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| 3 | How do you recover from "Cheat day" ?There shall NOT be cheat days, only cheat meals. Which should be a) out of your house, so no leftovers to tempt you, and b) preferably NOT dinner, but lunch. A cheat meal shall be preceded by a minimum of one hour (better if it's more) of intense strength training, as many muscle groups as possible (so many of those calories go to muscle), a protein shake before a coffee with cinnamon before eating (to minimize the insulin spike). Thou shall follow every cheat meal with a full fasting day. Perio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Alternatives to Captain/First Mate I consider myself an equal to my husband. I've always been kind, caring and nice to him, because I'm glad to see him happy and he responds in kind. This began more than 20 years ago, when I didn't know about the red pill. It was well into my relationship that I learned my husband was an alpha. You don't need to be submissive as long as you are kind, caring and reasonable. I think many people have been raised with such ballistic ideas or in such a toxic, fighting "my way or the highway" environ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do they come back? Very, very nice visualization exercise, I didn't know this one. Writing this down. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Why do they come back?I have a very Disney-like view of love. To me, if you love someone, nothing else will matter and you won’t have eyes for anyone else. It was easier to believe that he didn’t love me than to have to accept that love isn’t as all-encompassing as I thought. > Still hoping that I’ll one day get to be loved the Disney way, though. Lol WARNING: reality check post incoming. Either sit down or ignore me. This is going to hurt. Ohnononononoooooooooo. You have to solve this problem RIGHT NOW. It's a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 11:23 AM |
| 7 | Why do they come back?The only conclusion I can come to is that he wants some kind of ego boost out of making sure I stay in his life/attached. If you really think this, go No Contact, don't let him string you. The best form of No Contact is no answer at all. Not asking "leave me alone, it's over", not even blocking, just no answer at all. Let him guess what you're up to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? Good for you! Keep it up! If you ever feel bad or hungry, it's better to vent on the internet than fail. You can do this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 07:26 AM |
| 3 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? Well, remember not to let him cross your red lines, if you don't want anal sex without lube or he asks something really crazy, you stop him there. And marriage implies unconditional love, so that the couple doesn't split in case of economic misfortune, severe illness (cancer, mutilation, the really terrible stuff), old age... But that is the exact reason why the screening is so severe for marriage (or should be). You'll be asking the other person to be with you at their worst moments and be ab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 07:17 AM |
| 2 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? Try not to feel insecure. I really think this guy loves you, he must really like your personality a lot because he's giving you the chance to become better. If you were a spinning plate to him, I doubt he'd make the effort. So, with men, do not feel insecure, or at least, don't let your insecurity go beyond the cutesy "I can't believe you'd choose to be with me" while you nest in his arms. It's a turn off. Men may fuck you without interest, but they rarely stay in a relationship without intere… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/18 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Proactive skincare routine? I only use apps for the timing, so I don't know how they work about teaching the stuff... I think I might have written a description on how I do it somewhere, let me see if I can find it... Nope, not in English... Here there is a good description of what you should do: http://how-to-meditate.org/breathing-meditations Another thing I do is, if for example the objective is to get 15 minutes of "clear" meditation, I do two "cleanses" before. Since meditation cannot be interrupted, but the moment … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 08:48 PM |
| 3 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? Uh... there's nothing you can say, there's just what you can do. No one with half a brain (male or female) listens to words that contradict actions. If you are really serious about getting at a peak physique, first make the commitment. Then, since this'll be a long ride, ask him if he'd like to do it with you. Would he go on runs, or biking, or lifting, with you? If he can teach you technique, that'd be even better: you can work together. Martial arts are also pretty good for couples (they a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Proactive skincare routine? As for nutrition, since a different thing works for each person, I'd recommend you to have a look at the subreddits. There are subs on intermittent fasting (works for me), If it fits your macros, keto, and so on and so forth. Try what you want and keep what works for you regardless of popular opinion. For example, keto is great... but it doesn't work for me. IIFYM is great... but I do better with IF. Some people have it great with five small meals a day, and I can't stand that, I prefer eating… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? Can't speak about nutritionists, because I managed with the info on the internet (between subreddits and youtube channels, you can find almost anything). But I came to agree on personal trainers. They are a must if you plan on getting serious care of your body, if only to be taught how to do exercises with proper technique, and how to stretch (both needed to avoid injuries). I can vouch for personal trainers as investments: six months with one will benefit you for the rest of your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 08:12 PM |
| 18 | College fomo OK, envy, the green eyed monster. I can just talk about my experience. When I was young, I used to compare myself to other women. I realized that was stupid. I realized there's no way to be the most beautiful woman ever. Even if you are Marilyn Monroe at age 25, someone else likes brunettes, or likes Asian, or prefers blacks or likes them fatter. I realized there was something in me that made me happy when I looked pretty in the mirror: I thought "this must come from when the pretty girls surv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Last shot at making it work with bf [27] First thing first, apologize. Tell him what the problem was. Tell him you'll do your best so that it never happens again, if he gives you the chance, which you perfectly understand is his choice, because you have been unreasonable. And then instead of asking, offer. Ask him what you can do to make up to him for all the times your insecurities have gotten the best of you. Ask him what you can do to make him feel better. And try to practice some void meditation, your feelings get the best of you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Last shot at making it work with bf [27] Being annoying and nagging because you feel insecure is like tearing out all your hair because you feel unpretty. You're not solving the problem. Do you apologize whenever you realize you're being that annoying and nagging? First thing you should do is apologize. Even admitting he is so awesome that it makes you feel insecure and you were doing unconsciously but you'll do your best to avoid pestering him RIGHT NOW might actually help. If it's not too late. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Last shot at making it work with bf [27] This. It's not the same to be worried about the cups being at a 45º angle with the plate, as being worried because he's overdoing cocaine. However, nagging should always be avoided. If you need to lecture, explain why you have to get angry and lecture as a stern teacher. Do not nag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | My [26f] boyfriend [26m] is a big talker, but a poor listener “you don’t need to tell me that story” ALARM. Red flag for selfishness. Watch out for those and if another one rises, run away. Many women here would accept being the love interest in a movie where the man is the protagonist, but no one would accept being an extra. If he is attentive at the beginning but won't listen to you... baaaad sign. Explain what the problem is to him as you have explained it to us here, and if he doesn't change, you know what you have to do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | suggestions for how to act/feel submissive and serve husband? I was not trying to be unkind, sorry if it felt that way. I was just a bit shocked about her wording. As long as it's voluntary, it's OK. I just don't understand some of this stuff (narcissistic close male role model, good-for nothing father who dumped us when I was 18 after my Mom's menopause). I might as well be too broken to understand why the OP used the "submissive" word. If that's how other people feel, thank you for the explanation. I guess I still cringe at the idea of women trusting m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Proactive skincare routine? Thanks a lot. This one looks great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Proactive skincare routine? Sorry to break your statistic, I have almost perfect skin and was on birth control for a time. Then again, I got on it because I had a hormonal imbalance and it was checked with the pills after a lot of blood testing, so I might be an outlier here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Proactive skincare routine? That requires another full subreddit, but intermittent fasting is something you should look at. Last time I broke my record (70 hours of fasting, though the maximum benefits are at the 32-48 hours window, and you should begin much slower), my belly shrunk noticeably while my tits remained strong. Turns out IF targets more abdominal fat... So, although there's no need to go the three day attempt (I tried just to see if I could, the benefits just surprised me), having a look at it is pretty good… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Proactive skincare routine? Beware of the laser treatment: it should be laser. There's another thing called pulsed light or whatever that requires up to three times as many sessions. About laser: it burns the hair, so it hurts. If you try to do it when on your period or ovulating, you're in for a painful ride, especially if it's on your armpits. Since it burns the melanin, it works better the darker the hair, the whiter the skin. I did it, and got half-good results in armpits and inner thigh area, GREAT results in the le… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Proactive skincare routine? Thank you for that second link. Asian ladies have wonderful skin, and I didn't know that sub existed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 11:54 PM |
| 3 | How to bring up topic of waiting for sex without sounding like you’re asking to define the relationship? Be honest. He tries to sleep with you again, you tell him you like him too much and you are regretting sleeping with him too soon because it hurts (which is exactly what's happening). He likes you the better for it or not. Do not try to justify yourself "I never do that" or whatever. He won't believe you or think you delude yourself. He might like you enough to pursue, or he doesn't. Don't sleep with him again if you really like him, because if he doesn't reciprocate you'll get heart broken af… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 11:50 PM |
| 3 | How to bring up topic of waiting for sex without sounding like you’re asking to define the relationship? That only works if the pretty or bad boy actually had sex with the same woman, right? My now husband waited a lot for my first time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 11:45 PM |
| 4 | How to bring up topic of waiting for sex without sounding like you’re asking to define the relationship? And avoid places where you are alone together until you're seriously dating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 11:43 PM |
| 32 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do?I am not used to someone telling me to change something about myself. OOOOK, this clarifies a lot. Maybe it's American culture. I may be wrong here, so please correct me if I'm wrong. When I see media from other countries, including mine, relationships require communication, effort, and people telling each other when they're doing things wrong, and breaking the relationships when things are way too wrong. But in most American media, love is inconditional, and I love this person "no matter what".… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 11:20 PM |
| 7 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do?In all honesty, he might love you but be worried you will balloon up after the wedding, which some women do. A man doesn't want to get stuck with a woman who doesn't respect herself to take care of her body. His concern makes sense. Do not associate his present concern for your self-discipline (logical) to the previous bullying some bastards undoubtedly did to you in the past. Your boyfriend is just making sure you will be the sort of woman who will be able to run with her kids instead of tellin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 10:56 PM |
| 3 | BF wants me to lose weight - what to do? First things first: are you medically overweight? Meaning, is your BMI 24.9, or bigger? If you are medically overweight and have been 50 lbs overweight, it makes sense that your boyfriend is reluctant to commit. Marriages, families and children require self-disciple, restraint, and being able to choose a differed reward rather than an immediate one. To make matters worse, success in life is measured by your ability to choose a differed reward rather than an immediate one. One of the most basic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Proactive skincare routine? I've also read good stuff about almond oil. I haven't tried it, though. Could you recommend a good moisturizer? Because as far as sunscreen goes, the Japanese got it perfect with this one: https://www.amazon.com/Sarasara-Essence-Sunscreen-Package-Cosmetic/dp/B071X4W74G/ref=sr_1_1_s_it?s=beauty&ie=UTF8&qid=1536359856&sr=1-1&refinements=p_4%3ABiore It's cheaper in Japan, but it's not very expensive from amazon either. The texture in this one is great: it's fresh instead of sticky. I once tried… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Proactive skincare routine?I don't know the difference between fractionated coconut oil and "non fractionated" coconut oil, but oils are generally moisturizers. If it works for your skin and you don't feel it dry, keep using it. With skincare, hair, diets and sport routines, each person's a cosmos. I tried to find scientific stuff, but the only things I've found that all doctors agree on is: As far as science goes, aloe vera is the greatest anti-burn damage (regenerates damage caused by burning, it used to be a guild se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake? I did not criticise, I just don't see why people obsess so much about it and try to undersand. I come from a broken marriage where my Mom did all the housework, raised the kids and paid the bills (despite having married a virgin an educated man whom she helped to get a well-paid job). He still went away just after her menopause. I wasn't criticising the wanting, I just stated I don't understand it. Then again, it might as well be a simple heuristic. As far as my first-hand, lived, early childh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 10:08 PM |
| 17 | Proactive skincare routine?UV protection, rain or shine. Beware of cloudy, it's tricky, but lets UV radiation hit your skin. Skin cleanse with micellar water every night, rain or shine. Moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. Tobacco destroys collagen. Thou shall not inhale it, not even second hand. Alcohol is dehydrating. Thou shall not drink it (a sip of champagne on weddings, the rare mojito some celebration... but as of a general rule, try not to use it: a virgin mojito is just as delicious and won't dehydrate you). Hydro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 10:35 PM |
| 2 | 25 and terrified of marriage. Youth and beauty are prerequisites before a man even thinks about other qualities. Of course. But if he thinks MOSTLY of youth and beauty, he has no business getting married. Marriage is a LIFELONG relationship. It implies youth and beauty will disappear eventually, and whoever thinks "almost all of her value" is youth and beauty and gets married is an idiot, plain and simple. Signing up a lifelong contract on the value of youth and beauty is beyond the inane. You didn't read the full list of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage. As I said and others have said prenups are many times not honored by law, it appears pre-marriage assets are honored but I haven't looked deep into it. In your country, maybe. You should have a good review at your legal system, because prenups are honored depending on the money you can pour on your lawyer. Try to break a prenup in the EU, and see how much fun you have there. There are places where all marriages separate assets, automatically, you have to sign up for it to be otherwise. And y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 10:17 PM |
| 2 | 25 and terrified of marriage.Anecdotal accounts don't mean anything. You didn't arrive with data or statistics exactly. If anecdotal accounts don't mean anything, don't say "women", because you're being imprecise. I'm all for being hyper correct, but don't apply hyper scientific accuracy after gross generalizations. Secondly they lost part of their assets but what was it that they gained? I'm guessing they ended up gaining enough assets that more than made up for what they lost. If they lost, they lost. First of all, you ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | 25 and terrified of marriage.This stems from the fact that almost all of a women's value comes from her youth and beauty, Duuuude, anyone who certainly makes this assumption should certainly go their own way, because he's going to be extremely screwed in marriage, due to inability to do the casting. A girl's value is in youth and beauty. Womanhood, like manhood, should be earned, and woman's value is in how she treats her man, how she enjoys making him happy, how she is emotional, sexual, intellectual and economic support, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage.Also - men not only generally take a financial hit in divorce, but lose major points in desirability as well. Most single, available, and High Value Women have little interest in a divorced man who generally comes with kids and strained finances. Exactly. You are absolutely right here. Why do all men and women think that after forty all men are going to have Mick Jagger's sex life? It doesn't happen that way, and many a 40-something year old man has found himself noticing that the young girls wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage. Now you fucked up. The only reason why a woman should walk away with some of his husband's assets is if she was a full time homemaker and child-raiser. Otherwise, if the woman works, her money should be hers, his money should be his. As for the loss of desirability, it's a fucking lie, girls. No, you will not be much worse off after 30s or 40s, as long as you do your homework. As for men of age 45 who can take 20 year olds to bed, their numbers are vastly overrated (up to their 40s, yes they c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 5 | 25 and terrified of marriage.Notably - I lost upwards in value of over $80K in my divorce. I have long-since recovered, but that was a huge financial hit that had aftereffects for years (post-divorce). Congrats, my Mom lost one flat and a beach condo. My financial consultant (now that's irony), the one who had her husband abscond with her brother's fiancée, lost a house, half of the joint bank account of which she had put three fourths, and didn't lose her eyelashes because she couldn't. So of course I don't see any irony. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 09:08 PM |
| 3 | 25 and terrified of marriage.There's huge irony in that a woman with thousands of dollars in assets/savings is concerned with losing half of it in divorce simply because she's the one who might be at a disadvantage if they marry (since dude makes so little income and also brings huge debt). Where's the irony? I don't know which isolated world you have been living at, but women did lose, do lose and will lose money and assets in divorces, which is why any decent woman with an ability to work hard should sign a prenup and n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage.This really shows the hypergamous nature of women, if he had more money than you instead you can bank on the divorce rather than him banking on the divorce and you would feel completely fine in that situation, not only that but you're not marrying him because you want that situation. Says who? What the hell makes you think she wouldn't sign a prenup? I did. And it was my idea, despite the fact that he had more assets than I did back then (salary-wise, things have evened out, thankfully... than… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage.If it's any consolation, my Mom lost part of her assets in her divorce. A friend whose husband left her for her brother's fiancée (ouch!) loss part of her assets in her divorce. And I have yet another friend who didn't take anything from the ex because he was her best friend. She left the kids with him until she could rebound financially and get her own place. And the daughter of a friend of my Mom's also lost half the value of her flat in her divorce. It looks like this stuff only affects men. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | 25 and terrified of marriage. Am I an idiot? No. Love is great, love is wonderful, love shouldn't be mixed with money. Get a prenup. If he later makes more money than you do, stick to your guns and accept that graciously. Set me straight if I need it, please. Get a prenup... Or don't get married. It's not necessary at all for a couple to work. In your case, it's pretty clear that you should either get married with a prenup or not at all. Go see two or three lawyers about the prenup and that's it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | One year of dating and no talk of the future If you are thirty, I'd strongly recommend you to freeze your eggs in case this relationship doesn't work. The pregnancy you'll be able to do at any time, the egg quality is great right now (I got 16 in a batch at 29), but after 35 will start to decline. That way, if he wants to wait a bit, you'll be able to have kids in your 40s with no problem whatsoever. Many women start having problems with their egg reserve at 35-37, and then it's harder to get good quality ones. If he isn't in a hurry bec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:45 PM |
| 25 | Pro tips for enhancing your SMV Be as healthy as possible. I weightlift and take care of my food. I still get shocked faces when I say I'm 39, most calculate at least ten years less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | suggestions for how to act/feel submissive and serve husband? Taking care of your husband and doing things for him is being submissive? Where on seven hells did you get that idea? I don't think you should be obedient, unless what he asks you to do makes sense for you. As for the rest, this is simply: ENJOY making him happy. I don't know how Americans came to confuse strength with bitchiness, the kitchen with a torture chamber and taking care of others as a sort of weakness. If you ENJOY making him happy, then make him happy. You will realize that all t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manAnd blacks and Eastern Asians can carry it to their 50s... but humankind is not to bow to biology, but to overcome it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I’ve developed an aversion to marriage/commitment after being a plate. That's it. Try to explore the possibility of what you consider the worst case scenario, and try to develop your hobbies, follow your dreams, give something to society and become your best. Get used to the idea that, as far as China goes, you've "failed" already. Just the exploration of the possibility, the acceptance and the living without that fear should be worth it, whatever the outcome is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:13 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man Applying logic is dumb? Reasoning why or why she shouldn't do that is man logic.. Reasoning why things should or shouldn't be done is flat out logic. its simply useless in this case If reasoning and logic are useless, then there's no possible discussion and there shouldn't have been a marriage in the first place. Marry someone you cannot have a logical discussion with? That makes zero sense. As for depression and anger... I noticed when still a young teen, that American media portrayed menstru… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 12:11 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manOnly if there are no nannies and money. If there's no stress to pay the bills, help with the kids, and the woman has time to take care of her body, it's possible, and the Japanese are EXTREMELY self-disciplined. However, as of a general rule, I absolutely agree with you. I'd just rather have women like this as role models. I'm certainly looking up to my fifties trying to look like that, not giving up. Saying "it's impossible" doesn't help me at all. Saying "it's very difficult and few people man… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Music that gets you in a feminine mindset? Kate Bush all the way! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Advice for meeting my boyfriend's parentsI want to impress his parents and hope they approve of me. Don't try to impress them. Just tell them the truth: you're sorry you couldn't study because you were working two jobs and didn't have enough money. Tell them how thrilled you are that you will be able to go back to study, tell them about your hopes about accountancy. Trust me, that's impressive enough. They will like that you are able to fend off bad times and that you want to improve yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP compatible with my dreams?You are 19. I felt goal-oriented at that age, too. Maybe I was trying to prove something, too. In any case, if you now feel you want to work as an animator, you have to at least try. If you were to marry and leave everything for your husband now, you would regret it and may even resent your husband. It's a good idea to find your ideal partner young. Your partner will also probably want to have the children later, so you have all your 20s to try to pursue your dreams. You go, girl! If you fail, o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP compatible with my dreams?The gist I get from redpill material is that women are generally inferior at most things outside of the home and children, and that the best place for me is in the home, raising children. Whaaaaat...? Uh, dear, men are superior at strenght and spatial vision. The place for you is where you'll be happy. In any case, what you want to do is creative writing, something many women have done successfully while they married and had kids for generations. OK, if you are really serious with the first … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:54 AM |
| 0 | My Boyfriend lied about his past... Lying is a bigger deal-breaker in my eyes than cheating and coming clean about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Your Outlook on Life Matters! That bitterness is what repels men away a lot of the time, not your looks. Even the most woman-hating guys at Return of Kings have an article entitled "Women should be happy". So, no truer words were ever said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Your Outlook on Life Matters! Gods, the idea that cooking, cleaning and keeping a tidy house are "patriarchal" just makes me cringe. Especially cooking is the single most important thing you can do for your health and longevity. Good for you, girl! Self-improvement always does wonders. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I’ve developed an aversion to marriage/commitment after being a plate. By the way, you did a wonderful job recovering from alpha widowhood. It must be awfully hard. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What can I do to help repair my marriage? Um... Are you sure him cheating on you physically is a red line? I may be crazy, but for me it would not be a deal-breaker, despite the fact that it would be so for him. Biologically, female infidelity is physical (a woman makes a man raise a child that might not be his), but male infidelity is emotional (a man may spend resources and time on other women and their children). In order to sort out what you feel, think about this. What hurts you the most? That he had sex with others. That he lied… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | I’ve developed an aversion to marriage/commitment after being a plate.Sorry, please forgive me if I offended you. It's not that I read that in your comment. Please don't take it personally. I meant that your comment gives a lot to learn, however, not everybody gets a happy ending. I just think it would be a good idea if all us women get used to the idea that not all of us will get married or in a long term relationship. I think worrying about that is not healthy, because by mere force of numbers, some women will not be able to get a quality long term relationship.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man Not for the Japanese: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6lR5dVCyXCI I had seen 42 year olds who looked 20, but this lady takes the cake. Granted, she's an outlier, but damn. I'll grant you she looks 30, but if she said it's 28 I'd totes believe her. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | How to be feminine while working?That's something you should absolutely take into account. If you are going to be über feminine in a very macho environment, you'd better be frakkin awesome at whatever you do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | How to be feminine while working? There's a wonderful text about that in the book about introverts... “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking”. https://www.amazon.es/Quiet-Power-Introverts-World-Talking/dp/0141029196/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1536191453&sr=8-1&keywords=power+of+introverts The problem with feminine strength is that it's gained with time and confidence. It's twice as hard to be strong and soft as it is to be strong and crass. Let me find this excerpt. It's a bit long, but I think it get… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/18 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake? I'm just asking out of curiosity, mind you. Maybe you are right and marriage should be a must, I don't know. My parents' marriage fell apart after ten years of suffering, so I never thought marriage was needed, I always thought that, like my mother before me, if I ever had kids I'd need to be able to take care of them on my own. I ended up getting married to a great man... I guess I wouldn't have cared if he hadn't wanted to marry, but I guess I have to see why a person in a foreign country wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:49 PM |
| 3 | When he calls / texts other women in other roomThere is no high value way of bringing it up. You feel insecure because a 22 year old is pursuing your man. Bringing it up is NOT high value, unless you nonchalantly say: "Why don't you invite her for dinner some day? I'd really love to meet her, I'm really curious about her". I'd be really curious about her, and I think the dinner would be a great idea. "Will she bring a boyfriend, girlfriend or your cousin?" And you can see how he interacts with her. He might be more interested in you as a par… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to be more feminine in my relationship Well, first of all, I disagree that making decisions is not feminine. Women have needed to make decisions and take the lead many times during the story of mankind. Feminine doesn't equal doormat. You say HE doesn't make any decisions or take control. Is it because you don't let him or because he doesn't want to? If he doesn't want to, there's nothing you can do about that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Help me be a better wifeIt is very difficult indeed, but it's not possible. I started when I was 18, and now at 39 I'm much better. Improving your personality is like polishing a rock with a bit of sandpaper. It takes years. Problem is, if you don't start when you're young, you go to worse. It's either making the effort and alway strive to be better, or becoming one of those detestable old people who cannot stand even themselves and complain "I'm too old to change now". That's why you start changing when you're young. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Help me be a better wifeThis is something you should never stop. Always apologize, always take action to makeup for bad behavior and whenever possible - backtrack on demands if they haven't yet been fulfilled. Tell him about this struggle. Ask for his assistance. Give him permission to tell you know. Occasionally practice scenarios where he's to deny your requests. Yes, yes, yes and yes. I always apologize whenever I make a mistake. I told my husband straight at the beginning in which areas I needed help and in which h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Help me be a better wife Meditation. Volunteering. Try to help the needy. You're young, so instead of helping people, I'd go help an animal shelter. It'll probably make you see a different perspective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Is he into me or over me? I seriously think text apps will be the death of many girls. Can you disconnect your phone for about 2 days or so? Or use an app like Forest so as to not watch it every second? Those blue double ticks will drive many people crazy... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I’m having troubleThat's awesome, I'd gold you if I could right now (can't because of reasons). I guess I must have done this many times before, I just never did it consciously. Now I can. Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I’m having troubleThis. Just don't take it against him, don't be bitchy, snappy or pissy, and tell him that you need a rest. When I get home I’m drained and have little to no emotional compassion left in me. My SO says I have a negative vibe when I get home. But I love my job, I’m very good at it but I just want to shower and go to sleep after work. If I were you I'd take a bath and put on a moisturizing face mask, and try to meditate to soft music, to get relaxed. But if he wants you bubbly and energetic, that's… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How important is the physical beauty of your potential partner(husband/father of your children)? Unless severely disfigured, which would cause total discarding because of zero attraction... Zero. The man has guts, drive, brain, loves me and treats me well? As long as I feel attraction, that's good enough. I don't think being too beautiful is that good, either. Models have the worst self-esteem ever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake?There. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:02 PM |
| 3 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake?That's it. Get your own income source. If they speak another language there, try to learn it. Get abilities in case everything goes wrong (and mind you, it looks like you're staying there, but disasters happen, including widowhoods, and a woman MUST be ready to feed herself and her kids, and if she doesn't need to all the better), and then hope for everything to go right (it looks like he's interested, and that you could even enlist the parents' help after four years). | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake?Why is she angry that there's still no ring? Isn't she happy in the relationship? Why is everyone so intent on getting married? It's not like that will make sure the guy will stay forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 11:00 PM |
| 4 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake?Ultimatums are the death of love... I just don't get why you want to get married so badly. He said four years, if after four years he won't, you go to see his parents with the suitcase to say goodbye. Let him go back to your own country with the ring and the papers. But if you agreed to four years, just calmly state that it's four years and it's a red line. Do NOT get into toxic arguments, for all that's sacred. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:59 PM |
| 2 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake?Do you want to give him for years, or don't you want to wait? Can't you work at anything right now? I bet your own money and work experience would make you feel safer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I'm [27F] a live-in girlfriend to my boyfriend [29M] of three years. Am I making a mistake? The only mistake I see here is this: We used to get into toxic arguments and he says he wants to ensure we're better at communicating. He is devoted to you and his family likes you, he refers to you as his spouse. It's pretty clear he's interested. My question is, why are you SO interested in getting married? Are you going to change or anything after that? The relationship looks great right now. If you want to feel safer, what you need is not a ring (child of divorced parents: it will NOT guar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How not to be a people-pleaser? You improve your self-esteem. The thing that helped me the most with that was going to the gym and training like the men, with barbell and rack. No, it's NOT manly and it will NOT make you look like a man. It will make you look great, and for some reason, self-esteem increases with physical strength. Also... think about why you need to be validated. Your parents loved you for sure: maybe their time was scarce, but not their love (or so I hope). Another thing you have to do is accept one fact… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:47 PM |
| 3 | How to learn to give up control? You should not. I don't think you should give up control unless you're completely and absolutely sure you can trust your husband. I haven't left my job (granted, I'm really good). He does all the cleaning (I trust him with everything related to that). I do all the cooking (he trusts me with everything related to that). When he is driving, I trust him completely and fall asleep. When I'm driving (I'm pretty awful), he does not trust me. So, ask yourself, why don't you want to let go of control?… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | What should I choose between boyfriend and university? Living two years in the UK together (he's willing to come here to work however i find this to be difficult as he doesn't speak English and it'd be hard for him to get a visa to the uk as he's got an egyptian passport) If he doesn't speak English, for his sake, he should drop the McDonalds and go with you to learn English during the first year and do some technical learning for the second. If you want to be a traditional wife and raise some kids, your boyfriend is going to need some better fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I’ve developed an aversion to marriage/commitment after being a plate.This is a wonderful story, but remember: Not everyone is going to get married. Not everyone gets a "happy ever after". There are more men in the top tiers of society (height, genius, drive), and therefore, more men in the lower tiers (sub-par intelligence, mental problems, etc). That means that there are not high-quality men for all women. Someone's going to be single. It's a reverse lottery and someone's going to win it. What I mean here is, all of us women should consider the possibility that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Age I think that it's a good idea to marry late. Mind you, I married at 28 the man I'd been dating since 18. So it's not like the relationship began that late: it's just that we married when we had finished our studies and had finished building our house. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man If she is Japanese, it's totally believable. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manDon't forget the good mornings. Those babes NUKE visible cellulite, even more than weighted lunges. You have to be very conservative with the weights so as not to hurt your back, but damn! I have a better ass at 40 than I had at 18. I only wish I had been told at 18 that women belong on the rack. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manMaybe what she needs, besides a personal trainer, is a babysitter three times a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 09:16 PM |
| 10 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man OK. Your wife is witty and funny, has some good moments, still gives you good sex, gives you good food and she's a good mother. She's sometimes mean (talk to her and tell her she has to stop that), and she's not very hot: save some and talk to her about getting a personal trainer and maybe a boob and belly job. The way you describe it, you only have a bit of a problem that science can help you solve. For the face, plasma injections to reactivate collagen production, and high level collagen. Fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married man Nature's a bitch and tries to turn women into grandmothers so the grandkids get lots of help. Human beings deal with nature's bitchiness with vaccines, antibiotics and aspirins, among other things. Any chance of OP talking about it with his wife? If my pregnancy destroys my body, I have some savings and some plastic surgeon is getting a good chunk of them. I pay for personal trainers when needed, and kegels are my friends. Biology tries its best to make women grannies as soon as possible. I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?I guess it depends on the country, I'm not American. If people there lead their romantic lives according to examples like Sex and the City, Gossip Girl or Girls, I understand that the frame is not conducive to successful long-term relationships. Then again, I think most people (men and women) are not ready, mature, self-aware o self-disciplined enough for LTRs, let alone marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?The statistics differ because we live in a society that's going to 30% of obesity and beyond (let's not get started with simply very overweight people). So, it's not that you need superhuman self-discipline, is that many societies are getting to a point where many citizens have sub-par levels of self-discipline. We removed forced discipline from school (and that's OK), but we destroyed the teaching of self-discipline, and it shows in all areas of life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | [Advice] Advice on how to prepare for a first date.If he's that age he might be looking to settle down. I recommend you to wear your casual but well-maintained looks. If that's what you usually do, keep that. He needs to know you as you are. Don't show a person who isn't you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:48 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on grabbing drinks, as a first date?Refuse to drink any alcohol. Only drink soft drinks. Drinks are meant to overcome your synapsis. You don't want that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | “Men age like wine, women like milk”Hey, visible cellulite can be killed with enough lunging, squatting and good morninging. Just forget about creams and hit the barbell. Same for sagging breasts... Firming lotion and bench press will do wonders for those babies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | “Men age like wine, women like milk”Yes, you're right. However, the OP is asking about value... And to be honest: The very coveted George Clooney married then 36-year old career woman Amal Alamuddin. He could have got himself a 20-year old, but he found a younger woman... yet a woman (grown, mature, cultivated, with a career) nonetheless. So, the point of the answers is: "Is your life over at 25?" Nope. "Do all men marry 20 year olds?" No, some want a woman they can talk with and whom can share responsibilities, and maturity comes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:38 PM |
| 4 | “Men age like wine, women like milk”Clooney is not that handsome. I concede that men hit the wall at about 50 and women at about 40... and with "hitting the wall" I mean losing most of their sex-appeal. And even so, there are outliers. I know a 50-year old female judge who still turns heads. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | “Men age like wine, women like milk”Eeeexactly. Girls age badly... because if you're unpredictable, immature and can hardly take care of yourself, only youth and beauty will make anyone put up with that. Women, mature, intelligent, cultivated, hard-working, honorable, loyal women... Peak in their 30s, completely agreed. And if you work hard you're attractive until your 50s. Not like a girl, but like a woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t I want to ride the CC?You don't want to ride the CC because that would be a stupid thing to do. You have been programmed to be selective in your partners. Why on seven hells would you become non-selective and trust your body to strangers because you lost a man that was important to you? It should be the other way round. If you want to get over him, you need time to pass. Unluckily, the brain doesn't erase, it merely overwrites. In order to overcome what you have lived, you'll have to fill your life with interesting e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 4 | “Men age like wine, women like milk”Do your homework and take care of yourself. You are at your freshest between 18-25, that's true. I think I was at my prettiest after 27, and I am now 39 and most people think I'm 29, tops (my husband thinks I'm at my hottest now). To be honest, I have a childlike face and have aged very, very well... but then again, do your homework. That means: Smoking is totally and absolutely forbidden. A huge no-no. It's stupid, you're putting money for the privilege of losing health. Eventually, you'll have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 08:07 PM |
| 9 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?Beware of "cleanse of corruption by proxy". People who drink alcohol don't want to drink alone, they try to get others into it. People who do drugs don't want to do it alone. And people who screwed their lives and chances to have a decent long-term relationship, would love if all of us who are with our first loves screwed. People who smoke offer cigarettes to those who are trying to quit. People who are fat offer donuts to those who are slim... It's not all people, mind you, but some people, aft… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 07:53 PM |
| 6 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?You don't need tremendous amounts of self-discipline. If you have self-discipline enough to stay at a healthy weight (not with a sick-pack, just healthy), you can very simply keep your base desires under control. You just have to think about losing the man of your life, about how you would hurt the person you love most, how terribly you will feel afterwards. You eat some ice cream, feel guilty about that, do some sports, and then ask for vast amounts of sex from your partner. It's not that hard,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 07:47 PM |
| 10 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?Thank you for your honesty. Many women tell other women that non-selective sex is the way to go, though most of us are very much wired for the opposite. I admire the women who dare say "I'd unfuck 80% of the guys I fucked". All of you help us remember why we stay with our "one and only" despite being sometimes curious. Thank you for the cautionary tale. I wish you the best and hope you'll be happy in whatever path you choose to walk. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 07:41 PM |
| 4 | How to keep my hypergamy in check?First of all: you're a good person trying to do the right thing and that's good. What you probably need is excitement. In Erin Pizzey's book "Prone to Violence", she states that some women are hooked into abusive relationships because the sense of danger before a beating felt good. And that is probably because of the adrenaline surge that went with the violence. Now, this is not your case... but it basically means you can try to cheat the system by telling your boyfriend you'd like the adrenalin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I keep ending up with beta males. What am I doing wrong?TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT. Duh. If you want him to rough you up a bit, then explain it to him and tell him so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what specific personality traits and attributes defines a woman worthy of love and marriage in your eyes?Agreed on the rationalization part. Everyone makes mistakes: the smarter you are, the easier you are prey for rationalization, unless you really make an effort to be self-aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Excuse me, I do care for men as human beings. I'm just constitutionally unable to feel attraction for men who have no drive (though I've been constitutionally unable to feel attraction for anyone other than my husband for years now). I respect all human beings, and all decent, hard-working human beings. I even feel this empathetic, sort of Christian or Buddhist love towards people. I respect men. But I love them as a mother hen, and I take care of their feelings, and am what I hope is a good fri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?They aren't, or at least not everywhere. In the ex-communist countries, people married only for love. In certain countries in Europe, most people marry for love. Status is not so important, because the social safety net is very wide and powerful. In the USA, if your husband does not have enough money for good healthcare, your child has more chances of dying than a child in Cuba . I don't know, maybe the fact that the infant mortality rate in the USA is the highest of most developed nations has s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersIsn't the difference important? She might not care (which would be terrible). If she doesn't know, however, that's another point entirely. If a woman is willing to stay married to such a man, she's either a monster (or comes from hell and is willing to put up with anything... if she came from post-genocide Rwanda, she would have good enough reasons), or she has no idea what she got herself into. Maybe she sends some of his money to her extended family back home and is into prostitution with this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersGood looks are attractive indeed. Masculine features do NOT have to be bad. The pinnacle of strength is being able to lift others up. The manliest of men can take care of himself and others. Only the weak hurt others, especially those weaker than him. Is a jerk more attractive than a guy with zero self-esteem? Alas, yes. Can a girl close her legs until the attraction stops and a worthy man appears? Of course yes, it's basic self-discipline and knowledge. In the order of attraction, the distant g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersHad they said it in the 80s and 90s, they would have needed to write their names or put their faces to it. Nowadays, they can say it anonymously and get positive feedback from others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What unsavory qualities could make a woman a relationshipcel?I know none. Seriously. Severe disfigurement due to severe rare illness or being mauled by some wild animal. Extreme bad luck. Being from a culture that locks women up, and the girl trying to get out for years... but this one found her man at 35, had two kids (then again, she was pretty, nice, smart and funny, very worthy). I'd go for severe disfigurement. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Women being put on a pedestal is deserved and rationalYes, but achievers like Musk achieve phenomenal changes. To each their own, I think men and women are equal in worth because the good extremes in the male population more than compensate the bad extremes. That said, most victims of male violence are indeed other men, so, poor guys are the victims most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women being put on a pedestal is deserved and rationalSoon there'll be both sexbots and artificial wombs. Deserving, hard-working and honorable women will have no problem. Leeches are going to have to learn to type. I think the artificial wombs will be the definite leveler, those will grant men all the rights that nowadays they can't have because of simple biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersIf the poster up is right and this is his wife: https://usercontent.irccloud-cdn.com/file/2vyU6nVU/ I'd really like to know where she's from, what her status was back home, and how well she speaks English. Because I admit it's tragic to see women with certain types of heinous men, but this is too heinous to stand, even for someone who was dirt-poor before the green card. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:36 PM |
| 3 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersIs she from the third world? Does she know how to read English? Did she know the guy wrote that stuff? According to a previous poster, this is his wife: https://usercontent.irccloud-cdn.com/file/2vyU6nVU/ And if he found her in certain countries, he hasn't out-competed anyone, he just had zero competition. If he needed to get out of his country, to stop competing with his fellow men, and find a woman with zero chances of getting to know him fully, who needed food... I don't buy the fact that he'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersLol you still think men want virtue or what's good for them. Most of the people in jail for either drug dealing or any sort of crimes are men. And most of them go to the army, too. That means they do not want virtue or what's good for them, right? Of course, there might be societal constructions, economic needs, and men might not be, gasp! a completely homogeneous group. Some men might be different from the others, and actually most of them are not criminals, and most soldiers need to be trained… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersWomen are attracted to self-confidence and drive. A woman with self-esteem leaves an abusive guy the moment he is abusive, because she has self-esteem. Those with a story of abuse, end up believing they deserve the abuse. Aaaand, as for this psychological abuse, guess what? Men also suffer from it, the process is the same. Are men attracted to the bad? No, it's just that a narcissist can destroy the self-esteem of their victims. Isolation, destruction of self-worth, etc. As for some of the women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | VA Political Candidate Is Admitted Pedophile: Internet Echo ChambersThe fact that he is remarried is the stuff of nightmares considering this sentence attributed to him: “Why doesn’t every pedo just focus on making money so they can get a pedo-wife and then either impregnate her with some fucktoys or adopt some fucktoys?” he wrote on the platform in October. “That would accommodate both those who are and aren’t into incest. And of course, the adoption process lets you pick a boy or a girl.” What's wrong with his wife? Unless she had no idea, everything . Every d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?That's the traditional story in Romance Novels. It should be studied in high school, in the Emotional Management subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?•Convicts/Petty Criminals ( eg- Jeremey Meeks has women squealing over his pics) <- Medium level Some people are batshit crazy. You'll still find that the majority of women squeal over the Backstreet Boys, New Kids on the Block, Justin Bieber, Elvis Presley or equivalent from their time, from Carlos Gardel to Ivor Novello. Are there enough millions of people in the world that some will be so extreme that they'll look for extreme forms of excitement? Yes. Are those the majority? Thankfully, no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?Smart guy, you are. Red flags are there to be acknowledged :-) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?It may be anecdotal fallacy. I've met more men interested in serial killers than women. Then again, serial killers are extremely rare where I live. My countries suffers more from crimes of passion, so you have to account for cultural differences. Have you got a survey or poll? Anecdotes are anecdotes, and each person's life experience is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who obsess over hot babes are hurting themselvesThat's because humankind extinguished the smallpox (greatest creator of scars), managed to keep people's teeth healthy and straight inside their mouths (prettier smiles), extinguished polio (less cripples) and has advanced in good dieting. And now, have a look at obesity rates... The moment might come when you look at the 19th century pictures with desire... :-D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:00 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men who obsess over hot babes are hurting themselvesAbsolutely agreed. I think Elon Musk is the typical guy who gets the hottest woman he can find among the a) smart and driven (first wife, mother of his children); b) sweet and tender-hearted (second wife, met at the lowest point in his career), c) smart and with common interest (current date). So, I understand men going for some looks... but completely ignoring the personality is calling for disaster. Besides, I think what men call an 8 can easily achieve a 10 with model-treatment (any healthy-w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....Absolutely agreed. I think most of the debated ideas in The Red Pill and other forums, about problems in marriage or relationships, are misled: like "women are hypergamous" or "men are polygamous"... I think the main problem is that the vast majority of the population, both men and women, are not marriage material . Most people I know are just not ready to enter a long term relationship. Some of them will never be ready due to their inability to admit they ever make mistakes or are wrong. Anothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who obsess over hot babes are hurting themselvesNot at all. Ugly people would have become extinct. However, other than hot women reproduce. Because some people learn to overcome certain impulses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who obsess over hot babes are hurting themselvesLast example I know ended in a bad divorce. Guy marries a very hot woman, with a terrible character. Ends badly for both. My husband said: 'That's what happens when you marry thinking with the cock. You have to use the head over your shoulders'. At the very least, when choosing a Long Term Relationship partner. For hookups, I understand being superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who obsess over hot babes are hurting themselvesSpeak for yourself. I grew up with both an older and a younger brother. They taught me (not saying it, merely by example) that a hot girl who acted like a bitch or a brat would be ignored and despised by the men who mattered the most (the self-confident boys who exuded assurance, the intelligent men). I grew up thinking men would never do favours to, or pamper, girls just because they were hot (that's what I saw at home). Found a man like that (was found by him, in fact, I was just waiting for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....Why? We cannot be so few... My husband is a greatly active guy who loves writing and doing both creative and productive stuff. He has supported me while I climbed up the ladder up to my current job, which pays enough for both of us. I'd love to see him doing all the wonderful things I know he's capable of, with enough time. I would keep working because the self-discipline and order of work helps me. I wouldn't like it if he did nothing. But my husband would to a lot of great stuff if he didn't n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....Donate eggs if you still can. I did. It's an honor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....I could sign each and every one of your points. I absolutely agree with you, always have, always have wanted a job. Precisely because I'm so selective with my body, and the need to have sex for food sounded terrifying . I don't ever want to "owe" sex, or feel I owe it... Heck, I've never accepted an invitation to a cola when I was young, because I never wanted to owe anything to boys or men. I'd felt dirty if I had accepted. It also feels great to be able to help, to be a support and a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Your SO has just been fired from their job....I'm making money for us both. I can because he supported me while I was getting better and better jobs. Actually, his job is getting worse and I'm yearning to be able to set him up so he doesn't have to work anymore. He's extremely intelligent and self-disciplined and can do better stuff staying home. I'm very good at my job (my previous boss almost begged me to stay, he just couldn't match up my current one conditions and salary) and I love it, so it's a win-win scenario. As for most women, I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Men age better than women if they don't go bald.Who absolutely do what? Accept deadweight as a wife? The ones, both male and female, who I've known to choose a deadweight partner were not the pinnacle of either mental prowess or mental stability. As of a general rule, productive people try to find productive people. Again... the sentence was "no sensible man wants a silly wife". Sense being important here. Maybe a guy who doesn't have his shit together either doesn't mind being with a reckless, irresponsible woman. He may even love her. That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Men age better than women if they don't go bald.For one night stands, undoubtedly. For a long term relationship with a guy worth being with, I doubt it very much. I have too much respect for men to think otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Men age better than women if they don't go bald.That's all bullshit. For you, undoubtedly. I've read this from men themselves, I'm not inventing it. Men don't have those same prerequisites for women, because none of that matters if they like them as people. Aaaaaand I have yet to meet the man who, at 30 and looking for a long term relationship, likes "as people" a lazy woman who spent her 20s doing nothing. Or an irresponsible thirtynager who can't keep her salary in her bank account due to overspending. In Jane Austen's words: "No sensible m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women might be attracted to bad boys, but this doesn't prove TRP right.Metalheads are hard, not bad. The strongest of metalhead guys have an incredible protective attitude towards the three little Babymetal singers (not to mention some respect the girls earned with extreme hard work). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Men age better than women if they don't go bald.I'm not saying it's fair, because obviously some women are allowed to act like children so long as they are hot enough for someone to pay for their lifestyle. Duh, don't pay for their lifestyle. If someone does, it's their money they've chosen to spend on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Men age better than women if they don't go bald.Considering women refuse to get with men who don't have financial shit in order, that actually tells you that they don't actually want you either way, they just want the money A man in his 30s who is looking for a LTR does NOT put up with a woman who doesn't have her financial shit in order either, unless he has the brains the gods gave a turnip. Men with two connecting neurons may tolerate childlike behaviour from young girls. For any woman from 25 to 35, they're going to want her to have a sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Its all about whether you are alpha or betaWomen will feel attracted towards some men (no mental categorization: we do not choose attraction. Let me repeat that one we do not choose attraction ). And will feel good with how some mean treat them. The ideal is to find a man who makes you feel attracted AND makes you feel good out of the bedroom, too. A guy who moves your body, heart and mind. We certainly don't categorize in pigeonholes, but if it makes it easier for some people... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Its all about whether you are alpha or betaThis is true, and it's terrible. The only woman I know who married a rich guy was stuck in the worst trap I've ever seen a human being fall for. Now try to fight for custody of your son with an alcoholic who's got heaps of money to screw you. I won't deny some women will choose men for the money. Some mothers even teach their girls to do so. That's one of the most terrible mistakes anyone can make, ever, in their whole lives. You marry/have sex/have kids with a human being. And your main priorit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Its all about whether you are alpha or betaA man has to be confident, period. If he can be confident and kind, that's better, not worse. The confident lone wolf is of course better than a jerk, because he harms no one. The confident guy who has strength and resouces to spare and help others is much stronger, because he is strong enough to pull people up. Kindness is a good trait. The problem is that because of the Christian tradition of the other cheek, during a long time good equaled stupid. You just need to have limits and not let othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Parkland shooter, who killed 17 people, receives hundreds of love letters from girls across the nation1.You see girls sending love letters (by THOUSANDS) to rock stars or sometimes their favourite writers. That's what fanclubs are. I can guarantee boy bands receive more fanmail than murderers. 2.Because software engineers aren't as of a general rule famous (so the girls cannot know about them), but mainly because girls are generally not interested in the sciences of objects, but in the sciences of living beings (biology, medicine, nursing). If they don't understand the software engineer work, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What is going on when a man tells a woman to "smile more"? And why don't men tell other men to smile?According to some studies, women are more attractive when they smile, men are less attractive. Some people feel happier seeing women smile. I'm a hetero women and seeing Yui Mizuno and Moa Kikuchi's smiles makes my day. So I sort of see the point. I don't think people want women to smile because they consciously know it makes women more attractive. It's just smiling women are a nice vision to look at. That said, people who ask strangers to pay attention to them and act a certain way cannot be an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Men who sleep with a plethora of women, are they ever negatively affected by sleeping around, or is it always a win-win?Basically, it depends on the person. Imagine things being different for different people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Men who sleep with a plethora of women, are they ever negatively affected by sleeping around, or is it always a win-win?Elon Musk is an example? He's been with a tigress whom he wanted as a mother for his children (bad choice, but I see why he wanted her genes), but Talulah Riley? She's a total sweetheart whom he found after his divorce and when both of his main companies risked going bankrupt. He met her at one of the lowest points in his life, and got her because hot as she looks, she's a very sweet lady. Heck, he married her twice... and frankly, I doubt he's going to find one like that again. I don't know why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Men who sleep with a plethora of women, are they ever negatively affected by sleeping around, or is it always a win-win?If they were smart enough to freeze their eggs in their 20s, they can. If they were smart enough in their twenties to earn that money, save it and put it to long-term thought, unless they're psychotic, some guy started a LTR with them before they hit their thirties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Parkland shooter, who killed 17 people, receives hundreds of love letters from girls across the nationThere are hundreds of mentally unstable girls in a 300 million population. Statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Does the statement "Women are generally attracted to bad boys, not spineless wimps" come off as a criticism to you?We're still going strong, thank you! I have thought a lot about your comment. I can't help but think how sad it is that I wrote a story in which I explained how I did my best to avoid toxic relationships for my own sake, and you used the adjective "amazing". As in "amazing Spiderman". I feel flattered, but I'm sad that I do. Being logical, knowing yourself, knowing your feelings and just not listening to them when they make you feel attracted to something dangerous should be average. I mean, you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's analysis of modern female behavior is way out of line with factual realityMarriage was always Gynocentric. It was put in place so that men wouldn't run-away after impregnating a woman and would be held accountable under law and society. There wasn't really a single thing a man would gain from marriage at all. Before that gynocentric marriage, people would have sex with whomever they wanted and the kids would be raised by the whole tribe or clan. Everyone lost freedom after the institution of marriage, not only men. Theoretically, it was meant for more men to be able t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What are the best options for unattractive men?Ha, take a sociology class. Ha, what makes you think I never did? I did, and from an informed point of view, I personally rejected the postmodernist idiotic, useless idea that "everything is relative, so who are you to judge a culture where a boy walking unchaperoned with a girl is punished by the gang rape of the boy's sister who had nothing to do with that in the first place?". Go read Lacan and Derrida, those agree with your relativistic nonsense. Don't try to sell that stuff anywhere outside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's analysis of modern female behavior is way out of line with factual realityIn the grand scheme of things, it depends on the case in every single instance. I'll grant you that due to American laws, in the USA the law is stacked for the benefit of the women, so in that specific country, you're right (not about the grand scheme of things). In other countries where laws are more egalitarian (better separation of assets, almost automatic shared custody of the children), both parts can be equally benefited or wronged by a divorce. My mother was a great loser in the marriage,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.Idk why you’re ranting here my dude. OK, forget about it. As I wrote before: Needless to say, my opinion about the absolute necessity of drive for constant improvement is seriously biased. So take it with a grain of salt. I can quite agree with what you say, in general. I have a weird relationship with lack of drive because I had a parent who failed to fulfill his parental duties due to him having zero drive. When your drive has fallen so low you don't pick up your three kids from school and you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.He was not selected himself as a partner. His traits were selected as good to have in a partner. And? What's the difference? You choose partners and friends because of their traits, what else are you going to choose them for? Randomly rolling dice? Having that drive and ability does not define that person. I can agree to disagree, because I'm never going to see your point of view. The strive to get better, the constant choice to work hard every day to advance in life, do define a person. Not the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.If someones "is selected" as a partner because he is a doctor. And then decides to throw the career away and live making burgers in Mc Donalds. The selection was not made because the person was a doctor, but because s/he had the drive and ability to set goals and achieve them. If the goals change and the person decides to flip burgers, as long as it's clear that that's what s/he wants to do, the selection is still valid. Again, a doctor who leaves a well-paid job to do something s/he finds more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.My mother married in the sixties, did everything "right" and ended up like a single mother, but having to take care of a deadweight husband. I suppose there are deadbeat mothers just as there are deadbeat fathers, and only an idiot has a kid that she cannot properly take care of. Single motherhood cannot work for everyone... but neither did marriage back then. At least now there are options. The only women who will suffer now are the ones who would have been leeching their husbands: now they won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.Neither do I care about you, but if you answer to a specific person, you risk getting yet another answer in return. If you didn't care, you shouldn't have answered. Or you should have been more careful answering to the right person, in case it wasn't me. Topic is incels' misery and your wonderfull opinion. Topic is about the limits of sex dolls. If you think mocking my opinion because I think sex dolls are wonderful and nothing to be ashamed of (no one gets hurt, men can satisfy their physical n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.Old marriage system was working for years. I was a child of the old system. It was NOT working for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.I'm a female, married, and a productive member of society myself. I just don't want other people kidnapped and raped for money. Those who need sex don't hurt sexbots, but they hurt trafficked sex slaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's analysis of modern female behavior is way out of line with factual realityI'm against marriage for marriage sake, so believe me, the fewer men and women that get married, the happier I am for both men and women. My mother had to work for the money AND take care of the house AND raise three kids because her husband, whom she had married a virgin, lost his shit and was just dead weight at home. So everyone is going to be happier if fewer people get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Does the statement "Women are generally attracted to bad boys, not spineless wimps" come off as a criticism to you?Bridezillas are a thing. You have a term for them??? OK, the guy HAS a point. But I must add that not in all countries of the world. It depends on cultures, biology isn't everything, or we'd still die from smallpox. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.Growth mindset is not intuitive unless exposed. I don't understand this. It's pretty intuitive at school. You learn new things, the more you learn, the more you can learn. You do sports, you get stronger, the stronger you get, the more things you can do... It's probably not intuitive for you, but it's pretty simple. Getting better helps you to get better. It's a virtuous circle. Or the intense desire to improve is part of your disposition. I guess an intense desire to improve is not common in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Does the statement "Women are generally attracted to bad boys, not spineless wimps" come off as a criticism to you?I don't know if American movies have anything to do with the real world there, but if you watch crap like "Bride Wars"... I mean, I understand it's a movie and a bad one at that, but I can't just wonder what society would even consider that such a movie deserved to be filmed with an expensive cast, crew and locations. I know plots are crap nowadays, but even so... If that has a thousandth part of reality in there, then I have to see the point the guy's making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Does the statement "Women are generally attracted to bad boys, not spineless wimps" come off as a criticism to you?Just out of curiosity, are you American? See, in some cultures, reasoning is valued more (or as much as) feeling. And people are not that expected to do whatever they want, when they want to... Maybe nowadays culture of immediacy has to do with that. Reasonable people respond to logic. I'm not the only woman in my circle who, when she is sad for no reason, says "I need some time alone, I'm sad", being completely able to identify emotions and act on logic, not on said emotions (the emotions have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Does the statement "Women are generally attracted to bad boys, not spineless wimps" come off as a criticism to you?Women are generally attracted to men who are confident. A man who is confident and does NOT harm other people (is not "bad") is superior to a bad boy (for a sane woman with a healthy self esteem). A man who is confident and not only doesn't harm other people, but helps them and pulls them up, is the epitome of self-confidence: he is not only strong enough to protect himself and achieve his goals, he has strength enough to help others. I used to feel attracted to the nicest of confident guys when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.But the performance will slip if you do not continue to perform. Why on earth would you not continue? Yes, I got sick for four weeks and couldn't train. Thanks to my friend muscle memory, I can easily recover my squatting and good morning maxes. Yes, I didn't study much when I was sick. Thanks to having been studying during years before that, and pushing myself, the (not as much as I wanted) self-discipline I've built for myself is there to help me get back on track. Yes, I haven't fasted since … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.Wisdom, competence, fitness etc comes naturally to someone, I would consider those traits a performance. What? None of them come naturally, by nature, all of them require focused practice. Abilities may be natural, skills are not. Skills show you're driven and self-disciplined. Building self-discipline is effort... the result is real, not a performance. An actress that plays a doctor is performing. A doctor IS what she is showing. It's now a part of herself, though she got it with practice and e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.And those are wonderful news. Much better than a young prostitute who might have been trafficked. Please, men, be happy with screen, sex toys, waifus and sex dolls. It's much better than paying for a woman who was kidnapped and threatened into prostitution. So by all means, please by happy with the sexbots and all the other options! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.I've been trying unsuccessfully to freeze my eggs, and I'm not managing to. But if I need to, I'll use a donor's eggs because I really want to preserve my husband's genes. He's that awesome. My genes are not bad, but if I can't preserve them I'll do without the depressive tendencies and being prone to catching colds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.As of yet. Give AIs time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.They're more xenophobic, which considering their culture, makes a lot of sense. They are extremely polite and careful about other people's feelings. I am a civilized person, but would probably be unable to move as soon as I would need to so as leave way in a seven eleven corridor for the person who needs to pass. I'm just not used to be paying attention to other people's needs 24/7, so even at my best I would probably look brutish. And that's trying my best. Japan can be open to immigration, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.80 hour workweeks, probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.The sexism in Japan affects the MEN negatively, and it's brutal. See, the sexism in the Western world came from the idea of Adam and Eve, Eve eating the apple and firing us all from the Garden of Eden and stuff. So women were inferior because they were sinful and Eve liked apples, so men had to rule them. A man beat his wife, was drunk, would drink his salary while the wife and kids went hungry? The woman had to put up with it. After the second world war when women got used to having their own m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Sex dolls and Artificial Intelligence will never replace real relationships. When men pursue women, they aren't looking to have sex necessarily, they're looking to get selected. They want to be chosen. A sex doll will never be able to offer this.They don't have to replace the real ones. It's good enough if they replace sex slaves, non-relationships and bad relationships. Win-win situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | It's inconsistent for people to deny the agency of people regarding sex outside of marriage "abstinence is impossible" and affirm it in holding "people should be punished for rape because they had the choice not to""but what about the studies that show that abstinence only programs don't work?" They imply TWO consenting individuals. When someone is crying in pain, screaming no, begging for the other to stop, gagged, drugged, or held at knife or gunpoint, you have someone clearly refusing, rejecting, fighting your temptation, and you should control yourself. When the other person is willing, happy, thrilled and excited, it's understandable to fail in self-control: each of the participants is just hurting hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Are women reproducing with the wrong men these days?Don't Americans get sex ed classes at school? Seriously, I don't think a woman needs to be virginal. I am much for being selective, but that's me, those are my values, I'd feel bad if I had sex with a worthless guy. I understand that's me and my feelings. I understand that some women "use" men as much as they "use" her. I know some of these women, good for them. However, these women I know who use men for sex, DO NOT GET PREGNANT!!! Dammit, girls, you had ONE job! To be selective, not necessaril… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What are the best options for unattractive men?Because of a caste system that tells some people they are untouchable and worthless. Or because of a religious system that says women are worth half a man. Or because of a religious system that demands the amputation of a girl's clitoris. Or because of a religious system that demands the amputation of a boy's penis foreskin. You know, for humane reasons, some cultures suck more than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP's analysis of modern female behavior is way out of line with factual realityA lot more people are single than before. As it should be. People do not feel forced to be married. They can live together, and if it doesn't work, they separate. Period. The fact that people do not marry by force is probably one of the reasons why they divorce less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Does love even exist at this point?"However, I became convinced that women just want money and attention while men just want sex, and to me this is really making me hate society as a whole, because to me this is shallow as fuck, for both sexes." Uh... dude, that's hard. It depends on the person. I'm female, but since you're a guy, I'm going to defend the guys here. Have a look at Bill Gates' wife, Melinda. At Mark Zuckerberg's wife, Priscilla. You'll see there are LOTS of rich men that could have bought a harem of women who looke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are men more lenient with their standards when they attain an attractive woman?It depends on the man. Mark Zuckerberg married his college sweetheart Priscilla Chan, a girl who's really pretty when dolled up, but looks average pretty in candid photos. Elon Musk was talking about his near-bankrupt companies (Tesla and Space-X) to a young, very sweet girl called Talulah Riley. Riley is very pretty and quite hot, but she distinctly remember Musk being introduced to a really stunning model, saying hello and going immediately back to Riley, who was apparently smitten at that mom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 10:29 PM |
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