Disclaimer: the topics discussed in this post may be morally offensive

There's a lot of material out there about picking up the girl... but what happens when you get her? Do you want her to be a one night stand? Do you want to start dating her? For me, and for many of us out there, the answer is neither for most HB8+'s I come accross. I want her to come over on mondays and wednesdays while a different girl comes over on thursdays. I want a girl that knows how to make banana pancakes to come fuck me in the morning on sundays and make me breakfast. I want to be the guy they come bang after an AFC took them out for a nice dinner. Above all else I want all of them to leave me alone some days so I can go out and run more game. I have been successful in these exploits, I am a sexually driven asshole.

But i'm not an asshole... I want all the girls to be happy, and I want to "leave them all better than I found them", as the community preaches.

So how do you avoid all of the drama? You manage her expectations. These are some of the things I find helpful to keep the ones you want to bang for months at a time from keying your car at the end of it.

The Basics

  • Disqualify yourself as boyfriend material
  • Cultivate a playboy image. Be fun, ignorant, sponteneous, irrational, and irresponsible.
  • Don't be a sugardaddy.
  • Run a tight ship. Wash your sheets, clean their hair out of your shower, dont take pictures with them that might end up on facebook, ect. *Be busy (act busy). and when you want to drop them.... be busier and busier and busier until poof.... they are out of your life.

Some Specifics

  • First off, if you are going to juggle multiple women who you don't plan on getting serious with, its best to avoid co-workers, friend's friends, friend's relatives, and neighbors... this should be fairly obvious.

  • Within the first few weeks that you are having sex, I like to tell her that I either don't believe in the concept of marriage or that I am waiting until 35-40 before I'm even considering getting married. Some girls will see this as a challenge... that's fine. The point is you are giving them a disclaimer, and the ones looking to jump into a relationship are fairly warned. You also seem less needy when you make this comment, and it subtly lets them know that there are no consequences if they want to come over and bang.

  • Let her know when you go out with your friends, but don't invite her. If she starts trying to meet up with you, stop telling her where you are going. You don't have to play it like you are going to sarge, I usually give them phrases like: "guys night out. no girls alowed", "bromancing tonight", "blacked out, sorry I didn't call you", "it's so and sos birthday/going away party/bar mitzvah", "fent too hapiy hour, not stober". This conveys a certain amount of irresponsibility (good quality for a lover, bad for a serious boyfriend), and is good cover for when you are out running game or with other girls.

  • Don't hang out with her more than 3 times a week. Don't let her keep clothes/toothbrush/ect. at your place. In general, don't let her claim any territory in your apartment, and don't claim any territory in hers. Girls love to do these things to become a bigger part of your world....but these are just more things the girl that comes over the next night can notice... run a tight ship.

  • Give her her sexual fantasy. Be physical, aggressive, and try new things. Push her limits. Be more exciting in bed than the AFC she met on match.com, and she'll always be back.

  • Have a password or pin to lock your phone... a girl read my text messages when I was in the bathroom one time and it didn't end well.

  • Know their dirt, but show no emotion. Have they cheated before? Do they still love their ex? Do they have a criminal record of some sort? Act as if anything you hear them say is no big deal. Project a "bad girl" image on to her, and treat her like that. This helps cultivate physical attraction and discourages emotional connection. I would reccomend always over exagerating your innocence if she turns these type of questions on to you. Depending on the situation i'll raise or lower my level of sarcasm when talking about how innocent I am.

  • Just something I like to do: I like to be watching a different TV series with each girl im sleeping with. I invite them over to watch breaking bad or Lost or whatever I feel like getting into. There are many shows in a series and it provides the opportunity for ample sexual encounters. Keeps them entertained, and I don't want them feeling like sluts so it gives them a good excuse to make their way over.

I'd love to here the strategies anyone else employs to manage multiple women.

~ J