Flattery

cockycomedy · 2017-07-08T21:14:14+00:00

Complimenting. It’s easy to go the wrong way with compliments. A compliment here and there is fine, but avoid overdoing them. They get boring quickly. How you compliment her matters a lot: “Oh, you look soooo beautiful!” — This is lame. You are putting her on a pedestal. You praise her looks — she has heard this a thousand times already. Her looks are genetics. She can’t influence that. Another bad one: “Nice ass!” — Macho-style compliment. This is again a stupid way to do it. Compliment your buddy’s girl to your buddy like that, but not the girl you’re seeing. If she’s hot, she likes to be complimented because of her personality, style or general outlook. No one does that. She’ll be flattered by your noticing it. Tell

her she has a beautiful smile and that you like it when she smiles. Tell her she has nice earrings and that you like her taste. Tell her that you like her perfume and that it’s one of your favorites. Compliments should always be short, to the point and uncomplicated. “Your eyes look like a hundred shining stars in the moonlight.” — Leave this one for the poets. Just say: “Your eyes are beautiful. I like looking at them.” The way you speak is very important. Be calm, relaxed and not overly excited when complimenting her. Speak slowly, look into her eyes and smile. Charm her like a real Man. Deliver compliments in a slow, soothing, seductive voice. Don’t act like Romeo and overdo the seductive part, because it will sound stupid. Be casually confident in your role.

Guiseppe Notte

I have complimented my ex on her looks about 7 times in a year. Each time it made her blush, say "thank you" and hug me and give me a deep throat blowjob: "you... are..so... beautiful.. " That's it. I think the first one was after we started dating (meaning, after the first date).

If I had done it 70 times, chances are I wouldn't have as much power and status in the relationship, and she would be like "okay, thanks.. I guess..".

Makes sense?

Also don't compliment her looks on first approach unless you are extremely good at delivery. Brad Pitt, James Bond can pull it off. A PUA with 2-3 years of experience can. A beginner can not.

I've listened to an "AUDIO Field Report" of a guy trying to solicit his bootcamps and skype lessons on this sub; where he goes up to club girls and gives them free compliments as if he works at the compliment restaurant and the boss lets the employees have the unsold compliments to take home at the end of their shift. The guy's voice tone, accent, delivery and the women's nonchalant ignoring-reactions were so cringeworthy that I couldn't listen anymore. I wanted to throw up.

Chances are Shia Le Buff (or however it is spelled) can pull off approaching a woman with a direct compliment to her looks. Mark Manson can pull it off.

Rookie pua with 100 approaches can't .

Compliment her purse, her shoes, her hair, her bracelet, the way she runs, the way she bla bla. They are okay! EVEN BETTER, if you make them into backhanded compliments by adding a line after a pause and make her laugh!

"He complimented me. Then he insulted me. But it was FUNNY AND I CANT STOP LAUGHING!"

That's the feeling you should aim to evoke within women. I don't mean insult as "you're a dumb bitch!", but try "I don't usually compliment girls I've just met, but let me say ; you have great taste in men" - raise your chest, look around like a cock among its hens. fix your clothing.. Get it? No insults.

souljabri557 · 2017-07-09T03:37:37+00:00

My default state is extremely teasing to a fault. Every other sentence is making fun of the girl I'm talking to (I think they call it negging). I need to use more flattery personally.

JakeBergerOrg · 2017-07-09T12:00:43+00:00

If she's model-beautiful, then I compliment on her fashion.
If she's naturally beautiful, then I compliment her with my desire.
If she's cute, then I give her a direct compliment.

Title	Flattery
Author	Verypneumatic
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	July 8, 2017 5:20 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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