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Isuckatdating631/r/seduction24/05/19 05:28 PM
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Isuckatdating631/r/seduction17/05/19 04:25 PM
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Thanks man, I’m sure we’ll talk again
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:26 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:56 PM
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Cool story, I’m trying to learn here, don’t need your negativity
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:04 PM
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Care to explain what’s so funny?
/r/seduction25/05/19 04:01 PM
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I work construction so I work in neighborhoods all over the place and I’m mostly on the road throughout the day, so no, not really
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:52 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction25/05/19 03:50 PM
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Got it, thanks
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:06 AM
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I’ll message you later about this. I’m out for the night with some friends
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:05 AM
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Granted, those were all women I met through Tinder so maybe I should just strike up convos in person to get more comfortable approaching in person
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:55 PM
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I see no point in interacting with unattractive women as I don’t have problems talking to women I don’t intend on sleeping with. I’ve slept with a handful of women less attractive than I am over the past year and it’s just meh. I need to practice talking to women who I’d want to date, as it’s those that always end up ghosting me or I’m afraid of approaching
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:51 PM
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Okay, I guess I have to
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:12 PM
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Well masturbation and porn became my main way of escapism and avoiding dealing with my fears of approaching women for so long that now I’m clueless how to date and seduce women and all that. As far as life without a girl>life with one, dude...life without sex is so fucking boring after awhile. I just want someone to share my life with. I’m sick of doing every single thing by myself. While liberating and free to be able to do what I want when I want, never getting laid and not having someone that…
/r/seduction24/05/19 10:10 PM
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Yeah but where do I go? I don’t go out every day and I don’t interact with women at work.
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:51 PM
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Thanks, I guess I’m just lost and confused when it comes to finding out what I need to do to gain more weight and muscle for my size
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:39 PM
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Yeah, I’ve only been to this particular one twice and there was only one guy I recognized from the last time. My concern is that I’ll make friends with women through these groups and then be into one and try to ask her out only to be given the whole friend zone speech. I feel like if I ever meet a girl I’m attracted to physically I have to make it known right off the bat I find her atttactive or I’m just going to end up friend zoned trying to play the whole get-to-know-you game. I’ve never slept…
/r/seduction24/05/19 08:50 PM
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Ahh, man I’m so bad at thinking of good things to say on the spot. I had gotten hit by a ball in both eyes on separate occasions and the second needed icing and sitting out a couple games. She made a comment about feeling bad that I kept getting hit in the eyes and laughed about it (not in an offensive way, just like hahaha damn you have bad luck tonight! Sorta way). I probably could have said something better there but all I could think of was something like “I know right?!” There were a few ot…
/r/seduction24/05/19 08:15 PM
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I’ve been trying to go to more meetups but the few that I’ve gone to have different people every time and I’ve found that it’s really difficult to find time to isolate people to get their contact info to keep in touch. For instance, I went to a trampoline dodgeball meetup last night. There was one cute girl there that I would have liked to get to know better but there was never an opportune time to talk to just her and it would have been awkward to just ask for her number without learning about …
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:51 PM
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😑
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:28 PM
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I don’t know how to share pics on here and I currently don’t have Tinder active as I’m taking a break from actively dating to focus on bettering myself and my mentality before I dive back in but I’d like to be prepared for when I do
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:04 PM
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Thank you man, I really appreciate it. I’ll try to be more disciplined about making meditating an every day habit
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:02 PM
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Thanks for your empathy. I know I’d feel a lot more empowered if I was getting laid with the women I was attracted to, and not just the fatties and psychos I know I can pull through Tinder. I missed out on so much sex and dating in my twenties that it just left me very bitter and frustrated and all I want to do is go on a fucking spree and play catch up
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:01 PM
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Thank you! I’m willing to take any advice on dating you’re willing to give me. I was able to score with a few girls last fall through Tinder but they weren’t the most attractive, I’d say all in the 4-5 range. Granted I’m no stud but I definitely feel I was the more attractive one every time, and they weren’t women I would like to date. I can’t seem to get the more attractive ones that every other guy has their sights on, not even talking 9s and 10s but my last girlfriend was a solid 7 or 8 so I …
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:58 PM
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Okay thank you! I will try that. Do you have set times of the day where you do it, or do you do t whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed by your thoughts?
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:49 PM
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I’m not. I just don’t see how dropping hundreds or even thousands of dollars on a therapist that’s not going to tell me anything that anyone on reddit hasn’t already said is going to help me. It just seems like a waste of money that could be better spent on books, traveling, better wardrobe, or investing Into starting a business.
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:48 PM
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I’m very skinny but can’t put on weight/muscle to save my life. I weigh 135lbs and have no idea what I should be eating/how much nor can I lift much so going to a gym would be fruitless because I have no clue how to use any equipment and I’d be laughed out of the building by anyone watching me try to bench a measly 70 lbs. The first part of trying to better myself has been quitting porn and doing semen retention but all it’s done is drive me insane so far. I also cut back a lot on gaming I’m try…
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:43 PM
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How exactly do YOU meditate? I’ve tried meditating but I just end up right back to thinking all the negative thoughts after doing 10 minutes of just focusing on my breathing. I don’t know if I’m not meditating right but it doesn’t get rid of the thoughts that I’m not good enough or that an attractive woman would never want to date a guy with little to no sexual/dating/relationship experience.
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:35 PM
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Also, I don’t interact with many people on a day to day basis. I work all by myself and only talk to like 3 people at work, then come home and I see my roommates and maybe go to the grocery store or a bar/brewery every now and then, but I still don’t know how to just randomly approach a girl and start up a conversation unless I already know her
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:27 PM
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I can have platonic conversations with women that don’t go anywhere, it’s flirting, escalating, kino, teasing, all that shit that I don’t know how to do/too afraid to try for fear of coming off like a creep
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:25 PM
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“...there’s something else underneath that’s likely running that” My last girlfriend from 10 years ago was a huge feminist and put all these stupid ideas in my head that basically made me afraid to approach women, touch women, flirt, tease, etc. That, coupled with my porn addiction kept me isolated throughout my twenties and ashamed of myself that I was basically a cuck that couldn’t get real women, or at least the ones I was attracted to. It wasn’t until late 2017 that I wanted to better myself…
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:21 PM
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What if you’re by yourself? I don’t have anyone to go out with so whenever I do go out it’s usually by myself sitting or standing somewhere being awkward. I don’t have any wingmen, the few friends I do have are homebody potheads that are already in relationships and no desire to go out.
/r/seduction24/05/19 05:22 PM
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I’m very aware that I have a lack of self esteem, because I have never been in a long term relationship. I’m 31 years old and ave no earthly clue how to seduce women. I can count the number of times I’ve had sex in the past 10 years on two hands. How am I not supposed to feel a lack of self esteem and desperation for sex and intimacy when I’ve lacked t my entire life??? It’s a need for humans and it’s not healthy to go this long without consistent sex. I’m so fucking frustrated and bitter and I …
/r/seduction24/05/19 05:07 PM
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I hear this all the time but if all I do is talk platonically to a woman without trying to fuck her, all she’s going to do is friend zone me. I’m 31 and been single for basically my whole life because I don’t try with women. Not trying to get laid has never gotten me laid so what am I supposed to do? I’m so fucking frustrated how little sex I’ve had in my life and I don’t know how to flirt with women or show that I’m a sexual person without doing this whole “don’t be needy or desperate thing you…
/r/seduction24/05/19 03:55 PM
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Okay, I’ll start changing how I think and talking to myself better. Thanks for all the help
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:24 AM
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Thanks. I just don’t really have much to be confident about in terms of women, I can count on both hands how many times I’ve had sex in the past 9 years and I know for a fact I wouldn’t last more than a few seconds if I were to get laid tomorrow. What am I supposed to be confident about when I’ve been in a 10 year drought of dating? It doesn’t matter all the cool places I’ve traveled or how smart I am if I can’t turn a girl on. I just don’t even know HOW to be confident, I’ve never had confidenc…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:55 AM
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Yeah but isn’t that the point of dating? To find out what you like and who you’re looking for? I have a type physically but I don’t really know what to look for in a relationship. All I know is I like petite short brunettes and I don’t want kids and I don’t want a smoker. Other than that I don’t really care, I’m just fucking tired of being single. I’m 31 years old and I’ve never had a relationship more than 3 months and I’ve been single for nearly 10 years. I probably reek of desperation but it’…
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:43 AM
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Wouldn’t it look creepy if I’m that guy all by himself just hitting on every girl I see though? And I don’t do clubs, I can’t stand the music and the general atmosphere bores me. I know it probably sounds like I’m making excuses but I just don’t see the point in going somewhere I don’t like to hit on women and spend a fuck ton of money on covers and over priced drinks.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:10 AM
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Wouldn’t it just be better to straight up ask her something sexual? I’m not good with jokes and don’t know how to get out of my own head when talking to women, which usually just ends up in a platonic conversation and I’m too afraid to say something sexual to offend her. Fucking feminist ex girlfriend fucked with my head and I’ve been single way too long to even begin to know what to talk about, how to approach, basically anything when it comes to seduction
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:59 PM
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How do you make a joke about sex to someone you just met? Wouldn’t that just make me look like a creep? Ugh, I hate being so old and still not knowing how to do any of this
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:51 PM
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How do you do this? I don’t know how to flirt or tease or any of that
/r/seduction16/05/19 09:15 PM
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I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to be all these. I’m 31 and have never had a long term relationship. I don’t know how to do any of these things and at the rate I’m going, I’ll be single til I’m 40 until I learn all these things. Women already don’t want to date me because I’m 31 and have never been in a relationship, I don’t even know where to start, aside from trying to quit my porn addiction
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:59 PM
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