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Red Pill TheoryIonianIdol/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 02:45 PM
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IonianIdol/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:24 PM
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IonianIdol/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:47 AM
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IonianIdol/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:32 PM
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IonianIdol/r/MGTOW16/03/17 10:48 PM
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If he stops school for his dad it might make him feel even more like a burden, not sure it's a great idea.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:37 AM
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A friend of mine was suicidal as well, all I could do was be supportive and do everything I reasonably could to get him to get professional help. He finally did and he got much better ever since. I also helped him find another job in the meantime since the job alone took a toll on his moral, I think he was having a burnout.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:36 AM
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I tried going to pubs to meet people, but it's mostly old men and drunks at those places. I tried college bars, but It's awkward for me to go alone and women seem to always be in groups. That is a great start, mustering up the courage to go out alone and approach girls is big f-ing deal, let's not understate that. It's possible to pick up a girl from a group, but it does need practice and an ironclad confidence, so let's see that as long term goal. One important thing is that you are going to fu…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:56 AM
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The way I see it TRP's whole idea is rather to improve yourself than to have sex at all cost, so that's no solution. He needs to improve his game and areas of his life that are going to make him attractive to women.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:34 AM
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Looks like someone hit the Red Pill sub reboot button
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:55 PM
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First of all, if you feel like you should succeed with women you're absolutely right and if you're willing to make some effort to make that happen you have to go for it. You just have to understand that it is a lonely path and a rather painful one, and the reward you get will never be as great as the idea you have of it. I would say it is worth it, but not because of the women you get, rather because of how your life improves in general when you integrate strong alpha traits into your personalit…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:18 PM
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Yes, even worse is that the positive feedback of a girl to your game can blind you to your own actual vulnerability and it's very humbling when you get upper-handed by the girl you thought you had under your thumb. I feel like oneitis is a very self-centered experience and doesn't actually have to do with any qualities you find in the girl. I think that's just post-rationalization of the fact that you projected your own value onto that girl because you need some kind of justification as to why y…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:23 PM
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I'ma tell you that rings a bell. It wasn't a LTR, but it took me about one day to bring HB9 from red hot to ice cold and it fucked me up more than any breakup or rejection. The arrogance, man, that's your worst enemy. When you have some kind of success with girls and a bunch of guys marvel at your game, you start to believe you're the shit. Well, as you said, we're not.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 03:19 PM
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I thought I'd just be genuine and tell her exactly what I think, there was no need for me to torture her over that. Anyway now obviously I plan to softnext her
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:48 PM
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I hate when girls do that. What I usually do is I tell her that I am the one who doesnt want to do anything on a first date, make jokes about that and call the evening off. I usually fuck on the second date in that case because I've had a lot of instances of shitty sex with a reluctant girl on a first date. You can always wait for the 2nd date, its no big deal.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:31 PM
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If you're at a social event, a simple way to do that is to game at least 2 girls and just alternate between them. So instead of spending 30 minutes gaming one girl, you might spend 15 minutes with two different girls. Each one of them sees you flirting with another one and also gets less of your attention so you multiply your chances not only by gaming more girls but also by increasing the interest in each one of them, without spending more energy. The whole process is also going to put you in a…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:37 PM
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Do yourself a favor and call off the wedding
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:44 PM
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What if I genuinely apologize, I think I was a jerk too and feel like seeing her again
/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:44 PM
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Show us the picture man come on
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:21 AM
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First of all, it depends of where you're from. But even in America, my experience is that AWALT is a useful theory, but it's not actually true. I figured that the plates I had to drop were mostly girls who didn't quite fit the stereotype that TRP supports. But it still works for most of the girls, so it's a useful idea. I've dated a fair amount of girls who weren't slutty in the least and I actually enjoy that more; it's definitely better for LTRs. The girl you're describing sounds like that kin…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:28 PM
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As far as I'm concerned it is, it's no wonder that improving your life goes along with learning how to date girls. MGTOWs just assume that it all comes from social conditioning and that you can just choose not to deal with women; I think they're wrong. Because if you decide that you want to become that man who picks up girls like a juggler juggles with balls, you'll find that you'll need to: Get fit/take care of your physical appearance Develop your social skills Learn to assert yourself Learn t…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:09 PM
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The fact that you're asking on TRP and not on MGTOW is a very good sign. The most simple reason is that the 50 million year old part of your brain called the hypothalamus mostly wants three things: food, water and sex. Deny it one of those and you won't become a very sane man.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 02:52 PM
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It's part of it, that's all I'm saying. I don't depend on any single women, but I try to always be able to satisfy my sexual needs. Does that make me a pussy slave? Well not in the same way that a beta male is a slave to his gf's pussy, but rather in the same way that I'm a slave to food. If I don't have any relation with a woman for a while, I am not a well man. It's not the same thing? The same part of the brain is in charge of your thirst, hunger AND sexual neediness (the hypothalamus). It is…
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 02:14 AM
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Your view of the world is twisted, there is a big difference between getting married with the wrong woman and dating girls. It just baffles me that anyone would want to avoid women because of some naive people getting screwed over. You say that like it has nothing to do with the husband and it can happen to anyone anytime who even dares touch a woman.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 02:06 AM
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I just don't get why it has to do with staying away from women, which a lot of people advocate on this forum.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 02:01 AM
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No. If anything it would improve those things. Young men are thirsty fucks that want to fuck everything and haven't figured out how to masturbate. Nothing against young males, but they're fully blue pilled in thinking they need a woman to be happy. Too much Disney propaganda or whatnot. So it's basically Men Going Their Own Way, except that way. There is a difference between being in a toxic relationship and being in a relationship, which some of the people on this forum get, while others don't.…
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 01:54 AM
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You sure have faith in men for someone endorsing the idea of men going their own way.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 01:42 AM
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You're paranoid
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 01:41 AM
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Lots of people wouldn't agree with you here it seems
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 01:38 AM
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Do you think that this could give a rationale to younger people who don't have a lot success with women to actually give up on spending time on improving themselves and try to have a relationship on their own terms or even worse make them not want to have any children and thus actually ruin their potential? I think MGTOW screws some people over as well in a different way.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:44 AM
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But it seems that if I want to have children, I'm not MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:34 AM
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Ok well I guess I could have said "ideology", but my point stays the same.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:33 AM
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Ah I see, I agree getting married is not a good deal for today's man, but there is a big difference between getting married and being involved with women.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:31 AM
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I am not married sir. If you want to know about me I agree much more with TRP and am convinced that being involved with women is possible on your own terms and is necessary to feeling like an accomplished individual (for most of us).
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:28 AM
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What if I choose not to marry and not to have children BUT I spend time fucking a lot of girls because I enjoy it. Would anyone here agree I'm still MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:27 AM
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I think most of TRP see MGTOW as refusing to be involved with women. I don't get why anyone who disagrees with that idea would spend time here instead of on r/theredpill.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:18 AM
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Interesting, is it that people here don't want to have any children?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:16 AM
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Maybe that's the problem. As for myself I'm just really interested in understanding MGTOW, because I don't agree with what I thought I understood of it, but I'm always on shaky grounds when I argue with people on this sub since the definition seems to shift from one person to another.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:13 AM
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I'm not sure I see the point of movement anyone could define differently... Also, what you said would apply to TRP, where I guess people who don't agree with the quoted statement would actually belong.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:10 AM
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I'm familiar with some of it already just by looking at the names, it seems to me like it's a collection of loosely related pieces of writing, although they kind of share the goal of attaining personal fulfillment, but in different ways. It seems to me like MGTOW is a very vague ideology partly stemming from TRP, but advocating not to be involved with women in any way, for a reason I don't get...
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 01:05 AM
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Thanks for that answer, what would be the difference between TRP and MGTOW?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:59 AM
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They have vowed either to stay away from women altogether or to stop dating/marrying women and having children. So that would applied to any "true" MGTOWer?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:57 AM
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That could mean anything. What is my own way and what would be a way that's not mine? What if my own way is to be in a long term relationship with a girl?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:53 AM
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I would actually really appreciate you explaining to me how the point I'm making is wrong. I just don't buy the idea that refusing to be involved in an intimate relationship with a woman (be it long term or not) can help a man become a fulfilled individual.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:51 AM
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Don't insult my bitches, please. Seriously I just think MGTOW is not a very rational approach "Oh look what some women have done to some men, we're all fucked, I don't want to have anything to do with any women ever again". Is there something I'm not getting about the whole thing?
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:39 AM
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I see MGTOW and Blue Pills on opposite ends of a spectrum, and TRP in the middle.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 12:31 AM
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Rich Piana is a freak, and I'm not saying that to insult him or anything. I don't think he is a Chad in the way most of us would understand it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 12:30 AM
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Looks like a very vague and weak argument. I'm not sure what you mean by men getting burned, but if you're talking about men getting fucked over by the court system, that's something that is avoidable, although I admit it is a very unfair and brutal system to uninformed people. But I don't see why that would stop you from investing some of your time in an intimate relationship with a woman, be it long term or not.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:25 AM
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Millions of years of evolution have made you into a being whose sole purpose is to reproduce. If you can feel like an accomplished individual without fucking girls or being in a relationship, you're one hell of a biological anomaly. I'm not saying that's all there is to life, but it's an important part of it.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:15 AM
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I'm pretty sure that's the TRP and not MGTOW
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 12:02 AM
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I'm getting counseling to try to put the pieces back together That's the best thing you can do I think... Other than that, I feel like there's still a lot for you to experiment as far as relationships go, and there's a lot you need to do to become a fully balanced and developed individual (same thing for a lot of people). Only then will you be able to get the best out of a relationship. Anyone here who encourage you to forget about women and say you had nothing to do with any of this don't want …
/r/MGTOW28/08/17 09:44 PM
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I believe MGTOWs are just as bad as BPs, they're just on the other end of the spectrum. There's only a very small percentage of men who should follow that road, so unless you're Isaac Newton, fuck bitches and be happy. Yes that implies working on yourself, not everything is women's fault.
/r/MGTOW28/08/17 09:29 PM
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The key is to masturbate looking at girls irl.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:08 AM
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I can definitely relate to trying to subtly red pill my BP friends, but the more I see the more I think it's a choice they've made of their own.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 03:02 AM
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Strong eye contact is indeed underrated and very hard to implement in your everyday game when you begin. That's one of the thing I actually struggled with at first. I also feel like appropriate squinting is crucial.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 02:55 AM
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What I'm saying is shit? Alright, I guess you'll have no problem arguing with me instead of insulting me then. I get what you're trying to say and you know who got that a thousand and a half years ago? Muslims. If you read ancient arabic litterature (1001 Nights is an easy example) you'll find almost verbatim what you are saying: Women are witches that cannot be trusted. So you want to know how to solve that, right? Well Muslims figured it out and you get basically what's going on in the Muslim …
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 09:19 PM
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What is wrong with you lol, I mean that's just the way women are, they want the best male specimen and there's always gonna be a 20% of best male specimen. If you eliminate everyone you think is a Chad, you're left with only beta males all having equal sex? Wrong, that's a marxist fallacy. You're rather left with a 20% chunk of the former beta males that are now de facto Chads (they'll tend to adopt the attitude since they'll now be the top of the genetic pool and have all the opportunities) and…
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 03:55 PM
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There's always gonna be a 20%, no matter what you do
/r/MGTOW19/03/17 12:49 AM
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I mean I see that some MGTOW's come from a right place, but a lot just seem to do that out of frustration of not being able to get anything out of the sexual market, and hating Chads because they're everything they wish they would have been, even though I don't think they'll admit that. Just sort yourself out, make your game up to par, improve yourself physically and reap some well-earned pussy. It is undeniably one of the fundamental joy in life, until you get old and your testosterone plummets…
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:20 PM
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If anything being a Chad promotes androcentrism
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:05 PM
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How is that?
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:03 PM
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Fair enough best point I've seen so far
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:02 PM
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...
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 02:01 PM
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I want to keep my dick to fuck them mate
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 12:22 AM
-3

Wouldn't you say it was worth to experience it though?
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 12:04 AM
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I mean not as an end goal but getting the pussy you want is a nice plus
/r/MGTOW16/03/17 11:58 PM
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