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Which isn't a bad thing- healthy to lift as long as you do it properly. But that alone isn't gonna cut it. Rather then focusing on women. Start with being open to talk to all kinds of strangers
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 03:54 AM
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Probably a few but I get it- As humans we try to categorize things to make it simpler for our ways of thinking- it's always more complicated then using duality for an example
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 11:09 PM
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Man... some of these guys are all about bedding a girl and I'm like "are we gonna play Mario kart and have a good time?"
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 09:09 PM
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Oh. Okay Yeah most guys seem to compare it to a Duality thing/ your either one or the other when its actually more of a pecking order- a "beta" is the next best thing to an alpha- betas are at least learning to be alpha and they do get some of the spoils. It's like the "zeta" or some shit that you don't want to be- the loser of the losers. So yeah fuck all of those guys. There is more to the mindset then a/b
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 09:07 PM
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I found that cold approaching on transit (just starting by building rapport) used to be surprisingly effective YEARS ago before smartphones completely took over and now everyone would rather be anti social on a transit ride (granted it was all in where we were going- busy train home after work? Forget about it. Pregame going downtown? A good warm up for the night) I've even slept with girls i met on transit a long time ago. I don't think it could be done today. Go to a purpose built soical funct…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 08:09 AM
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Nightclubs suck ass. Go swing dancing when this bullshit pandemic ends- you'll learn a new skill AND get new numbers just to make new friends!
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 08:03 AM
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I hope so man.... With the way some regions are going this shit wont seem to ever end (Ontario)
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:59 AM
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Really this is just r/exnocontact for former r/theredpill subscribers
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:54 AM
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2 hours of a lot of shit talking... tough to listen too
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:52 AM
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Define red pill in terms of this bulldog name mindset
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:47 AM
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"Red pill lite" CCW will never admit of because he is not one to label his shit in a movement. Smart Its about the principal with him of "hang out have fun hook up"
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:46 AM
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Agreed- other shit happened that sprialed out of control in tandem with subing to TRP theory
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:33 AM
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hate this comparison. Charming and gift of the gab gets you through life easier, but the two are very different in how they charm attention for potential candidate. Also you need a job when you have no money and little prospects, many young people start struggling with this. You don't need a partner however
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:31 AM
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What the fuck is a "woke woman ?" Sounds like a fucking problem. I'm willing to be most are single or are in a shirt relationship
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:26 AM
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I'm willing to bet a lot more happened besides you discovering red pill theory....
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:24 AM
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.... for what its worth I tended to hate my look I glasses. Then I tried polarized tinting the right frame. Gamechanger. A complete new style that i rock super confidently. Now you wont see me without em- despite not really needing them always
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:23 AM
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I've followed him along enough to know that there is not only 3% man... but a 3% woman as well. Truth is most people suck, and they all have lots of problems that can prevent a relationship from ever working out. With each passing relationship I don't see how people can stay married forever, as I hear more and more of long lasting relationships fall right apart. As you improve you'll learn that there is a 3% woman as well... and Corey has stated recently that your only gonna meet a super solid f…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:16 AM
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"Red pill lite" I'll never not think about this when I see his material now
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:04 AM
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It's also Straight up the best to get a response right when you see her face to face
/r/ExRedPill09/04/21 07:03 AM
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Online is a cesspool of trolls and catfish central. The ONLY winning.move IRL is to approach, conversation and learn what works and what wont There is no "perfect"tinder profile. Stop trying to makenthe best one and go out and get real social skills like dancing or Co ed sports
/r/seduction27/05/19 08:44 PM
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the only winning move with online is not to play
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:29 PM
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Different kids react in different ways...you should never marry and have children with a woman unless you love the shit out of her and vice versa Otherwise one is better off "spreading the seed"
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:27 PM
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dude your manlet skills comes with a consequence. Nothing to do but to enjoy your life forever a Bachelor now. I'd rather not strike it with girls then get one wrong one, get married have kids and then have a huge divorce case go south all while having to pay money out the ass and have kids who can't see mom and dad get along well. Too many fucking examples of that shit around my life. Fuck that man no kid should have to go through it yet too many do. Its irresponsible
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:06 AM
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Stay off snapchat for one.... Also...this is a bit of a red flag, if she has feelings fornyiu and is recuperating WHILE STILL in the relationship? Rule of thumb says shell do it to you as well. Have fun with it...but I wouldn't go too far with this one
/r/seduction13/05/19 10:08 PM
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Dude with the way were going were having less sex then ever before. If you can bed 7 woman I'm a life time that's actually still impressive
/r/seduction13/05/19 10:06 PM
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wait till those same girls will start to want a long term mate in their late 20s/30s they bitch about it a lot on reddit
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:45 AM
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eh does it? I think it helps... but honestly not AS much of a big deal as it is for girls. especially some guys can age like fine wine... this is almost NEVER the case for woman unless of its SUPER good genes or if they take care of themselves... usually together
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:30 AM
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pretty much this... TnA and good genes pretty much gets woman inside the sex zone. guys, of course, have to work much harder for it. As old as time itself
/r/seduction10/05/19 12:20 AM
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depends on the guy and his approach... and her current mood
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:41 AM
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expected the generic just be yourself but yes, stable income with something cool to do, your own place and your own set of wheels (doesn't matter what it is as long as its reliable) helps tremendously
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:07 AM
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nope. on to the next one
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:33 AM
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modern attitude of the new world for youth and young adult focus on what you enjoy. Come back to it later
/r/seduction01/05/19 12:32 AM
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There is no game in being approached...either aeccpt or reject. Nothing like what guys have to work on
/r/seduction30/04/19 04:02 PM
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lol clearly you weren't into her to begin with
/r/seduction14/04/19 02:42 AM
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What do you mean by she texted you wanting.to kiss? because no girl ever texts that....its probably her friends getting a hold.of her phone and trolling
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:09 PM
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What girl this day and she texts someone saying they want to kiss them? Sounds like a red flag....or just sheer inexperience...
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:07 PM
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Sex is different then sex with legit human love. Hard sell for me personally. If they aren't into it them I'm out!
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:15 PM
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Honestly its probably becoming more common then we think...I get approached as well from time to time. Granted I'm tall and probably above average in looks but I think its becoming more of a thing because gender roles are being really defined- less guys are "Manning up"now more then ever and some woman will start to.make the moves
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:06 PM
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Dude...your 15? Not the end of the world.... Shit your still a baby to some of us...you'll be fine. Many opportunities will cineand you'll f*** them up part of life
/r/seduction12/04/19 04:39 PM
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thats your own issue. inner game son go work on that
/r/seduction09/04/19 09:24 PM
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Rejection is apart of life, man up and take the chance if you sense she has mutual feelings of interest
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:47 PM
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cause your focusing too much on it.
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:46 PM
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depends on how you say it. intention, cause when done right it's super appreciated by the person... unless she is super young and is indifferent and hears it all the time but SOME beautiful woman may NOT hear it all the time
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:42 PM
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100% getting a new crush
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:25 AM
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on an unrelated note the title of the sub reminds me of that in search of sunrise song from years ago damn
/r/seduction24/02/19 09:56 PM
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what the fuck? how is it a date if she asks to "bring a friend"?
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:43 AM
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here is an example of "less is more" in true full force
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:39 AM
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I am tall so yes its automatic to find that
/r/seduction10/02/19 02:38 AM
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You don't
/r/seduction17/01/19 02:45 AM
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People lately have been shooting all over Facebook when they shit on social media. But I think the real problem is Instagram...and snapchat.all the young people are there and influenced /consume it lots. Seriously models are a dime a dozen. I think it fucks with women even more
/r/seduction17/01/19 02:41 AM
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I'm willing yo be good ones are deadly expensive...
/r/seduction25/12/18 09:06 AM
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texting (in details and the texting game) is trash. if they are into you they will be open. send a message inviting them out. if not? then peace. I ain't got time to waste on girls who aren't as interested in me. Moving forward here folks
/r/seduction24/12/18 08:49 PM
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when you come back, scheme some illiterate plot to burn your house down... ???? profit and then move to Belize
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:21 PM
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yes check it out the sheer irony of the book though: the book itself suffers for this very rule
/r/seduction22/12/18 04:24 AM
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this is true... but then your the OP telling me this... so why even bring this up if you already know?
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:54 AM
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and most likely won't... they can be very flaky the one that will? will make it much easier. you can improve your odds again with lifestyle, fashion etc
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:52 AM
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go read it up there's even a book about it specifically with woman... small percentage of guys will bang a majority of the females.... some theorize Monogamy and marriage was made the norm to stop this from happening because its more stable in the long run... humans are very adaptable... so we don't know whats really best for society in the long run. things are changing now with weaking Christian/changing values.
/r/seduction22/12/18 02:50 AM
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20/80 rule brother.... you've got to become the 3%.... by becoming indifferent towards women. prehaps focus on other shit- make your life awesome. change the style a bit... pump up your life style then... all of a sudden after strong indifference for years? interest slowly starts comin around
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:54 AM
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this is probably the best answer... simple and easy confirm. but even still if you have a girl whos not interested.... well then she'll flake.... go back to the "fuck yes or no" idea. two guys I used to love here... Mark Mason and Corey Wayne... CW would always say "texting to confirm is a beta move, shows weakness, set a clear date"... MM? "if she's into you, she'll let you right in. fuck yes or no, don't work for it if shes not totally into you"
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:46 AM
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you can't lose this- you never truly had it in the first place. in "thinking" about it, what were you doing before? what was the environment you were in like?
/r/seduction07/10/18 05:58 PM
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excellent for landing jobs and forming relationships... not very clear for seducing women. building a relationship with one with mutual interest in you, YES but not for the initial stages, which is what this sub works on.
/r/seduction16/09/18 03:43 AM
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I was a virgin until 21, didn't REALLY enjoy sex with someone until 26! I hardly get it today because of where I'm at with carrier, housing and stability! lets face it- we live in a world were all of these things have been pushed off until later adulthood... and that is the new norm, you are not weird for not having sex before 20... but you need to get your mental health shit checked out or NO ONES gonna want to sleep with you, my dude.
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:00 PM
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your 20- your... not a kid but your still very young. you missed nothing
/r/seduction12/09/18 01:19 AM
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better focus on the awesome job first with whatever resources you have. girlfriend can come later
/r/seduction11/09/18 06:14 PM
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great post, thanks boss... ultimately I would like to be better on topics of r/seddit but 4 and 5 are higher priority for me, leaving less focus for social game. I guess that's the frustration. it feels like I've missed the prime days... but as long as I can nail 4 and 5 I can come around like a king in my 30s
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:46 PM
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you sound like the kind of person who doesn't enjoy where they work. thats not what I'm talking about- anyone can get a job (for the money) but can they find something they enjoy and get paid well for it?
/r/seduction11/09/18 05:42 PM
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Execpt.my.boss owes me a check he hasn't payed me out for. Watch what you say.
/r/seduction11/09/18 12:33 AM
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you know man... maybe your right but I still gotta ask, why would you make an incredible write up for advice only to take it down and cave from the "cause your a girl" ? I guess were all swine then.
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:29 PM
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holy fuck man... where have you been in the last 20 years? ah hahaha, obvious, clearly. Young people from the last generation have been withholding "rights of passage" for various reasons, lack of good parental relationships, tough housing/job markets etc... its caused, believe it or not, most 20 year olds to have NO REAL EXPERIENCE WITH SEX, GFs AND LIVES, hardly none whats so ever. get back to us when your 30, and keep a more positive mindset. and say the fuck off of online dating. No one ever…
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:24 PM
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yeah we have a pretty big local scene thats getting popular by the month- venues expanding, long time hosts and DJs being asked by fucking Majors of other cities to set up shop in their towns. Swing Dancing in the 21st century is a much needed thing with all this online bullshit. While tough to game in a sexual closing manner, at least I've found close friends and for the first time, felt like I actually belonged in a social circle with some of my groups. Its one of the best things I've started …
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:19 PM
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problem with small towns is everyone knows who you are... which, my brother and I, we have a positive... what would you say... well the town people fuckin love us, we have no enemies here and anyone who tried to mess with us- guys and girls would have our backs. It makes it tough to close with the girls though in a sexual way- he has the "friend vibe" worse then I do while I mostly keep to myself and use my introvert style to excel with one on one or smaller group settings. sometimes I light it …
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:12 PM
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but when I came back to the table... she started touching and holding my arms... in a sensual way.... only those who have expereniced this could understand how amazing it feels. should've capitalized there... failed to do so... too many guys around. honestly? I couldn't confirm it but one of them could've EASILY been her boyfriend. but I asked who was and she only said "just best friends :)" so I wasn't sure with this one
/r/seduction10/09/18 09:07 PM
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I'm loving swing its so open.... But I'm finding most are Christian and reserved
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:43 PM
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In this sencario we had an active thing...we were playing pool together so it was an active set I could tell she was losing attention...only cause she was drinking. I stayed commited to the game and chatted other girls... Local bar small town...not a whole lot of fish around here...and down town...while I've met some great mates on random.nights....its a tough crowd/tough city
/r/seduction10/09/18 05:42 PM
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How so?
/r/seduction10/09/18 02:07 PM
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Well your bang on about the "females have more to guard, only swipe right 14% of the time" you are actually incorrect about it being the same 14% of guys. I.know where you got those stats. I read them as well...tinder is one big data mining for the company. All that data and they could not find out what was definate about the 14% of guys that WERE right swiped. Omitting this makes me think the rest of your write up is kinda bullpoop
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:55 PM
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*"where am I going wrong? Shit load of chicks around me. I installed tinder and started swiping* BBOOM BITCH, STOP RIGHT THERE YOU JUST ANSWERED YOUR OWN FUCKING QUESTION IN THE FIRST FEW SENTENCES Amazing how that happens...anyway, if your around hot chicks, get off the fucking phone And make an impressionin real life. its like finding the right Job really. Find out who is receptive and who isn't in real life
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:48 PM
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Bah haha this actually works
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:43 PM
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This is the only answer...its none of her fucking business. More mystery...less history
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:40 PM
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Execpt that one...haha now that's just cheese
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:38 PM
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Relying on a gf to make you happy.makes you dependent and weak. No healthy female seeking a man would want that shit
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:35 PM
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Seeing a lot of these '20-23 year old ready to give up dating game is shit" posts lately its like they say this thinking they've experienced it all...not even close Good news is 20 is very young in today's world. Much time to change And improve forget the past and move.forward quickly
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:33 PM
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Devils advocate here: if that chick user was truly tough and real she wouldnt have deleted all of her well thought research. And 9 times out of 10 you don't go to ask the sheep how to sheer the sheep. NOW some woman do take execption.to study the game- they are outliers and seldomly exist. Human interaction is a fickle thing. I believe the trolling on the internet in general has gotten much worse over the years. Seddit.or.elsewhere
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:28 PM
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yeah... threatening to leave the relationship is an unhealthy thing to do in the long run.. especially with someone like you've dated
/r/seduction06/09/18 05:02 PM
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nothing beats that write up u/HalfRetardHalfAmazin did YEARS ago...
/r/seduction16/08/18 05:38 PM
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Gutiar player here- learning an instrument is fucking difficult.
/r/seduction11/08/18 08:37 AM
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/u/sharpethundercock (hell of a name) you need to sop being a thin thunder pussy about this and just enjoy it, Maybe dip your pin in the company ink for a change.. just don't fuckin cum all over the paper you have what I call a fun problem.
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:49 AM
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once you get to the chest... isn't that the equalizer of you touching parts of their boob?
/r/seduction19/07/18 04:47 AM
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I used to work a 3 day work week. It got boring fast. 4 days? with monday or friday off? fucking perfect
/r/seduction19/07/18 03:16 AM
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this sounds like a fun problem to have I think you'll do just fine... its easier then you think in your case
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:06 PM
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pff thats nothing. try 10 hour days at 50 hours a week? nothing still, crank it to 60? think thats horseshit? now 60 hours 7 days a week while working like 3 separate job. welcome to the new modern world. It sucks but its what the conditions are.
/r/seduction18/07/18 10:02 PM
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most of my talking is done in person so I just message a "hey its ironchar" or if I went away "I'm gonna change up blahblahblah see you in a bit"
/r/seduction18/07/18 07:15 AM
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no shit eh. I'll confess to having "nice guy" vibes. Not worth everyone though one thing that holds true is the level of effort drops when their attraction to you is higher
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:47 PM
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this reminds me... I've recently changed jobs to do something I enjoy more... its not within the relm of my apprenticeship but I was fed up with manufacturing industry and not getting credit for my hours I love my current work. Union, pays well and its fun... WHAT A DIFFERENCE the it can make to someones world when they actually enjoy their line of work
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:18 PM
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I've lost a lot... but then again I'm sure many others have here as well
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:15 PM
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Dance all the time...spinning is the way to go but don't overdo the same move...you gotta mix it up. Moves in ways were you pull your attention/body language away for.brief then bring it back subconsciously and statistically work wonders
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:57 AM
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great! I heard they didn't give a shit about the world cup in Russia and Russians cant seem to smile which I find to be true. nice to hear there is some partying... of course is Moscow
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:49 PM
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mean exactly as I said... girl offer to buy ME drinks, 9 cases out of 10 there is report built like I say, rare, but it can happen
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:46 PM
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for those kind of girls? even thats too much for a response... "yeah... whatever" ah hahahaha!
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:44 PM
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usually its the other way around for me rare but it happens.
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:20 PM
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I've done this before! the girl is usually like "what... did you just say.. thats not how it works" like they are shocked, the 'authority' is being challenged. this was a case of building little report, so I wasn't invested enough to care
/r/seduction14/07/18 06:19 PM
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sit back and wait- see if she messages you at this point THATS when you know shes interested
/r/seduction14/07/18 04:10 PM
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so what?
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:56 PM
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the best response to this. period. "so... what?"should be your mentality. although this doesn't sound like a shit test
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:53 PM
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try real hard not to shit where you eat
/r/seduction13/07/18 11:47 PM
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to be honest I wouldn't mind being closer to 6'4. Nothing is designed for 6'6+, plus getting the "your so tall! how tall are you" all the time is like that of a girl with huge tits and people letting her know about it. having an eye level conversation is one of the best ways to really connect with someone... I can't do it standing up with everyone, in fact I tower over most... and some are intimidated, eh fuck them like girls, I pick and choose who I dance with, and some girls will come up to me…
/r/seduction01/07/18 07:02 AM
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this is hilarious my twin brother is heavy into basketball...I'm a vball player actually that tall girl I'm thinking of? she is a vball player as well. I danced with a girl with my exact height... its weird. I wouldn't mind losing an inch or two but you gotta make it work.
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:31 AM
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corey Wayne's 3% man
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:15 AM
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6'6 here. works both ways. Being tall is awesome... but I'm close to the 'freakishly tall" spectrum even for guys. Labour jobs suck donkey balls, nothing is designed for this height and its very tough to hold your body frame, literally. Posture is a tough deal you always gotta be continuous of. Oh and I've went out with girls a foot and a half shorter, it gets tough to make out also I know girls who have the problem of being over 6ft tall... they get pretty self conscious of their height...some …
/r/seduction01/07/18 05:08 AM
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yeah no shit- 21 your JUST exiting the kid phase in todays world. Most don't know shit at 21
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:48 AM
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if shes young I don't think she's gonna be able to explain why shes not attracted to him anymore, a lot of woman can't explain their emotional brain
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:46 AM
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she lost interest in you. period. happens a lot, ESPICALLY with modern young girls. Very finicky and many options at the fingertips of a screen (or better yet, social scene) if they are hot. I go out social dancing on friday nights and let me tell you, the hottest new girls that show up? are ALWAYS being asked to dance. they can't catch a brake. without knowing your situation, I'd say you got to predictable, weren't enough of a mystery or challenge, didn't have enough sex, etc. tough shit. take …
/r/seduction01/07/18 04:45 AM
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explain to me... how that works... must've been years ago.
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:13 AM
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never tell a girl your a virgin. Never talk about how long you've been in a "dry spell" either. keep this shit a mystery gents! "More Mystery, less History" is truly one of the few positive generic pieces of advice that I find is very valid.
/r/seduction01/07/18 01:12 AM
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how did you start? what were the initial steps?
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:59 AM
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eh.. sounds like you dodged a bullet there. fuck those kind of people. They have their own problems. You could "fuck and chuck" but that'll probably not be very healthy. move on
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:57 AM
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avoid taking politics in general.
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:52 AM
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this one makes no sense at all... have you reached out to her?
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:51 AM
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I've latterly JUST had this happen to me two weeks ago with a girl I was super close with. It's was a sudden shift too... talking and texting to cold and distant. I ask her what happened, all she says is "busy" no response after. Its concerning to me but I too have challenges in my life so I can't even focus on her shitty deal in life. Some people are just trash at communicating, woman included. All you can keep doing is bring new woman in
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:43 AM
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I believe the equivalent is money/social status. but yes take care of ones self and men tend to age like fine wine more then woman do. Its a shame- I'd rather be the man at my late 20s and date more woman whom I can relate with closer to age.... but its taken a lot longer to establish myself in carrier and $$$ so I personally felt I'll miss out on the greatness of 20s dating and mating we were still more relateable... a LOT of older mates I hear of in their late 40s/50s dating late 20s/30s
/r/seduction01/07/18 12:29 AM
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I've had to do this in a sexless relationship. in the end I ended up losing attraction as well. good friend, lousy lover
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:20 AM
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It was different in my school... cause it was Ironworking and there was no bullshitting this trade. This being said I struggled to do well academicly and put in extra time to pass the tests, which I failed anyway. At the end of it all my last teacher said to me "I don't know how to put this to you man, but basked on what I've seen. You don't have what it takes to make it in this trade" Kinda bullshit. I wasnt the best and failed more times then passed butI wish they sent us up in the air earlier…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 04:41 AM
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Think and grow rich win friends and influence magic of thinking big. Corey Wanyes 3% man
/r/askTRP06/06/18 01:23 AM
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psssh... at 16-post grad you barely know shit. lives can change greatly from then
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:10 AM
1

I know a mate who's 32, two kids, (going thru divorce process sadly) experience...she still looks amazing! like she is 22-26 but with much more maturity thru time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:37 AM
1

23... what the fuck.. 23-24 these days is when she transitions out of the girl phase into a woman! strongly disagree... YMMV though
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:31 AM
3

I've heard successful marriages are most so around the 28 to 32 age range and that young marriages are MORE likely to fall apart due to lack of immaturity. one example http://time.com/3966588/marriage-wedding-best-age/
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:07 AM
1

I had no idea there was a forth wave until now...
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 11:36 PM
1

Corey Wayne says a lot of things. .some I get sick.of listening too, bit the one thing he says that I love There is no compition. Most guys don't know or will.not seek this advice then really the compition is with self expection. Damn that's so Meta....
/r/seduction31/05/18 06:49 AM
5

I've read somewhere that PUA is just another form of self development and self help for guys... And I'm pretty sure that was mark.Mason who said it. FYI not giving a fuck is a better book then models despite perhaps being less helpful with "game"
/r/seduction31/05/18 06:44 AM
1

Hell how about 1500 and come out in top
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:42 PM
2

3% man by Corey Wayne is your best shot
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:41 PM
3

Not gonna lie. That book sucked. Too much verbose and 29 dollar words to sound important
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:38 PM
1

Your beat shot is to avoid all/most of online for dating and apps. Focus on real life and go from there...yea its sad to see everyone with a God dam tint computer I their hands all the time
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:34 PM
8

Models was OK... Sutle art of not giving a fuck was better
/r/seduction30/05/18 04:31 PM
2

Maybe...look at it like you do the gym. Will it ever end? Will it ever get to the point where you can say "geez I've gained as much as I could I guess I better stop now...." nope. Your gains may not be as high, but humble yourself through your training... Then the girls become effortless. What a feeling
/r/seduction08/03/18 03:14 PM
2

lots of rejection can really take a blow to your self confidence. I speak though experience. I've been fired from jobs more times in my working years then people my age have been alive. Its flustering to have worked long and hard on something and STILL have not any real progress to show. because you can bullshit dating, but you can't bullshit a job you build a career for.... you have to show up.. well in the trades anyway. don't know about you fucks behind the computer screen...
/r/seduction21/02/18 07:13 AM
3

who cares? the right one comes at the right time. just focus on having fun and building yourself in other areas
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:40 AM
1

I agree, I stay the hell away from that shit and avoid screen time when possible. sometimes convenient but to rely on is killing relations
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:50 PM
6

woman are like cats, they come and go as they please, men are like dogs this and the chase bit I find to be the most true of all
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:49 PM
2

I'm in between, depends on the girl the guy and the works I invited this girl (my now current GF) to swing dacing- a public event with tons of girl/guy interaction. she loved it and grew to love me over a slow period of time, hangin out one on one.
/r/seduction04/08/17 11:46 PM
3

Dont tell em your age make em guess....I find girls get all weird when they find out a guy is younger
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:55 AM
16

This especially these days
/r/seduction23/07/17 05:51 AM
2

2 steps forward, 1 step back. Build up anticipation, do it slowly take your time so the girl your after really wants it. And always have the abundance mindset. If this one doesn't work another will come 15 later
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:31 AM
1

The beekeeper eh? Lol she seems a bit weirded out but interested...I'd probably intvite her to a party first
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:27 AM
2

Tinder sucks. Most flake just to see who likes them and ain't actually serious about meeting Up. I wouldn't recommend it
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:23 AM
2

Yes...I had one grab the tits thru the side shirt of her hot ass best friend in front of everyone in the bar (she wasn't wearing a bra) I was fucking floored how confertble the friend was with it. I called the double standard bullshit and asked how, they told me "because were best friends I know her so well so its ok" Another girl was totally open with us...she went somewhere in the back yard, pulled down her pants and took a piss in front of us all. You talk about bold, I'm not making this up. …
/r/seduction23/07/17 03:09 AM
1

Guys can get away with being "average looking" more if they have an. Above average personality
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:51 PM
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you gotta increase your mindset to be seeing someone differently
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 07:13 AM
3

Stop with that rating shit it'll hurt you in the long run. Its like a convoluted way of putting pussy on the pedestal
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:55 AM
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You can thank our "liberal safe space" american society for that
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:50 AM
1

There are general guidelines and policies that work best. Once one get better at seduction they can bend them easily. Granted every woman is different. Some will some won't so what someones waiting
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:48 AM
1

No more fucking snapchat. Phone is for setting dates. Set dates on the phone and get the fuck off. Jesus christ how many people here fall for this shit anyway? Enough with the damn phone. Get in, bit of banter, set defenate date and get out
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:47 AM
2

Same way I overcome the fear of falling off the iron in ironworking. Just keep getting up on that iron and do what you gotta do. Remember to tie off and slowly push your boundary. After awhile the fear turns into a respect of heights and you get better at it solwly
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:44 AM
4

Name of the sub: r/seduction "Seduction" impies sexual escalation...f close is the holy trail. A big deal? It doesn't have to be full blown sex in my opinion but sexual escalation is the progression of sucessful seduction...and for most fuckin the girl is the end goal
/r/seduction22/05/17 12:34 AM
0

What dud you learn for next time? But yeah...probably not worth it
/r/seduction17/05/17 01:02 PM
13

My classmates have always said "its easier to ask for forgiveness then it is to ask for permission"
/r/seduction17/05/17 12:56 PM
1

Liquor makes things easier for everyone. Such a crutch
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:03 PM
2

Conversely I also find that finding a job is a lot harder... But then once you gain a name in your feild or network well then they come to you
/r/seduction21/03/17 04:37 PM
1

david deidas book is makes more sense for an LTR in my opinion
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:04 AM
2

being honest and vulnerable with the right people can sometimes go a longer way then "running game"
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:02 AM
2

Since they are used to the attention. No But who says what they like is "attractive"? Its all relative really. I find young ones who are super good looking too flightly with their feelings. Very insacure and unsure. Unattractive to me. There are girls everywhere who are good looking yet seldomly get hit on or messed with. Like untapped potential
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:28 AM
2

As much as I don't care for that archetype of girl. I don't give a shit about butthurt mgtow
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:13 AM
2

I've once heard "your 30s are just your 20s with more money" No reason to stop at all. 26 here and I'm just starting to see improvement after YEARS of personal development and a couple years of sudduction related work
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:10 AM
2

6'6 here. being tall is probably better then being short.... actually being this tall sucks. I've got the "long and lanky" thing going, I have to watch my form (slouching, sitting and standing upright) or it looks unattractive/feels like shit. hard to relax or do my job- labor isn't built for tall guys! you short fucks own the whole world causes tables, doors and things are built for you. fuck one of the reasons why I left my shop trades was cause most tables were unadjustible and shop floors we…
/r/seduction25/02/17 07:15 AM
1

always like I've said before (and got massive upvotes on r/tinder) you don't ask a sheep how to sheer the sheep
/r/seduction25/02/17 07:04 AM
1

great fuckin video. I always like the style and writing of the girls chase group.
/r/seduction25/02/17 07:03 AM
1

25 is not old. people are living longer and making life choices later. 'young adult' has changed from 19 to 25 from 19 to 35 it seems. I never got a lay I seriously enjoyed till i was 26. there still time to change what you don't like- really beliefs are the only things holding you back from what you want
/r/seduction25/02/17 06:46 AM
2

really the best thing you can do is let her know you'll be there for here and she can contact you when shes ready and leave her alone completely from there THATS IT THATS ALL YOU CAN DO. its hard, but its the best thing
/r/seduction21/01/17 06:23 AM
2

damn shame cause the bit with him and lisa at the end seemed like a great romantic finish to the book... of course, Strauss is a killer writer,and there was probably more going on then we worte
/r/seduction21/01/17 06:19 AM
1

I sort of agree with this... if your going to drink. no more then 2 drinks per night. sometimes I feel it really helps loosen me out- I don't really drink like my friends do (I'm the one who drives them) so its never over the top
/r/seduction21/01/17 06:17 AM
1

I like how this is the top comment Lol tinder advice
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:50 PM
1

If "they don't know" they are either boring,bored with you or cant talk/shy... Next
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:42 PM
1

your a guy, you don't have virginity to lose. As far as having sex? Stop thinking about it so much....I never had it with someone I really enjoyed until this past year and im 26....that was AFTER an ex girl- I didn't even have sex with the one I created more report with! Just enjoy life and focus on what you like
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:34 PM
1

Rule 2: try to stay away from soo.much texting and set up a definate date
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:31 PM
1

yikes... I heard of stories like "there was no rich dad he was a made up dude" but this.... well questionable for sure which is questionable to how he met his wife in the first place. ughh bastards! where is the real wealth builder from the poor and how do they do it?
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:36 AM
2

Canadian woman are very similar to american woman (especially closer to the boarder Norwegians though.... love the height! I had a gf who was Norwegian she was asweetheart
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:25 AM
2

Look pretty take care of yourself.... And the filter takes care of the rest.important to know how yours works but shit these guys are right- no need to work as hard as guys normally would
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:47 AM
1

But they do have to work to keep the right guy around. Sex helps but that alone wont do it to their desires
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:45 AM
2

Can someone define "frame"? I think its fine to talk about feelings...if she asks.. In person. Never thru text If its a relationship it should come up natrual Otherwise meh
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:38 AM
2

<3 Australian girls. Mark mason says he has a thing for Brazilians. I feel the same towards ozzies
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:35 AM
1

Read no more mr.nice guy Sounds like deep seeded issues for fear of abandonment etc
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:33 AM
1

Same approach. Different person/ people he's seeing therefore different results
/r/seduction13/12/16 09:29 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ufxRSHhtz0 I tend to agree with corey on this one
/r/MGTOW13/12/16 07:42 AM
0

any info/articles on this? I found some of his writings and things like the cash flow quadrant model to be valid... but I too always question the validity of what i read from these guys who repeat or promote something so often in many books
/r/seduction13/12/16 07:39 AM
1

jesus.... not sure if that's the way to do it... but its a way. insanity to go after something that isn't working.... but persistence is the winner of the games we play in life- hell even sometimes even going on the same woman! Mystery knew this (sometimes he seemed incoinstant in other things. what a character though) robert kiyosaki mentions a girl he kept asking out and being rejected from and KEPT asking out... until she finally gave in. shit they got married and went though hell together an…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:35 AM
1

yikes...sounds like nasty drama. walk away from it. FWB if possible but fuck it. That's the thing with being young and having lots of commutation lines- more 'options' then youngsters know what to do with or how to use. perhaps its best to date openly, be honest about it and if THEY want to be exclusive they'll let you know. otherwise keep dating out having fun and overall build your carrier/purpose in life. this should be number 1 for any young man.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:29 AM
1

how did that ever work out?
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:25 AM
2

walk away dude, it's hella easier to talk and connect with ones who are interested in you. find them out ...and keep being persistent with the ones who aren't IF you see them on a frequent basis via law of propinquity.... if not move on and if its work related nose to the grindstones and let it come to you
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:24 AM
1

being realistic is a big deal but then with success,time mannagement and leverage then you can set greater goals
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:20 AM
1

well fuckin ask her for ice cream or some shit you pussy! at least shoot and if miss or fail at least you've taken the shot and you've learned it sounds like.... did you ever communicate with the last one that you were exclusive? what was her reaction when you found out and told her you saw her with another dude? did she appreciate you? maybe shes a bitch, maybe you were lousy at communicating in a relationship, prehaps it wasn't meant to be but you know what? one things for sure. your young and…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:17 AM
1

You ever been kicked in the balls or hurt really bad. The pain goes away after time. yes... and usually it hurts a little initially... then REALLY hurts later... THEN you heal. although somethings never heal quite right depending on where it is and if you've given the proper time to heal it or not. I sprained my left pinky finger this summer going for the block in vball against my cousin, it got very black and bruised. It healed months later but because of the tinyness of the joint and always on…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:12 AM
1

how long was the relationship? first girlfriend? not over the idea of trusting? that's your own challenge to work out. I hear of girls they have this personal problem all the time, sounds like its happening to guys now. your gonna have to clear this hurtle before you get further, I can relate- it sucks dude but that's what it is,sorry I don't think advice on r/seduction would help this too much maybe i'll be wrong though. just remember in the long run there are an abundance of woman, meet, greet…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:02 AM
2

clearly you never meet the Italians or the french... my buddy from Montreal... first had issues when meeting people coming to bc. they kiss eachother cheek-to-cheek when they greet there.... not in bc! most girls were totally weirded out by this here, few people got it- they didn't culturally understand
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:56 AM
2

sounds like some deep seeded issue with the satiation. how long has it been since the breakup? best to give it more time and lay off dating or trying to impress. r/exnocontact may help. maybe see a therapist too. that may take awhile to build trust maybe they can help focus on bettering your carrier and health first. Don't think about performing socially so much. that will come back with time s you start to gain more sucesses
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:51 AM
2

"there aren't any magic bullets.... but if there could be any it would bethe 2 Fs: fitness and fashion" I believe the trick is to be confertrable with who you are/ what your wearing. that could take years and can change
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:45 AM
2

good foreplay is the remedy to this. I'm on the side of delayed ejaculation over premature... it helps in someways but is disappointing in others- oh well
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:41 AM
1

it helps, but it sounds like you got 'inner game' on lockdown. I think that more important for a man. I'm very similar to what you described... if I wasn't so broke,poor in money, so career focuses, anxious and frustrated with things working I could very well be the same. but it's those "inner game" bits that I have to work on (namely establishing my carrier, business and building my personal fortune that I can them grow and share) before I personally become a don john... or whatever. really thi…
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:38 AM
3

imo house party every damn time its more intimate, its easier to escalate, social proof is usually there or can be gained easily. Lots of rooms, people, stories and just an overall better experience to meet and mate just be sure to good friend the host and respect the place and you'll be fine. nightclubs can be the same if you know the promoters but their a business to make money which impacts the environment slightly but enough for it to be different. A good thing about it is for the most part …
/r/seduction11/12/16 02:17 AM
2

perhaps not to express his results to others... but if he does well at what hes doing, wouldn't that make him feel more confident, thus increasing his attraction and self worth?
/r/seduction11/12/16 01:04 AM
1

take action dude. you can only read so much. go out there and apply what you know- find out what works for you and just fucking do it. I believe this is a symptom of "overthinking" if you screw up, screw up big, laugh at yourself, laugh at her insecurity or whatever, have fun, get to know other people, get to know yourself, expand yourself, break though confert zones- that's what dating is all about. don't be dependent on results or outcome when you go out, just have fun, learn, get better and t…
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:29 AM
1

enjoy your life and let it come to you hahaha
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:00 AM
1

Staying emotionally distant during the dating stages I've seen women work so much harder for my attention and it pays off not just physically but if you end up escalating to a relationship it's much stronger as well interesting...
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:25 PM
2

jesus, such "quick fling" success in such a short period of time what is your personality type? what's your environment like?
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:20 PM
1

I come from a known "outdoor lifestyle" region. never thought about this until recently. thanks
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:15 PM
1

strange place/name for it but... I understand alittle more why it is that way thanks for explaining this. its like r/exnocontact..... but for males only and more extreme
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 08:59 AM
1

why?
/r/MGTOW10/12/16 08:57 AM
3

likely cause it was written by a female. or a effeminate dude
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:54 AM
1

my favorite comment (being an Instagram model must not pay much)
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 05:06 AM
3

Sexual harassment is a crime committed by beta-males who think they can get away with alpha behaviour. that right there is the line of the century- sums up the article but the last line... wow, what a wacky world
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 04:54 AM
1

but will you be the guy the married woman cheats on? Huhuhuhu
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 04:39 AM
2

I think thats just insecurity- EVERYONE has that. would you call a woman who knows what they wants and go for it masculine woman? maybe... I think a 'feminine essence' is more of having to real plan just goin along with whatever... and pleasurable deniability
/r/seduction09/12/16 04:18 AM
1

Conversely, if shes good looking, yet boring as hell, she's not attractive
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:01 PM
1

"Aeccpt yourself" Tell that to everyone here. Better yet ask them what it means
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:59 PM
1

If you were a real man you wouldn't give a shit about what her friends think. Make sure she's confertable and likes spending time with you but fuck the friends.. .if a girl really likes you and her friends try to clamslam she'll exuse them for you. Lead her to something else
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:37 PM
3

I read that book twice, it helps you understand realationships, it helps you understand masucline and feminine energy... It does not help you "get a girl". Certainly not directly
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:32 PM
1

You think about it too much When you find someone your into and they're into you, advance slowly
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:27 PM
5

Yeah that happened to me just this past year.... 2 months of seeing her with her liking me more then then as I fell her her she was totally unsure cause she was leaving town after the summer. Such shitty timing! Indeed, that person can come from the most unlikely place
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:11 PM
1

no theres females on reddit... just not in communities like these
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 10:25 AM
1

sounds like your dating the wrong people... dating shouldn't be work...hang out have fun hook up explore... man CAN be messed up my high numbers of sleeping partners... mileage may vary though
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 10:13 AM
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start traveling and dating outside western adult women then...
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 09:09 AM
2

clearly you've never had children... nor should you raise any. you must've come from a shitsack family too I hate saying this to some random on the net... but your scum of the earth... try have a nice life and be a little more considerate
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 08:51 AM
0

where does all this toxic thinking come from and why 25? i dated a 25year old...she was awesome! more relate able because more maturity
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 08:48 AM
0

never forget- some of the greatest intentions were built by a man....inspired by awoman
/r/MGTOW06/12/16 08:34 AM
1

Eh....move on unless you see her again. Fuck yes or no
/r/seduction03/11/16 09:07 PM
1

It works differently for guys though
/r/seduction03/11/16 09:06 PM
1

Not really....but its better then not trying
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:56 PM
2

Not really....but its better then not trying
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:56 PM
1

What about Christian valued peoples?
/r/seduction03/11/16 08:42 PM
1

maybe I do assume lots.... But am I wrong for assuming that most guys in this sub are in it for one night stands? No, I think they want more, they want sucess with woman and the juice of life spending time with pretty people they like and who like them. Really when you get down to it. Sudduction is just another layer of personal devlopment for males
/r/seduction16/10/16 03:57 AM
1

Awesome. I make sure to do this everytime myself. Mostly they guess right...sometimes 5 years younger or older. Looking forward to this 10 years down the road
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:21 AM
1

Fuck texting.too.much of that shit. If I get to.know you its the initial conversation. Bit of messaging, if you dont receperate im out And that's not a definate date- guys will never see girls they want following your "advice" Hell im not sure your really seeing the guys you want to because your so young your not sure what you want
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:13 AM
4

If a girl likes you, she'll make it easy to hang out with you when you ask If she doesnt or she's insacure, you'll have a much harder time, "building and holding frame" and game and all this bullshit. Dont waste your time with flaky girls Fuck yes or no. Move on when its a no
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:08 AM
1

A romantic connection on the first date?
/r/seduction12/10/16 07:00 AM
1

This. And make it a total mystery, I have everyone guess all the time. I thankfully dont have this problem and most guess correct
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:38 PM
1

How does this topic get brought up for each one? I remember I lost a girlfriend over wanting to be open (she had christian values, I was open to being out of exclusive) and ive had other girls tell me most girls can't handle seeing more then 1
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:36 PM
1

That's pretty fuckin hard-at 5 mins I say see ya later. Now longer time or another met would help more
/r/seduction30/09/16 01:05 PM
1

I mean realationship with your parents as a child and times in high school as a teen
/r/seduction30/09/16 12:41 PM
1

Funny I seem to be on a role with 18 year older right now... Honestly though most are.fleeting with their feelings and attraction... one wonders if its hardly worth the bucketlist. I think you'll be playing games with most...maybe ask them what they want to do with their lives in a emotionally compelling manner....tends to engage the smarter ones. The rest aren't worth my time imo
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:26 AM
1

Why not? In terms of dealing and relations to people this would seem like an awesome book. Of course more sexual tones included in pick up is great
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:46 AM
1

What was your past like growing up?
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:43 AM
3

Now how do you do this...without outright saying it? Or would you just outright say it and own it?
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:37 AM
1

Sounds like you were blessed with a quality upbringing, a blessing that carries into your adulthood
/r/seduction29/09/16 06:00 PM
1

Been doing swing as of recent.. Its tough, being tall is tricky when there are short woman- can be fun with the right partner in yhe right mindset
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:25 PM
2

Focus on a life purpose first
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:20 PM
1

Sounds like you've got a good stable foundations. What was your childhood and teen years like?
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:17 PM
1

"Text game" is silly. The phone is for setting dates. The repore you've built should be in person- you cant do it much on the phone
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:09 PM
1

Go met other awesome woman. They are out there
/r/seduction29/09/16 01:23 PM
1

No. But after awhile if you do it authenticity, then yes
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:16 AM
1

To elaberate, the idea that if you fail with one its ok cause more better chances come their way as you go on doing things you enjoy
/r/seduction29/09/16 05:15 AM
1

Any attractive, decent woman would run for the hills than sleep with a 26 year old virgin. It's true. Don't tell me it isn't Your own beliefs will kill you. Ive in a similar spot- and I can tell you that this is not true at all And boy...based on your replies they will kill you fast. You have some messes up values....better work on yourself before you want to "drowned in pussy"
/r/seduction29/09/16 02:03 AM
1

Ive got numbers from girls working at stores...(recently even) But...it seems to unprofessional the other way around. If she was really into me she would find a way to give me her contact info (had that before too)
/r/seduction29/09/16 02:00 AM
1

Yea...she sounds young and insacure
/r/seduction28/09/16 01:18 PM
0

Not always. When you start to value your time and who you spend it with you'll find that ut works both ways. I didn't want to sleep with every girl ive dated...
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:49 AM
1

Id call that a useful skill. Still bullshitting your realationships yet useful reguardless
/r/seduction28/09/16 02:46 AM
2

Ha.. The mall? That's cute....fuckin just go for it dude. You holding back is not attractive. But if you went for it and blundered you'll likely be forgiven for it as long as she likes you
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:48 AM
3

Most of what we were taught only applies when you know and have a realations with that person
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:41 AM
1

Sounds like some mark mason bullshit.... Execpt mark would do.a better job explaining it
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:39 AM
-1

Only the friend zone if he wants to sleep with her
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:32 AM
3

Yea...they'll think its cute Cute is not attractive to most females. If you think they are beautiful and you want to till them you need to own it "you take my fuckin breath away" personally I say something I like about what they can control, like the way they dress
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:26 AM
1

Better communation with her first. Sounds like a break up is inevitable
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:22 AM
2

What type of job?
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:19 AM
1

I couldn't imagine getting "laid" and being unhappy...cause normally its your natrual happiness that attracts the girl on the first set. Must be some plain realationships
/r/seduction27/09/16 01:49 AM
2

Stop thinking about it and focus on your goals and passions in life. Do that whitch others like and you'll met though mutual interest
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:15 PM
-2

Play the gutiar. Practice and sing as if the love of your life just walked out of your life. People will love you. Girls will be all over you
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:13 PM
1

Im asking you though out if all the matches how many talk back And out of those how many have ypu actually meet up with? And how long have you used tinder
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:08 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:00 PM
1

But how many of these can you meet for a date in person?
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:58 PM
-1

Go look up what rule 1 and 2 mean. There is an explanation. You will understand then
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:57 PM
2

Your starting the convo towards the male? Same deal really
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:56 PM
4

Dont defend. Just deflect
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:56 PM
1

Gotta be corey wayne's how to be a 3% man
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:39 AM
2

propinquity theory in play. Actually its a good thing
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:35 AM
179

Just remember to be attractive....and dont be unattractive with your profile and bio Also like to add that less is more. Perhaps why tinder has the highest userbase of them all?
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:32 AM
2

A major hidden truth of life to this qoute
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:24 AM
2

I have to be honest. Im 26 and well I dont hate myself im fursterated to the point of stress. I believe in the power of perseverance, that if there is a problem there is a solution or several. Ive seen some sucess, but having a young girl fall in love with me then cut it off and break away just when im ready to aeccpt or be valnerable....at a time where I have trouble holding a job and finding and persuing my passion....its dragged me to the ground pretty hard....neagtive self talk coming out ra…
/r/seduction22/09/16 04:11 AM
1

Dealing with the same shit.... 8 is a bitch and im not exactly sure what to take from 10...I think.being totally honest just serves to hurt long run. If I can add an #11 Dont get attached, to a person or an outcome That hurts to hear man.... did she come back when you nexted her?
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:57 AM
1

Sounds like your with the wrong girls....yikes
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:08 AM
1

Genes are a btich. I dont work out seriously and I have an ass. Part black will do that. I also eat very poorly....but my metabolism is stupid fast so I gain like no weight....or lose it when I get sick. But putting on musle? Eh...well I always thought core training is important I never understood ocessions with working out in the gym
/r/seduction20/09/16 05:03 AM
1

Legit messaging routine? Foe setting up pshyical dates?
/r/seduction20/09/16 04:52 AM
1

Thinking about value all together is going to fuck you up
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:56 AM
3

Let em.know up front somewhere in the convo- shit some woman are into that the dude has a kid/ pet factor
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:55 AM
1

Get offline create report in real life. Girls are so much more likely to flake when met online I wouldn't bother with that venue of meeting new woman
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:52 AM
2

Things like this and living where I do made me devlop the catchphrase "that'll cost you extra" whitch I sware to vigorously. People think im funny as hell when I pull it out at opertunity times- im dead serious though. My favourite is when the girl friends snap back 'Ill pay extra, no problem"
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:51 AM
1

Mark is no scammer. He's a personal development type of dude who genuinely cares and focuses on "inner game" Alittle white knight like, but very awesome concepts. Models is a great book for the nice guy type to read.
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:46 AM
1

Poor people need to focus on survival and getting out of fucking poverty not romancing the opposite sex. Speaking from experience. Sex drive litterly gets shut down when your trying to survive
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:42 AM
0

Next time set a definate date with a place to meet and a spot. Dont message them until mins before the date for logistics. "Call to confirm" is truly a shot in the foot. Corey Wayne says this over and over and I find it to be true. You'll really gadge interest in who wants to be with you, who doesn't, and who will test to change plans to challenge "your frame" a lot of females arent even aware they do this
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:39 AM
1

How so? Granted it has the most use but its gone down in quality in recent years
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:32 AM
3

Stay away from texting so much. Set the next date
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:31 AM
3

Sounds like your dealing with young people. Young are finiky at best, you yourself are young, but you'll grow fast cause your aware of things like this. The environment I think has a huge impact on why your experiencing this
/r/seduction18/09/16 05:30 AM
1

Why are we premoting tinder here? Yes its the most used "dating app" but far.from the best
/r/seduction17/09/16 03:16 PM
3

Granted, some girls are intimidated by height...fuck those people they are afraid of their own skin. All in how you view yourself in a moment, your environment and the people surrounding
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:17 AM
1

Amazing. My story is similar so the same thing happens to me. It really forces you to go out and meet people and well...adventures galore. Some think its weird when you alone...but its easy when you meet lots of people to find a group of people that are like your base- someone you can go back too when you take some blows or run out of steam (introvert thing) Hard at first highly rewarding
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:13 AM
1

There you go. Let her come to you. If you don't she wont feel safe and run away
/r/seduction16/09/16 11:02 PM
8

6'6.. here...depends on how I dress or feel in that moment. Yea its certainly easier
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:33 PM
1

should it really matter? If it does then your talking to the wrong person
/r/seduction16/09/16 10:31 PM
3

Might as well try, "hey we should grab a drink some evening when are you free?" If she doesn't respond or say she's busy without bringing up a date then you know what's to do
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:36 AM
2

Tacomas are dope, especially double cabs. I had a girl in a double cab but it was someone else's truck...and someone else's girl ah ha. You should be into them for who they are, not just how they look
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:08 PM
0

"Game" refering to sudduction is a terrible word....really a lot of the terminology from the "pua" scene is kind of ugly. Hell even a "pick up artist" is not really an artist...they treat it more like a sicence
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:03 PM
0

I myself prefer a leader over the term 'alpha' I don't give a damn about the soical heard, an alpha leads a general social herd. I like one on one or of not then to go my own way alone
/r/seduction15/09/16 11:00 PM
0

If she has lots of options, whtich she will cause its tinder, she's likely nexted you after the boring response. Tease em next time. Stay off of tinder if your a guy imo
/r/seduction15/09/16 10:58 PM
1

Alittle chit chat is ok. Just don't prolong it
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:44 PM
0

Forumla that seems to work for most. Of course I love seeing girls approach guys too
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:41 PM
1

The ones that dont mind dont matter. Waste of time you did the right thing by moving on from them.
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:39 PM
10

Watch what people do not what they say
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:16 PM
-1

When natrualy they are designed to chase the ones they are interested in, after courtship and romantic interest starts to get higher I believe that the man usually does the initial persuit. After awhile its on the female to do the rest and the man to sit back and set a time and place when she comes to him
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:13 PM
1

What is appealing to you? As far as a guy goes? Is online meeting effective in finding this?
/r/seduction12/09/16 02:24 PM
7

Lol double dating standards
/r/seduction11/09/16 02:52 PM
2

Fuck your blood- those are not true brothers. Find new friends and keep your distance from them to start
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:42 AM
1

Maybe there was a boyfriend... somewhere.deep. Dude next time...as hard as it is of she gets cold.like that...be prepared to walk away. Next time don't plan the next date on the spot. Just tell her that we'll keep in touch. Dont.message her if she got home safe.. she's got issues it seems Learn to slow down a little and I think you'll be ok. Make your moves sure but if she pulls away. You pull away. Talk about other shit, then get back in. Good learning experience yeah?
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:40 AM
1

Not always. Just the totally insacure
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:35 AM
1

Hey man, totally in the same place although on less time and circumstances are slightly different. Yeah...persuing and being needy sucks when they push away but its understandable. Your awesome. You did really well, your doing well my moving forward. Her rebounding how she's doing is incrediblely unhealthy for her, write how you feel, read it, burn it and let it go into the universe. Spend time single and doing activities. The negative self talk still gets to me even in my greatest moments latel…
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:29 AM
1

What ARE you interested in? Cause I'll bet.money you wont find it on tinder
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:12 AM
1

Same thing when I first meet my girl. All she ever did was talk surf. I later saw her tinder when she reactivated it close to our brake up. She's cute and young but not exactly a model....her matchcount was still fuckin high and mad blow up. As a guy I wouldn't waste your time with tinder or online dating if you dont have experience
/r/seduction11/09/16 03:11 AM
18

Ha yeah totally this. Dont act different/ be a douche. And if one gets mad at you....bah whatever she will still like you- make her feel speical
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:38 PM
1

That's why you want to be short and sweet on the phone. It must be easier for me since ive always met them in person first- I don't mess around with online dating it just adds one more layer of actually meeting out with mates. Being needy or "thirsty" sucks and that can screw you around for sure....but why would you want to be like "every other guy"? Girls don't want "every other guy" they want a man who they can receive a love story from who's charming and caters to their needs
/r/seduction10/09/16 02:21 PM
4

Awesome. Very "how to win friends and influence people" type of dude. What an incredible story his life is. One of the most unique blogs I've ever read
/r/seduction10/09/16 02:04 PM
1

Lol at the down vote.... yeah id probably walk away from the later 2 as well. Not all singles 30 year old woman are bitter though
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:25 PM
1

Unless if she has a thing for younger guys. Met a number of woman in there 30s like this
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:18 PM
1

Yea when I went out in group we always made sure we had like at least two girls in our group
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:07 PM
1

Or an obey hat
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:05 PM
1

This used to happen to me, you know what I did? Walked away from my friends and found my own adventures, worked wonders and the soical circle was always shocked I could do it alone and made up stuff about it "oh that's an ironchar thing" they would say. Been goin out on my own mostly since. If people ask where my friends are, I tell them the truth: "they all got boring when they all got married, dont you find that about your friends?" Boom convos starter
/r/seduction09/09/16 09:03 PM
1

Guitar is good. Get good at it and the rest will come. I can relate with smash...while you'll meet some solid friends. Video games is lousy for meeting girls...and smash melee is VERY hard to get good at a higher level. You gotta practice a lot.
/r/seduction09/09/16 08:49 PM
1

Nothing to miss- it can still be done. Just go out there and make it
/r/seduction09/09/16 08:24 PM
1

Just started doing swing. Used to do ballroom years ago. Soical partner dancing is huge for this. Although I find its the beginner classes that have most the woman- that's ok repeat the fundementals.
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:17 PM
1

What do you mean? Goin after youngins? How so?
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:09 PM
1

Hell I use my adhd to.my advantage at times. Its wacky but it can work wonders and make ladies laugh
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:01 PM
1

Go work on yourself and career. Make sure you enjoy what you do. Then the rest comes
/r/seduction09/09/16 06:00 PM
1

26 I was goin to make a similar post. Injured my body on my 23rd birthday and never felt the same/could hold the same job for long since. Been studying personal development since I was late teens. I have a strong idea of what I want to do but the things ive token action are were boring/ no emotionally compelling enough. People tell me "you need to work a job, that's why its a job your not going to enjoy it all the time" but fuck those people! Before it was possible but I can no longer do somethi…
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:56 PM
2

No more then 2 or 3. Loosens the barriers for both parties for sure but do not rely and do no go overboard
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:40 PM
31

Young people in the modern generation forget how powerful a real time conversation and a voice can be. Instead focusing too much on "text game" Yes its still missing the body language but a voice can go along away. Ive been told to skype before meet with online dating but I find its way more effort for both parties- IMO no one uses skype anymore But a phone call is easy as hell. 5 to 10 mins then ask when they are free. Defs try to avoid talking for an hour long- shit I did that most recently ca…
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:38 PM
1

Alpha. Its really the mindset of being a leader, along with being happy and open. All people are natrualy attracted to those qualities
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:33 PM
1

Doesn't matter dude I do this anyway. Its not about the texting its how well the itital opener went
/r/seduction02/09/16 09:07 PM
0

don't waste your time. we talked about how snapchat is a bad idea and a major distraction
/r/seduction27/08/16 02:38 AM
1

when I girl does it? not as big of a deal... I wouldn't outright say it though, not my style, instead I'd just show it though actions
/r/seduction27/08/16 02:34 AM
9

honestly... I think online dating is flawed for its missing the first big communication- face to face
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:14 AM
1

If there is something that you strongly desire, wouldn't you commit almost tunnel like vision to persue it? Well crud I remember being obsessed and wanting a Toyota Tacoma years ago but the price of one was way too expensive- I haven't even made that money in a year and there was no way id go into debt for one. I really could've used a car though...one I can set up a bed in would be great. Years later when I finally got my license I ran into an old friend after I lost my job (weird timing, was i…
/r/seduction12/08/16 01:56 PM
1

White knight? Models? I think the idea of being valenerable is important...while not being needy at the same time. Models teaches the value of this Letting a girl know your interested without actually saying it is valueable too...the msytery.
/r/seduction12/08/16 01:29 PM
1

Better get it outta the way now then be 38 years old and never kissed a girl
/r/seduction11/08/16 02:40 PM
2

What u/beastboi27 said I tired tinder and bumble for a bit....what a waste of time. It doesnt help that I have lousy profile pictures.. But fuck it its such a bad environment and it so much easier to apporoch (with honesty) in the long run with face to face. The 'competition' online is silly. The sad thing is more and more people are netting their.couples from it! There is a start that 2045 more then like...50 or 60 precent of relationships will be met online. A stupid high number, one that I ch…
/r/seduction11/08/16 02:20 PM
1

good convo, flows naturally- "here I better get your contact info now" pass her the phone. if they enter the number AND figure the phone out to create their contact info you know they're interested. I had a pretty girl actually take my phone and do this without me knowing sometimes don't even say number
/r/seduction05/08/16 09:18 PM
1

Holy shit this is a Canadian affair!? I hear canada has clearer sexual assault laws...maybe not
/r/MensRights04/08/16 01:55 PM
3

Number 4 is super effective. You'll know a girl is interested when
/r/seduction04/08/16 01:36 PM
1

I think day is better personally.
/r/seduction02/08/16 05:28 AM
1

mad respect for this viewpoint
/r/seduction02/08/16 05:26 AM
1

About this....ive heard its better to have woman emoitionally invested in you...even if its from hate! Then to have no emotion at all. Maybe that's were you got em home...sounds fucked up though
/r/seduction19/07/16 09:11 AM
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I don't want to be an asshole about it- this is just a small flaw of a beautiful easy going hard working young lady. We've gotten along very while the time we've been together. While I do date others I haven't been this close with a mate in some time yeah?
/r/seduction16/06/16 06:59 AM
2

tons of men "chirp" but its better to listen and ask questions for sure
/r/seduction16/06/16 03:12 AM
2

fucking great book. "the magic of thinking big" is another killer title in the similar subject
/r/seduction16/06/16 03:11 AM
1

*mammals
/r/seduction21/05/16 01:06 AM
1

there also societal changes, raise of feminism and changing values that may make dating tougher in the west- noting that they are the ones mating less, his advice seems to work for a female... not really speakin my language personally
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:24 PM
1

yes to the last point
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:22 PM
1

sets?
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:17 PM
1

well what is one supposed to do?
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:16 PM
1

the older they get the... well, it actually does depend. girls need to mature as well.
/r/seduction11/05/16 05:08 AM
1

"i have a boyfriend" and reading their actions is different from "I have a boyfriend" on text isn't it? well... what was her action/reaction when she said this?
/r/seduction11/05/16 04:17 AM
1

you know... I don't care for how he explains it... sounds too feminine... but the principles are on point- and shit- whats wrong with listening to tony robbins on changing state- when I feel like shit I always go to tony and he his "personal power" talk ALWAYS makes me feel better for some reason I want to share this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTKGUz9nKDc
/r/seduction11/05/16 04:11 AM
1

watch not what they say, but how they act I often tease and bust their balls. And they seem to generally laugh and respond positively to it. cause what they say and how they act are two different things... I have the feeling you know this already... it sounds like whatever your doing is working
/r/seduction11/05/16 03:59 AM
3

Not every girl is gonna be into this, and that's fine. That's how you weed them out. But dude man, you gotta fucking try. words to live by. this goes with career/obs, business partners and contracts as well.
/r/seduction11/05/16 03:50 AM
0

Again this ones partly true. If you like a girl you show interest...but gauge her interest level as well. Dates and stuff and in the later half it makes more sense for her to chase you
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:29 AM
1

I found that lesbians have an easier time....espically online
/r/seduction06/05/16 02:22 AM
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