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I dumped mine and went thru a whole new phase of beta and luckily self improvement. Sleeping with randos sucked, non depedestalized my ex in my mind. But eventually a new hole took the feels spot. So just keep improving and put yourself out there
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:49 PM
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I think what you might be saying you deal with is shame? You feel shameful for the sexual things you've done? I felt the same way about drugs and a general degenerate life I lived. I also feel generally shameful of my past the more self esteem I have and the more I raise my standards. It's normal to feel that way, but it's toxic. People like buttsex (you), people like doing acid and molly at raves half naked (me). I didn't like the drugs because I think they're bad for you. If you're having sex …
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:48 PM
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Never done the old "okay I'll just jackoff" move?
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:14 PM
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Lifting just gets a good primal reaction from women
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:33 PM
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Jerk off in front of her then leave
/r/askTRP28/03/16 08:23 PM
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I lived in solitude for a few months. Learned a bit. Monk mode now I'm out and trying to keep good habits while finding plates/possible ltr
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:24 AM
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I could see it as making her come to you. Like if you're doing everything right, escalating becomes very natural and feels effortless
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:20 PM
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I got some stuff from my dentist but it made them sensitive as fuck for three days after. I do get girls telling me I have beautiful teeth though, so yolo
/r/askTRP15/03/16 03:57 AM
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I've been surprised, after taking trip, how easy first date sex has been. I'm not sure how many lie, maybe I actually run good game, but I've been able to have sex on the first date the last three in a row. Just light escalation and I've gotten it by the end. The main thing I've done is made the date fun, like I'm naturally sarcastic/witty and I just do that while slowly escalating. By the end of the night they usually indicate they dont sleep on the first fate much, they had more fun with me th…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:50 PM
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That's rough man. Actual rape or any violent crime will have a lasting impact on someone. She prob needs consouling, when reading bullet points she sounded like a type A stuck up cunt, but she's just damaged. She doesn't fully meet your needs, rape or not, that's unacceptable to me. That being said I don't know if I would have stuck around long enough to be roped into marriage, so I'm not sure how to make the most of this situation. On one hand, she is a person and had a terrible thing happen to…
/r/askTRP13/03/16 05:16 PM
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Do some yoga and meditate. It helped me get to a point I could game some girls without being completely intolerant But yeah lift, eat well, get good sleep, use that shit to motivate you. It will pass to a degree, or maybe it won't. Just learn to use it for your own benefit
/r/askTRP13/03/16 05:09 PM
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I'd prefer just blow jobs at this point
/r/askTRP13/03/16 01:54 AM
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That and dick size, but can't control either. It sucks but what can you do besides raise SMV in all areas controllable
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 07:03 PM
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You've met two? Makes you worse bro they've only seem to have met one :p
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:47 AM
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I dont care if marriage reverts back to 1.0. I dont want marriage, I can't imagine settling. Women want resources, I'd rather not have their sluttery and cc riding slow down
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 04:19 AM
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Trying to figure out how best to live my life. Came here clueless on why I kept getting friendzobed even though girls thought I had no issue with them. Learned a lot. Now I'm trying to build myself into the man I want to be. Maybe I'll find another ltr, maybe I never will. Idk. It's monkmode rn
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:03 AM
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I was the kind of beta that looked like he fucjed a lot of girls but once you talked to me a bit, I had no solid game. So I started agreeing and amplifying and faking I was a player, had a few drunken hook ups (alch helped me be chill and give less fucks) and over the last year and so I changed my mentality. These girls started beleivibg I had a different girl for each day of the week, they will bekeive some stupid unreal shit if you hold frame. Made me realize that their need for resources is i…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 03:35 PM
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Also, I've found that there are people you can't fucking help if your life depended on it. Some people don't want to work hard, would rather believe in a fantasy
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 06:09 PM
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And why are you coming in them? You tryn have 18 years bro? This is how you get that judge ordered 18 years
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:01 PM
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I've been lifting for a while I've done paleo, lean gains, and basic IIFYM. I think I need to start cooking more and make sure to get more meat. You like the sous vide? A friend cooks with one and swears by it
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:50 AM
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People spend money to feel good Remove yourself from this slavery
/r/askTRP14/02/16 06:23 PM
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Cut them out if your life
/r/askTRP14/02/16 06:06 PM
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I'm not a fan of them traveling without you
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:58 PM
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"My parents never let me do it"
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:55 PM
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Yeah or she may just say "I love you" when you dont give her tingles. They don't understand themselves. Her actions matter more than words
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:56 PM
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Dont give her time, she wants time to secure someone else but just had to tell you how dry you make her
/r/askTRP08/02/16 03:54 PM
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You have to try it yourself. Some say it cures all, others does nothing. Literally nothing else to say, it varies case to case
/r/askTRP07/02/16 07:24 PM
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fucking give us the details man, must learn all I can
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:26 AM
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I mean, you could tryn plate her and see if she would take up working out. But yeah generally a lost cause in my experience. Can be done but why bother when there are girls out there who already lost the 20 pounds and on top of that have whatever body you like?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 05:28 AM
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I feel you in beating yourself up. I'm awake 30min earlier than normal with regret on my mind but what I try to do now is see the future as a realm of limitless possibilities so that the past doesn't matter. So keep improving yourself and you'll feel this yourself
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:50 PM
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Just start talking to them more. Eventually one will show enough interest to basically be "throwing herself at you" like you seem to want. But yeah if they show interest, that should be enough to put a little effort on your end and get some wins in the book
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:30 AM
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Your last sentence is why I advocate guys get their finances in check real fucking quick. It's not about being a beta provider but just getting that financial security and freedom to not give a fuck. I'm saving and investing a lot of money and it's really helping me care less about girls. Also just generally makes it easier to say "fuck you" to anyone I don't like.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:08 AM
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might increase my age range on tinder lol
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:58 AM
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It's great when they don't get it, she didn't
/r/askTRP03/02/16 12:00 AM
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Used video tape line. She didn't get it. She's seen the movie though At least 4 of my bros are laughing at the screen shot of our convo now lol
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:46 PM
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That place is funny as fuck, not gunna lie Yolo for some yachts
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:44 PM
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I agree on I have plans. Whenever a girl tells me that I just think "oh you're so fucking cool right" We used to be something so I could play off the nosy bit
/r/askTRP02/02/16 09:18 PM
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Oh also I worded it "hangout with me this weekend, just not on Friday". Which sounds more like let's hangout all weekend, which I've done with her (spending nights at each others place, going out with people, good times) True I should've just named a day I was free, was trying my hand at playing some games. Should I be like "I have plans but should be free Saturday" Though if she's busy not sure the move
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:47 PM
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I was going to say "I have plans" I know she will get pissy or react but yeah, trying to reclaim a little power (this was a last ditch ask to hang before soft/hard nexting)
/r/askTRP02/02/16 08:23 PM
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I second this. Also check out the financial independence sub reddit for general savings and investing advice
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:55 PM
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Check my post history to verify my betaness due to experiencing pair bonding for the first time. Lift, make new friends, learn new skills, get a better job, grow in anyway you can. Like at this point I dont care about doing better/worse than this girl I bonded to, I just miss the natural drug. Time will work, but really the only way to fix it is to override it. I've gotten better in everyway and I still miss her/that drug. I haven't been putting enough effort in sleeping with new girls and cuddl…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:35 PM
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will do. My dance moves blow tho, I look like a fool. I'll try not to give a fuck though. I do enjoy club music
/r/askTRP31/01/16 05:10 AM
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Two things: This dude that owns a teriyaki joint told me: "Girl who say she love you forever is snake. She lie. Girl don't love you forever, you run away from that girl. Girl who say, oh you make me feel good right now. She tell the truth. Girl that tell she love you forever is the bad girl. Don't stay with that girl, she crazy." Dude was fucking nuts but had some very RP stuff he used to tell me when I would get my 'yaki fix. Second agreed. Although I left before and I felt that Oxycontin missi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:40 AM
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Yeah I used to think it was bs, but I've come to find that smells are huge for them. My natural odor is something a lot of girls remember, especially in my room at my apartment. I kinda wanna do this Saturday before I go out if this plate is down
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:48 PM
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Not even just the smell, but if I've had sex and then hang with anyone, I'm 1000% chiller. Like abundance mentality to the max
/r/askTRP29/01/16 03:18 PM
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Lowest impact martial art then?
/r/askTRP29/01/16 02:14 PM
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Yeah it's mainly just time spent in the forward should posture. I think the impingement came about from all the video gaming I did growing up leaning forward with shit posture. It's gotten better with time and physical therapy stuff, but not perfect. I might try it again since I actually fixed most of it with the last physical therapist I went to.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:48 AM
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I tried once and just that forward shoulder defensive stance and stuff was irritating it. I lift but do so carefully. I'll run my ass off though, knees have been good my whole life... Knock on wood
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:03 AM
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My hand is terrible. Like wiesr handwriting and drawing skills of a retarded middle schooler
/r/askTRP29/01/16 05:02 AM
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I just have this restless feeling, like I know things will be good in s few years, but I'm struggling to enjoy the moment
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:27 AM
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I didn't go to prom and I still get laid, who cares
/r/askTRP27/01/16 10:44 PM
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I've been internalizing your last sentence since I got my job. Also been thinking alot about that post on motivation vs. Discipline that was on the main sub. I mainly care about money right now, but I need to hold this job for a year or two before I jump shipc
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:54 AM
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Awesome thank you for all this information. What's it cost to moor it or whatever?
/r/askTRP27/01/16 05:53 AM
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How much is a 50foot yacht and what do the costs look like?
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:59 AM
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"Did this work last weekend?" Hopefully she says yes "Oh, I see. You should have spent some time getting ready to go out this weekend" 6/10, the follow up could be better. Basically say it with a massive shit eating grin and it should work 50% of the time, all the time
/r/askTRP26/01/16 10:43 PM
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I wouldn't initiate
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:46 AM
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In my experience, it can be done on the occasion, just dont make a habit of it
/r/askTRP24/01/16 09:39 AM
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I didn't even read past the title but I would Yolo it and have fun and enjoy the feelings. That's part of being human. Oneitus can happen but just avoid babies, aids/herpes, and false raoe stuff, and it should be good. Not a totally RP advice, but honestly life is life. Do what the fuck you wanna do, you have the toolbox that is TRP
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:11 AM
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Solid words man. Appreciate it. One of my true natural red bros was telling me something siniliar, how I need to just give way less fucks about women and put my energy into things I enjoy and eventually they'll notice, I'll give less fucks and everything will be easier. Doubling down on lifting and reading of finance (one hobby), and might learn guitar
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:39 AM
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I've turned down sex/stopped talking to a girl because she the sex wasn't as great as past girls. I want pussy, but I'm not really trying to fuck just any girl anymore. Maybe I need to just raise smv further
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:29 PM
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I'm lifting again and doing a mini bulk. No abs right now but I'm trying to lean up by eating cleaner + cardio. I've been a huge asshole before and that's fun, but I'm trying to find the right level of ass and nice now.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:27 PM
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I am focusing on myself. I fucked some other girls, still stringing a few along but I'd rather have her. I think I ruined her, like made her into a CC rider from what she said to me last week.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:25 PM
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Not even loser women though, they all have good jobs, work hard, doing decent things but they just still Yolo it in their free time. Thanks for the words though. I just turned 24 and feeling burnt
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:24 PM
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I dropped 20lbs in a couple months doing just IF and macro counting
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:49 AM
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I regretted it. Think about it for a while. The grass is always greener and if she's doing everything you want, what more are you looking for? If I could get my little sex toy back that'd be cool as I don't have time or energy to do plates. If not, cool, I'm starting my career so I'm fine. Oh yeah, dumping her did hurt but I'm a million tines better now than with her. Forced me to get my smv in check and grow up. So idk, there are pros and cons to both choices, at least there was for me.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 03:46 AM
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Safe, dividend paying stocks/etfs. Put on drip and dont touch
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:06 AM
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I am a better person now, more accomplished. Have a good job now working with great people. Wish I made more money but I know that will come when I build my skillset (this is first job out of school)
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:34 PM
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I dumped her because I wanted to bang other girls, I honestly didn't appreciate the perks of having a sub girl who keeps your balls empty. She thinks I'll drop her again, which I won't unless she acts poorly.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:32 PM
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If not a troll, she wanted to provide value. She decided you were worth not sleeping for to help. I would say you have frame and only would have lost it, if you acted a bitch and freaked out for an extended period.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:56 AM
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Honestly, yeah even if you gotta fake deal with a girls crazy nature, as long as she isn't giving your herpes, aids, or kids, yolo ride it out. Especially if you're working on your SMV and don't plan on LTR or marriage anytime soon
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 03:35 AM
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I'd let her do it first then maybe say it back
/r/askTRP01/01/16 02:34 AM
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I feel like NYE is second to valentines day for activating the "single lonely girl feels" in women. But it's almost better because it's a holiday and they are all out to party
/r/askTRP01/01/16 02:33 AM
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I told a girl I wanted to just have a mellow night and watch fireworks. Maybe have some champagne. They are prob down for that if they have a guy that want to sleep with, so do that.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 01:42 AM
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Makeup fake plans you don't want to do and then suggest what you want to do with her and have her join
/r/askTRP01/01/16 01:42 AM
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When I saw a girl who made me wait for sex, go into the room with a guy (and they both had hickies). She had just told me she wanted to focus on school and herself and didn't want to do anything with guys, but wanted me to stick around basically in case "her feelings on the matter changed". I had been reading TRP for a month and applying a few things, but holy shit that was drunk night for me (that led to banging two girls who I interacted while on the way to getting blackout drunk)
/r/askTRP31/12/15 06:16 AM
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ZMA is solid imo. you can get some gnarly dreams but fuck it, makes for some good sci fi novels one day (if you can write them down before you forget them, but I digress). No fap has made me either super horny or not horny at all. Usually it just makes me too thirsty for pussy, not in the good way though.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:46 AM
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Sounds like he's aloof as fuck There ya go
/r/askTRP30/12/15 03:33 AM
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How old are you? I would just throw it all in my trading account. Or most of it and then buy another gun I really want, and perhaps some more gear for hunting/shooting. So, I would put some aside for a rainy day (as my grandpa always said) and use some for life experience/hobbies.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 02:15 AM
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Yeah I find my standards going up as I gain more experience. Realizing what I like and don't like
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:57 AM
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Yeah I second the fuck that to her game of keeping her on your mind. Toxic girls.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 08:38 PM
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the bedroom is dead and you feel bad dumping her? where the fuck are your balls man?? There is nothing to feel bad about, you aren't even get sex. You're like a glorified friend
/r/askTRP08/12/15 05:51 PM
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have the heartbreaks been bad?
/r/askTRP04/12/15 11:36 PM
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Answer: Being a VC is seen as some easy cushy job to make a shitload of money. Nevermind I took a class on VC valuations and got a little clearer picture of what they do. The few women thought the class was difficult and boring. SJWs like to talk shit about Mark Cuban and other successful self made types, but they don't realize the sacrifices they made to get there. People in these firms are most likely pretty naturally red pill. Also, finance is a study of risk. If, on average, women perform wo…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 09:17 PM
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I actually did just that. I dated a girl I didn't really think much of myself (she was cute and stuff, sort of plain), others were really into her though so I got social proof being with her, but I felt most people outside of the uni didn't pedestalize her, and thought we were just friends. Didn't see us together. I didn't date her for that purpose though, to try and get over that fear, I ended up dating her because I had just found the pill and sort of gave up on women. But she wanted to fuck m…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 06:02 PM
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This is where I need to improve. I'm told I'm "Good looking" and this only has added to my approach anxiety and worry about being looked down at for taking out a girl who isn't as a attractive as me, just to get my experience. "Why is that dude with her?" is a thought I worry others think. My game isn't shit really, I'm just risk averse and shy. Also if I get denied by a girl who isn't that cute, fucks with the ego, thinking of girls I've made cum multiple times in a row who were more attractive…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:31 AM
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Diet is a serious part of it. Starting to cook more often than not, and cook good things. Will report back in a few months
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:18 AM
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In regards to the post sex reveal: I like to give them some shit, say something that pre-sex would cause them to leave me or something, but since they were just given orgasms and are laying on my chest, it's cool. Then when they are acting up from what I said, I say: "Do you really want to go and try and fuck a bunch of loser-shit-in-bed guys in hopes you come across a guy half as good as me? Do you really want to go back to dating those loser ass guys?" Saying these sorts of things really kept …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:37 PM
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I have similar online experience. It's how I got into the PUA thing a few years ago before finding TRP. TRP made intuitive sense of PUA and after some thought I agree with those three categories. For girl number three, I try to close the number and if they are too annoying about it, I stop. Gauge it. I think these aren't bad girls, they are just cautious of online dating and meeting guys they don't know. Being as cautions as I am to meeting girls online (I just assume they are all nuts and fucke…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 09:16 PM
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this, and having worked them before, they are usually hiring until the last minute as it blows to work retail during the holidays, but money is money
/r/askTRP30/11/15 05:42 PM
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I just want to get consistent kinky sex. I also tend to be nicer to them when I'm drunk. So she has the side she fell in love with (What she thought was a player asshole douche bro) who also has a side she only sees when she earns it. I had it once and I'll have it again. TRP proved to me that I could get exactly what I wanted, relationship-dynamic wise. That being said, idk how I'll get the kids goal accomplished in the far future, but that's a problem for another decade. Maybe more qualitative…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:11 AM
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Nawh I think she fucking loves chasing the AF
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:05 AM
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It kind is like social proof. While pretty much lowest level and not really classy, if you're in college YOLO, I feel girls where slightly more receptive. AWALT
/r/askTRP29/11/15 08:03 AM
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It's around weeks 3 and 4 you notice any real decline, but that's just the start of the decline. If you pick back up lifting, usually you're stronger than before by the third week back. In my experience that is. Op just keep lifting. I lost a bunch of weight this summer, too much, and am slowly getting back up there. Just keep lifting and avoid more injuries
/r/askTRP28/11/15 06:35 AM
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That's why I'm going FI. Like trp of personal finance
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 07:13 AM
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I like one of the comments about "I have a male friend who is 22 who is distraught women his age are starting to show signs of aging and he missed the boat to get a woman that isn't ruined!" I'm not too much older than that dude and I've felt the same, but found TRP so missed what boat? Just don't date the ruined ones that age
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:23 PM
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I would just focus on being able to work with what you have. I'm incredibly average and just learned to be good in bed and have had two girls tell their friends I was the "best lay they ever had", and these were some CC troopers
/r/askTRP24/11/15 03:41 AM
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I think it def can. I think I treated my ex like shit and that's why she would't have me back. Looking back, I provided feels for her, but was also pretty heartless and ruthless in my standards as well. But yeah, she's with a guy she had sort of been seeing or something when we first hooked up and I can't imagine him being more "alpha" than me. The point I'm making and realizing is: Yeah they can leave you for someone more beta. Not every girl is going to get some chadlier dude than you and they…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:55 AM
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I didn't ask for advice. If I had I prob wouldn't have been told to dump her, but to keep her as nothing more than a plate, which would have been a fair assessment. It's cool though I still learned a valuable lesson about what happens when you dump a girl and give her even just a few weeks of silence. They move on fast and getting back together isn't cake, requires game and frame control which I didn't really use. Just gotta keep lifting and try keep face in all areas of life.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 08:09 AM
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I also think I have a covert contract (as you call it) with other people. Generally I've been up and down in my self esteem depending on what others think of me. I actually wrote out more about my parents and deleted it and rewrote it. I'll do what you say and just write everything out for myself and work on it. I want to get laid/game/or whatever, I just don't have heart for it. I really just want to get over this oneitis. I dumped her due to inexperience (haven't had many relationships), insec…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 09:06 PM
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Just to update, have an interview, I emailed HR to follow up and they want to schedule me a time to interview with the potential team. So that honestly makes me feel a little better. First salaried job out of college (looking at not that much 40-45k a year starting) would at least make me be able to support myself.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 08:46 PM
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I feel you on the last part. Funny thing is she is with an orbiter of hers now. They connected after I dumped her and went no contact. She chose him when I tried to get her back, I lost my frame. I want to accept myself, but I'm also aware of all my flaws and this drags me down.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:49 PM
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Thanks for the reply. I wrote this after waking up in a feeling of panic. My workout is a typical muscle group 4 day split. Doing chest today and put up 185 on flat bb bench for 4x10, which is the strongest I've been ever. Have to work around injuries (shoulder and triceps tendon ). As far as internal issues, I have a strong desire to be a success, for myself and for my parents. I only admitted this to a therapist: I worry they won't like any girl I bring home and often can see my father judging…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 07:41 PM
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Feel in the same boat as Sovereign Wings. Dumped an LTR because I had thoughts of "this is it? Is this all that there is out there?" Now I realize it wasn't her, it was me. Things weren't that bad with her, it was my own personal problems and my own inability to grow on my own. I dumped her thinking she was holding me back, but the consistent sex and companionship was probably a good thing seeing as I really don't like many people and we just sort of did our own thing. I feel myself falling apar…
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:38 PM
2

I thought AWALT was like the anti unicorn antibiotics
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 10:43 PM
1

Eat more
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:21 AM
2

Just wanted to say that many replies ITT have resonated with me and an experience I had for a few months this year. I remember her showing her friends her exes texts, she was buying me drinks and a week later we were fucking steady. Two weeks after me dumping her, she had moved on with someone else.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:34 AM
3

This^ She's got problems. I may be wrong, but this girl could be a serial monogamist. I'm not advocating OP dump her right away or something, but just be wary she may not be that great. I would be willing to bet she would have another dude banging her steady within a couple weeks of you two breaking up, if not way sooner. She needs attention and feels, most likely because her father gave her none.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:31 AM
1

So I am still wondering if dropping a girl over this was the right thing to do: -Still contact with ex to a degree -A guy she had had a thing with still sent her shit all the time So she kept a back up dude around and got with him once I dumped her and she felt it was for real. Don't think she will never hookup with one of those losers, if she is desperate enough she will lol. The more interesting thing is to see if she get's in any form of relationship with one of them, then you realize you wer…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:26 AM
1

Whatever you want it to be. Just make yourself look better somehow. I think in general it's better to be average or above average weight and have that be comprised of lean muscle
/r/askTRP13/11/15 07:00 PM
3

Greens greens fucking greens! When I was making my kale, broc, apple shakes daily, I looked vibrant. Need to get back on it
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:50 PM
3

Looks like she may be trying to set up game playing with OP and the other guy. Like she's being relatively open about her situation, she will try to leverage both things against eachother to fuck with both guys feelings. She will be the one who gets wrecked if both you are just pumping and dumping (or really if he is as well since you obviously are)
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:32 AM
1

To add to this, I'm like low 180s at 6'2" and I feel skinny as fuck, abs still not visible all the time so if you have abs at 190 at this height, good shit man.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 02:27 AM
2

Yeah I feel you there. I got sick of the constant "be nicer to mee" "say nice things to mee" all the time. I knew if I did it would be a slippery slope of entering her frame and shit. Little arguments, her breaking little rules and then freaking out at me for acting like it's not cool of her to do that. Followed by the completely weak bluff texts "I don't know if I want to do this anymore" to try and get me to cave because she is faking she wants to end things, when all I had to do was say "don'…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 02:11 AM
1

I think I have. I've only read/listened to a few books. Common ones recommended. I guess rereading your post you mention bits of that. I'm investing for the long haul into income/dividend stocks and reinvesting. Not really to get super wealthy fast, but to build up a nice sum of money I can take off drip and have some extra passive income. It's a mindfuck though, worrying about if now is the high in the market and if the market will tank in the next year (if waiting for a true dip would be bette…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 10:47 PM
2

I mean, finance is all about risk. Trading/Investing is about your individual risk tolerance. Some people have fuckloads of income and are young, they have high risk tolerance. They'd like to throw some money down from their high salary and see what happens. They get nearly 10k a month salary, fuck it. Some make 3k a month and pick conservative stocks because their 800 a month contributions mean alot given the 3k take home. I thought you were going to talk about emotion and managing that in trad…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:57 PM
1

yeah this. They are next level orbiters, I would just tell him he's a pussy "Hey dude, why don't you stop being such a bitch, she YOUR girlfriend?"
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:00 AM
15

holy fuck it's so true though. Live in a city and can confirm. Happy hour and brunch is all they fucking do. Starting as soon as they can work-wise No hobbies. I just don't want to drink that often. That doesn't get you the gains man
/r/askTRP09/11/15 05:53 AM
1

Been here for almost a year. Made solid progress but still not spinning plates and still fucking up with my post number game. At least my mentality has changed, a year ago I was such a pussy
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 07:59 PM
1

Sounds rough man. Just lift, meditate (I need to more often), and eat healthy. Get into some new hobbies, make some new friends. Change your life a little and let time pass.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:49 AM
1

You know old folks home have a lot of fucking going on. You could just plan to age well and bang a lot of girls before they die. Something to look forward to right?
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:48 PM
1

It's a bad motivator because when you truly swallow the pill and see that those girls weren't worth impressing in this way, you feel lost. If you're motivated that much by women you need to reframe your life and goals to not rely on that level of external validation. Look man, I'm the sane way, but recognize you still give a fuck about the way someone thinks. They don't give a fuck about you, they may want coffee, etc like that other dude posted, but those are just feelers to see if she can atta…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 07:37 PM
4

Yeah Jesus op reality will hit you hard once you start looking at 5 as essentially a virgin lol
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 07:24 PM
1

Thanks for this reply. Resonated with my thoughts. Feel discouraged sometimes and hearing how you used to value women too much, like I, and how it was a long process to rewire... Gives me hope I'll make it
/r/askTRP30/10/15 05:56 PM
1

It happened to me. I was in depression phase, but snapped back to anger after running into ex and her new bf at the bars. Same feelings too.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:43 PM
2

idk I always bring it back to sex Like maybe I take a side pic of my ass in briefs and be like "you really just miss grabbing this you little pervert. Now go to the bathroom and send me something dirty to tie my over for (insert time you're meeting)" or something
/r/askTRP30/10/15 04:40 PM
3

I talked about data in another comment, but this is the data that needs to be known. Except it boys, girls want a train of alphas to stuff them full of cock and cum. Just like we want to spread our genetics to every single female. We are just people, almost animals.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:42 PM
9

I hope they study partner count and pair bonding in more scientific studies. Could you imagine if they essentially had enough data to make statistically significant links to partner count messing with pair bonding -> messes with relationships and being able to stay in one -> people who are in shit relationships are unhappy. You just need enough data, I wonder if some girls would actually try to keep a low N count like some people don't smoke cigarettes.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 05:03 AM
1

You can feel abs through a shirt. Ever have a girl pretend to accidebtly touch your stomach if you had abs? If the off chance they do, on purpose or accident, it's not bad to have a hard stomach. She'll remember and try to feel you up later. Now off chance but still.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:37 AM
13

Yeah she prob get's turned on by a bunch of thirsty reddit dudes asking her questions about her sex life. Chances are if she's telling the truth, her father walked out on her and her mother at a young age and she's been sucking her way to guy's approval since she first found out we cum.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:28 PM
3

You should start building yourself and try the best you can to put women in like the 10th place in your list of priorities right now. Start lifting, cut out junk food, simple sugars, and eat more fruits and veggies. Try no fap Make sure everything you possess is clean and ordirly. Start working on your eye contact. Make eye contact with everyone you talk to, a lot of people suck at this and it makes you seem confident to hold good eye contact.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 05:56 PM
1

They know I'm a shitlord by my actions I don't talk about this, but girls think I bang a lot of girls
/r/askTRP28/10/15 05:08 PM
2

When I realized I had good looking eyes I started making better eye contact and that alone made girls think I had a lot of confidence. "Omg his eyes" Among other things
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:58 PM
-1

So a girl that makes you wait for sex is better? If a girl doesn't want to get with me right away, they aren't for me
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:14 PM
2

The "can't be bothered to even swipe on tinder" resonates hard with me. I open tinder and 3 swipes I close it. Mainly because I don't even get to swiping any cute girls, the first three are ugly enough and I think "well fuck this app today"
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:51 PM
1

I think you're depressed when you think about them for a few reasons: You're afraid of the outcome regarding approaching them You look at them and think about past failures and time wasted with women You don't feel you are good enough for them yet, at least not fully and you haven't internalized "I am the prize" completely. I mention the above because what you write resonates with how I feel. A mix of depression and anger as well as no real motivation to try anything with them. I know I don't wa…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:50 PM
2

These are the worst kind of girls IMO. They always have one foot out the door, ready to get on one of their stupid orbiters. I think my ex is one of these.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:37 PM
1

Yeah girl I was sleeping with for two months went away for a week and fucked at least one guy (this is all in the past). I knew she would fuck other guys even though I basically had her locked down, I just never talked exclusivity. Here's the thing. You two aren't a couple. She likes the feels you give her, when you are available to give those feels. She needs those feels ALWAYS. You won't be available those five days. She's going to get those feels from someone else in those 5 days. Live with i…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 07:46 PM
35

Keeping her as a ltr is a chore if you're not getting what you want
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:40 PM
1

So.e people say bulk, but I'd rather be lean and at least average bmi. Then just try to slowly get bigger. But I've dirty bulked and trying to cut and weight fluctuations... Idk, I'd rather just have abs and slowly bulk
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:04 PM
2

Yeah my ex/oneitus wanted to do a FFM for me. She also had a lesbian sex attempt with a friend. She prob got fucked by multiple dudes. I need to purge my mind
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 05:01 PM
7

I was that guy, now Im still getting over her hyper daddy problem having slut self But can confirm, was fucking her and wishing I was fucking 6s I saw walking around when she was like a 7.5
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:57 PM
1

Dealbreakers don't really weigh on shit for me man. No sex? No anything
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:43 AM
3

Idk man this is why I don't fuck with religious girls, all this talk of the devil and jesus
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:38 AM
5

Watched it again this summer under a RP lens. Was pretty great. Really resonated with me in a new way.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:19 AM
1

IF is the shit! Highly recommend it to anyone to try for a few months.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:20 AM
1

My ex is with a beta orbiter now. He may not be that beta but he orbited for like 4 months, always hitting her up. I dumped her and she wouldn't get back with me, yet she wanted to go with the guy she agreed was pathetic for still hitting her up all the time. Fuck if I understand, but I do understand that's what they do. The most interesting thing is I thought she made sense in her reasoning to not get back with me, and thought she may have been a sub unicorn of types, but after seeing who she i…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 11:35 PM
19

Where is the fucking reward for giving back to society, for young men? Where was the bullshit dream and reward I was sold on growing up? Where is the hopeless romantic sappy shit I always thought would happen? Where is my true love? Where is the ONE? Is she in this class I'm taking next quarter? Is she going to be in my next company I work for? Oh no, she doesn't exist. If there is any one, there are multiple and even then I don't think there is "one" anymore. I'm early/mid twenties and just abo…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:34 PM
1

For body composition, yes. For everything else, prob not.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 12:51 AM
1

The ingredients are pretty low quality
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 11:15 PM
3

This would and did kill my attraction to a girl. Getting into an argument drunk then deciding to let her be a drunk bitch at the bar with her friends, only to get her to text me in the morning about how she doesn't "want to do this anymore". I don't like drunk bitches, and staying up until 6am drinking without you is stupid.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 11:14 PM
20

I think that's a good rule. The only time it isn't is for guys learning, hell even myself. Raising that N count and getting experience in bed is good. Once a guy feels he's getting to a good stage, up the standards as you have. I have a similar rule/mindset due to the experience that sent me reading TRP where I thought this girl was wholesome and waiting for sex was great because it meant she was quality. Now I won't fuck around with teases, girls not into me, etc. If she isn't thirsty for me, i…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:49 PM
4

Calories in vs. Calories out is good, but regardless of studies, fuck sugar. You can get your carbs in better ways than sugar.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:38 PM
17

I feel like that is the only way to do it, once you get experience. If you want a successful LTR you can't have problems at all early on. As I and I know others say, every girl could be a slut for the right guy. I won't rule out a girl for a relationship based on the fact we had a ONS together that turned to banging. For all I know, I was the only guy she tried that form of "relationship" with because I was worth it in her eyes. Now when you gather more data and find she's using ONS as a shotgun…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:10 PM
28

I know incel type girls. It's kind of sad because even in their prime they don't have beauty, not even from lack of proper health or whatever, just bad genetics looks-wise is worse for women than men. Men can compensate because our attitude and how we hold ourselves can influence attraction much more than a woman can. While I don't think I'm yet in the top tier of men, there are plenty women that are basically invisible to me and will be no matter what they do because they just didn't get the ki…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:04 PM
3

Aware
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:00 AM
3

She just graduated, tons of her friends moved.I can see this. Too often I/we think girls meet guys way easier...which is true. But a lot of dudes don't approach and girls don't like to do that either. So yeah she had daddy issues, need male attention, prob reached for a cock nearby and held on
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:01 PM
2

I wasn't sure if I made the right call dumping her. Thought maybe I was being too much of an asshole about little things that bothered me.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 04:23 PM
2

I was the prize up until after I dumped her. Then I tried to get her back and felt beta was necessary due to how shitty I treated her. It didn't work. I don't know what this dude is like, all I know is he was trying to some degree while I was easily banging.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 04:07 PM
2

Like I told myself, she might just marry this dude. I sort of broke her and she had some shitty experiences, this is that nice guy she meets after assholes like me. It just feels weird, I miss the constant sex, companionship, etc and I wish I had some pull over her... But I don't see that happening with her again. She's moved or maybe she hasn't, but nothing will change or fix shit. As I walked back from the bar I just tried hard not to buy cugs, some beer, etc. I've been pretty much sober for 3…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 10:41 AM
34

As I've started telling my friends: I'm not jaded or bitter or heartbroken. I simply accept reality. I don't accept anything else but the reality I see.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:17 AM
1

This happened to me. Though I wondered if some simple ZMA or something would help boost the libido and boners. At any rate, I do no fap in shorter bursts, like a couple weeks or less.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:13 AM
3

I do no fap sometimes, but I for sure do no porn forever. Any addiction is bad. I choose to do no porn, but fapping is good for releasing stress and pent up sexual frustration. It used to be that I fapped and then felt like it impacted the way I acted around girls. I've since rid myself of that notion and just make sure fapping doesn't reduce my effort towards actually getting laid. I'll do no fap to try and further pressure myself to actually get laid.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:10 AM
1

Ran on a 6% incline at 11km/h for 20minutes. Running on rest days to try and increase cardio. Back day tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 04:54 AM
25

Don't be Gatsby, lifting, improving your smv to just hope Daisy will cone to the party, aka your onitis back in your life. Too often I wish the last girl could "see me now and how much I've changed". Fuck that, let the new girl enjoy the way I fuck and how my abs feel (when I finally get them in the near future). Fuck daisy. Achieve like Gatsby but purge thyself of awful oneitis
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 06:35 AM
1

maybe your lifting routine sucks, serious
/r/askTRP30/09/15 11:25 PM
1

I bought Ashwaganda for stress relief and stuff. Didn't know it was considered a nutropic
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:55 AM
2

As much as I hate feel good stuff, this was good. I'm in that growth stage and just want to keep going. I gsve up something and thought I could do better, I regret that I did because I haven't done better. Instead of feeling like a fuck up, I want to push forward. Keep improving until I get there
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 06:33 AM
3

That self esteem collapse is real. Even though I've improved since failure, still feels weird man.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:09 AM
3

I'll be blue pill for a sec here. This is why when LTRs don't workout, it hurts. Basically like a girl opening her legs and you saying no. Now, we do have TRP to help give us insight as to why it didn't work and what to do to maximize success, nonetheless, it still gets you down.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 02:40 AM
0

I usually say that "oh no I'm really a nice guy, true gentleman really." followed by some shitlord comment or something that confirms I am an asshole. Or I just say the above in a very sarcastic tone with a smile that says I'm clearly not being honest. Then they get playful about it "no you're not!"
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:02 PM
4

I would say that a good compromise is getting in the habit of small talk with everyone. Okay so you're overweight. Learn to be outgoing. You don't have to be thinking in terms of approaching, just learn how to talk to people around you. You would be surprised how girls will start entering your frame when you get used to meeting people ugly, pretty, dudes, chicks, whoever. This is a way to work on social skills while lifting. Getting used to talking to people you don't know and then transition th…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:51 PM
5

It's pretty annoying and once you are aware of TRP, becomes laughable. I would like it to be rid of. This hyper sensitive culture is getting out of hand, and maybe in still deep in the anger, but it makes me mad
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:27 AM
1

Aids, herpes, etc
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:59 AM
4

Fuck that shit, never again. She will be choking to death on new dick
/r/askTRP21/09/15 12:57 AM
2

I do weighted pullups, dips, etc. Calistetics don't really generate enough muscle growth. Weights allow you to target specific muscle groups and put them under more stress. Body weight workouts are good as a base, but there is no reason to skip weights. That's also great people look at you when you do your 3 mile run. They look at me when I jog to the gym too, doesn't mean I should stop lifting. I hate faggots who knock lifting for whatever reason. There is no better way to build muscle and bein…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:22 AM
2

Made a thread in Ask sort of like this. I was the highest alternative. The thing you don't know is if there is a better guy around the corner she will eventually meet. If she's not truly a huge whore, she might stick with you given light interaction. If she is a huge whore, she might end up fucking this new guy that is in her life (from work, a class, etc). Sluts have shown they fuck guys they come in contact with, more often than non-sluts. If a girl fucks guys she sees have value, more often, …
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:45 PM
1

Vit D, water, ZMA supp
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:37 PM
0

Don't ask about their relationship status, just assume the gates are open
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:36 PM
0

More kinky sex. The self esteem issues, daddy problems, and the like make for a really fun experience
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:32 PM
1

I want to be some single dude with a sports car, nice house, lots of guns, ability to travel, investments giving me passive income, and have a lot of RP or self-improvement focused male friends. This is all I have myself, just use it as an example. I feel like I'm in limbo today, but I hope I won't in the future if I just keep pushing.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:39 PM
1

I just refuse to pay for them
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:29 PM
1

I think barbell rows are my favorite lift after learning better form
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:26 PM
1

You kind of have to figure that out yourself. Who do you want to be in a few years?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:24 PM
1

Oh I dumped her ass a few months back but still question the decision. Have been on monk mode / recluse mode to process everything in the last year. Went from BP in 2014 to finding rp in December and applying stuff. I went from never having the ultra sexual relationship to having one and giving it up. I think a little BP past thinking has hit me or something
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:22 PM
1

Half the reasoning dumped the last. It was getting old playing dread until she broke down then giving a tiny bit of comfort, then going full dread. She acted up on a night out? Leave her and pretend I don't give a fuck and deal with her stupid argument type shit
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:12 PM
2

I agree, I've fallen I to a self doubt hole since dumping this girl. I guess I realize how I wasted even just the few months. The hypergamous slut I dated has forgotten me a couple months later. They are quicker to deattach themselves.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:10 PM
1

That's the conodrum I felt and feel. They seem to appreciate, judge her actions, not her words, but I feel like a sucker being that guy who committed to her. Even if I do more depraved shit and have her more hooked than any other guy, the college party girl just doesn't feel as valuable. Even if she treated me like a king at the time. What you're saying is the part that makes them fun, makes them unloyal?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:07 PM
1

Yeah after a few times I need to start doing my depraved kinky shit to them. Handcuffs, some lingerie, light bondage, choking, maybe see if I cant get her to buy herself a princess plug while we are at it
/r/askTRP17/09/15 05:07 PM
7

Self improvement also creates this negative mindset for the present. I have it often where you don't feel good enough about yourself now because you don't have your goals. Specifically, I want abs. Thought I would have them by now. I feel negative because I'm doing everything right but not yet at my goal. Therefore I feel like I won't be happy until my goal is met. Meanwhile, I look way better now than I did a few months ago, but just because I'm not at my idea of perfection, I feel almost worse…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 06:28 PM
10

You forgot going to the beach
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:13 PM
1

I can relate to the job one. I'm sure more experienced trp'ers would say get a more intensive job that challenges you/offers more experience to branch to better jobs. I'm debating doing that myself. In that free time you could always read things that benefit you. I spent a lot of time researching fitness and dieting earlier this summer to get myself back in gear. I also read the financial news for a couple hours a day
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:48 AM
3

Dude the gym prob saved my life. I think I would have killed myself if I never got into lifting, dieting, and fitness. Years ago even. I started when I was 17. Dude you don't even need to lift much. I purposely lift babyweights slowly to perfect form and avoid more stupid injuries. Diet is where composition is at. I do intermittent fasting because it works with my schedule and lifestyle. This has helped get me composition (lost like 15 lbs this summer and people say I look bigger) It's not easy …
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:34 AM
3

Your first text kills me, her first reply would be her last if I was with her your texts are so fucking cringe worthy dude
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:39 PM
1

try it. It works for me at times. I just broke no fap of like a month and change and been fapping all week. Suddenly I feel my thirst level up and not in a good way. No fap, at least for me, changes subtly the way I look at women. No fap > fap, at least for me
/r/askTRP15/09/15 04:07 PM
3

not even sex once a day guaranteed doesn't seem like enough to me. Not enough sex is a dealbreaker.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 03:57 PM
1

Yeah I avoided this place when I started getting success because I didn't want to be reminded of the harsh realities of life when upgrading a plate to LTR. Ignorance can be bliss until it isn't. I wish I had still read TRP a little bit each week, specifically to something that applied to my journey at the time. When you first get here, you read everything. Later you can just search for topics to get insights you need on more specific aspects of life/game etc.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 03:54 PM
2

I had an issue with my grad date. Showed I was graduated at the end of that quarter, they hired me as an intern thinking I would be ready to get onboarded in december. they asked about it and I was like "oh no actually graduating next year, that was a mistake". It was actually pointed out in the interview too. Felt dumb but just owned it like it was a mistake (it was)
/r/askTRP14/09/15 10:57 PM
1

I'm not entirely sure. Right now I just try and fuel my own narcissism and exude arrogance. I'll try to find a "happy-medium" or middle ground one day. Or maybe I won't. I've been told by numerous girls, after not seeing them for a few months "wow, I can't believe you got even more cocky" or "I didn't think it were possible for you to have an even bigger ego". Or any variation. Apparently it just keeps steadily increasing and I've seen almost nothing wrong with it.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 03:22 PM
3

For one, them talking about things like that just doesn't come off as attractive. I would equivilate ((spelling) it to us guys talking about that massive awesome shit I took after eating Chinese food and downing a Kombucha. Girls would be like "that's not fuckin cute" and yeah that's fair. It's also not fucking cute to talk about how you got caught by MPs blowing or fucking a guy on the military base her parent's lived on, in her teens. Massive turnoff. That's why it bothers me. part of that is …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 03:16 PM
2

Good on you for taking steps to change. I don't know much about man boobs, but I did have dadbod kinda bad and have almost lost it and am approaching abs. It's a long process and can get depressing when you feel you aren't really making progress, but you just need to stick to a diet and routine and see what thins look like in a few months. I would be curious to see what a healthy diet, no drinking/smoking (idk if you do either) would do for your situation in a couple months. Also check out fitne…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:35 PM
1

Dumped a girl I was going to LTR for this. When trying to get back together saw lifestyles weren't compatible because I no longer wanted to be in the party lifestyle in which we met. If a girl drinks too much, she isn't LTR material for me. I don't care what age we are. I want a girl who finds other ways to stimulate herself (is that unicorn hunting because fuck that's sad I feel it is)
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:27 PM
1

Have you tried eating really healthy and losing more bodyfat? \ Start doing leangains today. Start IF now. I don't know much about manboobs but I've lost plenty of fat this summer doing intermittent fasting and dieting hard. My pecs have been getting harder and less fat deposits. I never really had man boobs but I know it helped the very beginnings of them. I would just focus on eating clean, counting calories, getting proper sleep, living as healthy as you can, and also working out (running whi…
/r/askTRP13/09/15 11:20 PM
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The hands clean thing is a truth, I knew girls that just don't wash their hands well or don't do it when they come home from somewhere where they were prob touching dirty stuff. Idk if I was raised by germaphobes but my parents always taught me to keep clean. Most are actually pretty dirty, simply using perfume, makeup, and other covers to hide it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 11:13 PM
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At the time Kill_Your_Ego had a negative something, thought it might be some other reddit
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:28 PM
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The feminism downvotes tho
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:04 AM
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Try to get rid of any victim mentality that you have. Feeling sorry for yourself won't help. Learn to own your situation and work from there. I feel like a loser at times, but I try to squash that by looking at my positives and thinking of other people's negatives I don't experience. You're better looking, have some solace in that. You have a job, at least you have some sort of income, albeit tiny. Make incremental steps to improve. Try to get a better job. Maybe try something new you never had …
/r/askTRP12/09/15 02:10 AM
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Don't be a sperg. No shit, do something else if the family business is a taco stand. I was referring to REAL options that I see people pass up out if some kind of pride. Store chains, a resort in an emerging economy, etc. What I was referring to was opportunities that are better than entry level that people pass up due to "wanting to achieve something themselves” or some kind of shit
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 11:58 PM
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I know girls who have moved to NYC and tried to climb the ladders of social and career success in hopes to lock down some ivy league guy who works at some place. The funniest thing is I see a good chunk of these ivy league bankers and what not, hear stories from girls. A lot are boring to the girls. They may be well educated and have a good job, but guys like myself (and others here on TRP) are much more interesting and intriguing to girls. They idolize this rich guy ivy leaguer but it's almost …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:27 PM
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She get's it wrong right out the gate though lol. "And it’s not a matter of being too fat or too loud, too timid or too aggressive, too slutty or too frigid." Yes too fat, too loud, too slutty, etc are all great reasons as to why you aren't with a decent man. Lol just hamster it away to "not enuff menz" After reading all this though, it does feel good. I try to stay away from feel good bullshit, but this is good news. Keep raising your SMV boys. We're all going to make it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:18 PM
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This. Blows my fucking mind how many ungrateful dicks at my university complain about having to take over their family business (in turn securing enough money to buy whatever the fuck they want and retire early.) Yeah it may not be what you really want to do, but take advantage of your lucky roll of the dice. It's easy to complain about that option when you have others.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:14 PM
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These tests were made for male marines in mind. We all know men are better at physical activities you shitlords. We should make it fair by testing natural traits females are good at: machenvalianism, deception, spite, feels, knitting (jk you shitlords women don't knit because that's oppressive, even if it can be a fun hobby no--hom--moomo-) etc
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:08 PM
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That was like when I worked sales at an upscale retailer realizing there were upper middle aged adults who worked retail sales their whole life making, annually, what I'm concerned is not enough to make right out of college. Perspective.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:20 PM
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Yeah but even with all the betas, there are plenty of natural or fake chads to take the decent girls. You end up competing with them for girls that wouldn't get as much attention if they lived in NYC or LA or something. Like I get to fight college athletes (dudes) for girls I consider 7's? You fucking srs? I also feel like a lot just generally don't put that much effort into looking good. They put some, but the vanity isn't there. Not saying vanity is the best, but at least people who are vain t…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 11:29 PM
1

what are some things you replaced them with?
/r/askTRP08/09/15 11:26 PM
1

I would do it. If I could go back I would do PT. If it actually interests you, then go for it.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:15 PM
1

This is one I struggle with. Video games.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 06:14 PM
5

I drink a gallon a day, if not a bit more. I usually pee once every two hours. If not every hour and a half. Clear piss usually. Really underrated piece of advice if you lift and such.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:57 PM
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They are trash not in the fake trashy ho way, but the ugly ass hipster wear-no-makeup and feminist type. Not very feminine in general. They don't dress super well. General laziness. I feel men here are massively beta (tons of tech money) and pedestalize them into narcissistic behavior.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:55 PM
1

IF is fat loss on easy mode. Be semi mindful of your diet and workout while doing IF, gains train
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:58 PM
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I think the main reason posts like this are advised against is because most of us came here as betas. It encourages the possibility of falling back into BP beta ways. I like to see this place as a toolbox but I've also seen so many truths in just about everything here.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 11:56 PM
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God Seattle girls suck. Prob the trashiest of any major city. They take the least care of themselves. Therefore what would be 7's anywhere else are treated like 9s here.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 04:19 PM
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I guess I'm really coming terms with that concept. Like I said above (and wow spelling errors using the phone late lol) I really wanted what I had with this girl. I realized a few months in I was bored and was wondering if this is all life had to offer. Mind you, I was smoking a decent amount of weed, mainly because I was in a good place in my mind. My complacency got to an all time high. I should have been happy, I had everything I thought I wanted (generally speaking). I'm finishing up school,…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 01:45 AM
2

Higher T also increases fat loss
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:18 PM
4

She never exhibited many BPD signs. I'd say different drugs (molly, shrooms, LSD) and the like, combined with drinking caused it. She was a party girl, father created a new family without her and the mother. Also the coke night she had been drinking heavily. I feel like she blacked a fair amount from drinking Though upon reading, fear of abandonment, risk taking, and a few others match up with her.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 02:54 PM
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The abondnent bit is too real. Realized this not too long ago. I guess I didn't really see myself feeling like this now. It's also kind of terrible because she treated me really well besides her damaged side coming out sometimes intoxicated. I know I have oneitus, I just don't feel good about me ending it. Would have rather kept going and practiced more trp principles. Diet is pretty good right now. Maybe need more hobbies. More friends would help. I have terrible scarcity mindset that has been …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 08:17 AM
1

She was one of the types that has a high n count. About 5 months. From mid Jan to mid May this year. First real TRP success. Spent the summer in suburban hell. Finally back near my school in the city, though school hasn't started. I haven't been able to fuck another girl since her, not because of emotions, I just haven't put in the time. I guess emotion is part of it, strong anger and depression phase right now. I saw a ton of RP truths first hand this year, after being massively BP with this gi…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:50 AM
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They shape reality to match their feelings. Guy dumps girl. "He was an asshole". Girl, prior to dumping, comes back to guy's place coked up, always thinks guy is cheating on her given chance. Accuses of cheating because sees condom wrapper they JUST USED. Says she did a bump of coke from a guy she used to fuck as she was walking to guys place. Also starts dumb arguments. Guy get's sick of shit and dumps her. He is the wrong one. I'm not the wrong one, you've skewed reality girl.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:38 AM
1

This resonates a little in my current state. Dumped a girl because I thought I could do better (lower n count, cuter, better lifestyle aka not so much drinking). Anyways trying to come to terms with my choices as she didn't take me back when I tried to get her to a few weeks after I dumped her. While this prob isn't the case, I could look at it as a commitment test she failed. She treated me like her alpha but felt playing the field and looking for another was in her best interest, not me, who p…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 04:30 AM
1

I like to play the pay for this meal she gets next or vice versa. Like I buy chipotle, she buys thai take out later. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 01:52 AM
1

Didn't really read it all because Yolo but nobody is saying you should be a sperg or something. Yeah sometimes being rational is optimal sometimes faking irrationality is more optimal.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 10:57 PM
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Yeah I feel you man. Similiar boat, but been trying to get over it without the pussy replacement as I've discovered I've always replaced one failed relationship with some form of another. It's been a few months for me as well. With time it has gotten better. Want to know something fucjed though? I can't look at snapchat ever. I've stopped really looking and can't because I feel emotions when I see shit with her. I have no advice, just telling you I feel the same, in a same boat. I do have hope I…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:12 PM
2

IF is awesome, not exactly like lean gains but I do a 16-18 hour fast daily. Usually stop eating at 8 pick it up at 1 or 2pm the next day. I think I'm on week 5 or 6 of IF and I already made some great progress. Just a vouch for IF/Leangains
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:09 PM
1

I used to "manscape" now I don't care. This girl used to like to run her fingers through my scraggly chest hair lol. It wasn't even that full but she enjoyed it anyways, I made a joke I was going to nair it off and she was like "Nooooo I like it". Some like it some don't, but if they like you they learn to deal with what you want
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:05 PM
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You would have onetitis if things ended and you spiraled emotionally into a negative place revolving around her. You can still have the unhealthy oneitis with them though. It's really just unproductive thinking that impairs your game or your psyche all around the idea that she is more amazing than she is in reality.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 10:03 PM
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I often look at porn and just want to make that reality. I've had porn bed experiences with women and I want it again. I can't watch it because it seems fake and I've seen real.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 09:59 PM
0

A million I say something absurd
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:13 PM
4

Yeah I always get complements on mine but I'm also fit
/r/askTRP01/09/15 10:03 PM
1

I feel I need a job with more social interaction to counter my introvert style internship at a quiet office
/r/askTRP31/08/15 09:19 PM
1

My ex and her friends undoubtedly think I am a massive fuck boy. What would you rather be to them: the fuck boy douche or the chodey nice guy incel Okay that doesn't help a ton. That's all they can do is squawk like birds at you and about you.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:14 PM
1

What's your diet like?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 05:57 AM
6

I thought about part time job at a gay bar. Bartender/ bar back to make them tips. Idk how long I could last, some gay dudes are fucking aggressive in their advances
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:53 PM
1

How to win friends talks about some of those ideas. It's a bit dated though. It's good to learn to get people to talk about themselves
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:45 PM
2

"It's not gay if I'm getting my dick sucked” or " It's not gay to get head " or "it's not gay if I like a half a finger in the butt when I get head" or something stupid. I'm the same douchebag of the group who says the things others won't, generally raunchy and always offensive.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 02:18 AM
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I cried when I did it for the first real time. I liked her, I felt attachment, but I knew it was bad that I felt that way. I would end up getting burned one day if I stayed. I couldn't really explain to her why I felt like if she got pregnant I would go into massive depression and my parents would never look at me the same. I couldn't tell her that eventually we wouldn't get married and it's easier to just end things now. Idk, it was a few months ago, I'm no RP boss. I have a lot to learn and ex…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 10:47 PM
2

I haven't watched porn since like 2012. A couple times here and there. That can be a factor for some guys. This last couple month fling I had the girl was pretty kinky, down for whatever, submissive. You get bored of the same one too. Sometimes I will come pretty fast, but if I can get past that, I have to put in serious work mentally to cum. It's like this wall I have to get over without cumming. If I do, I can fuck for however long usually. I don't really attribute any of that to the girl thou…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:20 PM
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Yupp, where I heard that. Love Jim, funny dude
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 02:31 AM
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That's like most girls these days. They will hit at least one of these. So don't really bank on solid LTRs boys. Or do a couple month flings, those can be fun then you end them. I just kind of want to alpha widow a lot of girls. I feel my anger phase will never end. Every-time I'm out I go back in.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 01:36 AM
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I get all this, I just have a side note. Women don't get that generally they don't make men cum. I may be the only one, but I feel like sometimes I have to do mental gymnastics to get myself to finish with a girl. Or be really high on some good weed. Guys can be sex gods, girls can at best be very enthusiastic fuck toys. Edit: also, I've found this to be a good way to take them off the pedestal, and if you can internalize it, girls will sense it and try to disprove it. I have this theory I'm try…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 01:19 AM
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Yeah I never thought it was true until I was fucking the same girl multiple times a day for a few months. Banging her, she's cuming and all but I just don't feel like my heart was in it. I would look at girls a few points below her, looks-wise, and really wish I could fuck the shit out of them just a few times to get some strange. Ended up dumping her
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 01:18 AM
1

Greens. Kale, brocolli, blueberries, and strawberries. Oh and apple. I blend all this up in a vitamix (or a GOOD blender.) And drink all 80 ounces of this shit everynight. About 6 to 10 dollars a shake but I get retarded amounts of vitamins.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:32 PM
1

Being denied blow jobs is demeaning. If she doesn't desire to suck my dick because I please her with tingles, then I prob did something wrong along the way and the attraction just isn't there.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 10:57 PM
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I want to constantly employ it. Or have a base level. The idea of dread is that the girl fears losing you for numerous reasons, one being other girls. I agree with your comment but believe dread is pretty essential
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 09:40 PM
1

Yo bro you are drunk. Don't do ANYTHING right now. Sober up. Then think and act. There are many here that will have a solid gameplan in the coming hours, I don't have enough experience but all I can say is don't do anything stupid right in this moment. Do you rent or did you buy? Who's names are on the contract? (living situation) You need to look to get rid of her. She has proven her lack of worth (alcoholic genetics, shit relationship with father, cheating while away and then testing you to se…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 06:26 PM
1

I always think people that eyebrow raise 24/7 are tools but hey that's just me
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:03 PM
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I have a few products I use per recommendation of women and gays: A face wash for the shower twice a day An exfoliator for like twice a week in the shower Toner Some complexion boosting cream (collagen and vit c and other stuff) Daytime oil balancing moisturizer (the nightime and complexion booster are these three) Night time cream Eye cream A prescription retnoid to add nightly. I have had acne issues and I'm in my mid twenties (fuck me I'm actually able to say I'm in my mid twenties now) This …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:05 PM
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I would try to not use opiates. Addicting stuff man.see if there are other ways to get you there. I expected steroids which seems all good but opiates are notorious
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 02:22 PM
1

What if fem Nazis made the test. They breed out alphas because they don't want to accept alphas have good genes.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 01:28 PM
1

Buying a motorcycle, guns, and learning to dance. That's my goal. Oh yeah and fuck girls on the side
/r/askTRP21/08/15 08:55 PM
2

Yeah I was a pretty big stoner a couple times. Been sober as fuck trying to clean up. It's tough and I still don't feel that confidence increase but I know with improvement I will. The biggest internalization I'm trying to cement is that I'm the prize. Why should I qualify myself to these girls acting like they are a hot commodity. I haven't fapped in 3 to 4 weeks. Girl do you think your pussy is that irresitable? I have the self discipline to not cum for a month, tell me why I should give a fuc…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:06 PM
1

What do you use to study? Taking my second c++ class this fall
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:27 PM
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I could go to some function but I want to get good sleep. Going to reach out to some school club sports people and try to find a dance studio to learn tango/salsa. May try and go out tomorrow night sober to try approaching
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:26 PM
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Hmm girlfriend, but cheats. One would think these girls would see that as reversing the qualification of having a girlfriend. Maybe they like the idea of cucking the fake gf. Being the dirty little whore you sleep with on the side. Especially if you keep it a secret. Idk man
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:05 AM
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Aye dog that was me, I'm stealing yo girl. You mad you already have oneitus since you give a fuck that I'm talking to her. Yeah I walked away cus who the fuck cares man, she's a skank. On the real I just take note of what the girl does. She acts flirty with him? I take note and punish her appropriately. She doesn't? I ignore, either way she won't know I reacted
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:07 AM
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I once saw some dog in a LV bag. The woman holding it was a cunt. Fucking purse dog and she didn't even acknowledge some other girl who was like "oh cute dog!" Crazy bitches
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:01 AM
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Good shit man. Yeah I started to meditate after siniliar experiences. I didn't keep it up though I've been working to get back into it. Really helps.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:34 PM
3

I knew I wasn't the only one who didn't read that wall of text after that gem opener. OP bro, get out in that real world man
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:07 PM
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You can also get to similar understanding states with long periods of meditation consistently. It helps cut the bs and clear your mind. I see a lot of posts on meditation but it is pretty powerful as well
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 08:59 PM
1

I wish I never said sorry once
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:52 PM
3

Try mindfulness meditation. Count breaths. Become more aware and work on your ability to focus and just let the clutter in your brain disappear. I've had OCD-ish symptoms before, kind of obsessive and shit, it came and went and comes back in times of shit. That helped me with obsessive thinking.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:21 AM
3

It comes and goes. If anything I understand the world better, I don't feel that frustration about women in that sense. Now I just get frustrated with myself and my actions/mistake/past, but I'm slowly working to fix that too. Self acceptance.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:19 AM
3

This is pretty gold.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:14 AM
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"Yeah a drink, maybe sometime I'll let you know" Queue you waiting more brah. Siniliar situation, we all gotta accept shit is over sometimes, they are banging other guys and don't even actually like you anymore
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:05 AM
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I think a feminist liberal president in the USA is all it will take for people to be like "okay what the actual fuck". When enough conservatives have to defend their son's false rape accusations in court, you bet your ass change will come. Bill O'Reilly even had a goof segment on the idea of " war on women ". Making fun of third wave feminism. This was last night.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:17 AM
1

Yeah girls will break if you're good looking and good in bed lol. Play solid dread and you will see how weak women are.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:03 AM
1

Stop jerkin it so much
/r/askTRP18/08/15 03:24 PM
1

I kind of failed. Dumped a decent ltr because I wasn't sure if she was being too disrespectful, or if she wasn't quality enough. Maybe I was right, maybe I should have kept her around. You win and lose, no matter what though, you have to keep improving and move forward. If you fail, just jeep on. Failure is giving up and becoming complacent in life. I can tell you that failing so much has taught me a lot.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:55 AM
2

Why celery and cucumber? I just use lake and collard greens usually. I need to add ginger
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:00 AM
5

This is why there is a dad bod "Craze" It's really just the average girls not wanting to feel that they are exactly what they are, average. The inflated egos of chad's and their past experiences of them just fucking them and bailing them leaves a true scar in their self esteem. They may act all hot shit around "average" dudes and average dudes will pedestalize them, but Chads know the ho is average lol and the ho knows she is too and fears actively verifying that with more chads.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:07 AM
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They will care about it in college and for the rest of life, let me tell you mang
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:06 AM
1

Join a bunch of extracorriculars too. Good way to meet people. Leave the ones that have lame people in them if you aren't enjoying what they do as a club. Join a club or two related to what you study, something along the lines of professional development, you might meet some older students who know what's up as far as where to try to intern when.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:04 AM
2

Like someone else said, sleep and rest days, but also: Greens you mother fuckers. I eat a head of broccoli (like a $1.5) a bundle of kale($2) and an apple ($1?) all blended up with some coconut water or just water. (all organic, minus the coconut water). This gives you tons of good micronutrients. I want to add garlic and ginger as well as some other greens. Greens are fucking great and we don't get enough.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:17 PM
1

Yeah narcissism has a requirement of heavy external validation. It's kind of a shitty thing to have. Narcissism can be good if life is going good, but it can be a shit trait to have a lot of if life isn't going well.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 11:08 PM
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Women are naturally more insecure than men. She is post wall, addicted to validation that she literally needs because she lives off of her emotions. She's kind of fucked in that regard (I know AWALT)
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:25 PM
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The ego that upgrading chads in the AF department creates in a women's mind is unreal. They keep trying to fuck better and better chads only to one day realize they are a hard 6.3 lol and all they can get is Louis CK without standup, fame, and a personality hahah
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:23 PM
2

I like the alternate paying thing. I pay for chipotle today, you pay for chinese tomorrow or whatever it is
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:13 PM
4

If I have been seeing a girl for two months and she simply doesn't reply, that shows she doesn't value what you two have. Especially if she didn't respond until like two days later or something?
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:09 PM
3

I wish I had found this at that age
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:09 AM
1

Keep lifting and keep a good diet. Ignore this ho, she will prob look shittier post college than she does now. Look at any pictures of college freshman than them two years out of college. El Oh El. I see this shit first hand haha
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:06 AM
2

If you dump a girl, DO NOT go back to her. If you for some reason feel you really want to plate her, make sure to keep her in her frame. She will shittest and make you feel guilty and try to get the beta out of you. It will never be worth giving any betaness. Maintain frame and she won't accept that, move on.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:01 AM
2

I'm still trying to totally rid myself of the unicorn myth. I think now it's more of the idea of trying to just plate and gain as much experience as possible.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:58 AM
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AWALT means AWALT. When can everyone learn and dispel the unicorn myth
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:19 PM
2

Agreed on the not interested in seeing some chicks cook shit, host it yourself, it will carry more weight. Extra production value can come off as trying to bullshit. If the core concept/idea is good, extra fluff is unnecessary and detracts from value.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 03:01 PM
2

Beta eating habits? you're not talking about my pizza, chips, beer, fro yo, mac n cheese, and all my other staples of a good, as stated in elite daily, "manly diet"? Because the buzzfeed tells me I must eat like a man to get that heavily sought after dad bod, because we all know the number one thing womenz need is to feel safe and secure when they are with me. Safe and secure of what? Oh safe and secure of me oppressing other women. If I look like shit, how could she possibly dread me leaving he…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:55 PM
1

I said it drunk a couple times. She got accustomed to hearing me say nice shit drunk and not remembering in the morning, going back to my cold, normal, self. I feel if you are an alpha on all fronts, you can get away with giving her a little comfort here or there. If she trues to gain power, implement strict nuclear dread right then. Shut down any hopes of her having power by making her know you can fuck other girls
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:29 PM
1

Escalate on this one. The pain of regret of inaction is greater than the pain of rejection and failure. When you learn this is true the hard way, you will never forget. Do some kind of action date or drinks. Just don't do something boring like dinner or something. I don't know if other's would agree, but I might do wine and dinner at my place or suggest her. Suggest you guys make something together. Cooking, in my opinion, is fun and can be a very good way to assert your leadership and dominance…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:15 AM
1

Yeah last girl thought I was an alpha, and I dumped her. I guess one thing I can finally accept, a positive thing in this, is that I know for fucking sure what good signs are and when you truly have a girl. This shit is the truth
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:13 AM
2

Where do you live right now? I would say go for it if you don't have a lot where you currently live. I would love to live in NYC
/r/askTRP14/08/15 05:07 AM
4

I play a movie or some games in the evening to unwind, if you are making good progress the entire day, I feel like a little vice isn't bad.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:00 AM
2

I don't watch porn. I like to see girls cum in real life. I can never go back
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:56 AM
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Some more: Drink a gallon of water a day Go on an hour walk in the evenings or whenever you can. I try and get lunch somewhere as far as possible. That way I can walk, even speed walk there and back. Take Vitamin D supp Try affirmations in the morning, mantras or whatever. I'm trying to say some myself and see if it helps with any depressive/anger feelings. One that was in the show Ballers is funny but I tried it "I am bigger than my problems". I just make up variations and say it. I feel like g…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:49 AM
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I agree with the number points, especially the first couple. The not paying for anything is huge. If a woman can't respect the fact you each should pay for your own shit, then she isn't someone you want to date. That may weed out a lot of girls, but shit, not a lot of girls are dateable. If she expects me to pay for shit in my 20s, she isn't for me. I think more guys need to hold firm to this, especially when younger. Maybe more so older? I wouldn't know as I'm young (24, please tell me I'm youn…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:54 AM
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Because getting off of Netflix, for any reason, is an accomplishment to them
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:41 PM
1

Yeah that's why fuck texting most of the time
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:19 PM
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"And I wasn't the only slave to my nesting instinct. The people I know who used to sit in the bathroom with pornography, now they sit in the bathroom with their IKEA furniture catalogue." "You buy furniture. You tell yourself, this is the last sofa I will ever need in my life. Buy the sofa, then for a couple years you're satisfied that no matter what goes wrong, at least you've got your sofa issue handled. Then the right set of dishes. Then the perfect bed. The drapes. The rug. Then you're trapp…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:49 AM
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I think OP is just trying to make people wakeup from slavery. If one were rich, most of these problems wouldn't exist. Paying off the house fulling furnished with nice stuff? That would be paid for already if rich. At least my definition of rich based on actual rich people I know. What op is talking about is: don't be a slave via taking on debts and burdens because society conditions us to think that is necessary to be happy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:48 AM
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Dude you will be pounding new pussy in new york. You guys should end it on a good note. Tell her that long distance won't work well, you both don't need to be stressed about it. You love her or whatever but you guys need to not be dating. Just try and let her down easy because if you do that you might be able to just get some fucks in on summer vacation. Also, I would just not try to maintain a relationship with her while you're there. That is, be the one putting less effort into the whole thing…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:41 AM
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I try and do something free for first dates, that is, if I didn't just hookup with her drunk (in which case I just keep that pattern and take an abdada approach). This way you don't pay
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:39 AM
1

Someone had a good analogy. The band aid is to just be a straight dick and be mean. This will get you more success than being a doormat, but isn't the perfect fix. You will still fail with this method. Being an amused "asshole" because you love you > anyone else, but also respect other people as humans is the good happy medium. Just don't be a pushover, but don't be cruel. If a girl is being too much of a shittesting bitch, just tell her you forgot you had shit to do and peace out. Your aloof la…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:31 AM
1

I find the best thing to do early on: Fuck her like you are obsessed with her, then put her on ice. Like act like her existence is whatever. If you can get her off a few times early and make it seem like you aren't that impressed, she will think she found an alpha, even if you are her first plate. That way your excitement won't be lost. Just keep it in check.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:29 AM
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Try to do no fap. Try to really get yourself to do it. Look it at like it's lifting. You just gotta do it, err in this case not do it. Doing a 6 month no fap was the best thing for my mentality. It doesn't have the same effect for everyone, it might have just been plecebo, but I told myself I needed to stop for a while and did. Now I do whatever. Recently I decided to go on a no fap again. I turn into a fucking psycho path in the gym lol. They say Mike Tyson didn't even fuck a week before fights…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 03:23 AM
1

Uses snapchat. Oh you mean like ALL women?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:22 AM
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I wish this could be widely accepted, I wish you could openly say how dumb women are in their perceptions and standards. T And they say men have high standards.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:02 PM
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Care to give some details? What are you up to with your life?
/r/askTRP12/08/15 10:47 PM
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Ah yes it is the men's fault (top 20%). If I were to be too vulnerable, treat women as a priority, change my outward apperence of man whoring, I would not be visible anymore. This is what sucks when you are plugged, you read garbage like this and change any good habits you may have in dating, into more BP habits
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:44 PM
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Yeah I'm working in rebuilding. I feel like a fool. Just warning others, trying to go back to a girl you dumped is the worst thing you can do.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:17 PM
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Fucking this. I knew a group of girls that acted like they were some kind of prize to be valued. Fucking sluts all of them. None of them did bad academically, all have good jobs. All whores. If you met them through a friend of a friend you wouldn't have been the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:49 AM
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I dumped a girl, wrecked her. Felt regret and tried to get her back. She didn't let me, said we could just be friends. Since then I basically have ignored her. If you do dump, NEVER try to get her back. You can plate her or something, but don't put effort and remember the TRP tenets, I didn't and I fucked up. Live and learn. If you dump, don't be a bitch like I was, you give that power back and make her think even less of you (i'm guessing)
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:20 AM
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Netflix and chill is not their vocabulary. Yeah and yours isn't you basic bitch? Please... Show me a woman who's hobbies are not netflix and "chilling" aka getting high/being hungover/day drinking
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 02:22 AM
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I honestly think women have less motivation then men in regards to goals and achieving goals. I would wager it's because that wasn't a needed trait for women to survive, so evolution didn't make them good at that like it made most men. Just think of what a woman would need to do way back in the day and what men would do. There are the differences and realities of our current situation. We just haven't evolved to be caught up with the times.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:14 AM
2

My first no fap was a 6 month stint. I broke years of porn and jerking it EVERY night. The change in my thought process regarding women was huge. I stopped pedalstilizing every girl. I used to be such a virgin in my thinking of women, I would ONLY want to talk to HOT ones and disregarded others. When I was a month or so into no fap, I realized I was flirting with EVERY woman. One for practice, two because I was an animal. I didn't want to fuck women all women, but I looked them as just "other pe…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:09 AM
1

I just wouldn't validate them
/r/askTRP11/08/15 02:03 AM
1

Drinks are an awesome way to do a first date. Not too many drinks IMO. Just a couple to loosen everything up. I remember a tinder date with this cute asian girl. We had a few drinks and made out walking to the next venue (sushi to get sushi and some more drinks), we ended up nearly fucking somewhere but I was too nervous to do it in my car, in fear of getting caught (didn't have my own place at that time). Touching during the drinks and talking. Make sure to try and get closer, that way when you…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 01:57 AM
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They don't have to be interesting or do interesting things. They can get feels on social media thru validation and they have a vagina so they don't need hobbies to entertain them or make them interesting
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:34 PM
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I dumped my girlfriend because I missed times like you stated above. I missed being that rogue guy who never had a girlfriend. I missed the feeling of anything being possible. I missed being free of the fear that "this was it, I could stay with this girl, but is this the best life has to offer?" I dumped her, felt great for a month, then slipped and tried to get her back. That failed, she will never come back I was "a huge insensitive asshole". This summer I have been interning full time (first …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:59 PM
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I like the "I don't believe in kids or marriage, I'd rather have a boat and another car" usually on the first date. Then tell them about how if I ever get married "god forbid" I add, that a prenup is essential. They think I'm joking too. "Oh he hasn't seen what I have to offer!" They think. Oh yes I have. Works on college aged girls I'm around. Massive douchebag asshole humor game is my brand. Saying rediculous shit for the reactions.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:49 PM
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Yeah who cares what you drive at that age. A VW is a VW, I used to drive two different ones. They are nice cars in the sense they are economy German cars with solid interiors and stuff but nothing compared to a base model BMW which most bros will buy in a few years. Get something cheap and reliable. Save that money for a condo down payment or investing. Where you live > what car you drive IMO. I want a decent pad before car and I want to have equity in it versus paying another dudes mortgage ren…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:35 PM
2

This can also work if you make it into something where she needs to validate herself. You can't argue with women but thus gave me an idea: you dump a girl and try to get her to take you back. She blames you blah blah blah and won't get. She says she just wants to be friends but can't open the door further. Tell her thanks but no thanks, I thought you were (insert something about how you're dissapointed perhaps) then just go silent. She may try to point out how you were wrong, and you may be wron…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:50 PM
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As someone else said, the feels. They do brag to their friends. I fucked a girl in a circle of girls I knee were all thirsty. The next morning she texted two of her friends where she woke up. Half of it was her status, that's why she did it. To one up her fuckin friends. They think it elevated them lol
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:38 PM
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Yeah I broke one of these girls. Heart breaker type of girl. I just never validated her, she's used to be validated, as soon as you validate her you lose. Basically I used nuclear dread and great sex. I told her she was one of many and I was never getting married because no woman is worth it. Queue narcasitic bitch trying to test me to see if it's true. All you do there is hold frame. It gets tiring, it was good training though. Do whatever you wanna do, but just know she will most likely try to…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:38 AM
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While she isn't entitled to anything, Jobs was kind of a shit human being.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 12:04 AM
2

+1 for skin routines. I would recommend some kind of day cream. Some sort of "Oil Balancing cream" I use it to keep the skin oil down, as well as use toner and a face wash and an exfoliate twice a week. I knew a gay dude who worked in cosmetics at nordstrom and he gave me the tips for what I should do to keep my facial skin healthy. No shame in having a face routine, it's just like any other. Also, if you're like me and suffer from some acne still at 23, you won't give a fuck what anyone says ab…
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:57 AM
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I'm taking programming classes and majored in business, holy shit the challenge is so refreshing. Yeah nursing is so popular because I feel it taps into the nurturing role women can easily fall into. Idk how many women are doctors but it could be the similar thing. It is a more social field too as you interact with people all the time. I've found I enjoy sitting at the computer and solving a series of seemingly difficult problems, running the program and getting all the results I want. When I fi…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:07 AM
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Also: It seems like women are treating society the same way they treat a man in a relationship. Just like they try to turn a man into something they don't actually like (over the course of the relationship), they are trying to do a big universal shit test to society in the form of all this dumb stuff and change it for the worse. How does this campaign boost productivity? I'm 23 and we have the laziest american generation to date, generally speaking. I swear if we didn't have nukes we would get w…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 12:02 AM
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Ah look here. Women trying to change things by doing nothing but "building awareness" or some other useless and effortless method. "Respect me! I took a selfie and told you that you were wrong, now I am right!" Lol the fact is most attractive women will never have to be engineers nor will want to. Most will find easier routes in life. Part of the reason there are more men in engineering is because it's academically tougher, considered more boring, not that social, etc. Men have no choice but to …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:59 PM
1

Meals do take longer but chicken, rice, and broccoli (and other greens) is way better than straight dairy. I used to BBQ like three pounds of chicken or carne asada at a time and then just divy it up into to-go containers for 3 days worth of meals. Shit took me like an hour on my sunday to have half my work/school week covered if I wanted fast healthy meals. Other people can do it better than I can, but meal prep wasn't too bad. GOMAD isn't bad persay, but I would NEVER do it again now that I ca…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:35 PM
1

If she's basically your sexslave/fucktoy Or if she doesn't seem into sex that much
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:09 AM
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Yeah and most girls will fuck like 10 dudes after they breakup with their sweet hearts, or had already done so. They forget about the past real quick
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:08 AM
1

Yeah it's hard to take away commitment when you already gave it. It's equal to a girl trying to cut sex when she already gives it freely, any strong willed person would be like "wtf" If you want to downgrade a gf you should just cut her out aka break up and see if she will get back with you and then you set the terms, like secret barber was saying. What i'm saying is that it is hard to take away what you have given.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:06 AM
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you're not even close, you're using faggoty smilies
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:03 AM
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Or if they do receive attention it's from literally fat bitches. Like self esteem ruining mistakes waiting to happen. The attention a lot of guys get are from girls that are the equivalent to neck-beard attention that girls get. Like girls that put 0 effort into not overeating or taking care of themselves besides makeup and putting on clothes.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:52 AM
1

I can confirm, I was this size at one point and I was called skinny by everyone. Even when I had been 30 pounds lighter, getting to 170 was not what I thought it would be. Now being like 6'2" and 200 I'm bigger than the average dude and trying to fix my fat/muscle ratio (working towards visible abs while keeping/gaining muscle)
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:46 AM
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The sad thing is she will probably get exactly what she wants in the end. I'm not as optimistic (as much as they will think I'm satan for wanting this) that they will get the shit end of the stick in life. I will bet that for most HB7+s that there is some relatively well off (financially) beta that will be her provider when "she is ready". Maybe I'm wrong. I hope I'm wrong. I'm just trying to dispel this "they will get there's in the end" kind of thinking in myself
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:44 AM
3

Drink at least a gallon of water a day. I can't believe how many people don't drink water and don't pee almost every hour of the day. My piss is pure clear goodness. I keep a giant ass water cup next to my computer desk and if I realize I haven't drank much of it in an hour, I slam the whole fucking thing. Also, if you want to add to gains. cut out drinking alcohol for a bit. I find that drinking fucks with me and my fitness goals.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:38 AM
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I would say don't do GOMAD. Fuck milk. Go buy a bunch of ground beef or chicken and eat that and some more rice. Or decent cheap cuts of steak if you can afford it. Freshman year I was eating almost a pound of London broil cut (from some natty food store so decent quality) every night with brown rice and olive oil. Shit was $4 a pound, now it's like 8 or 9 bucks a pound. GOMAD is cheap and effective, but it's sort of dirty in my experience. Just eat more regular meals, learn to force feed as you…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:35 AM
1

Lifting, keeping up with the market news/tech news, trying to get into guns/going shooting with the boys, watches. Might go take dance lessons soon, I suck at dancing
/r/askTRP04/08/15 01:04 AM
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You're missing the point of AWALT. It means they all have the capacity to act hypergamous, slutty, and any other way. You could give your commitment away, like a true slut gives her vagina away, but that would make you a male slut. Put it this way, if you use AWALT as a way to justify being in relationships with little discretion, you're like the male version of a slut. AWALT is supposed to keep us vigilant with the idea that our "special snowflake" isn't special, and to be on gaurd. Not all wom…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:08 PM
7

A. Dont get married. B. Don't fall in love C. Dont even ltr a girl with a shitload of redflags
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:52 PM
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What the shit are you saying? No that's wrong. If you think AWALT and actually absorbed the side bar, you wouldn't "fall in love". You can catch feels but falling in love is a fantasy that doesn't exist in reality. I may love a woman, but I understand (thanks to TRP) exactly why she would leave me or fuck me over. So I will never "all in love" because to do so would be to accept BP fantasy bullshit as reality.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:35 PM
1

Drink a gallon of water a day
/r/askTRP03/08/15 02:30 PM
7

No they don't have to be better. In my last few month fkibg, I was looking at chubby 6s and wanting to fuck then over my ultra sexual 7.5 (maybe 8) only because they were different.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:33 PM
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I do it when I want to. Usually they just tell me to fuck them part way in because I'm not the best at it, but I'm pretty good in bed so it serves as an easy way to get them warmed up and ready to fuck like a champ
/r/askTRP01/08/15 04:25 PM
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They feel no guilt leading on betas and such. They would leave you if you started sucking, like if you weren't so red anymore for whatever reason. If you groveled for them to take you back (like in a blue pill way, after a red pill relationship) they would try to friendzone you. Don't feel bad at all
/r/askTRP01/08/15 02:21 PM
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