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Stability doesn't matter if the other things aren't there. Isn't this the problem that OP pointed out in the first place? Women would rather have attractive, exciting partners, stability be damned, filtering out the majority of men. If we truly believe "good" behavior (kindness, altruism, emotional stability) should be the priority in a relationship then physical attractiveness and "boring" personality should be secondary or doesn't matter at all. constantly in need of reassurance, and needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:43 AM
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If you truly believe attractiveness is mostly a social construct, you can start by hyping up positive male behaviors and shaming/cancelling women who prefer negative or immutable traits (height, hair, facial features). You as an adult individual is not malleable, but next generation of women might. Kind of like body-positivity for men on steroid. I personally think you can't do anything about it, since I believe a lot of factors determining attraction is biological rather than social.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:22 AM
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I actually find romance manga/anime, Hallmark movies and romance novels to be similar in that they are very insulated from outside of their demography. This means the author can go buck wild on appeasing the core audience and you can see/read their deepest, darkest desire, which of course alienate people who are not into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:11 AM
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Men literally cannot handle being held responsible for their own promiscuity This is a problem of very few men. Most men can't even get one sex partner. I have no problem with gossiping network. It has its purpose, had always existed and will be so in the near future. Online gossiping network however is much more dangerous than offline one. TEA app is an (supposed to be) anonymous, public unmoderated forum that post private information online, prone to petty remarks, revenge and slander. Someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:03 AM
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JFK loved hookers, so does Tiger Woods. Charlie Sheen and Hugh Grant got caught soliciting. Heck Richard Gere's character in "An Officer and a Gentleman" tag teamed a pair of hookers with his dad in basically the first scene of the movie and that character is one of the biggest sex symbol of the 80s. People don't care when the man in question already demonstrates high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:03 AM
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Gossiping network has always been around and will be so in the future, since they serve a need to vet your potential partner. Most girls I know don't want to unknowingly enter a harem or be a part of a spinning plates roster. Back when you meet your potential partners via mutual friends/families you can ascertain the reputation of your potential partner through them. And it's not just girls that are supposed to utilize this. Back when I was in uni 15 years ago I had a female friend who warned me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:25 AM
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Such as; "18 years old girls are WWWWAYYYYYY than some old bitch who has hit the wall at 25,30,35. Any woman that's 28+ are old, ugly, useless, and have no value to men. I am going to leave my old wife for a young and hot 18 year old." these are the things men have said. Those kind of comments are actually directed towards the young, attractive women that reject them. Kind of a sour grape/bitter parting shot to make them feel better about themselves. Most people (men and women) do not care about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:42 AM
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You are trying to find a logical answer in a social sphere. I think our gender double standard in regards to sexual promiscuity is much more biological than social in nature. Even in pre-industrial society male promiscuity is much more acceptable than female ones. The strongest answer I can think of lies in paternity. A sexually promiscuous female might bear a child that is not her husband's/mate's. This might be a safeguard that prevent men from spending his resources raising a child that is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:06 AM
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To excel at chess, you need an unhealthy level of obsession at a young age. It's an interesting point and in the Polgar case the sisters (who also had success at chess but "only" at women level competition) said that while Judit was not the fastest learner among them, she was the most obsessed with chess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:25 AM
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Judit Polgár ranked as high as 8 and she used to visit my country and kicked our best chess player's ass when I was a kid in the 90s. Her story is insane though since her dad controversially trained her (and her sister) in chess at a very early age, and essentially made them subjects of an experiment in nature vs nurture. And part of her eventual success can be attributed to her dad's insistence for her to compete against men rather than in female only competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:24 AM
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In pragmatic sense gender splitting is done to encourage participation of the females. You can argue the cause of low participation to be discrimination, social pressure, gender preference, social taboo/stigma or even a controversial biological one but the end result is positive: you get more girls to participate, their general skill level improve and will hopefully catch up to the best in the future. AFAIK most top league (even in sports where biology/anatomy plays a huge role) are open (e.g. f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:10 AM
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Anecdotal of course, but in my experience inter-rivalry between female friends are more Machiavellian/subtle than those between males. Not that there is little conflict between males, but they tend to be more direct and confrontational. In my experience while women might not resort to physical confrontation with each other, the psychological warfare is on another level, and there's even more spitefulness and envy and ill will between women than among men. My guess is girls are socially condition…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 07:20 AM
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from practical point of view your argument is moot. females hold so much power in dating market due to big surplus of single males. you are trying to appeal to sense of fairness/justice for women to let go one of their traditional gender privilege and they said no. Most people would not let go of their privilege for free without threat of negative consequences or rewards. As previous poster said there is no shortage of willing men to replace you should you refuse to comply to their dating standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:16 PM
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That's the thing with Blue Pill isn't it, it's even less codified than redpill, it is what you believe to be the truth before you are exposed to the redpill. Things you picked up from media, parents, friends, peers and most importantly from what girls themselves tell you. I used to believe that 'be nice' mean that I help them with their problem, getting to know them more and let them know more about me, unfiltered, would increase our bond and get her to love me. I would not look at or seek oppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:35 AM
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the most common redpill advice is to improve your value (by hitting the gym, get your life in order, get better job or hobby etc). they tell you how sexual attraction works so you don't fall into pitfall of false beliefs that you (at least I did) had (just being a nice, agreeable provider will attract girls). what you wrote in your initial post are more in line with blackpill beliefs, which think those values are inherent/genetic that you cannot alter them outside of drastic actions such as plas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:11 PM
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There's a whole NPR episode about this. One of their most interesting argument was when computers first entered family home (thus can be accessed by kids) they are marketed as boys toys and as a result males would get a head start over females when they entered computer courses in college. A college student me would definitely love more female students but the reality is pretty bleak, Computer Science was even worse than Mech Engineering at my school 20 years ago (I literally counted). Anecdotal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:24 PM
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I'm a huge fan of Dragon Age series since the first game so I think I can write a whole essay on this. Dragon Age have always been progressive when it comes to sexuality. Even very early on in the first game the lore (via in-game book discussing sexuality in Thedas IIRC) establishes that sexuality preferences is no big deal in this universe and people view it as quirk rather than societal norms that have to be enforced via persecution or social taboo. But the biggest difference is the enforcemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:56 AM
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I read an article a long time ago discussing some of the greatest superhero movie scenes and the Raimi's Spiderman 2 climax (when MJ finally figures out Spiderman/Peter identity) comes out on top for this reason. The author argues that this scene taps into the (paraphrasing) saddest, deepest desire of people who have had an unrequited love: the girl finally falling in love, realizing the super part/quality that had always been inside of them. It is not as self-destructive as OP's example but cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:37 PM
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Dealing with drunk guys can be extremely unpredictable. You can get seriously injured or even die just from one unlucky fall to the concrete, and this is discounting things like knifes and guns. And even if you "win" they can quickly turn into battery/manslaughter charges. I’m a freaking tiny woman, I'm 84 pounds, and I’ve put myself in dangerous situations where I could’ve been in serious trouble There is a privilege that women get in that men (most of the time) would pull punches or prevent ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:04 AM
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>Yes, men have it 1000x harder in dating, yes women live on easy mode, yes the west is extremely misandrist and gynocentric; but all these are the natural consequences of a free society. And yes genetics are important, but they're nowhere close to everything, and it's extremely important to take agency in your own life. > Yes, reality is brutal for men, but the answer to these harsh realities isn't to become a hopeless doomer, and the answer to the prevalence of hateful misandry isn't to become …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 06:27 PM
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Patricia Arquette vs James Gandolfini in True Romance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:27 AM
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Men (and women) should spend more time searching for sex through their passions, hobbies, which may even be their careers. I don't think this a good advice. Meeting women solely through hobby and career can be very limiting, narrowing your pool considerably. What if your career/hobby is very male dominated? Picking a hobby with lots of women is a valid strategy but you can come across as a creep/opportunist, especially if you don't actually enjoy them. A lot of people who pick up RP had trouble …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:17 AM
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Well yes, you are supposed to pick up these "hidden" social rules as you grow up, but some (by virtue of low social IQ, limited social circles/interaction or media/entertainment that they consume) never fully get it. While some of what you said is painfully obvious: young, pretty women and handsome/rich/successful guys are very attractive to the opposite sex, there are some that I didn't pick up until I was a little bit older (e.g. I was genuinely baffled by a female classmate that kept coming b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:00 AM
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There would be much less complaining and disillusionment. A lot of men (especially younger, inexperienced ones) are genuinely confused at the discrepancy between what they are being told and what they experienced/witnessed. I am guessing neuro-divergent men even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:36 AM
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Yes, ugly/old/fat/unattractive women and their male counterpart (poor/short/ugly) tend to be ignored. In dating world we only care about people we want to fuck, we ignore the rest. I had a female relative with similar situation to your friend (fat, mild disability, poor social skills). Luckily she was not bullied but she's completely ignored by other people (even other girls when she's only looking for friendship). This is one of the reason I never plunged completely into RP, I've seen firsthand…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:05 AM
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given the chance people will choose a finished product over potential, and it is a sensible thing to do. problem is they rarely have the chance to do so. You are the most desirable for men when you're young and as such you should choose the most desirable men- male models, multi millionaires, professional athletes. You do realize that they have hundreds of 10/10 women knocking on their doors. I follow the NBA and even middling non star players have girls hitting on them at every city hoping for …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:27 PM
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Now, I know males are not a monolith (also inB4). But GENERALLY speaking... Do you yourself hate them? (Don't answer if you are a general misogynist) No. Don't particularly care what they do, their life their choice. Or have you observed your male friends talking about their hatred for promiscuous women? No, this is something I see happens online only. Friends would warn you if a girl is promiscuous though, particularly if you're trying to GF the girl. As an addendum I've seen sluts/whores used …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:33 AM
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The most jarring thing is that these women are supposed to be on the opposite spectrum of the RedPill/BlackPill/Incel yet they *organically* came out with the exact same conclusion as their supposed ideological opponents (hypergamy, the top 1/30 men having a complete control of the sexual marketplace).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:19 AM
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In late 2000 there was a scandal involving Hong Kong actor Edison Chen. He had sexual trysts with a bunch of female celebrities, recorded/photographed the encounters and somehow the whole thing (>1000 of photos) got leaked on the internet. I read an investigative article in a magazine and turns out his method to score is to just come up to the woman and ask her for sex (he approached a lot of female celebrities, often at the hotel where they are staying). At the time I was astounded by the simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 11:20 AM
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i read an article written by a data scientist at OkCupid years ago analyzing the data to check the correlation between age and attraction. IIRC they use photo rating (which does not say age) and cross check it with the age of the rater. The results are pretty extreme. For males, the attraction - age curve is basically a flat line: women aged 20 (which is the minimum legal age for okcupid i think, one would think in absence of age restriction this can go even lower) are the highest rated by males…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:24 PM
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The problem being that the 'numbers' of women who you had to practice on to get better at it are real people, with real lives and we are normalizing telling strange men to come up to them, interrupt them and stammer through some awkward pickup attempt and do this with enough women until you get it right. There must be a middle ground for this. Telling young men to stop approaching women because it is inconveniencing them while providing no alternative is putting the convenience of women above al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:25 AM
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The problem being that the 'numbers' of women who you had to practice on to get better at it are real people, with real lives and we are normalizing telling strange men to come up to them, interrupt them and stammer through some awkward pickup attempt and do this with enough women until you get it right. This why red-pill can be empowering to men. A lot of people teach young men to put convenience of others (especially women) above everything else, downplaying their desire for companionship whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:54 AM
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I agree with you to some extent. Some factor heavily correlates with others. So I think one thing people get the wrong way around is that to be attractive it's important to remain no chalant. The opposite of being nonchalant is being needy and desperate. And those traits are some of the strongest women-repellant you can have. I had a decently attractive male friend who got really desperate around women (he just got out of a mandatory 2 year military service at the time). And all of my female fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:01 AM
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yeah it was fucking tragic, but in those kind of situation you really have very little time to think and rely a lot on instinct (which can easily be triggered by women or children in danger, and the biker guy was beating up the girl) the thing is it didnt seem that dangerous and i can see why they tried to help. the incident occured in the morning around 8 am in the middle of the CBD (the good samaritans were on their morning run), not some desolate dark alley in the middle of the night. Austral…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:46 PM
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Years ago, there was an incident in Melbourne involving a Hell's Angel, his stripper girlfriend and two passerby. The biker had an altercation with his girlfriend, and these two men who are total strangers tried to help her, only to be shot by the biker for their effort. One of the man (a solicitor with wife and kids) was immediately killed. Media and the public (me included) lauded his action, but when I told this story to my mom she, without missing a beat, said that what the man did was total…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:03 AM
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I don’t come from a culture that has much insight into match making services or arranged marriage so I could be typing nonsense, but I do believe that looks, health, personality traits, job prospects, family background, inheritance, education, and assets are still very much taken into account in the process. Matchmaking is usually done by family and friends, and they absolutely take those factors into consideration. I had highest quality match (in terms of suitability) from this channel, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:11 AM
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And when a female friend revealed that she had a body count of over 100 at a party once, you could see the scales fall from men's eyes as they tried to conceal their disgust. As a male I can tell you that feeling of disgust is innate and primal. I can't explain it and it's very hard to rationalize it away, which is why I think it is biological in nature. And if you compare it to the past our attitude towards (female) promiscuity is as tolerant as it's ever been. Turn the clock back 100 years and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:05 AM
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I know many women who are low maintenance, happy go lucky, kind, considerate... but they happen to be financially successful… That last part is a buzzkill for many men. I this really the case? Most career-driven and successful single women I know have this main problem: their preferred partners (someone at least as successful as her) is very few and have options. I remember reading a female surgeon complaining that her male peer is marrying a younger school teacher instead of seeing her as a pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:55 AM
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Even if we solve the reproduction and workforce issue you have to remember that sexual dimorphism has existed since even before our species is Homo Sapiens. Removing that from the equation would produce something drastic and completely different from what we know. Would we still even have sex drive or retain our sexual organs? (they are not needed anymore if reproduction in your scenario is asexual). In the case of sexualities still exist we might have homosexual activity by necessity (look at p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:45 AM
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I thought this is a conventional wisdom among people, especially women. I have heard so many warnings from older people to girls when I was young: "Careful he only wants sex with you", "Beware of his tongue, he's going to promise you everything (commitment, marriage) but will bail once you give him what he wants (sex)". Speaking of which early 2010s movie Bridesmaids give this exact problem to its main character. Kirsten Wiig is a fuckbuddy of a very attractive man (Jon Hamm), and she desperatel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:04 AM
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Based on my experience observing friends and peers the woman is in the worse state. Of course this is a very rough answer since the hypothetical scenario is very broad but based on my single female friends/peers my age (30 something) the females are having worse time than the males. One of my very outgoing friend that like to play matchmakers for his friends told me that there are more single females looking for partner in his potential pool than the other way around (most of my friends are 30+)…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:23 AM
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The disconnect is the refusal from progressives/feminists to finish the job of reconstructing the entire gender dynamic with both men and women in mind. I think a lot people are confused at what feminists role is. Their role is to push for women rights, make things better for women and not an arbiter of social justice or maintaining social harmony. This is like people who act surprised when professional sports player association come to the defense of players who committed moral sin (e.g. Deshau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:15 AM
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I can think of three movies with RP element, if not anti BP element:500 days of summer, Last American Virgin, and Blue Valentine. The main characters are all BP, but the outcome is what differentiate them from more conventional Hollywood romance/romcoms. Last American Virgin in particular hits hard: MC simping for a girl, even paying for an expensive abortion (not his obviously) only for the girl to come back to the dude that impregnates her at the end of the movie. Most people who watch these m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:14 AM
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“Hey have an idea for a movie and it’s about a guy who can teach men how to be successful AND get lots of women!” This is the plot of Crazy Stupid Love, probably the closest RP fantasy we get in mainstream rom-com.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:04 AM
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Is it about "fairytale love" thing he said? Well it's because it never exists. His love for her was high school crush stuff that probably would never survive the real world even if he someone managed to get with her. I am not saying if he's a good partner or not. The only information we have is small information from his wife in this post. And a lot of men experienced what he went through (friendzoned, resentment, PUA phase). But the fact that a lot of people who read this thread consider the wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:47 AM
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Well if you are going to ask men to open up to their deepest fear and insecurities this is what you are going to get. Girls they loved and had crushes on that they never got. Being friendzoned. Facts that part of him are still bitter and resentful. Stuffs that make women lose their respect. It's ugly stuff, not neat, resolved things. And it can be the same for women. There was a woman whose sexual past was reveled to her partner. Numerous sexual partners and even a gangbang. Completely turned he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:28 AM
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This post is exactly why men know better than to open up to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:14 AM
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A lot of men actually went through this in their youth: falling in love with someone way above his league, idealizing her and the romance, being friendzoned before eventually waking up to the reality. The fact that he goes the PUA route and feeling bitter about the whole experience is something a lot of men understand and even experienced. The men wouldn't just freely share this kind of shit to everyone though, because they know that it would turn-off most (if not all) women. The wife is privy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:58 AM
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Oscar Wilde wrote "The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it." Kinda appropriate that this quote is used in a novel about a beautiful young person destroying himself succumbing to a never-ending hedonistic cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:37 AM
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Once we left school some girls slept around a ton. I’m guessing this was some kind of reaction to being so repressed and told our value was in our so called “purity”. I call them "Todd Marinovich syndrome" where an incredibly repressed kid goes wild once they are released from their shackles and experience freedom. It should be a cautionary tale for overly protective/restrictive helicopter parents. There is a reason why preacher's kid is a stereotype we know and recognize. I don’t think hoe phas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:51 AM
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The point of my post is not to condemn Western culture as "wrong" but to give perspectives on how this attitude towards body count are shaped in the first place. I can easily counter that Western cultural attitude towards male virginity is harmful towards both genders, and it may be due to western media depictions of it. Think of popular movies that depict young virgin males as bumbling, pathetic people and virginity as something that has to be shed as soon as possible. It starts as early as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:47 AM
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I am giving a perspective from non-Western culture: Being a virgin as a man is not repulsive, because it is the "normal" thing to be. While most couple would have sex before marriage, a lot of them wouldn't admit it outright so saving your virginity for marriage is "normal" for both genders. Having a body count for a woman is a death sentence, let alone a high number. A lot of redditors lament western attitude on high body count women as being regressive, but if anything western culture is almos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:24 AM
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What you said is mostly true (except for the better looking part, this is a novelty factor kicking in), especially from the perspective of western (white) man. I am a SEA nationer (born and bred), used to live in western country for some time. Physically, a white man would have some advantages here: Fair skin, long/large nose is considered to be attractive and are more rare features for native population Your height score go up immediately as the average height of SEA people are much lower than …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:01 AM
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So Putin (a Russian man) started this war so Ukrainian men are responsible? It does not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:59 AM
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Even if you think that they are useless on the field you can allocate them to support roles in war. Cooks, logistics, mechanics, maintenance. The real cause is there is no sane institution that would sacrifice a fertile woman over a young man. It is much easier to "repopulate" with lots of women and few men than the other way around. Society with few women and lots of unmarried young men are unstable and nations/kingdoms in the past have gone to war to send these young men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:38 AM
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just express your interest, if she is not interested politely back away and move on. We did a similar of thing (offering products to strangers) as sales training, most people are not bothered if you are not pushy or angry when turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:32 AM
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The average looking man in his 30's who missed out on dating and sex from their youth to mid-20s is going to still have to play catch up and really overcompensate for their lack of experience. While I agree you are not going to magically turn to 9s/10s as you get older, most people are better equipped to improve themselves (physically, financially, and mentally) as they leave their teenage phase. You are still going to play catch-up but if you have the correct mindset, you can catch-up after one…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:41 AM
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Has there ever been a poll/survey on the gender distribution of this sub? I have a feeling that (just like reddit in general), there is a gender imbalance in this subreddit. This causes more male-oriented perspectives/problems posted in this sub. As for whether there is something wrong with dating world, there is no right answer. It implies there is a "fair" mate selection system, when there is none. What exist are changes that tip the balance to one side or another. The online dating is the lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:52 AM
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While the RP teachings themselves are not hateful, I found a lot of RP followers are jaded or extremely cynical towards women. It really reminds me of the phrase "inside every cynic is a disappointed idealist", you can see that a lot of them used to have BP beliefs and reality beat them over and over for it. While my more naturally "RP" friends never had that idealism and the resulting cynicism. If anything RP is a "sustainable" ideology. With BP you can get stuck on a woman trying to win her ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:26 AM
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Most of the time this is just lip service. No john asks for IDs or proof of age, most of the time they just do the eye-test (she looks 18 to me) and wouldn't lose any sleep if they don't get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:38 AM
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Most of them don't speak English. The danger is in going to seedy areas which you are not familiar with (since you're not a local). Looking like a gringo with a lot of USD to spend you will definitely be mugged. The other risk is the girl. Some of them are addicted to substances, and the ones that do will not be hesitant to rob you or nick your wallet when you are not looking. Much safer choice is Thailand. More English speaker and even cheaper hotels accommodate sex tourists (they ask for the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:34 AM
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Yes it is incredibly dangerous especially if you do not speak the language. Especially the cheap ones in cheap areas. If you want it to be safer you need to shell out for decent hotel and for the girl to come. Which means much more expensive. There is a reason why Thailand is a much more popular sex tourist destination. More of them speak English, still cheap but much safer. The only problem for American tourists is the distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:20 AM
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From personal experience, I can only say one thing. Being in no relationship is infinitely better than being in a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:09 AM
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Yes, this is how free market works. However in every system there are losers (in economic sense, not personal) who ended up with nothing. They would wish/push for changes that better their prospect (shaming people with certain preferences as shallow, wishing for other system like arranged marriages or celibacy before marriage) but most of the times these are just talks. At the end of the day even if the method is sound and fair, results can be less than desirable. A lot of people (including me) …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:02 AM
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yes, then that would be denial because you actually are seeking a relationship. It is difficult to put this label on other people as you cannot truly judge a person's intention. Therefore the need for evidence that they are not coping by actually rejecting/passing up an opportunity for relationship. But you can easily tell if yourself are single by choice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:26 AM
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Rejection for any reason sucks for anyone. Part of a learning curve in dating for men is that you will be rejected by women that you approach. Almost all men that play the dating game go through this phase and accept this fact. Women are less likely to be directly rejected by men as they normally do not approach men. Most of the rejections come in form of "ghosting" or not being approached at all. When an attractive public figure states their preferences some people take offence to that, especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:21 AM
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I don't think it matters if you are receiving interests or offers. If you do not want/seek it, then you are single by choice. As an analogy think of items you do not desire. Say a yacht or a private jet. If you cannot afford to purchase a yacht does that mean you are yacht-less by circumstances and not by choice? It should matter more that you want or do not want it. For a less absurd example, a car. Say you like using public transportation or bike/motorcycle because it is practical and be less …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:04 AM
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I am a man and although you have some points on the advantages of being a woman, I would still take the advantages of being a man: women have far more latitude with which to beautify themselves This quickly becomes an arms race between women. If everyone is applying makeup, and to the extreme having plastic surgeries to enhance their physical appearances and you are not keeping up, you are going to be left behind really quickly. It is very relaxing to be a man and not having to fuss with makeup,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:02 AM
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There was a thread by a so called ex sex worker in a dating subreddit lamenting the fact that reality does not match the reddit response on this matter. As for myself, the answer is yes, theoretically. If she was incredible across the board, if I had no better options. But in practice, I would definitely pick a "lesser" girl with no such history. In short, any association with sex industry is a black mark on a woman's value. People may be paying lip service on how progressive they are on this ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:40 PM
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Heck even I who found the whole thing grossly unfair am swayed towards obfuscating a baby's paternity. It's more likely that we would end up with bunch of babies with no fathers that will eat up my tax money than me getting out of child support due to paternity test if they are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:20 AM
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Because it made them seem shallow? The political correctness spectrum goes: Because he's kind/intelligent/funny -> Because he's handsome/tall -> Because he's (insert high status here) -> Because he's rich
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:18 AM
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I agree, it is incredibly unfair to the potential father. For the children, any father is better than no father (less resources). But in this case the interest of the women, state and taxpayers align. It is telling that the countries that push this regulation are the ones with extensive social net, and France's one in particular are stretched thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:01 AM
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It would cause more "fatherless" babies, which in turn will be the burden of the state. This is the simplest explanation that I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:54 AM
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