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Honestly, are you alright? I remember when you first popped up in seddit and this mentality seems completely polar to how you express yourself in your other posts. There's never any shame in talking to people about shit, hell talk to me if you want. That said. Online dating is a different animal. A lot of girls just do it for the self esteem, they also get spammed with messages. Your messages have to be fun/exciting/mysterious enough to be noticed in the first place, and even if they are bad tim…
/r/seduction05/07/14 05:44 AM
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That's a terrible idea. Shit tests exist because they want to see if you're okay with yourself. If you get mad or upset and tell them how rude a question that is, then you fail. As with any shit test, you have two good options. Agree & amplify in a humorous way or just ignore it and continue on.
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:57 PM
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I do not understand your fifth bullet point. Do you mean that you would like a field report? Thank you for your thoughtful advice. Field reports are really more for yourself than for us. By replaying the night/day through your head and writing it down into a story for us, you can really identify, for yourself, what you did right and what you did wrong. Writing/verbalizing makes analyzing situations much easier for most people. Also FRs can help other people in your position as well. You're not t…
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:49 AM
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Are openers important? You answered your own question would you judge me if I said I'm a rapist Nope, you can say ANYTHING if you have confidence. ANYTHING. Is negging still relevant thing or have people outgrown it now? Negging, as it was described in the past, is shitty. Some people still do it, but the better thing, one of the best things you can do, is tease properly. However being able to tease properly is about confidence, comedic timing, and reading the person. If you can read the person …
/r/seduction08/12/13 06:19 PM
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wouldn't expect a medical student to go into the OR and perform surgery Good thing you're doing nothing similar. It seems to me you think sex is a really big deal, and it's not. I know you desperately want to lose your virginity, we've all been there, but it's really not a big deal. Show up, put your dick in her and touch her. You're not going to be a sex god on your first time, so accept that and use it as a learning experience. If you don't know things like: how to foreplay, where the vagina a…
/r/seduction08/12/13 06:13 PM
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If you're one on one, it's not different than a date. You mentioned she turned down you offering to buy her a drink, so you're clearly doing things wrong, because you should never do that. Anyway, that was a sign of her disinterest in you, so you probably didn't make your intentions clear.
/r/seduction07/12/13 06:31 AM
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It's good that you made progress, but you must must must stick with it. You say you've learned a lot, so continue to practice it. You don't need seddit, in fact, it's better to get away from the books/theory/discussions and actually do things. So while you might be done with reddit. Please continue trying, don't let one failure stop you from being the person you want to be.
/r/seduction07/12/13 06:29 AM
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His "reset" advice is the the only thing that seems to consistently work. However to improve on it, you should get time apart first. A lot of people have good success revisiting old crushes a year or two later, but even just going away for winter or summer break from university and coming back a different person will really help you out. If you can create some separation before you suddenly transform, it will be a lot more noticeable and she'll look at you as the new person you are rather than f…
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:29 PM
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Honestly, just like any shit test. Ignore it completely or agree and amplify. The agree/amplify in a joking/teasing/sarcastic manner could be fine too depending on what you say and your relationship with them. In this case, ignoring it and acting like it doesn't phase you is would be the solution, without knowing more information. Flirting is supposed to be fun, you made it serious, you ruined it.
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:09 PM
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If all of those things, the only way to really salvage it IMO would be to break contact for a long period of time to give yourself a fresh start later in the future. You know how when you look in the mirror every morning you look the same? But if you see somebody you haven't seen in years they tell you how different you are? When you're around somebody the little changes are not noticeable. So sticking around and improving won't be noticeable to her, but if you disappear for a while your improve…
/r/seduction06/12/13 06:55 PM
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Depends on what sort of attraction existed to begin with and what caused her to lose it. Were you being too needy, not taking charge, being too "beta", etc. There's really no way for you to know and no way for you to simply "fix" the problem. If you'd like to have her as a friend, keep her as a friend. If you don't see any sort of friendship with her, break off contact and move on. Don't dwell on it, but for the sake of improving yourself, try to use it as a learning experience. If attraction ex…
/r/seduction06/12/13 06:25 PM
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A lot of women use it as a defense mechanism to weed out people they aren't interested in. Do your disarms and continue and it will soon be very clear if she actually has a bf or not. If she does have a bf, don't invest too much time but add her to your hot girl entourage as a friend which could always become more in the future.
/r/seduction20/11/13 07:39 PM
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So Roman was dancing with her and when you took her away he just cheered you on and didn't overreact. Do that. Don't take things personally when another guy swoops in on a girl that you're gaming. We only want quality girls and they attract all sorts. You ignore. You're not threatened by him so you don't care if he dances. Be confident and keep your cool.
/r/seduction20/11/13 05:49 AM
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I hope somebody takes advantage of this. It's really helpful to have someone who has the right mindset rather than trying to just force your current friends to join you when they don't want to. Also teaching is the best way to really prove you know your stuff so OP will get a lot out of this too.
/r/seduction19/11/13 07:41 PM
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The way I see it, if you're trying to make people jealous, then you're really not outcome independent. If you achieve actual outcome independence, then you will actually be there for fun, you'll open lots of sets and see what happens and sometimes it will increase the attraction of women, and sometimes it won't, but you don't care because you're not outcome dependent.
/r/seduction19/11/13 07:21 PM
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This isn't really a FR, basically all you said is that you didn't do anything and she eventually jumped your bones. Did you have one-itis with this girl? If so how did you overcome it? Did you start gaming her? Did you just change nothing and eventually she fell into your lap?
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:56 PM
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A lot of people on here would kill to be in your situation. So don't you dare waste it. I just dont know how to turn on that sexual spark Kino, look up the escalation ladder. Physical contact builds attraction. as soon as they turn up the heat i just dont know what to do If they're turning up the heat, they're already into you. You don't have to do much at all. Show sexual interest in them through kino and sexual conversation.
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:50 PM
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Depends how you got her there. Did you just meet her this night or have you been on a date or two already? You probably got her there by suggesting: that you watch a movie/show, that you cook something for her, that you have more booze at your place, etc. If she accepted the movie idea, then you get back, start watching, get in close, kino, and you're there. If you offered food, cook together and kino. If you offered more booze, drink more and kino. Assume attraction. She's agreed to come to you…
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:45 PM
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TL;DR - Teasing works
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:38 PM
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I think you should talk to your friend. If that was my friend I would appreciate the idea, but if he's going to stick around in the conversation he has to be helpful, not a hindrance. It's good to have somebody to push you, but it only really works well if you guys are on the same page about seduction techniques. Really though, stop looking in the past. It's over and nothing bad happened. It was a little embarrassing, but so what? You got to see that nothing bad happens from bad approaches.
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:35 PM
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Look back at your past relationships. When you think about them, how do they make you feel? Do those memories make you happy, angry, etc? You want them to be able to look back at your time together and be happy. Keep her excited, please her in bed, be honest, be supportive of her, be drama free, be the best boyfriend she could ever want. When it comes time to end it, be honest and up front. You her to use you as the model by which future boyfriends are evaluated Keep in mind that with any breaku…
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:01 PM
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Just use this as an easy talking point and try to transition into a conversation and then into a number/date thing. It's no different from any other approach except you have some easy talking points.
/r/seduction04/11/13 06:44 AM
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Just try again next time. Don't bring it up, don't dwell on it. Remember how you feel right now for missing it and if you get another chance don't make the same mistake again. I'll be honest, sometimes you only get 1 shot, but a lot of the time you get multiple chances. So just ask her out again, and do it right this time.
/r/seduction04/11/13 06:09 AM
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Kino kino kino. Kino builds comfort. You need some level of comfort to talk sexually. The easiest way to bring it up for me is in a humorous manner after establishing some solid level of physical comfort with her. Once I bring it up in a humorous way it's easy for me to transition into a more serious sexual vibe. This is just how I do things though, my game relies on my humor/sarcasm/wit/teasing. Just establish comfort with kino and then just jump into it, is really the best thing I can say. Fuc…
/r/seduction30/10/13 05:42 AM
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Honestly this is a very interesting topic, but the fact is with new girls, you get to start fresh. They don't remember the stupid bad impressions you gave off, the AFCness you exuded from your every being. They see what you show them now. A clean slate is always going to make things easier for you in the long run. As somebody said, the best way to work with girls you already know, is to disappear for a while and come back different. Go away for the summer and come back confident and tan. Go away…
/r/seduction04/10/13 06:03 AM
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/r/seduction04/10/13 06:00 AM
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Honestly, you're past the biggest hurdle most people have. Talking to girls you're not interested in is great. Try to approach girls that you like and just keep working at it. You're young enough where it will pay off in the future. The problem you're having is you're putting them on a pedestal. They take nasty shits just like you do. They're awkward and self conscious just like you. They're normal people and they are no different than all those other girls you can talk to. Work on your inner ga…
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:56 AM
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Indicator of Interest 1: Playing With Her Hair Every girl I know plays with their hair regularly. It's fun, I play with mine too. Indicator of Interest 2: Face Close to Yours Two of my female friends (one of whom I had only met a couple days before and 1 who previously made it clear she does not date friends) did this all the time I was with them. It's just how some people are. Also if you lean in, majority of people will lean in. So don't pay attention to this one too much. Indicator of Interes…
/r/seduction04/10/13 05:53 AM
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Unless you were a STEM major. 30% on the exam? A+!
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:48 PM
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I think the system is fine. Sure it's not the most tasteful, but if you're going to attack this community you have a plethora of better options. The HB scale lets readers imagine a girl that fits the build and imagine themselves trying to pick her up. I find myself saying "I would not have the balls to do that if I saw a girl like that" or "Yea, I could do that". Also it substitutes for names. I don't want to read FRs with "the cute girl with leggings and her friend the cute girl with a reddish …
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:47 PM
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I still wonder if there is something more fundamentally wrong than lack of kino You and that HB9 at the club were all over each other, that is how kino feels to the girls in a sense. Humans long for that feeling of physical contact, the bond it creates is extremely strong. I think guys don't realize just how important it is, because they're the ones who have to initiate it so they don't get to see how it impacts them typically. There are like 3 main parts to seduction: attraction, comfort, and s…
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:45 PM
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Thanks, this makes it easier. I was thinking the nerd stuff was the problem because just about every women will say that they're a nerd. So from the sound of it your conversation is fine. I do notice with people who tend to control the conversations, that they can have a habit of forcing them where they want them to go rather than letter them flow naturally, so just be conscious that you're not overpowering the conversation. I think it's great that you can talk passionately about things, but def…
/r/seduction08/08/13 03:04 PM
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Sooo, here's my impression. We do need more information from you though. You say the majority of your dates come from online dating. I think your messages/online communication skills are probably good, but it falls apart after the real date. So this suggest, to me, that you're not behaving the same as your online persona would lead them to believe. They started talking to this smooth guy online, and then when they get on the date they're met with someone who looks/feels uncomfortable or simply d…
/r/seduction08/08/13 01:51 PM
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There are a lot of good body language books. The video you linked explaining why books don't work is stupid, he makes no good points. This is how you learn from a body language book: Read the book. Consciously pay attention to the body language of people around you and notice when they perform things that you read about. It's that easy. He'll I would argue that is a much better way to learn because you're getting real examples rather than just watching a video and trying to play copy cat. Point …
/r/seduction02/08/13 01:21 AM
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Seriously... a HB9 shows up at your door in a thong and you decide to finish watching tv. Dude....
/r/seduction28/04/13 12:42 AM
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I'm pretty sure I know what he means. My first gf was also my first LTR and basically it just happened. No formal dates. We kinda skipped the dating phase. We had the getting to know you phase, and then we were basically in a relationship. She actually commented a few times later in the relationship that she missed the initial dating phase and was annoyed we missed out on it.
/r/seduction27/04/13 02:46 PM
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