So I've been in a LTR with this girl for about a year and half (pre TRP) and we met at a party. She tried to do away with the party lifestyle for commitment which i went along with. She's a hb7 we get along well and have the same interests. She's by no means the best I can do but she's generally good to me(buying me gifts/cooking for me/up for anything sexually)The party lifestyle has never fully left her and occasionally once a month she would go out stay out get wasted to around 6am and come off with excuses like 'my phone died' 'sorry for not contacting' etc. I think it's the company she keeps that makes her do this.

It hasn't happened again until recently she stayed out and 'lost her phone' at a party. Turns out the next day she calls me and says a guy she's friends with tried to get with her 4 times at this party and she rejected his approaches. I told her firmly she shouldn't have put herself in that position to begin with and I soft nexted her but now I feel guilty if nothing did actually happen?

Help me set my mentality right here. Any criticisms are welcomed