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| 2 | We have come to agreement and uncontested divorce but I am worried I may be conceding too much financially . I don’t want a whole mess but Is it possible an attorney would answer my questions just regarding financial monthly payments I have agreed to, to check if it’s fair enough? Phone call maybe ?I’d discuss with a lawyer at the very least. Things to consider: how will holidays and birthdays be handled, Spitting cost of doctor bills/activities/school/etc., insurance, taxes, and all that. Best to cover your basis and assume everything. Alimony is not tax deductible so the $$ is a fixed number spread over a set number of years. You can choose to pay a lump sum. CS is completely separate. Protect yourself because it takes years to recover finically and you want to see light at the end of th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/21 01:20 PM |
| 2 | We have come to agreement and uncontested divorce but I am worried I may be conceding too much financially . I don’t want a whole mess but Is it possible an attorney would answer my questions just regarding financial monthly payments I have agreed to, to check if it’s fair enough? Phone call maybe ?How long did you agree to pay alimony? I was responsible for Stop Gap Alimony which was 2 years of support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Help Gun questionYeah, move them and protect yourself. No matter what she used to be like odds are that she’ll want to make this both a civil and criminal process to get what she wants. I had the cops called on my 3 times for the dumbest of dumb shit and didn’t touch her, threaten her, or even put her in a bad position other than being uncomfortable. I still, as of 3 days ago, and a year after the divorce get harassed and accused of abuse and sexual assault??? She’s a permanent victim in our story and I just am … | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Served yesterdayBoundaries are your friend. Divorce is a financial transaction and you can’t try to get even or what you deserve. I learned this after a few months of back and forth with lawyers over absolutely nothing but us fighting each other over meaningless crap. You can rebuild your wealth, your friendships, your mindset. It all starts with choosing to move on and not allow a person to control you through fear and intimidation. The courts decide based on the law. Document your issues and get to a resoluti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/21 04:03 PM |
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