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This isn’t seduction. But nevertheless you should accept that it’s over. You both have long ways to go and will change drastically in the years to come and it is very likely that regardless of her parents approval you’d still break up eventually. Logistically this relationship will not work. Her not unblocking you sends a clear message. Be a man and move on.
/r/seduction01/02/24 04:58 PM
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Girls have way more matches than guys do. It is likely that your profile will get pushed down if a bunch of guys message her after you do. If she doesnt have a lot of time to go on dating apps she might not even see yours. Double texting pushes you back to the top. And you get the chance to captivate her again if the first message sucked. Obviously dont do it too quickly. Send the first message and she doesn't reply in like 2 days then maybe try again.
/r/seduction22/01/24 11:13 AM
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Gotcha. I live in Cali and while I’ve been around the world I’ve never been east of Nevada lol. Glad you’re having success, it’s just the first thing to stuck out to me and I had to ask.
/r/seduction21/08/23 09:06 PM
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Nice man. I do have a question though. How does a 20 year old girl work at a bar? Last time I checked you have to be 21 to work in a place that primarily sells Alc.
/r/seduction21/08/23 09:03 PM
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I stopped reading when he said “it was in Asia”
/r/seduction15/08/23 04:16 PM
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“No worries, have a nice day!” Or if at the club and she blows you out : “have a good night, maybe I’ll see you around!” Is my default. And I had girls who kinda blown me out re-engage me at a later point of a night.
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:49 AM
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I started solo daygame this summer and have done exactly what you have described more than once. And it is very frustrating. You feel like when you’re with your buddies you can laugh about the rejection, they’re your safety net, and it feels a whole lot easier. But they won’t be there for you at all times. I advise to kill AA, the first approach for a session you actually wanna be direct. This will give you an instant accept or reject and also show you that it’s ok to talk to random girls and ex…
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:42 AM
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Hell yea bro. Maintain the frame
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:48 PM
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Feel free to dm me. I'd love to talk more about this stuff and compare notes
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:24 PM
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Usually when girls do this, they are pretty drunk or high I'd say. In that case, IMO, the right thing to do would be to avoid. I see it at clubs all the time, old/desperate dudes trying to grind on the drunk girls and it looks creepy and is just wrong. Back to the point of : have some standards and self-respect.
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:06 PM
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Yes it happens. A few have been cute but most of them were girls I wouldn't really go for. That doesn't mean we should ignore them though, I find talking to these girls gives you a bit more social momentum and social proof to the girls around you. My best experience with this is when I was at a party playing pong with a girl and she asked for my snap after, then I started dancing with friends and a girl walked up to me danced with me and we made out, then some other girl who mustve seen this app…
/r/seduction30/04/22 10:53 PM
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Got deleted again before I could read it lmao, can someone PM it to me
/r/seduction20/04/22 06:14 AM
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I wanted to see the original post damn
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:11 AM
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As someone in college, ik for a fact that unless you are a very attractive guy or rich, no girls want an older guy. I see it all the time. Older dudes who hit on 21 year olds at the bars and it sticks out like a sore thumb and girls find it creepy on the most part. I say go for city.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:54 AM
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Saying " i have a busy schedule, but" seems forced. Any girl who knows a little bit about flirting will know you are making yourself out to be scarce. I'd throw in a "maybe we should grab a drink sometime", smile, and leave. The busy part you can convey when she asks "how are you".
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:23 PM
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This exact thing happened to me too couple months ago. It could be many things honestly. Here are a few of the highly possible ones: She found someone she was more attracted to She suddenly got together with someone she already liked and during the time you were talking, she used you as a backup or filler person Something serious happened in her life and she is not in the mood to talk to people. This happens. Had a girl stop talking to me for a month then hit me up telling me she was going throu…
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:54 AM
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Mewing is mostly bullshit. Sorry to burst your bubble, but just a cope. Most of it is genetics. If she doesn't want you just because of your height, then you don't want her around anyway. Maybe list your height on your tinder bio to avoid them
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:49 AM
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On Tinder girls can afford to be way more picky. All the guys are there in her hand. In person it's just a few good looking guys and the rest are average. Also online, it is harder to tell what you are like as a person. Some people look like their photos but the behavior conveyed can be totally different because pictures can be staged.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:47 AM
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lmfao
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:45 AM
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Nobody is gonna fix your emotional baggage for you. The only person who can get your shit together is you. Until you can do that, you are probably right. Take time off approaching and fix your issues before trying to improve.
/r/seduction18/06/21 10:02 AM
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I'm glad you had time to process those thoughts man. Remember with working out that it is a marathon not a race lol.
/r/seduction20/04/21 10:19 AM
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Where are you planning to do approaches?
/r/seduction13/04/21 08:10 AM
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lol I think a lot of people stopped reading after "me wanker will fit"
/r/seduction13/04/21 07:04 AM
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Yep, total power move that screams: You're not a necessity. Glad it helped.
/r/seduction13/04/21 01:04 AM
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The girl is one of the points you described lmaoo
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:26 PM
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Ok this made a little too much sense in my situation
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:40 PM
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To be fair I only known her for one day lmao
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:39 PM
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I am also primarily in LA and would be down to discuss possibilities
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:37 PM
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Dating apps mainly. But I’m also starting to have in person lab classes. My main goal right now is to improve my approaching irl
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:35 PM
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I used to deal with anxiety, depression, and some clinginess too so I understand where you are coming from. You may be afraid that you finally found someone, but they will leave if you don't keep conversing. Just remember that " the one" doesn't exist. There is no one girl who is meant for you and vice versa. There are so many people out there that would be a great match to you. So while in the mean time it stings, just know that she is one of many. Don't reminisce too long on what could have be…
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:11 PM
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I respect your input. By fitting you in I don't mean telling you to come to where I am at, just means don't base your day around a girl you aren't exclusive with because there is a possibility of flaking and ruining your entire day if you have nothing else to do. I am not telling people to be manipulative ****s who trick girls into liking them, I'm simply telling them to match the girl's interest levels and not give more when it is not appreciated. Thanks for the comment
/r/seduction12/04/21 05:26 PM
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No i get it. I just think you might've taken the word "better" and overthought what I meant by it. I agree that you shouldn't measure your self worth based on others, that's pretty damn obvious. But comparison is not wrong. Would the USA have gotten to the moon first if they didn't compare themselves to the USSR? Would the amount of technological advancement and discovery have followed if it weren't for comparison? I have people that I admire, like most, and I like to compare and think " what go…
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:26 AM
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That is a bit out of context. Like it or not the act of you not comparing yourself to others does not matter because she does the comparing. And to her, there will be those who are better. While you say you dont compare yourself to others, I highly doubt that, because while you may try, you are a human, a social animal, and you will watch the behaviors and characteristics of others and cross reference them with yourself because it is instinct.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:06 AM
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That's actually a pretty cool analogy. Never thought of it like that.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:01 AM
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How does he do this. I don't know much about Tyler but I wanna know
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:57 AM
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Maybe I wasn't clear, but better means better looking and higher value. If you don't think that realistically there are men who are better than you, then you are either arrogant or in denial. It's not about putting yourself down, it's acknowledging the fact that these things happen and you move on to the next one and strive to be better.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:53 AM
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Mystery's stuff focuses more on building sexual relationships and he explained a bit about how being intimate with a girl too quickly could cause her to have regret later on if you do not manage to build comfort prior. But they both have good takeaways.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:44 AM
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This happens way more often than you think and I have friends who are girls who can attest to this. Sorry if you don't like the truth, but if you get ghosted that is a very big possibility.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:41 AM
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A lot of it got taken off youtube. But Mystery's infield is still all over youtube. He taught the RSD guys the fundamentals. Some stuff is outdated though so watch out. James Marshall from The Natural Lifestyles has very good infield. In fact he has his students do infield too so you can see where they make mistakes etc.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:36 AM
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This is awesome stuff I'm glad it helped you out. I wanted to ask you about the two women at the gym part. I hear lots of girls hate being approached at the gym and I find this difficult because I don't want to disrupt their workout. What did you do and say?
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:36 AM
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tips fedora*
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:26 AM
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Firstly if someone gives you permission it's called an open relationship not cheating. So what you are suggesting is every woman try to have an open relationship. If you expect some woman to let you "cheat", would you let her do the same? If your answer is yes, then great, good for you, that is your preference. If not, then well, that just isn't fair. So no, I don't think a woman letting her SO "cheat" is an effective way to sustain a relationship LMFAO
/r/seduction03/04/21 12:26 PM
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" Let your man cheat" LOL
/r/seduction03/04/21 12:12 PM
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You come across as an absolute chode for thinking you can find some magic pill to regain your girl's attraction. Whereas the only problem is you. Maybe you should sleep over it and read what you wrote again. Im not even a frequent poster on this reddit but again you're assuming. Millionaires aren't even that impressive anymore. I got my life set as well when I leave college my major will help me transition to a 6 figure salary job. Stop hyping yourself up thinking money can solve your issues.
/r/seduction16/01/21 11:06 AM
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Yk for someone who calls themself miguel the honest, you sure are dishonest with yourself
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:59 AM
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All of what I suggested is not game. It is me purely telling you to focus on your life and make yourself better and make your relationship more interesting. I tried, you refused, and as such you can talk to the hand when she eventually breaks up with you and you beg her not to. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:57 AM
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Facetime her first. It would make the meetup much less awkward. You get a feel for her personality live, and she gets a feel of yours. Don't go in trying to get laid, just try to have fun first and if the opportunity presents itself then take it. Plan out some places that are safe from covid, maybe like a hike, the beach, or any other outdoor activity. You don't have to wait for her to text you first every time, but it's good to have a balance. And don't ask stuff like: how was your day? Wyd? Be…
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:51 AM
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Sorry man. Think again. I'm not the one being obsessed with a single girl and refusing advise from people you asked from and labelling them "autistic". Your personality really shows and I can kinda see why she is unsure about you lol. And no, I am not projecting anything onto you, relationships aren't for me. Stop assuming pls.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:45 AM
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Well that's rude of you. I was just trying to state the obvious and you took it rather badly. It's clear that you she thinks you're way too clingy and it shows in your reply. And a million dollar business don't mean shit to her if she's not attracted to you. She might fit you, but you might not fit her. Grow up.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:40 AM
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Continue pursuing other women and be abundant. Post more fun stuff that you are doing on your story so she sees how much fun you have (Be aware of Covid please). Invite her to some of these events. Separate yourself from your friend a bit more (not too much but show distinction) so she doesn't see you as her ex's friend but rather your own person. Act like you are confused as well and don't know whether you want her or not. Let her know in a not obvious way that you are screening her.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:37 AM
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Be more unpredictable and spontaneous. Instead of doing the same things over and over again switch it the fucc up and show up out of nowhere to take her somewhere cool. Focus more on your passions and interests, develop yourself and make yourself higher in value to show her that she is a supplement in your life.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:32 AM
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I am a guy and i have done this. Usually at the cafeteria or class. At a cafeteria I ask em if I can sit, then I proceed to just shoot the shit. Most of them would appreciate it, cuz being a lone can be awkward sometimes and you sitting down and talking like they're your new friend makes them comfortable and makes you look like a chad. For classes, just introduce yourself to people around you, ask about hw, other things, find similar interests, invite them to things.
/r/seduction16/01/21 10:28 AM
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Before the pandemic I would attend quite a few parties as well, but I quickly found that most people just wanted to get drunk. My tolerance is relatively low when it comes to alcohol and so I don't have as much fun when I play drinking games. How do still have tons of fun with the boys without having to drink. They never pressure me, but when I don't I just feel kinda left out haha. I try to compensate for this by always going 100 percent with dressing for the themes.
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:34 AM
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I say that my success is fair. I have over 100 matches right now, but yes during this time it is hard to turn them into actual dates. You should try Hinge also. For Tinder I find that a significant amount of girls are on there for validation purposes but on Hinge they tend to actually want to date.
/r/seduction10/12/20 11:17 AM
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That's a shame. I prefer hot girls over cute girls ;D
/r/seduction08/12/20 09:34 PM
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I remember the first time I ever tried this was outside of a club at night in the UK and the response I got after I said : Hey what's your name? Was : Fuck off. Hahah. That put me off a bit but I eventually got over it. You gotta keep exposing yourself to discomfort to get used to it. Great stuff.
/r/seduction08/12/20 09:32 PM
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It isn't much of a relationship then is it? And while you think it is intense and hot, another girl might find it creepy, especially if you don't smile. And no, her being in a relationship doesn't mean you cannot talk to her. It might mean that if she is loyal she will not let you get romantically involved, but if you don't just march in and say " Hey you're cute wanna hang out", then she might be more accepting. I know this because this happened with a girl I got involved with. She had a boyfri…
/r/seduction08/12/20 08:03 AM
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Do not go clubbing with the sole intent of trying to get laid. You're also there to have fun, feel the atmosphere, dance to the music, have drinks. Show the girls you're having a fun time and if you're going solo then form a group that you use as your comfort group ( this can be a group of dudes). Then you can switch back and forth between approaching and going back to your friends. As Heath Ledger in the Casanova movie puts it : " Be the flame not the moth"
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:55 AM
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A look can mean anything though. She might be wondering why you're staring at her. If she smiles back at you then she probably is interested. This is how I would go about it. You want to establish who you are to her so you're not just known as the guy who stares at her. Get to class earlier to talk to her or see if you can sit next to her and talk casually about something. Crack a joke or two, do well in the class, and ask to maybe study together. Get her insta or Snap. Then go about as you woul…
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:51 AM
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How much did you tease her? Should have called her a weeb haha
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:07 AM
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Great stuff. Wish I had the comfort to do this more often. Usually when I go out and do this kind of thing I build the social momentum like you by starting with friends and then eventually random strangers, then the girls. I take a lot of time mentally preparing for this kind of thing though, would be cool to learn to make it a casual habit as you did.
/r/seduction08/12/20 07:05 AM
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Wherever you're living in. Not the answer you probably wanted to hear, but you should use the people already available to you as practice and then use those acquired skills to meet others on your travels. Unless you're rich and can randomly move into a penthouse in Vegas, then yea go to Vegas.
/r/seduction08/12/20 06:53 AM
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To be honest Facebook messenger is a very dead app, and I am willing to bet that the reason she didn't reply is because she rarely checks it because of how dead it is. If you don't have an IG or Snap might as well start one now. Remember she isn't the end, there's a lot more girls you gotta prepare for.
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:07 PM
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Here is my take on it. Right now you are on the path to becoming her friend and if that is what you want that is perfectly fine. If you want to romance her though, I feel like you have to change the dynamic a bit. She hasn't seen you for a while? Good. Use that gap to refresh and show her your potential BF side. So how do you go about this. You have to be subtle but try to deduce whether she is interested in you/finds you attractive. You also have to let her know you find her attractive but not …
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:42 PM
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First of all, props to you for cold approaching on campus and doing well. Im a 2nd year and I done a few things to try to improve my game but ultimately succumbed to relying on dating apps instead of improving my approach game. What I realized I did before then compared to now was that back then, I had a more open mind and I was seeking adventure more. So I would do things such as: approach a group of random people in the canteen and ask if I can sit, talk to girls sitting next to me or arrive t…
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:28 PM
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I agree. For cold approach I have talked to girls in nightclubs, for social circles I have met girls through friends, and for online I do the best here. But, that isn't necessarily a good thing because I got so used to being a good and comfortable at being texting that in a way it made my real life game shit. The whole pandemic situation isn't helping either. I also feel that in person, girls would be able to gauge your personality better and you can have a better shot at connecting.
/r/seduction07/12/20 01:20 PM
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