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i concur entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:22 PM
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skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:20 PM
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"cleaner than a washing machine, kylian mbappe sharp as a witches tooth" gotta love ray hudson
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:00 PM
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dont say that just be non-chalant and cool about it reckon
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:55 PM
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cute the pants too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:55 PM
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Okay okay maybe youre right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:16 PM
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No ex would step up now would they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 09:14 PM
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"he prefers doggy, do you know how to arc your back?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:08 PM
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The world is too vast to not look at it in aggregate, dont break your drill..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:07 PM
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I dont like white turtle necks, especially not that kind of weave its so so basic and just raises associations with all sorts of annoying moms and infantalizing women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:57 PM
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I like the kind of stuff you lose sleep over, I also like losing sleep over that kind of stuff. Along those lines I sleep quite well atm due to feeling suprisingly optimistic about that syrian dude..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:55 PM
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I went on a date on saturday and i liked her and told her to just text me if she wants to meet again. I felt like there was chemistry, but she didnt text me so today i texted her, this morning to be precise, and she hasnt even opened hte message and i feel like such an idiot. I usually never chase and not chasing always works and chasing like never works And i really wanted to see her again and sent the message just on the off chance and now its guaranteed she will leave me hanging. Guaranteed! …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:53 PM
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add on: hes only into it because due to the discrepency between implied odds and realized wins is way out of wack in the underground betting scene.. He needs to go in person to maintain his network to learn who is set to win which bout. He doesnt make a lot of money with it, or so he claims, sometimes you over hear phone calls, mutterances of more significant sums and you have sketchy people sitting in your living room every now and then, politely and respectfully leaving should you walk in on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:33 PM
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influence through connection but influence isnt strictly power i think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:16 PM
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Lol why the fuck does it piss your mom off? Im assuming shes not living in the pantry and youre probably at some expensive school. What is helping the people he cares about with his money sacraficing? What makes your mother so entitled? (Assuming its his money, earned by him etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:14 PM
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true, sex is about connection
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:12 PM
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Dude its gonna get better!!! Seriously youre going to have so much more energy to actually leave the house and do stuff (like meet people, go to the market, have mulled wine, christmas shopping) and believe it or not these trivial activities, as impossible as it seems, will make you happy. Smoked weed every day for 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:10 PM
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Totally No but in all seriousness its probably just because I speak inglits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:09 PM
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I tried just doing in the shower which simply doesnt work, water washes away the fluid part of the ejaculate leaving just the stringy semen behind both on walls, the floor and my body. Then all you can do is meticulously pick on little threads of sperm which then stick to your fingers and are impossible to remove, essentially fragmenting an entire ball further into tiny bits, which in the process of removing them have turned into little bits scattered about. I stopped doing it because the fear o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:06 PM
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I cant help it I clench my wrapped throbbing penits and still i end up finding little drips and drops and fluid on my hands
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:59 PM
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no thats a cool reaction I would get involved if she wanted to be supported but if she wants to handle it on her own in this way Id be cool with it and pretty amused actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:56 PM
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I dont consider myself a gooner, but im certainly an edger and every time i blow (even tiny loads) i get cum everywhere its just so messy blacklights need to be banned in my vicinity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:55 PM
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the collective do be too harsh sometimes :((
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:38 PM
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If I only happen to match with foreign girls, does that essentially make me a passport bro??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:37 PM
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everyone does i think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:02 PM
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no I dont even know if I would date a christian (probably would if they werent practicing)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:02 PM
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i google search then fuck it up but i also like the idea of people waiting for him to nod his head in approval, for now hes still watching
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:29 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1h1z55u/gf_cheated_with_rapper/ ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:22 AM
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ah buddy i know youuu, i know you did hehe just admit it- its cool its cool it can stay between the two of us ;))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:15 AM
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or to rephrase women want someone they can relax around and not be expected to be morally superior and "wonderful" all the time what is considered moral/amoral can go from lying and stealing to smoking weed in bed during doggy for example
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:13 AM
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the women that have impossible standards struggle the women that know what they want and can expect dont
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:10 AM
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im not contesting that, im just asking "what is to see here"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:07 AM
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sounds like low tier women also maybe dont tell them you think that about them, pretty sure lots of people would be offended hearing that outright
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:05 AM
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But I'm pretty sure that almost all men aren't going to care how much money a woman has when they decide if they want to have sex with her, of course. women neither unless they are a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:04 AM
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press x
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:02 AM
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Not for me. I need perspective and a vision of a joint life together and since im not rich to the point money is literally meaningless to me im not going to play captain I guess im just not "rich man" Generally I date and strongly prefer to date in my socio-economic circle. Dating up would probably make me feel inferior and insecure, which is not ideal either. assortative mating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:59 AM
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average frustrated chump (aka no sex man)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:52 AM
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Okay I still disagree but thanks for clarifying!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:51 AM
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yes, easily weight matters more than height (to some extent) thats why they have weight classes in virtually ALL fighting sports and not a single height class duh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:46 AM
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no but youre saying: "men check out from dating because of porn". I disagree. Im saying "men check out from dating because of difficulty dating". Pretty sure lots of guys would cancle their porn hub subscription to have sex once. Did I refute that porn exists, is easily available and that struggling me have access to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:35 AM
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bs sex and snuggling are so much better, i find it hard to believe beauty standards would cause the average frustrated chump to just check out. If they did MGTOW would be a lot more common (and less of a movement due to lack of interest) most people just have poor social skills which makes perma interaction with another person hard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:34 AM
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hmm considering that I think hte mods should make an exception for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:32 AM
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nah, couldnt just block people in hte colloseum eihter could you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:29 AM
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Also only AFBB I feel these are not that meta though like LVM and HVM are a lot more relevant than whatever KHV is, right? Same for AFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:27 AM
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yeah feels shitty, feels stupid too but was the right thing to do i think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:24 AM
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ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:19 AM
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whats 21, 23 and 24?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:18 AM
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agree!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:18 AM
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sorry was jus maken food
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:17 AM
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Just ended things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:14 AM
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sounds like a her problem tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:13 AM
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face down, ass up...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:11 PM
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The point isnt to see them as a potential partner, just to find a way to fill the need of a relationship when you dont actually like anyone enough I agree with this actually!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:23 PM
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being pansexual so since I dont have any gender preference (or preference at all) I never viewed anyone around me as potential partners, only potential friends. But then you have a highly differentiated perspective on dating that is not shared by the vast majority of people. I think deriving advice/recommendations for the general public from this position may not very useful for most people. But It seen to be more of a personal experience, never thought that people would look at someone attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:22 PM
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Youre twisting my words. I dont base my friendship on whether I find people attractive or not, I base who I approach as a romantic interest on who find attractive and who not. People that are great people but with whom it didnt work may become friends. But okay, I understand what you mean with friends and using your definition of friends, I would agree with you entirely. Its just that where I come from a "friend" is a clear boundary that implies no significant romantic interest. Even if some peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:17 AM
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no I'm talking about making friends like a normal person and after like 2 years wonder If you would make a good couple and talk about It. So.. dont even approach people you find attractive? Because if youre not befriending them first with intention, and youre not starting to date them with intention then what you just focus on ugly people? I see the wider point youre trying to make and I agree that people rush into things, out of horny or fear of loneliness, instead of taking their time, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:24 AM
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Just go up SHUT UP and LISTEN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:13 PM
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the bar in the mud, this should be baseline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:47 PM
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bruh dont do me like that hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:46 PM
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didnt know you were suffering from hair loss tough luck :[
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 PM
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I honestly think I wouldnt buy that. Using the bath towel? Seriously? Just say you fucked some guy..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:44 PM
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gingko biloba sounds like a guy making vods ranking hair loss products
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:42 PM
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dont EVER be scared of the truth empress
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:42 PM
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didnt fit the context entirely :[
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:38 PM
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I love all women, women are amazing no matter what shape and size men listen and learn! <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:36 PM
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but women are wonderful..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:36 PM
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yeaahhh you go gurrrrl!!!! Whoooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:28 PM
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man guhd womhn bad!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:25 PM
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maybe blame women- easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:23 PM
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The more sex you have the more you want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:20 PM
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heck i might too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:20 PM
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good morning yall love living in cali, sun is shining, gonna ride my 911 along the beach promenade, enjoy life winter city poors
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:19 PM
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stalking and obsession has not never not worked out for me ever
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:16 PM
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agreed but big dick dont matter as much as experience, good dicking and nonchalance her having loved another more
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:13 PM
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reverse is what my peepee look like when guzzling cum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:12 PM
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just slide into dms and double text as much as you can, tried and true strat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:09 PM
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twinks are built to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:08 PM
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i know nothing about the life of my limmerence, except for that she thinks im a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:07 PM
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him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:11 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:05 PM
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but buddy.... i wasnt talking about her now was i? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:04 PM
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you dont need to explain stuff to me 🤷‍♂️ im a man after all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:02 PM
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i dont like things that are needlessly loud, if i did, id get a dog, or a motorcycle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:00 PM
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also in your era
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:58 PM
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it wasnt handed to him some things are a race and you are late if hes aware he will know to appreciate it, if hes not he may easily already be bored as they say: behind every beautiful woman stands a man already tired of her shit (men suck)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:57 PM
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vitriol with tonic pls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:53 PM
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adventurous, bossy and bubbly are not negatives in my book what is a negative is using boring cliches terms and phrases to describe yourself i dont care who you think you are, ill make up my own mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:51 PM
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I dont like babies either though its only once they can talk that kids get interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:48 PM
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is false could just go look at yahoo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:48 PM
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sigh🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:45 PM
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yeah blood guzzlers rule 🤟
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:44 PM
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how is your inner child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:27 PM
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👑
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:26 PM
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Q4M: burst hemorrhoids or period blood? (no condom okay, but you also have one at hand)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:23 PM
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"tension is the currency needed to play the cum machine" -2024
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:20 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/context be reasonable, otherwise how the hell will we ever find concesus here. Moderation of opinion, good faith is what I say...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:06 PM
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and how many fingers does he have?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:01 PM
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to assume means making an "ass" out of "u" and "me" a little thing for you to remember im very well endowed regarding my extremities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
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probably ask if shes really sure she came across as playful and flirty or if she just thinks she did also if there is no chemistry and no vibe, which it sounds like, leave it...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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only date women that patted your testes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:48 PM
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thats private man!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
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no not her lol <image> but hes dating someone else healthy bmi also blond
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
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would you give a finger, for an extra finger of girth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:44 PM
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he got a blondy gf... and that despite his nose and the nasal sound he makes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:42 PM
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yeah i figured that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:42 PM
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yeah enjoy youre pretty fingie priviledge, you get everything given in life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:41 PM
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would you give a finger for a finger more girth?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:39 PM
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You know ironically, I dont think women should consult red pill for dating men for the same reason redpill doesnt advocate asking women for dating advice on how to date women. Redpill knows nothing about dating men as a woman, women should ignore it beyond curiousity and wanting to expand perspective a little..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:38 PM
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yeah but they wouldnt commit. Her problem obviously is not getting fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:36 PM
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She is terrible at vetting. Not being impressed with men at 18-22 is fine, i mean I guess ideally you like men, have male friends and are genuinely into them. Not sure what I would recommend at 30 especially considering she does seem to have experience dating. The whole christian stuff is a huge turn of for me personally, but anyway it sounds like dudes are just fucking her without really wanting to commit which seems like an underlying personality issue. I am getting the impression that she has…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:36 PM
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pff i forecast snow downtown every friday night
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:30 PM
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because on average there are 10 times as many fingers as people, which should be more than enough but even despite that fact, its not enough to keep women satisfied female exclusionism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:28 PM
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trying to get banned so I can focus more attention on playing league, plus BP deserves to win sometimes, so im switching sides!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:05 PM
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q4a: how you rate this guy? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FaLoDVWvnLg&ab_channel=JoshKobayashi (suprise he got 10 fingers ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:01 PM
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thats gross, why now use an axe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:51 PM
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femoid hivemind artificially constricting the cumguzzles to retain high MV. Literally the de Beers of the genders...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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at level 30? Nah they still got game, need to go in with prep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:45 PM
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age is a female concept invented to retain a system of oppression under cumguzzlism its a core element of the propacumda
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:43 PM
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grift until death do us part... ever wonder why he died before he went back to his kingdom?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:40 PM
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jesus was god in human form and still no gf, more evidence women unrealistic expectations covers flying off left and right!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:36 PM
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idk i kinda enjoy the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:35 PM
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femcelmods doing their utmost to keep the truth under wraps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:32 PM
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chads have 10 fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:28 PM
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werent you talking about missing your ex just earlier today? i saw the lengthy post you made before you deleted it. Just wanted to say sex isnt everything and she probably gained a few pounds too...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:26 PM
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jesus didnt check mate atheist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:25 PM
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ugawuga boink boink *whistles* awuuuaaaauuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:49 PM
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anecdotal stats dont lie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:47 PM
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I would really really appreciate one tbh haha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:42 PM
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ex gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:39 PM
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women only love men with 5 fingers game is rigged if you only have 4, explain this feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:38 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yL76EbSZ_7k&ab_channel=MillenniaThinker This sub trying to talk to blackpillers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:36 PM
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maybe then its just dynamics, things working in the past not working in the future buoyed by momentum but a clear trend heading downwards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:04 AM
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working class is not middle class, middle class is bourgoise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:02 AM
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economy is shit (effect on jobs/salaries) and taxes are bound to increase exponentially if the pension systems arent fixed.. that shit is really threatening societal collapse and all of the good stuff above
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:57 PM
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sit on it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:34 AM
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No everyone gets that. Youre not clever by realizing that. No one has an issue with age gaps in general. 10y+ age gaps early in life are huge though and imply one side has had MASSIVE developmental delay, which is odd at best or simply unbelievable at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:33 AM
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Where am I disagreeing with that? Dating is something fundamental to human life that most people pursue. Its not some niche hobby, or related to tool use. What I am saying holds for the vast majority of people. Or are you going to refute that claim? Its not illegal for 30+ to date an 18yo but its certainly odd for a 30+ to only have the same experience as an 18yo and indicative of a lot of issues at best. Eitherway people are going to judge that and youre going to have to suck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:31 AM
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pretty well roled looks like a dutch prerolled (little weed, lots of baccie)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:39 PM
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my type
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:37 PM
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But not the only socially acceptable (bio) ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:32 PM
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dont forget to recycle your fingernails to for extra keratin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:30 PM
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it does for the vast majority of people regarding the vast majority of things sorry if youre "delayed" in development aka retarded, then this may not apply to you, however society is not going to change its general perspective first judgement based on retarded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:12 PM
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yeah, said stem nerd is still lame if he is dating people with the same exerpience level as him 10y younger. Its like someone graduating university mid 30s, same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:04 PM
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Different people holding different opinions is not hypocracy, especially on a debate sub where people with various opinions come to interact. Since when has there been concensus here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:00 PM
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The young woman can pray on older men for their money, lifestyle etc. Someone with more experience is more adept at recognizing this, better at setting and defending boundaries, better at protecting themselves of it. Thats the whole point why experience matters. What benefit experience brings in anything. Youve heared of, seen things before as well as how they play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:22 PM
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gaining a few pounds over christmas, to the extend that the partner is aware of it, then gaining a few more over easter and making no intentions of losing them before summer I guess? As I said its not really about fitness necessarily, could be other things too where its clear youre taking them for granted and are not keeping level
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:15 PM
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enlighten me, what do you think is better <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:19 PM
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hes not talking about dating and going on dates. He is talking about meeting women in nightclubs and bars, through friends whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:17 PM
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Sometimes not being the "chaser" is more attractive to women. There's something attractive to many of them about a confident guy who is able to spend time with them and be fun/engaging without immediately being compelled to "shoot his shot." It also allows attraction/tension to build for longer even if he does end up "shooting his shot" at some other point, and (if she is socially skilled) gives her a chance to process their interactions and decide whether or not to consciously signal interest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:16 PM
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Year after year, the quality of the best affordable and legal entertainment gets better. While women stay the same. Kinda a pathetic take, sounds like skill issue to me. MDMA, being a mono-amine releasing agent is capable of producing one of the strongest entactogenic (in contrast to hallucigenic) serotinergic highs possible. The only other thing on this planet that exceeds that is physical touch with someone you love. And youre talking about watching TV. Check my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:02 PM
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why would someone, that has 0 issues having sexual partners, but is discovering that being more selective based on his option set is liberating, suddenly go volcel? only read the headline?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:56 AM
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excuse me? well what are your criteria :}
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:49 AM
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relevant question I understand why youre asking it, ive been in LTRs but am currently at the beginning of a new situationship, so this post is not ultra relevant to my life, but I know what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:43 AM
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Letting yourself go is about not becoming slovenly and lazy, not about the changes that occur due to age, circumstances, or health. Not argueing this, I agree. Being a good life mate, which means not making the other miserable is worth a heck of a lot more in marriage then a trip to the gym. Missing the point by focussing on gym. Slacking off can refer to anything relevant in your relationship. I dont go to the gym and havent in previous relationships. Still the core of OPs message holds true, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:42 AM
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A woman you already fucked, who is getting older and less valuable day by day is gonna leave you and you are free to pursue younger hotter women. That supposed to be a threat ? Lol. How is pursueing younger women going for you now that youre divorced? Arent you the one saying youd choose your ex? People predominantly date in their age range, at least when it comes to serious relationships, everything else is cope fantasy. Anyway I would just rephrase this to "A woman who is getting older and les…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:39 AM
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letting yourself go means slacking off, you can apply "slacking off" can mean what you need it to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:35 AM
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replace exercise with anything else that matters in your relationship in my relationships showing initiative was more important than staying fit, the overall message is the same though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:32 AM
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okay but OP is still right, if you or him lose attraction its over eventually, not losing attraction means making an effort, making an effort is "acting" only insofar as you consider "not being lazy when wanting to be lazy" as "acting"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:17 AM
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Isnt this what RP married is for, to emphasize youre never really out of the dating game Personally I think the biggest things are: keeping tension/sexual tension somewhat alive (element of uncertainty- flirting, physical separation) make sure your partner feels appreciated (active listening, showing initiative, being considerate) retain independence, pursue own interests independently (to remain interesting, have reason to separate physically for some time) provide perspective (where its going …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:16 AM
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in all fairness there will be, but they may be rare especially if youre exceptionally risk averse. Success and survival means taking on risk. Avoiding all risk is not a feasible strategy and it a really unattractive characteristic. You need to be able to trade-off risk v payoff at least somewhat as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:12 AM
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youre the guy that think its worth meeting parents before laying pipe of course you dont understand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:09 AM
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women love that!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:06 AM
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Always either or ive been a loser countless times and am pretty delulu right now I take the wins in stride (and dont celebrate)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:04 PM
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then youre a loser i guess 🤷‍♂️ or delulu and realize its time to wake up <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:00 PM
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Nah dude they have horrible ratings, im not down to watch garbage like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:57 PM
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seen trainspotting and requiem, both great movies but im not so down for the drug agony right now. Leon is weird, I prefer NP as a woman. Nightcrawler sounds interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:56 PM
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looks too scary for me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:53 PM
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not if you get what you really want eventually I usually get what I really want, but with extra steps and sometimes these extra steps feel like failure in the moment, when ultimately they are just delayed gratification my problem is that my timeline is messed up, so often when I need a victory I dont get it, and when I get it I no longer have time or desire to celebrate it..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:46 PM
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Under consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:28 PM
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Seen, wasnt huge on it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:23 PM
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Q4A: Movie suggestions (got a night for myself, lemond in the fridge, snackies in the cupboard, cozy blanket) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Against: - No romcoms (not feeling lonely) - No horror - No comedy (dont need to be cheared up) - No emotional drama or heart wrenchers (irritating) For: - Thrillers - Anime - Psycho - Mindfuck - Plot twist - Dialog - Intense - Cat & Mouse - Dark/Dystopian ------------------------…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:12 PM
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start running you sound like my ex and running was her main cope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:34 PM
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instant abandon jesus id feel so mugged
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:32 PM
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ah yes we had this discussion before!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:30 PM
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what does he say when he wants to express his indifference about something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:30 PM
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could also just be a changing cabin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:12 PM
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sounds like youre feeling threatened
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:11 PM
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its neither easy nor widespread, it does affect a substantial chunk. Establishing the closest and most intimate relationship possible with someone who previously was a stranger is not a trivial thing and for that matter quite a lot of people across the board from high to low iq, high to low social status manage to pull it off some how
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:10 PM
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just like with homelessness similarily mental illness is a leading cause for hoelessness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:08 PM
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pretty ripped for a guy that needs a line per thought
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:07 PM
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does trump say "couldnt care less" or "could care less" kinda relevant for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:06 PM
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Yet you can't even hold yourself responsible for dating women you don't even like. 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:40 PM
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Yeah Im not buying this. I think it be better to criticise any apology as pure appeasement rather than truely internalizing their fault and intending to change. To which I would say, well thats still better than not ever conceeding, but you didnt say that and I think both behaviours are typical of shitty people and not gender specific (booooring), but hey still better than the unsubstantiated nonesense you wrote. Shrinking off responsiblity doesnt justify excessive pride, entitlement and inabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:39 PM
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im assuming op was in pursuit of sexual intercourse in parallel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:32 PM
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Just stand your ground. Women apologize when "wanting something from you" > their pride. You cant negotiate respect. Also as shitty as it sounds, this is probably true for all people, not just women, men usually dont bend over backwards for other men they are not trying to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:30 PM
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Amzing stuff, also youre like the first person to make it look good and not just lazily do it on google sheets. I like the n-count graphs they make it quite easy to compare yourself to others. Maybe post it in the survey thread so I can go back to it later
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:13 PM
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The question whether a high n-count holds women back needs to be normalized from general dating struggles because someone that struggles with dating cant have a high n-count. So obviously people that are good at dating are a lot more likely to have higher n-counts. Furthermore more experience decreases dating struggles, therefore high n-count in a way makes dating easier. That kinda means that we dont have linear effects here. So if easy dating means higher n-count and higher n-count means easy …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:01 PM
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Youre already being selfish kinda. If you communicate clearly that you have no intentions with them and they stick around anyway its on them, honestly. Maybe a change in mindset helps. Why do you need men for validation? Doesnt that make you weak and dependent? Wouldnt you rather be independent? Attachment issues are very common. You have to figure this out yourself, but its certainly holding you back. I kinda got over some of mine by getting used to someone being physically close and expressive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:05 AM
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What I mean is there "sufficiently attractive" in the sense that if they are your type, them being more or less attractive doesnt really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:42 AM
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when polls closed we know the winner? So we can assume that we know by 5 November tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:43 PM
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When will the results be resulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:39 PM
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no no ofc not, that would be horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:37 PM
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<image> Im not impressed by >30 dating <25. Its lame at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:28 PM
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Gotta be careful with pride. Pride isnt necessarily bad and can make for interesting people, but you gotta know where the line is. Pride is only okay if you can swallow it, thats the limit for size. Dont choke on it. AND EVEN IF that never happens out of shear luck, good people will have enough of it eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:24 PM
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I think its good. It means you keep your person. Also some distance allows for reflection and rekindles longing and desire. Generally im also team seeing partner every day and making plans for the weekend, but I think doing things separately too every day is healthy. Also when intimacy is withering a little bit a small break may be in order. Thats my experience at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:22 PM
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A bunch of people are calling me gay on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:19 PM
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What are you argueing man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:57 PM
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It doesn't have to be "perfect". It's simply a fact that the more compatible you are with someone, the more likely you are to have a peaceful happy relationship with them. And if you are not compatible with someone, especially on important issues, you are foolish to pursue a relationship with them. I agree. Its just impossible to know this ahead of time. But nothing you've said is an argument against the very real fact that the more compatible you are with your partner, the better the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:48 PM
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No im not. You just dont see how "change" can be related to something thats not dependent on ability to compromise. Also no one is perfectly emotionally compatible. Some people are more broken than others, some people fit better than others, but there is no perfect. Not being perfect doesnt mean youre not emotionally compatible. Some people work on themselves, some people dont. Sometimes people improve at various rates. This can put strain on something that worked before.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:35 PM
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you can make it simpler, but times changes, contexts change, people change, looks change Everyone whos been in an LTR knows that and knows that it means taking steps and changing together. Its not pick once and be set forever. Thats childish fantasy..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:29 PM
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if life was so simple, so static
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:01 AM
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But thats not what they saying are they? They are not advocating for it at all, matter of fact they acknowledge that its shitty literally first things first. You failing to grasp the overall point is on your reading comprehension skills. It's not that monkey branching is wrong, it's that we are fooled into believing that humans will not act in their own self interest when time comes. This does not mean OP thinks monkey branching isnt wrong. It means monkey branching is wrong, but being so naive …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:58 AM
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This is some of the best shit ive read on here, clearly worded, not delusional, clear premise-argument-conclusion structure and its not even misogynist beyond maybe the assertion that women monkey branch and men dont. Have you read nearly any other post on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:18 AM
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Yeah the idea of commitment that a lot of inexperienced virgin seeking RP have is probably meaningless. Commitment doesnt mean endless devotion. Good luck trying to be come a deity to someone. Commitment just means to stop dating and to stop looking, not that someone is going to be committed forever. What OP rightfully points out is that they can stop being committed at any time, not because its right, but because they can and that if you dont pick up on it, you can be dumped out the blue. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:16 AM
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Better in this case can mean more tangible interest, more attention, more effort, more excitement of the other person, compared to current partner. Monkey branching is just the act of pursueing potential partners whilst in a relationship, it doesnt necessarily involve an aspect of "being traded for someone better". Saying monkey branching is just a nightmare is a bit dismissive to say, when the fear of being broken up with out the blue is totally a valid fear. As OP said the issue isnt that peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:08 AM
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People need to be taught that monkey branching can happen to them so they are not caught off guard. We are never really out of dating market and relationships tend to create a false sense of security. It's not that monkey branching is wrong, it's that we are fooled into believing that humans will not act in their own self interest when time comes. So we are given false expectations. Fully agree. First redpill non-shitpost I see on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:03 AM
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I guess the finale just always does the trick for these guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:39 PM
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Looks like a shitty misandrist minority, doubt its thousands of women. Its maybe like 200 in total on a few select twitter posts, not everwhere online. Apart from that I find it enraging too, but why get all salty about a few shitty women. Link the post you saw, because im pressing X on that. <image> I know I know no simping! but seriously come on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:11 PM
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I think the concept of "special interest" is already flawed and antiquated. The mindset here is pretty much "we dont know each other, lets see if its fun to hang around, lets find out if we like each other". Believing the other person is "special" before ive gotten to know them would seem weird and desperate. Similarily women dont want to feel like they "owe" anything. At the end of the day I still pay quite often, but usually out of convenience because its smoother than splitting a bill for a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:15 PM
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We're homeowners ffs good for you, it wouldnt even make sense for me to buy a new car. Matter of fact I dont even own a tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:56 PM
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yeah I hate those couples, I wanna call them cowards for settling so early, but it also feels like they did every thing right and its me that missed the bell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:54 PM
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I wish more quality women were single in their late 20s and early 30s. Lets be honest many many people get coupled up at 23 and are then too scared to try something new, possibly better, like me! Some times I wonder if being a late bloomer that wasnt ready to settle early makes me lose at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:53 PM
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Im a bit younger but Ive never dated a woman that was as materialistic as described here. That being said, the only women I ever went out with that seemed to expect me to pay in the first place was US American.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:48 PM
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No not really
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:43 PM
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according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:37 PM
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Do fantasies exist in a vacuum? No, why are you asking? What about the rest I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:36 PM
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lol half the people on this subreddit are already into mbti, did you miss the survey results? This is a debate sub, people are here to argue and the type skew is very evident haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:20 PM
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Post is clearly meant to trigger all the entp women on this subreddit, have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:03 PM
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Another post thats clearly just fantasy or theory without any real world experience. What you are talking about doesnt actually exist. Most people start calming down past 25. People can change, that goes for the inconspicuous or bullied loser girl in highschool as much as the effervescent party girl in her early 20s. Preferences change, lifestyles can change, people bond with who they vibe with, wherever they are. a lot of guys can’t imagine what else there is to “do” with her sounds like a you …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:57 PM
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I have a weakness for really pretty women :( gotta save my self-respect for walking when they dont treat me right. For when they dont want to commit and just keep me as an option. Cant waste it on something as trivial as an eventful past life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:17 PM
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I agree. Id be like really? >:| Okay :[ and that be the end of it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:05 PM
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I have basically accepted N-count could easily be 3-4x higher than my own and thats unpaid, just for pleasure, for validation, out of boredom. Yeah sex work would still bother me, but if it was limited in time and extent and effectively traceless as part of "self-discovery" during the early 20s I guess Id swallow it. I mean what are you gonna do..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:03 PM
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How is this different from how things are right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:40 PM
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ya fair enough, would probably blind side me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:37 PM
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Say you start dating someone that calls themselves center or moderate leaning conservative and you say ah whatever hes a good guy and avoid the topic. Then election comes around and youre forced to have serious discussions around stuff for the first time. Then you realize youre not actually compatible value wise. Then instead of saying, ah I avoided having political discussions because I liked it in the moment but its not feasible, people will say omg I cant believe ive been so blind, they trick…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:25 PM
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mogg eat mogg world welcome to tha Rizznit <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:17 PM
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yeah but all of this happens fairly immediately right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:11 PM
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Okay fine, glad you got the point at least. So whats your business here? Just the will to argue with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:00 PM
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I see yeah that answers it. So you make the cut, then your good and just need to make sure it vibez™️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:57 PM
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Yes exactly this is purely about semantics, because semantics matters when youre getting to know someone! Because especially when you dont know someone the impression that they leave on you is heavily dependent on the way they come across, where word choice obviously plays a crucial role. And thats all im saying. This is maybe the one place where semantics really matters. Arguing on semantics. You sound like those annoying-ass polyamory activist who are like: ''Don't say if you cheat on me, I wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:16 PM
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okay sure then The point was that parading ones allegiance to leftism and feminism aggressively und uncompromisingly comes across as needlessly hostile and therefore unattractive to many men, even ones that are feminists and egalitarian liberals themselves. You not getting it doesnt trigger me in any way. Other people got it. Take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:09 PM
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You dont need to be RP or PUA necessarily to get with women. You just need game. And women like men with game, they just dont want to have it explained to them. --------------------------------------------------------------------- Game is not about lying and deceiving. Its about being playful, charismatic and charming. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it. Having a sense for subtext and implied meanings. Women like that. Women generally dont like having game explained to them be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:30 PM
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Q4W: Is womens attraction more off a cut-off as in "sufficiently attractive" beyond which it doesnt really matter, or are there finer grades resulting in definitive rankings of attractiveness? If this question cant be answered generally, consider people adhereing to your specifc type or preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:58 AM
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tall 🥹 men™️ can spot danger in the tall grass faster 🌿 🐆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:40 AM
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I mean it with respect to dating someone that clearly has political views that are going to be a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:32 AM
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Yeah thats probably what it means! I also have mine set to liberal, because I dont want people to think im a conservative even if im the most moderate in a leftwing skewing environment, that doesnt actually make me center anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:31 AM
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... just read what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:18 AM
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I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:15 AM
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Oh I see what you mean. Thats an interesting take to have on it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:05 AM
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Most high n-count women I know dont actively pursue and fail at LTR. You cant rack up numbers that high without dating just for sake of your own enjoyment. The virgin sounds insecure and like she may have a need to "explore", not sure I would feel to comfortable in that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:04 AM
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Clearly number 1 Im assumning the guys are people I dont know. 100+ is A LOT no doubt but at my age its possible for someone that doesnt have any issues meeting people and hasnt been in a long term relationship. The latter is actually more of a yellow flag, the +100 can just be hedonism paired with the possibility of pursueing it. I also like the idea of someone that has a very good sense of their self-worth, has seen a lot, is not or no longer easily impressed and deliberately chooses me. Its e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:59 PM
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Idk for me, I care a lot about geo-politics and am actually quite informed about it. Right at the start of the israel hamas war I was confronted with a lot of left wing people openly supporting hamas (stances have shifted since then, but in the beginning people were openly celebrating the attack on israel) and excusing the slaughter of civilians. I tuned into Hasan Piker just to familiarize myself with the views of the mainstream left and I was kinda baffeld by the ferocity with which he would s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:45 PM
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Ive just seen it a lot and thought Id bring it up. But yes, Im projecting a lot, youre right. Not wanting to romantically engage with someone who doesn’t share your core values is perfectly reasonable I agree, as I said. and there’s nothing wrong with the way she expressed it, are you scared of the f word? I disagree for the reasons I mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:34 PM
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what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:55 PM
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yeah i think so At least he is spreading misinformation to a massive audience, that then gets amplified in his echo chamber and contributes to the polarization of political discussion. People get genuinely very upset about some stuff thats just no true, and it results in them having beliefs and opinions that are very critical of other people or potential enemies. I consider that spreading hatred. Worst thing about him is that he is 100% aware of it, he is absolutely doing it deliberately. The na…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:51 PM
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<image> q4w: serious question, who, how, what do I have to be to have a chance? Imagine seeing her with a man, what is the minimum that would make you say "okay I guess I can kinda get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:44 PM
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<image> what ever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 09:42 PM
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🤝 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:56 PM
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i didnt say you were
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:56 PM
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Breed, for lack of a better word, is good breed is right breed works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:48 PM
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stop hallucinating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:47 PM
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make em skinny and small tittied 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:14 PM
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hassan sucks soo much. What a huge demagogue. Dude should be charged for lying and inciting hatred in stupid people and for what? Money and clout, disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 07:53 PM
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lol this is exactly what i mean. I am absolutely free to discuss what I want on here as long as its not against the rules. What about it doesnt make sense? Isnt this conversation over, you think its worth it, I think it makes people less attractive, fine we disagree then. Either way here we are, with you overly defensively telling me what I can and cant have opinions on, what I can and cant argue or talk about because Ive had a problem with something youve said. Point made. And unrelated to femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:21 PM
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Welcome to a debate sub lol. I can take what you say and express my opinion on it, that how this whole thing works. :) But I guess if I have a problem with it, I can fuck off amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:06 PM
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Am looking. But also kinda picky and I dont have thaat many options, so it might take some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:03 PM
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Lol I do. Obviously im not mad at people making it easy for me to sort them out. Still from their perspective its not a smart thing to put in their profile. Its poor and thats all im saying. Thats why lots of people dont specifically use a prompt to clarify exactly their political stance because even when its worded well it can come across as overbearing. If a guy has a problem with me being a leftist feminist then they can f*** off I see stuff like this, worded like this ALL THE TIME. Lots of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:54 PM
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Depends what you mean with apolitical. I like having lots of friends and can appreciate people for various things. Not everyone needs to be into everything or good at everything. So excluding everyone I deem not really that interested in or up to date with politics, would mean that I miss out on a lot of great people. Doesnt seem worth it. Im the one whos into politics, if they want to know whats up and what I think they come to me, same how I go to them for things they are good or natural at.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:38 PM
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because I say I'm a leftist feminist on my profile. Thats really not the issue. I live in a multi million people western city, everyone I meet can be expected to be a leftist feminist. Its not counter culture, its mainstream. You dont just say youre leftist feminist. Its how you say it thats a problem. "if you have a problem you can fuck off!" thats the message im reading it and says a lot about you. Its not humble, its aggressive and hostile. Who words stuff like that on a dating platform? Imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:33 PM
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I mean depending on company I also keep my mouth shut regarding certain things, wouldnt bring up half the views I have on women™️ in public that I may discuss here. In public women are wonderful and strong, only to be criticised with extreme care and generally feminism rules supreme no matter what stream, thought or momentary interpretation. Ofc my real views are a lot more nuanced and whilst I genuinely like expressing them, most of the time its not the place, or there is no time or other perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:27 PM
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Because people make mistakes and acknowledging mistakes is easy when bitching than when saying "I did a stupid and dumb thing and that makes me stupid and dumb I guess".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:19 PM
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If a guy has a problem with me being a leftist feminist then they can f*** off Its this kind of attitude that makes me swipe left on radical leftist feminists. I consider myself a feminist, and im progressive too, but I dont need somebody who talks down to me, has no interest in listening or having their perspective challenged. Im not looking to be dominated. To clarify, I dont have a problem with the message, I agree that if something is very important to you then people that go against said co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:18 PM
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Take away is that hot people are often confident and confident people dont need to make their entire identity about a few issues. Confident people dont need to take a stand for everything or assert their views on everything to feel relevant. But yes maybe they also care less because they have "better things to do", apostrophes because I like politics, think its interesting and relevant but have lots of friends that dont really care. What bothers me more are people that dont care about politics b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:07 PM
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If you are looking to hookup no one gives a shit what your political beliefs are. Ah idk, im progressive but I dont go out with extreme leftists. I dont wanna say "hello" and be told not to mansplain.. just too exhausting I dont dont seem to meet conservative young women in the city, so its really just the left im concerned with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:03 PM
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Why talk about STIs at length then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:23 AM
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good sex is amazing, bad sex is just eh paired with a lot of awkwardness and having to hang around and make conversation with someone you dont really care about but need to accommodate aka a huge waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:20 AM
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Society telling men that committed men are losers and chads are desireable, when its really just bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:17 AM
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You can get that in a monogamous committed relationship, real options exist <3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:15 AM
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I had high hopes for this post. I thought it was going to be about removing the toxic belief that having lots of ONS with strangers is a prequisite for "having made it" and being a "valuable man". I am not argueing that status doesnt exist, but men should measure themselves by the quality of partners they can attract for LTR and the options they have in pursuit of meaningful relationships and not the quantity of ONS they can have. The only reason you think lots of ONS is great is because you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:14 AM
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Or couple without children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:42 PM
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I know youre a misandrist, but if youre so concerned about earning potential as a woman, dont have kids, simple as that. Expecting men to take equal time off is fair, but you cant expect men to cover loss of potential earnings, thats rediculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:39 PM
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I’m sorry, your question was about whether she should have to pay you back for her 50% share of household expenses while she is literally disabled by doing 100% of carrying your child???🤦‍♀️ Thanks I nearly missed this!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:34 PM
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hey half this sub especially the women are entpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:05 PM
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A lot of “high value” men on Reddit being debate lords at all hours lol. isnt it already established that this sub is full of male and female entps looking to get rubbed the wrong way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:18 PM
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both is engaging, chasing comes after engaging. I also differentiate between pursuit and chasing, and I think for me its just semantics but im obviously not advocating that men should stop making an effort, showing interest and following up on women they are interested in. All of that is good and necessary, just dont... chase. Idk how to put it. I think most people get what they mean. People that "love the chase" definitely get what I mean. But loving the chase is always about validation. For me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:07 PM
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and they say men dont have options (those women are also people looking for love)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:03 PM
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im also already excited for snow, hope it snows here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:01 PM
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who doesnt like eating kitty (except for male homosexuals and people with hairy girlfriends maybe)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:01 PM
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what makes you think that and why does it matter? How does pointing that out make your prejudiced decision making any less bigoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:59 PM
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enlighten me buddy, what you mean with this riddle of a response except for the very covert "me not likey >:("
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:56 PM
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??? Men and women and non binary people kill women. Women also kill men and non binary people etc. On a planet with 7 billion people virtually everything is bound to occur. Yes on aggregate men are more violent, no one is argueing that. Again whats your point with pointing this out. It doesnt make jumping to conclusions about a specific unknown individual any less discriminatory. Its still bigoted. In this case sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:54 PM
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yeah the insta lady is not going to change her mind if someone gets a car. In case of baldness, if you getting hair makes you more attractive and attraction is visceral, meaning it cant be reasoned or negotiated with. Either it will make an impact or it wont, worth a shot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:37 PM
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Same is true for men, most violence is men on men, and men are not a minority. I dont see your point? My point is: just because someone is a man doesnt make them violent. It makes them more likely to be violent but that should not impact your treatment because thats jumping to conclusions about a specific unknown individual and discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:34 PM
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really depends, im leaning generally no unless it literally has to do with logistics/feasibility Im saying this because not having a car is a feasibility issue, same goes for general distance or work related reasons. If both of us have no money and need to find a job, maybe we should focus on that first, if both of us live in different countries how would it even work, if for some specific reason i need to date someone that is flexibile in terms of mobility etc. So then if you remove these barri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:32 PM
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Its annoying but its a good sign. Imagine having a girlfriend that doesnt care about and doesnt want your attention. That be a depressing ass situation to be in. That kinda doesnt make it seem too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:27 PM
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I think the loving parents comparison is quite good actually. However lots of people make the best out of not having had loving parents, even if many people are pretty fucked up by them. The bottom line is life isnt fair or moral and never has been, all you can do is make the best out of it. Having shitty parents just sucks. Not having a gf also just sucks. The difference is you can continue looking for a romantic partner, not for new parents. So people should be more optimistic about continuein…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:25 PM
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Where I am from making assumptions about people based on their skin colour is considered racist even if the statistics imply a higher likelihood of such an individual belonging to a more potentially dangerous subgroup. Thats the same kind of facts and logic you are using. Personally I think the issue is that there is a fine line between being reasonable and being bigotted and that line is too fine for most people to respect. The reason is that saying "this man is likely a rapist" will result in …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:57 PM
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yeah i guess its challenging because people hit would probably not be safe. im just always happy i live in a part of the world where things like this just dont happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:45 PM
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yay okei feir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:43 PM
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Maybe, either way youre not in the wrong communicating that. The women that are my friends would probably tell me they dont see me that way if I told them I developed feelings and it be disappointing, but being my friends I would strongly expect them to like me enough to not be digusted. You dont feel and especially dont communicate disgust for people you genuinely respect even if you dont find them attractive at all. Maybe avoid doing a move though, if there are no iois and you dont think you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:38 PM
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I would just be the creepy guy going around asking out every girl at the bar Yeah dont do that. Then wait for something to come up that lets you discriminate and pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:34 PM
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Cold approach if you feel like she's cute even if it's a funeral. Coffin looks cozy, whatcha say wanna hop in? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:32 PM
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I think this is misunderstanding the situation. First of all cold approaching is fine, if youre respectful, it just pretty hard and doesnt work very well. The gut punch women talk about is only in case male friends say they have liked them all this time. Ofc its a gut punch beacuse they basically lied about their true intentions. For some reason guys think saying something like that makes it better (idk i guess because it shows more commitment, or its the truth and the truth is always good..). I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:31 PM
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the take about cold approach being objectifying at least makes some logical sense. No it doesnt. Attraction is visceral. Approaching someone you find attractive is forward but it makes sense. What doesnt make sense is asking a stranger to marry them but there are worlds between "I find you attractive would you be interested in getting to know each other" and "youre so beautiful marry me".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:25 PM
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might wanna start to get invited to weddings 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:21 PM
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dig in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:21 PM
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wasnt exactly challenging for me, its quite far away. In all actuality it be expensive for me to even consider getting close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:20 PM
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no because chasing women doesnt get you laid. Not chasing women gets you laid. Its not attractive to surrender all leverage, displaying endless iois to someone that is giving you a slither of attention in return. Dudes that dont chase maintain leverage and tension thereby up their chances of getting laid. Dudes who chase surrender all leverage, make it way to easy, fully validate and become uninteresting pretty much immediately. The ONLY exception is insecure women with low self-esteem that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:14 PM
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I say and im like the doge of the venetian republic so i must know No one is publishing anything in undergrad unless youre exceptionally gifted and are doing i genuine research as a side hustle When people say paper they mean research paper not term paper
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:12 PM
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dont use it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:54 PM
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still do I also think the drummer in this video is hot (im straight) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_3hALBro5c&ab_channel=GlassBeams and its making me consider stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:53 PM
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I need to stop having fun with people on this sub lest i get banned again will get back into tattoo considerations shortly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:47 PM
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looks like my prefered shower gel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:46 PM
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a paper is something you publish not a teeny-tiny homework assignment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 PM
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Sorry Its not available in your language or english anyway :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:39 PM
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Its a social novel, but the social aspect is just about different people living together and not about things related to wokeness, minorities or social class, so that makes it really interesting, because its just characters and people struggling against each other, without wanting to drive home some ideological point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:34 PM
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yeah dont want to get doxxed, it would make it pretty easy to determine where i live regionally at least I got to comfortable in the daily thread and typed away a bit too casually :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:25 PM
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no its not chasing comes afterwards chase implies the person is moving away from you, not "is unaware of you" Also women that are clearly uninterested cant be chased only harrassed. The distinction is pretty clear and intuitive to most people besides ones with limmerence. In either way most men that "chase" run after women that give them basic iois but arent actually interested enough to start something. Chasing returns this by signalling strong ioi and willingness to commit. Women can then chos…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:22 PM
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I guess But the bottom line is to not waste time and to find something better to do with the time. To have minimum self-respect and I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:18 PM
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After being banned i needed to find some other outlet besides playing league till my eyes bleed, so I just got into the best book of a best-seller author here that apparently everyone and their mother read and its been holding up! Can recommend. Im also really proud im getting into reading again, have been reading somewhat consistently since june, which is really good imo. Can recommend, all we do here all day is read stuff anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:16 PM
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Im not saying to not approach. Im saying to not chase
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:14 PM
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Man Id say no chasing, but realistically its best to keep it as minimal as possible. Its better to show interest and then stand still if shes moving away. If shes interested she will come back. Ideally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:12 PM
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then i guess its a semantic distinction, maybe im being pedantic but ime women that were genuinely interested were "uncomplicated" and easier to read. Women that were unsure, concealed their intentions and acted inconsistently. Women that want attention, actively go back and forth whilst keeping you at arms length. Its best to just drop the latter two even if the second category could result in a relationship. The reason is that a woman that decides she wants you will approach you once she knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:10 PM
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Issue is self control and lack of faith in self in both cases
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:01 PM
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difference between chasing and engaging i say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:00 PM
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No one is questioning the goal. Im love pilled myself, but the methodology is flawed. Find a girlfriend without chasing women that only want validation. A woman that likes you and is interested in a connection may take her time with you but wont run away and expect you to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:58 PM
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Men who get laid don’t chase women *fixed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:53 PM
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This triggered me. Like its total gas lighting to reframe the situation as romantic back and forth. Most people interested take steps towards each other. Maybe small steps, maybe they take some time to figure out what they want and thats all fine. But its not a back and forth. Back and forth is toxic, back and forth is playing games and usually the game is "lets see how much this guy really likeees meee" aka I need him to validate me. And when he eventually gives in and surrenders and I have all…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:51 PM
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so im right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:45 PM
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Okay I see your point and I agree. Obviously the majority of growth also doesnt happen in the literal last second. I thought you were argueing cut-off. Society needs cut offs for certain things. Lots of crime in Europe is still judged differently when committed by a pre-25yo. These institutions already incorporate that knowledge. I dont really care about sex, because I think its fine for teenagers to have sex and Id rather advocate for a dynamic range that widens with age until say 25 (so 30yo c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:44 PM
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absolutely chase a woman who is receptive Thats not what chasing is. Chasing implies she is moving away from you and you run after her. No one is saying dont engage with women that are receptive to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:35 PM
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then why do monks struggle getting laid huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:30 PM
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it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:27 PM
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im lacking sleep because the book im reading is so good, not a problem though because valerian is making me sleep like an infant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:26 PM
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gender roles = patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:25 PM
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lol wut
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:24 PM
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dude but thats what you literally just said. p1. Women children till 21 p2. 21>18 ergo women still children at 18. And boys will be boys till 25 (which also aligns with my own perception)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:23 PM
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taken! convenient scape goat on my end
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:22 PM
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fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:44 PM
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If it makes you feel better, im not, I asked to soon and she said no (which was also the right call)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:29 PM
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What does this even refer to? Im really curious, need more lore, very applicable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:27 PM
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because sex is intimate and intimacy breeds connection, moderated through oxytocin. If this connection was a certain way before (relationship) its hard not slip into feeling that way again when youre just having sex. No matter what your mind says, your body wont differentiate. After a breakup, which is basically loss of a core connection (threatening to social animals) and laying in bed alone for the first time without chemical release, you crave your partner precisely because youre in withdrawa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:26 PM
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Did you curate it for the female gaze or did you just roll with what you thought sounded good?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:33 AM
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BlackGriffin_1? Also would love for you to have a look at my profile too if youd be interested in that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:13 PM
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My condonlences
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:34 PM
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Ah I wish, I look less like a man, more like a boy I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:07 PM
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yeah im okay with both being true. I also see the point in saying women get lots of validation fast and it makes them less likely to make any effort to commit. Paralysis of choice etc. However I have seen just really bad profiles. Minimum effort profiles, people naturally write better job applications first try and getting laid should be a lot more motivating than writing a cv...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:01 PM
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->
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:55 PM
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youre flair is set to man do you identify as such?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:53 PM
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Had a really productive day for the first time in over a week. Didnt get anything done for 7 days. Yesterday all I did was write dairy (4 pages though which was good) but today I did virtually all of the things I wanted to do last week, feels good ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:52 PM
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Im white but not 6 foot and weigh less than virtually every girl ive ever dated or slept with..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:44 PM
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But its not binary is it. Maybe im good looking enough to get likes, but Id get less likes if my profile was bad (say 10 a year) and I get a lot more with a good profile. Same is true for everybody (to some extent), youre just satiated or too lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:43 PM
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lol its called matching for reason, if its so binary where is the cut off? Consider the prettiest 10 people, they are all attractive. Who gets the match and how is it determined? No one gets points for effort, you get points for good delivery though. The profile is the product, is ultimately you. If you have a shit profile you cant properly sell how attractive you are. Say youre the hottest guy but only post blurry pictures, youre not going to meet your potential. So many dudes have atrocious pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:41 PM
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what about putting that effort into your pictures now? Seems like you got a valuable product to sell, seems like its working for you dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:31 PM
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scary, sorry to hear you had to go through that! At some point the best thing is really to ignore them and their bitter salty attitudes. Must be shit to live a life so angrily
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:30 PM
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First of all its not my website it is the literal SOURCE MATERIAL of the redpill by one of its founding fathers, it should be expected that people commenting on this sub already know it. Its like being on a christian sub and having people not know what the bible is. Second of all my point is that people shouldnt explain "not getting any likes" on "women having impossible standards and hypergamy being out of control" when they have virtually made zero attempts and have wasted no thought appealing…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:27 PM
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majority of women consider themselves feminist. The majority of women are neither stupid, nor unfair nor inherently misandrist. They have an interest in finding a compromise with men. This will include accepting and rejecting certain things. What the mainstream understand feminism to be is also different from what radical feminists and leftists believe feminism to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:21 PM
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ah yeah yeah women get a bit too much validation a bit too quickly, but I guess in a way it does help them to assess their realistic value, I guess it was easier for men before because women werent aware how much choice they had
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:20 PM
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no not correct if you get a match you can text right away afaik
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:19 PM
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hey its part of the vibe i guess, people love to compain about it on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:18 PM
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Looks matter I agree, but lots of normal looking dudes have shit taste, shit pictures, shit text and generally no idea what they are doing. If youre actually so unlucky that despite making a genuine effort, taking good pictures, having input from friends, testing your profile and improving it iteratively you still had no success whatsoever, then im sorry for you. I hope you find something that works for you! However this experience is not going to the standard for most men, certainly not average…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:15 PM
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pretty sure its insanely high
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:07 PM
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Iconic city, lots of stuff to do, lots of fun to be had plus its probably THE place for certain careers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:06 PM
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At whom was the violence directed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:04 PM
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Meanwhile I can't even get him to send me a simple tax return paper which I needed for a scholarship. Sorry to hear that Agree on the male on male violence part. Its a different calculus and sometimes it baffels me what women can "get away with"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 09:03 PM
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be more specific and maybe I can give more specific answers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:50 PM
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what am I even showing off by that? That I would pay for any trip she'd like? What??? No youre showing off that youre interested in the world, visit interesting places, have been on interesting adventures THEREFORE have interesting things to talk about, stories to tell. Youre showing youre world open and interested in other places not just your mothers living room and the street your grew up on. "You paying for her travels" is the last thing a woman is going to think. Women dont think like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:49 PM
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Lol chill out that being said I DO agree with this take. Men are raised not to be vain. Men absolutely have the capacity to be and interestingly enough the most vain men are very successful on the dating market, but generally men are raised not to care about their looks. Why? No idea, but its related to gender roles and discouraged. It does make it harder for men to date though.. Maybe if men were more vain and focussed on their appearance, women would need to make more of an effort to approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:45 PM
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depends on where you are, in which culture you live, what social class youre in Generally I can say that I am sure that you rarely need to do things that are physically painful or uncomfortable when a man is around. I am also sure that you are amongst the first to be taken care off when something bad happens, amongst the first to be shielded from danger, the first to be attended to when injured. I am also sure that your emotional state and your expressions of discomfort are going to be given pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:41 PM
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ask friends to take pictures of you it says ask You are literally commenting in the other thread in which rustlerhuskyjeans and I talk about it. I dont have the female gaze either, but I do have a pretty good idea what women like about me, and through other dudes and generally talking to women somewhat of a feel what can and cant work in specific cases. I dont have a generalized explanation. The idea you have to present yourself in such way that a woman wants to be in your life is already on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:34 PM
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who is talking about the background???? You ARE the product. If you cant take a proper pictures of the product and write a few lines that will appeal to the target audience no wonder you dont get sales. Background is next level stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:22 PM
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because they can't even recognize women have privileges give it time to seep through
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:20 PM
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if I was in a major metropolitan I can see this be a factor. I also struggle more in the province
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:18 PM
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ask your friends and see how they work (they are very likely ALL shit) ask friends to take pictures of you randomly, at events, at activities, make it a habbit (they will understand) build and improve your profile over time, keep track of what works and doesnt work if need be explore or change your style and iterate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:17 PM
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no experience, gotta make a profile first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:07 PM
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Exactly same, minimum texting just setting up in person meeting. OLD is like an ad for yourself, Doesnt matter how good the product is, if the ad sucks no on will care to try it out. Advertisement is all about selling an idea. And the idea here is exactly as you say: Me at your side, you in my life is going to be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:06 PM
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Nah he probably got angry put on a red flair and is hating on OLD on reddit somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:59 PM
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Not true according to my own appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:58 PM
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If you pull off a “I have a life” profile you can be a 5 and get dates consistently. exactly my experience thats what women want (apart from good looks ofc)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:54 PM
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yeah good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:51 PM
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yeah but humans have decoupled from nature and its constraints a long time ago If I wanted I could take a womans last name and poof the line of heritage passes on through her line. Also look at all the people having double names these days. So what even is patriarchy today, in what way does nature still constain us? I dont see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:47 PM
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Equality For boys and men to be protected from danger. OR If its impossible to separate masculinity from duty, that this at least is appreciated as sacrafice and seen as inherently heroic. And not just taken for granted. Men need to be able to opt out without being shamed. Women dont care and men shouldnt make them care, but men should care and make other men care. Only that way can it be taken seriously in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 PM
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I get what youre saying, but I know quite a few people for who it worked, so it cant actively prevent people either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:28 PM
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I feel for bad for some guys. The worst is when they get angry at you for 'trying to change them' and its 'who they really are' etc. bro no one is saying be fake, just apply yourself a little
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:27 PM
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i dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:24 PM
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I agree and disagree. You are right, but the fact that a lot of people seem to get no likes whatsoever just means they have zero clue what they doing. No need to blame women for that or claim that hypergamy is out of control and 90% of women go for the top 5% of men or whatever people repeatedly claim on this sub. No dude your pictures just suck and you have no idea what the female gaze is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:23 PM
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OLD as a whole is an industry that benefits from keeping you single, which is why OLD is generally so negative. It's about profit, not getting you in a relationship. I guess I at very least agree with the notion that OLD has no incentive to get you into a committed monogamous long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:17 PM
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Apparently people here dont seem to have that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:15 PM
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Hits a bit close to home but lots of highly educated and career women on hinge Tinder has the most basic thots, but also the most sexually attractive people, bumble "more cultured" folk but still somewhat basic, hinge has perma OLD (its the newest plattform and full of people that need a new system for them to work) as well as successful and working women looking for something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:13 PM
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what even is the patriarchy according to you and where do they come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:09 PM
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What even is patriarchy? Its a word basically no one ever bothers to define. Its a political buzzword. Gender roles exist and the expectations and perspectives that come with it are by definition sexist. Removing gender roles and the expectations and perspectives that come with it ARE the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:08 PM
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Man the US press speaker of the president is such a little rat man he looks very timid and nervous I dont have an issue with him, im sure hes a really smart, well put together, good and successful guy, im sure he has to put up with and push through a lot of confrontation but he looks like such an archtypical pansy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:07 PM
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lol like what? Being... ...cool??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:56 PM
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I also thought at this age Id have it figured out, no you just become more effective in your disorder and manage to present better when necessary (baseline level of gross and messiness remain unchanged)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:42 PM
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okay okay :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:33 PM
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oh youre so myserious hannah whats the lore???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:31 PM
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What people fail to understand is that the world is not a black and white world of oppressor and oppressed. Sociologically speaking its pretty clear since we dont live in a binary computer, but even hierarchies of oppression are stupid because whats the point of creating a rank of who has it worst? Humans are inherent hierarchal. You cannot get rid of hierarchies entirely, you can only ever replace them. So the question becomes, what good does it do, what is the benefit of replacing a hierarchy …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:30 PM
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I dont really understand the title of this daily mega thread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:13 PM
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No removing the patriarchy means also ridding men of the gender expectations. Otherwise you havent removed it and only some of it... Thats why men need to make women aware of the priviledges they enjoy and ensure that we raise our children equally OR we deliberate what gender rolls we collectively want to keep and which will go for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:06 PM
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individual advantage of having a larger man yourself outweighs having equally sized men hundres of years down the line
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:02 PM
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I guess its at least it exemplifies freedom of information
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:56 PM
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indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:54 PM
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Missle attacks on stream, war with live chat...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:49 PM
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Why? What makes you think that? Lol, no one cares, thats the whole point for this post. If I say men suck and ruin the world people would look at me critically as a male pick me simping for feminists AT WORST, not because im openly misandrist. No one cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:38 PM
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lol on a redpill adjecent sub lol? Ofc not But I dont live on PPD I live in a western liberal capital city submerged in an educated upper middle class social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:35 PM
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okay depending on region I agree, im biased based on my location Hating women and berating them publically is gonna get you in trouble here fast
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:33 PM
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true but its a lot less common and accepted now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:31 PM
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No. See this is what has always bothered me about the concept of patriarchy. Patriarchy is not a conspiracy against women. Never has been either. Its a system of ensuring a given set of gender roles in society and its been enforced and propagated by men AND women. It tells men AND women how to behave and it limits and sucks for both men AND women in many ways. Historically it has been a lot more limiting to women, which is why womans rights movements have successfully! managed to liberate themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:30 PM
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wild wild wild wonder how that is gonna effect the wider geopolitical calculus in the area. Especially with respect to china positioning themselves. Also wild that you can just watch Tel Aviv being missle attacked live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:22 PM
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nothing burger what a lame term
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:03 PM
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ofc bro havent you seen the little axe documentaries that sometimes play inbetween advertisements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:57 PM
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no one says that lol women in their 20s think that men in their 40s love them for their personality, thats the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:55 PM
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Tell her that. Like exactly that I think every woman needs to hear that. Also wigs = no. I couldnt care less for straight hair if its a wig.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:52 PM
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not even double agent, openly communistic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:50 PM
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america needs harsh authority thats why i go with harris dont want no filthy communist russia friend man its no good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:47 PM
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only if you respect and protect the law thats why harris, without biden
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:45 PM
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Dude what about all teh police protests broo?? She's also wanting to ban firearms yeah so the illegals cant buy them!! think think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:43 PM
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nah bro just vote harris she gonna increase police military and border funding and make sure that the illegals no more illegals bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:39 PM
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eyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:37 PM
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yeah why you think trump wants a wall, just like berlin wall, iron curtain man gonna import socialist workers etc. make immigrants legal...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:35 PM
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Pretty sure trump is radical left bro, I swear to god the stuff he does, his policies, friendship with russia etc. -- basically socialism If you want to vote right, better go harris, shes like a police and law, so authoritarian she like dictator persona, only cares about security, rule of law stuff etc. shes gonna clean up the country trump basically radical left wing anarchist im telling you, dude is so pacifist and liberal smh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:32 PM
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Lol youre moving goal post Ofc you need to approach, but not necessarily cold approach and its not a pure numbers game, which what youre claiming. Charisma and social skills > numbers Silly to believe you can calculate how many approaches you need. What you need is social skills to create vibe. If you easily create vibe you dont need many approaches. If you have zero social skills, cant speak a coherent sentence and reek of piss and urine, no matter how many times you try you wont date anyone. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:30 PM
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I think lots of people are unbearable if not socialized. I think many people are toxic because they are badly socialized. I think a lot of people that are lonely are exceptionally badly socialized "Just be yourself" has always been bulshit because chances are your true self is toxic, annoying and unbearable and it takes other people and there contempt for you to make an effort to be better. Thats essentially what socialization is. You literally have to tell children "you cant always get what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:43 PM
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Incel just stands for involuntary celibate, this includes everyone who wants to have sex and doesnt have it. I guess there is some leeway in the interpretation where someone that cant have sex despite trying is an incel, but I dont see how that wouldnt include teenagers that need to figure out how dating works. Cold approaching is ineffective, but it does work. If you approach 1,000 people, at least one of them is guaranteed to like you. This is my experience hanging out with pick up artists of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:16 PM
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Everyone without game is an incel, in a fragile relationship or lucky in the moment. You dont become a virgin, you get born a virgin and have to find your way into pussy. Its incredibly easy for people that can get women to like trust and like them. Building those social skills is really important and should start happening as soon as possible, ideally in middle school already. Cold approaching is horribly ineffective. The vast majority of people having sex and in relationships manage without it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:30 AM
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Here for example https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/22/dream-girls-and-children-with-dynamite/ AFC stands for "average fucking chump" and is basically short hand for "loser with no game"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 11:22 AM
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PUA is not game PUA to Game is what telling a joke is to charisma You dont have charisma just because you memorized 3 jokes. Learning to be charismatic is what matters. Reading joke books is for clowns. Said book wont help you in a relationship for long either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:27 AM
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I have shit shape, was broke basically my entire life studying, no house, no car and still managed I guess I did have time though (and the ability to read minds)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:23 AM
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right place and right time is relevant for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:22 AM
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And the man doesnt keep up the level of intensity over the course of the relationship Thats bad and by bad I mean bad for the man because its basically a guaranteed fumble Game is equally applicable to hooking up, dating and being married, thats Rollo Tomassis whole point and why PUAs are clueless. Game helps you have romantic success with women regardless what youre relationship to them is. Its universal. Thinking Game is just about getting laid is completely misunderstanding what Game is. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:18 AM
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Ah its not so bad just go outside and see how many people seem to manage. At the end of the day women also want boyfriends and maybe that one guy at the gym is really hot, but the 6/10 guy thats kinda funny sometimes is right in front of her face and kinda gets her excited every morning...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:12 AM
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I will say completly stupid OP but quite interesting discussion anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:09 AM
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Disagree incels lack basic insight to even understand the advice properly Incels need to talk and hang around women first and foremost to get a feel for what matters to them and what women are like (pretty much the same normal stuff duhh) instead of seeing them as this weird other race. Ideally you pair a bunch of incels with a bunch of femcels and then let them get some experience, maybe figure out why hygene matters or why someone that says boring stuff is boring to be around, or why someone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:06 AM
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Fully agree maybe practice highschool physics first before you dive into the papers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 08:01 AM
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PUA are completely when it comes to understanding women, PUA cant help you date women successfully, its basically just tricks and practiced routines to generate interest. This interest can get you laid, but it will absolutely not get you anywhere beyond that. Should they ever get to the point where you get someone interesting in dating them, their game drops off sharpish immediately and they act like complete beginners (unsuprisingly). Rollo Tomassi rightfully advocates against PUA because it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:59 AM
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interestingly I met the man I spent the most years with kinda out of the blue when I wasn’t looking. Its so weird that its always like that. Idk its almost as if you need to go on a lot of dates to stop looking, only then will you randomly find them. Its so weird, but same for me. No. Pick up artists have terrible advice Even Rollo Tomassi says this. He points out that PUA entirely lack the skills and dating insight to even remotely keep the girls they can pull should they ever decide they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:54 AM
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No everyone needs game. Really pretty people with zero game, zero social skills and shitty personality will not get far. Maybe they will get layed, but all the women they meet will bascially consider it "gumping it" and whether that is validating and fulfilling long term is a hard doubt on my end. And thats only considering like really attractive people, say >8.5. Every woman wants to date and 8, but not enough to constantly deal with a retarded person, maybe not even an embarrassing person or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:49 AM
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This is the worst way to do research, especially for young boys. This is how it should be: mixed groups, get boys in contact with girls, interacting with girls, playing with girls in an ideally non-gendered neutral environment (gendered non-neutral environments can still exist, for example in team sports where boys can learn to be boys etc.) encourage boys and girls to have mixed gendered friendships in middle school have boys learn how girls are, how they think, how they reason, what they value…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:34 AM
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if I... ever went to a woman im seeing on a date and told her to stop sleeping with anyone, BEFORE I had layed with her myself I would be left, blocked and discussed on several women only online groups in my city regarding 'that guy is fucking weird' I legitimately dont know how anyone would do that, maybe ecept for if they were cousins, in some weird socialist institution, or the only two kids in a research center in antarctica hope that answers your questions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:17 PM
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what year is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:59 PM
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how do you know though? Are you talking about being exclusive before you have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:22 PM
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so exclusivity and commitment before sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:06 PM
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So then when do you have sex? Second date?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:34 PM
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Not being able to pay is going to emasculating for many. This is only an issue so far they believe they need to be masculine and providing for their women. If you can reassure the man that they dont need to worry about any of that its fine. The question is, is it fine and do you really know what youre talking about when you say its not an isse for you. Or will you lose all attraction after 6 months suddenly? I know what RPs perspective on this is..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:31 PM
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yeah and i hardly ever complain, take it with stride on my way through the glass ceiling etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:27 PM
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I hardly ever complain about being oppressed..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:26 PM
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Dude dont harrassment, who cares if they are soft like that and have an aversion to violence. Why not read them stuff, practice maths, then they may go to a special private school and later study finance and live a rich life where they will never face violence.. Best way to toughen up boys is to sign them up sport with body contact, not by having them watch violent movies and having a relative traumatize them once a year. My opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:13 PM
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29
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:10 PM
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maybe with a PS5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:09 PM
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Okay! Start walking, Ill follow :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:07 PM
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I like that But even better would be "spit on it" just above the crotch area
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:57 PM
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haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:28 AM
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🥀 What does romance mean to you? What do you find romantic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:27 AM
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ugh girl on't you stop don't you stop 'til you get enough 🎶🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:26 AM
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extremes Someone who consumes drugs responsibly and recreationally is not necessarily a junkie. Similarily getting drunk my constitute SOME fun and not ALL your fun. Are you such a robot you can only think in 1 and 0?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:23 AM
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yeah i get that and fine with it, but ive been asked to choke even though its really not my thing and usually say im not into that. But im not the only guy, its more common than it should
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:17 AM
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yeah well I dont usually like choking people I feel like kissing and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:52 AM
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Haha I will, giving myself a bit more time to really consider it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:24 AM
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yeah fair enough I guess it also matters whether its night of evening, whether it was date night or just random booty call from a depressed chick that hasnt left her house in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:17 AM
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in the changing rooms you mean? What makes someone a fuckboi? Not sure if I have legitimacy to wear it then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:15 AM
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I also like that little nibble and kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:14 AM
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haha disagree with faint BO, in the morning maybe but usually the dominating scent is the smell of their hair (shampoo) and a little bit of sweat <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:13 AM
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Trust me women ruin it by saying they like it rough, or want to be dominated and ask you to choke them a little bit So no kissies then? :[ (but as long as its just in my head I can just pretend this stuff never happens) https://open.spotify.com/track/4INDiWSKvqSKDEu7mh8HFz?si=1f61178ff2924ab9
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:06 AM
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What it feels like kissing her neck during backshots https://open.spotify.com/track/0gPQTLaqHDgdupKEok7J2x?si=3af67d6fb53c42c0 Good morning PPD hope youll find THE person this Monday
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:52 AM
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yeah the drawing is just an example, as long as its an old school/american trad flash rose wih stem thanks for your encouragement, every woman that I know that thinkgs she gets a say in what I should look like would hate it. I genuinely believe Id get in more trouble for this 2.5 cm thing as a full grown man with virtually all of my family than my younger brother when he got a large and visible tat as a child. I dont mind controversy but I wouldnt stop hearing off it. bv, it would have to remain…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:46 AM
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<image> I wanna get this one 2.5cm in size on the left upper ass cheek. It be pretty invisible all the time except for when being intimate with someone, then they might spot it.. I think its kinda playful, unconventional, inappropriate and I kinda like that. The last step of rebellion before settling down. Is it ick material?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:39 AM
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Day 3 of thinking about getting a tramp stamp
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:24 AM
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Are you a woman or just someone that hates men and men having fun god forbit men have fun these days
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:31 AM
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I guess you could argue some issues take up a lot of public and political debate when we should be prioritizing other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:24 AM
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same, but i also dont particularily dogs (except for the super smart border collies I guess, and people that that have german sheperds on group hikes, where the dog runs from the front and back to check everyone is staying together and no one is lost (thats kinda cute and endearing))
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:53 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:51 PM
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Smart women do it to man. Women that really should know better, that are fully capable of not fighting dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah kinda The things I consider important especially personality wise, are things I try to curate in myself. I am not looking for someone to compliment me or cover my weaknesses. Edit: If Im being honest, I guess im not as active, I want to be more active, I need someone that is more active and helps me be more active.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:48 PM
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I get all that, but the term appears to be used by women whenever convenient and it sucks for communication imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:40 PM
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Same, but ive had it levied at me mid argument just by virtue of disagreeing. Aka "the way i see it.." "yeah I dont need you mansplaining to me" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:36 PM
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The thing is ive read and had women tell me they like info-dumping and monologing about topics of interest, but ever since mansplaining became a big thing I hold myself back from explaining things to women. And my explanation is in a way, my interpretation, my understanding, my analysis, my point of view, my standpoint. The term effectively delegitimized a huge part of my self expression with respect to women. I still do it (like here and now and also IRL) but with more restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:34 PM
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Same I guess, I also like women similar in size. I also believe in assortative mating in general, dating people that look similar (even if its just style and general type)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:31 PM
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Oral is quite a commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:30 PM
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omg thats a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:11 PM
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But do you struggle dating? I dont think so.. Also how comfortable are you dating someone say 5cm shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:07 PM
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Q4W: Where is the line between man-splaining, argueing/sharing your opinion and info dumping? OF ALL the feminist terminologies and "toxic male" behaviours its man splaining that triggers me the most. It reeks of "just shut up" and is exclusively used by women when they dont want to hear what I have to say. Its made me more insecure openly talking about the things I like at the length and detail I like and I get furious every time I hear it in an argument (which is basically the only time I hear…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:06 PM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:55 PM
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No shed be a little taller, same with age im 28/177cm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:53 PM
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Im underweight myself, Im just not into chubby but do tolerate other skinnies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:52 PM
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grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:31 PM
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link?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:29 PM
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nah 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:57 PM
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I wish, only temporarily at best
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:54 PM
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I have the feeling kanga is into or at least has had experience with mushrooms, probably used to be a stoner chick too before roo happened
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:34 PM
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Wouldnt have to be necessarily, bonus really is bonus here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:23 PM
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What can I say :[
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:12 PM
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They wouldnt bully eeyore but they wouldnt validate him either and probably not invite him, only if eeyore complains about being left out do they shift blame on him Tbh if i was living in the 100 acre forest, id probably try and bang kanga, deliberate the state of the econonmy and community with owl and rabbit and get wasted with eeyore. I think I would low-key hate pooh, piglet and tigger. Maybe owl is a stuck up loser but I can see rabbit and his friends be down to really let loose some times.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:10 PM
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I guess that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:01 PM
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yeah kinda up for consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:01 PM
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I have met my fair share of jaded women, lots of dude doing the work for you no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:00 PM
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Ideal List: Basics: Age: 23-32 Western liberal upbringing Not spiritual/religious or non-practicing College educated Physically my type: Slim/Skinny (BMI 17-21) *Height 165-181 cm (5.5"-5.11") Hip waist ratio Straight hair Sharp feminine face Characteristically: Original Curious Critical Secure Self-reflective Attentive Considerate Optimistic Ambitious Some what peripatetic Bonus: Funny Cheerful Social/Popular Cheeky/Clever Talkative Great communicator Great taste Cultured Interested in history,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:59 AM
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Thats misandrist - internalized disdain for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:22 AM
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Okay after a nights of sleep im still considering Q4W: Rose tat, upper left cheek or on the leg, just below the right cheek?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:16 AM
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lots of nerds are also psychonauts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:15 AM
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blue eyes and croatian is odly specific
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:14 AM
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Yeah whatever you do, dont demean your partner. Their needs are valid and not shameful, basic or primal. Its totally valid to not want to have sex, or to generally have different sex drives but you can and you have no obligation to meet needs every single time, but the needs are valid and should be treated with empathy and reassurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:05 PM
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I agree with you, however I will say that sexual connection in bed is an independent aspect and different from emotional and mental connection. Similarily how you connect with some partners emotionally and physically but not mentally, you can connect with partners mentally and emotionally but not physically. A lack of connection doesnt necessarily mean you cant be in a relationship, but it will mean that something is always missing. And thats really not good because it will leave you unsatisfied…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:53 PM
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because no serious potential partner would have sex immediately. Im coming around to this, seriously. But can you explain your reasoning? I dont have an issue with women enjoying sex and I guess if two people find each other attractive, why shouldnt they sleep with each other? Is it because these people need and specifically use sex for immediate validation? Is it because if she is willing to quickly sleep with me, she is quickly willing to sleep with others too and then doesnt need to commit? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:47 PM
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No lol women I am seeing and am already having sex with... I have been seeing these women AND been sleeping with them. I say I like you, lets see how it goes but generally i am looking for something serious, they say they like me too, lets see where it goes and are also looking for something serious, we continue meeting, I find out they are seeing people on the side, im like okay I guess thats okay we are neihter dating nor exclusive, they say they want to continue meeting the people they see, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:47 AM
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lol no one knowing how the game goes is serious about that, most people say "open for whatever comes, lets find out and see" or something along those lines. Im talking about women telling me in person that they want a relationship and could see themselves in one with me, which is fine, but its not like im expecting anything. It just irritates me that they are seeing a bunch of people on the side and then cant decide
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:28 PM
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No its not one night stands, its the women I end up seeing more often not wanting to commit because they are also seeing other men, then im like okay I guess I cant get too emotionally involved_currently™️ and instead gotta continue the search
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:40 PM
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yeah but yeah :[
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:46 PM
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Yes. But No. You got it the wrong way around. You cant and shouldnt "pursue" women. In general ever. As a guy you need to initiate and get the thing rolling but if she doesnt take any initiative you need to drop it and leave it until she picks it up again. Ime your meeting someone new, youre excited, youre involved, show initiative etc. you get rejected, you go okay thats how it is then and stop talking to her, she will text you out of the blue a week later. Dont ask me why, its hella confusing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:11 PM
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sounds insatiable to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
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Dont have the moneh Any resources so I can research myself/do some guided self-reflection? I guess I can start by doing a fun attachment style online quiz right now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:37 PM
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Ah disagree Maybe I havent and wont ever really get over my first (and unrequitted) love, but I have been in love again and dated women, that were not comparable in anyway. Maybe its impossible to get over real love, but that doesnt mean you can only ever be in love with one person you met first. That wouldnt make any sense either..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:22 PM
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I really need to start considering whether I have a thing for women that have committment issues. Im the kind of guy that considers most women "too boring", maybe "too boring" just means is securely connected and nice to me, in which case im just passing class acts for shitty women due to some underlying psychological issue.. Any tips or resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:20 PM
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Yeah well I thought this woman was frustrated with the dating struggle, and was also looking for someone to leave it behind. I guess she is not struggling as much as I thought initially. Also I really need to start considering whether I have a thing for women that have committment issues. Im the kind of guy that considers most women "too boring", maybe "too boring" just means is securely connected and nice to me, in which case im just passing class acts for shitty women due to some underlying ps…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:19 PM
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I get what youre saying (girl doing kegstands is prioritizing personal fun) but I think its fine to be fun and still be committed. Im way past college btw people dont do kegstands anymore, just coke all weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:12 PM
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Decent song :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:59 PM
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yeah im not struggling with that. Im struggling with real love man :( Im too LTR pilled for big city vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:58 PM
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Needing to be liked Extroversion Sense for hierarchy Disdain for anything unadjusted outside the mainstream (and all the corollaries that come with it like generic taste) Conservative/Traditional (especially regarding gender roles and or religion or whatever is considered communal or common custom) Oh no wait thats Karen Stacy is young, hot (sporty, feminine looking), knows it and knows how to leverage it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:56 PM
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Does avocado count as vegetable? if yes i guess im having good morning indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:51 PM
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On point I wasnt even angry, told her she can do what she wants, thanked her for being transparent and that im happy to adjust (aka distance emotionally and start seeing other people) She brought it up 3 times
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:49 PM
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No thankfully its not I wasnt really interested in seeing other people the last two weeks, but now that I know shes seeing other people im actually quite excited to set up some hinge dates. Thankfully as hard as it is to get anyone to commit in this town, its as easy to get people to want to meet someone new (in this case me). Sounds like perpetual hope and disappointment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:46 PM
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Sounds like at least 4 myself included.. What can I say, I guess I made it to the top 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:44 PM
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Dude the women I meet all want serious relationships, everyone wants a serious relationships, no one is willing to commit, no one is sawing off their options, everyone keeps seeing people on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:43 PM
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latter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:41 PM
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dude im in the market for it, im hungry too, but its not what im looking for its like eating kebab when youre craving a really good burger
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:41 PM
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Chick im seeing is telling me she is not ready to commit wants to continue seeing this other guy, wants to cut of some other guys though because she does want more from me and wants things to be more serious yada yada Context: We spend time together, hang out, snuggle and have intimite sex, she looks at me like girls have looked at me that were genuinely into me. When were not spending time together we barely text, she texts and meets with others and takes the liberty to simply not respond or on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:39 PM
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Chick im seeing is telling me she is not ready to commit wants to continue seeing this other guy, wants to cut of some other guys though because she does want more from me and wants things to be more serious yada yada Dont know what to make of it..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:34 PM
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lol and ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:22 PM
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What about emotional needs and genuine connection? I guess its not worth a lot these days
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:22 PM
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I want real love though :( (in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:21 PM
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Why do so many women have the need to sleep with multiple men, have open relationships, situationships with multiple people? I guess a fair share of assholes exist. Is this just an extended vetting process? Is it just validation? Its ruining the dating market, no one is really making a committment anymore, which means no one is really getting themselves involved emotionally, everyone misses out..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:08 PM
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My issues is that women that sleep with me very quickly and readily, evidently like sleeping with other men too :( Advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:40 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:39 PM
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huh induced demand tells us that if there is a way there will be a will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:22 PM
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Regarding the vetting discussion its true men have A LOT less leverage. In a relationship the ultimate credible threat you have is breaking it off, this is true for both genders. But the fact that women have more opportunities basically means its harder for the man to walk away. Simply loses all intimacy and sex, for the forseable future, compared to merely a partner. Its like comparing a country with a single nuclear weapon to a country with thousands and a history of testing and deploying them…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:20 PM
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not wanting to wear anything that you specifically enjoy seems like there could potentially be an underlying issue going on yeah i know what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:42 AM
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Does that make sense? no please elaborate further..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:39 AM
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Men are the condiments of life. They can absolutely make a good thing better, but they aren’t necessary, they tend to hang around well past their “best by date” and the wrong one can ruin everything, leave a bad taste in your mouth and possibly make you very sick. Ouch, what a sober way to look at love. I guess I gotta find a girl in love with honey mustard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:37 AM
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First of all this sub and the opinions on it dont really represent reality. Go outside and look how many old people are dating old people. Old couples exist everywhere. Second of all, at some point emotional connection, familiarity, enjoyment of each others company matter more than raw sexual attraction in LTRs expecially past a certain point. Thirdly youre more attracted to people you like and see frequently. This is called exposure effect. Also some things like their smile and their eyes (or t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:29 AM
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I think I will just copy paste that It says enough, whilst being simple enough without overexplaining too much and its not asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:21 AM
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thats cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:13 AM
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I guess this is the way but ime the immediate rebuttal is "yea but i dont really like it, it makes me look ... " which ofc you can contest, but ultimately "dont feel comfortable in it"/"i just dont like it" ends any debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:05 AM
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Im torn, basically I dont really care what a woman is wearing if im sleeping with her anyway. Like I get to see her naked in her underwear all the time. That being said sometimes I do wish my partners would dress sexy for me sometimes, and I dont want to ask for it, I just wish they did it for me because they feel like it. Not sure how to communicate that without sounding needy though. Also I kinda want my partners to wear thongs, I just find them really sexy. Last time I just bought them, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:27 PM
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no 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:21 PM
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I dont get it, they have existed since like what 16 years have always been ugly, will aways be ugly and are just trendy because they are fundamentally ugly (and people dig that right now) Same thing goes for mullets, lip beards and odd anachronistic clothes and glasses. What actually looks cool right now is 90s revival not "70s creep" sorry went off tangent there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:19 PM
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nice ragebait haha, nice flair anyway.. Youre obviously not really attracted to him, he can sense that and is (subconsiously) panicking, which makes him seem more desperate and makes you less attracted to him. Just save yourself the time. Have enough respect to end it with him instead of using him for convenience until you found someone better, ideally. Youre the asshole for using and not validating your boyfriend. He is insecure because you make him feel insecure, either by the way you are talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:13 PM
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The thing with the woman in the orginal comment was that she was obviously very conflict averse, nervous, be okay and go along with everything, but then very obviously not actually be okay, by changing things behind peoples backs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:08 PM
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but if it makes you so mad it makes you end up being passive aggressive thats hardly conflict avoidant. People pick up on that rapidly, but if they want to defend themselves they need to take the conflict to you. In a way its asking for conflict. Is that any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:55 PM
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I think the issue is boundaries, being able to separate yourself from others as well as being able to gauge someone elses intent and attitude towards you. The leeching part is lack of boundaries, the insecurity comes from having difficulty assessing your attitude towards them and the emotional overreaction comes from not being able to separate themselves emotionally sufficiently from any given situation. The lack of boundaries thing is annoying and maybe most problematic (they let you cross thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:53 PM
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But see I am like that. I do like doing things spontaneously, going with my own flow and that can mean getting myself involved in things that can be quite open-ended or at least have some sort of carry on effect (like massively impacting the next day). Obviously I have my own constraints to deal with, and yeah some of them have always existed you are right. Life is hardly ever fully unconstrained. Even if you dont have to work at all or whatever, you still need to go shopping before the super ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:45 PM
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ah depends on the board game and on the party and on the set up (plans to consume, plans for the next morning) Nothing sounds better than meeting at night to go out daincing with your friends, rolling til morning, get some sleep, having brunch together at noon and possibly going somewhere to stroll around or visit and exhibition whilst everyone is hungover.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:35 PM
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but why? I genuinely want to know whats going on in people like you in that situation. I am quite open, verbal, outgoing and conflict resolving. Id be very interested in understanding your pov, to be more accommodating and making communication more effective between us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:29 PM
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I still remember. I was somewhere new doing something new trying to convince myself that this was the place I belonged and this the thing I wanted to do, without having any clue whatsoever and basically just trying to gas light myself into it. Im not any more secure regarding calling now but ive at least got a better grip on what I like and what I want my life to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:26 PM
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Ive dated a women "like" that (not in this specific case but I know what you mean with emotional regulation and silent treatment) and its honestly not a good deal. Not long term anyway. It can be exciting when youre young and have the energy for drama, because these women also love as intensly as they can hate in the moment. And that can make the whole thing really passionate. Sucks for you because you have to deal with the negatives, without ever experiencing the highs. Ive also had roommates o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:24 PM
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but why where you're going? Dude thats none of your business, whereever I feel like... this is the whole point im making, no one asking questions How? If at 10pm I decide I want to go clubbing spontaneously, get ready for 30 minutes, drive through the city for an hour, stand in the queue for two, get a drink at 1.30 am and pop some mdma at 2, im not going to be home before 6. That means im not going to be in bed before 7 am, that means im not going to get up the next morning before noon, that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:12 PM
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In my case the irritating thing is that these women reach out when they really dont have to and seem genuinely irritated with it "not seeming to work out" when you let them out to dry at some point. Its like cognitive dissonance. You have to do it though because otherwise they dont end up coming around to meet you half way. I really dont get it. Why does it have to be part of the weird cishet dance so frequently? Im well familiar with women that just want attention and I want to say that I can c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:35 PM
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I agree but dont kiss her unless youre confident she is into that. Dont randomly force yourself on people its not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:18 PM
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Just normally interact with women. No ulterior motives, just normal interaction. You can tell when they like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:17 PM
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If youre living with your partner they deserve to know where youre going and what youre general schedule is. Generally you also want to be considerate of them, their time and the plans and comittments that you have made and that includes not just spontaneously doing what you want (because it will impact things down the line). Relationships are always about compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:15 PM
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Yeah okay but thats exactly the same for men. Also women dont necessarily like the same thing, there is taste heterogeneity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:49 PM
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I think you can swap financially stable for entertaining/exciting/emotionally-stimulating/inspiring at sufficiently young age
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:47 PM
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19.44%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:38 PM
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Going where I want at whatever time, spontaneously, with it being no ones business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:33 PM
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Finally unbanned. Reddit sucks, I cant even know what caused hte ban because they obviously delete the "violation". How am I supposed to know where the line is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:32 PM
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Creepy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:38 PM
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They wont break up quite so fast I think, but its going to be a source of lasting insecurity for him, which may very well lead to lasting resentment, which may very well lead to them breaking up eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:36 PM
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no rubber needed!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:33 PM
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Youre a politics nerd. Me too by the way and its a good life. Aspire to be someone that knows something about "everything". Get into art and develop an eye for fashion, luxury, literature and cinema, travel, and generally run the fully informed cultural sophistication build. It pairs well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:31 PM
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Thats so petty, why care? Dont think I would help more either. Id probably be some kind of weird dr manhattan, jacking off on moon, thinking about stuff, argueing with idiots on reddit as part of "anthropological study" or however id justify it I guess id be as bored and lonely as now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:23 PM
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Cant decide, so here is three Being charismatic and having an easy time getting people to like me Having had the financial means and cultural background to be encouraged to do well in education (even if I may have not made the best out of it) Being blessed with a context in which I was around a group of people that became my close friends at an early age and that I have always been able to depend on in the sense of belonging Bonus: Good teeth or saliva (I dont know why but I dont have any teeth …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:20 PM
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See I knew this was a bad idea because now you can move goal posts and change the topic away from "the communication skills are the same and there is not difference" This is somehow unique to romantic relationships? You’ve never had someone mad at you in any other context before? Ofc I have. And how does a normal person react? If its with friends you tell them you dont like it and dont talk to them for 2 weeks until they apologize, if its really bad you may still have people that mediate. At wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:06 PM
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yeah but failing to reach it, identifying what didnt work and fit so well and selecting better next time is precisely what growth and self-knowledge is. Someone might not want to waste their time with someone with who its not going to work with because of some super basic thing they dont even know yet matters to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 10:14 AM
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Romantic relationships are so unique and peculiar, so intense and demanding, you cant just compare that to "having had a flat mate for 5 years". What other relationship has the same proximity, level of responsibility, commitment and an exclusive romantic aspect to it? Its totally valid for a potential partner to expect you to have at least some experience especially if they already have experience. It will make things smoother and avoid silly mistakes, especially in terms of communication. Furth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:43 AM
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clueless Here ill give you just off the top of my head a list of things you will not encounter with family, flat-mates, friends that may be issues that require extensive communication and compromise to solve. There are a million different little things and this list is not exhaustive: Different future plans The way they disagree on day to day basis The way they argue when involved The way they fight when really angry The way they resolve fights when they are wrong The way they resolve fights whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:33 AM
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No but a life partnership is not the "I like you but lets see where this goes" kind of relationship you have in your early 20s right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:21 AM
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I agree everything here is always rock hard or flaccid, never semi-stiff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:20 AM
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All of that can also be learned from outside relationships. Lol no. Thats just wishful thinking. What other relationship has the same proximity, level of responsibility, commitment and an exclusive romantic aspect to it? Romantic relationships are so unique and peculiar, so intense and demanding, you cant just compare that to "having had a flat mate for 5 years". You truly believe there is nothing new to be learned in a unique and uncomparable experience? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:18 AM
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At least if they themselves are already past a bunch of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:14 AM
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Guess what you get a lot of experience in close interpersonal communication from?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:12 AM
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yeah i mean its easier for kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:14 PM
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yeah well maybe it would have fixed him, ever thought of that huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:13 PM
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dads got a new wife pretty much immediately, mom is still alone, both seem content hard to say whether either of them are genuinely happy, certainly not with me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:36 PM
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No because I dont need to keep level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:34 PM
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then go and be content ill be ecstatic about my surf and turf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:13 PM
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by kissing the girls and shunning the boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:08 PM
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stupidest / in the history of ///
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:04 PM
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because there is a difference between need and want which is why this is the stupidest / I have ever seen. You might not need a steak and lobster main course, but you would still want one if it were available at a reasonable price right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:04 PM
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I think its best to not take those 5% too personally and also take breaks from each other. Most people seem to think they need to be with their partner all the time and take them to everything, do everything with them. Technically speaking youre in no rush, you see them all the time and have endless access to them, but for some reason most people feel like they have an obligation to take them and for them to join. If you can free yourself of obligations like that, and people are more free to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:59 PM
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you should have been a father to him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:54 PM
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sauce? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:52 PM
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"he grew on me" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:51 PM
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I dont even date women this short
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:51 PM
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youre not wrong i think the issue comes from the fact that women are so inactive when it comes to approaching and initating (in most cases) that men forget they still have agency
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:49 PM
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its just a really stupid post top comments all repeat the same thing and are all right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:47 PM
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now youre moving goal posts though, because either we assume that he is right, then she is cheating or he is immature and massively overreacting over something which isnt even real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:34 PM
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This a valid perspective. these guys are assuming that they are punishing her by taking away the attention and affection, when in reality she might not even care since she doesnt really seem to be interested in it anyway. Its valid to assume at this point that she is just using the guy for sex. Doesnt necessarily change the calculus, but it really calls into question how much revenge is being enacted by this strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:33 PM
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the expectations of time, attention, affection etc. can be summarized as emotional exclusivity, meaning doing only couple activities (like going on dates, getting close or cozy together) exclusively as a couple. thats why "not going on dates" as a result of her not being exclusive is valid its a presumed breaking of exclusivity to which the answer is also breaking exclusivity and being "casual"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:30 PM
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hahaha love these discussions so.. are you a pebble man or more about the bread?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:09 PM
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very common mindset handed down with classic male gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:03 PM
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dont forget to pick up your diploma
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:00 PM
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And likewise… do men not care about emotional connection or care or consideration? They do. Which can often cause cogntivie dissonance and make just pump and dump not so easy if an emotional connection is already there (which it is otherwise he wouldnt be salty) It sounds like that’s exactly what he’s pissed off about in the first place, that she’s treating him like a pump and dump, not even responding to his texts. 🚑 🚑 🚑 🚑 The wanting to keep having sex is also his fear of loss and sexlessness …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:55 PM
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embarrassing or depressing <image> cheating on you with this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:29 PM
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<image> time to clock in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:13 PM
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send pic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:11 PM
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because confusing an unpressable claim with actual authority is about as delusional as expecting people to take you seriously during a major psychotic episode
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 09:00 PM
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haha I guess, I agree but is this the media we want to raise our kids with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:51 PM
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☕️ men™️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:50 PM
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silly philistine go ask chad what he thinks a duke is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:50 PM
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Then im lacking the experience, my bad. I have not dated anyone for more than a decade, but ive had periods of dry spell in LTR. Usually its due to being too occupied with oneself, different life rhythms or spending too much time with each other and having all desire evaporate because of it. I was kinda extrapolating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:39 AM
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time dependent Once a month at the beginning when youre seeing each other every day and are totally passionate about each other is not enough. Its frustrating. Once a week after dating for 2 or more years and have settled into routine is fine, after dating for over a decade, once a month is probably all it takes anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:22 AM
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same math on my end
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:06 AM
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initiating conversation over text at any point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:12 PM
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yeah you did, then again didnt really lose anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:00 PM
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Yeah it feels great, but im well aware most women dont like it, also because its taxing on the knees and not very intimate (no face to face, limited body contact). Which I totally get. I find missionary exhausting eventually, its like planking for an extended amount of time, but its quite conducive to get started. Reverse missionary is great too and i totally prefer that if the woman initiates. Some times they prefer sex on the side, in a spooning way, but i find that kinda lazy. You can do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:00 PM
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i see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:57 PM
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yeah like pretty understanding, careful with their words, direct, open and honest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:56 PM
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she is not serious, ignore it, say yes, it doesnt mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:55 PM
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dating is all about what you feel in the moment and what you feel in the moment can change.. Smooth to understand that "we are not having sex tonight" basically just meant that she literally just thought about it and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:54 PM
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Whats not to comprehend, many people are still outright delusional, completely incapable of basic social skills and ettiquette or theory of mind, well into their deathbed era
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:50 PM
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yeah i know i know i would have prefered to get rejected though, rather than strung along and then dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:38 PM
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its conducive for manual stimulation, but yeah ime women on top can work best for both parties without extra stimulation big fan of the lotus myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:31 PM
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i know i know its basically nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:29 PM
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My mom told me she is considering flying to bali with her friends like wtf am i supposed to do now? Save money to drink wine in italy???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:29 PM
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total larp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:28 PM
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telling that the first thing i wonder is how many kill my selves are in a kilometer why do you want to live so remote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:27 PM
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Sounds like banter? Was he being serious? If yes find someone else. Get a friend and cold approach two dudes in a bar, see how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:26 PM
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All I want is for that girl that seemed interested but then ghosted me to text me, sincerely apologize, validate me, reassure me and set up a date, which she takes seriously and doesnt cancel!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:24 PM
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chadfishes? bro thats a shitty waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:23 PM
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sc invisible protoss unit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:22 PM
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Ah same thing same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:44 AM
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DT guys dark templar? What are DTs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:29 AM
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Q4W+Chad: How often do women text first?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:28 AM
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How would you consumate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:33 AM
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Sure but the same is true for the best designer drugs on this planet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:32 AM
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Would she still be allowed in the bed? What about fleamarkets on sundays?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:29 AM
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crazy psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:25 AM
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"men should marry men" as a solution to the cishet dating problem, is this a homosexual psyop?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:25 AM
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Ive heared that orgasms are stronger for women than for men and men can also have kinda shitty orgasms. If an orgasm is pushing a stone over the tip of the mountain, a womans mountain is a lot higher and more satisfying and whilst thats the case sometimes for men, often times it can also be very shallow, which will lead to orgasm but wont be very satisfying. Edging exists to build up the mountain as far as I understand. So I dont think sex was made for me to enjoy. I think sex was made to make m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:22 AM
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not your prefered position? :]
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:16 AM
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Yeah I think I agree with the first part. Women are more brave and have experienced a lot more adversity, controlling behaviour and have still managed to emancipate themselves. And yes some dudes are definitely lazy and unimaginative and just generally have piss poor taste and dont even realize. Regarding style and looks so many more guys are just totally clueluess. And I know it differs from social strata and with age and all that, but some people just have zero clue and repeat the only thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:15 AM
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But you need to realize its socially more acceptable for women to, i.e. there is a culture of women that do it, even if other parts of society from upon it Its just socially not as acceptible and there is more pressure for men to conform dress wise. I agree that this is for men to change, same how women also liberated themselves, but I think its a bit cruel to blame it on male laziness, word choice wise..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:53 AM
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fair, im exagerating a bit anyway my ex liked to edge a lot it made me want to get into it, but i just cant do it and kinda just push it over which sometimes is very underwhelming. It gave me the impression women had more control of some sort, at least the ones that are into it. Cant fathom how there can be women out there that dont orgasm at all..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:23 AM
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she?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:21 AM
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how else would you stay cozy with all the water spraying at you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:20 AM
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Oh I wasnt trying to argue that at all actually. Just trying to point out that male dress code isnt "liberated". And I guess I considered harrassment to be more general. If you dress oddly people will comment and depending on context ridicule or bully you. The more masculine and competitive the context the worse. Also you would definitely need to calculate what is and isnt appropriate, you cant run in tight pants with a bulge, or go to work with an open shirt. Its still completely inappropriate …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:19 AM
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belabour nice word btw! Didnt know it, will try and use it from now on :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:13 AM
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lol didnt know that existed I think its the validation, the more i get the more effeminate i become
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:02 AM
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divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:01 AM
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I dont know why but the first thing I thought of was benny benassi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 12:00 AM
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not even in the shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:59 PM
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hey no need to tell me about the joys of bending backs I always wanted to know what its like for women to orgasm (given that its supposed to feel ((((even))) more intense) but after seeing women basically try and start a fire down there it really seems to be a lot of work. Although maybe thats just endless edging for the sake of it, not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:58 PM
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I would enjoy not having to calculate how much harassment my outfit is likely to get me Most men dress waaay more uniformly than most women. And generally men have less choice what to wear. Its basically shirt and pants every day. Anything else is either seen as flamboyant/attention seeking/ will make you stand out and not in a way that gets you respect. Men are kinda risk averse and uniform in that sense, so I strongly disagree that being a man would liberate you in terms of clothing choice. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:46 PM
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its pretty good if its good, but you can kinda also cum when its like meh..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:41 PM
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this a big one could potentially even take the blanky with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:38 PM
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I didnt get laid at all in my early 20s until I got a girlfriend.. I did go on dates, but they didnt go anywhere not even remotely. Nowadays they do and if they dont women still want to hang out even though I can tell they are not attacted to me. I think its the edgyness thats offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:32 PM
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hes likely not going be ready to want kids in the next 3-5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:26 PM
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thats why you always gotta play (and why it sucks that I choked)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:15 PM
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forreal its also a massive bubble and circle jerk kinda like the art world, dependent on rich people or politicians to fund their projects and both settled in "extremistan" as nicholas nassim taleb would say Similar kind of issues, better or worse depending on the field
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:07 PM
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But I basically already do 1. after like two dates if the trajectory is clearly seeing each other more often and I expect it to not be a casual thing. Which I know is stupid, because im doing the literal opposite of what trp is saying by stopping all other plates prematurely only to potentially end up cucked. Whelp cant help it, when the heart knows what it wants its no longer interested in anything else. Plus, and im not even gonna lie, id be scared that if she found out id been continueing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:05 PM
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lol buddy that amount of ego needs to remain hidden as best as it can, keep it covered at all times like a palantir
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:59 PM
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I’ve never been able to tell when a girl has been interested in me. Trust me this is true. Although not sure if it holds for your prefered demographic (lol it will in some way). You can see when someone when someone is absent minded or in their head, you can tell when arent interested in you (when youre talking, what youre doing or you in general) and similarily you can also tell when they are (genuinely interested, curious, entertained). A nuance of that is them finding you attractive. I find i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:52 PM
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good manners, should be obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:43 PM
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I was just staggered and stunned out of courage, not cool enough to handle the pressure :( Prettiness can be such a debuff but whats more is that "being noticed" makes it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:41 PM
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I want to preface this by saying I have zero issues talking to women. I have zero issues talking to strangers. I am usually capable of being quite calm and casual and I would say I somewhat have the gift of the gab. I was once at an airport and I see this gorgeous girl, same age range, appears to be same social strata, as it goes ofc, I cant stop glancing at her because she is virtually so pretty. I have the feeling she noticed me too which makes me really nervous and excited, okay been there do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:36 PM
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no comparable tension to airports and trains jesus dont know how to deal with it either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:21 PM
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Same, my N count isnt very high either but ive had sex also virtually hundreds of times with the same person, as I said in the edit to the other comment I fully agree that what I mean is sexual experience, aka how much sex you have had, not how many as you point out. Chances are though that promiscuous people have lots of sex and therefore more experience than unpromiscuous people. Also someone that is good at sex has likely had a lot of sex before, even if its just with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:19 PM
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I fully agree, I edited just now to include that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:16 PM
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They dont know how to move their body, have no concept of where something goes, how the other person needs to be able to move, lack understanding of intent (i.e. I want to change position so i move around and they dont follow) Tbf I would say that there are probably a lot of promiscuous women out there who are bad at sex (just like men), who also have no concept of this, just do the starfish or doggy, but women with no experience are also insecure on top of that and it shows, because insecurity …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:13 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSjRt2AjmdA
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:09 PM
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i get it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 10:09 PM
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yeah but then you notice in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:55 PM
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yeah unfortunately not always, but you find out when you fuck people that are good at sex are not doing it for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:55 PM
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because thats how many rings you have to give?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:54 PM
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same, its what it takes I guess its nice that at this age its no longer weird to do this and we are free to really be as engaged with it as we want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:51 PM
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so why the pommegranate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:44 PM
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may exact saying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:42 PM
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Agree with decline of third spaces. On the otherhand in big cities there are lots of people struggling with the same issue and lots of social meet ups and activities you can attend. Its not the same as university, is a lot more isular and generally not as easy as college but at least its a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:41 PM
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Yes and no. It gets harder to meet people naturally, which basically just means you need to be more proactive and make more of an effort going to places, its not like early 20s where you basically cant help but meet a lot of people your age at college. It also gets easier in some ways, people are more relaxed, more mature, more intouch with themselves, less insecure, more open, less guarded, moreand generally easier to get a long with. At least the ones that are open to meet new people. To summa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:39 PM
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and then what? They drink it, because thats what lesbians do? Dont tell me they will finger it inside each other, thats not how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:34 PM
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man it is then NEXT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:33 PM
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Want to have sex with an erection so hard it wouldnt fit a piece of paper, erection so hard when you joink it it makes the sound of an eulers disk Last time I had sex with one of those must have been like 2020 god damn the memory makes me gag and my eyes roll back casual sex doesnt even speak the same language
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:23 PM
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picky too i see
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:19 PM
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donate straight into mouth or what? pissing blood or what? or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:18 PM
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not sure how you prepared it, maybe youre a lot more experienced than me and im also open for advice, but octopus is really challenging, you need to boil it for ages before you do anything else with it apparently what also works is freezing it because the expanding water destroys the cells and makes it more soft thats what ive heared and tried, but ive also always struggled and its a lot of work so maybe it really is just better leaving it for eating out...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:16 PM
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avocado, yoguhrt, salmon, mayo, peanut crips
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:13 PM
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in love with your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:59 PM
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Why does a man being boring, turn women off so much? Is this a joke? Because boring people are boring to be around. Its exhausting (even if sex is on the horizon)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:57 PM
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Up for both if the vibe is right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:42 PM
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Lol some women have sex with dogs, do dogs go to the gym? Do dogs make a 6 figure salary? Are dogs 6 feet tall? Completely different race and still gets a lay. Some guys fuck sheep, got a perfectly good wife at home in bed and still fuck sheep on the side. What are you doing with your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:40 PM
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hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:39 PM
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No risk of death to high and I can manage with what I have (🤧👏🛐)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:35 PM
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lol based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:32 PM
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Being friends with women is easy if you realize they are also just people and dont want to fuck them Its different when you do want to fuck them though. Then you gotta dance the dance (or suppress yourself). The dance definitely exists and its sometimes hard to read from the male perspective especially if you lack experience (meaning you havent seen it play out a couple of times). Man the more I think about it the more things come to mind that make it hard, but I guess thats also the fun of it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 08:31 PM
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Yeah nothing better than getting that membership, and it does always feel good to have made it. Sometimes I wish I could meet them and have a joint evening of celebration, reminisce and rumination.. Edit: Although not whilst im dating her!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:57 PM
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or just piss poor, aka clueless and unaware
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:20 PM
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Its wild, its like there suddenly is equal footing I wonder if its because women realease more or are more strongly affected by oxytocin than men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:18 PM
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ouch <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:14 PM
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I disagree, I dont think people are more picky than ever. Love, relation and partnership has always been a thing even when community sizes were naturally smaller and selection therefore a lot more limited. So Im saying there is nothing inherent human in not fitting, biologically most people should be able to match somewhat sufficiently. We are just waaay more individualistic and self-aware nowadays, place waay more emphasis on making the right/best choice and are presented with a lot more option…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:14 PM
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When you found it and stimulated it, it moves to a different place and you need to find it again (softly)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:44 PM
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chemistry? this a forum full of math and physics majors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:40 PM
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Im way ahead of you, I already know all that. Which is why I said I agree. I have the same experience. So the only thing that I care about is, to be able to gauge the context in which its more or less appreciated. Thats the only thing I cant figure out, so you saying "it doesnt matter" is funny, because its virtually the only thing that matters to me in this context. I dont have issues with talking to women, meeting women or women in general :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 11:36 AM
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Whilst I agree with everything you say, Im also socialized to not "have conversations" with women im not already familar with. I dont cold approach as I dont want to be creepy. I have also been told that women dont mind and even want to be approached (sometimes), but its really hard to figure out when. Unless there is a natural reason to have a conversation, starting a random conversation is always going to be an approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:32 AM
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Edit: Oh lol youre a guy, nevermind Can you exactly explain the context/location and process via which women wouldnt mind being approached? Because I am also hard wired to not approach women in public if I we are not already somehow familiar with each other. A women Ive been seeing has told me something similar though recently, that she really doesnt think its a problem and actually would appreciate being approached sometimes. Its really hard to read the room in this regard though. (and ive even…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:27 AM
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I just want to say that this is the first time ive seen a great discussion in a long time. I agree that saying things like "teach boys not to rape" is condescending and villainizing of young boys and definitely over the top. I agree that things like "believe all women", which should mean "believe all women when they have say they have been a victim" i.e. "take them seriously", turned into "a womans word carries more weight than a mans- always" which is also over the top. I also fully see u/solon…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:42 AM
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How is it? How is the "discussion culture" worth giving it a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:31 PM
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hot chocolate - every1s a winner 💪
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:24 PM
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ye ye ye ye my ex loved that song
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:51 PM
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most people have that kind of 8h meeting monday to friday im afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:22 PM
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our pragagon male, whats your take on intersectionality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:16 PM
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right ill edit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:16 PM
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How chad be greeted to your crushes girlfriends night out: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9KOADsMPmC/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:04 PM
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Work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:58 PM
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Follow up question: Could you summarize this difference as "men feel attraction and women admiration"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:52 PM
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Q4PPDW: Is this cap? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:50 PM
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this doesnt help you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:26 PM
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First of all chatting means nothing. Move to meet asap, all youre wasting is the "novelty" buff Second of all, she isnt interested, she is using you for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:18 PM
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Say someone who isnt your type approached you, and you vibed pretty well, would that make you want to fuck them, or is there a baselevel of attractiveness? If there is a base level, what is more important; physical hottness or prettiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:11 PM
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Okay these guys are fairly average tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:52 PM
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So for you its more about matching type than anything else, when it comes to partner selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:08 PM
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Interesting However as frequently discussed on this sub, looks still matter to women, you wouldnt date anyone you happen to get close to. What plays a bigger role in your partner selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:07 PM
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Whats the difference? What do you prefer or is it irrelevant when looking for a partner? How do these attributes relate to your level of sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:43 PM
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Lol go to the daily thread and say attraction doesnt matter, you will get lots of interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:03 PM
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yeah this also confuses me, why are people avoiding talking about what they find attractive? I guess the women here are responding as individuals, and it may not be relevant for them, but there are women out there that make their decisions based on who they find physically attractive (including a vast portion and open portion of my female friends) Edit: Why didnt you answer the question and instead respond with a counter question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:02 PM
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I guess thats why I specified on TV haha, never meet your idols they say and I dont intend to meet mine (not that male actors are that category anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:34 PM
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What characteristics make you feel attracted to someone, to the point you might approach them, or want to approach them or want them to approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:33 PM
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What stimulates sexual desire in you, what makes you feel attracted to want to pursue physical intimacy, any scenario..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:30 PM
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Do you consider yourself very sexual. Does sex matter to you a lot? How comfortable are you being sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:30 PM
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I have also had make up sex a lot, and whilst I agree that it helps sooth things, Im personally also more of the former category where I have the desire to hash things out. Hashing things out AND THEN having sex as a final all is good again is the best imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:29 PM
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ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:22 PM
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The male actors I see on TV I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:16 PM
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This post is about people with zero friends I fully understand that making friends gets harder after school/college and with age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:13 AM
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But do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:12 AM
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lol are you gonna educate me or just lick the salt of your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:12 AM
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I get it, but why do you want to do them? Actually there may be multiple reasons for that, its not fair to say "because you dont care about other people". Do you have some friends? Or do you literally have zero friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:47 PM
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Id find that weird, social connection is pretty important to me, so why does it mean nothing to you? If it genuinely means nothing to you, why care about a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:42 PM
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I really wonder why you struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:37 PM
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so you have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:36 PM
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I get that, but most people dont work night shifts. Most people would find that too encroaching on their social life, which is why most people wouldnt want to do that, which is why it requires higher pay. So why do you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:32 PM
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And I dont have an issue with that! The issue arises when someone has Zero = 0 friends. Thats a red flag Im totally fine with someone having 1 very close friend and a bunch of acquaintances they dont really consider "friends" but at least interact with on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:24 PM
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No dude empathy and theory of mind are important because they inform YOU about whats going on in other people. They help you make other people more predicatable, which means that in society they help with cooperation. Ofc its more pleasant to be around someone that is able to anticipate what you want and are planning to do and acts accordingly to make cooperation as smooth as possible. These are social skills that make interaction better. That shit is equally valid in the jungle. First of all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:12 PM
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figure out whats important to other people, figure out whats important to you and being you then take those two circles and maximize the intersection (at least in public)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:26 PM
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Midwest emo tracks you mean ...blues?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:25 PM
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whats a kid with head gear?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:07 PM
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im more of a mr magic kinda guy but hey bow chicka wow wow has got to come from some funky guitar riff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:06 PM
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my word
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:04 PM
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been thinking of grover washington jr but its a bit too overt me thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:57 PM
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not sure if I agree. Its kinda like quiet luxury. You show and express style and taste through smaller and harder to differentiatable aspects. In a way its the game evolving in a way. Male attractiveness has not stopped playing a role. Also it fluctuates, the 70s and 90s were quite colourful for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:55 PM
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i guess you will always be free to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:53 PM
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and maybe the price prossies arent cheap my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:52 PM
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some mistakes can be prevented from an early age..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:51 PM
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Is this a wishful analogy? The young new thing is boring and annoyingly vapid, the old thing has style, character, charisma, experience, runs fully analog and doesnt have any electronic issues.. Edit: in all fairness I am quite excited for the 2025 volve v60 with the glass ceiling my revenge fantasy is my funny and talkative gf picking me up from work, whilst talking shit to the kids in the back, so that we (she) can drive on us on summer holiday, whilst I crack a cold one and arrange the spotif…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:47 PM
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i got to hear this since i was a little boy, sounds like your parents didnt reality pill you or you got privilege pilled somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:45 PM
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how?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:45 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:44 PM
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Im far from being there lol this is a hypothetical haha but carry on, I feel I need this right now, my internal monologe is quite critical indeed. I am blessed with opportunity and riddled with being a fuck up and im sacred that I will be punished for it by having a pathetic life moving forward :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:17 PM
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im not immune from making mistakes, but I would consider that unfair (of myself) for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:15 PM
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this is by far the only time ive ever seen a rational argument made for why 16yo should vote however maybe we should just agree that 16yo dont need to pay taxes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:02 PM
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yeah but who drinks that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:00 PM
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theta gang is great seriously if wsb is a bunch of apes celebrating their time in the biggest casino on the planet, theta gang is sitting at baccarat calling it a strategy based card game
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:56 PM
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man honestly If ive found my life partner and after 20y of marriage things are stale, she is away and tells me later she had a thing with a stranger in a different whilst being away on business, just to feel the excitement, I honestly think id let it slide. If after 20y and kids she tells me everything we had was real, I am the man of her life, but she needs a break, figure out who she used to be, who she is Id let her go and take her back too. I think id get it, very specific cases but still
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:52 PM
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check out r/limerence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:43 PM
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ask the semen donor, he might be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:41 PM
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I dont disagree, I would say ideally they still find someone, I think theyd still deserve it, but they are not entitled to it, they cant redeem it, expect it, demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:40 PM
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first of all, this is an interesting case to consider and on one hand I want to say you got me, on the other hand telling a bunch of people in the 1800s that 200 years later racism will not impact their life as significantly wont help them either. They gotta make do with what they have and still take responsibility to make the best of it. All this social change was kicked off by people that got off their arses and said lets do something about it, and not by people that sat around waiting for thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:38 PM
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the jungle is as it is and I do have aspirations in it..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:36 PM
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No not at all, thats my whole point! Similarily the judge is not going to punish the person that was beaten, that doesnt make dating a wife beater any less of the responsibility of the person dating them. Two separate decisions, two separate instances of attributing blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:19 PM
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I think people deserve to be. I think humans are made for it, and its a big part of the human experience and big part of what makes the human experience deeply enjoyable and meaningful. I would say people arent entitled to it though, you gotta make an effort, that includes learning to become a decent human being. (I am argueing semantics)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:01 PM
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depends may be very codependent, which is not healthy, but also not a problem for some people. I agree with you, but wouldnt generalize over all relationships..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:57 PM
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No. Haha dont even try. I am not blaming them for being beaten am I? The rule is you are only to blame for your decisions, not the decisions of other people (unless youre explicitly cooperating). Their choice of partner is still their fault. And if they want to date better people than the only thing they can do is reflect on their partner selection process. You are not to blame for being robbed of your rolex watch at gun point. Thats a crime and not your fault. You are to blame for openly flexin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:53 PM
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Would you say that to someone who just got out of their third abusive relationship in a row? Yes 100%! Your life is your responsibility fully. Its only you who you can change. If the whole world is full of shit, maybe still watch your step? If other people manage to avoid it, you need to learn to as well, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:42 PM
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Regarding your edit: If anything narcissistic bipolar sociopaths I see are usually surrounded by friends, not the opposite. Someone with zero empathy or emotions is going to be going around manipulating and charming people 24/7, not sitting in their room alone moping. Yes exactly, they are usually extraverts. Charming, confident extraverts without any real friends are a giant red flag. Thats my whole point. Maybe I could have worded it clearer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:06 PM
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Because unfortunately a lot of the time people can be judgemental, cliquey, and shallow. True, but if its virtually all of them, the common denominator is you. The fact that not a single person your age group has connected with you make me genuinely question whether I should. If I am looking for someone with high interpersonal qualities, what is the chance that virtually no one else has been able to spot them? It evidences that there is a lot of awkwardness, shyness, issues with empathy or aware…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:04 PM
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true redflag does not mean deal breaker, it does me stop and really consider, as you said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:46 PM
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Definitely a red flag to me The big red gaping question is why??? lack of social integration? (why does no one want to associate with you) lack of involvement in society? (job,education, why are you no where where you would meet anyone) lack of interest? (Im outgoing, how is not being connected not important to you) There are only two redeeming answers: namely I just moved here and havent met anyone yet (✓) or I havent focussed on it, have been way too busy and I have IRL friends elsewhere that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:38 PM
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what are the cross over points? Or is it just a spectrum of bitterness? To this day I still dont really know what hte black pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:54 PM
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no miss snuggling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:52 PM
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the only ones that seem to manage have an all most confusingly weird preference for young boys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:52 PM
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isnt this just the plot of idiocracy? just watch the movie, people have gone down this path before, there appears to be nothing we can do than laugh about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:49 PM
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yes I have had other men touch my arms around women for example asking if i lift etc. Doesnt get shittier than that, but you learn to deal with it and ultimately its them feeling threatened by me. The smart ones are smart enough to no do something so blunt, the stupid ones are easy to redicule right away in front of everyone in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:40 PM
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same, feel kinda lonely too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:37 PM
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In your early 20s your young, the bar is low you can be a gross stoner loser dude and still be likeable enough to get a gf In your early 30s you got rizz and chat but the bar is no longer low and now I gotta be responsible and healthy and clean and organized and I dont know how to do all of that shit on a permanent continuous basis. I get why women value it, but its just not me, im way to chaotic. How am I every going to find a partner again? Should I have made more effort with my ex? We had iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:32 PM
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because ghosting is just shitty and it doesnt take a lot of effort to not do it not giving out free sex to the ugly and needy is ofc also incredibly incomprehensible and extremely shitty but not quite comparable in my humble opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:25 PM
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Convincing them to sleep with you requires skill, effort and becoming attractive. it also requires practice, being around new women gives more opportunity to practice Its not like im denying attractiveness is important and should be focussed on. But being friends with women next to the obvious reason (that you like them as people and consider them friends) also comes with distinct advantages. What’s so hard to comprehend??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:20 PM
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At least thats what I like to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:09 PM
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if its so easy, why do guys on here keep complaining about how easy it is you can do things in parallel you know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:52 PM
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Lol so the solution to a vast portion of men not having access to sex, is no more sex for anyone? How can you have regular sex in a relationship without contraception? Condoms, pill and IUD for couples only? Geez that would create a super weird black market, weird utility couples, tolerated infidelity and unnecessary bureaucracy and just be annoying for virtually everyone involved. People get to do what they want. If sex is no longer beneficial and fun to most people they will stop having it nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:17 PM
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oh PPD strikes again 😂 "The cooperation of the sexes caused more death than the bubonic plague" -lolol it also caused more birth than literally anything ever "We dont belong together" is also such an insane take considering we have literally evolved to coparenting, social living and have a natural innate drive to be with each other. There is literally zero evidence for us not belonging together. I love this premise though, "THE SEXES Dont Belong Together" you should write a dystopian fiction boo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:03 PM
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whats the benefit of male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:52 PM
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Its so silly really if youre wondering why youre not meeting women through your friend circle, its because you circle is only guys that are friends with only guys..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:50 PM
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I think pointing to social strata is very astute. Totally depends on your social circles and the values within, you cant generalize what a group of people collectively values. Pretty sure hippie chad is not the same kind of asshole as touch-down macquarterchad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:29 AM
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Men who get pregnant have the same exact access to abortion that women do. This is so insanely clever of you chapeau to our extraordinarily creative friend, haha rofl BECAUSE MEN CANT GET PREGNANT!!! Slaps leg!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:02 AM
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The only reason i can see for roe v wade and the whole christian nonesense is to keep up birthrates, to prevent the economic issues from declining birthrates and keep a steady influx of army material. Part of me just cant believe its anything else, its so stupid. Then again the US doesnt even have the extensive social systems that Europe is struggling with due to declining birthrates and already is an established popular destination for foreign migration, so actually I guess it doesnt make anyse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:59 AM
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This is just a case of men having to take the "L" because of biology. Fully agreed. Dont even know if you can call it an "L" even all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:54 AM
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People werent forced, they were strongly encouraged and excluded from society if necessary (which makes sense with an infectious global disease). It was a special case and now everything is back to normal so get over it. No one came to your house to force you to have a procedure. Very apparently we dont force people, not even during a global pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:52 AM
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I can see there being a conflict of interest, however I dont believe a significantly large amount of women scam men into getting pregnant for financial gain. Conversely child support exists to protect the child, and getting rid of it would mean that children are directly affected by it. So comparing the number of grifters that benefit from it, to the number of children that would suffer without it, I would say keeping it better and fairer to more people. I simply dont think a lot of men are affe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:43 AM
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exposure effect tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:21 PM
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sounds like heart disease
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:19 PM
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maybe add them as flairs to the side bar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:16 PM
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I thought about this but im not into it, my sperm needs proper education, special handling instructions and the only way theyd get it is from the source? how else you gonne properly contextualize and frame the mental illness and handle the propensity for substance abuse without the passed down wisdom of the forefathers? One of us! One of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:04 PM
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i do like tongue toys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:01 PM
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what does post wall mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:52 PM
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seriously- exqueeeze me????
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:50 PM
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'pology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:49 PM
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thats a great mindset imo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:37 PM
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okay, i never understood it to mean "hit on me" either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:32 PM
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or say that she has nothing going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:22 PM
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when youre so red-pill you gotta cull hte good ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:20 PM
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yes less interview-y and generally less awkward with age/experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:19 PM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:09 PM
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just nah endless negroni season and some kool and the gang summer madness
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:07 PM
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sad but based-pilled, im with you bud, towards better times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:05 PM
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tried touching grass last week, didnt work maybe the grass was a bit too green tbh. I might touch grass with some grass ive already touched some weeks ago, but I dont know if I want to tbh, lets see if the grass wants to touch me. Either way I wish I had a better view from my porch, kinda sad and depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:04 PM
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very funny i wonder where his mind is right now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:01 PM
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Actually after getting better at dates and picking up on vibes immediately its less so. Now sometimes I know there is no vibe, but being cordial demands keeping it going for a while. So no, other way around, getting older makes it better (at least for me).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:59 PM
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in europe its still negroni season..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:57 PM
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so youre saying fuck yeah summer is over or what? Cant we wait 8 more days at least? No christmas deco before halloween!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:53 PM
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I would be mad, but alas so is life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:51 PM
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good, i call it touching grass
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:51 PM
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I say no, not necessarily, their social circle is mcdonalds and their degree may play no bearing there unless its abundantly clear they are more intelligent and capable, which in all fairness is not unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:44 PM
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Status is also standing at the bbq, telling a story and having everyone naturally listen to you without being interrupted.. Its a social thing. Wealth determines what circles you frequent, success determines your credibility, being credible within a specific desireable circle means people within said circle listen to you and care about what you have to say. Therefore wealth and success strongly impact status without money itself being a factor necessarily. You can be rich and still low status an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:41 PM
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Shit sex and boring and meaningless?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:37 PM
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what would be the opposite of that? Mentioning that they have nothing going on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:37 PM
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regular but not regular nyc more of a german recipe, baked without biscuit base
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:59 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:57 PM
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I have beef with my cook for grinding on his cat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:57 PM
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how original I say, being jealous of chad for being validated by her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:55 PM
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also interesting how this dude is slowly being ghosted in his own thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:51 PM
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you took the bread you toasted now your scrapping off a piece of charcoal still hoping to find something to spread your jam on its done back to milk and cereal for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:50 PM
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you sound like you double text double texts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:48 PM
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fr
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:48 PM
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oxytocin levels after a night of snuggling are quite a buzz
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:40 PM
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i also baked, made the family cheese cake recipe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:39 PM
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with frosting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:39 PM
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first sentence funny red pill man gotta red pill mind
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:37 PM
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gut instinct says jail but you cant shake the social stigma for the rest of your life, literally everyone in your generation is gonna look down at you and you wont have anything to relate from that point forward if i rot in the trenches im at least gonna get all the memes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:35 PM
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samesies sis!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:45 PM
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im also team lemon poppy squares that sounds delish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:45 PM
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yeah but then hte same reasoning applies - why arent you getting invited to interviews?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:17 PM
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I totally get how absurd it sounds to assume you want to be with somone long term you are not sexually attracted to. I wouldnt want that either, however for some reason this attitude doesnt come across when listening to women talk about sex with their partners. Some women, including in this thread make it sound like "ill sleep with him if he wants" which just sounds a lot different from I sleep with chad because hes the fun hot guy and I just want to sleep with him. We get that chad is fun and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:34 PM
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I think the fact that you live in a big city is already a big sign. There should be people ot someone there that should be interested in at least trying to get to know you. You dont seem very demanding or difficult, so I dont think thats an issue either. Maybe you seem desperate or indiscriminate. Desperate is off-putting for social reasons, indiscriminate or too accommodating is bad because it makes it look like you dont actually care about the other person as long as there is someone. Dating i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:06 PM
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I think youre making it easy for yourself, being so dismissive means you have nothing to say. I get that you dont care but that doesnt mean your framing is biased and close minded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:51 PM
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Yeah it kinda is your problem, if hte special guy walks and leaves you behind confused.. Im not saying you need to accommodate men, but how does it not matter to you how someone you seemingly care about percieves your actions? How is two people misunderstanding each other only one persons problem? If you are talking to someone who's English isn't their native language and they accidentally say something inappropriate . Would you be offended anyway? Even with this youre implying that one side spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:18 AM
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but why redicule your own concepts if you genuinely believe they are true to their full extent?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:22 AM
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It means chill and easy going at best and stupid and useless at worst. But I dont think its a compliment. If the person themselves is into art it ups your chances. If they are a women there could be a male authority figure element. My analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:21 AM
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How can people on this sub be equally self-ironic, deprecating and ridiculing including of the subject matter but then at the same time mean the shit they say and also make fun off? Specifically talking about the RP who growls at women to assert dominance. Thats a joke right? But at the same time you understand that the concept of asserting dominance itself is equally rediculous..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:16 AM
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"those who cant do, teach" paired with art being an easy "do what you feel like" subject..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:12 AM
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I think its fair to say that men have equally horrible taste in style
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:11 AM
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boring conversation partners, lack of common interests, lack of social skills to compensate and keep me entertained and stimulated whilst interacting These would probably be the reasons to me, they would probably be similar for many men and ive met quite a few very entertaining women though (despite non overlapping interests) and a few women I have quite a few interests in common with, so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:07 AM
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proceeds to get deep throated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:05 AM
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im still with you on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:33 PM
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Ah I disagree, sex with a stranger is just not comparable to sex with someone you know and vulnerable and are physically, emotionally comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:32 PM
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extraverted people initiate more, make conversation easier, carry conversation more, reach out more are more engaged, give feedback more readily and faster, generally interact with more and i wider breadth of people, are more frequently out and in public, make themselves more readily available to other people and are also generally more approachable. Introverted people are simply less noticiable, more awkward, more boring however potentially also more mysterious. This post is stupid and has noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:49 PM
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but hot in a non sexual way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:38 PM
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why do you have the avatar of a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:06 PM
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always the refs, every god damn season innit? Fingers crossed the gunners managed to get a couple better refs over the summer. Maybe a trainer thats better at communicating with them from the side lines. RM just gets lucky with the refs every single time, its mad, how do they do it I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:05 PM
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yeah i think i disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:03 PM
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good night and good rest :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:02 PM
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ask it anyway, maybe follow up with "whats your average 2 mile running speed?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:00 PM
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"fucky fucky madam sucky sucky?" Better? Direct, assertive, creative, casual, shows high SMV..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:59 PM
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please dont do this, the man vs bear things was stupid enough, you really dont need to legitimize it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:58 PM
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i accidentally left one of the lights on so the battery died. Really? No offense but this is so cliche stupid it makes me think youre a catfish. Like what some neck beared dude that never met a real women thinks "a silly woman that knows nothing about cars mistake is". Even people that know nothing about cars (which is perfectly fine btw) usually know to remember to pull the handbrake and turn off the lights so the battery doesnt die. Futhermore most light settings are such that they turn off wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:56 PM
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That guy gives me the ick, I dont trust him, looks like full midlife crisis, insecurity, opportunism and egotism Dont ask me why, just what im getting from it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:48 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:45 PM
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I dont see why not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:44 PM
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Dude just say you want women to wear a burka The solution is dating turning into a shitshow, women learning that casual sex sucks, men learning that they dont need female validation to have value and the bar adjusting accordingly until things are better and healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:44 PM
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Have you never interacted with a group of 5+ people over a longer period of time? At some point you just know their names and have relationships with all of them. Apart from that number of kids should be a sign of affluence...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:42 PM
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red pill man gotta red pill mind you a united fan?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:39 PM
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First of all I dont think it is. I think the vast majority of guys are good guys, that feel bad looking at another womans ass. Of these guys a decent chunk doesnt look at all. Some definitely look, but a solid chunk of men is actually quite loyal. Also I could say the same about women and it would be an equally vapid claim: 99% of women would drop their man if Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp or who the fuck ever comes along to marry them. Ofc these are gorgeous millionaires, however its not going to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:35 PM
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I agree with you. I dont care if you want to put flirting banter into the same category as teasing out boundaries, together with the other more stuff and call the whole group of actions "shit tests", or if you prefer to not have that overarching category overall. I think both is valid. I do think that humans do verbal testing, but as always I dont think things are as rigid the RP makes you believe. So whilst humans may subconsciously or consciously test others, I dont think failing a test necess…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 09:08 PM
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yeah i think teasing is fine, but i think shit tests includes bullying sometimes and thats a bit annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:45 PM
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No its more like "Do you do X all the time?" with X being something that may poke fun at their masculinity, self confidence or autonomy. "Do you really think your Y", "wow you must totally think I Z you" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:43 PM
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I do see the point in them. I dont disagree with men doing them as well. Its a test of confidence and fragility and I think if bother partners do it a little it can be quite a nice flirt that allows people to get to know each other. As long as its not hostile or trying to establish dominance and people remain friendly and accommodating when shit tests are failed (and insecurities revealed). The sentiment should be: everyone has insecurities, lets find out what this person is struggling with. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 06:09 PM
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I dont understand how having sex influence wanting a relationship. It seems there are different non mutually exclusive qualities at play here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:56 PM
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Men will still want to have sex with women they want to marry, they still will find their partners attractive thats my whole point. Women will have limited interest sex even at the beginning of the relationship, because they are lacking attraction, that does not prevent them from engaging in a relationship though. Attraction is not a requirement for a relationship for at least some women. Thats weird. Men want to be made to feel attractive too. And women willing to engage with men that they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:07 PM
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Tell me you have never actually dated a man and are just engaged in feminist rage fantasys You think calvin klein models are not naked? You think men are not confronted with sexualized pictures of men and masculinity? You think men dont grow up with girls swooning over movie actors and teenstars with perfect skin? All of this maybe true but is completely besides the point and not what we are talking about. Any normal person knows that there are beautystandards no one can fulfill, that we and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:31 PM
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This is everyday reality for 99% of all women Its not. It is for some women, sure and that sucks and I feel for them, but saying 99% is a gross overexageration and just lazily rejecting the premise because you dont want to deal with it. The vast majority of women is dating men that find them attractive and whose initiation of sex is a clear validation that they are infact attractive to their partner. Oh I see the rest of your comment is just bitter rage fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:16 PM
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Why not sleep with them and see what remains? How does waiting make lust go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:06 PM
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He doesnt clarify, he is making suggestions for you to come to his place, but he is not explicitly saying he just wants sex, you guys get a long but its clear he finds you attractive and would want to sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:36 PM
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so you have sex with men, that you find hot and attractive because you want to and you dont care what comes of it? you dont have sex with men you want a relationship with because you dont want them to use you just for sex? What about someone you find hot and attractive and would want to have a relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:28 PM
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I know its a self-esteem issue and I also know that self-esteem issues are fundamentally my issues to deal with HOWEVER Id have a lot easier time if women wouldnt constantly trigger this insecurity. I am perfectly happy with who I am and women like being around me, but I dont look like chad, Im not big, Im not muscular and im quite androgynous and women keep telling me how im not actually their type, even ones ive been sleeping with. I dont want to hear it, its disheartening. I would never talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:18 PM
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Is he your type? Did you want to fuck him when you met him initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:06 PM
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I value relationships more. I prefer intimacy and familiarity. I value partnership and I even prefer sex with the same partner... The question is why get in a relationship with someone you dont really want to get intimate with? Thats the question..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:04 PM
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it’s easier to say no because you have tomorrow to have sex, and the day after that, and the day after that… you get the idea. yeah sounds like a chore and not self-motivated desire. Great. Thats what men want!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:02 PM
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stress, work and fatigue is hardly intimate, its neither fun the question is why you readily seek intimacy with strangers but not with people youre considering for committment. Its not so hard to understand. The top commenters have already alluded at the answer, its just a disappointing one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:00 PM
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i cant believe im starting to see red come out on top
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:56 PM
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because it makes us feel ugly and unwanted. It makes it seem as if the sex we do end up having is just for sake of "management" and not really out of self-motivated desire. We want to be wanted just like anyone else and saying "well we dont want you like that but hey we will be charitable and accommodate your needs" is going to be hurtful and disappointing to us. Imagine dating someone who makes you feel they like they are only with you because they cant get anyone better. Sucks for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:54 PM
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where is your future spouse right now and what would she say if she would see you like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:54 PM
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emotional connection and support me thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:53 PM
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where is the line between doing what you have to do and being so desperate youre making a total mug out of yourself I didnt simp, I did ruin the mood, which is hardly sophisticated but sometimes you just have to realize when making anymore effort is hardly going to lead to success, plus she already ruined my self-confidence and triggered an insecurity which in some way already ruined it for me.. My ex did the same thing, I wasnt able to get over it and I dont want that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:51 PM
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As I replied to the other commenter, I dont really believe it was a shit test, I believe it was her way of letting me know she is not into guys like me. Shit tests are jabs, comments to test your confidence, self-esteem, ability to remain calm and emotionally stable when facing adversity or being challenged. She wasnt concerned with how im taking or dealing with it, she just wanted to get it out, otherwise she wouldnt have gone on and on and on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:47 PM
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You talk exaclty like someone whos only interaction is being a virtual DnD dungeon master (ive never played it, but id be open to try, sounds rediculous)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:36 PM
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I dont even know anymore. I cant have big arms unfortunately, its the one thing I cant have, kinda like how I cant be 6.5", something you just gotta accept
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:33 PM
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buddy i think we play in different leagues, im not a virgin this is not about getting laid once, this isnt about playing social games to get my way, this is about finding a woman that genuinely finds me attractive for who I am. That wants to have sex because shes attracted and not because she knows I want it and she did the math. I dont know why, maybe its a psychological issue on my side, that im so fucking insecure, but I just dont want to be made to feel ugly. I dont want pitty sex or managem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:31 PM
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yeah i guess i fucking failed it god damn Then again i deal with comments quite well, but this wasnt a comment it was a fucking endless paean, exemplified by descriptions of multiple past exhibits. How is that supposed to be a shit test, you have to be fucking delulu not to get the message there..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:24 PM
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In all fairness it wasnt clear whether it was a date, it wasnt clear it was not a date either. We talked about having chemistry on the first unlabled meet up, which we both felt immediately when we first saw each other, we also talked about dating in our city and she said she needs time to figure things out. We then met up again a few days later. So in her defense it wasnt a defined date date, but it did make me feel like she was only seeing me for emotional support and that she was trying to ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:20 PM
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low taxes and lack of social security are the only two reasons i would move to the US seriously the only thing you guys lack massively imo is consumer protection (including regarding mass media) and workers protection looking at europe public social systems look more and more like a scam or (population) pyramid scheme and high taxes just make making an effort look pointless edit: oh and ofc the way the election system is set up to be First-past-the-post voting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:10 PM
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That alphas and betas are genetically separate breeds of the same species due to evolutionary reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:08 PM
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lol kinda beautiful though, I would try and use that next time, if i wasnt so fugly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:06 PM
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happened to me today (i need to redden my flair)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:05 PM
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tell me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:05 PM
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for me its the opposite apparently (and apparently not exaclty profiting of it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:03 PM
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maybe just wear the mask all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:03 PM
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wish that were true, but attraction is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 09:00 PM
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i genuinely hope jack paul gets hurt badly, fuck around find out has to get this guy eventually (but i know its gonna be a draw because mike is totally over it and just does it for the money)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:58 PM
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lack of creativity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:57 PM
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I think i crossed into the redpill tonight, had a date last night where i noticed immediately the girl wasnt into me (the eyes chico..) Then today I had second meetup with someone and despite her acknowledging that we have chemistry previously, the girl just starts talking about how shes only attracted to tall ripped dudes with big arms (not me) She can pull these guys too apparently, so im effectively getting my show stopped by past chad thundercocks. I cant believe it. now myself esteem is sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:57 PM
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First of all you cant "secure" sex with them, you meet them feel out the vibe, if its good to try and get comfortable and comfortable being physically close with each other, then you hope she also wants to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:03 AM
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A little bit..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:40 PM
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sorry just feeling horny and mischievous today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:41 AM
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an in-depth subject in the field of human orafices maybe to academic..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:37 AM
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is there a difference between pretty boys and twinks (I dont consider marlon brando/james dean pretty boys, I do consider leonardo di caprio and orlando bloom pretty boys)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:34 AM
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analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:32 AM
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do women like twinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:30 AM
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maybe its a guy thing, maybe its just a me thing idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:16 AM
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uch one of my favs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:00 AM
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Wow thats fucked, mine thankfully only has an irregular evening and night time schedule
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:59 AM
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help me help you up your number 👉👈 jk maybe get into derivative trading?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:57 AM
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I also like living together, but seeing each other constantly, having physical contact constantly kills lust for me and eventually erodes the sex life. I also agree that it makes you take the other person for granted. Spending time apart vitalizes all of these aspects. Therefore im team living together with also doing things separate. Leaving room to miss someone. Having the ability to sleep in separate flats is a huge benefit, but just too expensive if the default is living together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:54 AM
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Personally, I have the same physical standards for my hookups as LTR. If I can’t see myself hooking up with you, I won’t marry you. This is an interesting point, because I initially wanted to agree with you that I feel the same way about it, but caught myself because its a lie. I sleep with women I dont find sufficiently attractive to really want to date long term and see on a regular basis. Its cruel but its true. So personally I am willing to believe that hypergamie exists at least for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:48 AM
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The women in the flat across the street is screaming around again. At first I was concerned because it sounded like she was in an abusive relationship but now I think she is just delulu. I have not once heared a man shout, heared something break or heared her scream in fear or pain, just her shouting and insulting someone (and sometimes storming off). Doesnt seem to be an uncommon occurance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:47 AM
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maybe a bit of vaginal fluid down my throat too.. ideally id wanna suck on the clit as if it were a dispenser but thats a bit too rough for most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:33 AM
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besides the point especially since we are not talking about casual sex in the first place lol, also the article says "slightly larger" anyway and not huge (aka vacation dick territory)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:15 AM
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and making it is effort, good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:06 AM
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maybe ill try juggling it tonight when i stare profusely enough it speaks to me..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:01 AM
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guess youre cultured
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:59 PM
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your content? words still have meaning no matter the year, what do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:57 PM
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not intervene, unproportional but deserved reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:55 PM
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its supposed to mean kys as far as i get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:49 PM
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I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:47 PM
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so western europe excluding spain, portugal, the benelux and switzerland? (me, life is quite good but could be even better)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:47 PM
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two hands is definitely gluttonous for me, myself am already celebrating when i give it a flick with the pinky after spitting on it and calling myself a pathetic loser after staring at it angrily for 20 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:45 PM
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urban dictionary is usually quite accurate in its definitions but yes if it gives you peace, maybe she just told me I have boyfriend dick and not tinky winky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:42 PM
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that goes on my list what continent are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:41 PM
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parmigiana di melanzane (takes time tho frying the aubergine but veggie (can be plus) and definietely not normy)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:40 PM
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thats just gluttonous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:37 PM
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yeah better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:36 PM
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plot twist: "your wifes brother richard died"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:35 PM
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on the contrary they spend half their life lying around alone in the bedroom (or the closet)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:33 PM
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tape it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:27 PM
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thanks for making me look better in comparison! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:25 PM
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I dont think boyfriend dick is derogatory. Ive been told I have boyfriend dick and as far as I understand its a convenient comfortable everyday always tool. I much prefer it over having to wield a "thats a bit too much for me now" even if it be considered "the killer" sometimes. The destinction between vacation dick and boyfriend dick exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:22 PM
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I think instead of focussing on the feeling of disbelief of having once again gotten this far, ill do this ^ from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:20 PM
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<image> truly a modern classic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:15 PM
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all im asking for is some nips in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:06 PM
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I would argue normal dating advice was everything but monolithic and frequently self contradicting depending on the source, it was wild and unorganized, one could say; it didnt really exist beyond hearsay. Then came the RP an organized faith, with gospels and apostels the rest, as the most erudite and discoursive like to say, is history
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:45 PM
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ill wipe my dick on your doormat (on the way out)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:14 PM
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I think its wild how I keep coming across RP terms that I have internalized myself through experience without knowing RP has a dedicated term for it (amused mastery in this case)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:13 PM
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musc oud extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:10 PM
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analogy - your mothers favourite special interest of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:09 PM
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Cannot disagree with this logic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:03 PM
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as is champagne ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:03 PM
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Blue pill male perspective as far as I understand it is: You want a girl, you need to make the effort, courting, courting, courting whatever that means to you. The underlying theory is that you court to sway, to make the girl like you. She is not going to fall in love with you if youre not making an effort. Once you convinced her, she will love you. This is what I wanted to say initially but now I dont know anymore. Its not transactional but still sounds awefully outdated. I think in our individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:01 PM
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I think teh original sentence is missing words that make it hard for me to infer what they are trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:44 PM
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Great video, but I dont get the "gay" connection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:39 PM
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in ability of remember is a sign of repressed childhood trauma just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:37 PM
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a skill is something you can learn, you can learn to be socially better adapted in a multitude of ways, i.e. higher/wider social adaption is a skill, i.e. a social skill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:35 PM
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I dont understand what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:34 PM
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also sometimes happens to the other way around, ive heared women complaining irl about their depressed situationship that they are into but that doesnt like to do anything, doesnt want to date, struggles to have sex and is just generally apathetic and miserable, with them not knowing how to deal with it (obv. didnt last but the will was there initially)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:51 PM
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Its not exactly impressive in women either (with that I mean I wouldnt want to date, hangout or work with one either)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:46 PM
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How long will it take? And when does my sex finally arrive?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:18 PM
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"Feminism doesnt hate men according to new research" Is also baller of a headline. Didnt even know this was a topic of the ongoing scientific discourse on the very forefront of human knowledge. Well im glad people are studying it, seems mighty relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:09 PM
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I dont know where you want to go with this, but im pretty sure hitler had better game than newton
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:03 PM
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Sure did mama teresa dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:01 PM
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Throughout history, there have been many notable figures known for their extravagant lifestyles, love of parties, and overall penchant for "living it up." Here are a few: Cleopatra VII: The last Pharaoh of Egypt was known for her luxurious lifestyle and her relationships with Julius Caesar and Mark Antony. Her reign was marked by opulence and grand displays of wealth. Nero: The Roman Emperor is infamous for his hedonistic and extravagant lifestyle. He hosted lavish parties, spent extravagantly o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:51 AM
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Determining whether historical figures were virgins is often speculative and based on historical records, personal writings, or cultural assumptions. However, some of the individuals mentioned are more commonly associated with celibacy: Isaac Newton: It is widely believed, though not definitively proven, that Newton remained celibate throughout his life. There is no historical evidence to suggest he had romantic or sexual relationships. Emily Dickinson: There is no evidence to suggest Dickinson …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:50 AM
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Lol it will never be honorable. Getting someone to marry you (whatever your gender, whatever theirs) is a pretty big indicator that at least 1 person is willing to live their life with you around all the time. Its a pretty big deal in terms of status. How is being single going to compete with that? Like you would need to have and permanently maintain the most publically raucous social life in order to compensate and succeed a lack of "marriage". ChatGPT Edit: There are several notable historical…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:46 AM
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My mistake i wrote should instead of shouldnt im saying the NBA should earn less, big difference! The money saved should be spent on more ad revenue promoting the NBA, thereby promoting more young people to go into the NBA to drive the competition and lower teh labour costs. Less money for ath-o-letes, more competition, better play, more ad money, less money for ath-o-letes etc. etc. Whacha say?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 11:39 AM
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No not at all, for me them staying together would have been better. The argueing was horrible but all the issues that splitting up created paired with my mother ineptitude to manage without the help of my dad made things a lot worse. And just to clarify, she wanted the kids, she got the kids, my dad would have had us too and it may have been easier. And this is ignoring all the psyochological drawn out warfare and years of divorce that we were reeled into on top of all that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:03 AM
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hey im not staying stay stuck to the old chain and the ball, i just agree that divorce is not automatically better for the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:00 AM
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So are mine, I am directly pulling how it was for me, they did the argueing every day for a while too Things didnt get better after they split up, things got better (for me) when I moved out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:54 AM
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I am not making that claim. I am saying if you can have an amicable divorce, thats good and doing that will likely turn out okay, however most people, once they come to the point where they want to divorce are not going to be amicable with each other at all. And divorce does not make the toxicity go away from the perspective of the child. trying to force a loveless marriage, from what I’ve observed, can quickly make even the most amicable situations…less amicable. I concede that this may be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:52 AM
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I think I agree with OP in the sense that it makes your life better for you, I also agree with the other commenter that said for the child, youre just switching between to poisons. The kids dont benefit unless you handle it exceptionally well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:47 AM
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Dude the word semi-amicably does a lot of heavy lifting here. If you can split semi-amicably with only a little initial awkwardness then the relationship and the people involved arent actually extremely toxic, so yes ofc that situation is better compared to the situation of two toxic individuals that live out their toxic relationship. If the couple that split amicable stayed together, both parents would be unhappy but could make it work, maybe the house vibe would be a bit colder, maybe holidays…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:40 AM
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I am saying that people that cant separate amicably will divorce horribly for years to come. If youre in a toxic relationship, you need to split and go no contact. Thats impossible with kids. So there is no winning. If youre not in a toxic relationship you can split amicably and make it work, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:37 AM
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So your parents didnt divorce. Mine did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:34 AM
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Pointing to common sense is the equivalent of saying "my parents arent divorced and I dont actually have any experience with divorce from the perspective of a child" Do you really think the fighting and argueing stops after separation? Thats when all the money issues, organizational issues only really begin, plus your parents become single caretakers whenever they are around you. constantly fighting/arguing in the same household everyday Is horrible for children because its selfish and toxic. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:31 AM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:27 AM
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You cant separate and go no contact if you have kid. So separation just means "no longer living in the same place, more difficulty with bureaucracy, money and communication and potentially bringing strangers into the mix" from the perspective of a child
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:26 AM
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The point is whether divorced or not the children will constantly view toxic relationship dynamics unless there is no contact In my experience the parents that cooperated and stuck it out for the kids were a lot better parents than the ones that selfishly fought in front of court. Unhappily married doesnt need to mean toxic necessarily. Divorced neither ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:23 AM
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I think WNBA should make more, the NBA makes a shit ton of ad revenue, if male NBA players earned less than WNBA players they might play even harder to fight for the best paying contracts, simultaenously all that ad money could stay with advertisers instead of players, which could then use the money to promote the NBA even more, making the cycle even more viscious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:10 AM
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I do understand that, and I wouldnt have an issue using the term patriarchy if it wasnt used as an equivalent for sexism. I dont agree with the notion that men propagate, or uphold the patriarchy. Either all of us do it, or none of us do it. And if everyone is unconsciously a sexist, whats a someone that discriminates against women then? Its not a neutral term, its a buzzword and its used exclusively in a hostile way. I think we should all cooperate and work together. Not shift blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:01 AM
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I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:47 PM
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I still dont really understand what a pick me is. Some times I feel its just women hating on other women, some times it seems like its just girls that naturally get along with guys, some times its pretty clear they are the female equivalent of simp (just doing it to get male attention). Is it always the latter category and is it always a problem? Is there key defining traits or is it entirely intuitive and subjective? How do women deal with being called a pick me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:18 PM
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Blue pill for sure a) barely anyone knows about redpill and b) the people that do dont get laid - quick maths
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:49 PM
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yeah blue pill is used sarcastically here, i mean what would purple pill be half halucinating? imagine if neo had grabbed both out of morpheus hand and gone for the cross-fade
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:45 PM
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gottem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:21 PM
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ah man that sucks, i feel bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:16 PM
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hmm maybe "group of dudes that are bigger than you and dont like you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:09 PM
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yes thats why i said relative to men. The total number of doctors is less than nurses, you need less doctors than nurses. Before all men were doctors, all women were nurses, now that the barrier to become a doctor has been lifted for women, we see 50:50 split in numbers of doctors for men and women, i.e. women want to be doctors as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:07 PM
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Though that being said, it is a problem if it starts, never evolves then stays where it is. yeah i agree with this. Infatuation is normal, but ideally it wasnt all based on fantasy, and ideally the real person being more fleshed out than any fantasy can inspire more truthful love
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:05 PM
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"If she wanted to, she would." I tell myself that every day king :( Im pretty sure the woman in question proactively does all the stuff she wants
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:59 PM
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This and what u/MyLastBestChance said doesnt contradict each other. If women are the default parent, they (are expected to) make different choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:49 PM
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bad apple, glad upper management stepped in
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:44 PM
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prefer to be nurses instead of physicians This is false https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC314508/ Women are overwhelmingly chosing to become physicians in this day and age relative to men, in this day and age. Btw the study shows that while women have caught up in male dominated fields, men have have not caught up in women dominated fields. But thats besides the point in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:41 PM
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As an extravert and someone who needs structure, I do prefer being in the office, so I really hope it doesnt go away entirely, but I also dont have the same kind of remote americans have. The thought that you guys never really spend time outside in public is wild to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:31 PM
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exactly that be good policy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:25 PM
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teenagers arent people yet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:24 PM
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Maybe to clarify, that anyway. When you have children there is a time where one parent needs to stay at home (afaik I dont have kids), the time where the woman is latestage pregnant and then at least the months after that until the baby can go to a nursery or whatever. I think that time should also be split as fairly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:09 PM
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I agree, I would say and expect the same if I were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:04 PM
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No why should I think that? Jesus do people in this sub even remotely bother to read? My point is that if we emerged from the middle ages magically, maybe for religious reasons, with a matriarchy and women led business (for whatever reasons, its a hypothetical just go with it), we might find ourselves with a work culture right now that disadvantages men. Where for example testosterone and expressions there off are frowned upon. This may disadvantage men, even create a sort of glass ceiling where…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:00 PM
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nice flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:51 PM
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I believe these are socio-economic phenomena partially explaining the wage gap, that can be changed through a change in work culture and gender roles, over time. For example, I think work from home makes child rearing with a full time career, a lot more flexible. Work from home was unimagineable 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:47 PM
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No I wouldnt say "because of women own choices". I think thats too simplistic. Choice of study may play a role on average across all jobs, but there is also evidence that women earn less for the same job, which this theory wouldnt be able to explain. I think there are multiple factors at play. One could be a preference for male traits (in a male dominated work environment): since the work environment has historically been male dominated certain traits result in more competitive performance than …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:41 PM
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No doubt, there are toads on both sides, you only need to check out chrystal cafe, yandere psycho grippy sock jail and some femcel spaces to realize this. No sex is good fun on all sides
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:49 PM
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All very possible, I dont actually know. I just remember being edgy and offensive as a teenager as well and whilst I wouldnt necessarily say I was punk, the generation before me was big on punk. Many people grew up left and the revolutionary and destructive spirit is frequently carried by the youth I would say
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:43 PM
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It depends whether you believe women are looking when they are happy with you. Either way, that circle back to the last sentence of my original comment, being that if men need to continue to be dominant around other men when in a relationship, then that may just be tough genetic luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:40 PM
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I just assume im too poor to buy the kind of binoculars that would allow me to survey yacht main decks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:36 PM
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yeah well thats not me and I do and believe what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:34 PM
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