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I have to laugh how she waved at you first and then posted the message. Slut.
/r/MGTOW04/11/18 10:29 AM
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Armpit tits are bigger than her actual tits.
/r/MGTOW24/12/17 09:57 PM
7

And to think this girl is hideous and looks more man than woman and can easily get that much attention and action...granted the guys look brutal too judging from their bodies but still.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 06:54 PM
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Hope for anyone if that's what they wish to do if guy in the middle is considered Chad. I wouldn't ride any of those women into battle.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 06:49 PM
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She probably was a two man job at the very least so your subconscious brain had the right idea by running away from the scene.
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 11:03 PM
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6"3, 180lbs.
/r/MGTOW29/10/17 10:58 PM
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Hmmm story doesn't really make sense. For the nice guy part you said you approached them and gave them the puppy dog treatments but for the being an asshole you just said you ignored their calls and fucked them, skipping the initial part completely. Missing a big part here. But whatever good for you, get those notches on the bed up.
/r/MGTOW20/10/17 09:58 AM
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The weight is finally off your back, of course it feels better! Be well bro.
/r/MGTOW11/10/17 10:00 PM
3

Nothing to add or say, just want to say great job man, +1 for sidebar or sticky.
/r/MGTOW28/09/17 09:39 PM
1

Never mind her, what the f*ck is going on with the baby in the right picture.
/r/MGTOW20/09/17 09:29 PM
1

I'm going to try that one. I'm 23 where getting married in teens/early 20s is literally non existent. This should be funny
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 09:16 AM
1

Someone needs to show Brad Fight Club.
/r/MGTOW05/09/17 07:25 PM
1

130R in Japan as well.
/r/MGTOW04/09/17 05:26 PM
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Casual F1 fan here although throughout childhood watched it religiously on TV. Is that halo thing not going to do more harm than good considering it's obscuring part of your vision?
/r/MGTOW04/09/17 05:24 PM
3

Rich really did leave humanity behind huh. Pretty amazing person though, love him or hate him. He completely lost his mind in recent years though. I used watch his vids back in the day as motivation and he was this chill, relaxed and charismatic guy who still looked like he was loving life. Then came the sassy attitude, the hair plugs and long hair, the head tattoos and that batshit insane steroid cycle trying to get big as possible. Made for priceless viewing and I guess the memes were funny bu…
/r/MGTOW27/08/17 10:01 PM
11

Looking like Ronda Rousey after getting KO'd with a little sprinkle of crack on top.
/r/MGTOW21/08/17 08:48 PM
13

And people wonder why men in relationships commit suicide.
/r/MGTOW10/08/17 09:23 PM
15

Always admire a plate spinner.
/r/MGTOW07/08/17 06:33 PM
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All valid points except a lot of men think that way. They think they're nothing unless they're in a relationship even if they're being grabbed by the balls. In college I was a lowkey banging machine for a while, while a lot of people in my year were trying to get a solid steady girl. They laughed at me on the hunt and the odd time I'd come home without a piece of ass they'd be like "huh huh that's why I have a GF" whilst having to hold her shoes, bag and pay for her drinks and taxi home. All for…
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 08:41 PM
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Yeah and all the players seem to wear tights these days. Na seriously though, Basketball is evolving so much I wouldn't even trip. Guys like Anthony Davis and Giannis are just the type of modern player who can do it all and it'll continue to be that way, which is a good thing. But it's ugly ass clowns like Steph Curry's wife who seem to get more air time than a lot of upcoming players that's the real cheese in modern Basketball. On the flip side, although he is insane, Lavar Ball is a breath of …
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 08:33 PM
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Bro you missed a massive opportunity to use those suitcases as impromptu dumbbells and start doing some shoulder presses, a few curls and a few squats. Get your buddy to record it, and upload it to YouTube with the title "Must See: Nerd Lifts Weight On Plane And Gets Numbers From Hot Chicks w/ Abs and Babes". Easy 10m views. Ahemmm. Good for you though man, I usually help people if they ask me though but whatever.
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 08:26 PM
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Screen shot them and upload to imgur maybe?
/r/MGTOW03/08/17 07:15 PM
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I'd imagine you're very popular in /r/strongindependentwomen
/r/MGTOW16/07/17 10:52 PM
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While these suckers thirst it out in public comments, Chad is already after sending a dick pic in DMs and this slut is already fobbing one off to it.
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 07:24 PM
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Fight Club being the obvious one: "We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need" "It's only after you've lost everything that you're free to do anything." And my favourite: "Man, I see in fight club the strongest and smartest men who've ever lived. I see all this potential, and I see squandering. God damn it, an entire generation pumping gas, waiting tables; slaves with white collars. Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working j…
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 08:06 PM
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Here's her one month after giving birth: http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/02/28/11/3DCC3BB300000578-0-image-a-46_1488281187606.jpg My eyes, da goggles doo nahting!
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 06:18 PM
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She just had his kid at the start of the year too. Dude's only 23 and he's getting hitched already to his high school sweet heart with a baby to boot. What a waste. Dude could be smashing all kinds of hot ass with no strings, even if he is ugly as shit and balding hard.
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 05:27 PM
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"She knows when her LBD looks damn good". Bitch that aint an LBD that is a king size duvet.
/r/MGTOW01/07/17 11:08 PM
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Yes. This is why people should burn that "how to be funny" book and instead look into physical escalation. Think about it unless you touch the girl you're not going to fuck her. Ozzie RSD's book is a great in detail book but things like Liam McRae's 21C video is another great place to start.
/r/seduction10/04/17 02:26 PM
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Your mindset is all wrong. Stop viewing success as things like numbers, kisses, lays etc. These are side effects of you being an attractive male. Instead focus on how you are improving as a social person and how you are becoming a more attractive man. Focus on that more and not the numbers, kisses, lays. I'm sure if you're actively focusing on improving yourself you'll have a lot to show for it.
/r/seduction07/07/16 05:31 PM
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Realise that you should be proud about yourself and who you are and learn that most people frankly don't give a fuck about you so just stop worrying. Everyone has their own story, everyone is living their own movie with ups and downs, flaws and strengths. That age old reminder that "she is the same living, eating, burping, farting, shitting human being that you are" is solid as fuck. Who cares if people don't like the real you? Would you rather people like a version of you that is fake, dishones…
/r/seduction07/07/16 05:27 PM
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Once upon a time I would have said yes, but now no. I have become a very touch kinda guy, and that's with everyone from women to my friends to old people to strangers. It's just part of me now. Learn to consciously become more physically affirmative with people and eventually not touching a girl and people around you will be more weird than what you might experience now. The golden rule of "natural game" applies here, everything you feel she feels. If you feel confident and completely normal in …
/r/seduction07/07/16 05:22 PM
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If you really want women then rejection won't matter. Losers lose and stay defeated. Winners learn from their losses and come back stronger because they have that desire to win. If you're questioning how to keep motivated then I think you need to revise your goals and why you are doing what you are doing. If you truly want women, an incredible sex life and some great experiences then that should be the only motivation you need. “Winners are not afraid of losing. But losers are. Failure is part o…
/r/seduction07/07/16 05:11 PM
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Be polarising. Weeds out the time wasters and the ones who actually dig it will be incredibly receptive. Any dummy with a phone can type "hi baby how are you?". Be the exception to the rule.
/r/seduction05/07/16 02:03 PM
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OP deleted their post...anyone care to enlighten on what was said?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 03:02 PM
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Yes he'll learn the truth that he needs to alter his approach and perhaps his appearance, his beliefs, his confidence etc. But he'd never know these things unless he actively pursued the truth. It's better knowing you need to change something rather than pretending everything is fine avoiding change that is necessary. "The truth being that women don't want him and he should sign up for the ForeverAlone kind of thing, and have his v-card indefinitely" Where are you getting the above mindset from?…
/r/seduction07/06/16 10:19 AM
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There are an infinite of correct responses to this but Rob Judge had a good mindset on this. He said instead of approaching and pursuing women, seek the truth...yes "seek the truth". As wack as that sounds it's genius. You don't go after women trying to get laid (although you want to get laid), you don't go after women trying to get a girlfriend (even though you might want a girlfriend), you don't go after her because you want her number/Facebook/Snapchat etc., you go after her because you want …
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:07 PM
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I agree that you can just touch for the sake of it. All men should want to touch a woman...with no hidden motive behind it. By nature, every man should be a touchy guy. Me and and my friends have our own handshakes for eachother whenever we see each other and when we say goodbye. I hug everyone I know platonically... I shake hands with everyone new I see.... It means nothing, its just something I/we like to do. It's fun...it's casual. It means nothing. To become "natural" at touching women comfo…
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:16 AM
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You're clearly not tickling her properly...LOL
/r/seduction08/01/16 08:27 PM
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You're going off on tangents again. If you really wanna discuss this we can do so. Please stop going off on tangents. You played the card buddy, but you're not looking at your own cards at all... It's fine rearranging my words...but using speech implies a direct quote...which is a noob move in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:36 PM
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I don't like to take part in these dick measuring competitions as they serve no purpose and a guy's lay number is what it is...but I get laid a lot.
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:27 PM
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I like to be honest with the girl from the get go. Honesty trumps everything in my eyes. Usually your vibe/attitude will let the girl know...well it should anyway. I act differently around a girl I just want to fuck that night compared to a girl I actually want to get to know properly. The latter is more of a case of "starry eyed" whereas the former just smells of lust. Your actions, verbals and vibe should display that mentality...again in my opinion. You'll only get a bad reputation of you lea…
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:24 PM
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Friday = weekend...weekend = good vibes...weekend = time to be social due to no work...Friday is the optimum time to approach women if you're confined to places other than clubs/bars. Friday is a great time to go to bars...lots of gigs are on so you can have fun, meet new people and approach without it being too noisy and it's all casual. You'll always be a stranger unless you actively make the decision to get to know people. Delaying action because you don't like Fridays will not do you any fav…
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:18 PM
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Lol, buddy you tried to quote something I did not say with speech marks...don't be acting all high and mighty now. Entourage game is supposed to create staggering social proof...and it's been found out to be a bullshit concept...hence why Adam Lyons went from hero to zero so instantly. It was flawed just like the rest of his persona. I am not in the PUA cult at all. Anyone who knows me in the community knows I refuse to accept anything from "PUAs"...in fact I despise them. Any "people" I recomme…
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:13 PM
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Give proper compliments...things like "hey love you're fucking class, fancy fucked?" is not charming and very polarising. You can still let a girl know you think she's attractive without being caveman blunt. Compliment the sparkle in her eyes, how her hair looks to well maintained and styled. Compliment her accessories, especially her shoes. Girls wear nice shoes for a reason....they wouldn't wear killer heels that fuck up their whole body just to "dance with the girls"...she's doing it for you …
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:08 PM
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Solid stuff here...other things I like to do quickly to break down that whole touch barrier is to have games of tickles...while having a general chat casually bring up something that alludes to tickles (things you hate most...what makes you laugh uncontrollaby (I like this one...it can refer to a time you thought you were gonna choke from laughing ->someone tickled me ->lead to tickle game)...then ask her "do you have tickles"...regardless of the answer start tickling her all over...the girl wil…
/r/seduction08/01/16 05:01 PM
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I saw what you said, but you're coming from a POV that says social proof is necessary...again you said yourself it was a rule. But it's not, if it was a rule everyone would do it...people wouldn't game on their own...people would game in groups of 10 rather than with just one wingman. I have been in a place few can say they have and actually tried out Adam Lyons' whole 'Entourage Game'...and just like it emerged he was full of shit and barely even slept with 30 women and not the hundreds he clai…
/r/seduction08/01/16 04:55 PM
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You said: "The first rule is simply to roll with a crew, preferably one that includes females, for social proof." 'Rule' denotes mandatory, necessary, something that needs to be done/followed. However, having social proof is not a necessity....that was my point all along...it's not essential. You said it was. That's where I object.
/r/seduction08/01/16 10:46 AM
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Another way of looking at it is comparing it to money...money can help you in all aspects of life...as can social proof...I never denied it doesn't help...but from post 1 you said and I quote "The first rule is simply to roll with a crew, preferably one that includes females, for social proof." Money can help you get chicks, but it can also inhibit you from other chicks...gold diggers...dishonest interactions etc...in the same way social proof can deter you. You seem to think that if you don't h…
/r/seduction07/01/16 11:23 PM
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Why are you trying to quote something I didn't say? That's rather odd... What happens in society does not apply to clubs though. The rules of society do not apply to clubs, hence why such sexual shit happens in clubs that is frowned upon outside the club...it's a jungle within a concrete jungle. The rules of business are different to the rules in seduction and vice versa. I really cannot believe you're comparing getting a house from a landlord to pulling women...really now really? Again it's not…
/r/seduction07/01/16 11:15 PM
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You were the one bringing Bill Cosby into this... that aint no stranger danger....that is creepy...again you were the one bringing Bill Cosby into this. It is not necessary to maximise results at all...there are countless guys who game completely solo and have tonnes of success...in fact the vast majority of people game solo. You don't need anyone to help you chat to a woman. In fact at times being on your own can be of benefit...a woman is more inclined to approach you on your own rather than w…
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:34 PM
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Girls will only think you're creepy if you act creepy around them. I have solo gamed in clubs a lot and have never come across a girl who thought I was creepy or once asked where my friends are once. She can find out if you're a pervert by sussing you out...just because you have friend nearby doesn't mean you're not prone to some sketchy shit. Bill Cosby himself was/is very popular. Again, social proof is not needed to maximise results...if anything, people can use it as a crutch which can lead …
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:11 PM
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I like the dance judge concept actually...instead suggest the two of you have a dance off which slowly escalates to the two of you dancing together intimately...then you're in there like swimwear.
/r/seduction07/01/16 10:04 PM
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The concept of social proof is mental masturbation for the vast majority. At the end of the day, it's you who has to approach her, chat to her, seduce her and fuck her...not your buddies or some chicks you know as part of your "clique". You do not need anyone with you to pull regularly. It can be nice to have a buddy with you, but it's not essential at all.
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:55 PM
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Well if you wanna fuck then why not be honest with the girl?
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:53 PM
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Well catfishing is super common...so I don't blame the girl. In future suggest swapping pictures...the misc. forum used to advocate requesting a "spoon pic" which was basically a picture of the girl with a random object from the house aka the spoon. Why should you be afraid of touching her? Women love being touched by guys...in fact they crave it "Nice" is such a terrible word...you're gonna have to elaborate on that.
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:52 PM
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Fifty First Dates...thank me later boys
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:41 PM
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Car? My first five or six lays were all in cars....it's not classy or romantic but bangers rights...it has to be done wherever you can. Rent a hotel/room is unrealistic unless you're guaranteed ass. You could suggest going to hers. I spent a week with no place to crash and ended up pulling just to have a place to sleep at night..asking if you can go back to hers is a good compliance indicator too.
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:40 PM
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The Geordie Shore lads are celebrities...they're always gonna have women throwing themselves at them. Gaz has always been a player though. I don't know his technique inside out but I know he's just ballsy as fck, good looking and knows how to have a good time. He's very flirty and he's not ashamed of his love for women. That's the complete basics of club game...look your best, go for it...just go for it...and be fun/flirty. Game is more about doing the simple things well and not doing the stupid…
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:37 PM
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Get Ozzie RSD's book "The Physical Game" and soak it all up. Bit of a long read but it's the best RSD product by a landslide. A PDF was floating around, hmu if you're stuck. It'll change your whole "game" and your whole attitude towards what's important and what's completely irrelevant. It'll obviously give you a good blueprint for escalation too.
/r/seduction07/01/16 09:33 PM
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One tip...never say "so first off, do you have a boyfriend?" It sounds awful.
/r/seduction06/01/16 08:29 PM
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She sounds like a cool chick...she wants to hang at your place...and get drunk...she's literally saying "come get me"...make it happen man
/r/seduction06/01/16 05:01 PM
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If she doesn't like you because of your race, delete the girl, block her from everything and move on. Why would you spend time with a racist...have some respect for yourself man.
/r/seduction06/01/16 12:55 PM
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It is a bit of a dick move, but in future, make your move on the girl before things like this happen. The longer you stall and pussy foot around, the less likely you'll actually get with the girl. Think of attraction as a flame, the longer you get to know someone without making your move/being sexual, the more the flame dies out. Also why the fuck are you telling your friend who you like. Be smart man. As for this situation, if she's avoiding you, just cut your loses and treat it as a 'learning …
/r/seduction06/01/16 10:45 AM
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Instead of getting them into the game, how about you get them to increase their confidence. Learning about seduction techniques and strategies at a young age can be seriously damaging to one's mind and psyche. You're only 16 y/o yourself, be careful dude. Becoming a better guy is great, just make sure it's authentic and not some PUA secret circle sh*t It's great you're reading How To Win Friends... best book you'll ever read. Maybe suggest to your brother you read a really cool book and give him…
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:42 PM
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Mainly it came from reading reviews. Anything with "quick fix", "magic pill", "secrets" etc. I ignored completely. Anything relating to natural, personal development and honesty was/is a good bet. For strictly seduction, "escalation" would be a key word, as that's what 'game' really is. As for guru's, a few I can recommend: Mark Manson (obvious...his books and articles are essential for life, not just dating/seduction) Rob Judge (his book is great, his old articles are super if you can track the…
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:33 PM
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Good for you my man.
/r/seduction01/01/16 07:36 PM
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With a mindset like that you'll never get laid...seriously. Block your ex and delete the number...she's your ex. Forget her. Start living.
/r/seduction01/01/16 03:12 PM
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You're too concerned about how you look on the dancefloor and if people are dancing with you. Frankly, you care too much. Women pick up on this and will be repulsed. They want some fun, they want to be with a guy who's in the moment and having fun at the club, not someone who's extremely self conscious. Beginner tip for dancefloors: Don't look at any women while dancing. Dance in your own zone, mentally and physically. Women will naturally gravitate and dance towards a dude who looks to be in hi…
/r/seduction01/01/16 10:56 AM
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Go for it then my dude! Fortune favors the brave I guess
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:54 PM
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Honestly I would find out first if they're finished. If so, make your move. If not, I'd suggest to meet up in private (house/apartment) in order to save your ass from people spreading gossip and other bullsh*t in case you are seen with her in public. Find out where you stand though for sure, yes.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:24 PM
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Blushing is a good sign generally. She might be shy generally and blush all the time, but usually it's a good sign that she's feeling a little hot and heavy (attraction). Perhaps you did make her feel awkward and embarrassed, but you could have done so in a good way. The hair thing should not be taken seriously. All women play with their hair. All women want to look good, whether she's hot for c*ck or is engaged with 5 years. In fact all humans want to look good. Preening (fixing hair) is one th…
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:11 PM
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Give her time. She still has a BF and technically she cheated. Let her come through with her saying they're about to break up. Chill a while. If anything you should keep your head low. People can get very aggro over the Holidays so keep your head low. If she wants something she'll let you know. A girl just doesn't cheat on her BF with a guy she knows with ages and then just ignores him.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:05 PM
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Number one rule of stripper game: Do not buy yourself a dance. As soon as you do that, the stripper sees you as a customer and not a dude. By wanting to chat and not get your dick hard from a dance, you're setting yourself aside from the 99% of other dudes who hae no idea what they're doing. If you must get a dance, get a friend to "buy" it for you. After that, tell her straight up "I don't want a dance, I just want to talk". Most strippers will oblige as they still got their money. Engage stand…
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:02 PM
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Go make your move. You have nothing to lose. Be honest with the girl and honest with yourself and no matter the outcome you can at least be happy you were true to yourself.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:37 AM
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Lie/sit on the floor. It can be very intimate having a convo whilst sitting on the floor. Give it a try.
/r/seduction30/12/15 12:34 AM
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Quit the "text game". If the interaction went well, she seemed receptive and seemed up for a hangout, go home that night and RING her, note RING not text to arrange a meeting ASAP. No text game needed, it's a waste of time and effort due to the fact you cannot escalate properly through text as well as the fact it's much more fun to conversate, flirt and escalate in person where you can see them and touch them. As well as that, far too much is out of your control through text. They have all the t…
/r/seduction22/12/15 11:32 AM
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Snapchat my good man. Snaps of you with your family, having fun with friends over the holidays...you can show her what she's missing, what you're doing (showing her you have a good life) as well as giving you an opportunity to keep in touch, flirt etc...as well as exchange pics. Honestly with snap chat, I think the conventional text messaging route is completely redundant.
/r/seduction21/12/15 10:23 PM
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If she messes up once I can be okay with that if she makes it up to me (arranges another day/date). If she messes up again I'll have to confront her on it. If she gets the message, another date is scheduled I cut her off nicely..."hey it's clear you're busy, hit me up when you're mind is clear and you have some quality time to hang out". Far too many women out there dude to be playing around with some chick who's not investing anything. Remember, actions>words
/r/seduction21/12/15 10:21 PM
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Make sure it's not some troll/catfish/sex bot. If they're legit you're golden. As simple as it sounds, arrange to meet up and take it from there. They already have played their cards so just follow it up and escalate. I do not see why you wouldn't be interested?
/r/seduction21/12/15 10:18 PM
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At the cinema is not ideal. In future suggest a drink/food and then a movie at your house or hers if she's uncomfortable with that. You can see each other, talk...it's all more relaxed and it can get intimate as there is nobody else around and PDAF isn't an issue. Kino at the movies? Don't try the classic sneaky arm around the shoulder...it screams desperate and a guy who does not know what he is doing. My advice would to restrict kino to sh*t like leading her into the seats (hold her hand..hand…
/r/seduction21/12/15 10:15 PM
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On average I make out with 3-4 women a night at clubs. That's on average. I have countless nights where I have made out with 7+ women a night, and I really mean countless. When there's alcohol and the dance floor about I am a liability to myself. I am a uni student so I go out 3-4 times a week. Some weeks I'll go out every night. I had my first make out at 12...and have been consistently getting makeouts ever since then. Since I was 17 I have been on very good form as I began to figure women out…
/r/seduction21/12/15 10:05 PM
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I'm 21, I'm over 100 lays...90% would be from clubs/bars. I've had over a thousand make outs at least. But I wouldn't say it's "success". It is what it is.
/r/seduction20/12/15 07:17 PM
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You don't need a fixed number of messages to ask her out...you're just making an excuse to delay action. I usually get their number...hit her a simple text, wait for the reply then ask her out...3 texts max. Next time she replies ask her out the very next text.
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:44 PM
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As I always say..."a woman doesn't put on that skimpy dress and those killer heels in the freezing cold just to 'dance with her girls'". They're trying to impress us and make themselves look as good as possible so that we might accept them and make their week by approaching them. Women are beautiful and fragile beings, who try to impress their males. The reason they may appear btchy and put up "sht tests" is because they are afraid of being vulnerable and being that "slut". They are extremely in…
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:05 AM
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If texting is a weak point, limit it. Phone girls instead of text...or keep texting to the minimum, use it to arrange and confirm dates and leave it at that. Let the seduction take place in person. It'll be more effective, more time efficient as well as playing to your strengths.
/r/seduction13/09/15 11:02 AM
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You got distracted by the pussy. For God's sake you were at a party, they weren't the only girls there....they invited you there probably because they thought you were cool and a guy they want to be around...when they basically ditched you that should have been your cue to mingle with the other people in the party, get to know new people and make new friends as well as meet new women...if the girls came back to you all well and good but you wasted a night worrying about these girls you just met.…
/r/seduction30/08/15 08:46 PM
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Good shit but it aint much unless you properly close it. The number means f*ck all most of the time....but your game seems tight enough so good job
/r/seduction30/08/15 08:42 PM
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Mark Manson - Models, 60 Years of Challenge, Rob Judge - 4 Elements of Game Also get up on that self help book sh*t. Dale Carnegie, Eckhart Tolle, Tony Robbins etc
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:12 AM
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You're showing your intent which is good as too many guys fall into the trap of playing it cool and never showing their intent and desire and thus the girl flakes or they end up as "just friends". Your drive is attractive to women, they want men who have a natural desire for them...it's good you're channelling it. But testosterone/estrogen conversations are weak as hell and weird. Dumb it down man, just get sexual with her...don't forget the power of touching the girl sexually. Also learn to cal…
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:09 AM
4

She has a boyfriend....let it go and stop wasting your time. There are millions of single girls out there.
/r/seduction22/08/15 08:58 PM
3

Push for more than the number. The number means very little, it's 2015. Asking for something like her snapchat would be more beneficial as it's used more than conventional texting. Skype is another good option. To be honest even married women could give you there number and it would mean nothing. In general try and push for more than the number...try get a kiss at least. It's concrete investment on her part.
/r/seduction19/08/15 08:00 PM
1

The apocalypse opener is a very fast an efficient way to get over AA if you actually carry it out successfully.
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:58 PM
3

You're over thinking this. Discard the ideas that everything is a test. You're not a unique snowflake, not everything a woman does concerns you or is due to you. What did you expect, her to just stand there on her own waiting for you? Man you could have went over there, said hi to her friends and show you're not some weirdo like you did by watching her from afar and not having the guts to go up to her because you think she was "testing" you. The vast majority of women want you to win, they want …
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:57 PM
3

I usually open with something to do with her bio, something to do with her name or if she has a peculiar picture I mention that. I rarely ever say "hey". The odd time I'll use the classic "there she is". 90% of the time I'll get a response. The opener will be light hearted anyway and usually I'll get at least a "lol" or a "haha" off them. Then it's clean sailing. Think about it, you never ask a girl to come home with you after a serious conversation. You make her laugh and while she is laughing …
/r/seduction19/08/15 07:54 PM
1

The thing with kino is, you have to be relentless. As long as she doesn't object to it physically or verbally you're doing great. Keep persisting and get bolder. A simple bump isn't kino. Grab her hand, give her a hug, tickle her etc. Be a man and touch the girl. Women love nothing more than a guy who knows how to get physical with a girl properly.
/r/seduction19/08/15 04:44 PM
5

How exactly did you talk too much and talk your way out of sex?
/r/seduction19/08/15 04:41 PM
2

I really don't get why people think they need to learn text game and Tinder game and actually feel the need to "game" women through text and tinder. Get their number ASAP and arrange a date in person. No "game" needed. You should have a date sorted within 3 or 4 messages.
/r/seduction19/08/15 04:40 PM
1

It's a numbers game. Height just makes the numbers game a little easier. It matters, but it's not the be all and end all.
/r/seduction19/08/15 04:38 PM
1

Great stuff! Learn in future to arrange a date ASAP
/r/seduction19/08/15 12:19 PM
1

The thing is the man must always pursue the woman...it's just the way it is. You are the pursuer and you pursue to the degree she permits, aka she is the pacer. Always pursue the girl until it's a flat out no...until you fully know it aint gonna work out.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:06 PM
1

Get clothes, get a tan, get in the gym and start working out...by the time you hit college it'll be a habit.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:04 PM
2

Get a wingman on your level.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:01 PM
1

Over a year.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:01 PM
1

Stop using auto liker and start looking at your women and liking/disliking them. It takes seconds to like/dislike one girl....you could have tonnes like in 10 minutes. Restrict chat on tinder. Get her details or number ASAP, within a few messages and go from there. Set up a date for the day or the day after if possible.
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:24 PM
0

Yeah not to brag but I'm in 3 digits.
/r/seduction18/08/15 09:44 AM
2

Sort out your logistics. One night stands depend a lot on logistics.
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:08 PM
1

Rob Judge - 4 Elements of Game is a natural system you can read and you it to your benefit as soon as you finish it and "get it". Brad P sucks if I am honest.
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:07 PM
1

You should have asked her on a date weeks ago, hell maybe months ago. Do it ASAP.
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:02 PM
1

Uhm....women that I don't find attractive? I don't discriminate, they can all get my love as long as I find them attractive ;)
/r/seduction17/08/15 08:01 PM
2

You should restrict texts to the bare minimum. Too much is out of your control via text compared to real life interactions. Use texts to schedule and confirm dates and meet ups and that's it. If you wanna keep in touch use snapchat or call her the old fashioned way.
/r/seduction17/08/15 07:58 PM
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Why should you buy her a drink? What has she done to deserve a drink, aka you spending your money on you? I only buy a girl a drink if she has given me something first aka a makeout. I always play it off too by saying "hey let me buy you a drink you did well there, good performance champ". By buying her a drink, you're more than less buying time to talk to her. And why should you need to buy her time? As well as that it's the thing 99% of men do, there approach is "can I buy you a drink"....it's…
/r/seduction17/08/15 05:23 PM
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I would disagree. I have fucked countless women who initially told me they had a BF. When I confronted them later on why they said it they say "it's a way to get normal guys to go away". I hate to use the PUA term but it's a shit test more often than not. I live by the motto, make the hoe say no, and until she walks away or tells me flat out no, it's still on. Persistence is key and it is instrumental to success.
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:39 PM
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The question is do you find women intimidating? Who cares what other men think...most men think it's rude not to buy a girl a drink but buying a girl a drink is probably the worst thing you can do when you first meet her.
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:07 PM
1

Often quick club makeouts can end up being a fail as some women get what they want, validation from the kiss. Maybe you're a bad kisser? Sorry to say it but perhaps it's true. Maybe she's just a girl that doesn't want to kiss early and when she did she got freaked out and resorted back to old habits. I always advocate a direct approach, especially in clubs. Keep trying the same things and if a recurring problem arises then you have to reconsider your approach. But more than likely it was just he…
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:06 PM
2

RSD are terrible for the most part. The only legit guy from RSD is called "Ozzie". His real name is Osvaldo or something. His book is one of the best books written in the seduction community. He has a few videos on YT too.
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:42 PM
1

The Game is a great book as in it's a great novel. But in terms of self help advice, it's terrible. Models is probably the best seduction book written.
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:38 PM
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Usually the boyfriend card is bullsh*t. I normally respond with "OMG me too" in a sarcastic gay tone and I pick her up and swing her around. Other times I say something like "That's great you have someone to buy you nice shoes and jewellery" or sometimes I'll be super direct and say "It's okay he can have you back tomorrow". Basically I ignore it. The boyfriend line is where a lot of guys fall at the hurdle. By having any other reaction other than "okay sorry" you're ahead of the league. She may…
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:36 PM
2

I am afraid that in clubs looks matter a lot more than in normal circumstances. It's just the way it is, if you look sh*t, you won't pull. Advice for clubs....don't ignore the dance floor. It's the best place to find lone wolfs and duos. More often than not the lone wolf and the duos will be single and they're on the floor for one reason, to let loose and have some fun. Take advantage of that. Waste not time dancing with your "buddies" or on your own trying to build value, just pick a girl and d…
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:33 PM
3

Yes of course give it a go. The thing is you are 16 years old, you are still virtually a baby, If I had one piece of advice for you is to stay away from any PUA techniques or books and just focus on building your confidence, learning social skills through direct interactions and focus actively on having a good life. Simple tips: Relax - they are just women, beautiful and fragile creatures that want to be approached, talked to and desired. Make their day by talking to them. Body language and non …
/r/seduction17/08/15 03:25 PM
1

Learn to laugh at yourself. Women love guys who don't take themselves too seriously and are not afraid to admit when they're wrong and awkward. Women are insecure as f*ck so when you can empathise with them and allow them to relate to you it makes them feel more comfortable in your presence. Don't get obsessed with the whole beta/alpha thing...you're over thinking things. Just do you and ditch the whole alpha/beta frame of mind thing. You'll only appear as a tryhard. True alpha's don't have to b…
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:42 PM
1

Yeah why not? She probably isn't interested tbh after all the history but you have nothing to lose. But get outside more and don't rely on dating sites. I like to think clubs, bars etc. are the lean meat and the gym while online dating is the supplements, the non-mandatories.
/r/seduction06/07/14 07:36 PM
2

Find out why you are freezing up....are you afraid of the woman? Are you afraid of "screwing up" and looking stupid? Are you afraid of not knowing what to do? Afraid of rejection? Whatever it may be find out the cause of you freezing up. I think you've a mix of the four tbh. Look it, you have nothing to lose, it's a club, chances are you'll never see that girl again. Be in the f*cking moment man. Realise that women are in a club for the exact same reason you are, to meet people and have fun. Emb…
/r/seduction06/07/14 06:03 PM
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