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ComprehensiveJXphile4/r/seduction23/09/22 12:26 PM
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Inner Game JXphile4/r/seduction08/01/25 10:17 PM
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JXphile4/r/seduction28/08/19 08:07 PM
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ConversationJXphile4/r/seduction11/08/20 01:28 AM
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ConversationJXphile4/r/seduction23/10/22 09:48 PM
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Field ReportJXphile4/r/seduction13/07/22 07:42 AM
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JXphile4/r/seduction04/09/19 01:50 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationJXphile4/r/seduction25/08/20 08:18 AM
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LogisticsJXphile4/r/seduction12/09/22 02:56 AM
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Removed: Specific Situation JXphile4/r/seduction21/03/21 06:27 AM
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/r/seduction20/02/25 04:21 PM
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They really really really like boats
/r/seduction19/01/25 05:39 AM
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Edit: don’t listen to the commenter who said to tell her you’re a virgin lol DO NOT DO THAT Go with the flow brother. Spank her ass, pull her from her hip bones between her belly and upper thighs when in doggy. When she’s riding you straighten out your legs. When you’re making out, pull her head back by her hair and suck on her neck. Do things that can show you’ve done it before, like the things above. The part that may give it away that you’re a virgin is your thrusting rhythm. Have fun. Do wha…
/r/seduction09/01/25 08:54 PM
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Girls will always be ambiguous and want to be chased. But then, when you chase, they get turned off. That’s the battle. I’m in the same situation as you brother, 28m. I’m ready for a consistent thing and I’m only successful in getting them in bed, but not in locking them down. I wish I knew bro. Just keep at it. Try having friend’s girlfriends hook you up with their friends. That way you have some social proof. I know, it’s a shambles. Keep on keeping on. Don’t fall into the nihilistic hole and …
/r/seduction09/01/25 03:39 AM
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What are some examples of reciprocating it?
/r/seduction09/01/25 12:57 AM
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Let’s say we’re talking about her hobby of “natural organic” soap making. She’ll be talking about “important” details of the soap or some shit. You stop her rapidly by making a questioning type facial reaction and body movement (lean back suddenly and raise your hand like you’re stopping her with your palm facing her), she’ll stop and giggle at your reaction, then you do the lean in maybe not in her ear but get closer to her face, and you say something ludacris really low that will get a laugh b…
/r/seduction19/11/24 07:18 AM
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You probably do things that have the same effect without noticing you’re doing them. Some men aren’t naturals and need specifics.
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:51 PM
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I wouldn’t “ignore” women. They’ll pop up on your journey and you should make a move if you think you’ve got it. Focus on the other things and women will pop up and even if it seems they aren’t just keep at it on your journey. Trust the process of you improving yourself and your social status.
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:49 PM
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We’ve all been there. Sure you’re starting a bit late, but don’t fret. I’d say start off getting a couple of hobbies. Be social in those hobbies. Be social at work with your coworkers. Crack jokes and laugh at their jokes. Be cool. That’s step one to gather a couple of friends that can turn into friend groups. Apart from the hobbies, gain some interests. Here is an example, myself…I play an instrument, I shoot guns, I’m into history of all kinds, I play a sport casually. Thru those hobbies and i…
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:13 PM
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“Touch lightly” is not “grab her by the thigh”. Should’ve read clearly before making things up
/r/seduction08/06/24 04:08 AM
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Did anyone say “grab her thigh” other than you?
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:37 AM
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Then she doesn’t dig you lol
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:43 AM
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I didn’t specify to START with the thighs. If you’re in the middle of a story and vibes are good, it’s an option. Depends how it’s going. If a girl digs you, the thigh (top of knee) is not off limits. Again, it’s different for every situation. If you’re a creep and ugly, yes, it comes off that way. If you’re semi attractive, confident, and funny, it absolutely works broheme.
/r/seduction08/06/24 02:03 AM
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Nah, be vulnerable and tell her your insecurities about sexual pursuit like the other commenter said😂. Thanks for having sense and having actual insight to op’s question
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:51 AM
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Get you further with a virgin Amish girl that doesn’t have social media and has never had male attention, maybe. The point is to get over those insecurities with actions so he doesn’t have to explain something he no longer has. He’s not pretending, he’s adapting and becoming. I’d like to add, being vulnerable is for when there is death in the family or friends, not for first dates and meeting girls.
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:47 AM
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If he says to a girl that it’s hard for him to get comfortable with someone he doesn’t know too well…he’s cooked and on to the next one. Don’t say that, EVER, op. You’re a man, grab your ballz.
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:43 AM
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During the first date, which should be at a bar or something where you are standing/sitting next to her and close to her, you have to touch lightly parts of her body during peeks/climaxes in your stories. Just above the knee (thigh area), shoulder, hand, lower back. Also, when she’s speaking and looking at you, do the triangle method. Stare in one smooth and slow motion at each eye and then lips. When you want to say something secretive or something important, lean in slowly towards the side of …
/r/seduction08/06/24 01:36 AM
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Coach Red Pill
/r/TheRedPill24/05/24 10:48 AM
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In a joking manner say “I’m 62” and then look at her with a side eye. She’ll laugh or say “no way!” or “liar!” or something like that. Then you laugh with her and ask her what age she thinks you are. Let her guess a time or two, and then just give a hint….”I’m in my 30s” and leave it at that. Continue to tease and play but don’t reveal the exact age. Change the subject after enough times telling her “I’m telling you, I’m in my 30s!”
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:06 PM
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Bro what the hell was that??? lol holy shit. Imagine dating a woman like that
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 10:48 PM
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Highest rates of depressed and anxious single women of all time. Tell me it’s the men again. Be alone, do all the man work, raise children without dad, use your jackrabbit. Good luck. Men don’t date long term and marry those women you described. Last I checked, most women want to be married and raise a family. Not be this independent soulless lonely robot thing you mentioned. Yeah you don’t NEED men, but you WANT men. Guess what? Men don’t want women who don’t need men. Not sure if you’ve notice…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 09:07 PM
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I am sure. I don’t need to ask lol. Not sure why the attack when I’m speaking off of many experiences in my life and others. I don’t get angry about women helping other men because they don’t do that ever or in general other than help their male family members. Lmaoo good try. Women know their investment is meaningful to us, which is why they won’t help men they’re not investing in aka banging aka in a relationship with aka married too or a family member. If men think they deserve women’s help, …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 08:50 PM
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You’re not wrong. No such thing as female friends. You either bang them, wife them, be co-workers with them, or peers in school. They will never go out on a limb to do anything for a man who isn’t banging them, unless required to by a school or work assignment
/r/TheRedPill23/01/24 06:19 PM
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I’m with ya….I was working in her town on a summer job when I met her. We connected, have great chemistry, great sex, great time and laughter together. She knows and I know that we can’t have a serious relationship while living in different states. She’s the one who said “we’re not dating, we’re seeing each other.” I’m just trying to stay in the game here for the short term
/r/seduction23/10/22 10:22 PM
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Fuckin a
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:15 PM
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I’m with ya lol I do the same. It’s just when she mentioned to me after we laid together that she hates traveling alone and would like someone to join her, someone with enough money to by a ticket so close to the trip…I thought she may have wanted it to be me. I’m not one to skip on a sexual romantic getaway to Spain with a lady friend.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:11 PM
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In another thread someone mentioned she may want to hook up with Spanish dudes and me going with her would make it like a lovers week in Spain vs her being free to do what she wants. You’re right. Keep calm, live life. If she responds, cool. If not, move on and just check in on her trip .
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:04 PM
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I figured. I think the key for me now to keep a relationship with her is to just keep my distance and hit her up the next time I’m in her town. She may visit my part of town also during winter since I’m in South Florida. I want to keep her in my life.
/r/seduction23/09/22 12:41 PM
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Let her bring it up. “Where is this going?” “What are we becoming?” The man should never bring it up if he wants to keep rapport and stay in an elevated position, which is where men thrive in relationships. Once you ask about it, you come off as needy and it will turn her off subconsciously. Keep dating her. See if she’s worthy and if she has any red flags. She’ll ask you about being in a serious relationship in a couple of months. I’d also recommend to continue going out with other women. Maybe…
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:18 PM
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I left her town 3 weeks ago and im headed back in a week. My childhood friend lives there and I fell in love with the city, so im not going back for her but for the friends I made and the culture of the town. And once my job starts back up I won’t have a chance to go back to her town for 3-5 months. We’ve been texting on and off, maybe a 2-3 message thread a day or every other day. She’s taking a couple of days off to go to a party with me and to hang out while im there. I made plans with her a …
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:26 AM
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I figured that. But how do I show I have more options then? Because I do. She’s just one of the better options. I figured she’s in a dude’s rotation but goddamn I want some of that
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:16 AM
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Damn..I mean I’ve left her on read after her replies. I’m not texting back n forth. Literally just asking her out. She knew I dug her. I have other options. How do I then show im not needy? Because im not. I just want her because she’s the coolest and cutest one of the ones I’ve gotten digits from.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:08 AM
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I guess it can be seen as a date. I always viewed a date as dinner or going to do something like mini golf or bowling or some sort of event, while also picking the girl up from her place.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:30 AM
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I don’t go on dates. I meet them at the bar for drinks, spit game for a couple of hours, and then take them to my car and use my backseat or go to a hotel. No dates. Dates are for potential partners. If you’re not taking them seriously for a relationship, you’ll have to reveal your intentions on the date and that can lead to unpredictable shit. If you immediately meet at a bar for drinks, she knows it’s not a a real date and it’s just to meet, see if you bond, and if you do you’ll at least get a…
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:02 AM
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Less resting bitch face. Less loudness. Less argumentative attitude. More agreeable, sweet, and kind. Be genuine and considerate. Men will notice. Be as people used to say … “womanly” We interact with bitchy masculine women all the time and then they wonder why we don’t date them. Your looks and style are not an issue.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:27 AM
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We don’t make it a game. It IS a game. I’m also referring to Game as being able to talk to women successfully. Why do you think 80% of men are invisible to women? They have no social awareness, no social skills, and don’t understand female nature AKA having no game. Girls know if they’re fucking a guy just seconds maybe minutes after meeting them. It doesn’t take weeks and months of dates. It’s not about how the man feels, it’s about how the woman feels in reaction to how the man shows himself t…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:54 PM
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Emotional connection is literally a part of the genuine desire you have for the man. Genuine desire is not just off looks. The man uses his game to get the woman emotionally connected to him, which results in more concrete genuine desire. That’s what a date or meet up is for. That’s what game is literally for. You women can tell off some minor conversation what we’re about. I’m a bartender and I have never hooked up with a woman without speaking to her. Game on top of appearance creates the genu…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:45 PM
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If she has genuine desire for the man, she will not make him wait.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:50 PM
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Treat her like you do those 6s Convince your mind she’s a 6. It’ll be a surprise when you see her naked
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:16 AM
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If you say it like that, yeah it’s dry and shows lack of experience. You’re going out tomorrow or the following day, tell her to meet you there at a certain time or offer to pick her up and after she responds yes you tell to wear what you want her to wear. She’s not your life, she is in your life. You’re going to that place with or without her. The days of “making plans next week” is plutonic friend vibes unless you’ve been dating or been in a relationship for some time. I vote against the FaceT…
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:25 AM
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You should only be texting her to set up the next meet up/date. FaceTime should be used for the same thing and to see what they look like before a meet if she’s from the interwebs. Modern girls will not pick up phone calls or FaceTimes 99% of the time unless they dig you. Though I still don’t see any point in FaceTimeing or calling just because. You should be busy with your life. If you’re FaceTiming and calling her just to talk or chat, she’s going to think you have nothing going on and she’ll …
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:09 AM
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Keep it to yourself. The man will always think you belong to the streets if it’s in the double digits. Once men know you were once a “hoe”, you’re done. Most men know you can’t turn hoes into wives and you’ll be recreational use only. He may even string you along for a year long relationship before finding a nice girl who didn’t ride the cock carousel. Lie or keep quiet.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:50 PM
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I have multiple family member couples who’ve gotten divorced in the last 10 years and they’ve been together between 40-60 years. It really is just your turn 99.9% of the time. I have a neighbor who’s 95 and his wife of 70 years left him last week to live with her daughter. The quote is a joke but also very true. If you always assume she will leave you, you’ll never act out of character as a man. Once the man thinks she’ll never leave, he becomes complacent and loses frame…leading to her leaving …
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:36 AM
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You can try, but until she proves to you otherwise that for these future experiences she’s not an escort…you must continue to view her as an escort. As the other commenter said…tread lightly. Or you could be down lots of money really quick
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:07 PM
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Bro…less than 5% of guys can get multiple girls at once and have a roster like you do. For the majority of guys, 1 is enough. And if a woman doesn’t want to grab lunch, dinner, ski, go to a theatre, dance, go shopping, go to a park, or do some hobby you both like in the span of a week…time for a new girl because she’s just not that into you. There’s obviously exceptions like she went to another state for her job for a couple of weeks, etc. A woman can have interests and a life besides you, no on…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:26 AM
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Texting should only be used to set up dates or meet ups. If you’re that far from each other that you can’t see each other every other day or every 2-3 days, time to move on.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:10 PM
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If a man follows a cultural norm but doesn’t follow what he wants, isn’t he lying? He is lying. These ideas are not outdated, they’re updated … based on the current sexual marketplace that’s been revamped with feminism, Instagram, and Dating apps.
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:30 PM
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Facts. Invisible men everywhere
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:25 PM
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If a man has enough game, the girls can’t smell it. They’re actually in the middle of being seduced. It’s not me having a hard time. It’s most men. 10-20% of men are actually having sex in America. While 90% of women are having sex. Think about those numbers. It’s incredibly difficult for men who aren’t born with game and looks, which is the majority of the male population. Don’t get it twisted, I care about a real relationship. I’ve just decided that I’m not going be in a relationship until I w…
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:20 PM
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This is Reddit, not a date. I’d never speak the truth of female/male dynamics on a date, unless I don’t want to get laid. Number 1 rule is never reveal these truths to girls because like you’ve mentioned, it’s unnatural and not pleasant to hear. Men are success objects, women are sex objects. Been that way since the beginning of time. Men wouldn’t deal with women if sex was not involved. Y’all think we care about the stuff you like or do? Lol we don’t, we just act like we do so you can give us a…
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:03 PM
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It’s okay, use your shaming language. I’m not entitled, I know I must work extremely hard in life to get women. I’m not misogynistic, for one I don’t hate women if I’ve spent many years studying them to get them in the sack, successfully. You can’t judge an entire human entity on a comment or two, you don’t know me baby girl. Nothing I’ve written is wrong or incorrect. How do I know? I’m met with shaming and insults. Women can’t handle the truth, and that’s why they’re lied to everyday by societ…
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:55 PM
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I’m not saying it’s anyone fault (it’s actually biology’s fault and not each conscious man’s fault). Biologically, men look to spread their seed with who they can, women look to birth children to a man of their choice. Men fuck who they can and women fuck who they want. Been that way since the dawn of time. But yes, women don’t have to do anything to attract men other than show up.
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:47 PM
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Women date on easy mode. You don’t have to improve, change, or do anything for that matter to attract men. That’s what I meant by no adversity. The question was mainly if women care about the male struggle in dating, they don’t. Those things you mentioned are from the weak dudes who never learn how to talk to girls and have mental issues. A normal guy doesn’t act like that even if they struggle with girls
/r/seduction28/12/21 08:24 PM
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They have no idea and they don’t give a shit either. They’re women…they face no adversity in the field of dating. We’re men. We persevere, don’t quit, and we learn female nature to conquer them. Women have zero sympathy for men in the dating game.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:56 PM
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Make eye contact while sitting. Walk up to their bench very nonchalantly. Opening line: “hey ladies, are you talking about me? Hehehe” From there they’ll say “we’re actually talking about ….” You have to keep up the convo intriguing from there. Show interest. Ask questions that don’t have yes or no answers. Ask to exchange instagrams when the opening arrives, then make an excuse to leave once you get their IGs. Watch Hank Moody videos on YouTube to help with your posture and approach. Body langu…
/r/seduction17/12/21 06:42 AM
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Unfortunately, the chances of you seeing her again are slim. She has thousands of dm’s on Instagram. You have to get their number before leaving the club. Unless you have a blue check on IG, you need to get their phone number and get the date going thru there. Instagram is a dating app. A phone number puts us men at a huge advantage over those guys in the dms. Especially since you made out with her bro. A number is more personal in her mind which means you’re closer to her than a guy in her dms
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:38 PM
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Lmaooo more shaming language. I’m not hurt nor do I hate women lol if you can’t be yourself with someone, don’t be with anyone at all Women have that privilege because y’all have the privilege of being able to live in a Disney fairytale. Us men have to change to get what we want if things are not working. Women aren’t ever told to change. It’s against female nature to be promiscuous, not against male nature. Male nature is to be promiscuous to spread their seed as much as they can. While women’s…
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:19 PM
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It’s not about the internet lol. It’s about dating for the last 10 years. When I changed from a “nice guy” to a good dude with asshole tendencies, the women came and I came. You’re changing the goal post here. Asshole tendencies doesn’t mean beating women. Laughable. Good try. If you’re crying because your man is simply talking and laughing with a bartender or waitress or some other female, maybe something else is going on in your brain. Men who have game are attractive. Men who don’t have game …
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:47 PM
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You say that now but will get bored later when the spark is non existent and you leave him for a more alpha/adventurous/flirtatious/exciting man. It’s happened millions of times to us guys. It happens everyday. You may be an exception, but you’re not the majority. This literally happens everyday to guys. As a woman, you don’t see this. But in our community of men, I’m telling you…everyday a girl leaves out of boredom. Flirting with other girls harmlessly (waitresses, bartenders, clerks, etc) wil…
/r/seduction19/10/21 09:02 PM
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Yes, creating a demand for himself. Their subconscious thinking is “if these other girls want him, he must bring value somehow, so I want him too”. Wooing or relationship, it doesn’t matter. Having options will always keep your girl attractive to you, just don’t rub it in or actually act on those options. The threat alone does the job. Whenever girls are asked what keeps relationships going they usually answer with “we have to keep the flame alive” which translates from womanese to meaning that …
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:20 PM
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Whoever downvotes, explain how my comment is incorrect. Or is it that you just don’t like it? It’s the truth.
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:04 PM
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It’s a politically correct answer from the women. They tell themselves they like a man who’s inactive because he’s not dm’ing other girls or giving attention to other girls (attention is female currency). In reality though, a guy who can get other girls and acts on it actually makes a girl more attractive to him because girls want what they can’t have. They obviously hate it if we cheat on them, but let me tell you that every girl keeps attraction when you flirt with other girls even if it’s not…
/r/seduction18/10/21 04:58 PM
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Get Coca Cola and if a girl asks just say it’s a rum n coke. Or get a clear soda and you can say it’s a gin and soda. London is one of the largest locations ever. Find a bar. There must be one that isn’t 99% white. If all you see are groups of girls and not 1-2 together, you need to find another place. But that’s why going with friends can help, those groups of chicks are easier to approach with a friend or two. Meet a dude at the bar and speak with him for a bit and plan an approach. If it goes…
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:21 PM
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How about you move to a non-college town. Or just hit on girls at supermarkets and coffee shops. Those parties are cool for a bit but like you said, it’s repeat business and gets tiring. None of those girls you’re meeting want anything serious outside the post-party lay. I’m not saying to get in a relationship but at least date some girls. These party girls aren’t looking to date and probably aren’t worth dating.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 07:50 PM
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Tell her you’re not looking to be anyone’s boyfriend anytime soon
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:43 PM
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But its misogynistic bro. Divorce her and marry a promiscuous woman because we can do whatever we want. Bullshit, good on you. “Far less likely to be faithful and stay in a marriage long term.” That’s why we don’t marry hoes and why we don’t take them seriously. Where’s that chick who was arguing facts with emotions in this thread? The proof is all around us.
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:06 PM
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“I have somewhere to be.” If she asks “where?” you can say something like “I’m meeting someone for lunch” and that’s it. Don’t mention a girl or gender. Be ambiguous. Keep her thinking all day about if you were seeing another girl or some guy friend.
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:26 PM
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Its getting ridiculous now. Good luck. And to any guys reading this, invest in dog and cat food brands. Social scientists are saying in 10-20 years the US will have the most single women up to date. And that’s not by following my logic mind you, it’s from following this commenter’s emotional view and modern day feminism. Stay strong, men. Find a wife outside of Western society that isn’t brainwashed by IG and Tik Tok.
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:18 PM
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Goddamn, like a scene out of a movie. But girls what to be “lit” and fuck around for a decade before finding a man. They’re loss. The saddest human in the US is a 40 yr old woman that’s single, has a career, has no kids, and has a dog. Modern feminism has been lying to these women bro. We have to start a movement for the guys in supermarkets.
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:14 PM
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Women want a man with a future. Men want a woman without a past. If a man finds out on his wedding day that his fiancé got rammed by the football team in high school, that wedding isn’t happening. Sad for women who want to fuck all the time, sure. But it’s reality. Having standards for men is ok for women but when men have standards for women its called misogynistic and it’s all out of my ass. You may not like the truth, but that doesn’t make it false. I’ll say again that you’re reacting with em…
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:45 PM
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Because women just have to show up to have sex, while men have to create their value through finance and game to have sex. Thus, women must preserve their value because it’s so easy for them to have sex and men must create their value because it is so difficult to get sex. So when a woman has lots of sex, it’s not impressive. When a man has lots of sex, he created value and is thus more valuable than other men. I don’t make the rules, nature does.
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:24 PM
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It has everything to do with biology. We’re here to create families, which requires relationships not only with the opposite sex but with the potential children. Men don’t want to marry hoes because there is a large chance those women won’t be the type of mother the man wants for his offspring. It’s not a double standard, it’s biological fact and reality. We can’t change reality because of some societal movement (feminism, etc) I don’t make the rules, I just report them. I’ll say again, I don’t …
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:09 PM
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You’re not wrong, some women will be repulsed by a guy with over 50 bodies. Unless the guy makes over 100k and can provide everything without question. The average guy who has the ability to get women will be more attractive than the average guy who is a nice guy and had sex with one girl who was a weird gf 5-10 yrs ago in high school. If you’re rich and well off, the women won’t care one bit if you’ve been with 30 women or 100 women. There’s a reason all these musicians, athletes, etc. get the …
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:59 PM
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I’m speaking for most men. These are biological facts. We trust women that aren’t promiscuous with our sperm because of assurance that the child will be ours. It’s biology. Just like how women biologically want a man that provides security, it’s the same thing but for men. Don’t believe me? Ask any man you meet if they’ll marry a promiscuous woman. I can tell you what 9 of the 10 answers will be. Life is sexist. Biology is sexist. I don’t hate, have contempt or prejudice against women thus I’m n…
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:46 PM
3

Men take girls more seriously if their body count is low. I’m talking about marriage and family here. She can fuck however many guys she wants, but her “relationship value” aka marriage value goes down because men don’t wife up promiscuous women aka hoes. We’ll fuck promiscuous women, even date them for years, but not marry them. It has everything to do with her value to a man. Men who make moves at supermarkets are looking for something different to the girls showing tits and ass at the club/ba…
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:23 PM
37

Don’t meet men at bars or parties. Go to supermarkets, open mic nights, coffee/bake shops, bowling alley, the theatre (not cinema), outdoor stuff. A guy who’s not a partyer looking for one night stands will most likely be at a place like that. It’s nothing to be worried about. You’re actually preserving your relationship value by not having a “hoe” phase. Your next bf could be your husband and he’ll trust you for not having had lots of sex with different guys.
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:34 AM
1

You’re back?? What’s with this “appreciation” thing you keep dwelling on? It’s a whole package…boobs, ass, vagina, mouth, etc Ask your doc about testosterone treatment, gets your sex drive back to teenage levels.
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:19 PM
3

My one experience with a much older woman was the best sex I’ve had. Especially because of how I earned it. I’d say, don’t overthink it and just do your moves you’ve learned from experience. That should be enough to blow his mind. Unless you’ve been a vanilla kind of girl all this time, in that case look up some hip movements for multiple positions and oral techniques outside the regular back n forth with a hand on the shaft that most young girls do. Don’t try to outdo yourself, have fun. And us…
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:23 PM
3

More appreciated by who? Women? Yes, women appreciate penises. Men appreciate vaginas. You’re acting like all humans love both and every human has a preference. Women appreciate penises, men appreciate vagina. It just so happens men love blowjobs where women prefer penetration since most dudes suck at eating out. You want absolutes, there are no absolutes. Get out of your cave and have sex. Reddit doesn’t have answers to your paranoia. Just because girls love sucking johnson more than guys love …
/r/seduction29/05/21 05:29 AM
2

You’re paranoid for no reason. Women make a living off their vagina all over America. It’s a booming business. Why? Men love vagina
/r/seduction29/05/21 05:25 AM
2

Damn, new account real quick. I’ve heard bisexual women say they like sucking penises more because they’re cleaner and not as intricate. Vaginas can get messy and finding a g spot is difficult for anyone. An Inny vs an Outty. Men love vagina, don’t get it twisted
/r/seduction29/05/21 05:19 AM
3

Who brainwashed you into believing that? Everything we do with women is to get in their vagina. Whether you’re cool or not and offer depth as a person is on you to keep a man around.
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:37 AM
3

What does that even mean? Honestly. Men love vaginas. Women love penises. I don’t see the point you’re trying to reach
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:25 AM
4

A real man will eat a girls vagina. I’m not saying to eat every one night stand’s vagina. But if you’re dating and y’all are only seeing each other, a man should be at least be down there occasionally. Vaginas are appreciated enough when they’re not humiliatingly destroyed by the cock carousel. If you’re a lady, you have to go experience some sex or you’ll have all these misunderstandings and guesses until a boyfriend comes around and shows you. The dude told you that because most men don’t want…
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:20 AM
1

Bro...drop that shit. Get a haircut, iron your shirt, wear some nice cologne, and just stop her in the halls and tell her... “hey I think you’re super cute and I’d like to hang out/take you out some time, what’s your name?” “Haha I’m Jenny” “I’m LampShade961, nice to meet ya. So what class are you headed to?” “Oh I’m headed to History class” And you just keep the convo going until you get to her class. Ask questions, but not too many, about her class and the teacher, crack jokes about her teache…
/r/seduction28/05/21 10:50 PM
2

Date 3 should always be the breaking point. If you haven’t swapped spit or one of yous hasn’t gone down under by then, next. Do what you got to do. Break the touch barrier for sure. Ngl don’t be discouraged if she refrains. She’s a rookie who most likely believes in Cinderella Disney movies.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:26 PM
4

Because she can’t speak to men when they approach her in person. Thanks to the internet
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:23 PM
2

Honestly, if she’s waiting for a relationship to have sex, you should recommend to her that she should sell her virginity. They go for hundreds of thousands these days. She could be set for life. Anyway, not worth it bro. Go find a semi-experience chick who’s cool and not shy who’s going to fuck on one of the first three dates and will date you. If a girl doesn’t bang you by the third date, she’s not irresistibly attracted to you and most likely won’t be.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:20 PM
2

Be straight up and ask her if shes looking for a relationship. If she says no, she may bang you after the second or third date. If she says yes, you could be in a relationship for 6 months and not get any. Be aware. Be a man. Be upfront. Don’t waste a year or however long to bang a girl you don’t care for truly.
/r/seduction25/05/21 06:11 PM
1

As a dude with full lips, I stay away from really thin-lipped women because it just feels weird kissing someone’s face. Not to mention lips make up half of a bj.
/r/seduction01/05/21 02:33 PM
3

Maybe it’s because they’re risking more than you have ever risked
/r/seduction13/01/21 05:33 PM
1

It’s tricky. You never really know. In my experience, if I felt the girl could be a possible gf I wouldn’t ask for nudes until after I’ve hooked her. For the most part asking for nudes is usually a hookup culture thing and fuckbuddy thing.
/r/seduction11/01/21 03:52 AM
1

Let’s put it this way, friend......I didn’t kiss a girl I was head over heels for on the first date and the date went great which led me to believe there’d be a second date. I was semi-ghosted the next day (we went to the same school) in text and in person. She gave my teammate a blowjob two nights later when he took her out on their first and only date. Goes to show that these girls just want any attention they can get and we’re disposable to them. Don’t overthink. If you’re feeling it, go for …
/r/seduction02/01/21 04:36 AM
0

Those friends of yours don’t understand the situation from a man’s perspective. Keep on doing you and don’t listen to girls who want nice guys. Sling dick and worry about the rest later. Eventually one of those friends will be horny one night and see you hunting and she’ll end up going after you, hopefully the more attractive of the bunch (not that this should be the goal). You’re fine, man. Just don’t be blatantly obvious you’re hunting when you’re at the bar or club or wherever.
/r/seduction30/12/20 04:38 PM
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🤣
/r/seduction08/12/20 05:29 AM
1

It’s one of the toughest struggles for men around the world today. I too suffer this. I’ve overcome it before and will again. As will you. Experience will smooth things out. We try too hard in text, that’s it. The show Californication helped me with this. I tried to incorporate some form of Hank Moody into my thinking while texting, I can overthink and try hard if I don’t stop and look at myself and think of Hank.
/r/seduction22/11/20 08:19 PM
1

If she says no while texting, just ease your way out of the convo and don’t communicate until you see her again in the store or if the day she is unavailable passes and you text her again (whichever comes first). Girls understand. After the first “no” through text, I’d go for the kill in person at her store. Well if the convo is dying out don’t force convo, they hate that and will reply with one word or short responses or leave you on read. Unless you’re a magician in text seduction, I wouldn’t …
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:41 PM
2

If she’s unavailable you text her the day after the date was supposed to take place (the day she’s unavailable). I’m assuming you see this girl most days at work which is tremendous help. After the third time if she’s said no, time to move on. Yes, that’s it. I wouldn’t text her more than an hour or two if you are going to text her. Texting her gets 99% easier once you’ve been inside her since you won’t care about what you say since you’ve achieved the goal.
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:34 PM
1

Good shit right here
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:30 PM
1

Texting should only be used to set up dates and meet ups. While texting you have to give off the “I don’t care what you think” vibe which means ultimately do not pander to her because she’s attractive. Take this from someone who is good in person and shite in text like you. I heard that advice from a dating channel on YouTube and never forgot it. This also shows you have a life and priorities above her which turns her on since all the other dudes in her dms and text are slobbering over her and s…
/r/seduction22/11/20 07:01 PM
0

“Let’s grab some tacos this Friday...maybe I’ll wear my most provocative pair of tights.”
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:41 PM
19

Just show up
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:46 PM
1

They message you for days and days, talking about favorite sex positions, fetishes, the objects they like inside them, and the food they like after sex and after a couple of days of messaging, even weeks, they still don’t want to meet up and give the same filler excuses men have been hearing for decades. What’s wrong with it is that guys are lead on for days and weeks thinking we’re getting somewhere and it’s false. All talk ego stroking bullshit. Us dudes aren’t like girls and have 400 matches …
/r/seduction06/08/20 05:09 PM
6

it’s fuckin brutal let me tell you. you don’t know whether to just go straight for it or linger in small talk. most of them just want validation or relationships and don’t really want to hang out. this not in-person thing is a ridiculous game. miss cold approaches
/r/seduction06/08/20 05:50 AM
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“Let’s grab a coffee...only if you wear something that’s cute and sexy” that should clear the air
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:06 PM
-12

“Let’s grab a coffee...only if you wear something that’s cute and sexy” that should clear the air
/r/seduction06/07/20 04:06 PM
1

This usually works for me as an opener and gets a response. After this, it’s up to you to keep the convo going. “hey ashley, reefer and some ink?? hot as a mother fucker” notice no capital letters since they can possibly intimidate girls. I started getting laid on tinder after I used this lowercase tactic. find two details you find attractive about the girl and toss that into the formula above. the “hot as a mother fucker” part shows you aren’t a “nice guy.” it shows you’re a man who doesn’t giv…
/r/seduction19/06/20 01:33 PM
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