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Irishminer93/r/askTRP09/06/15 05:15 AM
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You do realize that's exactly what he did, except he threw away theoretically hundreds of years worth of man hours spent on a specific topic, right? Also, he never recognized the fact that alcohol has little to no social stigma and is readily available for legal purchase so even if we were to take his anecdotal evidence into account it simply wouldn't be applicable in this discussion. Oh, and don't think I forgot about that last bit "trust me bro" you don't need to trust me, there is tons and to…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 12:26 PM
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Perhaps a bad word choice, given the info available I'd say "can you tell when a girl is mentally feeling you out" is probably more accurate.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:49 PM
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He took note of her body language and facial expressions, there isn’t anything subconscious about it.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:00 PM
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This skill, picking up on body language and other cues is very much real and you can get very accurate at it. Not sure how you don’t know this because most people can do it on some level.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:59 PM
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You read the post wrong, she broke up with bf number one, had a fling and broke it off then went to OP. In that order.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:55 PM
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Someone who is trained in jj might not know that the guy who is picking on them is trained in, krav maga as an example. So unless they've already initiated a full on fight, it's better to use your head instead of your fists.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:35 PM
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There are more functioning alcoholics than functioning heroin users, see how stats work? Here's another stat for you, 20% of all violent felonies involve drugs. As far as drug war kool aid goes, keep pushing your personal attacks, I'm sure they mean anything in the context of this conversation /s
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 06:55 AM
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Can you not read? Do you know what the word comparison means? Are you aware of what a hypothetical situation is? Damn, I have a hard time believing you're a lawyer if you can't even understand the nuances of one little paragraph. Even when I over-explain exactly what I'm saying, you can't even understand. But I'll try one more time: IF: All drugs were used equally - THEN: Alcohol abuse would be the least of anybody's problems. This isn't about the amount of people that use alcohol, but rather ab…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 03:46 AM
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Alcohol poisoning is more of an issue than aggression and alcohol. I'm not sure if that statistics are still accurate, but if memory serves, more people die from alcohol poisoning per year than alcohol related violence/criminal activity. Regardless, the fact remains that out of all the drugs out there, alcohol in comparison, is fairly harmless. That's not to say that it shouldn't be regulated, but that is to say that there is a reason why certain drugs are highly regulated and it isn't just beca…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:46 PM
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Studies conducted as part of drug war paranoia. Regardless its a fact that alcohol is the drug most often associated with violence. Except the studies, at least the ones I've seen, are often times done on animals, even spiders as an example that many have seen. To throw away all evidence by saying it's a "war on drugs" is just stupid. You also downright refuse to read: I'm not saying that alcohol isn't a problem, I'm saying it isn't as bad as other drugs if all drugs were unregulated. Just becau…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 10:22 AM
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First, anecdotal evidence just doesn't hold up. Second, it's still a numbers game. How many people drink alcohol? Also, we know what the effects of cocaine and lsd are. Why don't you take a look at even one of the studies before you decide that alcohol has a much higher chance of making people violent instead of it simply being the amount of people drinking alcohol. The fact that you only had 3 new violent alcohol related charges is surprising to me, July 4th and all that could be you're in a sm…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:47 AM
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Most people arrested doesn't mean highest chance for violence. More people drink than do cocaine or lsd.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:59 PM
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not the best example, ever see someone on cocaine get pissed off at someone? Or someone on lsd freaking out?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:54 PM
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England went around the world looking for spices to make English food better. They eventually gave up.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 01:09 PM
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I would argue that some drugs should remain highly regulated (not 100% criminalized). Some drugs increase the chance for violence dramatically. If steps were taken to insure that everyone's (other then the drug taker of course) safety was intact, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 01:06 PM
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While this is definitely true, made me laugh. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:46 AM
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I'm not sure if you wanted an update, but since you replied I'll leave it here. She said it was just something her mother said might be nice to do as a date. The first one went well so she continued doing it on occasion. Good enough for me.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/18 01:46 PM
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And I just realized this is what my SO did as a result of me paying for (most) everything. I have a feeling it's related, I'll ask her once I get back home.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/18 07:19 AM
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See, I cook for women. Cheaper than going to a restaurant even if you’re splitting the bill and it generally tastes better (no one has beat my lasagna yet). Not to mention showing that you can take care of yourself is far from beta. Any John can take a girl to a restaurant.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:37 PM
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I’ll tell you right now you don’t understand what depression is or is caused by. Take some time to look it up if your going to spout out nonsense about it,
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:33 PM
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That’s not any real information. But regardless, the result will probably be the same. Tell her exactly what you expect out of the relationship, tell her what your boundaries are and tell her sometimes you have important things to do. Have a discussion and decide for yourself whether the relationship is worth it or not.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:18 PM
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Why are you pissing each other off? And to what extent? Also, why do you put up with it. I’m in an ltr and in 5 years I’ve never let that fly.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:06 PM
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To be honest I’d personally already be preparing to get out of the relationship. Doesn’t sound like either of you are happy and if your not happy what’s the point?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:03 PM
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Take away affection, see how she responds. Should give you enough information to tell you what to do. Different responses will mean different things and to be honest, it'd be impossible to tell you exactly what each response means without knowing everything there is to know about her so your going to have to rely on your own experiences with her.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:12 PM
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A restraining order can't prevent someone from attending school, it can only make them try to stay away from you to the best of their ability without getting in the way of their class, job, etc. If you are standing in their way to class, they can get close to you as long as they attempt to go around you.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 01:37 PM
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That would be her decision sure, but the expectation that he should change is a toxic one. Sure, conversation should be had, but the idea that he is an emotional abuser for simply being direct about his opinions is toxic.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:29 AM
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So he should change his mannerisms? Why? She married him, she accepted those mannerisms. People change, sure. But they shouldn't be forced to change.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:25 AM
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I'd say turn this around and say that it'd be emotional abuse if he wasn't allowed to share his feelings. That argument goes both ways. The fact remains that she was aware of these qualities before she was in this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 05:44 AM
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Although I am not a women and in no way would it be applicable to me, I would nevertheless be interested in reading this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 04:11 AM
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Depends on the context, but generally the rule of thumb is “pay attention to what they do, not what they say”
/r/askTRP17/06/18 06:26 PM
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This question is better asked on /r/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 06:32 PM
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she was a plate, so she had to be fucking other dudes, but this should’ve been kept hidden This is true for guys too. Or are you 100% socially inept?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:56 AM
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This isn’t a gender issue, go fuck yourself.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:33 AM
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Probably not the sub, but the ideology.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 05:20 PM
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If your intent on having his child, and not going along with adoption (which I'll take any chance to say is a great thing), it seems like your only option would be to discuss the option of moving to a different country. Seems fairly straight-forward to me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 01:04 PM
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If you had the time to socialize, you wouldn’t be asking this question. You get fit, get confident, people will initiate conversation with you at the gym.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:41 PM
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You’re not at the gym to make friends.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 06:32 PM
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The only one who is holding your back is yourself. Drop the friend if you feel it's necessary, focus on yourself. When it comes to improving yourself you have to be selfish.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:24 AM
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In case you didn’t get the message: don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:21 PM
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Phone call first, almost all contact after that is either text or in person. At least, that's the way I do it. Works well for me. Though I would like to ask, why "message her 3-4 hours after that" Generally I always waited until the next day at around noon. If I wanted to be banging the girl in 4 hours ish I probably wouldn't even bother with the number.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:33 PM
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I miss taking someone down to the ground (in a sparring match, lol). Chances are I wont be heading back anytime soon. I enjoy it here. But on the off chance I do I'll probably send you a message to see if you can recommend a good place to learn Krav Maga. Right after I spend a couple weeks relearning some of my old moves that is.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:27 PM
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I’ve only had the one krav maga lesson and that was more of a trial class so I can’t really say to much, but in BJJ I did learn how to handle groups different ways depending on the “layout” of the group. We went up to three aggressors in five different layouts. It may be time for me to revisit Krav Maga. Though I’m living in China at the moment so it might not be possible. It’s all Chinese martial arts here. And boxing. They love boxing here. Kick boxing is getting big at the moment too.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:04 PM
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“I don’t use social media. What’s your number?”
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:34 PM
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Krav maga, you mean the one that literally tells you to do as much damage as possible in order to walk away safely? Learning it will definitely help but the moment he actually uses it, in school, there’s a huge chance he’d be expelled and maybe even thrown in prison depending on where they live and whether or not they decide to charge him as an adult. Given the fact that the training would be on record, probably an adult. Given the circumstances BJJ is definitely the smarter choice. In BJJ they …
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:13 PM
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The phrase was “very heavy lifting” and in case you aren’t aware over doing it as a teenager, even when you’re 17 can have some negative outcomes.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:07 PM
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Growing up in the south I noticed a lot of bullshit, but "people pleasing" wasn't one of them unless someone was a particular type of asshole. We'd be friendly, sure. But the moment you crossed that line, we'd lay into you. Or completely ignore you. One of the two. As a millennial, if we tell you what you want to hear and then talk about you behind your back, it's because we think your a fucking douche and don't give a shit what you think but at the same time we KNOW how much shit we can get int…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:48 PM
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For me personally, it was more about the fact that you wont put yourself in real debt by going to a trade school. The fact that you can take those skills and make a real living off of it by being self-employed is just the cherry on top.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:02 AM
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You could consider a trade school. You might just choose the one skill that'll be automated in like... 200 years but even then you'll be making money.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 12:14 AM
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Some are aware of it, some aren't. Some believe the stuff they say, some don't.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:07 AM
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Not all psychological manipulation is gaslighting and not all forms of psychological manipulation are negative. If you take trp seriously you're going to learn how to manipulate people around you the way you want, instead of just letting it happen naturally.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:15 PM
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That's not gaslighting. Gaslighting is when you attempt to distort the memory or perception of someone else. Simply lying wouldn't be gaslighting. Changing the time on your phone so that you think your spending more time together, as an example, might be considered gaslighting. Though if your girlfriend went out of her way to make you feel guilty for thinking she was cheating, that's definitely a form of gaslighting, just not an effective form.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:14 PM
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They’re all over the place.... do you not speak Chinese?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:52 PM
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Did he go to a lawyer that has made a career out of working with foreigners?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:30 AM
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Like others have said, this isn’t a soft next, it’s a tactic called “dread” and takes some real know-how to pull off. When you reinitiate contact explain your boundaries and be very clear. Make the text seem like a miscommunication. Past that it’s a roll of the dice.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:27 PM
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I’ve been in china ten years as well. The first thing I would do is secure any finances, find a lawyer who specializes in foreigner cases and start documenting everything. You’re wrong about the courts siding with natives a lot of the time by the way, in fact a lot of times it’s the exact opposite in civil cases. Business and criminal not so much.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:09 PM
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Yes, I’m a teacher, my girlfriend is Chinese. As far as retiring early, one of my plans is to open up an American style novelty/magic/puzzle/joke shop in China so retiring won’t be for a long while. As far as being a “redpiller” the important thing, from my perspective, is not to personify trp as a whole but rather subjectively and objectively look at the lessons available and change them to suit your own goals. Case in point, you recognize your own indecisiveness, there are a number of reasons …
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:03 PM
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Financially I’m stable enough and have enough in my savings to not have to worry about anything. I’m 24 so I consider that a real achievement. I’m living in China otherwise I wouldn’t even consider getting married, plus in China the culture is completely different than back home (USA). When I first met my ltr she was a teacher making a decent amount but nowhere near her potential. With some guidance/push from me she’s now making three times the amount. She’s put up a couple red flags here and th…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:22 AM
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Does she like you? I don’t fucking know. Will withdrawing attention give you a better chance than if you were to do what you already did? Yes. But even if it doesn’t work out for you, simply forgetting about her and moving on will be beneficial. I’ve said it a few times already, go to /r/theredpill and read the information available on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:21 PM
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The moment you respond to her “we’ll only ever be friends” comment you put the ball in her court. She says y’all will only ever be friends you don’t respond and simply move on to the next girl. There’s a good chance she’d of tried to go after you in that case. Again, read the sidebar, learn to shut your mouth, learn what ghosting is, learn every little detail of the social side of trp. You will learn there are better ways than simply being silent but until you learn them it’s better to just let …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:39 PM
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That’s when you take away attention, not call her out. Women don’t react the way you want when you call them out but oftentimes they will when you start ignoring them. This is something you’d know if you read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 11:07 AM
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Dude, your response was worse than the shit I see on /r/niceguys of course she’d block you. If you’re serious about red pill, go to /r/theredpill and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 09:27 AM
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It’s different for everyone. My mission, personally, is to raise a family. I agree you’ll find a lot of this “lift, lift and lift” mentality but once you read more of the /r/theredpill you’ll realize just how small, although important, lifting is a part of trp.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:03 AM
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Uh, I grew up in Texas and never heard this.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:52 AM
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Wow, that's complicated. I'm not sure how you managed not to start talking about this as soon as it was brought up. There's a lot of things that don't make sense here, namely how the circumstances of Ed have anything to do with you or your SO.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/18 08:39 AM
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Boys eat a ton. Especially between 16 and 20. For me it slowed down at 22. Though genetics do come into effect. Bananas, peanut butter and ramen were the three things I'd eat tons of. Didn't need much meat, the average amount looking back.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:54 PM
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Not talking about this issue will only foster resentment on some level and wont solve the issue. Men aren't mind readers so if you have a real issue, talk about it. I would like to point out something that didn't make sense to me. The son is 18. He has the right to choose whether or not he wants to see his father, the mothers say so means nothing, if his son chooses not to see his father because he values his friend more than his father, that's on the son, not the mother or you. There is a solut…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:46 PM
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My ltr is the home maker type. Put it this way. The very first time she came to my house she started to nest. Almost immediately. We had already been dating awhile and I knew I was going to make her my ltr. But to get back on track, in my case, I used some fairly basic stuff. Every time I saw her clean or take care of the home in some other way I’d give her a quick hug or peck on the cheek and make a positive comment on her looks. Don’t get me wrong, verbalizing your appreciation is important. I…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:43 PM
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He's getting sexually involved with someone at the workplace. I've never seen that turn out well.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:42 AM
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Not if you guys work together. Also, keep records. It’ll come in handy when things go south.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:20 PM
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Living below your means is financing 101. Are you trying to fuck up your life?
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:19 AM
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tone of voice incredibly important, it can be the difference between "Right" (it's time to go, usually done while patting your pockets or something) and "Right" (you're an idiot) and "Right" (I'll believe it when I see it).
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:23 AM
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Socialize more, everywhere. Say shit that you think isn't that offensive but sounds stupid (sounds counter-intuitive, it isn't). Make mistakes. Get slapped on occasion. Learn to disengage from people (stop the conversation, forget about them, move on). Realize that gaming chicks is inherently contradictory but isn't necessarily false because of that. No matter how social you already are, you're going to make mistakes and learn from them. Basically it's another "idgaf mentality" when it comes to …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:21 AM
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No problem. For future references that link came from the sidebar under glossary of trp terms, scrolled down to “frame” and copy/pasted the link.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:15 AM
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Here, read this.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:12 AM
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You've read Ivan Pavlov? I'm surprised, it's not something the average person would get into. The only reason I know of him is because a mentalist (the type of magician to do hypnosis) talked about him during a lecture. Part of hypnosis is being able to read body language really well, learning what effects people and how, so yes. As far as it being a thing in psychology, guided meditation maybe, which I'm roughly 70% sure is what you're actually talking about. Guided meditation is a real thing a…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:20 PM
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Hypnosis as a whole doesn't really exist, if you don't believe me spend a month learning hypnosis. It's just conditioning and convincing. 1st, it may not be possible to delay an orgasm in the subjects circumstance, 2nd even if it were it would be entirely possible do it by yourself. Better to just find a sex consultant. I wasn't talking about mind control at all, the examples I gave are all examples of hypnosis. Going to someone to get hypnotized is just a round-about method of solving an issue …
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:47 PM
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As someone who uses hypnosis as a party trick, a hobbyist magician and someone who is very familiar with the hypnosis community as a whole, it's bullshit. Especially in this context. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do, or can't do. I can render some people unable to walk (combination of basic mentalism, some martial arts trickery that goes unnoticed and playing on peoples perception) or paralyze some parts of their body, it's all just trickery. I can help you sleep, qu…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 03:31 PM
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this will literally only work with the dregs.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 09:45 AM
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Recognize that's probably because of one of two things. Either it's cultural (religion, parents, etc) or it's just anxiety in which case it's self induced and you need to really examine the situation. Losing your virginity means absolutely nothing. Keeping it is the same.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:09 AM
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That's not how logic works, you should be asking "If I lose my virginity, and a length of time goes by, how would it effect me?" the answer is it wont but I'm interested in how you think it would. You can't prove nothing wont happen, but you can disprove something will happen.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:05 AM
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Really don’t worry about that. Even if that would be the case it won’t effect you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:57 AM
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Okay, I'd say you're problem is your immediately unicorning these women. Don't even spin plates if that's the case, just one night stands all the way...
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:48 PM
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So your goal is an ltr? What are the reasons you don't go for one right now and what do two plates have to do with anything? Not trying to challenge your views, simply trying to understand them. The challenge of your views comes later.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:29 PM
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tldr: They do like sex, but can use sex as a means to control men.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:10 PM
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What is your goal? Without knowing that the best I can say is keep working on abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 04:05 PM
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A very good question. There are three main things at play here, one of which you've already covered (women don't really know what they want). The second would be that mothers have a tendency to think their sons will grow up to be perfect. The third being the fact that people have a selective memory, basically they remember what they want to remember. While it could have been your father acting like a complete asshole that got your mother attention, she will remember the good things when she thin…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:55 PM
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Your first part is true, but it's effect on social tendencies isn't noticeable unless you have minor self esteem issues. If you don't have self esteem issues this wont do anything. Your second part is definitely true for social skills but I'm curious as to what you mean by "behavior can be learned" because if someone doesn't have an interest in changing their behavior it wont change. The original comment was talking about how some people simply enjoy being introverted. That's not to say that som…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:26 PM
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While it's not a bad idea to analyze, it is important to know where to draw the line. If your analyzing to relax (like I do) so be it, if your analyzing out of fear though, might be time to call it inaction.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:12 PM
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As a kid I went for the safe bet: Antiperspirant deodorant. Didn't work. Also didn't help that my diet was incredibly different from the people around me (this will effect how your sweat smells). Later figured it all out but I had to blow around 300$ to do so.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:09 PM
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Just don't forget that there are people who really are assholes and do get a sense of pleasure from being an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:06 PM
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We're taught at a young age not to talk about politics or religion in case you offend someone, I blame this idea. Then again, it did take a long time to find a group of friends who can have a heated debate for a good hour or so without getting their 'feelings hurt' somewhere along the line. I tried every avenue as a high school student, including debate clubs (if you won an argument deemed "immoral" you were effectively thrown out) and the atheist club (they basically thought they were automatic…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 01:05 PM
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Women have a higher smv when they are younger, men have a higher smv when they are older. So in a way, they aren't wrong.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:04 AM
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Or to put it simply: "fear is the mind killer"
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:23 PM
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Haven't done to much reading about Hindu gods, because the one book I have is huge. Took a summer to try and read it, only got through 1/4th of it. But chances are this is the book/epic he is talking about: Mahabharata.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 03:18 PM
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If your talking about anything that is effectively a social construct, all of it and none of it will be bullshit. What matters is what you take away. Take trp for example, there are so many ideas in trp that there are contradictions left and right. If you took even one idea from trp and brought it to its logical conclusion you'd end up nowhere. It's taking the idea and applying it to your goals, your ideals and your current situation.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 07:01 PM
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Fairly accurate.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:53 PM
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Me being who I am, I wouldv'e said "I'll think about it" and ended the conversation. But honestly, I wouldv'e broken off that relationship a long time ago. Your 22. Don't get into another "real" relationship for at least another 2 years and only if you have a real reason. Everyone else being in an ltr is not a real reason.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:41 PM
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Oh, this ones easy. Comfort test. She's introverted, she's attached to you on some level and she's even changed your text/call ringtone on her phone, I'd put money on it.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 06:24 PM
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And numerous other things she was critical about. Walk away. 1 or 2 is a shit test, "numerous" is not. Work on your frame a bit more, learn to escalate.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:28 AM
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asktrp, btw /r/trp and /r/theredpill are completely different subs
/r/askTRP08/02/18 11:24 AM
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we use the tits or gtfo rule, basically, we treat all posters as men. There isn't a rule about saying your a woman, at least not to my knowledge.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:15 AM
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Have you ever made your self angry, sad, happy, etc, on purpose? That's what I'm talking about. Can't really describe how I do it, I just do it.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:55 AM
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When I say very hard, I'm saying something like 2 in 10, maybe saying very hard was an exaggeration. Not to mention that's also considering age range, if you throw age differences in it's probably a lot more than 2 in 10.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 05:53 AM
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Disney relationships don't exist, it isn't all fun and games, dancing and playing. There are ups and downs in any relationship and recognizing that is an important step in finding a good relationship for you. As far as attraction goes, it's very hard for a guy to find someone who isn't attractive if they are genuinely smiling and are happy. So, with that in mind the only real piece of advice I can give you is stop worrying about guys and focus on your own happiness for awhile, outside of relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 03:19 PM
8

I know this wont be very helpful for everybody, but stubborness. I "emulated" stubborness to get over my laziness and it worked. Over time I didn't need to emulate it, it just came. Basically, fake it 'till you make it, with a twist. It's how I quit smoking, how I started waking up earlier, going to the gym, reading books, etc. It doesn't come on its own, you'll never feel like doing it. You have to force yourself to start sometime, so force yourself to do it now.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 10:40 AM
3

If you let your step father effect you like that he wins. Wear a dress, enjoy the dress, revel in that dress. Also, whether or not femininity is powerful is beside the point, you don't need to be strong, or weak, smart or dumb. Just be you. The moment you change because of someone else, or perception, is the moment you lose what makes you, you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 10:04 AM
2

It's easy enough to say after all the diagnosis to say "Must have been user-error" In your example.... We usually go for one of two things: Either the issue has been fixed or it was user error in the first place. That's why out of nowhere some places will setup some training/meeting/etc. on how to use x tool (something everyone already knows).
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 04:48 AM
3

You should always be on the lookout for a better gig Take this to heart.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 05:19 AM
6

If I tell someone with IT expertise there's an intermittent problem with x computer, they will find a problem, correct it and think they solved an issue. Hell, this is how my boss at my first job taught me not to trust customers. Don't call them out, but don't trust them either.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:11 PM
2

Seconded. Wouldn't mind working for OP.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:13 PM
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If you've ever worked in IT, or accounting, or anything like that, you wouldn't have to ask. People, even smart people, are easily fooled when the discussion has nothing to do with what you do. Even if it plays a major role in your life there is a good chance when something goes wrong you wont even know why it went wrong. The CEO of the company I worked for borrowed someones wireless mouse, then complained it wasn't working. Thankfully almost none of the people at that office knew what the probl…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:12 PM
4

You don't wait for opportunity, you create it. Good going.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 02:02 PM
2

I smile when I'm walking down the street, you'd be surprised how easy it is to put someone in a good mood. Not a full on Teeth-Showing-I-Am-A-Robot smile, just a casual smile.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 06:30 PM
3

Oh, Fernet, I couldn't remember the name of that drink... Thank you. And your absolutely right.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 05:43 AM
7

Argentinean? You guys know how to party. Spent a few weeks there and quickly found out as long as you can hold your liquor you'll have a great time. Haven't been there in years though... might be time to take a vacation.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 06:18 PM
1

Learn a new skill every day. Put 30 minutes to one hour towards learning that new skill. When I say skill I don't mean learn to play the guitar in an hour, I mean day 1 learn to play 3 notes on one string (this is enough for a basic melody) day 2 learn 3 notes on the second string, etc, etc. Once you've learned the basic notes move onto tabs. A tab a day. Then use those tabs to learn how to play songs. (before you learn any new skill, check out an introduction video on youtube or something, ther…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 05:14 AM
7

If you have to ask on reddit, you should probably go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:08 PM
3

Be and adult and tell her this isn't the type of relationship your looking for. If she acts like a child that's on her and if your mutual friend listens to any bs she says, guess what? Not a friend.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:46 PM
4

If it's major I do it asap using the phrase "I'd prefer" as the beginning. Never gone wrong. If it's minor idgaf.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:20 AM
1

You have yet to prove you can't hate something you completely understand.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:00 PM
1

hate is a form of rejection yes, but understanding something, in it's entirety, doesn't mean you love it or don't hate it. You can understand Hitler completely and still hate him for his choices.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 08:33 AM
1

Are you saying that if you 100% understood evolutionary biology you couldn't hate someone? What's your reasoning there?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 08:15 PM
1

it's situational and the example I gave was entirely hypothetical.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 07:09 PM
1

Sure you can, I can understand why someone is racist and understand why they made a certain choice and hate them for it, not just in spite of it.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:48 PM
2

I'm not going to tell you how to run your bed, that's something for you to decide. But know the results. If a girl sleeps in your bed after sex, it's recovery. If a girl sleeps in your bed without sex you better be setting up for an ltr. Which I only recommend after you hit 25 or so, later if you can. The age might change depending on the culture you live in. As for what I recommend you do (not sure if what you SHOULD be doing), I recommend focusing on improving yourself. Education, health (incl…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:28 PM
2

long story short, noone is "pure" red pilled or blue pilled but somewhere in between. Otherwise the human race would have died out by now. You take what you want from trp, hopefully in an effort to improve yourself. As far as building empathy, find a time to sit on a bench or something like that, and guess at the personality/habits/situation of passerby's.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:29 AM
1

Not sure why you wouldn't be able to escalate in a bar, I was working at a bar way back when, moonlighting from 7-2 and I never went home alone.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:28 AM
2

Nostalgia in and of itself is fine, remembering the past is a great way of gauging how you are doing now. In your situation most of the advice will be the same, go out and do things you've never done before, try to spend at least 30 min. of your own time learning something new every day and talk to new people whenever you can. Once you've done all that for awhile, say a few months, reassess yourself and your goals.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:21 AM
1

Ah
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:13 AM
3

Why do you care what color your hair is? Playing your strengths will always do more good then covering up perceived weaknesses.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:08 AM
3

I envy your youth, now go and do some crazy shit and learn from your mistakes. Oh, and just so your not surprised, there's a huge chance your current ltr will convince herself your a horrible, horrible person and you deserve none of her attention. Except in a few years when she breaks up with a beta and contacts you out of the blue. You see these stories all the time on here and I've personally experienced them a number of times.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:06 AM
1

The only social media I'm a part of is work related and I don't have anyone on there that isn't related to my job in some way. It's always been like that for me, well, except for a year or so in high school. Yet, up until my current LTR I was spinning plates left and right. What's your excuse? If you "let bitches know I'm doing cool shit" your doing it wrong and playing right into their hands. There are plenty of "dudes" not on snap chat and if your banging girls you found on social media, you s…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:02 AM
1

If you're attractive & successful Relatively speaking (building on this comment)
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:58 AM
3

Because of my own personal goals, personality, morals, etc. You take bits and pieces of trp. For example, your recognizing that affection can be detrimental under certain circumstances. But if you do it properly you feel good, girl feels good, everything gets better. Basically, it's nuanced.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:56 AM
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Building on this comment, the more you talk to people you don't know the easier this will get. At least, that was my experience. I realized how many people simply cant start a conversation but can continue one. Kind of similar to how a lot of people can't start the beginning of a song but once they hear a few notes they can finish it to the end.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:49 AM
1

Wait, why not? Was in a similar situation like 8 years ago, took the lead, everything worked out fine. Honest question.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:44 AM
1

I can accept someone and understand them, while also hating them entirely. Love requires acceptance and understanding, but it doesn't work both ways. Rejection CAN be founded in fear, but there are also other reasons.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:41 AM
2

Drop the social media, seriously. Plate one is effectively next-level orbiting you. Plate two WE had a 26 day snap streak Here's the problem.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:40 AM
1

Read the sidebar, it'll give you an idea of what you should be doing. I can't really give you to much advice because what I do works for me but most definitely wont work for you.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:36 AM
1

That's my point.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:34 AM
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♂ This.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:32 AM
2

Quantify that. Why should one person accept another and why should they love them? Any answer you come up with will prove the ignorance of your post.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:27 AM
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Irrationally high level of confidence This will do most of the work for you.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:21 AM
1

The crazy ones? Watched it :) I'm pretty sure Michelle is her middle name though. ~ Just looked it up, Sarah Michelle Geller
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 07:48 PM
2

Yeah, it hit a lot of people really hard. It didn't help that a lot of people were saying how "bad" he was because he decided to take his own life.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 09:17 AM
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It depends on the situation. I do a lot of magic so a lot of the time I go through a BS story while doing a magic trick they don't know is a magic trick until the very end. Truth is it was I was so obsessed with putting the idea onto paper I spent three weeks learning how to draw.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:37 PM
2

I have a tattoo of a skull in the shape of an ace of spades, cool enough that people ask about it and expect a story, which I tell on occasion. Good ice breaker too.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:13 PM
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Flirting with other people in front of a potential mate = shit test targeted towards your friend.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 03:08 PM
2

Turning an ltr into a plate is next to impossible. The fact that your this clingy compels me to say go out and go crazy. Basically, get some level of an abundance mentality. Read the sidebar for more info.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 12:19 AM
1

So you modify your behavior in an attempt to fix a problem presented by his behavior. That'll never work. The problem with that is it won't happen. Especially in a programming field. Where they look at what you have made, your creativity and problem solving skills. Being able to make something is easy. Keeping it organized, functional and bug free is the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 09:36 AM
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If you use different accounts for different subs on mobile, you can add an account in your settings. Click the person icon on the bottom right, then click the settings icon, then click account. Makes alt accounts ten times easier.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 08:06 PM
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While I personally think the guys an ass I have to admit, the "think before you say" bit can drive me a bit nuts. Past that, and maybe even that included, the only mistake I think you made is going back to the man child. 33 years is more then enough time to get your life together. This coming from someone who had no money for college. Took me a year to prepare to go and that was that. Even if I couldn't go I had backup plan after backup plan. The biggest issue I see is this guy has failed to sho…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 07:58 PM
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He means he never knew what all the rules were, the variables, the reason why people do the things they do.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 11:47 AM
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There are some that are like that, at least from my perspective. But that happens in any group. It's more about what you take away, not what there is. Many of those resources are free and even the ones that aren't you can look up and get a general idea of what type of book it is to see if it's the right book for you.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 11:02 AM
1

Ah, I'm in mobile at the moment. Your very welcome. Please don't get me wrong, physical improvement is important for reasons you already mentioned, just like intellectual and emotional improvement are. That's what rp is about for me. I'm not sure how long you've been on this sub so I'd like to re recommend going through the resources you can find on the sidebar. They will answer many of the questions you have and might answer questions you haven't already thought to ask.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:56 AM
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Didn't really take the time to analyze and just jumped straight into a "lift or gtfo" comment which isn't really helpful in this situation, told op to find a goal. Basically copying what other people say on this sub without really understanding why someone said something. It's clear as day op is in the place he wants to be, which might not be the best. Given ops writing style coupled with the setting, it'd be a lot more useful to suggest reading one of the many rp books you can find in the sideb…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:45 AM
2

Money only really matters to you if you aren't making enough, don't have a savings account, or you want to have children.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:21 AM
1

Lol, and here we see the pretender, outed by his own ignorance.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 10:17 AM
1

"Alrighty" Ghost Next time she calls or texts ask who it is.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:59 AM
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Context: Robin Williams death, spent two months (some would say) depressed. To some it may seem childish but you have to understand in many ways, he is who I strive to become. I'm still not completely over it but my ltr helped get over the bulk of it. The one time I cried in front of my ltr she got onto my lap and just held onto me. Didn't say anything until I regained my composure. Then she asked if I wanted to talk about what had been bothering me for the last couple of months. I talked, she l…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 02:51 PM
1

Wait until you graduate, until then, just expand your social circles. Don't worry about their philosophy. Make your future your priority. Focus on you before focusing on others. Get in shape if your not, keep in shape if you are. Take some time to figure out what you'll need to become independent. Finances at the top of that. Not saying you need to work, saying prepare as much as you can for college.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:32 PM
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Not the original commenter. Because she has certain responsibilities as a godparent, she'll hang out with him and the child from time to time. If she didn't that'd be a red flag just like it's a red flag that she does. What matters is the context. Who's around when they hang out, where do they hang out, how often, how does she behave around him. Things like that.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 09:27 PM
1

Not in those words, but I do show appreciation. A quick hug and kiss on the cheek. An enthusiastic thank you (for the pay days, you have no idea how hard they are to find here) things like that. There's a culture difference in my ltr, I'm American, she's Chinese, we live in China.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 09:08 PM
1

It's just procrastination. At some point you'll recognize that you just need to do it. Fuck up or not you need to know what will go wrong so you can improve.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:45 PM
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I second the "condition to do something". It's the only reason I don't consider myself an alcoholic. Last drink I had was at an annual party nine months ago and it was a glass of beer. One. Considering I use to blackout and wake up in different cities, I'm very happy with the result, without having to drink water at weddings, parties, or other gatherings.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:27 PM
1

Meditation, self reflection, taking action and forcing myself to be stubborn. Past that I'd also like to point out most of our vices have triggers. I'll use an extreme for an example. Wake up in the morning, cigarette. Take a piss, cigarette. Brush your teeth, think twice, then cigarette. Hungry, finished eating, about to go to work, break time, off work, going to bed. It all revolves around our daily routine. Recognizing when you'll want whatever vice is the first step to quitting. The second i…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:24 PM
1

Three main ways Encourage her. Take her outside, buy some diy kits, forget to pay the internet bill. Be direct. Tell her she has a problem and offer a solution. Give her a couple weeks of alone time. Only see her if it's outside the house. Communicate regularly. Other then that your only other real option is to recommend seeing someone about it, which never goes well.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:16 PM
2

Not all do, in fact many virgins "pop their cherry" when they masturbate.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:08 PM
1

Your figuring out how you can improve. No more, no less. You need to figure out exactly what you do in that situation. If you still need help after that, well we can help with that. At the moment we have no idea what the problem really is, except your hesitation. All we can say to that is, idgaf mentality.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 11:49 PM
1

Depends on your perspective. Respect, after all, is an entirely social construct. Soon as I read the response to mom I knew what was going to happen. We agree on the emasculating part, but not on the abrupt part. How long did it take for the new guy to get partial co habitation?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:28 PM
1

Don't date, save that for when you are more experienced, as you put it. For now, have fun. Enjoy yourself. Figure out where your problems are instead of guessing you have problems and procrastinating about it. Walk up to a chick and open your mouth. Doesn't matter what you say, your gathering intel on yourself for now.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:15 PM
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Stop drinking. There's a multitude of reasons, it fucks with brain chemistry and takes a lot longer then a few months to correct. Same applies to cigarettes but for a different reason, nicotine is both a downer and an agitator. A couple months off it and you'll calm down a lot. Get organized. Your life, your work, your home, everything. Recognize that you have control over your own life. Go celibate for awhile, you attribute way too much to sex. Read as many books as you can, see the sidebar. Ru…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:08 PM
2

Manner*
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:44 PM
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He effectively undermined her parental authority. The fact that he wasn't slapped means she reacted fairly well. If OP was my son he wouldn't be going to the grandparents house anytime soon. Understanding frustration is one thing, your talking about flat out accepting disrespect.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:43 PM
2

The other day I woke up to the smell of coffee, eggs and bacon. Eggs were a little burnt but she doesn't really know how to cook and I honestly didn't care at all. It made my entire day. Awhile ago, maybe a couple weeks, she bought a couple paydays, the chocolate bar. Can't find them here but she saw them in the store and brought some home. Outside of food (though food is usually the one that is most effective) you've got massages, hobby related gifts, I'm sure there's more but those are the one…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/17 09:52 AM
10

Omfg, ha ha ha, I can't breathe.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 11:21 AM
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Please don't "starfish". It comes off as "okay, let's get this over with" or "please me". Major turn off.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 11:20 AM
1

Ah, I was taught to call up the motion, or series of motions to perfect. Focusing on every little detail, one at a time. It wasn't until I began meditating by myself that I found out about that state of tranquility. Nearly three years later. Guess my teacher saw how easy it was for me to lose focus. Btw I wrote shi fu in mandarin. It's entirely possible it was Cantonese or a dialect, for your teacher I mean.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:24 PM
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In an ltr? Completely okay and to some degree, expected. Though before you ask you might want to consider what might be wrong, great empathy challenge and if your right you've probably already thought about your response. Obviously don't ask her if X is what's wrong... planting those ideas is almost never what you want to do.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:47 PM
1

Shi Fu (师傅） Also, do you use a headspace? With a headspace takes me around three minutes to be able to call up a subject without losing the tranquil state, as you put it.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 02:40 PM
1

You could get her fired, just saying. Least in the states.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 07:41 AM
2

Ignore and change topic can work, but honestly, I just say "hon, you've told me this story a thousand times already. It's getting old." But then again, my ltr isn't the type to get butt hurt over that.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:44 AM
1

I've never had to. Just ask and pass the first shit test.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:54 PM
3

If they stay in your wallet long enough to get fucked up, you don't need to carry condoms.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 10:00 PM
1

Always carry your own, for reasons stated above.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:59 PM
1

Back when I wasn't in an ltr, two in my wallet, a box in my backpack and another box in my night table.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:58 PM
0

Start with stupid simple. Hey, I'm WonderfulLikeNas, you wanna go get coffee? After that it's always about passing the inevitable shit tests. That's the part that'll get you.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:53 PM
2

Awhile back I was out with my ltr and someone walked up and said (in Chinese) "wow, your so beautiful" I responded with "thanks, I was worried these pants made my butt look big" I'm a white guy whose been learning Chinese for most of my life, the guy just stood there dumbfounded while we walked away. Ltr having a fit.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:47 PM
1

I never bought into the whole "find a passion" thing. When I went stagnant for half a year the only thing that brought me back was a hobby. I wasn't particularly passionate about it but I had a certain amount of interest in it. What is a hobby but a pursued interest. It doesn't take a burning passion, just a willingness to pursue your interests. Any hobby can be done cheaply. I've pursued many interests since then so I've become fairly adept at finding a cheap way to see if i might turn it into …
/r/askTRP16/09/17 02:43 PM
3

So cut off the horn, both in your mind, and hers. Agreeing with max, just adding on.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 06:20 PM
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just tell him its over. dont procrastinate and dont worry. as far as him not letting you break up, it takes two.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 12:14 AM
1

Bar game is weird and changes depending on who your gaming. Here in china (where little to no game is necessary) even the lowliest drunk can get laid with flattery, drinking capabilities and knowledge of bar games. Best I can tell you is, don't go for the chicks, go for fun. Show off a few bar skills, be it bar magic, puzzles or other. If that's what you'd like to learn, go look up scam school on YouTube. Great material if you learn to make it your own.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:26 PM
2

Don't find time, make time. If that means waking up earlier so be it. I wake up at five in the morning, exercise, work, cook, eat, clean, practice a new skill and finally sleep. Every day I work. My off days I work with my hands. Building pretty much anything I can get away with building. Most recent project is a pinball machine. Total cost will probably be around $100 and I'll probably be able to sell it for $200.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:12 PM
1

have multiple, clear goals. In other words.... figure out what you want. The only reason I can do a daily three hours at the gym is because I have a goal. That goal is to be in good enough shape to climb a nearby mountain. I see it as a challenge, something to overcome. Without that goal I'd probably be in the same boat as you. My first goal related to trp was to be able to workout three hours straight without collapsing, every day. Now it's still a little hard, but I can actually do it. But tha…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 05:07 AM
1

it depends on the situation. if your working together, have classes, in thr same social circle, they all require different approaches.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 02:11 PM
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ignore him. not worth your time.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:12 AM
1

learn to choose your ltrs and your friends more wisely. plates until your confident in your ability to judge an actual ltr.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 08:07 AM
1

so.... whats the problem? your making a big deal out of nothing. talking with her, sleeping with her, seeing her is not an issue. actively avoiding her is just going to hurt you. stop fretting and go back to your goals. if shes the one that got away so be it. if a girl was messing with my head that much id probably go monk mode for awhile. helps learn control and discipline.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 02:15 AM
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Then reply when you have time to make an actual argument. Simply saying I'm wrong makes you about as logical as a sjw.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:22 PM
1

Monk mode is always good, just make sure you make a goal and keep to it. Once you reach that goal, assess yourself. As far as replacing fiction, don't. Simply supplement it with nonfiction. Also, it's always good to read about something you enjoy, since you enjoy the guitar, could always read books related to busking and other ways of using this skill.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:11 PM
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Masturbation and porn are actually healthy in appropriate doses. It's excessiveness that'll get you. As far as sex and testosterone go, have sex three times a day for the next week and see how long it takes you to get hard. Then, do nothing but lift for the next week and see how long it takes you to get hard. I guarantee the first week you'll be spending some time and the second week you'll go from 0 to 60 in a split second. Testosterone levels are dependent on many factors and a blanket term li…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:04 PM
2

Quantifying any and all aspects of your life is always a good exercise.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 05:29 PM
3

Learning to play the guitar won't make you a hipster and reading won't make you an introvert. Both are great skills and habits to have. It's what you do with them that determines their effect on your smv. Simply playing power chords will raise your smv if you find or create the situation for it. Reading makes you more knowledgeable and if your going to continue your trp journey, boy let me tell you. There's a lot of reading.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 05:28 PM
1

There are many different chemicals, that give you a "high", in your brain, some harmful in large quantities (which makes it hard to quit certain things) some take such a large amount that it is nearly impossible to do damage. Do a quick search for oxytocin and follow the rabbit hole. You'll realize just how bad some stuff is, in regards to mental health. This is a dumbed down version because I already wrote one thesis.... The more you fuck the less you'll want. There are exceptions of course but…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 05:20 PM
2

Just clarifying. Not feeding. Lol.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 07:46 PM
4

I think he meant they can pressure their daughter into doing so.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 07:25 PM
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How he likely picked up on it: empathy. Some people are more aware of others emotions and feelings. Sometimes it's natural ability, sometimes it's a skill they learned over the years. Sometimes both. In my case both. Why he said it? Doesn't matter really. As far as what you can do to change, look up Amy Cuddy's ted talk. As well as other confidence related books and videos as suggested previously. Also, I'd personally recommend talking to a professional. Having someone who knows how and what to …
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:22 PM
5

Just like to point out a counselor, professional counselor that is, will be infinitely better then a book or video. The reason being a person will be able to ask and answer the right questions. Knowing where the issue stems from is an incredibly important part of the process. An author can only relay so much information in a book or video and it might be completely unrelated to your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 07:15 PM
1

Showing valued skills and attributes (ability to cook and fitness), though at some point you'll still probably need to set boundaries. Not many woman that will automatically fit into them.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:12 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:09 PM
0

You take a girl with you, not go somewhere just because she wants to, and you do things you enjoy doing, not something only she enjoys. So really, unless your paying for her, it's not an expense. When I started dating my ltr we did things that I enjoy and thought she might enjoy. First week or so we each spent about 300$. Not by design, I bought stuff for both of us like tickets, she bought stuff for both of us. Even back when I was spinning plates I never let them dictate where or what. Time is…
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:06 PM
0

This.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 08:57 PM
1

"Me too, hey, what do you think about that (whatever)? I think it'll go great with this stick up my ass." Maybe not such a harsh ending, that'd be if I was going to next her. If not, I'd probably end with "with my shoes" or whatever. Abundance mentality, I'm not going to deal with that shit.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 08:57 PM
1

I have a feeling this was mostly said by guys who couldn't get over their social awkwardness and just made excuses. Every time I hear it, it honestly sounds like an excuse not to get women.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 04:56 PM
-3

Good bot
/r/askTRP15/08/17 04:48 PM
7

Yes. Get over your insecurity. Regardless of reality your view is what makes it an insecurity, versus a simple fact.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 01:05 AM
1

Never plan a date you aren't ready to pay for, especially with online hook ups. Some of those girls dine and ditch. If she wants to split the bill, sure.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:53 AM
1

This. We don't know what you want. If you tell us what it is you want we may be able to provide some advice that, like all other advice on Reddit, should be taken with caution.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:48 AM
1

Drop the beta, acidic friends are not friends and will only try and hold you back, as you've already mentioned. As far as the girl goes, don't know what you want and honestly couldn't care less. No serious red flags that you've mentioned.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 12:43 AM
1

Why call yourself a feminist? Modern day feminism is far from gender equality and is pretty much a sexist movement.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 03:12 PM
5

Jealousy and emotions are fine, as long as you don't ACT on those emotions. If a woman does something you might get jealous about, don't act jealous, deal with the issue. If a woman in a ltr sleeps with another person, you don't let her walk over you. You next her. And you sure as hell don't beg, negotiate or deny. On that same note, to stop feeling jealousy, abundance mentality. Work on it.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 03:07 PM
2

Good bot.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 05:11 PM
8

and then tip your fadora?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 12:08 PM
4

having people quantify an assumption is always fun to watch, and any answer they gives sets you up pretty well.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 12:06 PM
1

I didnt actually express an opinion. Just insight into how a man thinks. Do what you will with the information.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 05:38 AM
1

Next, or you'll end up regretting it.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:44 PM
8

Same reason they might cut their hair, change their wardrobe or move cities. It's essentially a way to cope, move on or in some cases, a last ditch attempt to get your attention. Generally speaking though it's an act of retaliation.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:30 PM
1

We can't tell you if it's worth it. Risk versus reward is always determined by the player.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:27 PM
7

Don't shit where you eat. As far as making the best of a bad situation respond as a professional. Or just say, wrong number, was meeting a friend. Damn phone. And be done with it. Really, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 05:26 PM
24

Moderation is a necessity, like anything else.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 06:00 PM
1

I'm mostly on mobile nowadays. Not sure how to change flair on mobile.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:45 PM
1

Do you honestly think you figured out dating at 19? If you do, your lying to yourself. By the way, it was more like 21. Like I said, flair hasn't been updated in awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:59 AM
1

Ah, you think there's a man alive who is with his preference 100%? Sorry to burst your bubble, but there isn't. But men don't nitpick. We could care less if she is blonde and we like red heads, or brunettes. Or if she's short. As long as we find them attractive the details don't really matter. Sure we might prefer it, but we couldn't care less.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:58 AM
1

I felt I needed to, I could get the women but after a few weeks they'd go horrible. Wasn't until 5 years ago I realized what the problems were.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:54 AM
1

I dated someone who I wasn't attracted to physically, at all. Reason was simple, I was fed up with the personalities of the girls I had dated before. I put in about a year as well. Learned a lot. So the reason I think it's a possibility is because I did something similar.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:46 AM
1

Men settle on looks, said it before, I'll say it again. To address your second point, no I didn't lie and what business is it to you or the point at hand.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:36 AM
1

Reread the post, OP did mention how her SO thinks she's attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:33 AM
1

Well at this point we're not even sure he said this, we only know that OP is aware of her SOs dating habits. How she got this information is uncertain. Given that, I'm pretty sure your just projecting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 06:07 AM
6

According to OP he never said he didn't find her attractive. OP simply said his exes were of a different body type.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 07:15 PM
0

I have to disagree with the three points you made, me and my ltr (4 years, on mobile so can't update flair) have done all three. We've discussed exes (great way to learn about each other), we've told each other about people we found attractive (even criticized each other about them, in a playful way) and we both recognize the value of "me time" I know we aren't the only ones, every time we play couples games other couples have information they shouldn't have, if they follow those suggestions. I …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 07:13 PM
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Sure, there is a judgement call to be made. The same could be said about any other piece of advice. Anything OP does could be construed as pressuring her SO. However, if OP could not express their needs in the relationship without fear of offending and/or angering their SO, the relationship is already doomed to fail. Given the time they've been together and the acceptance by OP it can be assumed this is not the case. A guess to be sure but a pretty good guess. Just my view given the available in…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 06:50 PM
–

Surprise him and/or take initiative. Nothing turns on a guy like a woman showing us we're needed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 08:38 PM
15

Guy here, all guys are attracted to many different types of looks. I find Angelina Jolie to be incredibly attractive, even though generally speaking I like shorter girls. I also find Emily Clarke attractive, even though generally speaking I gravitate towards asians. As far as boobs go, big boobs, small boobs, to a guy, boobs are boobs. Except teenage boys and that's mostly a social thing. Quick little point. Generally speaking men settle when it comes to looks, because we value other things more…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:07 AM
1

Perhaps, it was a possibility I was aware of (wasn't the case but the possibility was there). But judging someone's personality on a tattoo about the size of a dollar coin is just asinine. Sure, you might not like tattoos but that doesn't mean there is something wrong with her. Of course it's always good to be cautious but nexting just because of a small tattoo, that has nothing to do with her personality and everything to do with your personal taste. Which I'm not bashing, everyone has their ow…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:19 PM
2

Ah, intended meaning lost online again....
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:17 PM
3

We all have our way of expressing ourselves, I have one tattoo of an oil lamp in memory of Robin Williams. Without going into to much information, it helps me and when someone asks about it I have something meaningful to talk about. Girls I've met before have had meaningful tattoos and in many cases proved to be valuable insight. That's not to say most of them didn't get a tattoo for the simple reason that it looked good, I'm just saying a tattoo doesn't mean they aren't ltr material, if that's …
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:02 PM
2

Girls lie about that all the time. Though it is true that female sexuality tends to "shut off" after long periods of inactivity it doesn't take much to reactivate. Not to say I know better than you when it comes to your relationship, just pointing out it's always best to assume the worst and make the best out of what you have.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:52 PM
3

You do realize his response was an example of critical thinking, right? While most of this sub sounds like it was written by forty year old fathers telling their daughters off, he's going against the grain. You may not agree with him, this is a sub that nobody will agree with 100 percent after all, but at least have the common sense to put forth a compelling argument.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:48 PM
1

This hasn't been true for a decade or so. While many organizations use to fire for tattoos, at most they'll ask you to cover it up. May even get a compliment or two. Almost everyone I know back in America has at least one and many people here in china get them. Meanings change all the time. Though excessive tattoos is a pet peeve of mine.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:45 PM
1

Tattoos aren't bad, if there's some real meaning and thought behind them. I met a girl who had a rose tattoo and when I asked about it she said it was for her deceased mother. To me that says family oriented and one of the major things I look for in a serious relationship. Another girl I met had a spider web tattoo. Why? Because she thought it looked pretty. That says insecure, while not a deal breaker by itself it was a red flag and due to other contributing factors I decided to move along. Red…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:38 PM
1

My claim is that an adoptive parent, same-sex couples and single parents can raise children just as well as 2 biological parents can and that there is no evidence to support the claim that any situation is better. Most people equate known to be best, but that isn't always the case. What about any of that is nonsensical?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:15 PM
1

Convenient.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:10 PM
1

Based on what evidence? All studies I've read through targeted very specific households for all categories and most, if not all of them, were completely destroyed in peer reviews.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:57 PM
1

Other situations, getting a little tired.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:32 PM
2

You should look up on the definition of misogyny. Most misogynists don't differentiate between size.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:12 PM
2

This idea, that children are best off when raised by biological parents, has been debunked so many times it's not even funny. Don't mean to say the opposite is better, just that there aren't noticeable differences when it comes to intellect, empathy or general success. Careful which studies you follow, many of them fall victim to confirmation bias.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:09 PM
1

The reason your getting these responses, your assuming way too much. About men, and women. You assume that trp men think all women are X or all men should Y. We basically say assume the worst and make the best.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:33 PM
2

trp is a warning and mindset. it isnt about women. its about men taking the necessary steps to ensure they arent being taken advantage of and socializing with women in a way that communicates what they want out of the woman in question. it is also about self improvement in general, for men. if you want to learn more id personally recommend trpwomen. stay here and pretty much everyone here will assume your a blue pill man who just wants everyone to be friends.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:10 PM
2

survival means different things to women and men. women have a biological tendancy to seek out the person or people necessary to ensure their prodigy gets the most in life, i cannot dumb it down more than that. that is what hes refrencing nothing else. by the way, why does anyone have any responsibility to do anything unrelated to their own cause and effect? absolute bs. stop trying to guilt your views on other people.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:02 PM
1

on par with your own condoms of course. using the other persons and that number goes way down.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:06 PM
5

your missing the entire point. hes talking about biological tendencies in a familia relationship. your talking resource accumulation. completely different. also, who are you to say business minded women are any better then family oriented women?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:50 AM
1

actually, there has been one peer reviewed study about the effectivness of pulling out, 100% if you actually pull out. on mobile now otherwise id link. maybe ill remember when i get home.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:37 AM
3

Actually, it might not be the case. My previous ltr didn't want to work and preferred chores. Fine by me, I don't particularly like doing them. My current ltr works and we both do our fair share of the chores. To be perfectly honest, both situations are okay by me. The reason only reason my previous ltr didn't work out was completely unrelated to the working situation. In all honesty it is quite possible y'all are feeling better because you both enjoy your current lifestyle. By your own account …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 04:05 PM
1

More like she was begging for attention. either way as long as you reached your goal your good.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 01:55 PM
2

Well, being short doesn't help but there are a lot of problems there.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:15 PM
0

Kudos.... what is the world coming to.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:07 PM
1

what troubles me? politics. 24 years old.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 08:41 AM
0

i honestly dont remember the first time i had sex, right after i started i didnt stop hooking up with tons of women for about a year. a decade later i tried to remember and honestly cant even remember who it was with.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 03:56 AM
1

No work no reward, I'm like this too.
/r/askTRP02/05/17 06:27 PM
-1

"you spelled a word wrong so your comment is irrelevant" Because that is totally logical.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:33 PM
-1

it's 4:20 in the morning here, who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:20 PM
7

If you have to ask, your shitting to close to where you eat. Also, raise your standards. Their way to low.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 07:08 PM
1

I actually started meditating before I even knew what meditating was. I just needed to clear my head so I could finally fall asleep. It wasn't for a few years that I found if I pulled a subject into view that I could really focus on it.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:47 PM
2

If you can make it through 30 minutes of meditating (mind completely blank) without falling asleep, you're probably ready. Once your minds blank, go ahead and just call forth a topic (don't know a better way to put it). If you'd like to practice with something simpler, try visualizing an apple. In the beginning you will most definitely get distracted, push the distractions away like you do with "invading thoughts" and keep to it. Just in case your version of meditation and mine are different (pl…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:52 PM
3

Once you can keep your mind clear (no need to "push" visuals/audio/etc. out) calling a subject/object into view and literally meditating on it. The amount of clarity while doing so allows you to see/solve variables you couldn't see/solve before. It takes awhile before your able to do it without having your mind wander.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 04:15 AM
4

I've been meditating since I was 12, only way I could fall asleep back then. Once you get to the point where you can actually meditate on something (versus clearing your head completely for whatever length of time) there are a few more benefits and it's those benefits that are significant to me.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 09:01 PM
3

let me ask you a question. What did Swedes do before social networking? The habit (social networking) could only have existed for the last 20 years or so. But whatever, your call. Also, the "U.S. is just the opposite" is completely incorrect. The reason Pokemon GO is surprising the hell out of people is because you see groups of people actually going out like they did before. Personally I don't play it but the point I'm trying to make is, generally speaking, Americans are just as anti-social as …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:23 PM
3

When you mentioned "Mystery style peacocking" I thought "it can't be that bad can it?" I was wrong. That's horrible. This coming from a magician who constantly wears ridiculous outfits for performance reasons (Today was just casual wear though, hot as hell recently).
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:00 PM
3

Facebook? Snapchat? Instagram? Get rid of them. Trying again in the morning?!?! Come on man, she stops responding, 3 day rule kicks in. Also, sudden unresponsive - seems like she was just killing time. Whatever, just forget about her. Side note: Tiny girls tend to be the more.... energetic/willing to try anything types. Give 'em a go.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:51 PM
1

I think we've all had that problem at some point in our lives. I was a lazy fuck up until the day I decided I wasn't going to lie to myself anymore.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 09:29 PM
1

No problem, that's why we're here right?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 09:14 PM
1

That last part bothered me a bit, probably because my current life mantra (a phrase I say over and over again as a source of inspiration) is "You don't get opportunities, you make them" Just thought I'd share.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 09:05 PM
2

Let's see, barely any social network, surrounded by older people, these are 2 choices that you made. You complain about not getting laid. There's a number of reasons why you aren't getting laid, none of which are that you can't. Be honest with yourself as to why you are deciding not to get laid and deal with the problem. Meditation and self-analysis wont do shit for you if your not honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:56 PM
0

You need new friends. But on a side note, I use reddit as my time to unwind. It's great in moderation. My weekends are actually monday and tuesday (i work on saturday and sunday) so I like going to places that are usually filled to the brim. Like the amusement park not 30 min. walk from my house, or the pool about 20 min. from my house. If you think complaining about your situation on reddit is going to do anything, your completely wrong. We cant really tell you what to do, or even suggest what …
/r/askTRP25/06/16 05:34 PM
1

Just get the point across and avoid coming off as generous. "I'm grabbing coffee, do you want something?" is a no no. There is a time and a place for generosity but it's not at this point.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:56 PM
-1

You could say "Hey, wanna fuck?" Which is why I suggest avoiding the "not a nice guy" mindset. The issue isn't with sounding like a nice guy. It's about being to nice "Hi, I was wondering if you'd like to go out for drinks?" Is way to bp. Don't misunderstand, to get what you want you need a mix of rp and bp. I generally stick with the "I'm going out for drinks and I want you to come along"
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:53 PM
3

Once you let her assume that she is entitled to something you've earned, you're moving into beta category. This, a thousand times this.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:56 AM
2

Thanks for pointing out the mistake, could be quite confusing.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:54 AM
3

He shouldn't have to pay his hard earned money to be able to stay with her. That was the point I was trying to make. Edit: Fixing a small mistake.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:33 AM
4

It's not about affording it, it's about being expected to pay for a woman. If he wanted that he could go out and find a hooker.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:41 AM
7

You say "Helping keep the apartment tidy" this suggests that you do too. Why then should she pay 1/3 instead of 1/2? She want's an outdated concept like chivalry? Sure, long as she stays in the kitchen. She want's women's rights and equality? Sure, but she can't have it both ways. Sure, if she's the only one doing housework I MAY accept that situation. There are tons of 10/10s in the world so don't let this one push you around.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:36 AM
1

A quick look through 420's submitted will tell you why 420 thinks thats a good idea.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:00 AM
1

Lol, guess that's one way to do it.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:32 AM
1

Well before you do so it'd be a good idea to ask yourself why and spend some time saying "This is what I want to do: 1. whatever 2. whatever" so when that time comes (And it most likely will) your prepared.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:21 AM
1

There's no way to avoid it. Just remind yourself that this isn't really about fucking as many women as you can, but rather it's about improving yourself. Mind and body.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:14 AM
2

Rip it off like a band aid and stick to the truth. Men tend to feel great for a couple days, then a pang of regret followed by some philosophical breakthrough. Women are devastated for a couple days then suddenly it's sunshine and rainbows. No matter what you do/say she's going to, at the very least, act hurt. Take the time you need. If you want to keep her hoping you can add in a line about "Look, I love you but..." though I wouldn't recommend it because it gives you an out.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:09 AM
6

Who gives a shit? I've recently gained a good 20 pounds and it's all on my stomach. Only time I keep my shirt on is when it's a quickie outside. On another note, if your self conscious about it your just giving the chick ammo. Just say fuck it, before they get the idea to use it against you.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:30 PM
2

I keep the mindset that I learn a lot more from my fuck ups then my successes. It helps that I haven't been flat-out rejected since I was.... .... .... ... 15? That's about right. Sure I got a few see-me-laters (never did, it's always on my terms) but ever since that almighty burn when I was 15, not one flat out rejection.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 03:08 PM
10

Ignore her, don't let her come monday. Wait period applies to exes too. If she begs to come over lay down the law "You finished with that no-fucking bullshit?" Right to the point. If she pulls the same shit while at the house, again, lay down the law "You can leave now" On another note: It's easy enough to find a new play-thing, why get with your ex?
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:42 PM
-8

I'd say fuck it I am a superficial asshole and demand that she fixes it.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 02:58 AM
1

I keep the "eh, whatever" mindset. I had this particular problem back when I was a teenager but about the time I hit 20 I calmed down quite a bit. I don't get worked up at all. Hell, last time I got into a "physical altercation" I kept my cool the entire time. My buddy who saw it has been calling me Jackie Chan ever since.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:40 PM
1

Testosterone actually comes in spurts and "saving" it as you say, will actually lower your overall testosterone. Having a healthy outlet can make your testosterone levels rise and your cortisol levels drop. Cortisol, if you didn't know, is responsible for the flight part of the fight or flight instinct.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:14 PM
0

Doctors actually say that masturbation is incredibly healthy. Before you listen to your father talking about "harmful effects" or me saying that it's healthy, I suggest you actually talk to a doctor about the physical effects of masturbation. As far as psychology goes it depends. But 3 or 4 times a week is, psychologically speaking, perfectly normal. Well, it is a little low. Porn itself is only harmful if your not discreet about it. I made the mistake of leaving up an image after I masturbated …
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:12 PM
2

I disagree with most. Situation totally retrievable. But, why would you? There's more women out there. If I wanted to continue the relationship I'd say something like "I am attracted to you, but if you don't want me screw it. I can go find someone else, goodbye" in a text or something. I'm not going to spend my time to tell her face to face if she's not going to go for it.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 03:29 PM
1

Depends on the situation but generally I turn to movies. Without Robin Williams I would be a completely different person. When he committed suicide I got depressed for a couple days but his family's (most notably his daughter's) messages to the public helped me out a lot. And one of his movies, What dreams may come. A movie where he dies, helped me get over his death. A good example was when I was freaking out because of a passport issue. Watched one of the movies out of the dune series. The mom…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 09:16 AM
1

Side note here: If you have gotten enough practice in with juggling, I highly recommend practicing with broken beer bottles. It's a hit with the chicks but you'll probably need to build some trust with the employees/owner first. If you do, be careful, that point where the bottle spins is off for each bottle because it's impossible to break 2 bottles the exact same way. I like to use the magician setup when I'm in a new area and this is one of the ways I shutdown other magicians. That and a few o…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:44 PM
1

To be honest n china the chicks are generally 1-3 or a 9-10 there isn't much between that. But, you make a fair point in saying that I should probably challenge myself. Could try for more threesomes but the 4 times I've had them they didn't exactly hold up to my expectations. Anyways, I've rambled enough. Will look for a worthwhile challenge.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:26 PM
-1

"Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios." Which basically means that it's about everyone but you... how to handle a situation, why someone thinks/does something and what you should do in a certain social situation. Your logic is flawed. By the way, look up what the word complacent means.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:20 PM
2

Dude, your the backup plan, orbiter or whatever else you want to call it. Leave.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:53 AM
1

Let me give you some context. I'm white. In China. That by itself is enough. Understanding the cultural and social dynamics here just makes it that much easier.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 04:41 AM
2

Rejection? What's that? But in all seriousness, the times I did get rejected usually ended up with me getting their number anyways. I usually say something along the lines of "Well, I'm out of here. Thanks for wasting my time" stand up, glance at my watch then scope the place out looking for my next target. About 7 times out of 10 they stopped me, said something along the lines of "Well if it means that much...." and proceeded to give me their number. As far as social circles are concerned I usu…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:59 PM
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