Flirted with a bartender where I work at, went to a bar after with her and made out with her in her car.

She was sexting me, calling me baby, and being all lovey dovey thru texts.

She invited me over to stay the night multiple times some days after. Sex was great, made her finish, watched movies, had some mornings together.

She went away on a small trip with her dad for 3 days a day after our last time in bed together. While on her trip, she was dry with me on text and I ended up not texting her the last day she was on her trip. When she came back all the attraction died down on text. I’d see her at work and we were flirty with each other. I’d ask to hang out at a bar next to our houses (we live 2 min from each other) and got rejected multiple times. She is very introverted and doesn’t like drinking or partying.

Saw her at work yesterday (we both closed our shifts at the end of the night) and she stuck around with me after she was done to watch how I close my part of the shop. I walked her to her car, she drove me to my car, I kissed her. I left.

My buddy told me to stop and move on, but this girl is hot and I want to keep seeing her.

The dryness and lack of wanting to hang out with me makes me think he’s right, but then her and I are talking about my cum on her blanket and other sexual things in person in a very open funny way.

I’m not trying to make this girl my girlfriend, just trying to keep her around for a bit. She’s going on another trip this week to play poker and texting her during that doesn’t seem to be something in my favor as she’s not starting any text conversations but does engage when in them.

What’s the move here? I appreciate you all.