The pandemic had be very anti-social and just flat out lazy, but after returning to college, with some motivation, I went on a party/bar bender over the weekend. I am 21.

1st day: Didn't approach girls at a party but one walked up to me and we chatted. I asked for her snap but never got back to her. Girl: 6/10

2nd day: Went to bar, was lining up outside, see a girl and realize she's British and I that I studied there so I open with asking if she was from there then exchanged experiences in the UK after asking basic questions like major, year, etc. Asked her for her snap and she got my phone and entered it in, but the next day never added me back. Girl: 7.5/10

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3rd day: Felt a bit hungry and confident. Went with 2 friends. Went to a party, walked around the dance floor and drinking game tables.

Girl 1 and 1.5: I see a cute girl and her friend and I open the girl I am interested in and we proceed to talk. She seem like she wanted to keep getting to know me, but i was a bit nervous so I left. Then after dancing a bit I walked right back and asked for her snap and she gave it, I saw her friend pull out her phone and fumble around with it so I could she wanted it too, offered to add her as well and she did. Solid 8/10 and 7.5/10 respectively.

Girl 2: Asked my friend if he was interested in any of the girls. He told me of one who was standing with 2 other girls. I turn around and beeline over and introduce myself and my friend to the group. My friend didn't say much as he was nervous so I did most of the talking but didn't secure her out of respect for my pal.

Girl 3 and 4: In the same friend group. 10/10 girl 3 and 7.5/10 girl 4. My friends went out to get air and I was dancing and happened to wander into their vicinity. Struck a convo about usual name, major, year, party related stuff. 10/10 was so intimidating I didn't ask for contact info. However, on my way home I run into these girls and they recognize me and after talking, enter their snaps into my phone. Very lucky of me.

Girl 5: Just some girl who saw me sweating like crazy and commented on it. The party was hot af so it was justified. Talked to her a bit then gave her to my friend cuz she wasn't my type. Nice girl, but i didn't get her contact.

Girl 6: This was a high 9/10, model material. I was chilling outside while my friend was talking to the girl 5. Girl 6 walked out and stood against the wall to cool off. Seeing as I was next to her I struck a convo, talked about her major, why she chose it, commented on her outfit. Asked for her snap and got it. These events were prior to girl 3 and 4.

Results:

I texted all of them. All of them except girl 4 took quite a while to respond to messages. Girl 1.5 snapped me on the very same night but next day grew colder. Girl 1 responded to one message and then didn't open my message. Girl 3 still responds to my messages but again takes forever and seems to have party girl syndrome and did not carry the same emotions she did when we spoke. Girl6 also takes quite a while to respond but when she does its positive. Girl 4 is very responsive.

Analysis:

There is 1 girl I for sure lost and that is girl 1.5. Across the board it seems that most girls were more enthusiastic in person when talking than on text with the exception of girl 6.

My question:

What should I include in my conversations to create a better impact that will lead them to want to hang out? Is there anything I can do right now to improve the response times and investment from their end? Any experiences securing a girl that cares more about drinking and partying than going on dates?

Thanks for reading!