. It was enlightenment on a different scale, as is everything on acid . Highly recommend tripping to Watts to the occasional LSD user. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Please help, I have a love addictionIt's not an addiction, it's a physical deficiency. If your body stopped producing blood you will die, would you say you're addicted to blood? Or if you stopped drinking water and feel shit because you're dehydrated and someone told you to just drink some water would you respond with Fair enough I've gotten this type of advice. I'm just surprised there wasn't more people who have this addiction.... | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 06:23 AM |
| 1 | First Date. Multiple Locations. Taxi Interaction?Sit in her lap and cuddle up to her, tell her you remind her of your mom and you feel safe. Like nothing in the world could hurt you. If she doesn't immediately throw up she's a keeper. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 06:07 AM |
| 2 | I'm autistic, which means I can't read body language second nature. When I approach a girl and begin the process, what are some body language signs that I should look for, good and bad?Pupils dilated, lightly perspiring, jaw clenched, grip tightened, back arched and last but not the least, legs wide open. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:59 AM |
| 2 | How I seduceSubtlety is pointless, be direct | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Please help, I have a love addictionSounds like you and the other OP need testosterone shots. Seriously, being all emotional and "in love" and stuff are very feminine traits. Start lifting or any other thing that gives you adrenaline. You'll notice your emotions will go all king kong due to the sudden boost in testies and you'll never look back. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Tips for when you're in the field and you're forgetting crucial things you've learned!Next time I have a date I'm going to make a checklist of things to do in an order on a paper and carry it with me checking stuff off 1 by 1 as the date progresses just to see what happens. I'll post back here with the results. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Attraction and Killing AttractionTreat them like a sister Bro...bro... I don't even. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Seduction and Sexual Performance Anxiety...Fake it till you make it....hard or you break it.....in half or find someone who likes it...mush with just a little bit of extra....push you'll make it into her....toosh -Shakespeare | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 05:05 AM |
| 4 | Got good, feeling empty(Cliche I know)You thought hooking up a lot would fix all the problems in your life and make you happy. Welcome to reality where hooking up, just like all the other good things in life, is good and fun in moderation but too much of it will leave you feeling like shit. What should you do? Other things that make you happy. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Ans french guy to explain quickly the basis of this subreddit ?une image en dit plus que mille mots | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of the friend zone for sureDon’t Hesitate Man tried to escape the friend zone gets rekt | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Dealing with guys hitting on your girlThe only way is to maintain and demonstrate your high SMV consistently. Be chatty with other girls and be generally seen as "bangable". As soon as you see her being all flirty with someone you do the same. Trust me, your jealousy is nothing compared to a woman's jealousy. You have to make her feel the exact same way you're feeling but in a much more subtle way. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:59 AM |
| 7 | How to escalate on a date?I've literally once yelled out loud "SEX" on a first date and when she gave me the "wtf" look I was just completely honest and said that the sexual tension was too much for me and I needed a release. We laughed and that became an inside joke, we'd just yell out random shit in public if one of us was feeling horny and we'd immediately start looking for a place near by to follow up that verbal release with a physical one. Don't be afraid of expressing your sexual desires. IT'S OK TO WANT AND TALK … | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:01 AM |
| 2 | A better way to get her digitsForgot to mention 1 thing, this trick works even if you do own a phone and a cheque book. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 04:30 AM |
| 11 | A better way to get her digitsI do the same thing but with a bit of a variation. First off I actually don't own a phone. I then take her phone and throw it in the river or under the bus "by mistake". I apologize profusely and offer to go back to my place so that I can write them a cheque for the price of the phone. 1 out of 10 girls will agree to this. Once at home I ask them to wait in the living room while I go grab my cheque book (I don't actually own a cheque book either), I go into my room and come out with "the naked m… | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 02:34 AM |
| 2 | So now I've got myself a reputationIt's true, you can't deflect for too long. Try pressure flipping after a few deflections like "Why? Do you want to be my girlfriend?". It's a win-win because if she's asking again and again she might interested in something exclusive and you've just given her the opportunity in a fun lighthearted manner without showing too much emotions. If she says no it's her fault, she'll either rationalize being casual or come back later with a different approach. If she says yes, depending on whether you li… | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How is 'be confident' advice? HOW do you go about doing that?Warning: Meta post because I believe faking confidence is a waste of time. Confidence is the part of your reality that you have absolutely no doubts about and when you're dealing with anything (girls, career, hobbies etc) related to that part of your reality you're so authentic and self assured that other people will buy into your reality and in your reality you're the man. Right now you're confident that you're an average, extremely frustrated dude. You came out and said it without hesitation, … | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Telling a female your not interestedI have AIDS. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading Models by Mark Manson. What do I tell girls I'm reading when they ask?50 shades of grey | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | So now I've got myself a reputationClassic shit test, you probably failed because you tried to justify yourself or got all anxious. Easiest way is to agree and amplify or ignore with a smirk. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 01:09 AM |
| 3 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?The difference between how she interacted with other guys in public vs private. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I get the kiss?this guy knows what's up Start at 0:45. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Why do the whole seduction thing?Set goals, I've found over achieving in seduction is kind of bad. Like you said if you get lucky and get a number and a date you'll find yourself in uncharted territory all of a sudden not really prepared for it. Getting a date is all well and good but if you suck at conversations and your body language is weak you'll get nowhere. You'll fuck up not really knowing what went wrong which means you'll have no way of improving your game and fall into the trap of "what's wrong with me" mindset. Back … | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Different openers for different places?Stop trying to be cool. No one's ever gotten laid because of "the perfect opener". Just say hi with a smile and introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Why do the whole seduction thing?Although it would be pretty great to get my fuck on more frequently.... There ya go. If you want something you have to work for it and sex is no different. Set aside daily time for reading/practicing seduction and then forget about it once you've hit your daily quota. 1 hour is probably more than enough to start with. Track your progress, post here for advice and embrace every failure as another step towards success. PS: Start lifting, it'll be the best thing to happened to your sex life and lif… | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do the whole seduction thing?The problem is that we're taught from a very young age to pedestalize women and sex as if it's the greatest thing in the world. The truth is that sex and relationships are just like all the other good things in life such as good food, hobbies, ambitions, adventures and so on. I feel good when I go to a fancy restaurant and have a delicious meal or execute a new recipe myself. I feel good when I go hiking, bush walking or rock climbing every once in a while. I feel good working out knowing that I… | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 02:21 AM |
| 4 | talking with womenLet them do most of the talking while you undress them with your eyes. Seriously though, I find it incredibly easy to let women talk and talk. I just through out witty remarks and subtle jokes here and there aka instill emotional responses and the go back to just listening. They'll remember those few words as opposed all their blathering. PS: Don't hesitate to disagree, in fact it's better to disagree but in a lighthearted subtly joking manner. As if correcting a child. Not overly aggressive. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 01:56 AM |
| 14 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?Women are run by feelies which means most of the time they're on auto pilot. They don't actively try to get laid all the time, it's just that when they find someone attractive they can't help themselves. That's why it's so important to be the leader and show her the way to your bed for men because she won't do it. For me the most hard hitting evidence was getting hold of a girls phone and looking through her texts. You'll get a clear picture of their promiscuous and validation seeking nature. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Romance novels and gameThe only reason to read romance novel would be to learn exactly what NOT to do attract women. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 03:06 AM |
| 0 | How come I only get courage to talk to girls when I'm drunk?This might get down voted to hell but the simple answer is Coz you're a pussy. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 02:59 AM |
| 3 | I could use some help getting over anxiety.Saw this the other day. I think it'll help you a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Quick Poll: Pickup solo vs wingman?Yolo, always yolo. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 02:24 AM |
| 9 | She added me on facebook after I followed her on instagram. How should I proceed?You follow her on Twitter, Pinterest, Snapchat, whatever social network Google has and every other online platform you can think of and then you send a "want to hang out sometime?" message on all of them simultaneously. Her brain will overload, resistance will be futile, victory guaranteed. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 02:16 AM |
| 2 | When to DTR / Transition from frequent sex to relationshipIf you really like her then make your move but don't pour your heart out and write her a poem or something retarded like that. Just bring it up in the tone that you generally like her and would like an exclusive shot at her for a while to see what happens. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 05:15 AM |
| -2 | Game for guys who aren't looking for sex?I should also note that a lot of the girls in my circle or extended circle aren't the ONS type, mostly due to religious reasons. You're welcome | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Calling vs texting when setting up a dateFirst, you can do all those things when you first meet her. If you made a shitty first impression I don't think calling would make much of a difference. Second, what happens if she doesn't pick up? She'll get all confused about what to do and so would the guy. I much prefer to meet up and hang out and that's why I use text/calls/fb strictly for logistics only. The only time I'd call to throw her off would be if we've hooked up in the past and I just call out of the blue. Setting up first dates w… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How should I have dealt with this shit test?You played it right, just wasn't meant to be. Your response was correct in intent but could've been worded better like "So do you always go out drinking with your mum?" pointing at the 4. The 7 would look like a retard defending her friend after that. Generally, if you're ever asking a question try to hint at the correct answer or shit on the wrong answer in the same sentence. Girls can't handle that kind of pressure and will cave in. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Recommendations for a fun first date?Rock climbing. Great for trust building, little bit of kino and ample time to chat during breaks followed by food, couple of drinks and a walk for whatever-closing. It has never failed me. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Question. How to get rid of the biggest hole in my confidance: the need to date pretty girls to validate myself.You're right, it is normal. You need to bang a hot chick, get over her shit and realize why "Show me a beautiful woman, and I’ll show you a man who’s tired of fucking her" is a thing. In your mind there is still a pedestal for beautiful women, this will only change with experience. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you get girls if you already have a gf?Don't tell them. If a girl with a bf is interested in another guy she'll never bring it up, if she brings it up she's trying to send a clear signal that she's not interested. If you bring it up it'll be interpreted as not interested. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:18 AM |
| 6 | How to Deal With a Tease?Why are you pissed off? You're not committed to each other, you're just flirting and she's just looking to have fun and so should you (unless you like her in which case I would advise against pursuing this chick). Arrange for her to hang out, flirt, escalate to see if she's dtf. If she is good for you, if not tell her to stop wasting your time and move on. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Calling vs texting when setting up a dateTexting, I honestly can't think of a reason why calling would be better. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you seperate from being needy and showing interest?Priorities. If pussy is at the top of the list of priorities in your life you're always going to come across as needy. If you have bigger goals you'll be outcome independent when talking to women. That being said you also don't want to be a pussy, just be fun and direct. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Had a Tinder date yesterday, it went well but not sure what happened.Just text her on the weekend to come hang out with you. Don't go overboard with texting during the week, I don't see problem here. You're on your way to pound town. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:37 AM |
| 3 | 3rd date, she asked where should we meet? I offered to pick her up.You're over thinking it. Go out, have fun and assume you're going to go back to your place unless she signals otherwise. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:35 AM |
| 27 | When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up"Tinder profiles are a classic example of: pay attention to their actions not their words. What are they saying? I don't want to hook up What are they doing? Talking to men on a hook up app. Case closed. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How can I be seen as a "lover" and not a "provider" if I seem rich?Don't buy them expensive gifts, split bills on dates, do rounds when drinking, split cab fares etc. Basically don't be a nice guy/push over, that's what makes you look like a provider. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 05:41 AM |
| 1 | SUPERWEIRD fake numberIf you get a fake number after making out and escalating it only means 1 thing. She got a rapey vibe from you and doesn't want to upset you just in case you're a serial killer. Dial things back a little. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on Julien Blanc's SHIFT?I'm willing to bet money that OP has spent more money than that on buying girls drinks with little to no results. OP TBH that money would be better spent on getting a gym membership, buying decent clothes and picking up a hobby. You'll find everything you need to know about pickup and women in general on the Internet if you search around. Most PUA teach the same things. If you want a road map for self-improvement and shifting your focus from women to yourself check out /r/TheRedPill. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm not nervous(I dont think so) when I approach but I get sweaty and my ears turn red. Wtf?Take a shower (don't use a towel afterwards) and slap yourself silly before approaching so it appears like it's your natural state. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Tips to lay off overtextingYou should get into the habit of meeting people in person and hang out. You'll forget all about texting in no point. Could be over a drink, bite, ice cream, mario-kart or just a casual stroll around the park. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Seddit and...LSD?I've done heaps of LSD and my experience is that it's not exactly a social drug. It's GREAT if you do it with long time friends, people you trust and get along with but ultimately your best trips are those where you look within yourself. I wouldn't say it has any direct impact on your game but I do it every 4-5 months now and it's great for sorting out internal issues, getting a different perspective on recent events in your life. PS: If you want establish a connection with someone MDMA is the d… | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Easily get hard...Rub one out before seeing them. Or if you do get hard just excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and relieve yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Can anyone help me analyze what happened here? Plus text transcription.PM'd you my final thoughts. GL with the date. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Classic AF/BB behavior, from the horse's mouth"Tying the knot" makes a lot more sense all of a sudden. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Can anyone help me analyze what happened here? Plus text transcription.The majority of them do and Tinder date does not automatically imply attraction, it's just a chance to show your value and obviously OP failed in that regard. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 10:27 PM |
| 1 | (Advice) something is missing..Mate it's time you swallowed the /r/TheRedPill. Go there and read all the side bar material. Get moving, get angry, get hungry and start rebuilding yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Your Inner Game Thrown Off? Maybe Check Your Nutrition...Agreed 100%, but this is not just limited to nutrition. Being healthy in general gives you a boat load of confidence and keeps your wits keen. Everything including diet, hydration, sleep, exercise, sports and meditation. I've noticed when I go out drinking my game for the next 2 days is shit because of no sleep and dehydration. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 04:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Can anyone help me analyze what happened here? Plus text transcription.First off, girls go on Tinder to fuck. Not to find BFs. So if she didn't even kiss you it means she's not really into you physically, especially her being 18. 18 y/o girls are horny as fuck all the time just looking for an excuse to jump on a dick. Second, you gotta go easy on the texting dude. Texting should be limited to arranging meet up logistics. All that stuff you did built up way too much comfort and now you're going to have an equally hard time breaking it. As an outsider, those texts lo… | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 04:36 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm not always 'getting it.'You can never know what a woman is thinking (even they don't know what they're thinking most of the time, they just run on feelies). Always assume attraction till you get a clear signal that says otherwise. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Do girls talk?They've probably guessed the size of OPs dick by now through consolidating information from multiple sources. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to execute (the finer points of) some forms of kino?There's was 1 guide in particular that was very comprehensive but I can't find it. You can just search for "kino" or "escalation" in seddit and you should have tons of material to work with. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | My social awareness is way too high which causes me to CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK.It's not awareness, it's insecurity and they're 2 completely different things. Social awareness is looking at a social structure and understanding how it works and how you can exploit it using that understanding to your advantage. Social insecurity is not being able to express yourself because you might offend the people around you. Easiest way to not care anymore is meeting new people and saying whatever you feel like. You'll discover that people either respond well to it and respect your posit… | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How to execute (the finer points of) some forms of kino?The hand on shoulder works best when you're the one sharing a secret. You just place your hand on their shoulder and lean in towards their ear and say it. Pretty simple. Nudging works best elbow to elbow when both sitting or walking around. You don't poke her when she's laughing, you poke to make her laugh. A good example would be if you're talking about siblings. You just say "I bet you're ticklish" with a grin and just walk over and start poking her. Do it till she gets really jumpy and then b… | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 05:45 AM |
| 7 | Seddit, I choked, need help on what to do next.Don't be a pussy. Go there and ask her out. The worst thing that can happen if you make a move is still better than the best thing that can happen if you just sit there and do nothing. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How do i get out of my head?3 second rule. If you see girl you like you have 3 seconds to prep and then you go no matter what. AA is not because you have nothing to say but fear of rejection. The only way to get over fear of rejection is to get rejected and discover the world is still spinning. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Showing opened "Create new contact" on phone, using no words, to a girl who sat next to you on a bus?Swipe through a few of your dick pics before doing this. 1 dick pick = +10% chance of success. 10 dick pics for guaranteed number close. /s | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you've fucked up? Leave it alone or try again?Shoot her a text to catch up, if she doesn't reply move on. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 02:01 AM |
| 2 | After gauging attraction successfully?Here are some standard under the radar social cues for physical escalation. Put your hand on her should and lean forward while telling her a secret. Get up to grab a drink and put your hand out asking her to join you. When going through doors or getting into a car put your hand on her back as if you were patting someone with a gentle push. If you're leaving her for some reason (toilet etc) put your hand on her back while letting her know what you're up to. Walking through a crowded place (club/s… | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Can you lose attraction over text?Bonding over texts is a waste because you give up all your funny/interesting stuff without having a chance to DHV through kino, escalation, body language and eventually close. Your attraction is the highest when you're making her laugh, leading her, telling her all your funny stories and that's when she's most vulnerable to escalation. Texting should be only be used to sort out meet up logistics. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Girl left behind an earring after we hooked up. What would be an appropirate tactic to use that to arrange a second dateWear it on your left ear and show up at her doorstep unannounced. | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | I Dropped The BallWhat do you mean? You had her number, you just chickened out because you were afraid of being rejected. You'll never get anything if you don't risk something. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Confused on judging girls' interest levelsGirls will offer some sort of resistance to escalation, it's just how it is. You just have to play around it, for instance when she deflected your kiss you just say "What, you have cooties or something?" with a smirk. At that point she has to give you a valid reason or give you a kiss. The most common ASD is something like "I don't normally do this" bla bla bla. You can just joke around like "What? Go out on a date?", "Have (whatever you had) for dinner?" etc and she'll finally say something lik… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 06:59 AM |
| 0 | [FR]: 4 Dates In & She Won't Have Sex... Your Thoughts?1: Yes, you are putting her on a pedestal. She's playing hard to get and already has you emotionally invested without giving you much in return. Seeing someone as LTR material before having sex is oneitis in the making. 2: Do that and the next time you see her be assertive about sex. Have a date lined up the day after and be ready to walk, she's not a unicorn. There are no unicorns. A little dread game works wonders. 3: 4 dates is more than enough for a girl to decide if she's going to sleep wit… | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First day out in the nearby mallTry to end your interactions on a high note. When you're feeling really good and she's laughing just go "Listen, I've gotta go but would like to see you again" and then ask for the number. There's no way she'll refuse and it reduces the chance of her flaking on you because you left her with tingles. | /r/seduction | 12/05/15 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Great Frame Until I'm In A RelationshipHolding frame against random people is easy because by default you realize they're fungible. You don't really care if you ever see them again but your fear of loss grows as you become more emotionally attached. True abundance is believing EVERYONE is replaceable, your friends, family, LTRs. You're ready to walk away from anything and anyone if your core principles are breached. I bet you still can't hold decent frame against your parents or long time friends. Try and up hold your frame against t… | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 04:16 AM |
| 3 | What is the one piece of advice you would give, if you had 10 seconds?Always assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 06:52 AM |
| -1 | Do you think having female friends is important?It's interesting because I was talking to a friend about this the other day. I'm in the exact same boat as you, I've pretty much never had long lasting platonic female friends. Looking back case by case at a few women who hate me that I hadn't fucked, we made an interesting observation. It was basically that because of my general perception of women and the way I act and talk about/to them, the good looking ones feel attraction and at 1 point or another are dtf whereas the not so good looking on… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 04:29 AM |
| 2 | The "Bitch." TestThe thing with this "Bitch", "Champ", "Boss" business is that you're trying to put an official label on someones standing in a group. Like OP demonstrated, calling some girl a "bitch" doesn't make the guy an alpha or beta. It just makes what everyone already knows more obvious. Everyone knew DB23 was a pathetic wannabealpha beta, him making an alpha move just brought him back to his deserved standing in the group. That's why I wouldn't worry about the connotations of a title because, unless you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 04:19 AM |
| 1 | How to decline girl's favors like "can you get my phone for me" without sounding like a douche?If it's 1 non-degrading favor then make her say "please" before doing it. If the favor is a bit too much or she's been asking for too many just pressure flip with something like "will you come over and do my laundry this weekend?", if she says no you say "then no", if she says yes you just say "see you then" and go back to whatever you were doing. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | What could be a funny response when a girl gives out the number but then mentions that she doesn't like texting?I hate foreplay too, we should skip straight to sexting. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you just let go?Leave your comfort zone, embrace the butterflies. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtDkg3Xwn7U | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Social Conversation, Why is it so difficult?I can tell just by the way you type you approach every conversation as an interview. Q/A style conversations dry up very quickly, even if you've known someone for years because the simple fact is social conversations are mostly BS. There's very little objective value to social conversations i.e solving a problem or finding the truth. It's mostly just emotional and/or comical stuff. Try this a few times, when you're talking to someone do not pay attention to anything they're saying, instead scan … | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop putting girls on pedestals?That's your problem, if you get an erection you let her know. Can't tell you how many times I've pointed it out, pun intended, and its done wonders. Part of putting girls on a pedestal is not wanting to offend them or they'll leave. Think of it this way, you've tried it your way and it obviously hasn't worked so it's time to try something new. Turn your filter off, stop caring and say whatever comes to your mind. Once you stop caring you'll realize how many options you have and you'll stop pussy… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:55 AM |
| 4 | The meaning of being "too nice"When it comes to girl problems, in my experience, being too nice has nothing to do with actually being nice but more with having balls the size of a pea. You say you were surrounded by girls but how many of them did you ask out on a date? How many times did you try to sexualize the conversation instead of going on about the normal pedantic BS? How many times did you pick a girl up and throw her over your shoulder for being a brat? How many times have you actually tried(regardless of the outcome)… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I start being IDGAF?Here's a list of causes for anger in social situations, learn to avoid them. Don't have long drawn out arguments with women, using logic against a woman is one of the most frustrating and fruitless efforts, analogous to arguing with a child. No matter what you'll look like the bad guy. A good way to exit is to simply say "I'm not going to argue about this with you" and if she keeps going on wait for her to finish and then just say "Are you finished? Can I get back to my [insert activity here] no… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 03:12 AM |
| 2 | What's stopping me from moving on?Your problem is that you didn't have proper closure. The most painful break ups are the ones where you just slowly move away from each other and then 1 day you just stop talking. You're stuck wondering what went wrong, if you could have done something to prevent it and that makes you think that something might still happen and it will all go back to being OK. That's why I like simple, straight forward "lets have a big fight" break ups because then everything is out in the open and nothing is lef… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Justifications for honor and personal codes.For me honor and code are the base line principles of my personality that if breached will send me into a negative emotional state if I don't do anything to uphold them. On the other hand if I do make an effort towards upholding them I get a supreme sense of confidence regardless of the outcome. I have tried rationalizing them but I'll admit I don't fully understand them, may be because they're a product of how I was brought up. Examples can be someone hitting me (unless you're a childhood frien… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 12:51 AM |
| 6 | How would you have responded?I've developed a habit of being genuinely uninterested in crap like this. I just pull my phone out, look around or imagine her naked. Usually takes them 10-20 sec to figure out you're not interested and they'll call you out on it. Just tell the truth or make some shit up, change the topic. If it was a shit test, you just passed. If not, you've saved precious moments of your life by not listening to her girl problems. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 06:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you talk/avoid talking about your appearance? Especially when she wants to get you to admit that you are good looking?Just joke about it. Her: Seriously? That's very hard to believe. You: No it's not. I'm an asshole. You'll know it in a sec when I make you pay the bill. OR I only cuddle my pillow after sex and then they get all jelly and never talk to me again. OR I'm secretly Spiderman. Relationships just don't work out for me, I mean you've seen the movies right... OR Nope, I'm just focused on my career because bla bla bla. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 11:34 PM |
| 3 | How to make yourself interesting?Be opinionated, don't be afraid to disagree with people. I sometimes disagree with people just for the sake of it, trying to come up with bs and then admit I was just messing around. It is specially fun when I actually win an argument using bs logic and then tell them about it. Shows I'm smart with a sense of humor and an acute case of the fuck arounds. Your opinion on any topic is influenced by everything you do in life and that shows once you start talking. Never be neutral, that is for pussie… | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Is it a IOD (indicator of disinterest) if a girl is comfortable not wearing makeup around you?Only way to know for sure is to tease her about it and then gauge her response. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Why I do become picky the second they start liking me?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Why Womanize? - Inner GameIt is time you swallowed /r/TheRedPill my friend. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How to turn a "How was your day" exchange into a conversation?You could literally say anything. Get in the habit of improvising and just blurting out random stuff. Start with friends till you get decent at it and then just use it all the time. There's no better feeling than coming up with something amazing on the spot and blowing their and your mind at the same time. It can be any number of things "I woke up with a thunderous erection, been horny all day, in class at work can't wait to get back home and bust a nut, what about you?" you say that with a stra… | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 03:55 AM |
| 3 | ALWAYS assume attraction.If you doubt yourself around women chances are you doubt yourself when not around them as well. That lingering feeling stems from some insecurity you have about yourself, looks, job, car etc. Now I'm not asking you to be 100% narcissist but overall if you like more things about yourself than you dislike and are working to improve yourself constantly you shouldn't have trouble being comfortable around women and always assuming attraction. Basically it's a matter of confidence and true confidence … | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 01:15 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Saw magic yesterdayYou have to break rapport, you played it too safe for too long. To help you break out of the initial move anxiety you should set up goals. This is roughly what my timeline looks like. 5-10 min to get to know basic stuff about each other. During this time you just mostly listen and pick up on things to talk about. Next 15-20 min you start working game a little bit. Start by taking something she said or she's wearing and start teasing her about it. Tell her a secret or something while getting real… | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 11:41 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she kisses you on the cheek?"When in doubt, Fuck" I used to think this was a joke but I couldn't have been more wrong. Never hesitate, always go for it. The worse thing that could happen is still 100x better than the best thing that could happen if you held back. | /r/seduction | 21/02/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Apathy in the club, with girls and lost of confidenceI'd recommend going clubbing with genuine friends, friends that you would get completely blasted with and pull shenanigans all night. Start throwing down shots early, forget about girls and get in trouble. The more you think about it the more anxious you'll get, that's how approach anxiety works. When you're having fun, with a little bit of liquid courage, you'll be incorporate girls into your night more naturally. Many a times I've blurted stuff out at girls in clubs/pubs and gotten the most pl… | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How do YOU maintain mystery/ambivalence in a relationship?I think you're taking all this dating advice too literally and not thinking about what it means for the other person. Let's break down the things you've brought up. Flirting with other girls. This is part of the abundance concept where you've got "there's plenty of fish in the sea" attitude which prevents you from being all beta and seeking approval and being needy all the time. It's not necessarily to make someone jealous, although it might happen, it's to keep your options open. It's a mindset… | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Proving you aren't beta/improving reputation.Yep, bang her friends. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Coming off as a player to women?It's good that those are your natural reactions because you can only predict so much. I have a female friend that actively comes here and checks stuff out and then creates a 2nd level of shit tests. It's so much fun watching her destroy guys so just a heads up. Girls like that do exist and if you can genuinely get through their shit you're in for a fun time! | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Coming off as a player to women?Shit tests are meant to catch men off guard to get a genuine response to test if they're alpha or beta. In your case they're trying to see if you're actually as confident as you appear to be or are you just putting on a mask, running a script or something. Your natural response right now is defensive where as someone confident and carefree would brush off a statement like that with something like "Only the most beautiful women" OR "Yea, all the time" with a wink and a massive cheesey grin OR "It… | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Coming off as a player to women?Sounds like a shit test and you keep failing it. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | If you could explain relationships in 1 (or 2) sentences, what would they be?Every relationship is defined by expectations. Good sex is the only requirement for a casual fling whereas there's a big fat list if you want a real relationship and an even bigger one when you get married etc. You have to manage your expectations according to the type of relationship you want. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Are "shit tests" even worth passing?I see shit tests as "every crisis is an opportunity" kind of thing. Your position in the interaction always changes after a shit test, you're either higher or lower on someones iwant list. I love them because they make things move forward, doesn't matter if it's for better or worse as long as it's not stale. Plus you can have a lot of fun with them if you have a little case of fuckarounds. As for shit tests being manipulative, I highly disagree. As mentioned here, it's the intentions that count.… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop myself from being a try hard?Stop thinking about what you say for a while. You'll notice the difference in how much fun you're having. When you're having fun you're not outcome dependent which makes you genuine aka notatryhard. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you create connections without falling for the girl yourself?Going into any conversation/interaction with a predetermined mindset will make you outcome dependent. Just try to have fun with people you meet and let things happen naturally. It's so much better to develop connections this way because every interaction is unique as it builds off your state, their state and the vibe of the place you're in. Just embrace it and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test: Girl tries to friendzone me subtlyShould've responded with something super chilled like "I'm a terrible friend" OR "Men and women can never be friends" OR "Do you make out with all your friends then?" and then just ignore it when she brings the subject up. One of the things about friend zone is that guys are so scared of it that they friend zone themselves just by thinking about it and making themselves anxious. My advice is don't stop escalating till you make your move and she clearly says "I just want to be friends" and at tha… | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:18 PM |
| 3 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manI think the main point here is that you should explore a subject with the people you're conversing with as opposed to just explaining or justifying random things in a monologue fashion. It also helps when you have an intimate knowledge on the subject matter. For example I'm a programmer and I love social structures and crowd mentality vs individualism etc so I'm making a new social app. I was talking to this random American guy about it, and I realized this afterwards, I was almost yelling, that… | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:48 AM |
| 2 | A blunt, socially retarded shit test that threw me off."Why? You interested?" or "Yea ok, you get 1 chance to impress me" or "I don't take chances with women, I just take" | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 12:28 AM |
| 0 | How to transist during a conversationBuilding rapport is great but guys new to the game fall prey to its comfort. You HAVE to break rapport and escalate sexually if you want to take her home. If you're not yet adept enough to escalate sexually on the spot just have a back up story ready before hand. Something like you're a girl right? she'll smile and say something like "i think so" or just "yes" or if she's a badass "may be" and that's a freeway into some gropeage but continuing. So on my way home from work today I saw this girl s… | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 05:14 AM |
| 0 | When a girl you like asks you to set her up with a nice guySay hello to my little friend. Little friend appears | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 05:09 AM |
| 8 | I have a bad reputation at a small school. How can I help myself to fix this? (info inside)Friend zone a few girls from different circles and hang out with them. DON'T BANG THEM. Find some lonely dude and get him laid. Use your player rep to your advantage, every guy has a crush in college. All you have to do is start a conversation and give them advice. You're hated as a community but every guy envy's you and everyone likes matchmakers. Don't brag about being a player because everyone knows it already, pass it off as a natural thing and own it by using it to benefit people around you… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | What are you thinking when you approach?That poor girl is going to miss out because I'm not on top of my game. | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys, I need to understand this one thing?Getting rid of AA is like lifting for the first time. Your muscles don't pop, no one compliments you. All you get is pain but you fight through it because you have your eyes on the prize. If you've ever lifted you'll remember the first week; everything hurts. Same thing with approach, you'll feel shit as you break through your comfort zone. Your ego will take a hit every time you get rejected or mess up till you understand that you're not superman and every girl is not into you. My "aha moment" … | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I feel anxious when it comes to "sealing the deal"...You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Think of it this way. If you don't say anything you've lost already. Saying something can ONLY make it better, not worse. What's she going to do? Say no in a different way? pfft. Getting clearly rejected is better than getting rejected in your own mind because you don't get the shame of "I should've said something", instead you get satisfaction from "I did all I could've". A little video for the butterflies in your stomach. https://www.youtube.com/watch… | /r/seduction | 01/12/14 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Ridiculous/Creative/Cocky/Challenging responses to "what do you do? where are you from? etc."This works at night clubs, you need balls, correct amount of alcohol and some reading skills to pull it off but when you do you feel like a champion because 5 sec k-close. "What do you do?" "I'm a cop and you look intoxicated, let me give you a breath test." (Obviously you have to make it feel sexy) Go in for the kiss If successful "You're below the legal limit". Grab hand and say "follow me to the bar" If unsuccessful,it depends on how bad you get rejected. If she shoves you away then just smil… | /r/seduction | 30/11/14 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How can you tell if you're being nice to be well-liked or just genuinely nice?I'm going to go a bit meta here and say that other people's perception of you is your reality because that's the only frame of reference us humans have to measure our self worth. Think about it, why are you here on Reddit asking us to tell you what kind of a person you are? You can do a lot of introspection but you'll always be skeptical, you need other peoples opinion to confirm or deny it. It's like when scientists come up with theories but then they have to conduct experiments to confirm them… | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 01:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She was IN MY BEDYou brought a girl home after drinks and watched a horror movie with her instead of having sex. That's what you did wrong. | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Fuck buddy has another fuck buddy. How do I play this? I'm not attached, but I'd like the other fuck buddy to leave. I dunno, should I just ditch her?Generally speaking, you're not supposed to give a fuck about your FBs other FBs. A good way of separating concerns is anything he/she does outside of your bedroom shouldn't be your concern, unless you're directly involved. If it genuinely bothers you that she's fucking other guys that probably means you're feeling something which means either cut and run or brace for drama because when FBs get attached it's some next level awkwardness, specially if your social circles overlap. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What are the signs that a girl is flirting with me ?http://www.fhm.com/App_Media/Uploads/Images/Original/tumblr_msnsldcyyM1shv6d5o1_500.gif | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Women who ask you to carry things: Yay or nay?Make them say please first. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 03:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm a horrible closer.I'm assuming you're talking about talking to girls normally during the day, not at a party or something. I always try to be the one to end the conversation and walk away. Most guys don't do that so it immediately makes you stand out and it takes away the "is this the right time" problem. I also usually have some on-going story/project to go with that, something from work or just random stuff from the interwebs. The story itself doesn't matter that much, it's just how you say it to create some su… | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 05:55 AM |
| 1 | The awkwardness of undressing womenFor me it's 2 modes. 1 -There's an incredible amount of sexual tension that just explodes as soon as you touch and you want nothing but skin and bone. 2- Slow and sensual, building up the sexual tension as you go. For this part I try to just "explore" different parts of the body and "slip" pieces of clothing of as I come across them. Find a little bit of skin, start nibbling or touching it and taking over that part till there's more skin then clothing and at the point just take it off. In 2 mins… | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 05:38 AM |
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