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| 11 | Was I Being a Creeper? [FR]No idea why you're worried about being creepy here. You thought she was interested and the way she responded shows you were probably right. Now quit worrying about being creepy. She'll pick up on it and you'll end up blowing it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/12 04:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - Closed without a single word. (Plus my thoughts on my experiences thus far and a question to you all)I take it you're a pretty good looking dude? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Top 5 MPUAs You've Never Herd OfAlso, pictures of their boyfriends? Why is this necessary? | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Philly SedditorsAnother one here. I'd be down to go out in center city. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Philly Wings NOW!Yeah that's the one. I plan on attending the next meetup. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Philly Wings NOW!I'm down. There is also a decent lair in Philly. | /r/seduction | 23/05/12 07:02 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Five approaches EVERY SINGLE DAY for the entire month of March.I'd be interested to see a FR of one of your subway approaches. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 04:53 PM |
| 3 | If she asks you about previous girls...A related question - what do you say when asked about this when you don't really have any history? | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 04:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] HB7 trips the fuck out during seduction phase and sprints out of hotel room; I got a new pair of high heelsHow do I find this book? | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 05:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close, F-close, hilarious/epic night, and I don't speak the languageI'm also curious about this as well. How easy is it to do this? | /r/seduction | 07/02/12 07:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] NYE 3 k-closes from foreveraloneI'm not looking at it as the answer. The realtime effects were awesome but I'm hoping the real benefits are more longterm. I've had issues with social anxiety and last night showed me how imaginary/irrational/unfounded such issues are | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 12:33 AM |
| 5 | I'm stuck.I'm the same when it comes to the standard interview style questions about myself, but I love talking about my passions/interests. I'd venture to guess you prob do as well. Thats where you should try to focus, since many people prob do get sick of being asked about their job/major by everyone they meet. | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, advice when out at a loud barWell at the bar i frequent, theres a slightly quieter upstairs. I like to meet girls early in the night and dance with them later downstairs, instead of approaching girls on the dancefloor cuz its harder. I'm a newb at this too though. | /r/seduction | 27/11/11 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, advice when out at a loud barOnce i've opened and she's responding in a neutral or positive way, i use the loudness as an excuse to srart laying on the kino, i.e. putting my hand on her shoulder and pulling her in, talking with our faces nearly touching, then moving from shoulder to back, then waist. I cant think of any instances where a girl has resisted this, personally. | /r/seduction | 26/11/11 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hipster dance party yet again, first #-close in a whileNot that you care that much...but I have a date with her Tuesday, fwiw. | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 02:24 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Hipster dance party yet again, first #-close in a whileSee my reply to 50nlballer. | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hipster dance party yet again, first #-close in a whileThanks a lot for the detailed feedback. What you said in the first paragraph I had kind of realized on my own. I've been getting into these situations pretty regularly, where I'll talk to a girl for a little bit, go off on my own/with my friends with the intention of returning to her later, and either not getting that chance, or seeing her again at the end of the night and not even going for the number because I knew I hadn't established enough of a connection. This time I just decided to go for… | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 02:47 PM |
| -1 | What's your Halloween costume?This is prob going to be pretty popular this year. Might want to be more original? | /r/seduction | 20/10/11 01:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Starting to enjoy the taste of failureThe details from this point of the night are fuzzy, as I was pretty drunk. There were a lot of people waiting to do it though. I don't think it was very long after she went to go do that, that my friend was trying to leave. So I should have reengaged. She was receptive when I opened though...not sure if her going to limbo was a sign of disinterest towards me, or her simply just wanting to limbo because it seemed fun. And I'm not in the tropics - I live in Philly. I hadn't really seen this happen… | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] College house party, 2 #closes (one is a HB9 model), and 1 failed kiss attempt. Just looking for tips on the HB9Seems like you already have this in the bag. She probably just doesn't like hooking up at parties...an ASD type thing. Were other people around when you went for the kiss? If so, it probably would've worked if you could have isolated her. Once you hang out with her this week though it should be pretty easy...just escalate. | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 02:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Starting to enjoy the taste of failureYeah that's another thing I was thinking about today. My experiences with AA have been interesting...I made some real progress with it this summer, then started working and school started back up, so I couldn't go out nearly as much. My AA returned just as quickly as it went away. It's definitely like a mental muscle and it obviously atrophied once I stopped focusing on it. I needed to get back over that hurdle again and so that's been my main focus when going out. I stopped reading pickup mater… | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 01:44 AM |
| 1 | For the guys wondering how to get more sexual in an interaction here's one way....pull her hairIt seems like this would only work once she was ready for a k-close anyway. I have a hard time believing you could just do this randomly. | /r/seduction | 08/10/11 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Any Philadelphia sedditors?The Barbary? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Any Philadelphia sedditors?I am but I'm a newb at this stuff. I'd still be looking to get a group together but I'd be learning more than I'd be actually winging, at first anyway. | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 03:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The boost i needed to get started. Daygame#1I'm not sure where you could have improved on your approach...this seems like a pretty ideal outcome. To be honest though, the way you wrote the interaction was a little confusing. There just seems to be gaps where you don't mention how she responded. For example...what did she say after you opened? You kind of just wrote up what you were saying. I'd be interested to see more of her side of the interaction. | /r/seduction | 18/08/11 09:22 PM |
| 3 | DAE have a problem approaching girls when out with friends at non-bar/party settings?This happened to me last week. Went to a thrift store (if you can call it that...shit was overpriced)...saw a chick like 3-5 years older than me prob (I'm 23)...she was kind of cute, eyed her up...sat on a bench while my friend went to check out. She looks at me, I look...she looks away, then soon after comes and sits on the bench next to me (it could only really hold 2 people). Just was sitting there, seemed random. And I didn't open and rationalized my AA cause my friend was there (he's going … | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 01:48 AM |
| 1 | ImKumarYo Challenge [FR2] [Very Long] Gentlemen, if you don't play poker I suggest you give it a try.This is a great overall post...and dude the poker thing. I was ALL about that shit for like 5 years. I was actually playing online for a living and then the sites got shut down by the DOJ in April. Since that happened though I've been focusing much more on pickup, and something I've found helps is applying poker to it. Cause there's similar shit! Such as not being results oriented, just play enough hands (approach enough sets) and work on getting better, don't think about the money, reading and … | /r/seduction | 07/08/11 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Re: [FR] Monday night dance party, trying to escalate from a #-close I got last week.It was two dudes. I'm honestly not that close with them, they just happened to be there. They were moving so much cause they're picky about the "scene" of bars. I've been working on getting friends to come out and wing, so hopefully I can get some of them to come out. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Re: [FR] Monday night dance party, trying to escalate from a #-close I got last week.Yeah, I actually was just reading about affirmations and wrote some down. I read something that said to go over affirmations, have a playlist of music that's good for your state, and attach a movement to a good state before you go out. | /r/seduction | 06/08/11 10:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First results since starting this, though it had nothing to do with game.I've been texting this girl since I woke up, not a ton. I'll put the texts here to get some feedback: Me - "Yo Sarah Cupcakes, I hope you made it home safe. Mr. Ex-Con had the eyes for you." Her - (almost immediately, fwiw) "haha yeah i made it home fine lol" Her - (right after that) "I have you in my phone as (Bobby) Cupcakes fyi Me (waited like ten minutes, just because) - "Yeah I need to snag some of those from you soon." Her (half hour later)- "anytime. i always have an excess in my fridge a… | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm clueless when it comes to dancefloor game...and my friends are shitty wingmen.This was also very helpful. I love his philosophy about preparation/discipline, stuff "away from the field", so to speak. I feel like I have the tools I need to put into practice what I've read/watched, after seeing this. | /r/seduction | 21/07/11 10:28 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm clueless when it comes to dancefloor game...and my friends are shitty wingmen.Just watched it. I'm not sure what the second one you're referring to is? I watched the 21 Convention one and it was really good man. Took notes and everything. Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 09:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I'm clueless when it comes to dancefloor game...and my friends are shitty wingmen.haha i was just pulilng a number out of my ass. i have no idea what they'd actually cost. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 04:04 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I'm clueless when it comes to dancefloor game...and my friends are shitty wingmen.Yeah I agree, reading back over this it's obvious how many excuses I was making. Which "other guy" are you referring to though? The dude who pulled the chick up to dance? | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Trying to number-close, "for the fuck of it."Well, it was like 1:30 at this point and bars close at 2, so bouncing to a bar wasn't really an option. Plus I'm way too broke to go to a diner or anywhere where I'd have to spend more money. So relocating wasn't really an option just because of logistics. I definitely agree that I should have handled the failed number-close better. Seriously though, I fucked up majorly by asking the wrong girl. And the more I think of it...doing the cold "give me your number" thing is just bad. When I've succes… | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding a former oneitisI'm not sure how you got that out of my post? That's not my plan at all. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 02:07 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Yo, thanks for your responses dude. I actually just got hired with a catering company. I start next week. Still have a lot of financial shit to get in order, but hopefully I can start going out to bars regularly pretty soon. I'll send you my resume anyway for the fuck of it, just to see what you think of it. I haven't hit Johnny Brenda's yet, but I've heard good things. Same with Silk City, but I've heard both of these places are expensive. I won't give a shit when I'm actually getting money aga… | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 06:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I still have a long way to go...and my AA isn't actually dead.Yo, first of all...thank you so much for your detailed response. Seriously, I love getting this kind of feedback. Honestly, reading your responses...they resonate with me, because I basically already know everything you said. I just had an issue with actually putting it into practice. I know it's stupid to be that picky with the kind of girls I go after. I pretty much was making baseless judgments about them. I just didn't realize it at the time. I've realized since writing this report, that I'm… | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 05:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I still have a long way to go...and my AA isn't actually dead.I like that advice. Definitely made a mistake by painting everyone there with the same brush. I also need to learn to be more independent when I'm out. When I'm with AFCs who don't even consider socializing outside of people they already know, it really fucks with my state. | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Once I learned this, it got really easy.yeah i've thought about doing this when i'm eating lunch on campus. i live off campus too but i still grab lunch there and see people eating alone occasionally. what do you say to break the ice in these situation? | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Once I learned this, it got really easy.I don't mind walking up to complete strangers, most of the time, and eating lunch with them. This seems interesting to me. Could you provide some stories of times when you've done this? | /r/seduction | 03/07/11 06:55 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.I just thought this kind of phrase would help ease into it, since it's going to come as a surprise, then follow it up by stating my intent (I wanted to meet you). | /r/seduction | 02/07/11 09:40 PM |
| 1 | personal hygieneWhy should you not pluck them yourself? JW. I just bought a pair of tweezers myself because I know I need to groom my brows. I have extremely thick/coarse brows. What would you suggest for these? Still just focus on the rogue hairs? | /r/seduction | 02/07/11 01:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Yeah, I really don't know. I need a lot more practice with this. I still haven't done another daytime approach since this one. And approaching a girl sitting down seems so much easier than stopping one walking down the street. So that definitely had a lot to do with why I didn't approach the first two times. I've been out in the city a couple of times since then, and have seen girls I'd like to open obviously, but they've all been walking. I just took this opportunity since she was sitting and i… | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 09:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.I was actually wondering about that myself. I'm not completely sure if she did or not. I did make an effort to make eye contact the first time I saw her, but she was kind of just looking around. Honestly, it's hard to know now since this was over a week ago. But that was a concern of mine. The last time I saw her, I was already sitting there when she came in. This is definitely a valid concern though, and just more motivation to not hesitate and approach as soon as I feel the desire to. | /r/seduction | 01/07/11 06:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Not sure, something I've been running through my head is something like, "Excuse me, I know this is unorthodox, since we're not in a bar or something...but I thought you were cute and just felt like saying hi." Then introducing myself and transitioning into comfort. Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 05:50 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Anything dude, I'm not being picky. I've been applying at a ton of restaurants. Today I went around to book stores in center city since I'm an English major and figured that might be a draw to hire me. I've already had like 7 interviews...shit is frustrating. Why do you ask? I'm 23 btw. When I go to bars it's usually in Fishtown/NoLibs or South Philly. I'm moving to NoLibs later this week though. I want to go to the Barbary as soon as I can. I went there once like a year and a half ago when I wa… | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 05:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Daytime Dating by Jeremy Soul is the best material I've read thus far. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 07:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.cool, i'm broke as shit now but once i have the means to go out i'll message you. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 07:09 AM |
| 1 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!yeah, i have. i pretty much framed it that way from the beginning. tried to #-close the one the first night I met them. Her other friend standing with her said she's taken. Went outside and ended up talking to the other before i saw them start holding hands, then found out what the deal was. but when i number closed both of them at the end of the night i said that, "you're going to be my wingwomen and help me pick up Drexel biddies" (her university). I made another FR post about a party i went t… | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit. So is it really all about looks? I'm not ugly. But it seems like I don't look good enoughYeah I don't have experience with that but I'm sure it's a lot different. It also could have something to do with your actual profile though. There are posts on here about OKC profiles, I'd suggest checking that stuff out. Or just go out and meet real girls. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Hey seddit. So is it really all about looks? I'm not ugly. But it seems like I don't look good enoughIf you think you don't look good enough then it's going to manifest in the way you carry yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Hey seddit. So is it really all about looks? I'm not ugly. But it seems like I don't look good enoughHow long have you been "in the game?" | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 01:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Well, I never would have said that if I thought the interaction was going anywhere. Once she mentioned the BF I decided to abandon ship, but figured I might as well get some info out of it. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 03:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Oh, I've noticed. I wish I'd found out about game sooner so I could practice there. It seems like an ideal training ground for daygame. Are you big into PUA? I need to find a job first before I can go out to bars again, but would you be interested in winging? | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 05:17 AM |
| 2 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!What's interesting is that in social situations, my skills have improved tenfold. I met a couple of girls at a party a few weeks ago...who are bisexual and together. I've hung out with them at the same venue a couple of times since. One night I told one of them how shy I was, for some reason. The next weekend she remarked how she "doesn't see that at all" and even complimented me on how "outgoing" I am. I'm sure if I told this girl I was a virgin (which I'm obviously not going to do), she'd be s… | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 05:15 AM |
| 3 | DJ Fuji here to answer your questions!What's your advice to people with little to no experience trying to learn pickup? A virgin in his early 20's, for example. Do you think it's preferable for him to try to meet a girl and get into a relationship with her, or to "play the field" from the get-go? I'm in this sort of situation. I've been opening and meeting girls when I go out. I've only really been reading/putting this stuff into practice for the past month or so. But I know when I actually do hookup with a girl, I'm going to be rea… | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 03:36 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Yeah, I guess I would have used the same line. I chose to do it when she was sitting down because it just seemed so much easier. I would have probably tapped her on the shoulder or touched her on the elbow. Probably wouldn't have cut right to the chase like I did here though. A pre-frame would make a lot more sense, since I'd be more likely to startle her. | /r/seduction | 22/06/11 03:03 AM |
| 8 | [FR] My first daytime approach! Finally. No results, but good feedback.Hm? I went that route because most of the material I've read on daygame suggests being direct. | /r/seduction | 21/06/11 11:10 PM |
| 5 | My rambling wisdom for you guys who are in the trial and error phase.This is a great post. The part that stuck out most for me was the poker analogy. I was making a living online until Black Friday (not a real living...I'm in college so I was just making a lot better money than I would at any $8/hr job). I've compared poker and seduction before. Are you an avid player? I was so passionate about it that I find it easy to translate that passion into this other "game". One of the first epiphanies I had in both areas was that aggression is CRUCIAL. When I first learn… | /r/seduction | 20/06/11 10:34 PM |
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