Closing difficulty

Raii-v2 · 2018-09-10T15:56:27+00:00

I think many people relate to some of the difficulties you mention. You spend so much time getting in set and building rapport only to have it come up with naught. Also “bounce” the conversation to somewhere more conducive to conversation than the center of the dance floor. Next I find that having a canned closer and a plan ready to be helpful.

It doesn’t need to be elaborate, just a simple

“What do you say we head to my place?”

Evan87688 · 2018-09-10T20:07:44+00:00

Start working more and move man.

Idk what to tell you. It's hard to meet girls in small towns. they all social circle oriented. :/

But, still game while you're there. Have a postiive mindset. :)

recyclablebanthas · 2018-09-11T03:57:01+00:00

1

Well I don't go out much these days. Money is tight and results are whatever its not as fun as it used to be. I have to go out where I live as it's a small town.

This isn't the most comfortable answer, but the truth is, if you're not happy where you live...... Then one of your goals will eventually have to be moving somewhere that you can be happier.

2

But occasional have a good local night and met girls who are from.out of town its rare bit it happens. Problem is there's a lot of guys around like vultures "as friends" all vying for the girls attention.

See, this is almost good. The problem is that these "good" social events require people from out of town and then when these events happen, they're immediately tainted because things get contrived and lame from all the vulturous activity, which makes it impossible to see how interactions would play out in a relaxed situation, which is kind of what you need in order to get the best situations, fling or otherwise.

3

I've played it so well on the last one, she was drinking though, leading her to touching me and all that shit. But when it comes to the end I can't seem to go home with these ones. There's always a guy in the way or a denied when I offer to walk them home.

Lot of issues with this sort of progression.

Girls who are begin touched up while drunk, are often going to have their shields up and be wary of dudes who are pawing at them while they're drunk.
A guy in the way, isn't really in the way. The truth is, if things are going well, there is no way a guy can "compete" with you. Trying to "compete" only makes all the "competitors" look worse and most of the time it leads to all of them basically shooting themselves down.
Unfortunately, the whole feeding frenzy nature of the environment means that you aren't going to much of a chance for anything (fling or serious) to have enough time to develop before the collective energy and behaviors of the place snuff it out.
And if that's what your town is like, it's going to reflect on you that you choose to live there, like it or not.

4

I should move out but I really can't afford it right now...actually I'm on the verge of being homeless possibly...

Honestly, you're posting at Seddit, but THIS is your actual priority right here, man. You have to get your house in order.

You need to get your place of living sorted out and here you are fussing about the arrangements of the deck chairs on the Titanic.

Priorities. There will BE other women. But you have to take care of your life, man.

5

How do you guys close a satiation like this.

Honestly, if your town is the sort of trap you're making it out to be, you need to get your ass out of there before you end up in a shitty situation with one of the local girls and in some sort of accidental family or something.

Even if that doesn't happen, it's clearly not a good place to live.

What's your career?
Are you in school right now?
What are your life plans as far as work, places to live, etc.?

Title	Closing difficulty
Author	Ironchar
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	September 10, 2018 2:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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