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Obviously go for the good kind of threesome.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:08 AM
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The best advice I ever heard on that subject was this. You can't control her. If she's the kind of person who will or wants to cheat on you, there is nothing you can do to stop her. You only have control over yourself, so the best thing you can do is be the kind of man no one wants to cheat on. How do you do that? That's the question you should be asking.
/r/seduction06/12/14 05:07 AM
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Music and rock climbing are mine. Go find a cheap instrument somewhere and look up some how tos online. I assume there are probably no rock climbing gyms anywhere near you, so I can't help there.
/r/seduction11/10/14 06:44 PM
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Try taking up a hobby that regularly has you in the spotlight. Stand up comedy, instruments, community theater, etc. If you're used to being literally in the spotlight, having people's attention on you in a social situation won't be quite so daunting.
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:59 PM
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Towards the beginning of a relationship, your interactions should be push-push-pull. If you want to go beyond a casual relationship, it starts to become more of a push-pull-pull. Basically tone back the alpha just a tad bit, do a few things that betas would do without doing it in the same manner a beta would. For example... You wake up before she does after a hookup, you're making yourself coffee. Go ahead and pour her a glass too. The beta here would ask her how it is, wait around for some kind…
/r/seduction19/09/14 09:22 PM
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I don't understand why this got downvoted, I think if you play it off as a joke it's pretty damn funny.
/r/seduction19/09/14 08:56 PM
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+1 on this. Talking with your hands is a great way to make something you're talking about more interesting/visual. If there's really nothing else to do with your hands, I like putting my hands in my pockets, but with the thumbs still on the outside. It's just comfortable to me, but doesn't look quite as closed off as having hands all the way in the pockets.
/r/seduction17/09/14 04:44 PM
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I'm a fan of reaching over and making random taps/swipes on their screen. If they're texting, attempt to hit the send button before they can correct the malformed text. Smile and say "I'm helping". If nothing else it at least makes me laugh.
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:47 PM
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Even if you do it in an over-the-top ditzy "mean girls" kind of accent?
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:13 AM
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Women aren't like men with looks. To say they don't care at all is stretching it, but whereas men have the HB scale 1-10, women are binary. You are either attractive enough or not attractive enough. It's 0 or 1. Honestly as long as you look like you take reasonable care of yourself, you're probably in the 1 category.
/r/seduction11/09/14 07:20 AM
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Outer game helps you develop inner game. For example, it's all well and good to tell everyone "Just be confident and make the approaches", but the approaches seem a lot less scary when you're starting out if you have an opener or two memorized. But as you use them, you'll develop your own style and eventually stop needing them. So I'd say outer game is kind of like training wheels, and inner game is the end goal.
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:24 AM
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In person or over text what you did was probably fine. On tinder, however, the only adequate response is "ay bb u wan sum fuk". Misspelling and lack of punctuation crucial.
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:21 AM
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Read athol Kay's blog. As far as relationship based game goes, he's pretty solid.
/r/seduction09/09/14 11:54 PM
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The trick is to be genuinely interested in who they are as a person. If you care about getting to know them, conversations flow easily.
/r/seduction08/09/14 06:57 AM
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"Hey guys, let me know next time you go out, I would like to join you!" If they're weird about it, find new friends because they obviously aren't treating you like one. Or just go out alone and make friends while you're out.
/r/seduction07/09/14 04:22 PM
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Yeah, car sex is pretty much what you've got. It's really not so bad.
/r/seduction07/09/14 07:31 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2fnqmh/text_game_transcripts/ Enjoy :)
/r/seduction06/09/14 07:24 PM
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The seduction community's opinion seems to be that text game is inherently harder than in person. I think they need to step up their word-smithing. The lack of body language and tonality is a pain, but no other form of communication gives you ample time to think of a response. For beginners, this is a great way to practice your wit. The rule of text only for logistics is fine, but let's be real, we live in the information age and a good deal of our interactions happen over media like this, so ha…
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:03 PM
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There's always room to improve. Even if you feel like you've reached the peak of your physical attractiveness, and are fine in social situations. Start hitting on hotter women. Find where your sticking points are and focus on those. Hell, if you're a master seducer, intentionally make some blunders and see if you can recover from it to train yourself for a time when it happens on accident.
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:40 PM
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Most of this sub well tell you that it's impossible to build attraction over text and you're better off calling, I personally think it's a matter of style preference. I seem to do well enough with texting. Don't overdo it and smother her, but that goes for calls too.
/r/seduction03/09/14 11:24 PM
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Proceed as you otherwise would, and make sure not to get pissy if she takes a while to respond. She gave you her number and responded to the text, enthusiastically even. Anything else she said doesn't really matter (in the context of how to proceed, anyway).
/r/seduction03/09/14 11:21 PM
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Dude, a cigarette wasn't the only thing she was looking to suck on. If you know what I mean.
/r/seduction30/08/14 10:33 PM
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Look around your campus one day. Count the pretty girls you see. Realize that they are common. From there, you'll stop giving so much of a shit and start interacting with them for what they are - just another college student like you. Don't worry about building confidence yet, that comes naturally with time and practice. But as long as you treat them like a different species, nothing will change.
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:11 AM
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I find "are you single" to be the better wording.Even if they aren't, they're usually quite flattered.
/r/seduction23/08/14 05:33 PM
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Posts like this miss the point of outer game. Specific openers, lines, routines, etc are a crutch. Zack fair is right on point, inner game is what matters, but having a few canned openers does wonders for newbies who would otherwise not approach because they had nothing to say. Even masters sometimes slip up, and having a canned line that you can pull up at a moment's notice sure beats staring at her like an idiot. So yes, inner game and being natural are certainly the way to go, but until you b…
/r/seduction21/08/14 04:36 AM
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If you have nothing in common, you aren't going to work out long term regardless of whether or not you have money =p. So yeah, if you're looking for absolutely free dates, they are there. I said dive bars because they're at least cheap. If she says something about wanting to do something more expensive, just be honest and say you're broke. If she's a gold digger and breaks it off with you, well you dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction03/08/14 03:20 AM
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Just don't even bring it up. You're in the leading role, so you make the decisions on what you're going to do. Tell her you'll pick her up at whatever time, and then just go from there to a park or a dive bar or whatever cheap/free entertainment you feel like doing. If you're being charming, she won't even care what you're doing in the first place, she'll just be happy to be chilling with you.
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:36 PM
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Basically what one of the above posters said. After you asked if you looked good in the shirt, let her start, then say "hahaha I'm kidding, of course I look good in this shirt. I just wanted to come flirt with you". This way you state intention without being like every other guy that approached her that day. Again, kudos for making the approach, and as far as mistakes you can do a lot worse than telling her she's cute. So take my advice with a grain of salt if it isn't your style.
/r/seduction29/06/14 05:14 PM
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The opening was natural, good job going off of what you had to work with. I'd usually stray from complimenting their looks early on in the interaction. It's too common. My two cents.
/r/seduction28/06/14 06:05 PM
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For someone just starting out, it's my opinion that you'll have a better time with day game. As a general rule of thumb, someone that can pull an 8 day gaming can probably pull a 7 night gaming, and a 6 if they're lucky at a club. Places like clubs and concerts are just harder environments, it's harder to hear each other and their focus is going to be hard to take from the provided entertainment. So pick a better venue and just keep trying. Don't feel bad for striking out on 90mph pitches during…
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:28 AM
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Meh. Just don't end up on the site IMO. The more guys there are like that, the more you stand out for knowing proper pacing.
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:26 AM
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Don't worry about ioi's in general. Just game forward. If she's there to meet a guy, you'll see him eventually. If she wants to be left alone to dance she'll turn away from you.
/r/seduction26/06/14 10:41 PM
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Sounds to me like your friends are a bunch of jealous pricks. Don't let it get to you. Keep doing your thing until you find one you enjoy the company of, and then stick with her for a while. Try the malefashionadvice and malehairadvice subreddits if you really feel a need to be more presentable.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:53 PM
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Sure thing, I'll make a followup post Friday for how things went. If there's any teachable moments I'll highlight them, but from my personal experiences dates always go well if you get them interested enough beforehand.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:41 PM
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Are you legitimately over her?
/r/seduction26/06/14 03:14 PM
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Much appreciated! I know one thing that would have helped me when I was learning would have been more real examples like this so I figured I'd pass my (limited) knowledge on for others :)
/r/seduction26/06/14 03:11 PM
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So? Women still go there. Make friends with them and then meet their friends. Meet the men too, if you actually care about the climbing at all. The more climbing partners you have, the better.
/r/seduction26/06/14 06:01 AM
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Game does not know or care whether you want a long term girlfriend or some quick lays. It works either way. Just make your intentions more obvious.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:59 AM
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45 minutes and no reply? People have lives man. One of the best dates I've been on so far came from a girl who took a full day to text back accepting the offer. With that said, you cannot possibly expect to be getting same night lays from day one. Kudos to you for going out and trying, for now you need to focus on your approaches and just generally being able to converse well. You're on the right track though, so keep at it. Day game is waaaay better than night game anyway, IMO.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:56 AM
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What specifically do you want advice on? I'm struggling to find an actual question in that paragraph.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:51 AM
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This. Buying drinks for someone is not necessarily bad, but the conditions for which it becomes good are incredibly specific and it's just much easier to tell people not to buy the drinks. Obviously, don't be a douche and make her pay for everything. But trading off buying rounds with someone that you have already built some attraction with is a perfectly fair way of doing things.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:47 AM
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Lack of attraction was not the problem. She made out with you, that's plenty proof that she was attracted. But did you ever move past the kino and the jokes, and eventually start to actually connect with her? So many people try to just gloss over the comfort stage of flirting. If you don't ever connect with her then at the end of the night you're just going to be left with some jokes and no close. My guess is she was attracted but didn't want to feel like a slut for sleeping with someone she did…
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:41 AM
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