How To Get Her Number In 4 Seamless Steps

AlexanderGson · 2016-04-04T20:52:25+00:00

Don't make her phone number your endgame. That way you'll only rack up a lot of numbers without any sort of connections with women.

Her number, her facebook, her snapchat, her tinder all have one thing in common. They are gateways to meeting the girl and getting to know her. Getting her number doesn't make you special or stand out. Influencing her emotions (positively) on a date does.

Also, don't be afraid of failing a lot of times in the beginning. That's how you learn new stuff, broaden your comfort zone and become more confident in yourself. Success is just a product of lots of failure.

AntiGravityBacon · 2016-04-04T19:00:29+00:00

Good, fairly basic guide. Great if there are people just starting out.

I will say, I've found asking for a date to be more effective for reducing flakiness. Then you'll naturally trade numbers after.

kazing · 2016-04-04T17:20:40+00:00

How can people still be on this step abc stuff. You are just talking to some person and inviting her in your world. And your world should be awesome.

If a person is intimidated by hot girls he should work on his feeling of self wOrth and on his life in general. You don't need a military style aproach with steps and tactics.

BEN_therocketman · 2016-04-04T22:10:48+00:00

Don't forget that any failure is just another step towards eventual success!

Xaxxus · 2016-04-05T03:50:45+00:00

Getting a number shouldn't be the goal. It is a tool to communicate with a girl. The goal should be getting a DATE. Tons of girls give out their number without any intention of responding or actually going out on a date with the guy.

DarkChewbacca · 2016-04-05T01:55:33+00:00

What the hell are these "4 steps" posts?

YOU ARE TREATING WITH A PERSON NOT A MACHINE.

You have to learn to be confident with yourself before you can do stuff like this.

You have to make yourself feel comfortable before you make a girl feel comfortable.

You have to learn to walk before you can ride a bike.

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hackel · 2016-04-05T02:16:07+00:00

Jesus, it's 2016! Stop talking about "getting her number" as if anyone uses old-school telephones anymore. Get her email address. Add her on Hangouts or Facebook even. Anything but a phone number!

Title	How To Get Her Number In 4 Seamless Steps
Author	IntrovertedAlpha
Upvotes	144
Comments	18
Date	April 4, 2016 5:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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