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IntrovertSuccess/r/seduction21/04/13 01:15 PM
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Your approach is very 'cutesy' which is the right one for Singapore, not so much Europe or North America. I agree with your last couple of paragraphs. Start a conversation in whatever way feels good to you and then display your intent in a congruent way.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 11:03 PM
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Many actors, musicians and other performers are introverted. Do you think people think they lack confidence?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:04 PM
2

Yes, there's a difference between liking, loving and lusting after someone.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:59 PM
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If you are focused on your goals then your frame will be strong.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:11 PM
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Do you exercise and eat healthy?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:44 PM
1

Also, learn to ask better open ended questions. Then become a good listener.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:56 PM
1

There is no league.
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:55 PM
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Don't reject yourself. Let others do that... or not as the case may be.
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:54 PM
2

Don't break eye-contact downwards. It's submissive.
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:49 PM
1

Hold her hand, try to kiss her.
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:47 PM
6

Get over it by banging hot women.
/r/seduction10/03/15 10:44 PM
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You don't have to be good looking to look good.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:38 PM
7

I think smiling is overrated. There is a difference between being liked and being loved.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:36 PM
8

As Mark Manson said. Be more invested in your opinion of yourself than in the opinion others have of you.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:35 PM
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I have friends but I've always been more of a loner. Don't really see the benefits of a crew.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 10:34 PM
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"Hey I came here on my own, mind if I join you". Say it in a way that you shows you assume they will say yes. Notice there is no question mark in the above statement. Sit down as you say it.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:01 PM
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In my experience getting people to laugh is good for comfort but not actually to get them attracted to you.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:00 PM
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As long as you're sure.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 06:32 PM
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I only speak for myself. It's not that I hate other people, or feel above socialising with them. It just takes a lot out of me and I prefer to socialise with one or two other people at a time. I make sure to get out of the house and I've set my life up to meet a fair amount of people when I do go out (aside from cold approaches). I'm open to tips from other successful introvert on how to get better at bringing more people into my life btw. Yes lots of people are kidding themselves and are just s…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 08:11 PM
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I'm pretty confident (room to be even more confident). But even after gaining confidence and lots of positive experiences I still found myself being an introvert.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 08:06 PM
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Yes there is more than one way to find success. But you need to go on a journey of self-discovery before you can come to a conclusion about this sort of thing. You need to push out of your comfort zone and try lots of different approaches. Many people who identify as introverts are actually just shy and quiet. When they get over that they find they actually enjoy the company of lots of people and feel energised by socialising. Get out there and get more experience. Once you've done that you'll k…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 08:04 PM
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The way I see it you need to make sure that you aren't BS'ing yourself into believing you are a sigma when you are just shy. Lots of people get the two mixed up. So if you're new to all this, go out and get your social skills up to scratch. Get some experience and notches (if that suits your life-style). Only then will you know whether you really are more of a sigma / introvert or were just afraid of leaving your comfort zone.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/13 07:58 PM
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Only a test in that she was feeling the tension and you buckled under the pressure. No problem. Do this next time. You: ... Her: What? You: ... Her: Stop it! You: Slowly turn your head to the side look off into the distance then resume talking about something. DO NOT break eye-contact downwards. Only to the side.
/r/seduction11/05/13 01:13 PM
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By needy I mean you're trying to get a reaction out of her. Maybe it's different in your culture. In my experience if I enter into a combative frame with a girl I'm not going to get the end result I want. It's like if a 5 year old kid walked up to me and told me I'm a loser. In stead of shrugging or ignoring him I think of something witty "Well you can't even tie your own shoe laces!" Yeah I stood up for myself but by stepping into the kids frame (that he has the authority to judge me) I didn't …
/r/seduction09/05/13 02:59 PM
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Maybe you can pull it off in a non-needy way. But to me it communicates that the girl affected you emotionally so you feel the need to put her down to make yourself feel good again.
/r/seduction09/05/13 01:00 PM
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Putting in the least amount of effort IF you're projecting the right vibe is golden. And ignoring is definitely putting in little effort.
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:24 AM
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That last response is very needy IMO.
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:17 AM
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Sooo neeedy!!! Stop trying to qualify yourself.
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:16 AM
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"Pfftt... I can just lie back and let you do the work" "You're just going to have to be gentle with me"
/r/seduction09/05/13 11:14 AM
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Been in the PU scene for 6 - 7 years.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/13 11:02 AM
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Yes that's what I'm saying. You can create a good connection, even a sexual connection in the middle of the day, but it will take a different kind of interaction than this, in some cases more time.
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:59 AM
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Oops sorry, you misunderstood my colloquial use of the word nightmare. I didn't mean it as something I'm scared of :) Just something I couldn't be bothered with. I've been in this for more than 10 years. Believe me I've tried it all and I know what works for me :)
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:58 AM
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Janka is a huge proponent of playing the numbers game. Not sure his ration is that high. But yes he apparently does very well regardless of the actual percentages.
/r/seduction09/05/13 10:00 AM
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I think she means that 'cute' isn't authentic and passionate enough. She wants you think 'damn that girl is sexy / hot / gorgeous' and feel something passionately rather than 'she's cute'.
/r/seduction09/05/13 09:59 AM
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Numbers during the day not as solid? It has more to do with the quality of the interaction. You can have the same kind connections during the day as at night. IME better since there is no alcohol involved.
/r/seduction09/05/13 09:54 AM
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Also, it is well known that Janka's method is all about collecting as many numbers as possible with the least amount of effort. He must be happy with his effort / reward ration. But the description of your friend is a nightmare scenario for me. I'd rather screen harder at the beginning so that I'm wasting less time on flaky numbers. By less I mean relatively of course. I still get plenty of flakes with quick number closes.
/r/seduction09/05/13 09:53 AM
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Smirk in stead of smiling too much. Huge simplification but big friendly smiles are nice and safe, smirk is sexy and dangerous. Get closer sooner to create a more intimate vibe. Must be very calibrated with this in order not to scare her. If I want to describe her looks I don't use the word 'cute'. It's too asexual. Often I don't comment on her looks but when I do it's far more likely to be something like, 'sexy', 'gorgeous' etc. Even 'pretty' and 'you look nice' show the intention better than '…
/r/seduction09/05/13 09:49 AM
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Agree. Also the problem with what I've seen of the simple-pick-up guys. It's all fund and games but is the frame of a man picking up a women actually being set. Or are they just collecting numbers and wasting time screening through those in order to find the ones' that there is chemistry with. I try to screen sooner than later.
/r/seduction09/05/13 12:56 AM
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Yeah I try to avoid the entertaining frame. When I approach there is of course a little fun banter. But the frame is more 'man-woman' if that makes sense. It means that I collect less numbers, but those that I do get are higher quality. Maybe my text game is weak but I've learned that it's better to screen hard at the beginning and save myself wasted time later.
/r/seduction09/05/13 12:54 AM
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The correct answer. You can say pretty much anything if you are coming from the right frame. And the correct frame is that your values and reality are dominant. You don't accept her permise that she has the status to judge you. EDIT: Just wanted to add that I'm assuming she was saying it in a sarcastic or condescending way. If she was saying it in a friendly way then she is obviously just interested in your status. Don't immediately interpret everything as a challenge. Check the context.
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:36 PM
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Cool man, remember even by being really specific there are potentially still thousands of girls who will fit the description. So don't be afraid to list the things you really want.
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:23 PM
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This is one of the rare cases, because of the age of the girls, where I think doing a more indirect approach will work better. That way it can seem like you just happened to meet.
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:17 PM
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I'm a [yourname] from Leeuwarden. I'm looking for a blonde / brunette /whatever you want girl between 18 - 22, that plays a sport like volleybal or hockey and that would rather go rafting than sit at home watching TV and is also intelligent enough that she enjoys reading a real book rather than a gossip magazine. Just an example but you need to be specific.... otherwise it is too vague and not enough girls will feel like they tick the boxes you are looking for. You need to be detailed enough tha…
/r/seduction08/05/13 03:02 PM
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Don't smile. Smirk like James Bond.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:52 AM
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No don't tell them your number. Tell them to send an e-mail with a full body photo attached and to write in 300 words or less why you should take them out on a date. That part comes after you list the qualities you are looking for.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:43 AM
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Yes I know people that do this, but personally I don't do online dating.
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:40 AM
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No, you need to be more specific. It will feel like you are narrowing down your options but it will actually work better. You shouldn't say how old you are or what you do. Just the age range of girls you are looking for. For example say that you like girls that play volleyball, aren't afraid to admit they enjoy their studies and whose idea of a perfect holiday is backpacking around Europe rather than sitting in a beach resort. That's just an example but you get the idea. EDIT: Added from my comm…
/r/seduction08/05/13 08:39 AM
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You need to communicate that you are single because you have yet to meet a girl that lives up to your standards. Otherwise people will wonder what kind of loser you must be if you are single and what is wrong with you. Minimise the amount of time you talk about how cool you are and in stead focus on what kind of qualities you are looking in a girl. So in PUA speak, don't qualify yourself but qualify the girl you are looking for. For example, say I'm looking for a blonde girl who is sporty with a…
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:18 PM
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Whatever works for you is great. But I think it would benefit everyone to go a month or two of going in with really simple or direct openers. It's great for building confidence. After that you can switch back to other kinds of openers. For me, scripted openers just made me feel like a fake actor, back then that's what PU was to me, one long act, fake openers, false time constraints, DHV stories, blah blah. Not saying it doesn't work for people! Of course it does. But it took too much out of me. …
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:14 PM
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Back in the day people used to say that using interesting openers would buy you some time and give you practice in set which would lead to confidence. In my personal experience this was just one aspect of continual needy behaviour. And it's like doing exercise with all kinds of aids, preventing yourself from actually benefitting from the exercise. So I dumped the openers and scripted material and did everything on the fly. Going in with 'Hi' and then making it up as you go along was the best tra…
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:07 PM
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Yes you are misunderstanding me. I've been in the game for more than a decade. Started with all the complicated openers before realising that I they were training wheels... only very bad training wheels that undermined my self-esteem because each time I used them I was telling my self that I wasn't good enough to just introduce myself. I switched to really simple stuff like 'Hi', 'Hey', 'How are you' and situational stuff and continue to use them to this day. It sends a message to yourself that …
/r/seduction07/05/13 10:00 PM
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No 'Hi' really is a good opener. It's my standard together with 'Hey I wanted to come talk to you'. Then I just talk about what I'm up to, ask them what they are doing and things roll from there.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:24 PM
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The reason why Hi is the best opener IMO is because it forces you to get all the fundamentals correct, you voice tone, body language etc. If you can open with Hi you can open with anything. And it displays a lot of value because it shows that you don't need a reason to talk to someone.
/r/seduction07/05/13 08:23 PM
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I'm trying to think about describing how it works, but so much of it has to do with non verbals and general vibe most of which is determined by all the other aspects of my life. Beyond that I'm quite low energy and focus on connecting (not necessarily in a soul-mate way, more connecting as two people in the moment). Then I communicate my views on sex and relationships. An example of an LR is as follow: I was in a club... yes a club, but this club has a big outside section where people go to cool…
/r/seduction06/05/13 11:04 PM
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For me it's also about choosing venues that suit me and being opportunistic. For example I got the number of a great girl whom I approached at the zebra crossing today. I focus on my hobbies which have an aspect that requires me to get out of the house and do performances. This way I can be out and about and meet people as it suits me. When I do go to bars they are the quieter ones where it's easy to have a conversation. That's the most important thing for me, I need to be able to have a convers…
/r/seduction06/05/13 10:25 PM
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It's only in the past year or so that I've truly embraced my introvert nature (been in the game for more than 10 years). Even before I got into PU I always thought I was faulty somehow because I couldn't socialise the way most others do. When I discovered PU I made a huge effort get over my shyness and anxiety, which I did successfully. But after all the success I've had over the years I am still an introvert. Embracing it made everything so much easier and I wish I'd done it much sooner. I knew…
/r/seduction06/05/13 10:22 PM
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Maybe other environments would suit you better? Concerts, cafes, shopping districts, museums, galleries etc.
/r/seduction05/05/13 02:27 PM
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Did someone call? I went through a phase where I practised talking a lot because I lacked good conversations skills. Then I reigned it all back in again and now I spend a lot more time listening.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:24 PM
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A good start would be to stop calling this thing in your mind 'the physical barrier'. 1) Sit close to her, so your legs and arms are touching. If she's voluntarily alone with you it's on. If you make a move and get rejected you get points for being a man who knows what he wants and goes after it. It's a win, win situation. 2) Grab her hand and lead her somewhere.
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:21 PM
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Yes I have come up with a very similar hypothesis. Off the top of my head I can't remember all the scientific research I've read and personal experiences that are relevant. But what it comes down to is that the human body recognises itself in some way as part of the human species and will reward itself if it is doing well in order to further the goals of the whole species. Just one example. When humans win some kind of competition they gain a boost in testosterone. Could be a boxing match, footb…
/r/seduction04/05/13 12:09 AM
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Game = mimicking behaviour you would exhibit if you were pre-selected and getting lots of sex. If you don't have any 'game' then you need to hack the system / fake it till you make it / build up social momentum. There's a lot of randomness but as Tyler says you can stack the deck in your favour.
/r/seduction02/05/13 11:08 PM
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Whoah, this is a blast from the past. Raymond has been trolling PUA since the days of alt.seduction.fast For those that don't know that was an old usenet discussion forum set up by Ross Jeffries.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 11:00 PM
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Yes, great post. Escalating is the number one thing to do. Start a conversation, then move closer. Another famous smirker: James Bond.
/r/seduction29/04/13 11:42 PM
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Shrug "Yep" "I know" Trying too hard to come up with a clever answer is low-status.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:49 PM
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Don't try to be too clever. Verbalising it is try-hard.
/r/seduction29/04/13 10:48 PM
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No we can't. Maybe an introduction to what the state of pick-up was like amongst some people in LA in the early to mid 2000's. And lots of bending of the truth by Neil Strauss.
/r/seduction28/04/13 11:09 PM
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Closely related to all those guys trying to logically debate the issue with women and try to point out logically inconsistencies in their thinking and behaviour. If you're still trying to do that then you still don't get it. Don't change their mind, change their mood.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 10:09 PM
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FaceBook is great. It helps me organise my social life and keep in touch with friends all over the world. If you find that your FB wall is flooded with idiotic updates then you need to find out why you have idiots for friends. Lastly, you don't have to add women on FB immediately after meeting them. Just tell them that you prefer to know someone for at least 3 months before you add them.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 10:26 AM
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The truth.
/r/seduction28/04/13 05:58 AM
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When I first got into this there was a big focus on what to say. Ross Jeffries' language patterns, the Mystery's DHVs etc. But what you say is highly over rated. Escalating things logistically and physically is 99% of the game.
/r/seduction28/04/13 05:57 AM
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But you can always stack the deck in your favour. :)
/r/seduction27/04/13 09:26 PM
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Escalate (physically). Much quicker than you think is possible.
/r/seduction27/04/13 05:15 PM
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Find environments that would be fun regardless if you were approaching people.
/r/seduction27/04/13 09:06 AM
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Like this guy said. Accept that some people will think you are creepy. It's a given, you can't avoid it. So stop playing it safe and go for the win.
/r/seduction27/04/13 09:05 AM
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Escalate physically.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:29 AM
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Alternative suggestion. Learn to pick up girls in your quiet state.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:28 AM
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Although in my personal experience I didn't find any huge correlation between 'connecting' with them and actually banging them. In fact often the more I connected the less mysterious I became. So I went back to short interactions and accepting a big flake rate. Better to weed them out early than later IME.
/r/seduction27/04/13 08:26 AM
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It's called social proof and pre-selection.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 08:17 PM
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Feel abundance, correct behaviour will start to flow.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 08:00 PM
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This is correct. First time I found myself in a situation of true abundance all the techniques and tactics I had read about came out naturally. If you're not there yet, trick yourself into a state of abundance. Easiest way IMO if you are starting from scratch is to go out and approach tons of women only with the intent of getting phone numbers. When you get 10 - 20, start scheduling dates.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 07:59 PM
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Why? Tests are easy to pass. I don't get why people to go through mental gymnastics in order to pass tests. If you are, you're doing it all wrong. Step 1: Determine your values and goals. Step 2: Live by them. Step 3: If anyone (not just women) throws a test at you, you shrug it off with the minimum of effort. The more effort you put in the more beta you are because you're communicating that you are threatened by the efforts of the tester.
/r/seduction26/04/13 07:38 AM
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I learned a lot from this book. That's why you should welcome tests... and then shrug them off: "She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. ... She cannot distract you, because your one-pointed commitment to truth will not bend to her wiles."
/r/seduction26/04/13 07:35 AM
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What I immediately noticed was how many of these actors didn't get their big break until they were in their late 20's. Shows what can happen when a man focuses on his craft for a decade before settling down.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 10:28 PM
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I'm saying that if you're having consensual dominating / rough sex with your GF, then you are ravishing her. If you force someone to having sex with you, that is rape. EDIT: The 3rd option is consensually role-playing a rape scenario.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 06:06 PM
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I agree with using that term because it is different IMO.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 05:56 PM
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I think it's more complicated than that. Mammals are competing against each other and the general environment for mates. They need to come out on top in order to get a chance. There is often a test of strength and domination, but rarely do the mammals outright rape or kill (it does happen but it's more the exception than the rule). I'm not kidding when I say you should check out some documentaries about mammals. Bears, tigers, lions, chimpansees, gorillas etc. The males need to prove themselves …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 05:54 PM
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The real underlying reason it works is because it implicitly displays preselection. Pretty much everything that 'works' is explained by it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 06:16 PM
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Well done. But don't confuse shyness with being introverted. Two different things :)
/r/seduction21/04/13 11:12 PM
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Did a moderator delete everything?
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:23 PM
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I don't have it. Apologies.
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:15 PM
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You're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Germans just have a different sense of humour. I think it was just a joke. You say everything was cool afterwards. Not everything is an AMOG, or frame-war. Best way to deal with a test.. if it even was one: Silence Shrug Meh (deadpan) Cool (deadpan) The less effort the better. Still, it didn't sound like a test to me.
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:57 PM
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Agree. Escalation skills are way more important that being funny. Did cave-men need to tell jokes?
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:41 PM
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Disagree. Think it's a left over of dancing monkey, DHV game. Very overrated IMO.
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:41 PM
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Don't worry about it. Focus on conversation skills, listening skills (even more important than conversation skills) and escalating smoothly.
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:40 PM
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EDIT: You mean in general? Sure you need to be able to laugh. For getting women... see below. I think it's overrated. Yes it's great to be funny and have a quick wit. But I've seen and experienced that you don't need to be funny in order to get success. Most important thing IMO is escalation. Escalating includes: Approach, Talking, Showing Interest, Escalating Physically etc. etc.
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:39 PM
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Be like the rock in the river.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 05:16 PM
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Ask open ended questions and let her talk about stuff she's interested in.
/r/seduction14/04/13 10:32 AM
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Create an environment that plays to your strengths. If you don't have any strengths then develop them (skills, hobbies, interests).
/r/seduction14/04/13 10:30 AM
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He's always been economical with the truth. The book the Game is an amalgamation of events and people condensed into a shorter time frame. For a start, he was involved in PU much longer than he admits in the book.
/r/seduction14/04/13 10:29 AM
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Coffee shops, cafes, restaurants, more quiet bars and pubs, markets, shopping malls, interest group gatherings (meetup.com), hobby groups, sport and exercise activities, volunteering, evening classes.
/r/seduction14/04/13 10:25 AM
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It's the visual equivalent of a man who is focusing on his mission and has no time for social pleasantries. If James Bond had an online dating profile would his picture show him with a big toothy grin showing how nice and friendly he is?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 11:46 PM
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It's really interesting how economics and biology interact to shape our culture. Many people think of the culture they grew up in as natural or normal but depending on the supply and demand of resources, the ratio of available men and women and other factors you get different kinds of cultures; polygamy, economic loyalty to a wife + mistresses and other variations. There are even cultures (Tibet) where polyandry is common because of a lack of arable land, which means families can't afford to spl…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 08:30 PM
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In my experience I've seen guys spend a lot of time speaking / writing to men in a way that shows that they are obviously voicing what they wish they could say to women. If you say that does not apply to you then I will accept that. I think that on a really fundamental all humans are looking out for their own interests and that a lot of logic and rationality is misapplied because we are subservient to these drives (I fully accept that this applies to myself as well). I believe the truth behind t…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:43 PM
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I'm all for knowledge and learning. But IMO the only way to win this contest is with frame. If you step into this thinking you can argue your way through it with logic, reason, proof and evidence then I think you will fail. The way to win IMO is to use the knowledge to create the stronger frame. And the stronger frame does not have to be internally coherent or logically constructed, just stronger.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:17 PM
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From the research I've read both men and women are very much feelings driven and rationalise after the fact. I do think that on a sliding scale, men are much more logical. Yes feminist thinking is often (I haven't read or hear all feminist philosophy) inconsistent... and? What happens when we've broken it all down and shown how it doesn't make sense? Nothing. Accept that we are all biological creatures trying to survive and pass on our genes. Better to focus our intellectual energy on understand…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:09 PM
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To represent these questions as anything but disingenuous, patronizing, and condescending rhetorical questions is dishonest and passive aggressive. Ok looking back I did. Apologies. You lack intellectual rigor. I can point this out using supplicating evidence like this: Not one of your three questions directly addresses the points in my letter, but instead serve the purpose of attacking the character and nature of the author. That's what we call ad hominem. I disagree with the very assumption th…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 06:02 PM
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Alphas are allowed to objectify all they want (then it's confidence). If a Beta tries to objectify then he is being creepy. If he fakes being an alpha then he tricked a woman as well. Twice as bad! Logic doesn't come into it. It's all about human hierarchies. Might makes right. (Not my personal value, just an observation).
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 05:16 PM
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I look at my original reply, yes it was a rhetorical question. Just felt that the real intention of the post was to say all the things he wants to say to women but can't. And I think it's being wrapped in a logical discussion which presupposes a reality I don't agree with.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 05:13 PM
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Because they don't like to be tricked into banging betas.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 05:08 PM
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I downed the red pill before that metaphor even existed. I realise now that I come across as being deliberately antagonistic. That's not my intention. I'm here to help.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 05:06 PM
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Why is it ok? Cause you we're obviously some kind of alpha for her. It's not the case that individual actions are evaluated on their own merits. Rather it is: Whatever alpha does = Good, cool, exciting etc. Whatever beta does = objectifying, bad, creepy, needy etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 05:03 PM
3

Only naturals, alphas, leaders what ever you want to call the guys at the top of the pile are allowed to get away with it. And they do so because they know those guys aren't going to talk about it (even if anonymously online doesn't count). So in their mind you must have pretended to be an alpha, cause a real one would keep quiet. Not attacking you btw, just explaining the reaction you are getting. Do you think a famous rapper / athlete / politician would be told that he tricks women? No.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 04:59 PM
2

It undermines their agency. They only want the alphas to objectify them. Not beta-boys.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 04:53 PM
2

Exactly. Women don't mind being objectified... as long as it's done by natural alphas. What they fear / hate is being tricked ( or "objectified") by betas who pretend they are alphas. It means they accidentally let beta-seed near their eggs.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 04:53 PM
3

As someone who studied lots of science I disagree with that characterisation. I just go the sense that the OP was writing this for women, in order to prove to them that he's smart and logical and rational (all great things btw). Not literally as he's posting it here obviously, but almost by proxy. But why? Seems like a huge circle-jerk to me. There's a lot of good stuff in this sub-reddit but I question this kind of self-congratulatory behaviour. Out there in the real world this won't get you an…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 04:34 PM
1

Yeah... I guess I'm already like that.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:50 PM
2

Normal handshake but clasp her hand with your other hand as you do it. Politicians do it a lot. High five is cool... if you are 15 (not even then).
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:45 PM
-2

It's an honest question. If you don't want to answer it, let's just leave it there.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:40 PM
-3

It's a question. So does it?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:38 PM
-4

Quit being condescending.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:36 PM
2

Been lurking for a while.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:32 PM
-5

Does it feel good to show women how smart you are? That's what you get out it right? You don't think you're actually changing anyone's mind?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 02:26 PM
16

Hand
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:55 PM
1

And how is this working out for you? Does it bring you real success? Never really worked so well for me. It gets them laughing and giggling... but actually sexually attracted? Not so much.
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:33 PM
1

Be yourself. More importantly, believe in yourself. There are ways to 'build attraction' other than being the try hard cocky-funny guy. There is a notion out there in society that being extrovert is the ideal and that introversion is not an ideal state to be in. But this is wrong. Look up methods that are more in-sync with being and introvert, Juggler is a good example.
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:31 PM
1

Do you really need to be in clubs and bars? If you need to practice on lots of people maybe. If you're past that then maybe focus on meeting people during the day or in other types of social occasions.
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:26 PM
3

"Hi" No hesitation. The longer you wait the creepier it gets.
/r/seduction13/04/13 12:25 PM
5

Sounds like an educational movie.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/13 12:21 PM
5

Even with the exceptions that he mentions and mentioned by other posters. I'm starting to seriously question to time cost / benefit of clubs and bars. A great place to get initial practice, but after that it's a very ineffective use of my time. And I'm not bitter because I used to get good success from night-life.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 10:30 PM
2

What are the things that you do that show you aren't coming from a needy place? I can hardly afford to be nice in any way since I get punished for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 08:54 PM
2

This is the one thing I've always struggled with. Like the OP, I've seen with my own eyes that 'just being confident' only gets you so far... a bit of the dark-triad really gets you heading in the right direction. But it's always been hard for me to take on those behaviours. It's the last piece of my 'game' that I still need to fake by mimicking specific behaviours. So far I can fake it to an extent by having my mission being my number one focus and by spinning plates. But the little list that t…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/13 07:47 PM
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