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i'm with you and i'm the same way. I was a fat shy kid in HS...blah blah blah. No one cares about my story but... I agree...nothing worth getting is easy. Self love is a practice, acceptance is a practice...its not something you read and then you just become it. For example, if im out shopping and i see a girl walk by that i like...idk about you but i feel nervous. Will i fight that feeling? or am i gonna accept that its normal and its the shit to feel this way...this is how im supposed to feel.…
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:43 PM
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I agree with you. When it comes to skills like Soccer and other things that require skills, you need to work to earn those. But when it comes to self worth, knowing your value and self love, we are often in the way of ourselves. which prevents us from walking around being confident, prevents us from speaking up, prevents us from talking to women, and other things. This part of confidence, you can achieve right now by just getting out of your own way. Knowing you are da sh*t. Not questioning your…
/r/seduction04/02/20 11:18 PM
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Confidence with women only comes from getting women. You have to have done it consistently to know you can do it again. relying on outside validation is not the way to true confidence. You're right that you can get more confidence by getting more women and that does happen but you can make it a hell of a lot easier if you become confident and attract many ladies. Think about how is someone who is scared, shy and not confident at all going to get those women in the first place? I used to be super…
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:40 PM
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His is a flawed belief. what is that belief gonna cost you in your life. check my reply to him.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:38 PM
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Please reconsider accepting that flawed belief. what is that belief gonna cost you in your life. check my reply to him.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:38 PM
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Dude, This is something that comes from experience and proven science. My point is the world is there for you to take. We get in our way. Changing your body/posture/way you walk = changes your emotions. already proven. Changing your tone of voice = changes your emotions. You are in charge of how you walk and talk. so, you can get more confidence instantly. Lets take your example, take someone who is depressed. Someone puts a gun to their head and says get happy now, they will find a way to put t…
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:37 PM
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Dude, of course tourists are easy. Tourists are in adventure mode. they want sex more. If you're not a weirdo, you can get just as much from local girls. I used to think like you brother but that was a long time ago. I learned the hard way that it don't matter much if you have solid confidence and all that is necessary to be cool around girls and have fun with them. See, guys that can do that are so rare. If you're watching footage of a dude with normal game, then they're gonna get more tourists…
/r/seduction14/12/19 11:25 PM
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Tinder? Are you kidding? Clubs. Not a great place to meet but great place to improve your skills. Idc if you like it or not. NO GUY likes clubs. The girls there are USUALLy shit as well but you want the skills to meet girls in the day? you got to improve somehow. ​ other ways = take classes.
/r/seduction25/09/18 07:07 PM
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Dude, happens. You're young. You just got to start taking the right steps. Start socializing. that is what you got to do to get rid of your shyness. everytime you socialize, put yourself out there. Start investing in yourself. Go to all the classes nearby and make friends. Yoga, batchata, salsa, cooking, whatever. In college, stop at 5 random people a day and try to get to know them. If you cool with them, make them your friends. Start PUSHING it. nothing good comes with no pain and while this i…
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:58 PM
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Gratitude Gratitude for being alive, for not being disabled, for being able to talk, see and having food. Makes u positive as fuck.
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:05 PM
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Gratitude for the things you already have. dont compare yourself to others. Do your best and climb the latter. Free of outcome and having fun. YOUR Actions are what drives you, not the reaction of girls. Don't complain about things you cant change. life goes on. makee it the best it can be with what you got. emotional talk. not logial. you go out more, learn more, read how to win friends and influence people. You probably already knew the answer to all of these. now apply. good luck
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:04 PM
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dude, what else you gonna do on a Saturday night? If you don't wanna club, which is fine. go form a social circle and go out. if you new to the city like i am right now and want to develop a social circle, build one.
/r/seduction23/09/18 04:09 AM
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Know that you can handle whatever is coming. that will help.
/r/seduction23/09/18 03:54 AM
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Dude, high five people. Do that as soon as you can. Don't worry brother. it happens. say hi to people.
/r/seduction23/09/18 03:53 AM
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Ya, salsa is fun. You meet a lot of people there in a day. Zumba is weird but who cares man lol. Life is short. Try new shit. I did african dance before. SOOOO weird. lol I was the only dude there. I was like, come on black guys, why you leaving me alone here. I'm not even African American lol
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:51 AM
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Look up a summary of the book on youtube. FightMediocraty has one i think.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:33 AM
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Go to class early, start getting to know people. Take an interest in them. Genuine interest in them and becoming a good friend. Don't worry if they don't like u. If bethany comes in while ur talking to others or other ppl come in, engage them. talk to them. Be the leader in the class.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:31 AM
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Go to classes like cooking and salsa. Be social. But read my previous comment. That book will save ur ass.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:28 AM
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Read or listen to a summary of how to win friends and influence ppl.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:27 AM
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Whaaaa dude 53 is young. You can get 30 year olds no problem.
/r/seduction21/09/18 01:20 AM
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The way i approach it is i start with a hello. My mindset now is ...is this girl fun/cool to be a potential date or at the very least a friend? Don't treat them as a complete stranger. How do you talk to your friend? Assume you know them well. Balance joking/flirting around and being real so that you're not a dancing money (Happens when you only joke). Practicing will make you more confident here. Talk to her as a man, not as a friend if you're interested in her. People love getting to know othe…
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:18 AM
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That wasn't what i meant. I am not saying simply find girls who are receptive to you. There are many girls who give you shit at the start, especially if they hot. My point is there shouldn't be a split. When you have fun with the girls and don't worry about making them like you by gaming them, then you will be more attractive. You try SOOO much less when you're not worried about gaming the girl. Gaming implies forcing things, making things happen to make the girls like you. Say this. do that. Bu…
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:03 AM
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Great job. learn and improve. next time ask. at the very least, make her a friend. improve your social skills. thats the purpose of cold approach. good luck!
/r/seduction17/09/18 01:30 AM
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Improve your instagram and make your life active. send them there.its a chance for you to show value.
/r/seduction17/09/18 01:29 AM
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best book ever
/r/seduction17/09/18 01:28 AM
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assume interest. if they aint, no big deal
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:38 PM
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Dont take it as a big deal. keep meeting new people and expand your social circle.
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:37 PM
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It all comes down to what you value. ​
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:36 PM
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Read how to win friends and influence people. Make as many friends as possible. be genuine and authentic. ​
/r/seduction15/09/18 09:12 PM
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Guys have huge egos. Talk about them. Really the same principles work with every person. Take a genuine interest in them, talk about them and yourself, not just yourself, and make them feel important.
/r/seduction15/09/18 08:47 PM
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Your actions have to pump your happiness. Not girls. Have goals other than landing girls. Find ur purpose, as david deita says, and make it your first priority. Been there brother. Get over it.
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:51 AM
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if they bored, they are bf/gf. most of the time, like 95% of the time, they are not a couple. Idc what you see them do.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:53 PM
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She likes you dog. You have to move things forward. If you don't u gonna get screwed. She gonna grow impatient. Girls get crazy when you don't move thigns forward. they think...omg, this guy is not a real man. How can i have his kids...subconsciously.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:50 PM
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Don't worry about your reputation. Know that everyone is on your side and you are on theirs. If you feel nervous/afraid, know that everyone else is too.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:44 PM
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3 months. damn dude. Add more girls in ur life. Start making friends with all of them. Be more outgoing. Be around women more. The more women you meet, the less attached you will get to one.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:26 PM
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why is it needy? She is someone you're interested in seeing if she a good fit. You're buying a TV at walmart. you're not sure which TV you getting yet. You are the buyer. ​ I don't get matches on Tinder. So, i DM girls when i get the time. Don't forget to friend people as well. Don't just look for people to bang. You know? The more girls you're around, the better.
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:58 AM
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This is one of the biggest problem with cold appraoch. You need to learn from the book How to win friends and influence people. Make friends with a lot of the girls and guys you meet via cold approach. This is sooooooo underrated. People just keep approaching for years. Don't be afraid of the friendzone with a lot of girls.
/r/seduction11/09/18 07:45 PM
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Use Instagram. It's better. Try it out.
/r/seduction11/09/18 07:43 PM
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Look up a book summary of Six Pillars of Self Esteem and How to win friends and influence people. ​
/r/seduction11/09/18 07:41 PM
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Make friends with ALL the girls and cool guys, as many as possible. Read How to win friends and influence people. Be a decent human being. Fix yourself first. Cold approach didn't help me much because i Had issues with my personality. I didn't care about people that much because i was a people pleaser. Too concerned about them liking me and stuff. So, you got to work on yourself. ​ 2 years of cold approach and you don't have a shit load of friends, then you got problems you need to solve. ​ Why …
/r/seduction10/09/18 11:11 PM
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Yep. Best thing to do in small town is to make friends with all the girls without trying to sleep with most of them. Just be a good friend. Read how to win friends and influence people. Make lots of friends. You will be a king. That book is old but SOOOO underrated. Same idea works in big cities. I wish i knew this earlier in my gaming years honestly. Making friends with lots of people is free and you are much happier. What do you think?
/r/seduction10/09/18 10:23 PM
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Action: Go to a college campus near you if you want to talk to girls. Start writing down goals and working on them daily for your life outside girls. Aim for success. I listen to Gary Vee for guidance. I recommend him. Positivity Challenge: Starts with you. Your interactions with people and your interaction with yourself. If you interact with your mom or friend and they negative, you change it to something positive. Make it fun. Be empathetic and understand at the same time. If you're alone and …
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:28 PM
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Take action. Approach girls and when you do, find the funny in the interaction if you get rejected. Before, I would work on my mindset for months and it really didn't improve that much until i started taking action. Not just girls though. this can be things that make your life better. Self talk. The voice in your head has to say, you're the fucking king here. I'm #1. Like Mario. Take a positivity challenge. You will be surprised how negative our mind gets. Complaining and all that. Get rid of it…
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:19 PM
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Mall and streets? Why go there when there is colleges. You barely see any girls in the mall. Most cities have abandoned malls. Go to college and coffee shops near college campuses.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:13 PM
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Tough situation man. i wish i could help. Only thing i can say is to be in your body, present in the moment. Smile when you approaching and have fun in the interaction.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:12 PM
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Amazing video. That is why i posted it. Keep taking action dog. Happy to hear you're getting rid of confidence issues. Keep working on beleiving you're the best dude in the club because odds are it is probably true.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:10 PM
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Start working more and move man. Idk what to tell you. It's hard to meet girls in small towns. they all social circle oriented. :/ But, still game while you're there. Have a postiive mindset. :)
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:07 PM
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Congrats
/r/seduction10/09/18 07:58 PM
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Dude, you're beautiful. Look at those amazing eyes, amazing lips, and amazing skin color. Wtf u talking about, ugly?! Looks like you work out too. Maybe get a razor cut for the sides. Dude, its all about the vibe you're giving. You obviously think you're not good enough for random girls. That is a very bad mind set. I worked so hard to get out of it. I recommend you do ur very best to get out of the pathetic mindset now. It is a soul crushing state of mind.
/r/seduction10/09/18 07:51 PM
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You didn't f*c* her. Girls wont deal with that brother. You have no idea how much girls need sex. They can't live without it. Girls like sex and want it. If you dont give it to them, they will find another dude and suck they C*ck. Lesson learned? reflect and learn from this. Good luck!
/r/seduction09/09/18 09:00 PM
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Salsa dancing. Make it an active life. Go out at least 4x a week to nearby clubs/bars to practice being non reactive to girls. also practice leading girls. So much to do bro. Invite girls you meet in college. Host parties with a couple people later. Stop watching Netflix. Wtf is so appealing about it. When i used to do it, it came from a bad place. I wanted to escape reality. Idk about games though. Some gameplay is still fun. I don't like Fortnite though. Pick a game you can drop and play for l…
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:58 PM
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Tell her i see you as a sister. You so adorable. Love hanging with you.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:55 PM
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Gives you a big break at the STart. But, after that, if you a leechy needy cunt, you're done! needy guy is like a very fat girl to a guy. Nice but don't wanna touch her.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:54 PM
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Don't talk about it unless you dated the girl for at least a year.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:53 PM
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Just go on a date and hook up. Girls are cool with it. When they ask what you're looking for, just say, i'm just going iwth the flow. Seeing how things turn out.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:52 PM
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Tell your stories. First time stories, embarassing ones, anything. Don't judge her OR yourself. Take her to a couple of places. If you go to starbucsks, go get ice cream after. or go to some interesting store ro ice skate. idk. multiple places. bowling or some shit for 10-15 min. Express, not impress. Actually listen. Don't just listen for her to like u. Take a genuine interest.
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:44 AM
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Have fun without the girl. Like if you're playing games, you dont need the girl. Your night will be like that. You have to be the buyer. You are going up to the cars (girls) and seeing which one you like best. Go chat up girls outside the dance floor and focus on moving them to the bar and chat.
/r/seduction09/09/18 02:42 AM
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How long you been dating her? It seems like you don't trust her.
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:33 AM
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Plan to move out. Go to a University near you on your day off. Libraries. Starbucks. Shit like that. Dance classes. Late night bars.
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:27 AM
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Listen, assuming you get your game straight first...then start looking for girls you like when you're meeting lots of girls. You know? ​ But best locations = WalMart, charities, food drives, salsa dancing, dance classes in general. It will also depend on where you live. College libraries or coffee shops
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:17 AM
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Where do you game in Chicago. I used to visit there often.
/r/seduction09/09/18 01:13 AM
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Confidence is all about taking action. To take aciton, you have to be able to manage your mental thoughts. meditation is key for that. To manage fear of taking action, you have to learn how to manage your fear. That requires you to be able to take sh*t. Know that you can handle anything that comes your way.
/r/seduction08/09/18 11:31 PM
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Dude, just go with the flow. The key is not to doubt yourself. Enjoy yourself. Never doubt yoruself. Do as much foreplay as possible if you find it fun. Learn learn learn. You can handle it bro. You're scared because you think you can't handle it. You got to say it to yourself, i can handle it!
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:13 PM
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Forces you to approach too. Being free of reputation management is so key.
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:01 PM
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