| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 53 | A Quick Reference for Silent Openers | Outer Game | J32926 | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 08:04 PM |
| 32 | Managing Girls' Expectations | J32926 | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 04:11 AM | |
| 14 | Keep the state alive, midtown Houston [FR] | J32926 | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 07:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | A Quick Reference for Silent OpenersInstinctive and natural. Most of the time they don't even realize they are doing it. | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A Quick Reference for Silent OpenersGreat input, I agree 100%. Picking her up off her feet is a great move that I left out, a wing man of mine does this all the time and tends to have some great lines to go with the action: "Come on lets get married" "you shouldn't walk in that dress" "look at those heels, you're going to trip. I'll help you." | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I've never touched women, where do I start?thai massage | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 01:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] A friend I have been working on the for the last month invited me over, and I struck out.When you have her in bed and she says she doesn't want to do anything, that doesnt mean its game over, i've been in that situation at least 10-15 times... and i can tell you, it is still on. Sometimes they aren't down to go all the way, but if you are in bed with her and shes drunk, topless makeout is easily possible. Don't keep your hands still, rub her back, grab her hand, massage her fingers and palms with your hand, keep talking to her. When you're spooning and massaging her, hold her tight … | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Looking to "pick up" some literature, sell me on your favorite book that deals with self improvement or pickupObviously the game if you haven't read that, the art of seduction, double your dating | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 04:10 PM |
| 2 | When It Feels More Like Work Than Fun?If I'm getting burnt out or I really just don't feel like taking someone home, I like to try out creative, bold, and overly direct opens that I can just have fun with. My goal could be to get them to buy me a drink, tease them, or just play out elaborate lies. This is always fun to me. | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Question about approaching..A wing man that has no fear approaching and puts pressure on you to do so is optimal | /r/seduction | 05/01/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Have a date this weekend with a friend, any suggestions to stay out of the friendzone?How'd this ever work out? | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Would you be interested in a weekly video Q&A regarding seduction?i'd be interested | /r/seduction | 17/12/12 11:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First solo night out - 3 kisses and numbers!Well done | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 07:08 PM |
| 3 | How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ?find moar chicks, and bang them | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 12:43 AM |
| 2 | How do i even start to be charming?I poke at people and tell them they are being shy all the time. Half of the time i'm trying to entertain myself and want them to do something out of their comfort zone (probably the case here), and half of the time i'm legitimately trying to give some tough love and just want to see them man up and do something they won't regret. A good way to answer any "are you ____?" question is to agree in exageration, then take focus off yourself. EX: "Yes. I am EXTREMELY shy. Are you? great, Why don't you … | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Have a date this weekend with a friend, any suggestions to stay out of the friendzone?Specifically, I wouldn't put your hand on her thigh if it's under the table, for everything else I'd just look for IOIs and play it by ear. Body language wise, leaning in a lot when shes speaking conveys a lower value. Just be aloof and sit with good posture, its more attractive. By demonstrate value I mean social value; Tell her cool stories about you, playfully make fun of things she says, ask her about her passions in life, tell her about yours, ect. I wouldn't avoid the divorce issue especia… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Have a date this weekend with a friend, any suggestions to stay out of the friendzone?I like Clam_Jammer's idea, but here are some ground rules i'd stick to if drinks beforehand isn't logistically possible: Be very subtle. When you are sitting at dinner some of the kino escalation you might try may be too much. Lets face it, shes basically trapped in a chair by you for the duration of the meal, and you want to avoid things that might creep her out because it could really ruin future interactions that may be more ideal. Get her to talk about things she likes to talk about, make he… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on acneI had really bad acne at 14. I have one or two tiny scars, not really noticeable to others but I notice it constantly. Looking back on things I would be much more careful... try not to pop zits, especially if they are really deep. I would see a dermatalogist, I did at about 16 and it helped a lot. They can prescribe you stuff that you can't buy over the counter, with a really high salicylic acid percentage. I used something called tretinoin until I was about 22, at first it was in gel form and i… | /r/seduction | 13/12/12 01:46 AM |
| 7 | We are her to learn about seduction, but how do you successfully end it so that there isn't any awkwardness or bitterness left of anyone's part?My opinions on that subject can be read here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/13z4x7/managing_girls_expectations/ | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Hey sedditors! Quick question here!tell her to hit the gym | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:43 PM |
| 1 | After losing a person you invested a lot of time and hapiness into what do you do to get your head straight?go back away to college, find more women | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:41 PM |
| 10 | Just got into a relationship, my game was just getting better. Now what?Now practice your skills in bed. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Boring is better, F closeI like it, very well done. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 08:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #- Close on Wingstop Girlphone numbers only count if you can make something happen. I'm looking forward to a follow up post! | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed. Should I hire a "professional"?I wouldn't hire a hooker. They are pretty emotionless in general and you will probably feel worse about it afterwards. Self improvement is the way to start... if you can get yourself to a 6 or 7 out of ten, it's not too hard to bang a 5, this is what I would try to do. DON'T trust your own judgement on what looks good. Maybe watch parts of Neil Strauss's Annihilation series for some dressing tips relating to your body type. Then look for a stylish looking women employee in a department store and… | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What is a glaring difference between a girl playing hard to get and a girl that is just not interested?hard to get will still smile, touch her hair, and give off subtle ioi's | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Online dating: how do you succeed? My story inside.down to fuck | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Online dating: how do you succeed? My story inside.Went out with a match.com girl who was a solid 10 in all her pictures. Her pictures all fantastically hid that she was slightly overweight, either way she was still an 8 in real life, and we went strong for a few weeks. I messaged her first; I find the hot ones don't message anybody, they just sit back and take their pick out of the ones that message them... thats what this girl did anyway. Its a bigger deal to a girl to message someone than it is to a guy, they get nervous about it. I would agr… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Keep the state alive, midtown Houston [FR]Hey sorry, I just noticed your comment. Celtic is my favorite place to game, midtown drinkery is a close second, but Celtic always has the best talent. I find little woodrows and pub fiction easy places to run game because of the lack of loud music and go there a lot too. After I have a certain level of attraction I usually push them to go to red door if they like dancing because its easy to get lost in the crowd :) | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 01:02 PM |
| 2 | My Experience With Being ApproachedGreat post | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Short jokes for text game...What do you call a nosy pepper? Jalepeno business | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 11:48 PM |
| 1 | AA on the dancefloor?You deal with AA by just getting over it. Try peacocking up a little more, I find it seems easier to go out of comfort zone if you already look ridiculous. Approach ugly girls, hot girls, girls dancing with guys... approach everyone and make a scene. My favorite thing to do is to move people back, create a circle of space on the dance floor, then jump in the middle and do the most ridiculous dance that comes into your head. From there pull any girls watching you from the edge of the circle to da… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Hello, need some advice. I'm confused.This girl doesn't seem fun, but if you are into her I'd still say go for it. Give her shit for flaking, find out when shes free and give her a stern and specific meeting location. You have better things to do with your time than deal with flakiness. If it were me I'd get her to meet me while i'm doing something I was already going to do, that way I don't get caught going out of my way again just to be disappointed. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't always assuming attraction make you look and feel like a cocky douche?I always feel cocky. It's not a problem, just be conscious of your body language and what you say to make sure you aren't being perceived as arrogant. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Approaching large groups of girlsMy favorite thing to do for large groups of girls is to pick one, take her hand, and begin dancing with her in a ball room or salsa fashion in plain sight of the rest of her friends (possibly right in the middle of their circle), you will have the instant attention of the entire group. Words aren't necessary, I'm usually peacocked up and already dancing, I have a group of friends nearby or with me, and a wing man possibly using the same move I am on a another girl in the same group (when we tag … | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How a lanyard got me laidI'm a fan of the routine, well done. The part of this story that I really like though is the execution with the adventure, coat, ect, very well done. I've used that same pretext for plausible deniability multiple times before. Of course it doesn't have to be a coat... ive used shoes, iphone charger, belt, set my alarm clock, and feed my fish all to great success. Iphone charger is a personal favorite, because girls seem to never keep their phone above 50% charge, and there's plenty of fun to be … | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Good PUA movies to either learn from, or get in the mindsetI'd watch an episode or two of Keys to the VIP. Particularly, the ones with real PUAs in them are pretty motivating. | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being an "easy target"This | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 03:34 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First date with K-closeI enjoyed the story, kissing gets better with time. Just keep practicing and be confident when you make moves. Your summary is exactly what to take away from this. Girls want you to escalate, and they feel let down (as we do), when things don't happen if the attraction is there. Girls will actually start to feel very uncomfortable if they are expecting you to make moves and you don't... they are constantly over analyzing your every move. I guarantee her "field report" to her friends is three tim… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 02:24 PM |
| 7 | Getting some outer-game content on: collection of recovery techniquesI think her particular comment "Well now you're just doing a poor job seducing me" is more of an IOI than a sign she was offended or losing interest. You may have gotten off track or said something innapropriate but she's giving you a definite hoop to jump through to get back on track by baiting you into seducing further. At any rate, well played flipping the roles after that. A simple recovery technique I use a lot if something goes slightly wrong or she starts to lose interest is to just start… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 01:50 PM |
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