JakeBergerOrg Archive

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2	Best cities to pickup and live. I haven't been to Thessaloniki. My views, and experiences, about dating have drastically changed in the 3 years since I'd written this post. (Perhaps it's part of the evolution in self development) Now, I avoid cities & society. I've started discovering my Purpose, engaging with Yoga, Tantra, meditation, plant medicines… and have discovered places which support those activities. I currently live on the edge of the jungle, outside a small village. (Population: less than 3000) "What about girls?!"…	/r/seduction	31/10/21 06:44 PM
2	Best cities to pickup and live. From the original post would not be hard to live in the US (although illegally after some months) I hope you're joking or have deep research on this:) I'm American, and even I get hard-questioned when returning through U.S. Customs... "Beautiful women" isn't subjective if we look at it from a scientific perspective (body symmetry & ratio;) Given your priorities, you're looking at a city with population over 1 million.. Which narrows it down to mostly capital cities... Next filter is for personal…	/r/seduction	13/02/18 12:09 AM
2	Would you re-pound a one night stand? no other woman is available Which village are you living in?;)	/r/seduction	01/02/18 07:39 PM
1	Best cities to pickup and live. I've lived in 7 different European cities over the last 5 years (visiting many and more in between), but... I couldn't tell you which one to pick, because my mind-reading device didn't pass through Polish security;), so... What are your top priorities? ("pickup and live" aren't specific enough.)	/r/seduction	01/02/18 07:36 PM
2	How do you test the boundaries with a much older female coworker/supervisor to see if they're DTF or possibly could be with more work put in? You seem cool. Would you like to get a drink Wednesday evening? If she agrees for drinks without you giving a solid reason, then she's most likely DTF. A 'solid reason' would look like this: Oh, you graduated from Falcon Heights too? What do you say we get a drink Wednesday evening and talk about the broken wing on the statue If she agrees after you say something that detailed, then 'lean' into sex starting with sexual innuendo.	/r/seduction	11/09/17 08:44 AM
1	I (17M) am afriad that my college major will repel girls, what can I do to be more confident in myself? I was an electrical engineer there were 3 girls in my college graduating class of ~40... All 3 girls were unattractive. Find the fun, sexual girls at artistic groups & events: improv theater dancing cooking painting/drawing/pottery are more solo, but still gonna be girls	/r/seduction	11/09/17 08:36 AM
1	How to become truly empathetic? "You should be more empathetic" my then-girlfriend once said to me I had NO idea how to be empathetic and I actually searched for books on Amazon.. there isn't much out there, but... I have become empathetic. I can feel people... The reason I couldn't feel people before is because I had so many internal blockages... caused by mother abandonment trauma & emotional abandonment from my father... Talk-therapists are mostly garbage (researchers have proven that emotional trauma requires physical rele…	/r/seduction	11/09/17 08:23 AM
1	Best results tracking methods objective is to develop a habit... measuring an internal habit Awesome! The original post started off as "methods of tracking approaches and •results•" The best way I've found to level-up is to discover the pattern, by reflecting back on the most recent 10 or so interactions... for example: I'm getting a lot of flaky numbers... Then to focus on that one big domino of emotional impact Every conversation, I go with the intention of telling a story or digging deeper p.s. improving via 'approaching'…	/r/seduction	08/09/17 09:11 AM
1	I just want to have fun, instead it's a chess match with all these stupid rules My biggest leaps came when I stopped piling on mechanical tactics and started releasing emotions Explore social & expressive hobbies such as dancing or improv theater Learn storytelling Realize that if she's standing in your presence, she likes you	/r/seduction	07/09/17 03:20 PM
0	Best results tracking methods A question I challenge you to ponder: How internally fulfilled can you become when you place that much weight onto external results? Mindset note: "cowardice rate" is a terrific term to reinforce cowardice	/r/seduction	07/09/17 01:21 PM
2	What would the r/seduction 4x6 index card say? I used to do weight training but discovered something that: Gives you 'calm within the storm'. Trains you to switch off the mental chatterbox & step into your body... Yoga, as girly as it could sound, is the hardest physical exercise I've done (I've competed in well over 20 sports ranging from American football to 'The Big 5' weight training to table tennis).	/r/seduction	07/09/17 12:59 PM
6	What would the r/seduction 4x6 index card say? I currently have 10 or more lovers scattered across 3 continents. All of them have come in the last 15 months when I started doing this #1 thing: #1: Stop piling on mechanical techniques, and start releasing emotions. First Interaction: Before/During/After Breathe for 20 seconds <-- (switch off the mental chatterbox) What can I offer her? <-- (dissolve fear of rejection, feelings of unworthiness) Imagine, then step into a moment of appreciation/gratitude <-- (antidote to anxiety & fear / puts yo…	/r/seduction	07/09/17 12:55 PM
1	So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it? The positive reframing isn't a 100% good mechanism.. There can be a negative side to the coin.. Because if something 'bad' 'happens to me', I reframe it to the positive, BUT.. I rarely share the transition from bad to good, I rarely share the mindset shift.. The negative side to that coin is: humans connect through vulnerability & empathy.. Since I only show the good picture, the mechanism comes across as a shield. The shift then is to share the insecurity & story that lead to the reframe	/r/seduction	06/09/17 08:31 AM
1	So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it? Thank you:) I was in a 'Growth House' project... 5 of us guys living together for 4 weeks, focusing on personal growth.. The most common feedback I received was on my ability to mentally reframe a situation from negative to positive.. These days, I actually get into a joyful play state while meeting girls on the street.. (It wasn't always that way;) If you have any more questions, feel free to message me:)	/r/seduction	05/09/17 08:36 PM
1	So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it? Thanks:D I've met 100's of (probably over a thousand) girls in everyday situations.. with multiple lovers in different countries (and continents).. so I have a different perspective than most. If you have any questions feel free to message me:)	/r/seduction	05/09/17 08:33 PM
29	So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it? Today I was on a date at a chocolate-themed coffeeshop. The server handed me a menu, I looked but didn't feel like drinking or eating... Therefore I ordered nothing... But I didn't reject the waiter. I didn't reject the coffeeshop. They have offers available and I can accept or leave. Your 'self' can't be rejected when you extend an offer. Instead of thinking "I got rejected." what if you thought "She didn't vibe with my offer." ...?	/r/seduction	05/09/17 07:48 PM
1	Very few girls at my college, how do I go about this? but when flirting with a girl, there is usually the hidden layer of creepiness. You can't really get creeped out by a person being friendly with you What if you started out friendly transitioning to flirty? Once the interaction is flowing... this marks a good time to layer in your intention (drop your awareness to your groin)	/r/seduction	05/09/17 07:35 PM
1	Flattery If she's model-beautiful, then I compliment on her fashion. If she's naturally beautiful, then I compliment her with my desire. If she's cute, then I give her a direct compliment.	/r/seduction	09/07/17 12:00 PM
1	I'm a guy who's starting to charge woman to go on dates with me through craiglist and backpage. What's your current rate? Honestly this seems like a more entrepreneurial thread.	/r/seduction	09/07/17 11:56 AM
2	Over the past 6 months, I've dated 9 different girls. My former girlfriend used to call me "Aspy".. short for "Aspergers" (a social awkwardness disorder). After we broke up, I didn't let it become my story. And now things are MUCH different. A girl is coming over tonight and I have another date tomorrow:)	/r/seduction	09/07/17 11:54 AM
1	what is your specific way to getting a girl to chase you on a first interaction? I only converse on text to: arrange logistics ping her to keep me in the front of her brain Anything more than that is a waste of time. A question to ponder.. "Why do I need a girl to chase me on text?"	/r/seduction	09/07/17 11:50 AM
1	Hey Seddit, if you were to travel or live somewhere for a month to improve your game/life in general. Where would you go?! Where would I go.. if it was my first time living abroad? Berlin. Cheaper than most Western European capitals. Multi-cultural and indie. Most people age 35 or younger speak conversational english. Eastern Europe is just a bit too wild for a first place. Your smoke detector's gotta be on all the time until you adapt. That's no way to let loose. (Living in Europe for the last 3 years in 4 different cities. Just starting my 5th city. Travelled to 18 of the countries.)	/r/seduction	02/07/16 09:15 AM