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She wants you to suffer in her absence because she’s a narcisssist
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 09:34 PM
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I said what I said.
/r/seduction26/12/24 10:45 PM
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There’s no such thing as FWB, you’re either committed or not
/r/seduction26/12/24 05:15 PM
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There’s more to women than just getting your dick wet. Make sure you like them first. No red flags, up to your attraction standard in person. Be a gentleman and if it works out, consider it a blessing.
/r/seduction26/12/24 12:46 PM
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So he shouldn’t do it. He’s not going to prove anything with his faux experiment
/r/seduction23/12/24 11:20 PM
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Not sure what the point of this question is? Why are you asking this?
/r/seduction23/12/24 08:37 PM
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I laughed harder than I should have
/r/seduction11/12/24 01:51 PM
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Absolutely true. Once a man (RP or not I guess) deals with enough women that are conventionally beautiful. He values it less overall, because so the fuck what? Very fun for sexy time, otherwise you better show me you have some sort of skill outside of looking pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:13 PM
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What does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:33 PM
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Whatever she wants to hear 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:25 PM
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When you operate out of fear, you get fear based results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:22 PM
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🥇🥇🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:05 PM
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Because I actually like the people I fuck? If we can’t survive a dinner together, I certainly will not be giving her my seed 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:02 PM
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It’s just an excuse not to face your social fears. Women like expressive men, some men are afraid of expressing themselves and being social. They tell themselves that escaping into their comfort-zone of non-expression is the solution to their problems. You don’t have to have societal fears to turn inwards. Cutting out distractions is how people achieve greatness. Women love all kinds of men, and what they want honestly shouldn’t be a man’s top priority anyway. Idk where you get this gargoyle esq…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:11 PM
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How is that a cope at all? You just sound bitter tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:20 PM
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Don’t bother. They’re all steeped in hatred for anything that men do that isn’t prioritizing women’s desires
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:19 PM
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Sometimes focus and stoicism require being anti-social 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:56 PM
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Chill, you know he’s right. Otherwise terms like monk-mode wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
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Soooo you date shallow men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:24 AM
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Ive read the book, thats not what it says. No need to villainize people that aren’t like you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:14 PM
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Oh god, here come the sexual morality police. Sticking their dicks into other people’s bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:26 PM
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Like anxious people are the bastions of stable relationships 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:05 PM
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I was just thinking this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:05 PM
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“Light skinned savior” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:59 AM
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LOL. Don’t worry, there’s a light skinned green eyed savior out there somewhere. Probably played by Michael Ealy 😂 https://thepeoplesnews.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/tyler-perrys-for-colored-girls-somehow-has-light-skinned-man-save-the-day/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:21 PM
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Shouldn’t black men be leading the charge on men’s issues? There’s so much overlap. Education, justice system, poverty. All effect men more than women, and all effect black people more than white people. So black men get a full double whammy when it comes to discrimination. We should But if there’s one thing I’ve realized with nimrods like Fresh and Fit is that there is not really a genuine desire to uplift each other in a massive way, because media doesn’t respond to positivity the way it does …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:14 PM
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Wassup sis 😂 They gon learn today (hopefully)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:07 PM
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Because guns exist, so protecting health has become more about aesthetics rather than functionality. Men don’t protect their health because it’s the most banal version of suicide outside of buying a motorcycle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:05 PM
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I followed through on all those things, and have come out a divorce successful and happy (enough) with enough suitors that I can feel assured that if I wanted to be in a relationship, I could find one. I don’t know that OP’s dad ever discovered redpill, or put any time into following through with those goals that decenter a woman from a man’s happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:04 PM
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He became fat. He got arrested for selling cannabis. And now he’s showing signs of dementia. Before someone says that my mom stole his money, no, my father didn’t pay shit. He barely paid 200 dollars a month for two kids. It was my mother and stepfather that provided for us. Ok, cold judgement from an internet stranger… Maybe your dad wasn’t all that BEFORE he met your mom, and when she divorced him, he reverted to his original state. Now, onto your original question. Coming from a divorced dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:50 PM
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Because we’re told our worth is wrapped up in providing (for other people) not ourselves. That’s why men neglect their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:41 PM
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Don’t worry, we’re becoming products too. One universal dating standard at a time ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:05 PM
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Objectification is literally stripping a person of their personhood to see them as an object. She’s not a woman that likes dark literature, she’s a goth girl. He’s not a teenage minority going to the store for skittles, he’s a hoodlum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:51 PM
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Side effect of clinging to an aesthetic I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:50 PM
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I was just gunna say, I’m black.. I basically haven’t been a person since I was 9 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:48 PM
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I only date women and have not had this experience. Good women that have somehow infringed have apologized sincerely and we move past it. I will say that because of gendered expectations there’s maybe a little bit less of an opportunity for a woman to do “wrong” when she’s infatuated with you. And are therefore more likely to be in the “forgiver” position. I don’t fuck with the dog metaphor, and you should watch how you talk about other people. It says a lot about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:59 AM
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So edgy, hope I don’t get cut!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:53 PM
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Lmao you don’t think I have friends or (healthy) relationships with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:46 AM
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Neither of those situations imply some lack of communication, or deceit. They tried, they were incompatible. Or it felt good in the moment and wanted to do it again for the excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:43 AM
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I think there’s a very valid criticism of women and femininity buried in the vitriol. Just like the fems who are critical of men and patriarchy. Half/truths all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:40 AM
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Do you really go through life imagining that everyone you know has an std and they’re all just constantly spreading disease to each other like some sort of pandemic? You’re not gay and this isn’t the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:36 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:32 AM
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Because it’s an answer to the nothing those dudes are being offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:29 AM
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I was going to say. Respectful or not, a fuckboy is basically any man that’s not down with commitment but is still fucking. As soon as you’re not in line with the feminine agenda, you’re branded. Fuckboy, slut, it’s all the same 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:23 AM
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Implied racism
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:37 PM
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Good point, very heteronormative of me. But hey, I’m straight so it comes with the territory 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:12 AM
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Yeah but who do they fuck more than once?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 12:48 AM
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Omg a kindred soul. Can we start a club? What should we name it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:57 PM
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Not all red pillers are right wing. Matter fact the secret combo for success is red pill left wing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:56 PM
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Don’t date within your circle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:56 PM
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I’m assuming she’s a loud misandristic feminist, otherwise she’s just any other woman. In that case I’d take the slut
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 10:55 PM
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This is not true. There are tons of female hardcore subs swimming around in the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:40 PM
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Femdom is still seen by the mainstream as perverse and extreme, conjuring up images of leather-clad dominatrixes as you’ve said. While Maledom is seen as being about care and protection and raw desire, Femdom is seen as being inherently sadistic and degrading and humiliating. Which I can tell you it isn’t at all. My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship which is very satisfying for both of us. She is the dominant partner but it isn’t anything like how “femdom” is usually depicted. I’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:32 PM
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As a lifestyle dom, this is not a thing in kink circles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:29 PM
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You’d be surprised. Echoes in isolation have a way of warping people’s minds. Pair that with media brainwashing and the lack of urban community and these ideals really have a way of festering. Honestly I blame the youth migrating to the right on figures like Tate, Peterson, and other celebrity figures like Musk. It’s not hard to see how this particular election basically divulged into a political gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:30 PM
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Leftist men with any semblance of decency are about to be drowning in pussy. And conservative men will continue to come on PPD to whine about it. The cycle continues, the world turns lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:56 PM
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Just get rid of marriage altogether ☝🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:17 PM
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Hey, you’re supposed to be fighting. Not whatever the hell this is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:15 PM
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Goated answer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:13 PM
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Do you think these scars prevent you from forming a healthy, positive long term relationship? If so, how? It’s a double edged sword for sure. On one hand, with enough experience you gain the ability to decipher a lot of the opposite sexes intentions, become a little jaded, but it becomes a lot harder to throw you off your game. The catch is, it’s going to take a supernova of emotional force to move me off my balance at this point. I’m much more likely to dump a woman for making my life even the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:25 AM
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We don’t condone self harm out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:40 PM
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Know thyself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:00 PM
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Having to hurt people that fancy you is not free. Especially if you’re not some sort of sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:24 PM
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I feel seen. Btw it doesn’t matter if you’re dumped or doing the dumping. The scars accumulate regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:10 PM
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It matters a lot for context.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:46 PM
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This is DC, not New York
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:24 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 01:02 PM
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Don’t be obtuse. You know women’s demonization of men is in response to men’s hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:55 PM
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Still feels like great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:43 PM
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Are the posts where terpers celebrate mass murderer Roger as a martyr/hero sufficient? You gotta link me to this boogeyman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:41 PM
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Unhinged drivel. You’re not jumping to aide some strange woman unless she’s absolutely getting rofflestomped, and even then you should default to calling the police first. I shouldn’t have to explain why you need to defend your female family/friends members.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:33 PM
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He just answered. All of those suggestions are absolutely insane for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:02 PM
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Finally, a brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:00 PM
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Smells like fascism to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:53 PM
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Abolish marriage as a legal institution, remove tax benefits for co habitating and implement a socialized free day care - collegiate education system.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:58 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 06:56 PM
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Brother
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 05:11 PM
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I’d say that since still crave sex while single, I’d say that the psych need for sex extends past the need for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:50 PM
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Yep. And my younger sibling is taller than I am snd attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:32 PM
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They’re valued on their ability to attract many women, not necessarily sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:32 PM
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This isn’t the Fresh and Fit channel. There’s enough sane people here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:48 PM
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Didn’t read the post, but got a huge laugh out of the title. OP was a troll for Halloween, and a damn good one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:54 PM
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I aspire to be like Adam. Also what kinda crazy pipe dream has a 29year old making 350k annually? Does he not have manufacturing/staff/ or tax related costs? Yall have completely lost the relative value of money lmfao. Inb4 a cup of coffee is $50
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:08 PM
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I dont think that’s true. There’s still the emotional weight of abandoning a child, which is no easy decision. Sure some deadbeats would take advantage of the system. But those are the same deadbeats that would be deadbeats regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:30 PM
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The first wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:23 PM
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I’m getting a motorcycle in my 40s so that won’t be an issue, but thanks for the concern 🤙🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:21 PM
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I mean. I expect the same amount of vitriol out of women on Reddit who have been cheated on. I didn’t see the above comment AND I’m projecting, AND I dont support hate, but I can’t imagine the female poster can truly comprehend: The weight of decision a man makes when he genuinely determines he wants to marry his girl. Essentially pledging to die for her if needed. And The pressure externally from society for a man to propose and that he’s essentially wasting her time every second they aren’t ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:19 PM
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Finally some common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:19 PM
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It was an honest linear lie. Fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:18 PM
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I checked before, I’d def bang. It was a weird realization
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:09 PM
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Nah. If my parents are the same I’m confident I’d be attractive. Now I’m sure race would play a part (because it always does). But I’d likely be considered attractive within my race. Probably Nubian dreadlocks aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:21 PM
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Genetics. I’m hot now, I’d still be hot. Especially if I took care of myself, which is likely considering female beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:46 PM
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Modern all day. Not much I’d differently. I’d still go into STEM. Maybe get into pole dancing. Maybe dabble in sex work as a hobby. I’d definitely be hot. Romantically id probably be childfree and a serial monogamist but dabble in polyamory during my single years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:23 PM
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What is the relevance of those things to this conversation or subby chicks in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:14 PM
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But no amount of emotional sensitivity is going to turn your partner into a mind reader.That’s not true at all, submissive women are awesome. And I will die on that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 10:40 PM
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Why do you doubt it? It was never going to be enough as in, once a woman has gotten to the point where she’s thinking about leaving, there’s no real recourse to prevent it. There’s no amount of change/therapy at that will give her the confidence she needs to stay without regret. It was never going to be enough as in, your efforts from that point forward are futile. And I don’t think the barrier for that level of checkout is that high for them either. Especially with their peers and social media …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:59 AM
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Lmfao, you think that warrants breaking up families, splitting assets, and breaking hearts? What happened to loving the person you grow into, or loving every version of you, you become? Just be honest, they girlies aren’t down with real commitment. So the men check out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:04 AM
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It was never going to be enough though. I have this theory that humans don’t appreciate change/growth unless it happens outside of their purview. I haven’t found a relationship (platonic, business, romantic) where this was found to be untrue. ALSO if women are socialized to be meek, unconfrontational, and submissive, why does it always seem to unbelievable that she silently stewed about shit she was pissed about till a boiling point to which after there is no hope for recourse? We gotta pick a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:56 AM
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You realize both the accusation of hypergamy and having a shit husband are baseless accusations without proof
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:53 AM
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Co-signed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:19 PM
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Condoms are dope. They’re basically the only method of anxiety free sex. Your argument falls apart afterwards. Also in true BP fashion you haven’t suggested anything in place of the behaviors you’re admonishing. These men aren’t living in a vacuum, and if you’re going to deprive them of a way of life you better be prepared to suggest something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:47 AM
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Women are allowed to do whatever the fuck they want, which I think is great. Full stop Now I may not agree with all of their views or points, and sometimes they’re yapping harpies, but they’re still women who deserve full autonomy, and lives that they are happy and fulfilled with. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:46 AM
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Being eternally attractive won’t save you either though. Loss of novelty is your enemy, not being ugly/fat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:24 PM
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Just because you’re having casual sex doesn’t mean you’re fucking tons of people. It just means you’re fucking without the pressure of screening for commitment. That’s why it’s casual. Girl gets into first relationship. Loses virginity, doesn’t work out Second relationship, doesn’t work out. Single for 4 years. During this time Casual partner (situationship) 1 for 4-6 months Casual partner (fwb) 2 for 3 months ONS that one time at burning man. Finds husbando after 4 year stint. Marries 5 bodies,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:44 PM
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I agree at a high level. Not even saying long term monogamous relationships ought to be the gold standard (though they are today). It seems that women’s socialization + biology leads them to cause conflict with an arrangement like this (more so than men’s) It really is bizarre that women want marriage so bad but also are much more inclined to break them. They justify their behaviors by saying the relationship wasnt working (which is valid) but on a societal level this simply implies that women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:40 PM
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As you shouldn’t. Thank you for not being a sociopath lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:43 PM
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I’d invite OP to ask his mother if she’s ever been in a contentious situation with a man, let alone been assaulted. Bet he’ll delete this bullshit real fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:42 PM
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Usually guys that would be fine being as backup are guys without options and have little to no experience. Idk about this one champ. Most likely the dudes willing to be options are the dudes with a lot of options. Some of those options are in relationships. The dudes comfortable with being an option are likely fucking your gfs/wives. This is because these dudes are not starving for female affection, and therefore care less about being committed too. You can probably argue the same lack of self e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:39 PM
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Obligation glues her to her marriage choice? What? Just to say the men women want to marry aren’t somehow “hotter” than the ones they don’t. They still get tingles for the hot single bad boy, but obligation and emotional connection keep her with her husband. But I guess that breaks down if the men women want to marry are re-trained bad boys. But I don’t think that’s what you were saying. But otherwise I agree with everything else you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:26 PM
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Catch ya behind the Wendy’s dumpster 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:23 PM
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I don’t get how some people think women have higher standards for casual sex. What makes women I know have casual sex is just that the physical attraction is there but they don’t really like the guy or don’t take him seriously as a person. That’s where the “bad boy” stereotype comes in with casual sex. “Bad boys” have shitty jobs usually and are immature. This is a stereotype. Sure women have casual sex with the bad boy, but I find they’re much more likely to have sex with the dude who has the q…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:57 PM
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😭😭😭 savage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:08 PM
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Madonna/whore , Bard/Warrior complexes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:03 PM
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You’re assuming women commit for the same reasons men do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:57 AM
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There aren’t a “few” women who enjoy sex outside of committed relationships. Women who aren’t in relationships don’t constantly scramble for partners to have fuck with, like some sort of sexual parasite It’s a sizable percentage of the population. But for you those quantifiable words are used to direct the narrative. “Most girls are like me, and they don’t like casual sex.” -Anecdotal blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:55 AM
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This has also been my experience. The insecurity tends to be palpable and they’ll often scare themselves away or become overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:51 AM
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That was beautiful. I don’t doubt that there’s another dimension of development that comes with fatherhood, and for some that’s worth the risk of going all in with a partner. I think if society were less Disney and more honest in their representations of love and commitment, I’d feel more strongly about children. Honestly I think in relation to romantic love, paternal love is simple and pure. Anyone that understands adult:adult relationships understand it’s more nuanced. So fulfillment on my sid…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:37 AM
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🙏🏾 The “woe is me” stuff from a lot of the dudes here is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:31 AM
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You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:44 PM
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I’d love to see an updated study on married men’s health, controlled for income, with single men. The divorced statistic smells like bullshit imo, and doesn’t feel like a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:43 PM
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Lmfao and you’re trying to blame women’s autonomy for these crisises? Jesus PPD really has become a shithole
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:59 PM
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This post was made courtesy of ChatGPT lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:31 PM
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No. The world is overpopulated as is Economic problems are more directly tied to global capitalism, not gender relations. Social decay is a false flag for complaining about the way other people live their lives. None of this shit matters. Go be productive elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:30 PM
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OP, respectfully. Write essays about shit people care about. This is nonsense and the gender war has been so over saturated that there’s nothing you could say on the topic that will be profound
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 01:45 PM
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What kind of lunatic would remove sex from romantic love? Lesbians have sex and nobody asks them these dumbass questions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:35 PM
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Bad relationship option. She’s already argumentative + the bonus multiplier from the question? She must be an absolute HELLCAT. Hell I’d anticipate fighting with her just so I could wear her out in private. Full on toxicity, bring it on 💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:29 PM
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Exactly. There’s no relationship-monopoly on great sex. You don’t always have to pour out your heart emotionally for sex to be superb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:18 PM
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This part right here ☝🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:55 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:54 PM
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Enthusiastic explorative sex > both relationship and casual sex. Casual sex is like playing the lottery. When the stars align it can be magic, but the general odds of winning are low. When it’s bad it’s awkward. Relationship sex is great because you both are already familiar with what each other likes, but familiarity robs use of novelty, and can be less exciting because there’s not much more to discover. Either of these situations are trumped by sex that is still novel and enthusiastic, which s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:53 PM
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Reality is nuanced. PPD is not. I’ll admit I was being cheeky. I’m not here to say cheating isnt wrong, I’m here to say I’d rather not expect much out of anyone anymore. I’ve been cheated on, cheated myself, been a child of divorce, watched it blindside elder adults late in life, and frankly I’m over expecting more out of humans. Fidelity is less valuable than autonomy. Well, you should care, because now you know that you’re a willing cheater. You can try to justify it however you want, but deep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:11 AM
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Cus nobody gives a shit anymore. Who cares if I cheat before I divorce anymore? States have no fault, time to start making use of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 09:39 PM
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That’s sorta how my current lifestyle came about. After the glow up, a little weight gained, career accomplishments, the hard work caught up with my natural demeanor. Eventually you become attractive emotionally and physically. So I imagine I’d be something like that. I wouldn’t be actively running through people, but just dating around casually, having fun, just enjoying life. Not being chained down in a relationship with responsibilities and rules. I advise all men to be discerning with the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:31 PM
0

I mean there have been times I’ve turned a maybe into a yes. But you’re right, most nos stayed that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:49 PM
1

Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:26 PM
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Couldn’t have put it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:24 PM
1

OLD IS HERE TO STAY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:51 PM
7

Why are they measuring their worth only in terms of their desirability? I’ve never met a generation of humans more obsessed with their own desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:24 PM
-1

You rang?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:30 AM
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No, he was just saying things that regularly get posted here that girls have insane standards, that most men are unnatractive to women, and asking women to rate guys. You claim to be married but you can’t comprehend how this could be interpreted as misogynistic and antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:32 PM
1

Manipulation is just an umbrella term for getting the world to react to you in a specific way. Neuro linguistic programming is about using semantics to get a very specific result from your communication. Negging albeit shitty, is about ribbing someone playfully to make them more receptive to seduction. You probably think sociology/psych is psuedoscience too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:28 PM
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Harassment can only be defined after you’ve been rejected. I watched the video, and it’s a report piece that is only worth hearing about because the “coach” is running paid classes, publicly, on how to pickup women. The women in this case are not part of the class and are being farmed for experience as a tool for the class without their consent. Miles different than a normal sized group of dudes hanging out in the mall striking up conversations with people they fancy. Sorry homie, there’s no mec…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:26 PM
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You’re so wrong it’s wild. Which is crazy because you’re all over the place ideologically. First off: being hot with money will just get you used. Any sort of attraction she has will be based solely on your extrinsic characteristics which will ebb and flow with time, but also doesn’t factor in “personality” aka the bullshit that comes out when he opens his mouth. Second off: be nice and having personality doesn’t make you an expert conversationalist, which is one of the main benefits of PUA. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:17 PM
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Yeah you threw unseductive in there yourself because you’re baiting. In all of your other posts you basically suggest that men afflicted with lack of natural talent to accept mediocrity and to fund a society that won’t make a place for them. Then you’re talking about AI girlfriends and blow up dolls as if men’s emotional attachment to women is as deep as his dick is long. AAAND the whining about whether you think PUA was valuable or not, but after several men have come forward to tell you that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:12 PM
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Nah. They got kicked out because the coach was running organized groups that would descend on the mall like a runners club swarming patrons. Talking to strangers in the mall is not harassment. Only gen z seems to have this idea that you can bring your personal bubble outside and anyone that pops it is subject to legal action lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:08 PM
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Nobody even used those adjectives 😂. The more I read your responses the more they sound like thinly veiled superiority plugs because “muh wife” and “guys that didn’t luck into genetics shouldn’t try and improve their charisma for the sake of attracting a partner” Buncha nonsense tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:52 PM
1

Ding ding ding ☝🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 06:49 PM
1

Not everyone that uses game is bereft of enough common sense to not sexually assault women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:52 PM
1

Being attractive alone is not enough to pull women. Eventually you have to open your mouth and embarrass yourself if you don’t know what you’re doing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:24 PM
2

Read the sequel book, it’s actually very good. “The Truth”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:22 PM
1

See you still don’t recognize that even though Barbie’s were de entering Ken from their lives. They still have the option to include them if they wanted too, which the Ken’s do not have that option. There is no reproductive strategy that will leave men partner less that they/will accept happily. RP/PUA is a honest framework for how they can improve themselves to improve their odds. Outside of the misogynistic rhetoric some of those spaces have, women don’t like the idea of courting them as a sci…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:21 PM
1

It’s Average Frustrated Chump ☝🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:45 PM
1

Well put 🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:20 PM
1

There’s more nuance to promiscuity between prude virgin and getting gangbanged by the football team. Just because a woman fucks a guy she’s not in a relationship with doesn’t make her promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:57 PM
0

This is absolutely not true. I’ve gotten laid off the strength of W2W gossip before. Particularly in high social networks like college campuses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:44 PM
1

What is the metric for a player anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:42 PM
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That’s just jealousy and mate guarding. You don’t find him anymore attractive. You just feel threatened when other people do too. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202311/why-we-crave-sexual-novelty#:~:text=Arousal%20to%20the%20same%20sexual,bring%20novelty%20into%20a%20relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:21 AM
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Y’all realize if you keep only picking tall men, your daughters will similarly be tall as fuck too right? WNBA still doesn’t get the viewership you’d expect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:18 AM
3

Well put. I struggle with this too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:21 PM
11

Being self aware helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:27 PM
5

Oh holy shit I’m only here to flame OP for being so tone deaf to realize that just because shit is objectively better than being literal chattel, that women should kick their heels off go on vacation. Any worthwhile comparisons have already been posted as nauseum. This has to be bait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:17 PM
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but when in the menosphere, some men have told me that any effort other than actually dating them or having sex with them is useless. Lmaooo damn, you beat me to the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:15 PM
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Skill diff. Do the work yourself and stop asking the internet to work for you. Go outside and grind charisma points
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:03 AM
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As true as this may be, there’s generally always an abundance of women so it still makes it hard to justify not all men getting a (government issued) mate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:20 PM
5

Great question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:27 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:30 PM
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I’m 35 and recently met a woman who is turning 40 next year while out and about. Even though we had fun the entirety of the first date felt like an interview centered around entitlement. (Like the first thing she asked when I picked her up in a car, in the summer was: does your A/C work? Checks windows to see that they work”) When she realized that my shit was clean she tried to find small things to nitpick me on, and eventually just settled on trying to convince me I’m balding. (I’m not). It ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:03 PM
0

But are they the men they WANT is the question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:46 PM
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So now it’s my fault for having options? Women have put themselves in a paper bag that they can’t escape by their own design
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:24 PM
7

Lol yes, throw something at her and then act like it wasn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:52 PM
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Yeah, he followed rules 1 and 2 most importantly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:36 PM
2

Yeah, I don’t subscribe to the idea that genetics entirely predetermine our decision making, especially considering our ACTUAL relationship to our parents is the driving determinant for how we pick our partners. Using genetics as some sort of behavioral trump card is a simplistic and lazy argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:54 PM
3

Monogamous people don’t struggle LOL you lost me here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:35 PM
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Most people ARE exposed to Nazism in school when they learn about WW2 But good job at trying to derail my point through exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 05:12 AM
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Shit, you’re telling me I fell for the ragebait? That we’ve been in the matrix the whole time?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:35 AM
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Insecurity is an absolutely a flaw to be overcome. Lest you be consumed by it and never have a genuine experience because of constant worry. Feeding insecurities is feeding into a pit of nothingness that never fills. The person with the insecurity has to address the root fear within themselves before they can engage genuinely. That’s the shit the therapists talk about when they talk about “healing”. Go do the work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:26 AM
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People should be exposed to everything and free to choose what’s for them and what isn’t. Controlling behavior through ignorance is at least controlling and at most abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:41 PM
3

Maybe your assertion should be taken up with your therapist… To.. you know, deal with all of that controlling and insecure behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:27 PM
1

I honestly don’t even believe you believe your own bullshit here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:25 PM
1

OP already stated any of those things is not allowable, besides it’s all imaginary. If as stated you’re only allowed to think of your partner while masturbating, why would reading erotica and fantasizing about the characters be allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:24 PM
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Yeah, but let’s not conflate OP’s rules as typical monogamy. What she’s talking about is thought policing your partner to ensure that they don’t have any sexual thoughts outside of the relationship. Which, to me is incredibly insecure, controlling, manipulative, and unrealistic. This is the type of woman who would break up with you because she thought she saw you make eye contact with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:22 PM
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Lmao thank god there are other women here to tell OP she’s nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:26 PM
3

Is this really what PPD has degraded to? Aren’t there enough RP subs for your wank fodder?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 09:04 PM
5

I delightfully found out that I’m having as much sex single as I was having with a live in gf. Don’t let them scare you boys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:14 PM
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Don’t yall get tired of the same talking points every week?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:54 PM
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Big change after decades of lopsided policies. Men are checking out. They’d rather play COD. Let those institutions fail. It’s all going to shit anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:32 PM
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It’s the greater narrative. Enough of this anecdotal first nonsense. We’re all consuming the same mass media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:03 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:50 AM
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Disclaimer: this is the same sociologist that released the statement that women are happiest single and childless, to which he was forced to retract that statement off of misinterpreting the census data terribly. I hate read it, but there’s a ton of interesting conclusions that he comes too that are worth thinking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:04 AM
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“Women are more likely than men to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships, and to lose it sooner. 10 It is unclear why, though. Perhaps a woman’s idea of passionate sex is more closely associated with novelty; or perhaps women associate sex with high-intensity emotion more than men do, so that when the feelings of passionate love go, the interest in sex with that man diminishes. Whatever the explanation, we should not fall into another trap of assuming that as women are married for long…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:12 PM
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I don’t know where “here” is, but that is absolutely not the expectation in my life. Everybody has to consent to exclusivity. Assuming leads to misunderstandings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:16 PM
1

They want those women! THEY WANT THEM!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
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This is the right answer. Normal people eventually have that conversation after spending some time together. Generally at that point everybody’s on the same page. That also frees “her” to continue dating or do w/e it is that she wants to do. Everybody keeps their autonomy. ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:38 PM
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This has not been my experience, but it was my assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:32 PM
6

Yeah, there’s no point in arguing in bad faith. It ruins the point of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:30 PM
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Note that she used the word boyfriend. I don’t think a man who’s “spinning plates” would refer to himself as such. There are some, but not most. I know I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:29 PM
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Oh no, the women are going blackpill. We really are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:39 AM
1

Oh no, the women are going blackpill. We really are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:39 AM
1

Lmao you’re the one that seems hypersensitive. I just pointed out how it feels like your comment centers women around a male issue. Maybe the above commenters tone didn’t give me that reaction and yours did. Don’t lose any sleep over it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:57 PM
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Cheating is less the point than say, the dissolution of the relationship. My point is that appealing to gender roles will generally always be preferable to a partner that does not. Due to the biological reasons why those roles developed in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:02 AM
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I think most men want to be the ones playing Daddy. Except they’ve been ostracized from seeking domestic power. You can’t pick and choose gender roles that only suit you, and then shirk the ones the opposite gender holds valuable. “Just as it was misguided for reformist feminist thinkers to see freedom as simply women having the right to be like powerful patriarchal men (feminist women with class privilege never suggested that they wanted their lot to be like that of poor and working-class men),…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:26 AM
2

Then they cheat on him (or just leave) for a more domineering “alpha” (eww) type, because he gets her wet on a primal level that bitch boy just can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:24 AM
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I completely agree and understand your sentiments. But I can’t help but feel that knee jerk reaction to your second point as making women the focus of a phrase that is only used to shame men. Despite its implications for women. It feels very “Tha patriarchie hurts menz too!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:22 AM
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Doesn’t seem very smart to base the rest of your life on that moment then does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:28 PM
3

Why even bother getting married with that mindset? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:19 PM
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I’d probably play it like this, and rotate the active slots based on where I’m at in conversation. Still anything is better than the mess we have today lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:43 PM
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They’re still orbiting around the opportunity of getting with you. It’s OLD so they have a paradoxical relationship with (the idea of) you as opposed to irl orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 07:41 PM
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In the case of OLD orbiters are dudes with new messages waiting/hoping that you’ll finally respond
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:51 PM
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I don’t mind if most of my matches say nothing. I never message most of my matches. I pick the ones I’m most interested or that are most proactive in messaging me first and keeping the conversation going. So… you match with people and don’t intend on talking to them? Do you just blind swipe? Spray and pray? Using the app like that isn’t conducive to matching with people you’re actually interested in, so it makes no sense. Especially as an attractive dude. I’ve done it maybe once a year for the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:44 PM
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So how does this work? You’re saying that while I have five matches people can still swipe on my profile and match with me, but they just can’t message with me? Precisely. I still don’t see how this helps me. Right now I probably get somewhere around 30-35 matches a week across Tinder and hinge. If I want one date a week, I can wait for some matches to accumulate, then just focus on messaging the ones that seem like the best options. In my scenario you’ll never have to wait for matches to accumu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:41 PM
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I think you meant to reply to the person above me haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:19 PM
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I personally like getting a lot of matches. I certainly don’t see any downside to it. Most of the time when a match does turn to a meet, it happens fairly quickly, but not always. Your matches would likely be more polarized though. You’d get more faster rejections and faster dates if there’s less options pending. Again though, I think once you click out of one of the 5 chats it should be automatically refreshed with a match you currently had waiting on deck I’ve met a number of women who took a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:16 PM
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The apps would still value you physically. It would though remove the overwhelming pressure to respond to 80 ppl at the same time. It would also make people more picky with their swipes. It would also pressure people to reject each other faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:04 PM
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It won’t matter if you’re on the app to meet irl. Getting a million matches helps nobody (including hot people). The issue is that people feel overwhelmed by having 25 conversations at once. People that do bad will still have 0 matches. People who do great will still have a plethora of matches backlogged. They just wouldn’t be able to access them until they reject one of the original 5. And you don’t need more than 4 tbh. 1 date a week. 5 assumes 1 date per weekday which is still insane
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:03 PM
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Huh? Having access to less simultaneous matches isn’t going to make you suddenly not swipe on hot dudes. But it’ll keep you from keeping orbiters in the back pocket and long dragged out convos that don’t leave the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:59 PM
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The restriction applies to everyone. And yes women and hot dudes will hit quota fast. So it will encourage people to keep their inboxes empty or mitigate the length of time people spend on individual matches while forcing the user to focus their energy on a smaller amount of people. More faster rejections, but more intentional matches. Not sure how your argument about the women makes sense though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:36 AM
2

Bachelor men are actually just poly on the DL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:00 AM
2

Ah, the “dread” mechanic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:58 AM
2

Bachelor life is becoming much more common. Soon bachelor men will be just as prolific as childfree women. What do we do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:58 AM
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Nah, you can fix apps easy. Limit the number of matches anyone can have to 5
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:40 AM
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Nah, still bullshit imo. To think that a person can only embody either responsive or spontaneous desires is hogwash. People can be aroused by themselves or by others. To imply that you only get horny when someone else puts in the effort is narcissistic nonsense. (And not in the Ester Perel -Women’s sexuality is narcissistic way) You not experiencing spontaneous desire for your LTR is a product of overfamiliarity and loss of novelty in the relationship. Any other explanation is a cope. Also note …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:05 PM
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Responsive/spontaneous desire is academic nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:09 PM
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If you picked him he most certainly does. (Not you specifically, but you but generically you)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:01 PM
0

Honestly if you believe men are this interchangeable, what makes you think women are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:56 PM
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Stop using marriage vows as a reason when women overwhelmingly initiate the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:23 PM
1

They’re at the bar. Go outside. Sit there. Stay until goal achieved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:54 AM
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No, next question. Edit: I love sluts Edit Edit: please change my flare to “Certified Slut Lover” if you see this mods
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:26 PM
2

I really liked Ga-Rei:Zero. Both the anime and the manga are top notch, and kind of obscure. Dusk maiden of Amnesia is another obscure masterpiece without any kind of sexual undertone. World Trigger is a fun shounen that got picked up by Netflix recently. The stuffs out there, you just have to have a nose for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:23 AM
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They’re interested in the version of you they have in their mind. And hers didn’t include anime, I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:57 AM
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Your love of anime is childish, and that’s ok. It’s not though. A lot of anime feature very adult themes, and they handle them with a lot more grace than live action shows do. Why is reality tv considered any more adult, than an animated series about some fantastical world that involves death sex and adult concepts? For a ‘normie’ yeah it’s fucking weird and offputting for an adult man to watch (what they perceive as) cartoons for children, but if that’s what you like that’s what you like. Hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:29 AM
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Lmao, sorry. I just had a woman that was interested in me tell me that my love for anime was childish (despite being totally average) Mind you my career/social life/experiences eclipses hers tenfold. She can have an opinion on fuck all but I’m an adult, who the fuck is she to decide what’s childish? Needless to say, she’s kicking rocks now. Men, is it childish to enjoy things you like?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:21 AM
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Who are you to tell another adult that they should have hobbies you approve of? You’re not their parent, boss, or master
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:14 AM
1

Did your ass really get bigger? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:59 PM
1

Dump them at the first sign of incompatibility. Whether that’s casual sex, fwb, or relationship obv. Men are so starved for affection/sex they still haven’t figured out how to vote with their feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:27 AM
2

Romantic relationship = sex fiend lmao. Yall really just want dudes to suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:21 AM
2

The actual cheat code. Combine with rules 1 and 2 for Uber success
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:20 AM
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I started going to yoga in college as a supplement for my martial arts background and despite not talking to a single woman, it was clear they wanted ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with me. Not a hi, not a good morning, nothing. And this is when I was actively minding my own business lmao. Hell I even used to stand directly infront of the instructor (another man) so as not to be distracted by the leggings and skintight attire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:17 AM
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IG is a dating app. Don’t let anyone tell you differently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:11 AM
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Lmao no hope in sight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:58 AM
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Oh, no narrative to chase. But there is a common sentiment from frustrated women (mostly straight) that dating other women would be a cakewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:25 AM
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It’s ok, you’re not running for office. Nobody’s going to crucify you for taking a stance lol. Based on what you just said It feels like you said women naturally empathize with women and more often perceive coupling easier than with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:02 AM
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Do you think there’s any truth to the sentiment that wlw relationships only seem easier because of the haste that women seem to nest with each other (U-Haul lesbians) but often deteriorate at the same speed (or faster) than straight relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:13 PM
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This is very much a sentiment only really found online. RL women (single ones) very much care about the availability of quality men to date marry and have relationships with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:10 PM
1

Or we could be complete people who don’t idealize the opposite gender in a way that conveniently cuts out all of the facets of their socialization that we don’t like. I understand progress but there’s a sick disconnection peddled where we only accept the good as if there aren’t drawbacks to anything remotely human. “Yes I want to be a biomother, but no I don’t want to give birth.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 07:02 PM
2

They didn’t like me for who I was before, but I lost some weight and now they love me. Therefore who I am actually ( pre-glow up) is unloveable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:35 AM
1

Precisely this ☝🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:30 AM
2

Now we live with the truth instead of perpetuating some lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:14 PM
3

I’m just confirming an idea I had. “If a woman says she wouldn’t have casual sex with you, she isn’t attracted to you and she isn’t relationship-material for YOU” You gotta stop making it more complicated than it is. It’s not “casual” sex she’s not willing to have with you. It’s sex overall. What makes sex non casual? 3 dates? 3 months? A wedding? If she doesn’t wanna bang you, it’s safe to assume she wouldn’t want a relationship either. But I think we should start with “hello, how are you doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:59 PM
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You can’t have a romantic relationship without sex.* Full stop. Spouses are bound by romantic love. Full stop. *honorable mention of the the axsexuals
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:22 PM
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Demi seems straightforward to me, “can only experience sexual attraction through strong emotional bond” Whatever this is OP posted I can’t exactly make heads or tails on. It sounds like he’s frustrated that he’s not getting any. It must be women’s fault somehow. So OP your goal is to slutshame women for having sex? You understand you’ll be getting even LESS sex if you’re successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:19 PM
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Why would a husband and wife focus on a familial love framework to join them together? They’re lovers not sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:17 PM
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Where are you getting this idea? Is it based in reality? Most women practice some form of serial monogamy. The “casual”ness of it is only based on how quickly or not they sleep together. Most people that don’t wait, sleep together and continue to see each other if they are compatible during the dating phase. If you couldn’t pull your gf out a bar for, at least, some smiles and intimate eye contact and hand holding for the most reserved…. Then she was never going to be your gf in the first place.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 01:11 PM
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Honesty and understanding. Lying breeds misunderstanding. At least that’s what I think his goal is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 11:48 AM
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Not to say that I don’t believe you, or any of the other women in this dropdown. But I find it hilarious that whenever someone posts a generalization (no matter how accurate) a bunch of Redditors will pop up with anecdotal evidence that supports the opposite, therefore the generalization MUST not be true. Lol. Social media will always be a war zone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:11 AM
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Also the fantasy of the single playboy bachelor is VERY alive and well. One of the hallmarks of this is having a lot of casual relationships and perpetual singlehood.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:05 PM
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I didn’t read your post past the title, but if you remember back to 2019-2020 you realize that women were telling the men to be single. As a response to a spike in divorces/breakups during and post Covid. I believe they said the men should learn to love themselves, learn to be single, and nobody deserves a relationship. The irony is, imo, now there’s a surplus of single dudes. And after 3 years of being single the ladies want relationships again. To which many men are only offering situationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:04 PM
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This is definitely a bait and switch because stereotypically women stop putting as much effort into their attractiveness after securing commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:25 PM
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Anyone that doesn’t want marriage and commitment = fuckboy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:38 PM
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Dinosaurs would have been a perfect answer tbh. She could have said ANYTHING and it would have been atleast a minor key into the type of person she was and maybe something she’s actually interested in. “I’m into the Roman phalanx” She just didn’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:20 PM
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Is it though? Sex isn’t nearly as hard to get as the whiners on this sub would make you think. But also Chad gets easy pussy because fucking him is novel. Keep fucking the same Chad long enough and the novelty wears off. That’s in any form of relationship, marriage included. This is much closer to reality. So what do you do? Date multiple women and when the novelty wears off and they leave (they always leave). Chalk it up to the game and call the next number in the Rolodex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:22 AM
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If Chad ain’t getting it every day all day then there’s no hope for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:17 AM
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as if being sober means women must fall over themselves to suck your dick lmao. Quite the opposite ime
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:38 PM
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I don’t care if I’m a hypocrite when it comes to these matters. Yes DINK lifestyle is bullshit for a man with means. And the only reason it would matter is if for some reason said man couldn’t afford to live and support himself for some reason. I didn’t say love was worthless. I said it wasn’t enough. And if given the chance again I wouldn’t make major life decisions based on whether I love someone else. If that means I won’t love hard enough to have children again so be it. Nbd. There’s more to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:35 PM
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Unfortunately I’m not completely a robot. This is very much an emotional decision
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 02:03 PM
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I honestly like this breakdown and will ponder it for a bit. Great response, ty ♥️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:05 AM
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Wah wah, your comment did nothing to add to the discourse. So go right on and fuck off 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:49 PM
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I don’t necessarily think I do. But it’s hard to tell. Ive had pangs before about raising a little me, male or female. But they’ve always been fleeting. I don’t particularly jump for joy at the thought of playing with the children in my family either. The only time I’ve really wanted children was when I was in love and planning a future with an old partner, and it was hinged on loving her enough that I wanted to make her a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:19 PM
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If I decided to agree to a monogamous relationship i wouldn’t chase tail either. I just can’t find a logical reason to make that agreement if we’re not also agreeing to build a life together that involves children. I can travel, date and blah blah all by myself or with non-committed partners if I wanted too. Hence the premise of the original question
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:59 PM
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No I did not know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:50 PM
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Well. I am chasing tail and don’t have children so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:49 PM
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Love isn’t enough to build a substantive long term relationship on. Love also isn’t good enough a reason for two incompatible people to stay together. Tranquilo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:18 PM
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Honestly I came to a debate sub to have a discussion and debate. It’s not about worrying about what other people think. Gender dynamics is what we talk about here. If you can’t handle that then don’t engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:16 PM
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You know I don’t even think a guy needs to be some psychopathic Casanova in order to take issue with monogamy without children. I think if I had to plot the thought process linearly it would go: Marriage is for generational safety for children. No children equals no marriage. Commitment is to lay the foundation for marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:14 PM
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I have done both of those things and felt strongly enough about someone to make those decisions. To which I would not do again due to said life experience. Don’t patronize me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:54 PM
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Well in those situations there’s not much else to say besides yes you’re right. And then hope the tongue whippings are swift and merciful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:48 PM
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…. Ok. Because I have enough life experience to be able to look at love objectively and not through overly optimistic rose goggles, I’ve never been in love? Absolute nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:43 PM
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It has honestly. Not only in my own longest running relationship, but in the relationships of my elders. I’m sure passionate love was the core of their relationships at one point, but time deteriorates anything it touches long enough. Many get bored or overly acclimated to each other, and then it’s the strength of their vows or shared experiences that keep them together. I’m definitely pessimistic, but not without observing these situations with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:41 PM
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As I would expect from her frankly. And if not I definitely expect her attraction to me to dry tf up, whether she stays or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:17 PM
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One of my points exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:05 PM
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I do actually point out in another comment that I could have posited this question to the dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:04 PM
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⁠Just because a woman is child free when marrying, doesn’t mean she wants to remain child free forever. Most women who eventually have kids are child free when they first marry. This feels heavily like false advertising. I’d 100% expect a divorce if I married someone who was childfree with the assumption that they mirrored my values only to have them change their mind after we’re locked in. Otherwise wtf is the point of the life goal screening process during dating? ⁠While the desire to raise ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:03 PM
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I’ve fallen in love multiple times before in my life. I just don’t think love is a smart reason to start making major permanent adjustments to your life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:10 PM
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It doesn’t. Women on social media wax poetic about their standards ALL the time. Trying to gaslight me that they don’t, is pointless. “I’m looking for a guy in finance, trust fund, 6’5”, blue eyes”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:04 PM
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Your last point makes even less sense to me. They want a goddamn workhorse? If she’s not raising children wtf is she doing that she can’t provide for herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:00 PM
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As a man that has it together? Not really. Yes there are emotional and intimate needs that I need to fulfill regularly but thankfully enough I can get those needs met through family, friends, and non-committed intimate partners. Sure getting sick blows, but it would blow regardless. It just doesn’t seem to make sense “building a future” with someone that you’re not going to have children with at the cost of your own freedom? Like why would I restrict myself to the rules of monogamy if we’re not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:57 PM
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Shit, im at work just like yall. Gimme a sec and I’ll be here to argu-debate with everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:50 PM
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Oh I’m aware that not everywhere has the dating statistics of Miami Beach. Maybe the discussion premise was wide and generalized. I’m largely aware of what the majority of the country(?) looks like in terms of pairings. But that’s not what’s being peddled to us visually. So I’m not directly speaking to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:47 PM
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I’m just assuming the ones being chosen by women are that way. Partially because the women aren’t shy about their preferences in a partner. IG is full of this stuff, and I know it doesn’t apply to the individual, but if you’re checking against the masses and anecdotal experience it lines up. He’s gotta be: Tall, Handsome, Ballin, Nice, Monogamous, Childfree Like anyone that has the first four has tons of prospects. It feels like asking for 4-5 you’re either getting one or the other without some …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:45 PM
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What do you mean "what's in it for the men"? You have to be joking. Have you never sat in a restaurant and seen some worn out, absolutely frazzled couple with a screaming infant or disruptive child they can't manage? Compare that to the married childless couple getting buzzed together over a meal who are probably going to fuck each others brains out when they get home. Ok so I of course know I’m going to have to explain away some of the vitriol that comes with PPD because that’s the nature of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:41 PM
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It’s already commonly known that love ain’t enough. Not to mention that passionate love is replaced by obligated commitment over the course of a long term relationship. Also love clouds your judgement. So yes people do fall in love, but that’s more of rose colored glasses than a frame to make important decisions through
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:31 PM
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Great answer tyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:28 PM
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I didn’t say anything about delusion. And frankly I think women SHOULD have high standards (who tf would admit to having shitty parameters for a life partner) Sure I have to make an assumption to make a statement, and the assumption that women want top tier men shouldn’t be a wild assumption to make
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:27 PM
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🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:52 PM
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He said cornerstone, she said nah that’s dumb, they’re arguing about it. Literally the point of this particular thread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:20 PM
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LTR perks are overrated and ultimately not what men get into relationships for
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:14 PM
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I pretty recently was hooking up with someone that was close to FWB. Anyway we’re in the sack and I start getting a little rowdy (light choking sort of stuff) and she put anything above semi-gentle vanilla on ice. Eventually I cut it off because we weren’t sexually compatible. Anyway a few months later we’re having drinks and talking about other partners. She mentioned how she had a semi-ONS that was rough and slapped her around a lil bit and she was open to it. I just laughed because her lack o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:14 PM
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Oh, I missed the distinction between irl and online chatter. I agree with you otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:15 PM
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I definitely disagree with this. I don’t have to be updated on every single trivial thought that some random is thinking. But an innate and natural curiosity of the thoughts and patterns is how I keep my life objective and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:00 PM
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Because those men don’t understand the literal disparity of consequences between the sexes when engaging in sex, or picking a long term mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:48 PM
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Holy shit man. Put down the cellphone and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:26 PM
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You just described the founding basis of Blackpill / inceldom. Not everything has to be politically correct for it to be true. Dems the bricks
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:17 PM
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In the name of sadistic revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:46 PM
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Exactly. Just because the men aren’t doing something doesn’t mean they aren’t capable. Sometimes things are gendered. It doesn’t always have to be some egalitarian crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:42 PM
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I’d still say that there’s still a higher percentage of larger girls active on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:09 PM
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Dude has big “scaring the maidens energy.” Don’t be a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:24 AM
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Insert 50/50 argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:07 AM
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If you hate trees JUST SAY SO 💅🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:56 PM
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I’ve read bell hooks, I know women uphold toxic masculinity. But again, painting it in that light does not do the previously mentioned fact justice. It feels like sidestepping. Which is another reason that term is basura
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:38 PM
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A woman shaming a man for being vulnerable is not “toxic masculinity” I know you didn’t mean to cus it sounds like you’re being genuine. But it just comes off on avoiding accountability, or badly misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:23 PM
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AND a scholar!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:21 PM
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I fucking chortled. Good job OP. I do indeed choose the tree 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:30 PM
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Ooh, I know EXACTLY the kind of relationship you’re describing. But I rarely actually see it in real life unless there’s a HUGE discrepancy in attractiveness or wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:25 PM
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But this is mostly due to her own selection bias. Hypergamy and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:19 PM
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Wait there’s a fourth 6 I need to achieve?!? Fuck yall keep changing the standard. What do they stand for again? 6 figs- 6’ tall -6 pack, 6” dick? Lmao only two of those are actually in our control
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:31 PM
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Yes. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:30 PM
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I feel like this comment is made in bad faith. Women OFTEN eviscerate men they aren’t attracted too for failing in the dating zone. Gay, incel, dusty, etc, are just some of the insults that are commonly used. Atleast be honest with yourself for the sake of the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:43 PM
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Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:43 AM
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I don’t share the same aversion towards hormonal birth control as you but I do agree. Although I can’t imagine someone pulling out while wearing a condom 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:56 PM
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Just making sure that emergency contraception is still on the table because it’s easy to say “just use condoms” but condoms fail regularly in which having a backup contraception is extremely important
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:27 PM
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So what kind of birth control do you use? Everybody should bring their own and I don’t think I’d date a woman who’d leave contraception solely up to the man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:10 PM
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High level of comfort, lack of distractions for her to hyperfixate on, someone she’s attracted too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:28 PM
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The first step is acceptance. Now what young padawan
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:10 AM
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So you self sabotaged to see if he cares about your appearance and then got offended when you found out he did
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:41 PM
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This is precisely why a lot of the men who have achieved that female standard have fallen back on “well now you have to share” implicitly. Especially considering the lack of supposedly “suitable” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:38 PM
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I consider myself a non-traditional/modern man. I expect my woman to keep a job unless she’s pregnant or our kid is younger than preschool age My sexual proclivities are pretty standard for a dominant male I don’t expect my girl to cook or clean more than me, but when I was cohabitating I expected the first person home to start dinner She can dress however she wants I’m not particularly possessive. If she wants to be with me she will, it’s her choice. I’m affectionate, loving, and giving, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:35 PM
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Best blowies. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:22 PM
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Semi recently divorced here. I feel like we understand our needs for connection and intimacy, but after already devoting so much time and energy to the previous relationship, we’re fighting tooth and nail to protect our autonomy. Not to mention companionship isn’t that hard to find in the age of the internet, so we’re way less willing to compromise. I feel like being in a LTR opened my eyes to the truth at the end of the tunnel. The seven year itch, restlessness, staying out of obligation, etc, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:03 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:14 AM
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Lmao well put
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:13 AM
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Not attacking you personally, rather the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:11 AM
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Then just stay single, yall seem to enjoy it so much. The men aren’t approaching anymore, adapt or go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:11 PM
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I guess I could see how that could be misconstrued.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:13 PM
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I do think an inevitable reality of monogamy is that you will eventually have sex when you’re not enthusiastic about it to please your partner, I.e duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:53 PM
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You do your laundry several times a week? Lmao And clearly the gutters are just a single example of unpaid / unappreciated labor. But you’ve already shown that you don’t value it so I don’t know what else there is to talk to you about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:44 PM
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I don’t think most people (notably men) want a neutral partner when it comes to sex. Neutrality doesn’t convey desire, which is a main draw for either of the sexes in intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:42 PM
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If you want to go on being influenced by every sensationalist think piece buzzfeed releases as if it’s gospel then by all means have at it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:18 PM
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But I don’t think anyone is characterizing a single no habitual denial of needs. It’s when it becomes constant denial that people start bitching. (Dead beds and whatnot)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:43 PM
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Giving women orgasms may not be rocket science but there’s a reason it was a myth for centuries until the modern world. Healthy normal women can even have trouble giving themselves orgasms, so I wouldn’t place the blame squarely on male incompetence. And there’s nothing wrong with operating from your own frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:41 PM
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I’m not trolling but I don’t feel the need to put some consent disclaimer before I make a statement. If some shmuck reading this takes it as a blanket statement to objectify people they don’t have intimate relationships with, I’m not going to make myself responsible for educating them. But anyway, I think if we’re at the point in a relationship where we’re offering each other duty sex then consensual objectification has already been projected on each other. I might even argue that duty sex is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:12 PM
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How much does a partner have to consent to being objectified? If we think about a husband grabbing his wife’s ass in passing then maybe it’s easy to visualize. But what about a woman’s objectification of her husband as being Mr. Fix It-Supreme decision/provider/protector/bestfriend/sexual brute/manual labor Daddy? You could argue those are roles women frequently objectify men as. None of which really actively require his consent. They’re archetype idealistic expectations that we cast on each oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:09 PM
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But even in those instances do you think duty and obligation are going to be enough for your partner to accept a life of (near) celibacy? Or is opening a relationship suddenly understandable in the face of society at that point. Of course I know these things will depend on the individual at this point, but it does beg the question, how much is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:05 PM
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I don’t believe the nonsense that those blog think piece articles are perpetuating. Main source of income doesn’t mean both parties aren’t working full time, it just means one person makes disproportionally more than the other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:59 PM
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Which is totally understandable. But at what point is that denial TOO much? I think any sane man can understand not being in the mood. But if I’ve asked 6 times in two weeks and it’s still a no, then what’s the recourse? I’ll never forget when my ex told me that I would be having as much as she wanted to have. Which is essentially the control that monogamy puts in place. We split for other reasons (not sexual incompatibility, we were just fighting that day) but it did make me really consider whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:46 PM
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Because we approach sex from the only perspective we have experience with. The female orgasm is much more mentally rooted than the male orgasm is, so naturally we’d have difficulty giving women them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:44 PM
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So he’s working making money to outsource the unpaid labor. Just like she outsourced the dishes to the dishwasher. And the laundry to the washing machine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:56 PM
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But this is exactly the truth that society doesn’t want to accept. Especially as women’s sex drive (with the same man) drops DRAMATICALLY in an LTR. From a man’s perspective that’s when it’s time to jump ship and try again with a new maiden. But from a woman’s perspective that’s when she wants him around to be a reliable pseudo-father. No wonder women are anxious and men are commitment phobic if left to their natures. It’s a shit deal and we keep trying to pitch sale to the opposite side that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:55 PM
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Because sometimes I WANT my partner to be a fancy flashlight ffs. Do I have to humanize them every single moment of everyday? Objectification is sexy in moderation imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:51 PM
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The body is designed to ejaculate the same way it’s designed to eat, shit, and piss. Why would depriving yourself of a natural body function be seen as weak? You would never keep that same energy for sleep, for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:44 PM
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Are you married? Do you expect your partner to masturbate every time you’re not in the mood? How many masturbation tokens do they have to accept before it’s incompatibility and we’re considering divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:42 PM
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Sex naturally becomes obligative in a long term monogamous relationship. Both partners can’t be on the same page, all the time, forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:41 PM
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Because if hes a viable partner but is a bachelor, he’s not engaging with women in a way that fits their agenda = useless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:24 PM
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Literally the running joke in female spaces is focused around being “delulu” And then you’re going to say the men are full of shit for asking the women to deal with the reality of their circumstances? You’re basically gaslighting us at this point. Stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:38 PM
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This is by far NOT true. Stop projecting. All men don’t have “significant emotional baggage.” Personally I might, but I know a few men who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:30 PM
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This is by far NOT true. Stop projecting. All men don’t have “significant emotional baggage.” Personally I might, but I know a few men who do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:28 PM
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You see how your response has gotten 0 responses? Precisely the lack of accountability they mens are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:19 PM
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Probably because women get on forums, lie and virtue signal their asses off. Often for the approval of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:51 AM
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Because the women sound unbelievably emotionally immature. I know those women exist, but not in the numbers some people here make them out to be. So you’re willing to believe that there are hoardes of loser unmotivated men, but there are only a tiny subset of women who are emotionally immature? This is what lack of accountability looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:44 AM
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Learning from your mistakes =/= admitting you made a mistake. Once you make it past step 1, then we can talk about step 2
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:40 AM
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It’s because the initial response of the “women rejecting relationships” era was tell the men to make more friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:03 AM
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Let them (us) eat cake then! It’s delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:24 PM
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I mean… I had a 24 year old last Halloween for a ONS. Be handsome, have a personality, don’t be broke or gross. It’s not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:00 PM
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Going in for a kiss? Sexual flirting? Intimate touching? Touching in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:34 PM
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Exactly, I was about to say I’ve never heard from women that dating women is EASY. In fact it’s generally accepted to be more difficult than dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 11:32 PM
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And who may I ask is setting the law on what constitutes an “adult” hobby? I’ll make sure I appeal to this court regarding the status of Bobs funko collection. Also good job ramping up the language with “act of violence” to exaggerate my point. Controlling and gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:38 PM
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Nah, just sounds like a woman trying to justify being judgemental and controlling. I hope your partners fill out the proper acceptance forms for any sort of interest he may have so everyone can make sure it’s to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:14 AM
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So he can only enjoy things that you approve of. takes more notes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:11 PM
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You don’t have to share finances just because you’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:10 PM
2

Ugly people aren’t fucking disgusting? wtf is wrong with you. Beautiful people can be gross. Or is English not your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:48 AM
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Gross is a circumstance of habit, ugly is something you’re born with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:55 AM
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Don’t enjoy things takes notes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:52 AM
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Ugly = \ = gross. Cmon yall are conflating hard. He’s ugly, rich and unattached. That’s the point. Stop adding other adjectives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:24 PM
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Good thing he can do something about being old or ugly, like those aren’t immutable traits of individual humans
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:19 PM
2

What in your opinion are 40 year old women who aren’t married that travel a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:06 PM
1

Gotta be cool too dude. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:04 PM
2

You keep saying “pay” for. You realize you can’t just buy a woman from Stop n Shop right? Even if you were to sugar daddy yourself an LTR with a hot bimbo, the relationship might end up viciously shallow at best and abusive at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:41 PM
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A woman has to lust for a man to fall in love regardless. If he isn’t a slob and has a history of taking care of himself then yes. She will “lust after him”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:39 PM
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I know a hot girl that ended up with a handsome dude in his 40s. But he was handsome to start with, and they were in a “smaller midwestern city”. It’s worth noting the island theory works for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:37 PM
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Best I can do is about three fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:33 PM
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Time to flip the script boys. I want money, labor, and cuddles/sex from women. If she ain’t financing, feeding, and fucking me. I don’t want her!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:28 PM
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You realize this is a debate sub right? Not a feel good, hyper positivity chamber. The whole point is to defend your assertion. Trying to weasel out of criticism by saying “oh it’s just relative to me” is not going to get you sympathy or even support here. You’re being intellectually dishonest at best
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:20 AM
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Clubs suck and the women there are generally stuck up ( or just there to dance with her friends)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:31 AM
1

I replied to OP which is the post above mine. You and I are in agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:12 AM
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Most of the MGTOW were full monk, basically only agreeing to be cordial with women in society and not much more beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:40 PM
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Lmao, the desire to distance yourself from the gender equivalent movement is kinda telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:39 PM
1

+5 to this!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:37 PM
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Because it implies picking a partner that is anything less than perfect (which is not human) is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:11 PM
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Only the desperate would want those things.. So making some grand statement about rather being single than desperate isn’t some sort of big deal worth debating..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:31 AM
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This is absolutely not what settling means in the current dating zeitgeist. And honestly makes the post a bit dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:29 AM
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Heterosexual M/F relationships are delicate. Because most of the time someone is crushing on the other. They work best when: It is explicitly stated EARLY that their relationship is platonic and will not progress romantically (adult proximity relationships, think work friends) Or They have been through a lot together that could have included romance at a time, but split amicably. But the experiences have bonded them in a way more resilient than romantically. (College friends etc) If I’m out on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:00 PM
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The caveat is anything/anyone gets boring after you adjust to it. Ex: the honeymoon stage. Short term relationships are best way for men to protect their own happiness while enjoying the company of womenfolk
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:24 PM
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Personally, I love the streets. It’s where all the other dogs live ♥️ No but OP is nuts, most women are not dating abusers, regardless of what the outcome of the relationship is. I WILL say though that there seems to be a large overcorrection in terms of what constitutes as “emotional abuse”, “gaslighting”, or “controlling” as these terms get watered down and thrown around in the zeitgeist. I’d say the same thing counts for “simping”. As these terms generally have nebulous connotations that are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:11 PM
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Lmao. I’d like to think I’m a non-traditional cisman who cares less about body count as long as it’s not something crazy gross. But the idea that we should be cool with our partners fucking within our inner circle is asinine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:57 AM
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And what you’re describing is a man that has weak emotional boundaries, so much that he’s accept a relationship with a woman that his friends have had sex with. Learn to love yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:54 AM
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Ok admittedly the situation you’re describing is NOT normal, nor is it sustainable. And this is coming from a guy who’s had sex with female friends before. Your presence naturally will put a strain on any relationships they have in the future. Not to say they can’t deal with it, but it will definitely perpetually create tension. Don’t try and gaslight homie by telling shits normal, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:52 AM
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Hold on I’m not sure what you’re saying. Do you support the idea that sex is fun and recreational? What’s the opposing viewpoint in this statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:02 PM
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Women can have all the standards they wish and owe you nothing. If you want a partner, it is on YOU to attract someone, not on them to owe you what you want from them. But see, here is the disconnect. Because a woman that wants a man is socially discouraged to not play into the desire to attract him by conforming to his standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:32 AM
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Oh cmon. If you’re here it’s a reasonable expectation that you like to argue about pointless shit incessantly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:29 AM
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I mean, I’m a guy that is reasonably successful with women and I do kinda agree with OPs premise. My solution (at this point in time in my life) is just to avoid commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:06 AM
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So wait, you’re only going to bag as hot as you actively chase after? Cus you might be right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:02 AM
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I’m going to go on and say this is certifiably untrue. Most women, if they like you, will go out of their way to do sweet and cute things for you ranging from gifts, unprompted blowies, and just general acts of love for the object of their desire. (Think hand written notes) It’s literally one of the best parts about being loved by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:34 AM
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Children are overrated 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 01:04 AM
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Absolutely, I just know it pisses a bunch of people off, so I try not to outright say: “hypergamy exists, deal with it women/men!” because it’s wont lead to a productive conversation” (this is the internet, who am I kidding?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:48 PM
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Absolutely, I just know it pisses a bunch of people off, so I try not to outright say: “hypergamy exists, deal with it women/men because it’s wont lead to a productive conversation” (this is the internet, who am I kidding?)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:47 PM
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You’d be much less likely to sleep with Bob the bank manager regardless of whether he’s promising a tangible return (of a relationship or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:33 PM
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You’re the common denominator. Develop some self respect and eject those bitches when they raise their voice at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:40 AM
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I don’t identify as RP so I don’t have that particular chip on my shoulder. 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:32 AM
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Hmm I guess I’d agree somewhat, in that yes: women settle for less attractive men than they’ve been with (mostly because those men were never going to commit to them in the first place OR were too toxic to maintain a healthy LTR with) to the former I argue, is that really settling? Or were you punching above your weight to begin with. But assuming that she is still society climbing mindsetted, or looking for “a provider” (shudder) then I’d argue that any man she picks is already above her level,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:40 PM
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I think I understand your question, to which I’d say: I’d say settling is not about who you’ve dated in the past, but who you are choosing to commit to in that moment relative to yourself. Not necessarily your past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:25 PM
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So yes. You’re saying that in a society that is hypergamous that men are settling by default, because they are “worth less”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:49 PM
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I don’t necessarily think I missed the point. But I think you listed (or pointed to the fact that) men are looking for the bare minimum in their partners. I’m asserting that a man of means shouldn’t have to settle for the bare minimum, and that whether money or status adds or not would need to be considered if we’re going to say that the two are on equal footing for a relationship. Women are constantly saying that they’d like to be valued for more than just their appearance. This is that, and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:41 PM
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Oof, it’s great that you’re happy with someone that loves you. But I can’t imagine that criticism feels great. If the roles were reversed I’m sure she’d have developed a massive insecurity around it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:35 PM
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Yes. Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 01:34 PM
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12 years old and I’ve still accomplished more in life than you could ever fathom. Go read a book
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:54 AM
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So basically men should raise their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:54 AM
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Just because he doesn’t think it’s true, doesn’t negate its truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:52 AM
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You mad sis? Lmao go suck a faucet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:46 AM
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I hear that. And I’d agree, most sane people do marry for love and butterflies and the honeymoon periods. Those people should stay FAR away from the social media gender wars, lest they ruin their own relationships. But 🤷🏾‍♂️, here we are in PPD hell. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:45 AM
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Practically if only men 'dated down' then the best women and worse men would be perpetually single. I think we can already say this is happening right now. Men beneath a certain threshold are having a terrible go at dating (assumedly, I’m not personally in this basket thank god). And the top women are all “single by choice” (because they can’t find a man that lives up to their standards) More likely I believe this thinking comes from men overvaluing men, to the point they see a mens worth as inh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:39 AM
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Honestly I’d argue that with the exception of trad-men, men only marry when under duress. (Accidental pregnancy/ shotgun style) in which case he absolutely is marrying down (assumedly)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:33 AM
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Maybe, but I’d say what a man values in a woman is rapidly changing just as women’s expectations of men are changing. If suddenly men started valuing a woman’s ambition against her attractiveness (and against his own ambition/attractiveness) I can’t think of a situation where he wouldn’t be considered hypergamous. And in that case then what happens? If a man is not willing to date his equal, but instead continues to increase his own value. It’s not an impossible premise, and really only is based…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:32 AM
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I’d say in this instance the woman is settling because she can increase her socioeco status over time by accumulating wealth (with or without divorce) so over time she can absolutely be hot and rich, where the short ugly dude can never increase value in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:29 AM
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There is no right or wrong. It’s a discussion. Take your saltiness somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 02:24 AM
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The whole point is supposed to be a discussion. If you’re going to get mad that I asked you to expand on a point that could have been worth exploring, why post in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:51 PM
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I’m just using it as defined: the desire to date and marry above one’s socioeconomic class. But in this case expanded to finance, looks, status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:31 PM
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No, they cannot. They can certainly try, but through the reality of individualism and “gender traitors” they’d never be able to enforce some sort of cross cultural sex strike. It’s just unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:30 PM
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This is interesting. Can you speak more to this point? What's necessarily true in the assumption of women hypergamy is that 'equal' value is impossible. So maybe don't hold so tight to that idea of hypergamy if you are a 7 and think a 5 is beneath you because you will necessarily be wrong by your own premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:29 PM
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Because the current cultural expectations and the “price of sex” is so low, women would never be able to enforce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:19 PM
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I chuckled
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:12 PM
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Because they want justification in learning how to be an asshole to women for pussy Don’t seek validation kings, just be toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:23 PM
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Most guys aren’t basement dwelling virgins that have never had women interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:49 AM
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Ok, cool 👌🏾 Never happened, water under the bridge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:48 AM
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Are you saying that women is mass amount are not spouting some version of “men are useless?” Are we just going to gaslight and act like “men are trash” wasn’t a hyper popular trending phase from 2020-2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:25 PM
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This narrative is bullshit and we need to stop parroting it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:24 PM
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Cutting lawn is men’s original therapy. THEN THEY TOOK IT FROM US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:21 PM
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Can attest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:07 PM
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No, they just blanket state: “Men are useless”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:33 PM
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Don’t internalize the media
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:28 AM
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But then who will we argue with 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:05 AM
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A wife is just a thot with a ring
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:03 PM
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There’s a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:06 PM
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I mean, to the bi point. There’s absolutely a different standard of expectations that women have for dating men vs dating other women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:33 PM
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👏🏾 Everyday we get closer to acknowledging that women don’t actually love men. But the day it becomes accepted is the day society crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:19 PM
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👏🏾 Everyday we get closer to acknowledging that women don’t actually love men. But the day it becomes accepted is the day society crumbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 11:18 PM
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Men and women’s dating strategies and goals are at odds with each other. There will never be peace, only violence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:19 PM
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With enough eye contact and subtle cute jokes, you’ll get fucked too. Just like the rest. Just like the guys that fall for Stacy and simp out, then get left on read for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:17 PM
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Then why are we marrying with the implication that it does?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:13 AM
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Or dissolve the institution of marriage altogether? Why promise lifelong love if they shouldn’t have to deliver on it. Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:34 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_seven-year_itch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:33 PM
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IDK bout plenty… have you ever tasted poop? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:12 PM
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I won’t base my principles on solely what makes women happy Good good.. because as you can see with the traditional demands and expectations that liberal feminist women have for men, Uh oh… while expecting not to equally give back and wanting me to shut up regardless of their demands or treatment, it’s not really a good idea to abide by. Here we are again. All women have different standards. All cultures have different standards of what tradition means. And some women will pick and choose what w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah, as you mature as a man you will (hopefully) eventually stop basing your principles on what makes women happy. Because what’s in their best interest may not be in yours. You don’t need women, but it is up to you to figure out what you need in order to feel secure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:57 PM
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I also know how to ask better questions that give more information than “how many people have you fucked” I’d rather know “what was the longest time you spent in a relationship” and “what are your parents like”. Wedding a virgin isn’t some cheat code to a happy wife that will never want to leave you. Trust me, I was dating/engaged to one for over 9 years. It was that same lack of experience that did the relationship in at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:55 PM
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I mean you are absolutely correct. His experience is valid. But it lacks nuance or field testing and is heavy on the self victimization. Imma edit this post later with a decent response. 19 is too young to settle into this mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:52 PM
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You wouldn’t believe the amount of women I meet that immediately screen for the body count question because other men are actively asking about it. It’s way more prevalent than you think. Also Idgaf about body count and I tell them. Always goes over well, sometimes extra well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:13 PM
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Cmon, you don’t really believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:11 PM
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Intentionally might I add
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:25 AM
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Ok so arguing from the perspective of a SAHM isn’t adding genuine context. And the same thing goes for the other user too. On topic: acts of service stop being romantic once you start living with your partner. They instead become routine and necessary. This instantly romance out of the equation. Romance has to be a unique gesture given freely of yourself. It can’t be out of duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:45 PM
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Changing a name I’d say is the pinnacle of romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:39 PM
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Y’all cherry picking and getting off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:11 PM
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I swear to god. None of y’all are actually SAHWives or 100% provider husbands in PPD. So stop arguing about hypotheticals and describe and prescribe from your own situations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:10 PM
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Holy shit, I haven’t heard the term “oneitis” in years. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:29 PM
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Good catch. Edited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:50 AM
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Overfamiliarity. Once she’s secured him he’s not shiny anymore. Women tend to get bored of their partners faster than the other way around. No amount of “high value man” bullshit can combat this. And the longer she feels entrapped by her feelings the more resentment she’ll develop before creating a “legitimate” reason for leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:08 AM
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Because marriage is rendered unnecessary and outdated in a feminist society
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:33 AM
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The dirty secret is that “top men” become “average men” once the woman secures him. The whole “average” and “top” distinction is really immaterial. The distinction is not as solid as the forums online would lead you to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:32 AM
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Maybe they’re at home with the cats. And the dudes are at the bar with the beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:10 PM
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For every man you see alone during the holidays a woman is alone too. Not sure why you gendered loneliness. Also your chart is a red herring. There’s exponentially less people getting married altogether, so of course the divorce rate is dropping. Nobody’s getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:54 PM
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No, not getting married on an individual level is not enough to reset the scales between the genders. The female narrative on marriage is naïve and destructive The male narrative on marriage is outdated and destructive. The government has no business codifying a relationship. Women aren’t property and supposedly fair better unmarried. So instead we keep telling men that marriage is good for them so that the marriage industrial complex doesn’t collapse. Marriage isn’t good for men, or atleast mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:32 PM
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Even if you get those things, you’ll be an absolute emotional wreck for years to come and leave a wake of broken hearted women in your path. Just don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:28 PM
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Mulaney is great. Divorce is inevitable. Don’t get married
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:23 PM
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We warn women about their husbands killing them all the time. How is that fear any more unfounded than OP’s? It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:21 PM
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This is a poor metaphor and you know it You know getting married and subsequently divorced is nothing like randomly getting hit by a fucking truck. It’s more like your spouse is waiting for you to cross the street before they hit you with it. I really love how women are quick to say “don’t get married then” as if they aren’t applying pressure to their mates to do so, for no reason besides bragging rights among their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:19 PM
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That's not statically the issue. Would love to see your sourcing on how they can't afford child support but also chose to create a child to support. Maybe they should invest in condoms or a vasectomy if they can't afford to make those decisions. You’re being intellectually dishonest. You know a man does not choose to create a child. Plenty of things can happen in order to create a child without consent of the father. Including “I changed my mind”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:16 PM
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Honestly, bro.. Fuck marriage. We need to dismantle the institution
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:07 PM
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I think y’all are selling the average man short. If you’re going on dates from OLD, or can score a number on a night out, then you need to be weeding out unsuitable women. Have some self respect and tell those skanks to kick rocks if they aren’t up to snuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:04 PM
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Rules for thee, not for mee
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:54 PM
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Not until you get used to it. When it’s new and novel it’s not a chore sure. But LTR’s are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:53 PM
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All women are asking is build some meaningful connection with your woman prior to sex. Takes like 10 minutes. Don't just go "Me want sex. Give sex now!" after days of neglect and then be surprised she isn't into it. I read your entire post and truly emphasize, but we can’t act like it’s so cut and dry that the male partner isn’t trying to build connection, especially in LTR. So often women in LTR’s just get bored of their partner and eventually unappreciative of the effort to connect he’s making…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:46 PM
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If you have an abundance of options, you NEED to weed out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:10 PM
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Men who accept women who are below their own level move differently too. My argument is, if the women are punching above their weight by having standards that they themselves cannot adhere too. The men they pick will always move as if she’s an option, not a centerpiece. Nobody’s happy in this scenario. It’s a lose/lose. You realize if a woman is overvaluing herself, then it’s the man who’s settling. Why wouldn’t he also move differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:46 PM
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(Other times they’re rewarded for divorce)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:30 PM
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Unaware of what exactly? Your premise is basically that men should never trust their feelings in women and should expect the worst out of their relationships with women who should care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:29 PM
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That’s fine. If my destiny is to be settled for, dumped and divorced. Then your destiny is to be non-committed, non-monogamous, and casual. There is no middle ground. Women with too high a standard won’t get picked for marriage by the men they want. No emotional security for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:27 PM
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Your photo doesn’t even have their weights listed. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:19 AM
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This is a gross misunderstanding of how weight distribution, height, and muscle density work on humans in GENERAL. Not to mention how much a woman’s weight fluctuates depending on her cycle. You have no clue what you’re talking about bromie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:18 AM
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It’s funny because Paul Dolan’s research also indirectly supports RedPill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:13 PM
1

I believe the crime you’re looking for is libel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:09 PM
1

Atleast one? Or maybe they just rejected without engaging with the bait profile
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:08 PM
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Blue pill does not really have any underlying thesis besides “redpill is wrong”. Blue pill is at best a reactionary movement to redpill and only exists to refute redpill theories. In short blue pill has no real substance, or rhetoric to give to men. That’s why there is no “BluePill” subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:05 PM
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I don’t believe that nonsense. Mostly because if it weren’t convenient that marriage benefits men. Otherwise the institution would crumble
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:57 AM
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Women you’re sleeping with /dating expect to be treated like royalty. Cue the entitlement alarms. Normal women on the street expect to be treated like human beings. This goes double for unattractive women. And they deserve to be treated with respect and class as you u would any other human. I’m not sure what your CMV argument is here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:46 PM
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Yeah so when your dirty granny panties has a skid mark what’s your excuse? You’re just finding excuses to bitch because you’re in control of the laundry. Also you won’t find empathy for your period spotting, who cares what you can’t control. We’re not arguing about whether you can control it or not. We’re arguing about dealing with gross shit from the other gender. Don’t throw stones in a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:12 AM
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Does that mean that those men can’t tell the difference between an aroused vulva vs a non aroused vulva? Whether he watches porn or not is unrelated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:10 AM
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Maybe but his target audience are women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:09 AM
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Because it is. And there is basically no security in marriage. Not to mention, generally the chick is leaving with some sort of consolation prize in the form of money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:07 AM
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Pretty sure I don’t see men trending “Delulu is the solulu” https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwN28i3Oo89/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.instagram.com/reel/CyeA-AyJN4K/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:01 AM
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Gross generalization that you came to after arguing with teenagers online
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:55 AM
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Men just don’t bitch and moan about their partners intimates. Anybody that’s ever done a woman’s laundry understands that skid marks aren’t fucking gendered. But period spotting sure is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:52 AM
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Maybe they aren’t cheating but the men are. Hence the “are we dating the same person forums”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:25 PM
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It honestly makes for a better story imo. MC’s villain arc, chasing redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:42 PM
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So you’re saying you didn’t watch the cour 2 finale? Stacy dumps Simon, Simon becomes bitter incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:06 PM
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Viagra is better than any natural erection. Sorry that’s just how performance enhancing drugs work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:37 AM
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Strip us of individualism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:36 AM
2

I don’t expect the “good women” to change the “bad women”. I just learn to avoid them. Maybe y’all should do the same :p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:41 PM
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Sounds like a generic term for any man that does something she doesn’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:38 PM
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Oh cmon, don’t be that way.. 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:19 AM
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Wonder why the saying goes “men age like wine and women age like milk” I don’t normally bring up bullshit sayings like that, but y’all trying me today lol. Also I’m not surprised considering I’m replying to someone who’s constantly bragging about ghosting some pro-athlete as if anybody gives a shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:46 PM
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Lmao you sound unhinged for a simple response to my comment. Oh I'm sorry, do you fuck men? Is this evidence coming from personal experience or.....? Yeah, I’m a man. And I’ve used viagra recreationally in my 20s. And I can tell you from experience that a medically induced erection is stronger than any natural erection, teenage or otherwise. Because I do…..I've been with plenty of men 35+ and they're not all great lovers. If by the time you're 27, you're not hot and you're not fucking good, you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:12 PM
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Viagra > 20 y.o dick and stamina can be maintained with proper fitness. Not to mention generally older men fuck better due to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:57 PM
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I’m more worried about the power and intensity of sex toys for women and how they raise the orgasm standard high enough that no penis can contend with. That fucking 🌹 is a cheat code. At some point the dude just becomes a sex toy holder..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:49 PM
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Fucking git gud women 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:48 PM
2

Or he’s doing the cucking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:55 PM
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It’s the women who will deny it. The men know, because we talk to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:55 PM
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Their* Also all of their picks are suuuper white, and like literally two Asian dudes. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:40 AM
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So here’s something I think I struggle with. “Being interesting” lmao I’ve got a ton of hobbies, a interesting career, and I’m well read and opinionated. I can start a convo and small/big talk with the best of them. But that doesn’t prevent the glazed eyes when I engage hotties. And I can even attest that I’m guilty of it myself. My attention span is just so fucking short because there’s 1000 things going on at once, especially when I’ve got 3 drinks in me at the lounge. As usual I want to blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:04 AM
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I try and make a point to compliment and talk to unattractive women. Compliments don’t have to be fake or have ulterior motives besides making someone else’s day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:43 AM
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Oh my god dude.. TELL ME ABOUT IT. It’s like the women leftover in the pool are SO entitled I immediately want to do nothing for/with them. It’s ridiculous. Truly the biggest poison I blame on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:47 PM
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34 here. Same predicament. Plus being single and childless and taken care of, it’s hard to find a woman that actually deserves the kind of man I am now after being polished
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:39 PM
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Don’t even start with that bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:04 PM
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NHANES 2016 statistics showed that about 39.6% of American adults were obese. Men had an age-adjusted rate of 37.9% and Women had an age-adjusted rate of 41.1%. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#:~:text=NHANES%202016%20statistics%20showed%20that,%2Dadjusted%20rate%20of%2041.1%25.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:27 AM
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I deserve better 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:12 AM
0

How so
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:59 PM
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I double agree with this. Simply because I refuse to date women who share the same hobby classes with me for the same reason I don’t date co-workers/neighbors/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:34 PM
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I used to go to yoga in college. But being the only man besides the instructor, other classmates were largely not sociable (atleast to me, or seemingly each other) so I used to stand front and center facing the instructor. No distractions that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:32 PM
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I think he’s saying TRP ideas are censored on the actual TRP sub, which is correct as that sub has been nuked years ago for being a incel breeding ground
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:07 PM
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I thought the OG-TRP had gotten quarantined a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:07 PM
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A lot of TRP facts are half truths Touch grass sir
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:51 PM
0

Not for long. We’re vetoing now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:21 PM
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it’s that a lot of guys want to be treated like they’re elite. Even when they aren’t in reality. Guys simply want to be put in the same kind of pedestal that they put their women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:51 PM
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It does, but only the truly sick are treating a sex toy like a partner. Which is the comparison you made
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:12 PM
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Same thing visa versa. You can withhold sex. But that doesn’t mean men have to stay in a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:12 PM
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Or just let him fuck other women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:17 PM
2

Time to come to terms and abolish marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:15 PM
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So don’t change it. We’re both entitled to our wants, but when asked women to compromise on this sort of thing the answer is always “it doesn’t work that way!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:15 PM
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So let us fuck other women while you sort your shit out. Then when you’re ready we’ll happily oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:12 PM
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Finally someone that isn’t gaslighting me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:08 PM
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Nah, if you’re fucking a blowup doll it’s still masturbation. You can’t tell me fucking a carrot isn’t because it’s something resembling a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:49 PM
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Because we shame men for wanting to fuck things other than women. (Meanwhile chicks are hanging vegetables, door handles, machines, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:25 PM
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I mean, I’d date her. I just wouldn’t expect to ever be serious about her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:29 PM
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“There is some comfort to be had: most people – regardless of gender – do not leave their partners when they get sick. In a 2015 paper, researchers tracked 2,701 marriages using a study on health and retirement and watched what happened when someone became unwell during a marriage: only 6% of cases ended in divorce.” But of the people that do divorce, most are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:39 PM
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This isn’t true. Men will just friendzone you and if you’re not worth it physically keep you there forever. Definitely not hanging a 6 just because I’m lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:39 AM
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Can I see the source of those quoted statistics? Wouldn’t want to spread misinformation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:35 PM
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I’m not in the group described, but thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:22 AM
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You would prefer those men die alone? Or rather you don’t care about what happens to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:57 AM
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Untrue. Sex releases dopamine and if you’re thrashing it right then those bonding hormones are going to have her/him on you like glue. From there it’s on you not to fuck it up. Handsome/beauty only truely works initially because you become used to it and eventually desensitized to its attraction. There’s a reason the saying goes “show me a beautiful woman, and I’ll show you a man that’s tired of fucking her”. It’s the same thing, except a man will cheat, whereas a woman will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:22 AM
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Yeah but all men know once you get it, it loses it’s specialness. Like catching a snowflake in the palm of your hand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:02 AM
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It’s not. Trust me, am man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:58 AM
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Fucking isn’t enough to keep score. Stay in your lane. Preggerz or it doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:55 AM
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I mean as a man if you’re keeping score and living in a transactional situation AND you expect your wife to drop some fucking kids you better be prepared to lose. Or get pegged idk, I’m being facetious. But still
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:32 AM
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The difference is that your dad never became disillusioned with his role in your lives. Or started hating your mother for hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:13 AM
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Goddamn liars
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:12 AM
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She carried and birthed your baby jackass. checkmate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:11 AM
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I think the overfamiliarity might be husbands not putting their weight on the household. If you see someone not picking up their clothes, telling them to do stuff because they don't do it by themselves, not taking care of their appareance, etc. The attractiveness is going to die. Really hard to want to fuck someone who you feel like a mother to. husbands Again, this tells me that you don’t understand the topic as I posted it. You cannot blame “husbands” either use the gender neutral term partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:21 PM
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I shamelessly titled the post that way to be provocative, much like how Dolan’s work was editorialized to rile people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:41 PM
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A lot of what you said here is true and backed up by other data not listed explicitly in the post. Particularly about gay men and open relationships vs lesbian women. My conclusion is that the only two styles of relationships that seem worthy of acceptance is: open marriages with no expectation of monogamy (longer lasting) or serial monogamy with no expectation of lifelong commitment (more passionate?) Both seem fundamentally incompatible with (heterosexual) ideas around marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:30 PM
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To who?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:56 PM
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Thanks for being able to grasp what I was getting at. I may have been provocative in the title but I’m really trying to describe how our institutions line up with “nature”. Idk about shaming each other since we know that doesn’t work. But we should keep instructions that are in line with how we behave I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:43 PM
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You keep going back to husband, this husband that. This post is not centered on men. It’s centered on women. Women and their partners irrespective of gender. Do you know any divorced lesbians? What are their descriptions of marriage or why it fell apart? Until you can come to terms with the topic of discussion then your answers will always be off base.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:47 PM
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I mean the topic of debate is “women’s nature is not built for lifelong monogamy (marriage) due to these reasons.” You went on some sort of tangent instead of actually responding. What’s your age? Respectfully? Have you ever lived with a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:29 PM
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You’re hung up on men’s actions during marriage. Look at the same sex statistics to remove men’s agency from the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:40 AM
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Marry a woman then, see if there are any differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:19 AM
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Negative sentiment override lmao. I might need to take that one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:18 AM
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I’m the OP.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:50 AM
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Robin Thicke is arguably attractive so is Brad Pitt, and Michael B Jordan. All going through public divorces or breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:30 AM
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This is lazy. Attractive men get divorced all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 AM
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The ol caretaker argument. I know thee well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:50 AM
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So basically, women don't like themselves. And it tracks because none of them ever really have big egos. The hottest girl will never have my ego and i'm just some bumbling idiot. Chill. I think women are just more difficult to satisfy in LTRs regardless of the gender of their partners. Then when paired with marriage they default to leaving more often than men, even across same sex relationships. Love yourselves a little more, ladies Chill, this ain’t productive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:44 AM
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Cmon I didn’t even imply that. I said women get overfamiliar with their partners and lose attraction to them. Then they miss the attraction they felt in the past and seek it in new partners. If we conflate monogamy and marriage. Women are not good for lifelong commitment. It seems like the two choices are: relationship structures that favor some form of non-monogamy (like gay men), or serial non-lifelong monogamy (like gay women). Neither of these structures I think are worth the institution of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:34 AM
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Instead I think they’ll get blind sighted as sex would prove a less useful metric to measure connection in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:29 AM
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There is no victim, I’m trying to be objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:17 AM
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How do you explain WlW relationship data?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:15 AM
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Ok. Fair enough. The base of the post is focused on how overfamiliarity with a female partner leads to a natural decline in responsiveness and eventually emotional disconnection and divorce. If you don’t want to use sex as a metric to measure happiness in a marriage what do you suggest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:06 AM
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It’s also worth noting that women even have trouble meeting women’s needs in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:01 AM
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What you just described is why marriage as an institution is bullshit. It’s unnatural and doesn’t have a place in an idealized society where we’re honest about our desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:42 AM
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Show me where, because I feel like you’re misreading the entire argument
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:03 AM
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I know the topic is charged and the title may have triggered you. But I didn’t say any of those things in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:22 AM
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Cmon, being critical of the genders is the whole point of PPD. I don’t hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:05 AM
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Well. I’m trying to say that if we use sex as a metric to measure how we respond to our partners. Over time we get used to our partners and they’re no longer as exciting as they once were. From there overexposure to each other removes the magic of relationships. Women in general will choose to divorce in long term relationships, as opposed to men who will work it out. Divorce is coded as bad, it’s a failure of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:19 PM
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Because the assertion is less about sex and more about long term partnership. I.e: marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:58 PM
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Say less 💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:41 PM
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I think the cultural differences are the exact thing I’m trying to highlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:39 PM
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I mean I don’t blame them. But for me personally I don’t see the value in marriage without monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:11 PM
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Women divorce at higher rates in all marriages, not just ones to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:07 PM
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This is absolutely mentioned in the chapter of Dolan’s book. Which attacks monogamy as being a linchpin in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:07 PM
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I hear you on all of those points. I too was ENM for a long time. But since I wasn’t married I couldn’t find a logical reason to get married if I wasn’t being promised/promising monogamy. It felt safer to be single and childless, and I’m a man. Lol Thanks for the insight
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:02 PM
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Lol did I trigger you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:59 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:49 PM
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In comparison to gay men’s statistic of 93% successful, lesbians only had 86% success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:48 PM
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It’s in women’s nature to stop wanting sex with the same person over time though. As evidenced in the data. Is it so hard to believe that women get tired of their partner sexually? Or that they desire variability?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:40 PM
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You didn’t read the post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:39 PM
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Ok but that is just true. My post is about women as a monolith, irrespective of the gender of their partner. We can’t keep pointing at men as the blame for women’s nature even when it’s present in the absence of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:35 PM
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The divorce rates track higher across hetero and homosexual relationships. Women initiate divorce more overall. Men have nothing to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:30 PM
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….. Did you even read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:19 PM
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It’s absolutely fake which is why you made that the title. It’s futile to argue with me about this. I’ve made my decision about your post and it is 100% imo placing blame on women and not holding any man to any type of personal responsibility. Accept the criticism of the post or stop talking about it. You’re self inserting or redirecting men as the topic of discussion. The whole point of comparing same sex divorce rates is to remove men from the equation. You still highlighted that women are bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:10 PM
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I’ve heard of this book before. I see she’s also started to write on relaxing ideas around infidelity being a deal breaker in marriage. Something that Dolan also endorses in the end of his monogamy chapter. Infidelity, if it’s any indication in the relationship subs, is an absolute intolerance for most marriages. I’d take a step in the other direction and say if we’re not promising monogamy in marriage then why get married at all? Polyamory is not the silver bullet the scientists seem to think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:57 PM
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Qualifiers = requirements… it’s clear as day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:48 PM
0

What are you reacting to specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:38 PM
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Congratulations. My high score was 9 years. Takes a lot of work for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:26 PM
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How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:59 PM
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Yeah but that’s life. Your partner isn’t going to alleviate the stressors of reality on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:59 PM
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I’m not changing the argument at all. You’re just trying to frame it in a non provocative way. Which is fine, but I worded it that way on purpose. The point I’m making is that women (in comparison to men) leave marriages at higher rates (in ALL sexual orientation). Divorce is a failure of marriage. Therefore they are bad at it. (Or worse at it than men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:58 PM
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It’s literally in the first paragraph of the article Frequent and strong sexual desire and sexual thoughts are natural for normal for SOME PEOPLE in long-term relationships. These people are usually either men, or women who feel close, relaxed, and attractive, or who are in a new and exciting relationship. Note the lack of qualifiers after the subset “men.” Note all the qualifiers after the subset “women.” I am not saying women don’t want to have sex. However, all the recent research shows that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:52 PM
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My latch to sex or lack thereof is explained in the edit to the original post. This post is not about sex directly. Sex is a metric used to measure how the partners feel about each other. Not the physical act of sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:47 PM
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In comparison to men’s 93%? I’m comparing the gender’s level of marital success.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:35 PM
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So the onus on men is to make sex particularly special for enjoyment with women in general, because it’s low bar of effort to enjoy for us, in comparison to women who will only enjoy sex at the highest level of effort. Which I can definitely say is true especially in a LTR. Makes me think of the role maintenance sex has in heterosexual relationships and if there’s an equivalent in lesbian relationships. If not then it may make more sense as to why women start to disconnect over time with the not…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:33 PM
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This is insightful. And I definitely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:25 PM
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Could you say the same about lesbian sex? Honestly sex is only used as a metric for reactivity to our partners. I use it because it encompasses so many other facets about the relationship itself and can often be a good telltale of how we see our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:24 PM
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I absolutely will check out Esther Perel’s work. Do you have any suggestions? I just finished (hate reading) the referenced Paul Dolan work, (and loved) Bell Hooks “will to change”, I read Norah Vincent “self made man” a long time ago. “Hold me tight” is my next project.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:56 PM
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Divorce is recognized as a failure of marriage. Not a success
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:45 PM
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I mean, In context, a mother showering with an age appropriate child is not romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:44 PM
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I framed it the way I did because I’m isolating women in relationships from men. It’s not a matter of comparing humanity against itself, it’s more specific than that. We’re talking about women. That’s the reason it’s important to compare same sex partnerships. It’s about gender, not orientation. And yeah I worded the topic to be provocative. Just like Dolan did in his previous: “women are happiest childfree unmarried” assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:26 PM
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Men aren’t the subject. I bring up same sex statistics to remove the concept of men/maleness from the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:22 PM
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You’re right. Edited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:14 PM
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Can’t be responsive to a stimuli you’re no longer reactive too. Over familiarity dulls the senses to reaction. I know you already understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:52 PM
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There are definitely interesting things to unpack here. Saving for comment later
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:50 PM
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I like this answer but I feel like it’s at odds with the reality of cohabitation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:49 PM
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It absolutely is a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:22 PM
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This topic isn’t about men in heterosexual marriages. It’s about women in marriage. Reread it, pretty sure I made that clear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:22 PM
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That’s a tricky one to answer. But damn sure going to try. I mean theoretically any of those things could be non-romantic. Do you believe sex is necessarily romantic? No, I don’t think all* sex is romantic, but sex **is inherently romantic. Like all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares. Is have sex with a prostitute romantic? I don’t know from experience, but I’d probably say yes. Albeit synthetic Are one night stands romantic? I’d say so to some capacity yes. The ones I’ve …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:21 PM
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It's never the sex. It's always everything surrounding it. Sex is just the metric, it’s definitely not about sex. It’s about overfamiliarity imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:01 PM
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Oh ok, I misunderstood. But that also means the same is true for gay marriages. We’re comparing the statistics across the genders, not orientations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:47 PM
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I’m just going to copy paste my response to this common “why are we measuring sex” comment. If I can edit my post I will, I tried to keep it brief but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:37 PM
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It’s not about blaming women for the amount of sex they have. It’s about recognizing the presence of sex in a romantic relationship and what it tends to represent interms of how reactive we are to our partners. Then acknowledging that familiar relationships are the opposite of romantic ones and that through marriage you convert one to the other. Less sex = less reactivity (intimacy) = Overfamiliarity. I’d say the sex is the biggest difference between a relationship you’d characterize as familial…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:36 PM
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I didn’t find anything that supports this statement: https://www.reuters.com/article/world-lgbt-marriage/factbox-same-sex-marriage-around-the-world-20-years-after-dutch-first-idUSL8N2LU389
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:32 PM
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I guess the blame part comes from the comparison between men and women as achieving what we might call a “successful” marriage. I mean it’s not a competition, but if it were, who’d be winning?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:30 PM
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The data says that men are happier when married to women and women are not as happy married to men. Men live longer being married to a woman. Do you think that’s the same for women? No. It’s not. I don’t think that’s what the data is saying. If we remove the heterosexuality then the data is saying: “Men are happier married” not “Men are happier married to women”. It’s not fake. I don’t hate women, but when faced with truths sometimes we have to accept things we don’t like. Sorry you feel like yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:27 PM
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Saving this to reply in full later. But I want to point out that this is not intended to blame anybody for anything. Women aren’t to blame for statistics, or the behavior of other women. It’s just a comparative read of data. And if “Childfree and unmarried “women” are happiest” is a hard pill to swallow, then I’m sure there’s a lot more hard pills to swallow behind it. I think “women” are bad at marriage, might be one of those pills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:08 PM
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So you’re saying that because they marry sooner that can add to the chance that they’ll divorce, which I can get behind. But we’re not measuring marriage by how long it took you to get married, but rather the time you spend in the marriage. Marriage instantly turns your relationship into a familial one, (to my assertion) eventually kills the romantic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:05 PM
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Also why quoted for women? Lol Because big sweeping generic statements don’t mean much to the individual. “Women” aren’t a hive mind, but they are a subsection of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:01 PM
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If this was about how men treat women then the divorce rate in lesbian relationships would reflect it. I didn’t bring up men because this isn’t about us. We have our own shit to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:58 PM
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It’s not about blame. There’s nobody to blame. It’s just a reading of the data and comping to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:57 PM
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Huh? I mean theoretically any of those things could be non-romantic. Albeit awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:56 PM
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“The frequency with which couples have sex does correlate convincingly with their instinctive reaction towards one another. 9” Sex is the main difference between familial relationships and romantic ones When you’re overfamiliar with your partner you turn them into family, stop sexualizing them, and stop being reactive. This isn’t about men. That’s why I linked the WlW data. It’s about women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:23 PM
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I made the link here “The frequency with which couples have sex does correlate convincingly with their instinctive reaction towards one another. 9”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 03:20 PM
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Sorry love. Dems the bricks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:26 AM
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The first step is admitting your salty for being biologically responsible for carrying to term. Penis envy in full effect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:54 AM
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I think it would be more equitable for men who want their wives to stay home to think of themselves as employers and act accordingly. Great way to ensure any remaining shred of intimacy dies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:40 AM
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As a man, how do you expect we’d stop dressing as if were in a relationship? Y’all dudes are stupidly insecure in this subreddit. The whole reason you started talking to her is because of how she was dressed. Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:58 PM
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Propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:08 PM
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I just saw a 40 year marriage end. It’s just your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:58 PM
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Y’all being intellectually dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:15 PM
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You know, I keep fooling myself into thinking people on this sub are fucking normal. Then I hear y’all say some dumb shit like: tall guys who specifically go for short women is because ⁠They are tighter down there. ⁠Those tall guys are just pedo in disguise, no matter how much they would like to convince otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:40 AM
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The question is, can they handle it? I often feel this way with overweight women with athletes. What makes her think she can keep up with his lifestyle? It doesn’t seem compatible to me, but then again it’s none of my business
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:20 AM
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No, you’re being hypocritical and trying to talk us into believing it’s not. And we’re not buying the bullshit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:19 AM
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Lmao... there's always a next one. I don’t know you but this is not at all true. Partners/people aren’t replaceable. Especially if you find someone you actually click with organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:13 AM
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Because humanity. I had a virgin partner for a looooong time, and despite slinging spectacular dick, I can’t compete with her imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:07 AM
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Making 100$ per month on OF puts you in the top 25% according to the app’s statistics. Source: had OF in my previous life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:49 PM
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She’s just going to lie until they’re married. Then if he leaves she gets a consolation prize
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:45 PM
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Hey, how you doin? 😉 Jk, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:44 PM
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“I control the truth” aka I’m a liar and don’t have integrity. I bet OP waits until she’s married to be forthcoming about her hoe phase because the stakes are higher for dumping her ass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:36 PM
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It’s like they don’t understand duality. Lol just hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:34 PM
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Women break men’s hearts for fun? Isn’t the golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated? It’s all on par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:23 PM
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Yes. That’s the assumption: Grass is greener and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:16 PM
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It’s the same questions everywhere. Ask r/OnlineDating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:17 AM
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Women are not actually comfortable with being in Chad’s harem. That’s a incel fantasy. No woman wants to share her man, she’d rather feel like he selected her over all the other women in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:51 PM
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The conditioning you speak of comes from your little clam burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:28 PM
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But this overall narrative of “always choose yourself first” is what does the damage, on both sides. The dismantling of the family unit and wider communities in favor of “everyone for themselves” and “you don’t owe anyone anything” are the real issues IMO. In that case, it’s really survival of the fittest, and there are many more losers. We need to prioritize community again imo. Beautifully put. Take my poor man’s gold 🏅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:52 PM
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Strong disagree. Atleast for me. Same thing goes for wanting children. I have to be inspired to want to knock you up/ commit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:04 PM
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Man…. Me too. But it is what it is. Man’s gotta eat (pussy)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:03 PM
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Nah, men are hornier on average than women. Based on copious science and common sense. Show me research that says this. Common sense cannot be measured. On the other hand: “The gendered story around sex is that men both want and enjoy sex more than women. Well, our analysis of a group of six hundred Germans using diary reports of happiness suggests a different reality so far as enjoyment is concerned. We find that men experience less pleasure during sex compared to women. These effects are meani…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:15 PM
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I mean, I’ve personally already been there done that. But it does beg the question. “If everyone is solely acting in their own interest, why shouldn’t men of value act without principle and exercise the full value of their influence?” I don’t think women would be happy if suddenly (desirable) men stopped playing by the rules and went back to shamelessly using women just because they could. Honestly I hypothesize it’s why women hate players so much. It’s the inherit threat they pose to the social…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:09 PM
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The women of value not being willing to join his harem would drastically slow down his dream lifestyle. I mean if we’re all only acting in our best interest the men of means will do what they’ve been doing for millennia… lie Men can want what they want but that doesn’t mean a women especially of high caliber that he wants would agree to his demands. Staying single is better than living in a harem for todays women. No disagreement here. So he would probably have to drastically lower his looks sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:20 PM
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I’ve thought about it. But I’ve already fulfilled all my dirty fantasies. So I think I’m over the point where they’d have any real use. I think if I ever got an escort at this point it’s be a specific person. Like a notable porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:11 PM
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Then why complain when they get pumped and dumped? Women below a man’s looks match don’t inspire commitment. And the funny thing is OTHER women know this and will try and usurp the woman punching above her weight from her man. This is why female mate poaching/competition is so fierce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:03 PM
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Women want sex less than men, This has been proven multiple times to not be true and have more to lose from sex than men. This though, is absolutely true It’s less about what they bring to the table and more about the dynamics of supply and demand. Yeah, I’m not buying this. Most men can fuck undesirable women with ease. They just don’t want too. Value comes from having a desirable partner (fucking ew) Both men and women generally prefer to be partnered with a desirable mate. But women seem happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:01 PM
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I think that’s the issue. Is that looksmatching women still think themselves above their comparable partner. To which the resounding commentary of men is that they are not. I totally understand pregnancy as the ultimate trump card in terms of equality. But with the advent of childfree women, it really does beg the question… “What DO you bring to the table?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:33 PM
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Idk about 10. But I’d generally max out at 3 partners at a time. It was/is exhausting but infinitely satisfying for the ego
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:30 PM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:25 PM
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Don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:23 PM
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My friends and I have recently started the trend of “living life more in line with how single women do” Which is great overall. But due to the expectations of “courtship” I worry that holding women to their own standards will shoot ourselves in the foot as they will not be able to measure up. Like at this point in life, for a woman to REALLY get my attention, she has to court ME. I know my worth. And I’m not spending any more wasted energy chasing women so they can feel “special”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:23 PM
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Fuck. I like this take. Even though I hate it at the same time. What do you suppose a man with means should do in this situation then? Surely it’s not “settle down with one woman” If we’re all prioritizing our own happiness and nobody’s living for the benefit of their partners anymore, then what’s to stop men of means from unabashedly keeping harems?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:17 PM
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“Just as it was misguided for reformist feminist thinkers to see freedom as simply women having the right to be like powerful patriarchal men (feminist women with class privilege never suggested that they wanted their lot to be like that of poor and working-class men), so was it simplistic to imagine that the liberated man would simply become a woman in drag. Yet this was the model of freedom offered men by mainstream feminist thought. Men were expected to hold on to the ideas about strength and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:12 PM
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Ikr? Women LOVE Harry Styles. Wtf is this dude talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:37 PM
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You’ve got a lot of internalized misandry/misogyny wrapped around your non-masculine presentation. Honestly it’s making you sound toxic enough that even if you WERE masc presenting women would be offput by you. I know I would, and I’m a dude. Gotta get get the chip off your shoulder first bro. Also acknowledge that not everybody is going to be into you. That’s fine, you want women who want.. femboys… Just remember irl is not the internet, results may vary. Maybe find a girl you like at the annua…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:35 PM
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I mean I didn’t agree before, but now you’re definitely being an apologist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:30 AM
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Man, I love it when the women I fuck actually like me. It’s the best lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:35 PM
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You don’t think Dolan’s article has real world effects? You think this discourse is limited to Reddit? Or the internet even? Get your head out of your ass. It’s all part of the zeitgeist. I’ve had these conversations with “real life” women. The whole “go outside and touch grass” shit is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:15 AM
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My anecdotal experience means more to me than your anecdotal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:04 AM
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Aye bro we out chyea 💪🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:42 AM
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I’m an attractive man, who just last week was at a bar and hit on two chicks standing nearby. She looked at me up and down and told me to fuck off and go gain 30lbs. Your experience is not gendered. Also idk what coalition of men admitted these things to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:11 AM
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I actually scanned the study and read the abstract/conclusion. It says nothing about men’s treatment of obese women. It does talk about the difference between self perception between people (male and female) with eating disorders vs overweight people. OP wtf was the point of posting that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:04 AM
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Sorry. I just get triggered at the idea that the answer to the gender war is avoidance. We lambasted the MGTOWs, and we should also lambast Dolan and people that latch onto his divisive narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:50 AM
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I’m sorry I’m not really seeing what the point you’re trying to make is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:42 AM
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You don’t know that. You don’t know if that study helped influence people to think the grass is greener on the other side “becuz science says so”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:32 PM
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Where does it say that in the articles? Where does it say that anywhere? You can’t just add your own narrative to make it fit your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:31 PM
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Nobody’s saying it isn’t? You said it yourself in your post “I am happy as a single woman” and “Single women are happy” does not = “single women are the happiest demographic” The study literally says single women are the happiest demographic. There is no nuance given. It’s a flat blanket statement that if you marry a man, or have children with one, you will be unhappy. That’s a toxic divisive ugly statement to make that is not helping anyone in the long run
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:29 PM
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That’s literally not what he’s saying. Turn off your phone, turn it back on, and re read his post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:27 PM
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But isn’t it interesting how less popular these studies are compared to Dolan’s? That shit spread like wildfire, because it’s divisive, provocative, and supports the gender war
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:06 PM
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It’s also a point of the post to tell otherwise happy married women that they’d be happier if they never had children or married their spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:04 PM
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I feel like you’re not even arguing in good faith. “Women are happier without men” is a divisive comment that only serves to further the gender wars. Not bringing us to any sort of common ground. We laughed at the MGTOW movement, but we’re supporting this narrative? Just admit misandry and stop lying to yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:02 PM
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Dolan took census data and misinterpreted it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:00 PM
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https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert A source that’s not on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 10:59 PM
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I have known quite a few men engage in it especially while on vacation. And it wasn't because they were lonely and unable to get a women...they were just.....horny. Ok but you see how this doesn’t apply to what we’re talking about right? You just described an instance where the men in question are on vacation, focused on fun and new experiences. I’m talking about when these men are home and dealing with the realities of banal daily life. Also you can say women also do not get intimacy or affecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:58 PM
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Yeah I know, but WHY. Nobody’s going to ban you for saying the word sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:52 PM
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Everybody gets those things from their social network. It’s still copium because platonic touch doesn’t feed the emotional need for intimacy/affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:51 PM
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First off, you know Sex (xes lmao) work is illegal right? Not only that but men generally look down on paying for sex because it reinforces the idea that we’re so worthless the only chance at intimacy is by paying a prostitute. Also lonely men THINK they want sex, but really what they want is affection (+sex). And this can’t be satisfied with a hooker. Both genders truely want the same thing from intimacy/sex but can’t figure out how to come to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:40 PM
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You need a higher opinion of men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:35 PM
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Wtf is xes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:31 PM
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Mostly because those types pick men who are already in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:29 PM
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I feel like a lot of these are totally do-able
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:11 AM
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Feminist streets, patriarchal sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:56 AM
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Sex with above average women can also be mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:54 AM
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It has nothing to do with being attractive and everything to do with being overexposed to your partner and losing appreciation for them over time because of overexposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:17 AM
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Do you believe there’s anything that “uses a woman’s value up?” Same question as it pertains to men if you want to engage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:15 PM
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I’ve been looking for a proper comment to say this: IF WOMEN ARE SO SMART WHY ARE MEN LEAGUES AHEAD OF THEM IN CREATING ROBOT MATES? Checkmate bitches [mic drop]
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:52 PM
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Logic has no place in the world of emotion
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:15 AM
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I brought 2200 worth of workout equipment so as to not be constantly distracted by spandex butts at the gym. Now I’m distracted by the TV but hey atleast I don’t have to wait for the squat rack to open up.
/r/seduction04/10/22 04:09 AM
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I mean…. Maybe he gets hugs from his pets. Intimacy and sex are the main drivers for relationships no?
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:19 PM
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This is the first time I’ve seen this take and I like it. I still don’t care for overweight women, but it makes me think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:45 AM
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If you’re sleeping with someone but not exclusive that’s always a possibility. But that’s something you both have to be onboard with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:59 PM
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So be a bigger boy and say, we’re not exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:57 PM
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Why is it anyone’s business but my own, how many women I’m seeing? If I’m spending my time with you in this moment then that’s what you should be thankful for. Not what I’m doing with other people when you’re not around Edit: I’m not advocating for lying about having other options , but you can’t reasonably expect an attractive man to be exclusive with you JUST because you’re sleeping with him. Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:15 PM
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Bruh, one of them fucked a dude they met at a traffic light 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:36 AM
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Introvert plant lady with Amy wine house hairdo 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:23 AM
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Does not require food. Paper-cut handjobs 3/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:21 AM
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A lemon with a loose bootyhole. Stealth 8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:21 AM
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Seems sane, is attractive, will probably not watch anime with you. 7/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:20 AM
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Seems chill but did not mention attractiveness or any physical traits. 6/10
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:17 AM
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The ugly, the fat, and the generally unattractive women who can’t offer the one thing that almost all men want in a partner: beauty. I feel for them especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:17 PM
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No anecdotal stories I give are going to convince you that I’m telling the truth so why should I bother? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:44 PM
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It really equates to watch what they do and not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:12 PM
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Regardless of what they say in here. Some are willing to “share” (ignore each other’s existence) as long as their individual needs are being met.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:39 PM
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We know this is only marginally true at best. Especially in a world where we believe all women deserve an attractive partner despite their own attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:02 PM
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So what is the shorthand for cuckquean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:49 PM
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Cuck is not a gendered term. So I asked you if that was a term you use unilaterally. Or rather do you not think you can get cucked by a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:38 PM
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Why not answer the question? Would you accept a woman that would accept you banging other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:16 PM
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Is it? You wouldn’t think being a cuck is a negative quality to select for in a female partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:59 PM
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Is being a cuck a negative thing for women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:57 PM
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Do you not realize that sex with other people and your partner is part of the lifestyle he’s describing? Otherwise why do you keep asking these asinine ass questions as if you don’t know the answer. You’re definitely not proving anything to anyone by calling them cucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:43 PM
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Best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:44 PM
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The phrase “non-physical rape” gives me hives
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:57 PM
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I was with you until the last two statements :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 04:12 PM
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Seeing people in dysfunctional relationships is not me ”choosing” not to see it's viable. Unless you think adultery, divorce, and authorities getting involved is a good thing and the intended result. Who are you to determine whether other peoples relationships are “functional” or not? You need to speak only of those you are in yourself since you don’t /can’t know what other people’s intimate relationships are like. You honestly sound like those religious zealots who believe their way of life is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 11:20 PM
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Again, the problem is I dont see that viable strategy implemented from highly sexual individuals. That’s because you choose not to believe it’s a viable strategy. Tons of HL partners meet and vet each other like this. If it doesn’t work for you then that’s fine, but don’t act like it doesn’t work for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:55 PM
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Why would a man be “loyal” to a woman he’s barely dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:48 PM
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Press X for doubt
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:19 PM
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Ma’am the chip on your shoulder is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:26 AM
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I mean I think that if people with high body counts want to find LTR’s they’re going to do it on their terms and not the terms of the church / whatever moralistic body of thought they use to govern their decisions. All that means is that there are a new subset of people/couples looking to shift the paradigm to suit their needs. Maybe pairbonding is overrated. Not to mention if you’re 18 and average two new partners a year you can easily hit 30 by the time you’re in your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:36 AM
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Above 30 isn’t that wild is it? I had around 20 by the time I was 27
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 11:25 AM
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Ok so they shouldn’t be fat and ugly, and I won’t be poor. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 01:24 PM
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Too accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 05:36 AM
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All the more reason to idolize him. Self loathing never looked so attractive 😍
/r/seduction23/01/21 05:21 AM
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Cats fucking suck. Men will be fine with their dogs. Hookers for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:07 PM
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HVM will become inaccessible even to HVW though. Basically no women will be able to partner supposedly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:21 PM
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I’m bulking up so I can pump and dump a bunch of 29 year olds a month before my wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 05:19 PM
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Sounds like you’re implying men have multiple brains and women only have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 02:50 PM
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Sounds like jealousy to me 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 01:43 PM
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This is done to ensure the dudes that don’t figure it out alone don’t reproduce Fucked up i know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 02:29 AM
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Lift frequently and lift heavy. Build the foundation for your aesthetic growth. Read. Become well rounded.
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:37 AM
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“No blind bitches”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:27 PM
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Saint Future says: “She belongs to the streets”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:31 PM
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So concise and accurate. Thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:10 PM
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Cosmic lambs to the slaughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 10:58 PM
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I think the naïve ones stop here first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:27 PM
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Misery loves company
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 02:40 PM
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Why did OP give this energy by posting it? Is it a karma thing? Or are they actively trying to rile people up? Idk just seems like outrage bait
/r/MensRights13/01/20 11:47 PM
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Maybe women age like flowers and men age like trees?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 09:07 PM
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This. Marry the unicorn, seek other unicorns. Leave the normal women to the tradcons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:59 PM
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Because traditionally the house was the epitome of the domestic sphere and pre-war women had the strongest control over that sphere. Cohabitating meant she no longer had to do things that she would have initially considered “beneath” her or outside her natural ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:10 AM
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Goddamn they pulled receipts into OP. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:42 AM
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Minstrel / Warrior complex Women want a man who will sing and entertain them, emotionally put together etc. But they also want a Neanderthal, gorilla, who will kill and eat weaker men, and bleed testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:49 AM
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The premise is that hoeing makes it difficult to commit emotionally to one person. The more partners you have the less tolerance you have for their shit. Eventually nobody will be good enough in your eyes and you’ll be forced to settle. Or you decide your better off single. Unless you are capable of compartmentalizing that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:24 PM
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Lol this is so funny that y’all get wrapped up in who pays for dates. When I go out drinking with the guys we will happily front the bill for each other no problem. Who doesn’t like being treated to free shit. Try convincing one of these women to pay for the dude on a date because that’s the alpha choice here, and watch them clutch their purses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 12:33 PM
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Is this a CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:41 PM
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Pretty lame cmv imo. Especially since men don’t care if getting casual sex doesn’t make women happy, because it makes men happy and they aren’t getting it. Everyone’s a narcissist now. Me first, you maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:09 AM
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Y’all realize this gets posted every month or so with the purpose of dividing and isolating us from one another. This is literally ragebait.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 05:10 PM
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“Men assuming that women want to have sex with them is part of a considerably larger problem in our society. He probably didn’t think much by it, just saying this person’s a ‘same day lay’. That interaction was completely misreading my signals.” As much as delusions of grandeur may frustrate her, I don’t know that I have a real problem with his ego padded assumption. I might even argue that the interaction was beneficial in next time she’s approached she’ll know to shut him down early, despite h…
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:17 PM
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part of that is undoubtedly going to be the ability to emotionally manipulate or even verbally strongarm. Aw shit 😦
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:41 PM
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Yeah but if you’re not having children or don’t plan too why the fuck not. Keep a plate or two that you know lives the same lifestyle and plate away
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:36 PM
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Success is exhausting in general. If you can handle it become comfortable in failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 11:18 PM
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Women can and generally go longer times without wanting sex. Ie sex camels. Not sure what that has to do with getting back in the kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:03 PM
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You must not understand the female woman.. sex camels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:46 PM
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No, lots of stupid questions today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:42 PM
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You mean don’t play to win?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:38 PM
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Don’t you even fucking start with that bullshit. Not true or even remotely true, and fuck you for suggesting that all husbands or bfs have raped their spouses. Wtf is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 03:55 PM
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If I can get it once generally means I can get it again
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 02:36 PM
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Create orbiters? Keep people around who orbit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 12:17 PM
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Definitely a grind, not a difficult one by any means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 10:46 PM
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Hahahah the “if you won’t commit to me you’re trash narrative” is hilarious I will commit to nothing besides my non existent offspring, and myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:12 AM
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Oh cmon, you know Anglo Protestants are the ones who still run our American motherland
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 01:06 AM
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Once her interest leve is above 90% you can do no wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:56 AM
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Nah. You get two tho, your pick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:54 AM
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Yes, she can’t drink with me. And I like to drink
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:01 PM
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Great post. Just to add that being mentally stimulating is another on of values women find attractive in men which generally tend to get better as these men age and gain experience with the opposite sex. Not a given, but it’s highly likely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 11:00 PM
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I like this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 12:03 PM
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Sounds like incurable yeast infections waiting to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 11:58 AM
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The fem argument against this is that men have to come together and show each other love. But I’m not so sure that male friendship is the answer to romantic devalue.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 11:27 AM
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You should ask your mates about what happens on military boats. Big ol gross orgies is what I’ve been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 02:15 AM
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I hate that crap. I'm not sure why the idea that physical fitness being attractive is so controversial. It’s controversial to feminized bloops that think their free spirit “poly” girlfriend is considering adding another partner to their relationship In short they’re threatened to do the thing that they avoid because they believe it’s beneath them. But like I said in the other thread, a buff nerd is going to win over a twig nerd 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 01:33 AM
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I kill spiders, give good dick, and provide kisses and snuggles. Also I rub cramping tummies during the time of the month. Edit: I see now that OP is a harpy who thinks that’s she’s better off without our magic masculinity. No dik 4 u. Edit edit: you can tell she’s a harpy when women tell her what their men provide in their own personal relationships and she tries to retort with nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 01:08 AM
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Man, fuck them kids
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 12:26 AM
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Women talk shit about men all the time in their safe spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:17 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:56 PM
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It literally takes an hour out of your day 2-3 days a week. You could be socializing and “developing social skills” anywhere there are other people. Let’s not exaggerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:51 PM
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Women will pick a jacked smart guy over a thin smart guy every time too. The other dude is clearly right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:21 PM
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They lie unapologetically. Omission is not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 09:15 PM
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It just reaffirms that you'll approach anything as long as its T&A are arranged in a pleasing manner. What is the issue? You arranged your t&a to be noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:24 PM
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I'd take boring and hot over fugly and enthusiastic, but I'd take somewhat attractive and enthusiastic over boring and hot. Hahaha nope. Or at least I’d be suggesting some real SMP improvements. Idk how happy she is to be fucking me, it’s still slump busting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 12:51 AM
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We weren’t in a work environment but we’re in the same industry. So i guess having a tarnished reputation is what Id try to avoid. Flirting is harmless because you never have to defend it. But someone has to make an overt move eventually, hence the need for defending.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 06:28 PM
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If I were a single dude I don’t think I’d be willing to compromise shit with casual partners. But alas I’m in love so that ship has sailed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 05:53 PM
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It’s the fear of accusation. I had a friend I escalated and deescalated on on once I knew we were both attracted to each other. (After verbal confirmation) Everything was fine for a week, until she changed her mind. Suddenly I found myself defending my actions. The whole situation would have been stacked against me proving any sort of innocence. Not worth the stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:58 PM
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Oh god...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 03:52 PM
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✊🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:21 PM
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Your response is duly noted
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:09 PM
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I wish more men would understand that a woman having a pretty face doesn’t actually mean she can control his self-worth, let alone “everything”. But it does give a very real sense of social validation that both men and women account for. Someone said elsewhere that a woman having a husband/attractive boyfriend plastered all over her IG is one of the single most value pieces of social proof a woman can have. It’s not just enough that you hold her hand at home on the couch, you have to hold her ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 09:53 PM
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I’d say most do. No guy gets dressed on Friday night to go out with the guys to chat up women and find a relationship. Commitment is just lower on our priorities than physical intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:53 PM
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Are you a woman? Men don’t really think like that. There is only one goal first and foremost. Relationships grow from the satiation of the first goal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 08:22 PM
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Yes it is. Your LTR is meaningless if you’re not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 07:08 PM
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Can’t have the chicken without the egg
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:47 PM
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What is bloop advice on how to pickup girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 05:29 PM
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Exactly who else other than the woman herself should be entitled to decide who she says “yes” and “no” to? Is a woman on tinder really treating men cruelly if she doesn’t try desperately to fuck every man who swiped right. I think it’s more along the lines of how much societal power comes from a woman’s right to choose her partner. The author goes on to say: Sex is most powerful in the mind, and to men, in the mind, women have a lot of power, not only to arouse, but to give worth, self-worth, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:58 PM
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Because it destroys the fantastical psuedo-reality of plausible deniability she’s concocted to hide it. In order to truly lie you have to believe it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 03:50 PM
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I mean, I’d like to think you give freely of yourself while not trusting anyone 100% Idk if trust is really a prerequisite for having love. Maybe being comfortable, but not love it itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:28 PM
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It most definitely is in many cases. More quotes from this awesome book: Dating women as a man was a lesson in female power, and it made me, of all things, into a momentary misogynist, which, I suppose was the best indicator that my experiment had worked. I saw my own sex from the other side, and I disliked women irrationally for a while because of it. I disliked their superiority, their accusatory smiles, their entitlement to choose or dash me with a fingertip, an execution so lazy, so effortle…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:17 PM
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I know for me, I’m less inclined to create a emotional bond with a woman I’m not already sleeping with. Those bonds make me vulnerable and if I’m going to be vulnerable, I’m expecting her to be vulnerable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:15 PM
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Actually the anti-individualist phenomenon you’re describing to men is the same one that Norah Vincent describes while passing in a man. (While writing her book self made man) Quoted from the text: If the most disgruntled women I met and dated as Ned had ever been attuned to men’s signals, by the time I met them, they were long past receiving outside information of any kind. Moreover, if the way they discussed their pasts and the way they approached me was anything to go by, they seemed incapabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:12 PM
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Genuine connections are really easy to fake
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 11:06 PM
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Spellcheck is a bitch. I don’t hate women at all, but we all know that’s how women treat each other and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:35 AM
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Bro I was fucking this girl in college that was dating a army dude. She literally snuck me out of her room 30 minutes before he showed up, after swallowing a massive snowball. I’m probably fucked up for saying this but trust no-one 100% ever. Not your boys, not your girl, not your wife, not your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:17 AM
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Even if those approaches worked and TRP was 100% correct about female attraction and sexuality, it's still organizing a vast community of men and instructing them essentially to treat women unkindly and how best to manipulate them for shallow reasons. But one of the dark tenants of femininity is being just as manipulative as the quoted statement to achieve the goal. Femininity is traditionally manipulative. The anger they holding for TRP methodology is due to being exposed to the same behaviors …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:14 AM
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Oh god I’ve been both of these.... Please if you’re in the military, don’t trust your girlfriend. She’s definitely cheating while you’re away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 12:59 AM
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There’s a saying that if a man is complaining about his problems to in a bar 4 out of 10 men will not care, while the other 6 will be happy he has those issues. Men talk about their feelings but only when there is no other option. We don’t find catharsis in talking about our feelings because it largely will not help our situation. Bitching to women doubly doesn’t work because they largely will not understand your perspective. Also they may interpret your oversharing as whining which works agains…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 12:35 PM
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Who gives a shit. OP’s post is basically shitting on his doorstep anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 01:07 AM
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Why are women so obsessed with having male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 10:56 AM
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It made me a badass baseball player tho. Chicks dig baseball
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 10:09 PM
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It’s funny because boys are told they’ll never be good enough too. Except instead of becoming emotional self loathing about it we destroy our emotions and fall into a pit of hate fueled self improvement while simultaneously losing the ability to function as balanced human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 08:55 PM
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Men value affection from women he knows are not fucking anyone but them. Being affectionate with a woman that’s actively fucking other men is disgusting in the male imperative Men get in relationships for access to this high quality affection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 09:05 PM
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So you’re a selfish partner who only thinks of themselves in relationships? Honest question though, why be bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 10:25 PM
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Then by that logic, there are no good men either, so your entire point is moot. I don’t believe RP defines a “good man” either. They seem primarily focused on getting even Edit: that men have the same doormat issue that submissive women have when dealing with beautiful women. And as such, doing whatever it takes to keep a man is piss-poor advice for any woman, opens the door to abuse and control and is overall a terrible dating strategy. Any decent relationship advice opens you up to vulnerabili…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 10:38 PM
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Doing whatever it takes to keep a good man is a piss poor strategy too. Because good men aren’t infallible gods and they can be just as disappointing. The attitude of doing whatever it takes will make a woman go along with stupid decisions, just like described in the OP. Esp because the equivalent RP strategy for men does not encourage them to do whatever it takes to keep a good woman, and so the woman ends up in a one sided sacrificial relationship. I assure you that your partner (if you have o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 12:33 PM
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I don’t think “doing whatever it takes to keep a man” is the imperative of RPW. It’s more like “doing whatever it takes to keep a good man”; which you likely don’t know what that is because you think you’re better off without them altogether. Go off and date women if that’s how you feel. No loss on our part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 11:54 AM
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Wtf is wrong with you all. What sane person is going to attack you for simply disagreeing? Quit exaggerating. I swear y’all love the male boogeyman trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:34 PM
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That’s the problem with cherry picking. You have no real context to base your judgements on. They didn’t say anything about physical abuse. She said what makes him happy is inherently good for their relationship. Over what her logical mind would do which is say no to the car. She let him make his own wrong decision that impacted the both of them. And it still worked out fine. Men do this shit for women all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:27 PM
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It does because women also need affection from men and men who don’t commit don’t give that affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:21 PM
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I’m familiar, I just don’t agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:11 PM
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Yeah but we also know it happens frequently. Unless there’s foul play or the student is currently enrolled in the class there shouldn’t be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:06 PM
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QFT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 11:04 PM
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One hopes the pain goes away eventually. Or rather that it is painless altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 09:27 PM
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She then filed a complaint against him and got him fired. I’m sorry but based on what grounds? You can’t (shouldn’t) get someone fired because they won’t be your boyfriend. Who gives a shit if she’s heartbroken. If she’s legal age and it’s not affecting his work for the uni, then there should be no restitution owed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 08:36 PM
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It’s a false equivalent from the assumption that beautiful women are less likely to treat their partners better. So we assume handsome men are the same way. The difference is the value that society puts on appearance is more valuable for women then men. I.e: a attractive dude with a shitty personality will not be able to keep a woman (as easily) since being handsome is not really that important to the female imperative. (The fact you were willing to date 5’s for example) While a hot woman will g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 06:32 PM
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Probably stemming from the belief that ugly guys would for some reason treat you worse than attractive guys. Which is funny because I think more attractive women are generally more difficult attitude wise then attractive men. Which may have something to do with the societal value of feminine beauty vs male handsomeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:13 PM
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I don't know where you live, but where I live that means you enter an exclusive relationship when that happens. Yeah but your previous messages didn’t say that. You just said we dated from x months then had sex. Basically implying you looking down on people who like casual sex is justified by somehow implying that waiting to give it up prevents you from being “one of those people” But you still fuck before marriage and there’s nothing binding you to your husband before that ink is dry, so it sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:18 PM
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Sex without commitment is still casual. Length of time dating doesn’t determine whether it is casual or not. Exclusiveness is what makes it not casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:47 PM
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How does it become LTR if you’re not having sex? At some point you had casual sex with this person before you solidified the ink on your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:43 PM
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So you’re abstinent?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 02:30 PM
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Your posts are always top notch. Honestly it sounds like OP is still in the honeymoon phase. Gotta wait until the novelty wears off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:28 AM
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I probably enjoy your posts the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:27 AM
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“You’re embarrassing yourself in front of all the internet wiminz”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 02:22 AM
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The inability to be taxed fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:04 PM
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Time to get that alimony boiiiii.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:42 PM
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I’m sorry I don’t understand why these women pine for marriage anymore nowadays outside of the status symbol saying “I got someone to commit to me, I must be worth more than a warm, wet, weekend.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 11:29 PM
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I hear you. And I used to feel the same way. But the karma gods have burned me one too many times to fuck around there anymore. Now it’s either he knows and has given his consent Crimes of passion are fucking real and that lack of empathy will get you shot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 04:42 PM
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But there is an alarming number of men that don't, and I think those men are the ones that end up resenting women for wanting to be friends. Maybe if we’re talking about incels sure. But no man wants a constellation friendship award from the object of their desires. Especially if she’s done things to lead him to believe she’s interested. (Touching you, hanging around idly, returning all of your correspondence)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 11:02 AM
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Men bond with each other fine. It’s intimacy from the opposite sex they’re missing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 03:59 AM
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Willing to buy me weed and bail me out of jail obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 12:04 AM
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This is before dating you? Cmon now. Hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:53 PM
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A good woman is: -Flexible with her time and money -Giving of herself freely to friends and family -Her words and behavior have integrity -Has a good attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 11:38 PM
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What do you expect guys that you’re not actively dating to do for you? You expect men you’re not dating to care about you? Why? Beyond keeping you from walking into traffic I couldn’t see anyone putting much more effort into you. Unless they’re orbiters. It’s funny my favorite dating book has a quote from a woman saying: “When I can tell a man is interested I ask him to wash my car, just to see if he’ll do it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 10:59 PM
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I think part of this is the way young people develop friendships - girls bond over shared intimacy, What’s especially ironic about this is intimacy is the resource men are most starved for socially. So when a woman shares intimacy with a man it’s hard to not see it as a indicator of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:04 PM
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What does your love language have to do with platonic relationships? It’s even stranger that you specified “guys” instead of non-gendered people. Irl that’d be a red flag that you probably feed off attention from men. (Time wasters)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 07:47 PM
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Guys friendzone themselves by never making an overt move. Because of sunken cost fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 05:23 PM
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Holy shit Svedka is beyond trash vodka. Reminds me of buying Vladimir’s as a freshman and getting wasted on screwdrivers Blegh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:55 PM
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You know they say men get married for the affection. Not the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:53 PM
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She’s have to physically pick his drunk ass up and drag him into the bed. But yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:38 PM
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then again, that would mean they would have to accept their wives would have the same privileges. Says who? Relationships aren’t reciprocal or equal. Double standards exist because men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:31 PM
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And how is that any different from what we have today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/19 01:37 AM
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Enlighten me. Outside of being employed and of a suitable age, what are these leagues you speak of? Are you implying your looks make you better than anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:22 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:19 PM
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I thought we were trying to stop the creation of more soyboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:17 PM
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Call it pseudo science if you want but there it is. Gender essentialism is the one twue way. Stop arguing and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 11:15 PM
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I think by definition “strong independent men” were never independent, ever. “Behind every great man is.....” “Today we band together as men to...” Never in history has real masculinity been advertised as an island amongst the world, but a continent that moves as one. I.e: all strong men acknowledge their support systems, from olympians and trainers to husbands and wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 08:31 PM
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The entire idea of socialism is that people will be more motivated to be productive once you make sure that they're not being strongarmed into being productive for the profits of the select few. Which is a pipe dream. The layman /laywoman will not work if they do not need too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:49 PM
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i think it’s more about reframing the kinds of relationships men have with women. Into what exactly? Clearly women would prefer all men be asexual until she decides she wants him. Clearly men would prefer all women not use sex as a hook for commitment. Neither sex can figure out where to find sex. The internet is full of trolls and a decade of technology has destroyed the ability to relate to each other on a genuine level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 07:35 PM
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Um I’m basically married so a lot of time with my spouse. Outside of her I have maybe one or two friends/plates/w.e. that I hang with from time to time to shoot the shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 09:26 PM
1

Included as the evil step-father bad-guy devil trope you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:16 PM
0

So do you imagine that if you had a woman that she’d be available to sex every time you want? Married men masturbate too. It’s about having your needs met, nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:26 PM
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The fact you connect such intense shame over masturbating to your masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 07:22 PM
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And despite the fact that masturbating to porn gives some piece of mind, it is pathetic and disgraceful, at least for a man that wants to be called one You need higher self esteem buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 06:14 PM
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I’ll never forget the time I was at the station with my gf and a woman “accidentally” fell into my chest when she wasn’t looking. That sort of shit would never happen if I was alone. Frankly I find it disrespectful, but w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:20 PM
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It only falls apart when we stop rating based on our own subjective scales and try to discuss rates on another persons opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 09:08 PM
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That’s goddamn right. You must be high if you think you’re living in my dime. Better figure some shit out or sell some pussy, cus I’ll put your ass right the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 12:38 PM
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Ditto, I am also creeped out by that reply -creepy young man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 01:39 AM
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Openly started seeking women who liked kinky male led relationships and could handle polyamory
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:36 PM
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selfish guy who just wanted a bangmaid who played videogames Ok ok ok, BUT. If he gives the kisses and hugs, and pays his part of the rent on time what else do you expect out of a relationship with him Chris rock said it best: sex and travel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:26 PM
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Old timey dudes did. Probably because they don’t like having their ass probed. Just sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:23 PM
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Aye bro high school is rough for team dark skin, but we in style again because of Blacked.com LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:12 PM
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Nope, because her personality will not make my dick hard. Hell I might have more fun fucking someone I hate just to bask in that kind of energy in the moment “Still beat”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 10:49 PM
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So you turn a blind eye towards opposite behavior like: “make him wait”, “treat me like a queen,” “keep a backup just in case”, or intentional “accidental” pregnancies designed to lock men into a arrangement I’m sure there are others, but I guess my point is: female dating strategy doesn’t really treat men the way you describe wanting to be treated either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:44 PM
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“You/I” is also a really pointless term when it comes to generalizing people’s behaviors. So let’s stick to generalizations since I don’t know you and that’s what we’re talking about. Why is TRP game any more necessary to “call out” than other gendered behaviors when it comes to attracting mates? Edit: I’m asking because it sounds like you actively frown on general techniques men use to try and get sex, like why that is a bad thing that men should be punished/shamed for?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 09:04 PM
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You’ll be more committed to yourself (narcissism). Which historically is more successful then a man being committed to a woman. I’m no RP but I always saw it as she dates me because she likes me (or what I have to offer) , not because I like her reciprocally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:24 PM
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Question: why are TRP tactics any more bs towards finding a mate then say; the newest makeup trends inspired by (insert here celeb du jour)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 08:20 PM
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Some other shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 06:41 PM
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Until you get that “I’m too tired” response You don’t have a right to use her body at leisure Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:01 PM
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Still beat tho 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:58 PM
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You basically described 80% of this society tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 03:59 PM
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We used to call it the “island theory” in college. I was in a dorm of 300 split evenly between the genders. Hot chicks would hook up with average dudes all the time because it’s what was available. Same thing goes for the busted chicks and guys that weren’t banging the hot girls. It’s almost like sex is a biological necessity Edit: same thing goes for navy boats I hear and submarines everyone is fucking everyone. Reminds me of that huge scientist orgy that goes on in Antarctica.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 10:49 PM
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This is probably the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 11:56 AM
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My ideal female boot camp would look like a thousand salty PUA’s setting internet fire to their blogs and labeling them all golddigging rapists (sorta like what they did to the male pua) No fun allowed 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:25 PM
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That’s because the handsome dudes don’t know how to treat women. Affection, appreciation, and acknowledgement are the keys to keeping our partner happy. This knowledge is easily accessible in relationship BOOKS
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:19 PM
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I once made a “friend” sit in the backseat of his own car because we were taking rotations driving, it was my gf’s turn to drive and I didn’t want him sitting in the passenger seat while she drove. Honestly I just didn’t like the way he looked at her at the time. Totally toxic shit smh. To make things worse she told me how hot it was. I swear to god, women love that toxic brute shit, goddamn shame 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 11:35 PM
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Damn right you can. But you gotta be cool with political sex scandals, cus I’ve got a ton
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:57 AM
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MAYBE we let the women abort whatever the fuck they want and we let the men paternity test and opt out of whatever the fuck they want. Less unwanted children all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:51 PM
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Surely you don’t think the average woman rates a 5 do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 10:26 PM
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Actually the chads I watched in college would take down anything from a 6-10s routinely. I wonder if it is about being above average or just seeking the same sort of validation women do delivered in another format
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 10:16 PM
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I sure hope it’s my kind of chocolate. I may need to plan a trip to see some silicone. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 09:59 PM
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The male version of this is the notion that you need to look like a guy on the front cover of Men's Health, and drive a Ferrari, and be having porn star sex with hundreds of women, and have a massive cock, and be making shit tonnes of money, and be really powerful and always in control, basically what is depicted in this advert, or else you're a failure. I’m almost embarrassed at how much I loved that advertisement. What’s wrong with having unrealistic goals? Even the phrase “shooting for the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:25 PM
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Wait if this is true where did white knighting originate?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 01:47 AM
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Would make an interesting case study ​
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:01 PM
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Well I am cringe enough, so that settles that doesn’t it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:15 PM
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Peoples use emojis now grandpa/ma get with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:10 PM
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Women by nature run a larger risk by having casual sex. This is just based on the fact that sexually there are generally more complications that can arise after casual sex Multiple casual partners lessens the chance that she can hold said partners accountable if a situation does occur. If you know that every time you fucked you ran a 15% chance for a yeast infection, I’m sure you’d be more discriminate too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 11:08 PM
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You might have guys who don't actively hit on you because you are married or whatever, but once bloods in the water, they will find out if you are interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:57 PM
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Negotiating sex sober. Something older generations clearly can’t relate to. 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 10:53 PM
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Furry alert
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:35 PM
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There are more women then men on the planet There are more available women than men (more men in jail) There are less eligible men (social status, financially viable) than there are women. But instead of settling, they are willing to stay single, or forgo men altogether and turn toward adoption or in-vitro and start a family on their own. Frankly all a guy has to do to land a woman 25+ is not be a maniac/pussy. For the ones that are too steeped in their own vanity? Let em stay single and bitter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 11:30 PM
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Emancipation of the womb? You’re joking right? What I do think is that partially born out of good nature, Stacy believes it’s her prerogative to justify dating masculine black men as a stand against racism. Which personally I think is patronizing, especially since they are not versed in our life experience. Black men culturally view white women as a status symbol probably for the perception of social immunity. Now that’s not to say that I see dating interracially is wrong. But I don’t think enga…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 03:26 PM
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I agree, but think about how we are still vilified. Stacy is only willing to engage because she knows that she still has the upper hand socially. The mortal fear of black men is still alive and can easily be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:56 PM
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are asking a black civil rights movement to stress the importance of white priviliged citizens White fems literally don’t know what to do about black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 10:15 PM
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Frankly I refuse to acknowledge any feminist term that centers their problems around my masculine identity or ideals. Which is imo a reflection of how women refuse to acknowledge any term that doesn’t blame men for their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 09:42 PM
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Nobody likes to be bullied. But no that doesn’t count as “showing off”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:33 PM
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Well put
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:32 PM
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What about Ross getting dropped from Reebok?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 08:27 PM
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Eminem was forced into anger rehab in the 90s wasn’t he? Over aggressive lyrics. There is totally a precedent for punishing rappers in general. Cardi just happens to be in the limelight right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:50 AM
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Masculine and feminist are mutually exclusive concepts. Especially since the latter is constantly trying to destroy the former
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:04 AM
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Good problem to have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:00 AM
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This is definitely spot on. Why else would We knowingly open ourselves to interactions with others. Everybody talks about focusing on careers n shit. We shouldn’t be surprised when people actually do it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 12:44 AM
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Nothing tangible
/r/MensRights29/03/19 07:28 PM
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I liked Doc Love’s The system. His content used to be prevalent back when I followed askmen.com
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 02:23 AM
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Maybe I don’t visit on desktop to see the sidebar, but aren’t most of their posts just being salty about what trp posts? They don’t really have any posited answers/theories for the male relationship struggle so it always comes off as empty criticism to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 10:55 PM
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I know the guy you described to a T, except there’s one descriptive word missing: Virgin. (And now even your perfect man is undateable)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 01:08 PM
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Would you commit yourself to a woman you didn’t feel attracted too sexually? I have a friend who was dating the daughter of a very prominent actor. His daughter though was wildly overweight, but had a awesome personality. Things died down when she pressed for a commitment and he denied her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 01:02 PM
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Because I wouldn’t look down on a 9/10 with a pink collar job making 35k a year busting her ass. As long as she is supportive, has a banging bod, and wants the same things as I do out of life then there’s no issue. A woman’s career is largely unimportant to men because we don’t seek out “ability to provide” as a trait in our partners
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 12:41 PM
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Reading this made my4th grade grammar teacher roll over in her grave
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 10:55 AM
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Holy shit 🤭🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:27 PM
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I believe you I really do. But I’ve seen the same girl selling beers for a few years. And we always go through the same cycle: Intense flirting (from both ends) Getting the number Her ghosting me I detach for a few months and inevitably end up getting a beer again. (And the cycle continues) Now normally I’d be like fuck it, but her proximity to beer fucks up my judgement. Wat do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:24 PM
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The smartest men find those certain kinds of women with their shit already together or the potential to have their shit together and tight butts and perky tits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:07 PM
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Lol nobody said anything about blacks. Btw there are tons on other underrepresented minorities you could cherry pick from. And the bias being discussed is between the genders not races
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:06 PM
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Does it matter? Whether it takes you 3 dates or 6 dates to put out. I’m probably fucking atleast two other women on the side that I’ve already passed the delayed sex shit test with. All three women are human/ worth more than sex. But sex isn’t going to make me want to “commit” to any The problem doesn’t stem until she’s all like let’s be exclusive/are you seeing anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 02:49 PM
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Don’t worry OP this entire thread is just moving goalposts in order to avoid the honest admittance that nobody cares because Superman was a man, and Capitan marvel is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:18 PM
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The next shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:52 PM
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Because he will likely tell that rando he’s going out for a pack of smokes and not come back for eighteen years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:31 PM
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The goal post will move indefinitely, you’ve done enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:28 PM
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Bad advice. Marry her, stay childless, and when she swings branches wipe your tears with her alimony. Partners who make more money and aren’t lawyered up get divorce raped
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:21 PM
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That nagging insecurity you feel is reality refusing to be buried in political correctness diatribe. You have to be honest with yourself and admit that: **your new partner likes you partially because you are conventionally attractive, and if you neglect this facet, a peice of their love for you will die. This is also self evident in your desire to automatically next anyone in your life that knew you before you had this transformative weight loss. They aren’t good enough for you because they acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:11 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:53 PM
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Nope. Chad not going to waste time spinning a plate he can't pill off the shelf to use. It’s funny, I don’t consider my female friends spinning a plate. Simply because I don’t put anymore energy into maintaining the relationship besides smiling and making conversation. As soon as they start needing things I can’t help. (Unless I’m indebted)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:47 PM
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You forgot the fact that this is how Chad ends up fucking your girl when you inevitably fuck it up. RaiseAwareness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:35 PM
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Lets get even more meta. Men failed the shit test the moment we were born. Women as a gender at large do not respect men. And they probably never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:09 PM
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Don’t both sexes go through this SAME red pill bitter phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:32 PM
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This boy buggin. Bring that 23-25 BMI over here sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:19 PM
1

What about the mermaid manatee rule? Barney Simpson said it best. Sooner or later that manatee will become a mermaid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:14 PM
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She humiliated and shamed his father incessantly, enmeshed Neil, and confided in him like she would a husband. As long as she could manipulate and control him she would allow him to be part of her life. As soon as he would show independence, or talk about her issues, she would shut down on him. Strauss goes to sex therapy during the book and eventually leaves his hot model wife to chase what he believes is the holy grail of sex (free love, ffmf compositions, and swinger parties) only to still fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 12:09 PM
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Statistics aren’t racist, they can just be manipulated to “prove” whatever you want. Anyone can throw around uncited assertions, or even cited ones without explanation of how the condition was created to make themselves sound knowledgeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:55 PM
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Put down the Fox5 Ryan
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:25 PM
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Troll detected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:01 PM
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Women punish sexualized women through shaming Men don’t punish them BUT they don’t reward them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:15 AM
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Seducers make better coffee dates. And if you eat pussy you’re bound to do just fine in the lover department.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 11:59 PM
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Whites are a global minority to begin with. Whiteness is not a global minority. Because it is a concept that transcends a physical person and is embodied in a inherit favoritism that extends to countries with even a minority white population.
/r/MensRights21/12/18 06:08 PM
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Pretty sure the topic is discussing whiteness more than maleness. Asian black and Latino men are all featured in the data are they not?
/r/MensRights21/12/18 01:02 PM
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The issue is that you think any sleight in favor of another group hurts yours. Which isn’t true. But what is true is that whites (men and women) have spent centuries hurting other groups to benefit themselves. So miss me with the woe is me oppression theories. I wonder quantifiably how many working class whites there are in comparison to other working class minorities. Super easy way to skew the data in favor of a narrative.
/r/MensRights21/12/18 12:59 PM
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And here I am with 40x matches and not one actual date 😫
/r/seduction18/11/18 12:51 PM
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She’s bringing a friend to keep your meeting from being conceived as a date. You probably shouldn’t escalate physically, but I’d make a “fresh” joke about you two being intimate to test the waters. Laughing is good, being offended is not. Good luck
/r/seduction21/09/18 05:18 PM
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This. Sort of. All of the threesomes I’ve had have been arranged. It became 50x easier once I found a stable gf/fwb that didn’t mind some strange every so often. Logistically it worked out fine but I will say that I think threesomes are inherently awkward if the women aren’t 100% into each other. The first was a girl from our local kink community, but the majority have been female friends of mine and some of hers that were dtf. That doesn’t make the threesome bad necessarily. Just a little awkwa…
/r/seduction21/09/18 05:15 PM
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I think what’s missing is this is good technique on how to build rapport with anyone. Extremely useful while networking, I keep a mental list of topics I can bring up at any time. Sex Music Movies Hobbies Traveling Human Nature Outlook on life Pets Childhood
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:59 PM
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Again, when a person talk about they problem, they will never make fun of it. Are you even been in a real problem that could cost your life to say that ? Actually I know a few men that have low self esteem and a spindly frame, that attract women by being genuine and comical about their situation. My point is this: if you frame your situation as negative and beat yourself up over it the only energy you will attract is pity. So if you’re going to be honest to others about your predicament (whateve…
/r/seduction11/09/18 03:46 PM
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Are you going to keep being negative and self defeating? There are tons of women into video games and electronics. (Proof because they stream on twitch) You have to be the type of person people want to be around for you to attract anyone. If you’re going to be self depreciating at least be funny, ya know?
/r/seduction10/09/18 10:30 PM
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I hear you, and what one saying is move faster. If you see she’s losing interest you’ve already missed he optimal moment on escalating and bouncing to another location. Strike while the iron is hot so to speak
/r/seduction10/09/18 07:21 PM
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So make some of those first. Try starting with women that share your interests. Focus on friendships first, when you can say you have 2-3 women friends then start focusing on romantic relationships. Hell you could probably get one of the original 2-3 to hook you up.
/r/seduction10/09/18 07:18 PM
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I think many people relate to some of the difficulties you mention. You spend so much time getting in set and building rapport only to have it come up with naught. Also “bounce” the conversation to somewhere more conducive to conversation than the center of the dance floor. Next I find that having a canned closer and a plan ready to be helpful. It doesn’t need to be elaborate, just a simple “What do you say we head to my place?”
/r/seduction10/09/18 03:56 PM
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Don’t rely on dating apps. It’s supplementary if anything. The best results will come from your female friends. So make some of those first.
/r/seduction10/09/18 03:48 PM
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Seconded this. Also when you interact with pharmacy girl just make sure you smile a lot and maintain eye contact. Once she recognizes you pass a compliment of some sort and slide in a “I’m sure your husband (boyfriend) is a very lucky man” You’ll know where you stand once she answers.
/r/seduction10/09/18 01:17 PM
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Find something you love doing. Be exceptional at it. Friends will gravitate towards your skill. Women will gravitate towards your friends.
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:28 PM
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Good to know mgtow is a cover for salty racists. For all we know they could be babysitting, as the child clearly doesn’t look like it belongs to either of them. Go hate somewhere else
/r/MGTOW02/09/18 09:22 AM
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If only being called a home wrecker still carried the same weight. But alas, here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:20 PM
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In my experience women only really hang around if they wanna fuck someone in the crew. Either that or they leech.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:49 PM
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You choose.......... Poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:59 PM
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He’s clearly an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:50 PM
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Do you maintain friendships with women only to bang her or her friends? Explicitly? No. In the case of her revealing that she would never fuck me or is in a relationship and only had male friends would you take off? Abso fucking lutely. If not, then why do you maintain friendships with women? Maintain friendships with women to - understand female perspective / fuck their friends/ fuck them. Too many women have tried to be the “cool girl “in the guy group, to which we ask: What makes you so cool?…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:49 PM
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Jesus it’s this line of thinking that destroys societal standards. “Don’t you fuck your cousins?” is only two steps away. Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:17 PM
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Actually I didn’t say that. But I did say you better have more to offer than your sparkling personality. Please proceed though especially since through all the virtue signaling most the men are confirming my points What have you learned so far OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:10 PM
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“The claw” is one of my favorite moves, so bite me. 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:17 PM
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I didn’t use the word rape. And neither did she. But that opened up the can of worms anyway didn’t it. The fact it got so much attention is because the media were itching at the fucking bits to slander another male celebrity’s name. You know it, I know it. Superman is right to be on his wits. These chicks will take a consensual relationship and decide to flip the script when shit doesn’t pan out the way they like years later
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:16 PM
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We’re clearly not talking about men in bars hitting on chicks. But career minded men with something to lose dealing with women they don’t know casually. I’m willing to bet celeb men saw the aziz fiasco and decided “fuck everything about that”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:04 PM
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It doesn’t take a conviction to ruin a man’s career. Just a whisper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:59 PM
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Aziz actually had sex with that woman, and the vast majority of people that i saw (and I believe the woman herself?) didnt say he actually raped her, they just criticized how he acted during the encounter It doesn’t matter whether he did or did not. Sexual misconduct accusations and public shaming on a national level are enough to turn most men away from the idea of casual pickups. ESPECIALLY if you profit from your reputation. Court of public opinion gives two shits about the judicial system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:56 PM
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Keyword here is allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:39 PM
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It implies that women are always out here flinging tape accusations at men Aziz Ansari
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:17 PM
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Can I just point out that there is no better wingman than a chick who knows you're good in bed but doesn't want you for herself? Yes I know this. But you’re already operating from a place of power. (You’ve already slept together) So would you befriend a “platonic” woman that isn’t willing to be your wingman? (But still wants your masculine energy?) Probably not. What does that have to do with the price of tea in China? If that is "still" your point, when did you ever make it before? I'm not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:46 PM
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Not if she’s happy. What’s there to counter? Part of our pillow talk is me talking about what nonsense showed up on PPD today. Our discussions about ppd are pretty entertaining. It’s battle of the sexes to understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:31 PM
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Yeah because that question was clearly bait to derail my point and bring out dudes like you to jump out the woodworks and go “not me!!” . I am a man slut with broad standards and I have platonic friendships with dozens of women I would fuck in a heartbeat. That’s not platonic buddy. They all know that if they felt like it the could call me and I'd plow them like a field, but it's their call. So you’re on their hook. They have power over you. Get it out of your mind that you’ll fuck them and take…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:14 PM
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Yeah, I do. It’s fine if your facing some sort of cognitive disconnect in spite of a hard truth that disagrees with your idealistic worldview. Reality is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:32 PM
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A friendship is a symbiotic relationship where the people involved share details about themselves they would otherwise not be comfortable divulging. A confidant. Someone that can be relied on for favors or can be reciprocated selflessly out of desire to see them progress. Friendships specifically are devoid of sexual intention. Personally I don’t believe that women are all that great of friends to each other either. Sure they’re good providing group coverage on a girls night out, but with all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:27 PM
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Firstly, I have fairly "masculine" interests that my girlfriends don't have and don't enjoy talking about. Men don’t care about your opinion of the NBA draft. Secondly, I am interested broadly in people and hearing a man's viewpoint on things like relationships, dating etc, is always interesting. You have men stationed in your life naturally that can provide those outlooks. Befriending single dudes (or even ones with girlfriends) that want to fuck you is disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:57 AM
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We’ve told you our agency but you’re not willing to respect it. Male friendships are largely utilitarian. Being present and feminine isn’t enough in the long run. Either supplement the emotional relationship you want with the physical one we want OR be willing hook us up with your attractive friends. If you’re not willing to do either then you can leave. If all you do as a chick is drink all the booze and bring other dudes around you aren’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:54 AM
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That’s cool because you obviously don’t see your selfish narrative that you believe men owe you friendship because you think your personality is so gleaming that men will forgo any sexual response they had just to bask in the glow you are. Get off your own pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:05 AM
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What are you looking to gain from a male friendship that you can’t get from your father, brothers, cousins, etc? I have female friends, but they became so after we had sex and determined a relationship was not in the future. And even so if I ever wanted too I’m sure I could stir up those feelings again. Honestly they’re closer to orbiters Btw girls are notoriously shitty at friendships even with other women. So why should men even entertaining that nonsense. She ain’t really your friend unless s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:37 PM
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This cmv is asinine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:32 PM
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Jams with the plausible deniability clause. “I told him one thing” Then we did something completely different. If you try to Aziz Ansari this chick all night after she’s repeatedly told you No, you’re looking at assault. She was #metoo baiting and refused to communicate anything before leaving and writing the press about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:21 PM
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Nah, be serious. Majority of women cannot take direct rejection graciously. Much worse honestly than the average male who eats rejection atleast 3x every Friday night. Lots of times when men ditch a “friendship” because she isn’t entertaining the idea of a sexual relationship they bow out quietly. God save the man that tells her he’s not down because she won’t fuck him. Suddenly he’s a prick for having his own agency. Women want to be viewed as more than a sex object, but let’s face it: unless y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:17 PM
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I have a fun saying that goes. Men and women can’t be friends. One is always lusting on the other, so if it isn’t you doing the lusting.... The funny thing is sometimes the balance shifts and you’re the one lusting after once being lusted after and visa versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:12 PM
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