ItWasIraqLobster Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	". . . therefore, fail early and often"		ItWasIraqLobster	/r/seduction	19/09/14 03:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	No, intelligence is not a turn-off. Yes, how you act IS a turn-off. SMBC relevant comic	/r/seduction	11/11/14 05:44 AM
0	I'm getting married today! Thanks for sharing this. It's awesome to hear encouragement here! It's even better when it's not just insecure douches bragging about their accomplishments.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 03:30 AM
6	Do Women always seem to come out of break ups better than Men or is it just me? Then please explain. Tell us why you disagree!	/r/seduction	25/06/14 12:26 AM
2	A strong, supple, erect, healthy spine is the core of a good, natural, effortless Body Language The program isn't as important as consistency. Indeed! This is an insight that's wickedly underappreciated.	/r/seduction	10/06/14 03:11 AM
7	A strong, supple, erect, healthy spine is the core of a good, natural, effortless Body Language Any newbie lifter with no prior experience should not jump straight in to powerlifting. And what's the alternative? Bicep curls until you work up the courage to actually do excercises that are effective? Following the other bros in the gym in their lost, terrible programming? Not a good idea. They need a solid strength base first. Unless you have polio or something like that, powerlifting is the perfect way to build a good strength base. Dicking around first before deciding to get serious and pi…	/r/seduction	09/06/14 11:35 PM
8	A strong, supple, erect, healthy spine is the core of a good, natural, effortless Body Language "Hitting the gym" requires some knowledge to effectively actually accomplish anything. If y'all are actually serious about posture (as opposed to beach muscles) then you'll be learning deadlifts. Pull-ups and squats are also really good for posture too.	/r/seduction	09/06/14 08:04 PM
2	Prolonged Eye Contact and Attraction: What The Science Tells Us Anybody know where I can get some nightshade?	/r/seduction	07/06/14 12:48 PM
1	I've known my problem and solution for months, but unable to fix it? Anyone else in the same situation? If you're shy, you need to work on how to become less shy. Simple, right? You can find the steps to doing that. As for the frame issue, do you act the same way around friends or family members? How about casual acquaintances? Practicing any technique is usually easier to start on those groups in that order.	/r/seduction	29/05/14 10:27 PM
82	Do you think the most intelligent women require more than just game? Answering your question depends on what you mean by "game". Theoretically, less intelligent women would be easier to seduce, bamboozle, and fuck, right? Doesn't quite turn out that simple. What actually happens is that smart women and dumb women both want romance, and they both want sex. No matter what your IQ is (males and females alike), you have sexual needs, and you're gonna figure some way to satisfy them. The difference is that smarter women require a different approach to seduce. If you'r…	/r/seduction	24/05/14 01:59 PM
1	PUA blogs and Youtube videos are creating an army of angry douchebags that have invaded seddit So bear in mind I haven't seen a ton of posts from you. The ones I have . . . they have strongly worded statements. You're not one to mince words. But when that trait is combined with posts like this basically saying nothing but "you're wrong", that sends the message that you've made up your mind and are not interested in hearing the other side. The combination of appearing to always have an "I'm right, deal with it" attitude, not seeming to have any nuanced ways to tell people they're incorrect…	/r/seduction	01/05/14 04:16 PM
28	PUA blogs and Youtube videos are creating an army of angry douchebags that have invaded seddit Three thoughts come to mind: 1.) PUA/seduction material is inherently ripe for creating awful and embarrassing material that reflects poorly on the rest of the people in the community. That's what happens when you're taking people who are deficient socially/romantically, asking them to expand their boundaries and get out of their comfort zone, and do all of that with an air of self-confidence. When this material (hell, all of self-improvement?) is about people who kinda suck trying not to suck, …	/r/seduction	30/04/14 05:08 PM
3	Tips/tricks/routines v. genuine confidence (and my story) Exactly. His "I don't care what people think" attitude certainly shines through in his posts here LOL	/r/seduction	24/04/14 12:39 AM
4	A note on confidence Like bears to honey* Hey, one slip up can't diminish a great post like that. Thanks for the insights, pal.	/r/seduction	21/04/14 01:08 PM
3	After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found. Talking on the phone is a social skill, and one that can and should be honed for personal development.	/r/seduction	21/04/14 12:02 AM
-16	A tip for pet owners... As far as breeds go, what do you guys think works best? Ugly or beautiful, and what size?	/r/seduction	15/04/14 04:44 PM
2	My Beginner Blueprint ( Classic information in the way I wish it had been presented to me ) Thanks, OP, for putting a very humanizing and accessible angle on this info.	/r/seduction	29/03/14 01:37 PM
4	Where good places to meet people in generally, not just girls, on saturday, by yourself, that don't include clubs, bars, or parties? You're responding to good ideas with ennui. You're not going to find anything you'll like if you're not open to liking something!	/r/seduction	08/03/14 07:58 PM
1	The stats on pickup forums Please elaborate.	/r/seduction	26/02/14 01:34 AM
7	How to have endless, interesting conversation Mark Manson does not approve.	/r/seduction	13/02/14 11:13 AM
5	Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it. I suspect it's just lack of awareness, something which we can fix.	/r/seduction	07/02/14 03:25 AM
2	How I ask girls out We all have different standards for levels of craziness we can tolerate. :)	/r/seduction	21/01/14 02:38 PM
3	[FR] First attempts at day game. F-Close with LMR. James Marshall is not a name I see repeated over and over here. Hhhmmmmm might have to check him out.	/r/seduction	17/01/14 01:34 PM
1	List of ways to build attraction I feel like this is a list of ways to be more attractive, not necessarily a list of ways to build attraction. Maybe the difference is moot, though.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 01:57 PM
1	So, you're gonna get asked "Where are you from?" in EVERY conversation - answer like this and you will get girls super interested and prevent conversations from stalling Well, like Dale Carnegie would tell you, getting the other person to do the talking, and letting the other person talk about themself are both things that may make the person like you better. It's not all bad.	/r/seduction	11/01/14 01:48 AM
-1	Adapting for the Gay Game There's a link to resources that are exactly what you're looking for in the sidebar of Seddit. Did you not see that?	/r/seduction	06/01/14 01:29 PM
1	Want to social proof in a loud music/clubbish setting. What are you saying to girls? See, that's the kind of post people can learn from! It seems you just needed to elaborate on your ideas to be understood. I've found being high energy and random has got me success bwahaha! You do realize that the way you stated that sentence evoked images of annoying, tween girls "being random", right? That's likely why people, including me, didn't find much value in that prior comment with more explanation.	/r/seduction	29/12/13 07:53 PM
2	Want to social proof in a loud music/clubbish setting. What are you saying to girls? holds up spork Am I doing this right?	/r/seduction	29/12/13 03:15 PM
21	Top 10 Mistakes to Avoid in Your 20s [64 mins] I'll probably get hemorrhoids from watching a 64min video on the toilet.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 10:51 PM
1	xposting from red pill to get the seduction community's perspective. Seddit's position: Was there something that involved improving one's game? No? Then GTFO.	/r/seduction	25/12/13 06:08 AM
1	Just for fun, what would you do next? Probably the part where you're full of yourself, ask unspecific questions, and then downvote answers you don't like are not encouraging more helpful responses lol.	/r/seduction	09/12/13 04:38 PM
7	K-closed saturday thanks to Seddit! "You're welcome" --Seddit	/r/seduction	09/12/13 12:55 PM
2	When is it time to switch venues? Also- do any of you ever get anxiety when it's getting closer to the end of the night and you haven't had much luck? I often find myself checking my phone, realizing that "I've only got X amount of time to meet someone" and become even less likely to want to open a set. Anything to get over this? Stop looking at the time in general? Dude, that's hugely common, even among non-PUAs. As for the sarging, of course you'd want to change venues! Geez, what are your alternatives?	/r/seduction	09/12/13 12:05 PM
0	Just for fun, what would you do next? "Do you want to go out with me sometime?" I wouldn't do that, for starters. Geez, especially if you're making her uncomfortable there, you're playing it wrong. She ain't gonna want to go anywhere with you if the feelings you create in her are discomfort!	/r/seduction	09/12/13 11:50 AM
0	19 years old, male, still a virgin and sexually frustrated. I need some advice? /r/askseddit Use that next time.	/r/seduction	09/12/13 11:48 AM
1	Reaction to compliments. "Well thanks. [grin] Next thing I know you'll be telling me I'm Mr. GQ here!"	/r/seduction	09/12/13 11:47 AM
2	Above the Game, almost stopped by Kickstarter, why so much hate against this project?? SRS brigaded this thread. Mods eventually deleted all of their crap posts and the troll bait.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 10:34 PM
1	What do you guys think about this woman's comments about pickup, as well as the heavily downvoted response? So she's getting hit on by some AFC who can't read IOIs and cannot make her any more interested than she was initially? I'd have the same reaction.	/r/seduction	04/11/13 09:33 PM
2	I've got this very handy tips from here, thank you. Is there anything to add/alter? The idea is that we want to make the woman attracted to us, so she see us as a potential boyfriend/sexual partner/etc. Getting a message of "you're just a friend" is therefore a failure, and one that we want to correct.	/r/seduction	02/11/13 06:57 PM
1	I've got this very handy tips from here, thank you. Is there anything to add/alter? Of course. However, is that necessarily the situation described in that line? I feel like the context of how the girl decides you're just a friend matters for choosing a strategy to reverse that perception.	/r/seduction	02/11/13 06:12 PM
11	I've got this very handy tips from here, thank you. Is there anything to add/alter? If they friendzone you, stop talking to them at once This is one where I'm not sure I agree. Can somebody with more experience chime in here?	/r/seduction	02/11/13 06:01 PM
0	Just started amogging hot girls whenever I see them in public. Number closed the first one. I feel like you just fed a troll.	/r/seduction	02/11/13 01:16 AM
2	The forces of the universe do not allow for coincidences Come on, dude. Enough with the pseudo-mystical bullshit titles. Try a more descriptive title that more directly relates to the content of the post.	/r/seduction	21/10/13 12:20 AM
2	Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex? I'm hardly an expert on this matter, but my understanding of the situation is that the country's policies are, on aggregate, not pronatalist. There may be some political will lately to change things and recent pro natalist laws, but the larger set of laws and incentives does not support the making and raising of babies.	/r/seduction	21/10/13 12:13 AM
1	do alphas play the lottery? Literally play the lottery? I'm sure there are some that do, but I bet most are smart enough or affluent enough that they don't. Figuratively play the lottery? In what sense?	/r/seduction	13/10/13 06:21 PM
3	LPT: wear bright colors to parties bros Please explain this one . . . bros.	/r/seduction	07/10/13 04:25 AM
3	How to balance sarging with ambitious lifestyle? I feel like improving one's game, at least for me, meant that I didn't have to go sarging as much any more. When you can hit if off with the girl at Starbucks, in your class, or behind you in line at the bank, I don't have to necessarily set aside time to go out specifically to meet women.	/r/seduction	06/10/13 05:29 PM
1	Just cold closed someones number last night. What next? Tell her "we didn't get a good chance to get to know each other. Shall we go ice skating Thursday night and fix that?"	/r/seduction	06/10/13 05:12 PM
1	Get Laid By Simply Taking Action! You spent many words to say "stop making excuses and approach."	/r/seduction	06/10/13 12:53 PM
0	Facebook statuses can be very powerful if used correctly - truly underrated tool in the game So you have multiple women on Facebook who are already attracted to you, therefore making this process work? That's a heck of a prerequisite, at least for the guys like me who aren't doing mad Facebook game like you.	/r/seduction	06/10/13 12:51 PM
2	[FR] F-closed a girl in a cornfield, my first one night stand So why did the HB7 take offense with you? Was there any mistakes you made with her or was she just ornery?	/r/seduction	03/10/13 12:32 AM
6	The best way to become unforgettable to her is to give her great sex If this were a Turing Test, I'd consider this "bot" to have successfully passed as a human!	/r/seduction	16/09/13 03:13 AM
2	The best way to become unforgettable to her is to give her great sex OP, thank you. Are there any other guides or advice on further reading you'd recommend?	/r/seduction	16/09/13 02:26 AM
2	The best way to become unforgettable to her is to give her great sex This trivia bot saying its not meant to be an annoyance is like Elton John saying he's not trying to be gay: no matter what you say, some things you just can't hide!	/r/seduction	16/09/13 02:24 AM
17	We are not spiders so there's no need to fear rejection If that happens, please come back here and write a FR on it.	/r/seduction	11/09/13 04:17 PM