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*without lowering your standards.
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:20 PM
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zakkyb, I genuinely want to help good men attract women naturally because I love and care about these men and the women they connect with. If that is beyond your understanding, there is no way my article or anything else I produce can help you right now.
/r/seduction01/06/16 01:06 AM
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Well yeah, advice-seeking lurkers aren't going to accomplish ANYTHING until they accept that getting good at anything takes real commitment, determination, and openness to learn. Any successful person has that resourcefulness and drive. It's a decision. David in the article has that, and that's why he's doing so amazing.
/r/seduction31/05/16 07:27 PM
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Definitely, vessel. Here are two articles that might be helpful to you in that regard: (1) How To Convey Attraction To A Beautiful Woman (eliminating creepiness) // https://introvertedalpha.com/how-to-convey-attraction/ (2) How To Know If She Wants You To Make A Move (reading women) // https://introvertedalpha.com/how-to-know-if-she-wants-you-to-make-a-move/
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:43 PM
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BhiQ, yeah I can see your point that he already had a lot going for him. True, he's an awesome guy! That said, touch was not the only thing by far. For example, he was resentful to women / put them at a distance too, and we worked through that first before the experience he shared. With good men, there is ALWAYS a way out of the friend zone and into creating super hot connections. It's just a matter of how much pre-work there is to do (notice what he says in the article about 'front-loading the …
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:34 PM
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So glad you learned from it, Crailberry! Thank you for sharing. Also the same guy in this article just emailed me this morning about the incredible first date he had yesterday with "Rachel" from his email. If you take to heart those 3 takeaways he shared, you'll be off to a great start yourself. Rooting for you! :)
/r/seduction31/05/16 06:29 PM
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Thanks for the comment, JefemanG! You're exactly right about touch. With the frame of mind David has in this post, it comes across as chill and confident, and women love it.
/r/seduction31/05/16 05:53 PM
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Awesome, glad you liked it!
/r/seduction19/04/16 06:56 AM
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A lot of guys wonder the same thing! For how to start a conversation with a beautiful woman, check out this post: https://introvertedalpha.com/starting-a-conversation-with-a-beautiful-woman/
/r/seduction19/04/16 12:13 AM
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You're so welcome, and I'm glad it resonated with you! There's way more free stuff on my site where that came from. I hope you continue to enjoy it all! :)
/r/seduction18/04/16 11:16 PM
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Awesome! So glad, and thanks letting me know it was helpful. :)
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:33 PM
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Thank you! Glad it was helpful for you. :)
/r/seduction18/04/16 07:33 PM
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Thanks, naughtpocket! :D
/r/seduction28/03/16 11:10 PM
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Yeah, there's a balance between, "Use these training wheels while you get your bearings," and, "These training wheels are here to help you find your internal sense of balance, which is ultimately what you'll rely on when you really 'get it.'" The most important thing to me is to be respectful and helpful. Even though this community can be a little harsh, I welcome good feedback because it helps me strike that balance better.
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:41 PM
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"Exclusive" doesn't mean "forever." It doesn't even mean "relationship status." It just means, "Do we want to focus on getting to know each other exclusively for now so we can see what we want next?"
/r/seduction28/03/16 09:27 PM
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twitch1982, I appreciate how upfront you are. People in nonmonogamy are often especially in tune with ethics and honesty, and it's refreshing to see that. As for the "ultimatum" in my article, I can definitely see your point. In striving to make each piece simple, sometimes I oversimplify, and in reading your comment, I think I did so here. I've gone into the article and incorporated the "or when it's appropriate" bit. Thanks for your feedback!
/r/seduction28/03/16 08:16 PM
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I agree, rachcarp. When everyone is honest in a chill and open way, things work better. Whether you want to just hook up or are open to something more serious, being upfront in your vibe and what you are open to makes it easier to find and attract people who are already on the same page.
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:33 PM
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If you know way before date 3, then yeah definitely bring it up. The earlier, the better. When I was dating, I would work in something like, "I'm dating and playing right now, and it's a lot of fun," into the first conversation ever, just to give them an idea of where I was at.
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:29 PM
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I love it! You are so badass for just making a decision and then doing it. Especially the part about your haircuts, just going back again and again to refine and dealing with it looking shitty in the meantime. I think there's a lot to be learned from your passion and determination. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction25/03/16 08:28 PM
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Hi approachpeople, it comes down to this: You are an experience that women have. Women are an experience that you have. The reason you've felt uncomfortable is that you perceive the "beautiful woman experience" to be much higher value than the "you experience" they would have when you approach them. Your self-perception -- how valuable you think your "you experience" is to women -- can be changed in two ways before you ever take any risks: (1) Realize what is already valuable about experiencing …
/r/seduction22/03/16 12:59 AM
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Awesome, thanks for that Seph1roth17!
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:04 PM
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Thanks, thor123!
/r/seduction08/03/16 06:53 PM
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TrixoftheTrade, I love your definition!
/r/seduction08/03/16 06:52 PM
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Hi Nikter, I have a different angle on both "introverted" and "alpha" than most. Here's what I mean by each word: An introverted man is a deep and thoughtful person who is rejuvenated by peace and quiet. He is easy to be around, chill, and mysterious. Introverted does not equal socially awkward, as social fluency is a skill, not a personality. A True Alpha has a strong sense of himself. He has an air of quiet confidence, and he doesn't need constant external validation. He knows who he is and go…
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:56 AM
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Hi uberafc, yes my comprehensive self-study course is $2,499. My main offering for years was coaching, and this self-study course is for people who would rather have material they can work through themselves. It's not totally hands-off though. I do follow up with them throughout the course and answer their questions.
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:47 AM
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Hi Daffas, I totally agree that the definition of an introvert is someone who recharges alone rather than in a big crowd, and I appreciate that you pointed that out. In the article's intro, I explain that not all single introverted men feel these specific self-conscious fears, but in my experience, many do. Extroverted men deal with self-consciousness too, but from another angle, so it all balances out. This article is meant to focus on the introvert's perspective with a respectful, appreciative…
/r/seduction08/03/16 02:14 AM
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Hi galactic_fury, totally. When getting her number, that can be a laid-back, chill way to do it. Then later via text, you can set up an actual date.
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:49 AM
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Awesome, thanks ValasDream! I'm glad you liked it. :)
/r/seduction07/03/16 08:25 PM
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There are three main stages of touch that you'll want to go through to make the escalation seamless and not feel too abrupt. The first is friendly, like touching her arm while you're having a conversation, which you could theoretically do with anyone without it being weird. Once you've established that level, escalate to the next step by increasing the amount of touch (for example: leaning into her slightly if you're standing next to each other, putting your hand on her knee for a few seconds if…
/r/seduction19/01/16 09:30 PM
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Okay, in that case you can focus more energy on building conversation skills, like asking and sharing the right way, knowing how to lead the conversation and engage her. This is obviously a way bigger topic than we can get into on a thread, so if you want to read more about exactly how to become an artful conversationalist, here's a good link: https://introvertedalpha.com/ultimate-conversation-guide-for-introverted-men/
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:03 PM
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Congrats on getting into shape — dialing up your external presentation makes you a better match for the women you want to attract. As far as approaches, it sounds like you're doing well with "filling your funnel," so to speak. Now for the "how" — approaching women who seem warm and receptive (smiling, having a good time) as opposed to cold and guarded, keeping an open attitude about the type of connection you might have, etc. This article on our site explains it in much more detail: https://intr…
/r/seduction19/01/16 12:54 AM
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Your success with women in college absolutely does not determine your success down the line. Don't worry about that, especially since you were in a long distance relationship during most of that time (which shows integrity). I teach smart, introverted men to attract women naturally, and a lot of my clients didn't get into a groove until their mid twenties and then it was amazing! What have you been trying during these "months of improvement"? There might be a better way.
/r/seduction18/01/16 11:40 PM
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Thanks, QuebecLibre!
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:49 PM
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Exactly. It's all about how you perceive yourself in relation to a beautiful woman. Do you perceive yourself to be above her, below her, or equal to her? Above Her: You come across as an a**hole, and she can smell the underlying insecurity from a mile away. (Arrogance and insecurity are flip sides of the same coin.) Below Her: You come across as a weakling / leechy, which is of course extremely unattractive. Equal to Her: This is where she has a real opportunity to be naturally attracted to you,…
/r/seduction18/08/14 09:28 PM
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