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Lots of keyboard alphas in here. Takes balls and character to be one in real life. Don't take these faggots to heart, OP. Being a strong, dominant man doesn't require shitting on every female you come across. Doesn't mean using them for whatever end, doesn't mean being super AMOG in every situation. A real man knows his frame, keeps his frame, and accepts that females are what they are. You didn't initially, and you're pointing that out as an example to the new guys. Keep doing you, you're on th…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 02:43 AM
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Is this the kind of garbage TRP has become? The guy makes a good point about establishing frame from the get-go and maintaining it instead of sneaking around like a pussy and you shit down his throat? Not everyone who reads TRP is some super-test, jacked up alpha bro. Some of these guys are just starting out and it's a good point that they need to consider.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 11:33 PM
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Where do you work? Depending on the kind of business, this could be easy or impossible.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:08 PM
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Real talk. Read my post history, you'll see I was in a similar position. Found out she was sexting, stayed with her, later found out she'd fucked eight other guys about 30-40 times total (used a condom every time with exactly ONE of them, a guy she fucked twice). The guy she used a condom with every time was the sexting guy I knew about. Read the goddamn sidebar, and act accordingly. Or be me, but I wouldn't wish that experience on anyone.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 12:19 AM
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What kind of work is it? Retail, office job? Whether you can ignore her depends on the job. Is she a supervisor, or are you on the same level? Need more info if you want help.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 03:26 PM
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What kind of work is it? Are you this chick's boss? Need more info on the situation if you want concrete help.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 03:47 PM
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I'm with this guy. There's a lot of "Look at how alpha I am, wait until they're crawling across the floor naked to even look at them" type posturing on TRP. Just shoot a text if you think she's waiting on you. Men are supposed to lead and initiate, so you're probably right. Just be outcome independent and expect her to not respond. Then the worst case scenario is that you're right and already prepared for it, best case scenario is that you're pleasantly surprised. Either way is a win if you're n…
/r/askTRP15/04/17 12:32 AM
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Here's where this falls apart: You go after other girls not with the intent of actually pursuing them, but just to make this girl jealous. You're thinking to yourself "Man, I'm totally showing high value and she's probably going to jump my bones at the end of this!" Since you're fixated on her and what you expect of her, you never pull the trigger with Vegas girl(s). In the meantime, she's on "SPRING BRRREEEAAAKK!!!!!" and immediately shifts gear to Chad the second you aren't giving her attentio…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 11:42 PM
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This. Can't really call him a friend if you're fucking his girl. You killed that when you started thinking with the head between your legs. Not passing judgement, but let's at least call it what it is.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 09:57 PM
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Females, even "omg BFF 4 lyfe" females, are constantly competing with one another. Those who are more overt about it are usually identified as "catty." Most are very subtle about it and don't talk about it directly, but it's something that not only applies to all women, it's something all women know and are consciously aware of. Seriously. Ask any if them, and they'll tell you themselves. It's only a secret to men. Bearing that in mind, consider this: 1. She hooks up the pre-TRP, low SMV you wit…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:19 PM
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I'm with this guy. Not blowing you off, but if it's a serious question and you haven't read the sidebar, it has all the information you need. If you have read it, and you're asking for clarification or understanding of something specific, we'll need a little more to go on than generalities.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 09:56 PM
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I use the paid version, the only real reason I did it is to expedite the plate math. Other than that, no real benefit.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 04:54 PM
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I allowed a cheater back into my apartment on the condition that she cooks, cleans, and understands that I'll be pursuing other women just as she pursued other men. I also made clear it was a one-way deal. She understood and was fine for about a week and a half before she started throwing fits. It's not sustainable if they live with you.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:01 PM
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Yeah, just chiming in to say fuck this guy. Not fanfic you little shit. This guy's story is how most people end up swallowing the pill. Take your troll shit somewhere else. OP: My advice is the same as you see above. Nothing new to add, just cosigning.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 06:54 PM
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Your unicorn left you. It's my understanding that unicorns, by definition, don't do that.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 04:40 PM
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You're not controlling her, she's welcome to do what she likes. Setting boundaries controls what you're willing to do, not what she does.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:03 PM
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He's not at all. That's how crazy does. The only thing that stopped one of my BPD ex's from shooting me with my own pistol was that it took her too long to figure out the safety and I was able to take her to the ground in time.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:22 PM
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The obvious answer is to next. You'll hear that a lot, and it is quite frankly your best bet for long-term mental health. I understand that you're married, and it's not like simply breaking up with a girlfriend. There's a lot more involved with ending a relationship like yours, with so much already invested. You may want to do some reading on the sunk cost fallacy. However, since you and I both know that you will not end your marriage over this, we have to look for ways to appease this urge of h…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 01:10 AM
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Are they slutty? Some are, some aren't. Depends on the kind of crazy you're dealing with. Are they better lovers? The slutty ones are. Crazy + Slutty usually means they fuck like pornstars, but the aftermath is never worth it. Crazy/slutty is still crazy.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 05:57 PM
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That's the problem. I have forced myself to go meet other chicks. They are invariably dull, vapid, and uninteresting. I would love to return to the state where I am able to fuck normal girls and not care at all. Unfortunately, right now I am too hung up on the feels she imbued in me, and therefore unable to connect with them to the point where I can give a damn about fucking them. Any advice you can give is appreciated.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 01:02 AM
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You seem to understand better than most. I would greatly, greatly appreciate an exposition on how to make this happen, as I'm completely lost at the moment. Answer here or PM, I don't care as long as you can help me break the addiction she's formed. I desperately need to move on from her so that I can move on with my life. That's what you have in your hands, sir.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:56 AM
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The problem right now is not an inability to meet better girls than my psycho ex. The problem is that I'm not interested in doing so. I want to want it, but right now I don't. Any advice on overcoming that?
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:44 PM
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She was just as kinky is the problem. She wanted me to tie her up, fuck her ass, have me tell her to piss on her own face, all that shit.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:42 PM
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Codependency fits. Any advice you can give on breaking that would be appreciated. Therapy not necessary. I know enough Freud to know why. My mother is bipolar, and my father is an abusive asshole. Those are the male and female archetypes stuck in my subconscious. So I'm attracted to dysfunctional, unstable women because that's the mother I grew up with.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:42 PM
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Long shaggy hair only looks good on guys like Fabio. If you don't look like Fabio, cut it way shorter. Not only does this make you look cleaner and more attractive, but balding looks a lot less shitty with a short cut. Eventually, if it continues, you may want to consider embracing it and shaving your head. You'll need to put in some serious gym time between now and then if you're going to pull off the shaved head look though. It only really looks good on guys that are at least moderately stacke…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:40 PM
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I get numbers on tinder/bumble/okc like crazy. Meet ups are a different story (getting better at that) but I have yet to have a girl tell me no when I ask for her number. Just be confident, and be dominant. Within the first few messages there should be a reason for you to meet up. Ask for the number then and don't back down when they give pushback. Example 1 Me: I'll make a bet with you. If I guess where your other tattoos are, you pay for the first date. If I'm wrong, I pay. Deal? Blah blah bul…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 01:31 AM
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If you asked for the pics, then you could be fucked. If an underage girl is sending you unsolicited nudes, then you didn't do anything wrong unless they can prove you saved them (possession of child pornography). Any teenage slut can send a picture of her tits to anyone. The recipient can't be charged unless he kept them or asked for them.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:02 PM
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You'll never have to work a day in your life again? That's awesome, because that means you can do whatever the hell you want. You should still work, because the alternative is sitting around burning through what you've gotten and getting bored. If you're working a job you enjoy, keep doing it. If you think there's something else you'd rather do, you now have the freedom to go do that, regardless of what it pays. I also agree with the above poster. Invest the majority in a low-risk portfolio (you…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:59 PM
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This guy: do you have something to ask me? Girl: yeah, can you get me some water? This guy: not how I pictured this going Uh, sure.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 02:15 AM
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Depends on what you mean. What kind of emotional support is she asking you to provide?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:06 PM
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Damn. I'm on here every day, and this is the most straight-on, hard-hitting, kick in the balls post I've seen in months. It's exactly what I needed to hear. I've been trying to figure out how my oneitis ex could slut it up and tell me she doesn't want anything to do with me, then come back, fuck me, and tell me how much she loves me. Only to replay the cycle over and over. This is exactly what I needed. I'm angry because I expect a result that I'm not owed. I can't control her or her actions, an…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 06:59 PM
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Even with a sexually versatile past it will still bother you. Avoiding promiscuous women is hardwired into the Y chromosome. From an evolutionary standpoint, it protects us from investing resources in a child that isn't ours. It's been a problem forever, that's why the head of your dick is built the way it is. Squeegee out competitor semen. For a time, we had social constructs that violently punished slutty women. Unfortunately, promiscuity is now the new average, so it's something we'll just ha…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:59 AM
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A 24 y/o female with only five partners is rare to the point of unbelievable. Go ahead and put that at 15, and we're still being conservative. Given that she's a party girl, go ahead and knock that up to high twenties for her age and we'd be getting closer to reality. What sucks the most about this is that because the girls you're looking for are so rare, it's something that you will always have to deal with. You will have this problem with every girl you get involved with, and if you don't find…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 12:26 AM
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Just in here to second this. Women don't attach the same importance to sex that we do. It could be embarrassing because she FEELS (emphasis intended) that she couldn't get you off, but that was only a small part of what she thinks of that evening. If she had fun before that, you're good.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 03:40 AM
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Anger phase is useful, and it can last for a number of years, but it will pass. The anger never really goes away, but you learn to appreciate it and use it. Channel how you feel. If you're angry at women, then use them for what you want, and enjoy the schadenfreude that comes from never talking to them again. The anger is useful, but only if you use it.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:45 PM
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Alright, all bullshit aside, she got a notification. I've been blocked on snapchat, and when they add me back I get a notification that whoever it is added me.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:12 AM
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Step 1: I want to be screwing multiple girls every week or I want to be in a committed, happy relationship. Step 2: I need to find said girls/girl. Step 3: I need to make X approaches a week. After that, I need to make X number closes a week. After that, X f-closes a week. After that, reorient plan via step 1.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:56 AM
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Do you have long term goals? As in "where do you want to be in ten years?" type goals? If not, figure that out. That's step 1. Step 2 is figuring out what you need to do to get from where you are now to where you want to be in ten years. Maybe it's going back to school, maybe it's lifting, it really depends on your goals. Once you've figured out what needs doing to get there, you've completed step 2. This is where a lot of guys stop, and it's why they get so depressed/frustrated. If you're reach…
/r/askTRP20/09/16 12:21 AM
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I was in exactly your shoes last November. Live-in girlfriend, we'd been together a year and a half, she just started a new job two months ago. She falls asleep one night, I go to plug in her phone for her, see that the last text she sent was to a coworker, and read (and I quote) "I want to taste your cock". Read through them, it was a ton of really graphic fantasies back-and-forth about what they want to do to each other going back almost a month. How she wanted him to bend her over the table a…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:48 AM
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OP, you're getting a lot of good advice here, but after reading your responses I think I've identified the problem: your life sucks and feels like it's going nowhere because you're enjoying feeling sorry for yourself more than you actually want to improve. Seriously. Go through your responses and count up how many times you said "I don't have time for that" or said "I can't try to get out of the job I hate because I'm worried about money." You seem to say that you don't have time to take any act…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 02:13 AM
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Not sure I'm following you mate. He was concerned that it might not be her room. If the blankets in her room the question is answered. If he waits till after she does laundry it may be a different blanket on her bed.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:42 AM
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No problem man. I stay investigating. Call it paranoia/projection/whatever. You just can't come out and ask about it because she'll lie and you'll have broken frame. So your only options to check it out are these kinds of things. Try to find a reason to be in her room before she does laundry too. That way you can scope out the blanket.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:15 PM
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Easy. Ask about the tv. "Hey, did you end up taking that tv out of your room?" Or words to that effect. If she says no, it's working now, then you know it's all good and no suspicions aroused. Similarly, she could say she replaced it. If she says she got rid of it or it's still broken, then continue your investigation. I learned a long time to trust my gut on this kind of thing. You've got an instinctual feel that somethings up or this post wouldn't exist. Don't ignore that. Trust, but verify.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:26 PM
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Chiming in with experience, both my parents are lawyers, one of whom is a criminal defense attorney. One of their favorite stories to tell is of a client in a similar situation. Cops show up, knock on the door. Conversation is as follows: Client: "who is it?" Cops: "Police department" Client: "what do you want?" Cops: "we just want to talk to you for a minute." Client: "how many of you are there?" Cops: "there's two of us here" Client: "then talk to each other" Guy never opened the door, didn't …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:51 AM
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You don't know these two girls, so what do you lose by sending a quick text? Don't overdo it, but a short "hey, remind me where this is happening" type thing doesn't put you in a worse situation than you're already in. Not like they'll stop talking to you, they already aren't.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:09 PM
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It can be, but it depends on how you use it. If she's super left or super right, you can use that to your advantage by BRIEFLY taking the opposite view before steering the conversation away. Women are all about the feels. If you can elicit a wide range of emotions in them, they'll be thinking about you later and you're in. Politics is a good way to get the defensive, argumentative excitement into her for a minute or two so that she's getting the full spectrum from you. When she argues something …
/r/askTRP24/08/16 06:06 PM
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Upvoted just in case you're serious about unsubscribing. You should read a little more and educate yourself outside of TRP/pickup. Credible source to back what this guy's saying: http://chnm.gmu.edu/exploring/19thcentury/womenandequality/ Men worked the farm, produced raw materials (crops/meat/etc). Women handled the house/kids, and processed the raw materials the man produced (salting/preserving meats, canning, etc). Men produce food during the warmer months, women handle the house, and preserv…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 05:55 PM
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You're applying logic to an illogical creature. When dealing with men, you're absolutely right. When dealing with women/children/animals, this doesn't work so well. Smack a dog when it misbehaves, you don't end up with a disciplined dog, you end up with a mean dog. Reward the dog for pooping outside and clean it up when it happens inside, and you've got a dog that holds it to go outside because it's been conditioned that pooping outside = positive feedback. How many kids have you seen that act o…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 01:56 PM
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The solution to your problem is far simpler than you think. Two parts, in order of importance: 1) When you speak, be confident and slightly louder than you feel you have to be. Don't shout, but speak loudly. Avoid ums, errs, etc. Since someone mentioned Barack Obama, he's actually a great example of changing this. Compare his speeches on his first presidential campaign (where every sentence is punctuated with "Uhhhh...") to anything he's said recently. It was a problem, he fixed it. You can too.…
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:04 PM
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The way you're describing the conversation with your boss doesn't seem like he's being mean to me. Just sounds like he expects more of you than you're providing, based on the recommendation he received. You're not living up to his expectations. That's a good thing. It means you've got something to work on. The boy gets upset when someone is critical of their performance. The man analyzes the criticism and uses it to focus his efforts to improve. Be the man.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:55 PM
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You handle it like the shit test it is. Have a good time, make a few jokes about it, don't let it break your frame. A man is a rock. Don't react emotionally. You are unfazed and unperturbed, and when she brings it up (she will, since she won't be getting the attention she expected), you react with a bemused smile and continue doing you. Reward good behavior, ignore bad behavior. Remember that women are children, and she'll choose negative attention over no attention every time. Hopefully you've …
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:50 PM
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If you're a slut, and you don't want someone to treat you like a slut, you try not to make it obvious. If it comes out anyway and they treat you like a princess, you've just gotten the green light to act however you want. My guess is that she assumed you had firm boundaries about that stuff. When she found out you didn't, it became open season for her.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:05 PM
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True, to a point. Suits at the beach we agree on. Underdressing we agree on. However, being the guy that shows up to the bar in a suit usually gives the impression that you just came from something requiring a suit. That's not usually a bad thing. It can be, depending on the bar, but it's usually a quick SMV boost.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 07:01 PM
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She got on BC almost immediately after you broke up She's super distant up till July She's super into you in July out of nowhere She's got a whole new bag of sexual tricks that you didn't teach her Do we really need to spell out why she was distant in June or what she was doing? You've got all the signs that she was ridden hard and put away dirty by what seems like multiple dudes. She made it (in her mind) pretty obvious to you. You took her back anyway. What message does that send?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 06:05 PM
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If she wasn't interested in fucking you again, she would have just said she had to work and left it there. Instead, she let you know that she had a good reason for not being there, and let you know that she's open to it when she's not working. If it's been a few days, text her the when/where of whatever awesome shit you're going to do, tell her to come with you. If she says no and DOESN'T offer a "let's try for when I'm available", soft next from there. She's not going to ask you out, stop waiti…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 01:17 AM
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So you get high with this guy, and your plan is to snitch on him for narcotics? Not a well thought out plan. Dealers generally know a lot of users, and they cut deals by snitching. More importantly, why are you putting yourself in situations with this guy if you feel the way you do about him?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:22 PM
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It was my understanding that I'm too old at this point for OCS or to enlist, but it's definitely worth looking into. That would even open up the option of getting into the MD program at USU (the DOD's university). Hadn't even crossed my radar, but it's a great idea, thank you. I can code in Python and I'm in the process of teaching myself SQL. While I'm good at coding, it's not something I'm passionate about, so it would be a job, not a career. Data analytics/statistics type jobs would appeal to…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 06:20 PM
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That's the bitch of it man. There isn't anything that's going to work for you but time. I know the desperate feelings you've got now make waiting seem like drowning, and it hits all those panic buttons, but that's really all there is. Something I did that might help: make a list of all the things you dislike about her, all the shitty things she's done, all her negative attributes. Go through your text threads with her (guessing you still have those) for material to work with. Put the list up som…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:22 PM
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If she cheated with him, she likely cheated with other guys too. Are you going to spend your time tracking them down and hurting them in some way too, or are you going to spend your time improving yourself and making positive changes in your life? This guy did you a favor by exposing her character. If it wasn't him, it would have been someone else, possibly even after you were tied to her legally/financially. It takes two people to fuck. Can't blame the guy for being a guy, but you can blame the…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 04:02 PM
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To your first question: no. You're thirty. Don't dress like a teenager. Dress your age. To your second: fit, fit, fit. A $150 suit that you've tailored to fit you perfectly will always look better than a $10,000 suit that you put on right off the rack. For daily wear: think business casual. You're past your twenties, own that shit. Make sure the color AND tone match between belt and shoes. Guys don't give a damn about shoes. Girls obsess. Invest in several nice pairs (grownup shoes, not vans or …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 01:45 AM
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Looks like we've got pretty similar taste in music. Spent 20 minutes writing this list out and made a Spotify playlist. Good looking out man.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 08:04 PM
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It doesn't really matter what order you read them in as the end result will be the same: you'll have read them all. If you insist on an answer then sidebar, 1st ed, 2nd ed. Sidebar's most important, and the other two are chronologically in order.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:47 PM
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Everyone thinks they're a special snowflake at 16, that they're completely unique and alone and no one understands them. It's so incredibly common that we've developed a term to describe just that: angst. Feeling happy one moment and sad the next? So do pregnant women, and women going through menopause. Know what you have in common with those two groups? Wildly fluctuating hormones. Be grateful that as a guy, you only have to get through this once. What you're describing is totally normal, I use…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:44 PM
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Some quick thoughts here that I bet haven't occurred to you (this is assuming you actually have dwarfism and aren't just using midget as hyperbole when you really mean super short): Most guys have "midget" on their sexual bucket list. Girls want to fuck just as much as guys do, they're just as horny and sexually driven, so there's a good chance that most chicks you meet will have that thought cross their mind. The only thing stopping them is social impact/possibly catching shit from their girlfr…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 06:33 PM
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I'm 27, you're absolutely correct. Lesson learned the hard way.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:27 PM
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Lots of guys will tell you to GFTOW, or go lift, or go monk mode, and when you realize your value you'll be perfectly fine. That's true for most guys, it's not true for you. I feel for you man. I've been there. As much as it hurts, and as unhelpful as it sounds, time is the only answer here. You've got a shitty few months ahead of you, and there's nothing I can say or any of us can say that will make that pain go away. My fiancé cheated on me and left me for another guy when I was 20, it took a …
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:26 PM
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For a girl to orgasm from just penetration, she has to be super relaxed and comfortable with you. It's 90% mental for her. Positions where you're facing each other help with the physical aspect of this, as you cock points up when erect, and will stimulate the G spot if you make a point of doing so. But if she's not super relaxed with you, it won't happen. For a girl to orgasm from clitoral stimulation, it's still mental, but only 20-30% (my estimate). Start gentle so she doesn't get overstimulat…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:09 PM
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have you ever met a girl that listens to metal and likes video games and doesn't have hundreds of dude "friends" (i.e. thirsty orbiters)?). Such a woman's partner count would be through the roof. Yes. My most recent ex. Her partner count (after cheating and jumping back on the CC when I broke up with her) was 18 at my last count, likely higher now. She's 20.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:01 PM
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I did for a while. Had Oneitis pretty bad. Then I realized "wait, she's not only a cheater, but she's actively fucking other guys right now." Tried to picture what it would look like if I did take her back (I'd never be able to see anything else when I looked at her) and that was enough to kill that idea. She's in the middle of trying to stay friends, but I don't think I'll keep that going much longer either. Too much baggage there, and you need to be able to trust a friend. Also, "want her back…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:15 AM
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No worries if you were, just be careful to wrap it up, she's fucking a couple people that I know of. Doing the whole "take a lot of dicks to get over him" thing right now. But seriously, you described her to a T lol. Acts just like that, right down to living with her parents (moved back in with them after I broke up with her) and her dad always texting her to come home. Weird how similar a lot of these chicks are. We say AWALT for a reason I guess.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 03:58 AM
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Never mind, just saw your other thread. I'm not in the army, must not be the same girl.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:12 PM
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Are you in VA? I just ended a 2 yr relationship with a BPD girl about three weeks ago and she's back on the CC. Sounds like you're describing my ex lol
/r/askTRP15/08/16 04:00 PM
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It's easy. Just stay where you are and keep doing what you're doing. If you're at a bar and they get physical in the bar, they get bounced out. If you "step outside" with them, it's a lose-lose for you even if you win the fight (police are usually called). Just stay put and keep enjoying your evening.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 08:08 PM
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You can certainly pay a successful PUA to coach you. Just google it. There's tons of that kind of thing out there. Know what you're paying for? Some guy verbally telling you everything you'll find here for free, and doing it on your own while the same guy watches you and tells you not to worry about it when you get rejected. Save your money. Do your own reading, and do your own approaching without some dude watching and being there for moral support.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 12:48 AM
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Something I realized that may help: You're already in the worst-case scenario by not talking to her. You don't know her, she doesn't know you, so if you talk to her and she rejects you, you'll both go your separate ways and never see each other again. The big realization is that this is the exact situation you're creating by not talking to her at all. If you sit there and don't talk to her, guess what happens? You both go your separate ways and likely don't see each other again. Same result. So …
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:58 PM
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Really really good looking helps. Having a ton of money helps. However, unless you're ripping your shirt off and showing her an ATM receipt as soon as you say hi, she's not going to really know any of that on a cold approach. Obviously facial aesthetics are the exception here. Whoever told you cold approaches are BS is full of shit.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:11 PM
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Thanks for the clarification, gentlemen. You've made it much more understandable. Monk Mode - exiting the game to focus on improving the odds when you re-enter MGTOW - giving up on the game entirely
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:07 PM
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Not saying it's impossible, just that transmission through oral is very unlikely. http://www.ashasexualhealth.org/stdsstis/chlamydia/
/r/askTRP10/08/16 07:23 PM
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There isn't a point. If you can't deal with that, then do what you have to. If you've actually read the entire sidebar (which you clearly haven't), you'd have the answers you were looking for. Quit trying to take the easy way out.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:32 AM
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Medical professional here (EMT): If you've only fucked her, and no one else, how the fuck would you have gotten the clap (to then pass on to her). Are you fucking retarded? Chlamydia doesn't transmit through oral, unless she was riddled with it and you're the unluckiest motherfucker on earth. She's fucked some nasty dudes without a condom, caught the clap, and is now probably accusing everyone she's fucked in the last two months. Not on you. Make sure you wrap it up if you touch her again.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:30 AM
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Sounds like you're another one that still hasn't fully swallowed the pill. Something to think about: If what you were doing has worked for you, you wouldn't be here. Let go of the blue, swallow the red, read the sidebar, and the rest will come naturally.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:22 AM
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If he's not carrying a weapon, then the worst case scenario is you fight like a man and get your ass kicked. If you've never gotten your ass handed to you by another man, I highly recommend you do so, as it builds a great deal of character and teaches you to not be afraid of a punch. Yeah, it hurts. Hurts your pride/ego on top of the physical pain. But you're through it a few days later and you realize it's not a big deal. This makes you a better man when you find yourself in that situation agai…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:12 AM
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Similar situation. I was in a LTR and was applying to med school. She was all about how she was perfectly fine living in a shitty apartment with me while we tried to make ends meet because she "loved me and wanted a life with me no matter what it was like." Fast forward to a month after I find out I didn't get in anywhere, and all of a sudden she's tearfully confessing to cheating six months ago and telling me how we shouldn't be together because she doesn't know if she loves me anymore. Long st…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 05:14 PM
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Don't enable bad behavior, but also don't be a dick. I'd stop giving her info she can find herself, for example, but if she's part of the group, don't leave her either. Women gossip at work, and you'd much rather any female superiors think of you as the super nice guy who stood up for the fatty rather than part of the "group of assholes that left her behind."
/r/askTRP08/08/16 02:50 PM
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This seems pretty interesting. Once you get enough info together, I'd be interested in reading your writeup on the main sub.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 05:59 PM
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I don't think he's suggesting that the guy do anything differently. Sounds like he's just suggesting that you set expectations before you work out with someone, and if they can't keep up you tell them why you're running ahead before you do so. Either establish before the workout that you're going to help the other person (slow down if they can't keep up) or make it clear that they're only joining you for your workout (run ahead). If it's option two, he's just saying mention why you're running ah…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 04:46 PM
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Upvoted. He's pointing out what and how he did wrong. Don't be dicks about that. It's a learning experience for him, and he's posting it so others can learn too. There's always people in the beginning stages, and they benefit a lot from comparing their experiences to things like this.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 02:11 AM
1

I won't assume she's telling the entire truth. Neither should you. Remember brother, there are no unicorns, and AWALT is repeated on here so often for a reason. I've been in a similar situation myself, and I completely understand if you're too invested right now to believe what I'm saying. You're human, believe it or not, and your psyche will readily accept any lie it's told, as long as it matches what you want to believe, and it will reject any truth that is contrary to that desire. That's why …
/r/askTRP06/08/16 02:40 AM
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I've been you (competitive Starcraft instead of league), and I can tell you from personal experience how easy it is to hamster away what you're doing. Online gaming provides social interaction in the same way that texting does. Yes, it's technically communicating with another human, but it's not nearly the level of social interaction you'd get by hanging out with one in real life. It's enjoyable while you do it, but it's having an overall negative impact on your life, by stunting the development…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 02:26 AM
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Did you fuck her? If so, then it's a safe bet she was giving more than handjobs before you got together, and likely more than the one dude. Chicks lie about this stuff all the time, and they're really good at seeming totally honest and open while they do it. Especially conservative, religious girls because they don't want to be seen as sexually active to anyone due to their upbringing.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 02:02 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I understand and agree with your analogy. I just happen to be a physicist, and far too much of a snob to resist commenting on something like that. I agree though, conflict builds character. It's all over the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 03:13 PM
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That, or attention-seeking. I fell for that myself, right after saying not to feed them. Recognized and received. Aborting now.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 07:50 PM
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Read the sidebar, mate. You're setting yourself up for a prison buttfucking if you invest that much time/emotion in a chick. If she's pissing you off that bad, kick her out. When she presses charges, it's your word against hers, and yours doesn't mean shit in the new "modern" world. No pussy on earth is worth all that. I'm learning that myself, so don't feel shitty if you don't get it right away. Embrace the process.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:17 PM
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Tungsten has the highest tensile strength of any metal, and has the highest melting point of any element. So you're right about the hottest fires making the strongest metals. It's also incredibly brittle, and tends to shatter when overloaded. So it's not terribly useful for anything. tl;dr: Strength ain't everything. Flexibility and adaptability are necessary components too.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:13 PM
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Read the first post, thought "maybe a troll" Read the responses (spyapp, beating chicks), thought "definitely a troll" Don't feed the trolls, gentlemen.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 06:02 PM
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Get a text conversation going where you talk to her about her friends telling her she was too drunk to fuck. In that convo, have her say (preferably in more than one place) that she was too drunk that night, which is why nothing happened until the morning when she was sober/consensual. Make sure you get a record on your phone via text/audio recordings of talking to her/etc where she says that she didn't fuck your when she was drunk, she only fucked in the morning when she was sober. Keep that re…
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:27 PM
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I struggle with this myself, and the solution you presented in point 2 was like a ray of light for me. I've been doing a lot of meditating and critical self-analysis lately, and I've come to realize that my sense of self-worth is entirely dependent on external factors. Women, job, house, etc. I've been struggling with what to do about that, and when I'm feeling shitty about my oneitis fucking other men, or how much my job sucks, or whatever, I'm going to make a conscious effort to focus on think…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:17 PM
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I thought you were a troll. I stand corrected. I need a kick in the ass when it comes to this, I appreciate your willingness to accommodate it. I don't disagree with anything you said. Any advice on getting rid of the feels faster so I can get back on track to being a man again?
/r/askTRP26/07/16 04:14 AM
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Not at the moment, but I'd like to. That's why I'm here. Any constructive advice, or just here to shit?
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:27 AM
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Any advice on getting out of my head enough to do so? I understand that GFTOW works. Not arguing that at all, just looking for help accomplishing it. I can't seem to get interested in anyone else at the moment, and would love to be able to just not give a shit and go slay. Problem is when I talk to other girls my game suffers as a result of where my head's at, I think about her while doing so, and I don't want to fuck other girls. Bear in mind, I WANT to want to fuck other girls, I just don't ri…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:03 AM
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Any movement against her G-spot will make her cum. You don't have to pumping in and out. Put her on top, let her grind around while you're in her deep, without the in and out motion. Doesn't stimulate you too much (little actual friction) and it feel great for her. You can do the same thing in any position. Grind your pelvic bone against her clit, whatever. Just stop jackhammering and she'll feel like you're a fucking god (pun fully intended).
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:37 AM
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No need to be dicks. A lot of us did stupid shit for attention when we were kids. Even negative attention seems better than no attention when you're that age. If you guys haven't already, read NMMNG, and realize that this isn't all that uncommon. That being said, not sure what your question is here. This is asktrp, not ventyourembarrasingstoriestotrp.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:54 AM
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Not necessarily. If you stay in control of your situation, and you're doing things because they make you happy, you can't be a pushover. If you're doing it for a thank you, or for external validation that you aren't receiving though, then yes. Example: Guy does things for people because he genuinely enjoys helping, and it makes him feel fulfilled. Not a pushover, because he's doing what makes him happy. Other people just also happen to benefit from it. Counter-example: Guy does nice things for p…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:03 PM
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Ahhh, the feels. Been there man. If police are involved in a domestic, the only way you (as a man) aren't going to jail is if she's willing/able to tell the police that she's being loud, throwing things, etc and that you're not touching her. That requires a level of situational awareness on her part that isn't always going to be there. To protect yourself from this long-term, you need to have an official record showing her pattern of behavior. If she's physically hurting herself, you call 911. Y…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:17 PM
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No worries. The U.S. takes up 40% of North America, so even if you can't travel until you're IRR you've got plenty to explore stateside, and it's super cheap (if kind of a pain in the ass) to take Space-A.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:06 PM
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If you're not yet cut from active, you can take Space-A flights internationally. Once you hit reserves, you can still take Space-A anywhere in the U.S.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 04:03 PM
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Think about what you're saying, and imagine reading this if someone else posted it. What would you tell that guy when: The girl lives with him, rent-free The girl does not work, and has been sponging off him for three months The girl is constantly bitching at him about how he only completely supports her, he doesn't wait on her and clean up after her as well The girl just started a job, and is already using it as an excuse to treat him even worse The girl uses him as an emotional dumping ground,…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 03:45 PM
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