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kazing/r/seduction17/08/16 07:23 PM
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It's rediculously bad advice trying to give you one more thing to think about.
/r/seduction20/07/16 01:43 PM
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My three pillars as of now are: 1) delve deeper into my own feeling so I'm more aware of them and so that I can relieve any issues. And come from a place of giving. 2) get better at acting on them/ expressing them. 3) get a better understanding on what it's like experiencing life as a woman. What this accomplishes is that girls will get a really pure view of who I am. Girls who like me go crazy over me and me over them. Girls who don't like me don't want anything to do with me and I don't want w…
/r/seduction26/06/16 11:39 AM
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The problem is when people start using "techniques" to communicate in ways that are inauthentic for them. They feel they are being liked for things that aren't them and go down hill from there. I believe seduction is about getting rid of the hesitation between feeling you should do/say something and actually doing / saying it. So for me seduction deepens my experience of life, myself and women.
/r/seduction26/06/16 09:45 AM
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I disagree with almost everything written here.
/r/seduction17/06/16 09:25 AM
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Beyond how cute you look in a picture you need to think about what it communicates. Right now it's:" I take selfish of myself in my dirty living room because I don't have friends that would like to take a picture of me"
/r/seduction15/06/16 11:56 AM
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Seduction is about realness and honesty. Definitely not about raising or lowering your whatever acronym for rapport and dhcxet.
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:53 PM
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I second these recommendations
/r/seduction29/05/16 10:21 PM
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Get rid of all this bulls hit out of your mind. You are just one person talking to another one. By trying to adhere to these complex and abstract concepts you are all ready putting her on a pedestal. (A cool guy is not gonna put this much mental effort into meeting anyone.) "Value" is about how much emotion you can share and thus elicit. I'm super poor and I always tell girls thus, but I have a super interesting life and life view. So my "value" comes from my personality and nothing else. I don'…
/r/seduction29/05/16 10:15 AM
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I disagree with the previous post. Everybody naturally knows how tall to girls. It'seems only when you aren't in touch with you feelings and are scared that you lose this ability. Just go say hi man, be clear that you have romantic intrest and just go with what feels natural.
/r/seduction23/05/16 11:02 AM
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Stop doing this try hard bullshit some pua guy told you to do.
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:57 PM
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Open up about how you feel more. The cliche "open up your heart" is the best advise you will receive.
/r/seduction20/05/16 10:06 AM
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Wtf is rejection even? You just weren't compatible. Wold even want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you?
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:39 AM
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This. Also lying is weak shit bro. I'm a poor unemployed guy who just trains jiu jitsu, that's literally the fist line of my tinfer bio as well. I get laid all the time
/r/seduction16/05/16 11:32 AM
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It will help them much more than artices filled with stupid techniques that do nothing more than clutter his mind and give him another thing to be insecure about ( why do I suck at asking girls if they like horses?). Helping them realize that on a very real level they already know everything they need to know is as high value as you can get. But yeah for sure it's not gonna resonate with some guy looking for tips tricks and hacks to get that one girl he has been obsessing about for 10 years.
/r/seduction16/05/16 10:20 AM
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Goodluck getting people to read your stuff without a click bait title. I'm in no way affiliated to this guy tho, just to be clear.
/r/seduction16/05/16 10:15 AM
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The fact that this got any down votes at all says a lot about this subreddit.
/r/seduction15/05/16 09:02 PM
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How did it go?
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:50 AM
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I'm doing "random activity x" right now, what about you?
/r/seduction04/05/16 09:59 PM
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Sure there are some differences but I don't treat them much different then I would treat my other friends. Except for the romantic stuff obviously. I think they are just people, to them guys can be sort of scary in a lot of ways tho, so maybe I also spend some more time making sure they feel comfortable.
/r/seduction04/05/16 08:33 PM
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You sound really frustrated about something, what's on your mind friend? There are all sort of reasons that could make a girl hesitate but really she just wants to know if you are a cool person that's gonna stay cool to her if she spends more time with you.
/r/seduction04/05/16 08:31 PM
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Do yourself a favor and don't learn any of these kind of terms. Girls are no targets you need to have power plays with and aquire or whatever. They are just people. Like anyone you should have a dynamic where you are both giving to each other and just mutually enjoy each other. The pick up community tries very hard to sell you the idea you need skills and tactics in order to be with girls. It tries to make you feel like there is some kind of hole in your life you can only fill with girls / techn…
/r/seduction04/05/16 08:29 PM
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So just text her? Why are you making such a big deal of this? You wouldn't give it a second thought if it was a guy friend.
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:50 PM
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It means you should remind her again cause she is probably a busy person like most people? How is this complicated?
/r/seduction04/05/16 01:33 PM
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Every time you read excuse on this subreddit you know there is a problem there
/r/seduction01/05/16 10:10 PM
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"Or even better, take advantage of them" lost all my intention to help you right there.
/r/seduction24/04/16 03:45 PM
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The bad boy part is being someone that knows what he wants and doesn't care about what other people think too much.
/r/seduction22/04/16 08:02 PM
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Awesome, I have great hopes for you. Send me a pm or something in a few months/ couple of years to tell me how it's going.
/r/seduction22/04/16 09:59 AM
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That you see 2 people actively connecting and having a good time as a problem tells me a lot about your mindset. You seem like you aren't to deep into this "pick up" stuff yet (but I'm guessing you read the game) so do yourself a favor and go the natural route. Read stuff like "models"- mark Manson, "masculine intent" blog, everything from the natural lifestyles crew and social he artistry. Before you fuck yourself up with all of the fake stuff.
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:46 PM
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Also watch Tony solo on YouTube, he talks about this a lot.
/r/seduction21/04/16 04:06 PM
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Make yourself feel comfortable, bring your attention to your body and come from a place of giving. Make sure to breath in the atmosphere of the place and actually enjoy yourself. Just befriend some group of people by actually being a cool person that adds something to their life. If you don't vibe with the group go be friends with some other people. From there on it's pretty easy to either start talking to the girls in the group or to solo girls.
/r/seduction21/04/16 04:04 PM
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Personally I always try to come from a place of giving when interacting with anyone via any medium.
/r/seduction20/04/16 11:39 AM
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I have said this before and I'll say this again. Be honest. Use you intuition to figure out how many details you share. One girl told me she loved how passionate I seemed about the girls I talked about and how she wished to be a good story someday that I would tell other people about.
/r/seduction19/04/16 07:04 AM
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You don't get awesome by luck. You become awesome working on yourself and doing cool shit.
/r/seduction12/04/16 01:36 PM
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Whatever thing it is that catches your eye won't come across as generic if you say it in a hard felt way. What word you choose hardly ever matters.
/r/seduction11/04/16 04:35 PM
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I don't understand what you are trying to say.
/r/seduction11/04/16 12:25 PM
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This is a good comment. I would chill with you irl.
/r/seduction11/04/16 09:41 AM
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Don't try to plan a conversation, you think she is planning the conversation? Why are you trying to impress her? If you don't think you as a man sharing your world is enough to attract this girl then you have already lost. Best kept secret to men: hot girls are exactly the same as average girls.
/r/seduction11/04/16 09:39 AM
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Wrong mindset, comment about what you see that you actually like. Learn to recognise the feeling in your body when it tells "fuck it's so sexy how she just moved her head" and then proceed to tell her "fuck it's so sexy how you just moved your head".
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:02 AM
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You didn't get lucky you just happen to be 2 awesome people that like each other.
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:00 AM
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Go with how you feel, your actions don't need to be approved by some pick up persona.
/r/seduction06/04/16 09:34 PM
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How can people still be on this step abc stuff. You are just talking to some person and inviting her in your world. And your world should be awesome. If a person is intimidated by hot girls he should work on his feeling of self wOrth and on his life in general. You don't need a military style aproach with steps and tactics.
/r/seduction04/04/16 05:20 PM
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Quality post, I feel like focusing on giving is almost always the best way to go
/r/seduction02/04/16 11:49 AM
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"Leverage" seduction is not war. You don't do seduction to someone, you seduce each other. You don't need to control her.
/r/seduction28/03/16 10:15 AM
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This is the best article I have seen on this sub so far.
/r/seduction24/03/16 08:19 PM
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I'm not hating, it could be fun and useful. But it reminds me of the worst pick up related Facebook group to ever exist.
/r/seduction07/03/16 10:07 AM
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Have you read the way of the superior man?
/r/seduction26/02/16 11:29 PM
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I like to think that the expressing part leads to the getting over it part.
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:37 PM
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Wow you have really negative views about women, I thought most people where here cause they love women.
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:36 PM
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That's a woman helping you to become a better man.
/r/seduction26/02/16 09:41 AM
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Expressing your insecurities in a non needy way will help you grow as a man. But getting over your insecurities is much more valuable still.
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:30 AM
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Not sure if trolling
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:28 AM
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With fulfillment, I mean I wouldn't hold anything back and with women I always try to give them everything they need emotionally/physically. Basically like it's written in "way of the superior man". Some random dude is almost never gonna be on the same level as someone who read this. In general I would advise communicating honestly how you feel in any situation as it is a great way to grow as a person. When you truly have become as succefull with women as you want you will be able to just "see t…
/r/seduction25/02/16 08:17 AM
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Seems like you are having a good time, in my experience the key to these kinds of situations is to apreciate the time you have together and see the beauty in that. I would give her everything I have to offer in terms of fullfilment without any alterior motives. And just see how things go naturally and once you aren't comfortable with situation for some reason you just express honestly how you feel. Also see other people to stay around the same level of investment.
/r/seduction25/02/16 05:50 AM
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Good advice gets down voted a Lott here
/r/seduction15/02/16 12:52 AM
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You have deeper issues man, go see someone.
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:34 PM
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If your game depends on wether or not you are using the word date then I have bad news for you.
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:08 AM
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I remember Mark Manson saying something like "there is a chronic lack of dating coaches in ltr relationships because they use their game to make up for their inner neediness which seeps out eventually In a ltr"
/r/seduction08/02/16 12:48 AM
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Nice summary of the absolute worst parts of this wonderful community. Well do what you like, doesn't matter to me.
/r/seduction05/02/16 07:15 PM
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Literally no reason to try and attract these kinds of people.
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:18 PM
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3 matches in an hour is still not a lott of matches. Friend of mine got 20 ish matches in 10 min after I fixed his profile. I filmed him swiping I think, might have the video somewhere.
/r/seduction01/02/16 01:13 PM
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I want them to know I'm hitting on them.
/r/seduction24/01/16 05:58 PM
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I read through your account and b ased on your posts you don't seem to have any idea where to get started. I would advise you to read: "how to win friends and influence people, mark manson's "models: attraction through honesty" and (author I can't remember) his " way of the superior man. I would read in that order.
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:24 PM
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When I read the title I thought you were gonna be a pick who thinks he is too interesting for girls to have something in common with them and I was gonna say that you shouldn't asume that girls are boring cause I find a local of girls with very diverse interests. But to your problem I would say that you should work on your confidence first because that seems to be the root issue here. Another thing is that you should actually work on being an interesting person. Read, get a hobby, get a skill, t…
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:18 PM
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Some idea that I have returns in your story. I think it's not about me going out and seduce a girl but it's about me going out and create an opportunity for me and her both to seduce each other
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:38 PM
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Also spending 500$ in hope for a girl to put it out is a sign of an unbalanced relationship. You should spend about equal amounts of money usually. Remember: you should only exchange pussy for dick.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:53 AM
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I spend about 7 hours this week talking about seduction with two girls this week, it's literally their favorite topic to talk about. Nothing interests girls more than relationships and sex. I also regularly high five girls after I have gotten laid. If they don't open up to you in this way you have deeper problems you need to fix.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:51 AM
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Yes. I know a Lott of the guys but I'm not in belgium now.
/r/seduction07/10/15 11:32 PM
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I have one little thought about this post but no awnser to your question. I used to be pretty shy but now I'm extremely sociable, for me it wasn't really about reshaping my personality or doing something unatural to me. For me it was about exploring a part about myself that I hadn't explored before. I think in order to be really attractive in this kind of thing I think should feel liken it's a choice and not a limitation. What I mean is that you should be able to approach and escalate so that no…
/r/seduction07/10/15 09:59 PM
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Belgium has a great inner circle (rsd) with very active members. So join the Facebook group.
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:56 PM
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I don't know your situation but generally when something like this happens it means you messed up a long time ago by not being clear ennough in your intentions earlier in the relationship.
/r/seduction03/10/15 04:27 PM
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What they like about badboys is that they take what they want and do what day want. And are unashamed of it. Try to fuck a girl in the bathroom 10 min after you meet her and see what she calls you. Probably she will call you a badboy no matter what you are wearing. I escalate faster when I wear my leather jacket toi cause it makes me feel like a rock star.
/r/seduction01/10/15 11:47 PM
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Yes, I really like his book too tho.
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:58 PM
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She is obviously still into you and wants to meet up soon. And obviously she was upset cause you didn't pull the trigger fast ennough. I would suget watching some.of Liam. Mcrae his stuff to understand this better. What else would she call you then a friend? Want her to say you are her boyfriend or that you are the guy she almost did something with?
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:24 PM
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More movement, more physical
/r/seduction25/09/15 02:55 AM
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This is actually a better reply than mine.
/r/seduction22/09/15 09:39 AM
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Probably your flirting was a bit too much for her too handle Might have been too sexual for her and maybe she isn't into something purely sexual atm. Also the last things he said were good calibration which is super attractive. Also he said exactly why he wanted the number which is gonna put her more at ease.
/r/seduction22/09/15 07:28 AM
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Realise that you don't want to hang out with people who don't want to hang out with you.
/r/seduction13/09/15 06:52 PM
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Don't worry about the oneits when in a relationship man. That's the point. I would say keep getting help, read books about this kind of stuff and meditate. And most of all communicate with your girlfriend about it.
/r/seduction12/09/15 12:51 AM
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What have you read?
/r/seduction12/09/15 12:43 AM
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A guy with true confidence cares more about what he likes than about what others like.
/r/seduction09/09/15 11:27 PM
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My guess is that you are trying to make them like you. But why would you want a girl to like you for someone you aren't? Stop acting and just show who you are. At the same time you should also not try to make a girl like you if you don't like them.
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:28 AM
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How about you do what you feel like doing and just connect with the girl? I like listening and shutting the fuck up but I had a date with a girl who didn't like to talk at all last week so then I talked more and I still made a really good connection and made out a bit. Taking pauzes and talking more slowly is a way to create sexual tension, making sexual jokes is another one. Just two parts on the same spectrum. I believe seduction is much more about learning to show who you are then about learn…
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:24 AM
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Turn her on and get her to a private/ semi private place? Your place, her place or the bathroom?
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:18 AM
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Look deep in yourself to find out what your values really are and then act in line with them. Do you value loyalty and such? If you know your values then think about we ther or not it would be against your values to try to get this girl to cheat or dump her boyfriend? And if she would if she would act in a way that's congruent with your values or not. I feel like you are investing a lot in this girl and that talking to more different girls would probably help you more in your growth then trying …
/r/seduction30/08/15 10:12 AM
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It's always good to take some time to work on your self. Traveling is amazing for this. But to apply the stuff from the book you have to practice too. You gain the confidence by talking to women as well. Learning that girls usually react nice is great for your confidence too. And learning to be vulnerable is also something you need to practice.
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:45 PM
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You are not being needy because your honesty presents a certain risk of rejection thus showing that you are attracted to her but also that you can live without her in your life. In other words: when you invest more in yourself than in her you are not being needy.
/r/seduction07/07/15 10:35 PM
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