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I remember your last post. You need to be on the lookout for baby rabies. But if you're careful, I guess not. Have fun.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:02 PM
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This depends on where you are. Where I live, there a lot of fruit farms that are loaded with European workers during the summer. If I were a teenager again, I would do something like that just for the experience, social side and physical benefits. Basically, if you are just looking for a temporary gig as a teenager, do something FUN.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 10:00 PM
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A lot of disconnect here for someone like me. However my perspective would be, even if you can live extremely comfortably off of this mone y and it's yeild. You are probably going to find that you need to DO something. The good thing is, you may be in a great position to figure that out. I'd spend some time finding someone reputable that can help you use that money wisely, all while figuring out what work it is that is going to be fulfilling to you. Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedie…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:58 PM
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Honestly, yes. Things are opening up a bit more here, I've got my son booked in for some kickboxing, there are a few clubs about to open up again. We head into town, parks etc quite frequently. I do see a fair amount of signals when we're out. The only issues are, single mums, approaching when I'm with my kids. I could be making more of a concerted effort to socialise while we're out. We're approaching the summer break so I'm going to be having them out and about as much as possible. I'll use th…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:34 PM
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I'm glad I could offer some perspective. Best of luck
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:35 PM
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Above all else .. Guide my two children into becoming well functioning adults that navigate the changing world to the best of their abilities. Everything else is periphery.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:50 AM
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You seem to have 2 conflicting states of mind going on here man. On one hand, you're very aware of the situation and danger you are in. On the other, there is a part of you that hopes this will all just go away. Either way, you need to take a second here and look at this situation for what it is. Take yourself out of the situation and look at this objectively. If someone came to you with this problem what would you say to him? Now I am not the most RP guy, just learning the ropes myself. But I a…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 06:48 AM
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I'm sure there's links in the description. It's hella expensive.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 06:54 PM
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Only a consistent male role model can do that. Children become what they see, not what they are told. The only way is for a man to come into his life, and be the type of man you want him to be, simply by being around him. You can chose to do that if yo wish, which is admirable, but alot of responsibility. I see alot of young boys out there is single mother households, or in households with weak men. They are fucked. Any child growing up with a strong, balanced male influence in their life right …
/r/askTRP19/06/21 08:21 AM
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I think the best question to ask here is, are you in shape? IF you are, I understand where you're coming from, if not, I think you should let her see you increasing your value and not worry about it, she'll either follow suit or you'll meet someone better.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:52 AM
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Okay man. First things first, you realise how silly this was, good. DON'T do it again. When I was 18like you, I never used a condom. I'm now a 35 year old single parent to 2 kids. Their mother already had 2 kids when I met her, yes, I was BP as fuck. Let me tell you some things I've observed as I've got older. Women WILL get pregnant on purpose. Women WILL LIE about birth control. Women with children already are MORE LIKELY to get pregnant again. Women will LIE ABOUT WHO THE FATHER IS. Women WIL…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 07:47 AM
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I don't trust women that don't want kids. Unless she's like, 18 or something.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 07:39 PM
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Nobody has said well done, I understand what you're saying is this is a win for you. Crawl before you can walk type stuff.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:25 PM
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Mate. These are the best years of your life
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:30 PM
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I used Vaping as a lesser evil. I just never took it out the house.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:29 PM
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Me. I used vaping to curb the nicotine withdrawls. VAping was pretty easy to quit when the machine broke, as I wasn't going to spend money and wait on a delivery.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:29 PM
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Just don't say anything stupid. At her age, her mind's made up.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:27 PM
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The first step is just accepting that things are shit. That you don't know what the fuck to do, but you're willing to just go through it. You don't have to be on high constantly, life just isn't really like that, life is ultimately hard, and it only really gets "easier" by going through hard things. I'd recommend looking into Stoic Philosophy for the majority of young guys in this forum.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:19 PM
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You build confidence and doubt yourself less by continuing to do the thing that is hard. It doesn't matter that you sucked, what matters is you want to do it. Give it a few weeks and nobody will give a fuck. You have to bear in mind in moments of embarrassment, that nobody goes home thinking about you, nobody really gives that much of a fuck. It's sad but it's true, you're the only one lying awake at night thinking about your own problems, everyone else is thinking about theirs.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:16 PM
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Bro that aint love, that's just good sex.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:07 PM
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Honestly man, I just tell people my sets are on the clock and to catch me later. people are generally cool with it, and in the gym, it's one of those situations where people respect the work ethic
/r/askTRP17/06/21 04:39 PM
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God knows mate, but the more blunt I am with people (mostly respectfully) the better I feel and the better my life gets.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:57 PM
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Honestly man, just OWN being a simple guy. Sure, jump on some hobbies, follow the guidelines in here, make small steps to improve yourself. Confidence in YOURSELF is what you're looking for. No real need to pick up anything new, just push what you are doing. You draw, push it, think about getting some gigs, selling some work, or starting up social media shit and put your work out there. Be that guy who's a kick ass artist. You do Archery, compete, not to win but for competing's sake. Have photos…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:50 PM
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Never been a stallion, I do okay, there's been periods in my life when I've just cum too quick, it okay because I've found ways to work around it. To me sex is always more enjoyable when a woman is losing her shit, to be fair if it was all about me getting off, I don;t think i'f enjoy it as much. Wether that's ego or validation I don't care, it's the truth. There's a chapter in Tim Ferriss' 4 Hour Body that talks about thrusting techniques that don't feel as extreme and she actually enjoys more.…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:33 PM
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I guess that's contextual, I'm a full time single father to two, and our local school has been great for my kids, and for a man in my position, but I can understand that is relative to a lot of factors. That being said, I wholeheartedly believe that a woman that wants to be cared for so she can raise a family, is perfectly acceptable, provided she plays her part well.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:21 PM
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To be honest, I think at this point I understand it from a biological perspective. Out with birth control, Women spend so much of their life actually physically incapable of doing much else other than nursing children I.e periods to pregnancy to nursing ad infinitum to menopause. Obviously now in society things are different, but from a natural perspective I can understand the provider man and stay at home woman dynamic. Not saying I’m cool with it, or that’ll I’ll do it (again) just that it mak…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 09:57 AM
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I've found that A simply turns into B. Alot of women start trying to cut the bullshit when they begin to notice their looks and interest from men fade. A Doesn't have to try so hard, so zero fucks given B Has a bit more life experience, probably had her party days, started putting one extra weight etc, quality of men decreased, and so it trying harder. IF you are looking for one woman that can add value to your life, you want it to be someone that makes how you live easier and doesn't cause resi…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 06:37 AM
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That's the plan with the studies. In the meantime it's low maintenance extra cash and gives me free time to study
/r/askTRP15/06/21 07:00 AM
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As a single parent of 2 that started again a couple years back, I find this inspiring.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:59 PM
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You're right in that's it's probably the wrong word, I'm generally respectful of people, so likely not narcissistic, more just honest and uncompromising on my persepctive.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:54 PM
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I don't experience much citicism to be fair, most people and quite encouraging and I tend to get along with a lot of people. I just can't help but be frustrated at saying the same things over and over you know? But at the end of the day, I know I'm on the right track for myself and my kids and I won't let it hold me back.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:52 PM
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Thanks for your reply! I'm definitely feeling like I want to start reaching out to some new people, it's a strange experience, but to be honest, I'm okay with it.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:50 PM
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Thanks man! I'll be trying to exercise more patience with people, while doing my own thing.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:49 PM
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I feel you. I think alot of guys on here are just saying what they think they should be saying. I tend to only pay attention to people who express some real rationale. Best of luck to you!
/r/askTRP14/06/21 06:47 PM
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Just wanna chime in because no else has and say congratulations on overcoming your battle. You've now been through shit alot of other haven't and you'll only end up stronger for it. Right track, get fit, get healthy. I think the dancing idea is great, I've seen guys who are WILLING to dance, even if not great dancers, have fucking great success on the pull. Let's just hope the clubs open up where you are.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 05:05 PM
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Highly recommend
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:17 PM
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Starting a basic novice program will be the best idea. Plenty of them around But the important thing is, just start going, even if you’re ducking around, just make ahabit out of it, and you’ll likely figure things out
/r/askTRP14/06/21 03:38 PM
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You might enjoy/benefit from looking into Stoicism
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:44 PM
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Keep doing it.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:40 PM
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Sounds like my step dad. Good thing you moved out, things will start to get better as you distance yourself from negative input and surround yourself with better input. Realise your father is just a man, doesn't own you and ultimately regardless of how fucked up he was, chances are he was actually trying to do better than his parents. He was child once too that went through some shit and it left him the way he is. Move on, be the man of your own house. You don't answer to him anymore
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:39 PM
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John Gray of "Men are from Mars .." and RP perspective is probably a solid combo
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:27 PM
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Different forms of meditation. The idea is not to think about anything, easier said than done. Or rather to n=just observe thoughts. Generally, when a thought enters our mind, we follow it, it goes down a little road and tells a little story. The idea of meditation is to be aware of thoughts coming in and out of the mind, when you're meditating, something will come into your mind, and instead of following that thought and letting it build, you just observe it and let it pass. Headspace app has a…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:26 PM
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I'd get therapy of some type bro, your earlier experience is enough to fuck anyone's head up I guess. People can give you all sorts of advice but you'd probably want to hash this out with someone with a great deal of knowledge. I second what u/senor85oh says about shrooms, but that's often not a popular opinion and to be honest, is probably best used in conjunction with some sort of therapy. Lastly, forgive yourself, you were a child and had no idea what kind of issues that might lead to, you're…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:26 PM
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Just chill. Let her hit you up when she gets back.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:20 PM
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The headspace app is a good place to start. That's a generic answer but it's true! Journalling is great. Cognative restructuring ala Cognative Behavoural Therapy is also quite useful. Basically identifying why you feel or think a certain way, and coming up with other reasons or stories as to what might be going on.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:20 PM
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Do you meditate? The main bonus, or type of meditation I've found beneficial, is watching thoughts come and go, creating a sens of awareness that what goes through one's mind, isn't always a reflection of you, but just a reaction based on your conditioning. I've personally done well by just stopping and asking myself "why do I think that!?" and going over other possibilities for scenarios.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:54 PM
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I'll give you one. One night a girl has him tied up, they do the deed and she leaves the room, he's chilling there, still tied up and in comes her cat, sprawls out on his crotch and starts trying to lick his balls when she walks back in "it's not what it looks like" kind of scenario. The trick is, he doesn't just come out with the story, it might stem from a mention of pets, or cats or the like. He might even casually bring up animals to get to the story down the line, this is the point, he does…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 04:21 PM
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I have a mate who has a knack for comedy, if it works for you what he does is get onto the subject of some hilarious sex story, that kind of smoothes your way without coming across creepy. Once he's on the subject of sex, it always leads to him getting laid. I know this is second hand info and only works if you have knack for storytelling, but I think it's a much smoother way of approaching it than trying to come across all smooth and seductive. Unless you're real good at that. You could even ju…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:58 PM
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Yes, that Derren Brown. Basically he's been drawn to Stoic ideals for alot of his life and had been writing the book for some time. It's very far removed from what we know him for. Interestingly, it's the best written book on Stoicism I've come across. He includes ideas and practices from other well know philosophers and psychologists aswell.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:49 PM
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Look man, real talk. Women will lie and get pregnant if they so desire. They can lie about being pregnant and lie about who the fucking dad is. I NEVER wore a condom, I'm now 35 with 2 kids, I fucking LOVE my kids so no regrets, but I've had to change my stance. The bottom line is YOU need to take responsibility for your parental destiny and not put such a massive decision in the hands of someone you don't know. I've had women tell me they're on the pill as I'm about to put one on, and I simply …
/r/askTRP12/06/21 10:10 PM
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We all want a bad girl in bed but someone who has no experiences. We have to reconcile the inconsistency of this logic.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:31 PM
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Did you give yourself such a hard time the first time you rode a bike and fell off!? At least you didn't come in a minute flat dude. RP is useful, but it's also sometimes useful to remember you're just a human being.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 09:25 PM
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I say this to everyone that mentions mental health issues. Read Happy by Derren Brown. It’s not what you think. Changed my whole life.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 07:41 AM
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This! Might not be a popular opinion but as a virgin, you probably don’t wanna overwhelm yourself with outcome dependence. You’ve more to gain from the actual experience of spending time with a woman than learning how to fuck based off some instruction you read off the internet. Just enjoy the day, a few more dates and it’ll feel more natural and it’ll all happen in good time. If I were in your shoes (a virgin) if only set the bar as high as going on the actual date
/r/askTRP11/06/21 03:13 PM
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I've been through this exact scenario. Got tired with my BPD ex interfering in my life, mustered up all evidence I could of slander, kept calm, rational and lawered up. Cease and desist. End of the story. Keep all the evidence you can for future "attacks"
/r/askTRP11/06/21 10:36 AM
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Happy by Derren Brown is an average book. Really helped me understand how to cultivate my own wellbeing.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:46 AM
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I don't comment here much these days, but this one got me. Like alot of others have said, AA, get some help, there's nothing wrong with holding your hands up and looking for help, like you're doing right now. Support can go a long, long way. I'd like to share some perspective that might be of at least a little help, I've struggled with addiction myself, and have had family members suffer deep into alcoholism, I even lost my mother to it, although truth be told, ultimately it was misery that led …
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:09 PM
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Elliott Hulse literally put a video out a few days ago on breathing exercises that make men cry. Maybe worth checking it out?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 12:36 AM
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Just for comedic value, local court in my town just closed a case about an extreme false pregnancy. I know this girl, apparently fell pregnant and lost the baby twice, got money from the guy's family members and even went as far as to turn up at family events with a prosthetic bump. Yeah, women will fake pregnancy, I've been there, if you don't want to get this one pregnant, get out.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:16 PM
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It's unfortunate but men that are not very self aware can become jealous of their sons. Many people see their children as an extension of themselves. If you think of it from a purely social dynamic perspective, many men will put others down to make themselves feel more important, this can happen in family too. I personally hope my son grows up to be better than me. You're situation is complex because, you don't want to take his shit, and if he were anybody else, I assume you wouldn't. But at the…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 09:07 PM
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I feel you man, craziest of experience of my life dealing with. Ultimately made me stronger and gave me the motivation to figure this stuff out more though. That sounds like a great idea, I actually find it can often be easier with multiple kids around, they keep each other occupied. House full of boys man, my mum always said she was glad she had 4 boys and only one girl so perhaps you dodged a bullet there, they must have a lot of respect for you. Thanks a lot my friend.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 11:27 AM
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BEat me to it
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:10 PM
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Yeah I like Rich, some solid Dad perspective too.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:15 PM
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Literally the hardest thing I've ever experienced, made me pretty tough in some respect though. Thanks alot
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:14 PM
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There's alot of truth to this, I'm literally so out of practice even talking to women atm. Used to have a social job and I can definitely feel the difference in my social abilities, even more so with lockdowns atm. I would spend some time even at the school socialising with other parents but atm nada. To be honest, the older I've gotten I've wisened up a little to women being attracted to me, but I honestly do still lack confidence in regards to "pulling the trigger" and rejection. One thing I d…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:14 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate that! It was important to me, some people can't understand it but I'm the one who has to answer my kids' questions when they're 30. Hopefully one day I'll be in a position like yourself where she pulls herself together and we can have something better for the kids, but I kind of have to let her figure it out. I don't stoop to the level she did though and I always keep things open for her to visit, contact the kids. Thanks on the tips man, seems as though the general cons…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:05 PM
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There's a lot of solid advice in here and I appreciate it! I agree with you about putting myself first so to speak, I'm the one holding things together so I do my best to make sure my kids understand some things just need to get done. I do get a night every couple/few weeks to myself, but to be honest, haven't been planning much around that. You're right in that I need to make that a priority, and take responsibility for making something happen. I'm putting my best foot forward in terms of self …
/r/askTRP27/01/21 12:00 PM
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As Bill Burr Said "It's like the bald guy that shaves his head, he's just trying to get out in front of that shit"
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:34 AM
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Pregnancy scare = next. Also you probably care that she has a boyfriend because you're not an asshole.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:33 AM
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I don't trust women that don't want kids. Side note, most men think they don't want kids, until they have them.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:32 AM
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Stan Efferdings 10 min walks after meals. After I eat a meal I jump on my cross trainer for 10 mins. It would be handy to know what your sleep, diet and exercise are like?
/r/askTRP25/01/21 10:29 AM
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Sounds risky. That being said, if you're into it, have a legit conversation and tell her, in this day and age, I'm not risking a fucking rape charge. Tell her you want to film consent and sex if she wants it. That being said, prolly still not worth the risk
/r/askTRP24/01/21 10:25 AM
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Young brother, she doesn't want you. When it's young and it's the first time, it fucking hurts man, but just understand that in 1,2,3 months time, you're going to fucking fine. You're not going to die, and as long as you keep learning this stuff and from the men in this community, you're going to be doing better than ever. Go no contact, delete the number etc, not in a dickish, just because it's going to help you. I know it's condescending but you're young man, not every 19 year old was a ruthle…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:22 PM
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I'd be getting into some heavy occult kink with this one
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:10 PM
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I know this sub is mainly about RP philosophy, but in terms of actually being in a functioning relationship, it might be worth expanding one's horizons a bit. Understanding a man's cycles of depression and going into the "cave" is important for both you and her to understand. She's shit testing you and making it about her, she needs to understand it's not about her
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:06 PM
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Another form of resistance training you might want to consider that'll keep you engaged is kettlebells or barbell complexes. Also sometimes with weight training, the boring element can come from your parameters, straight sets etc. Maybe try some for of circuit, emom, density training, something that's "on the clock" helps you to forget about the monotony due to being engaged. Other than that I guess it's maybe a casual sport for you. Some form of combat class could be quite fun if current restri…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:02 PM
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My personal recommendation would be go again, but detach somewhat. Maybe blow her off or be busy once before seeing her again. Show her you don't need it, a little pinch of disinterest. And honestly, going round there again, I'd go round not giving a shit if she fucks you or not, if she start giving the come on, make her do the work, tell her if she wants it, stand up, take her clothes off and sit on it. If she wants to fuck you she'll make sure it happens. If she gives you another excuse, I'd s…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 08:57 PM
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Single 24/7 father of boy (4) and girl (5). ​ I honestly believe the majority of our beliefs and identity form in the early years and are mostly based on modelling the behaviours of our parents. We do as they do, not as they say. Be what you want your children to emulate/strive for. That being said, there is so much much that is ultimately out of our control, and rather that "protect" them from the world, I try to teach my children to be aware of the world, to ask themselves good questions about…
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:33 PM
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When this happens to me, with women, or any other aspect of life, and I find myself looking back to a "better" time. I always ask myself, what was I DOING then!? Example would be, when I was in better shape, what was I doing that facilitated that. And don't get hung up on the results, just do the work and you will re imagine that version of yourself. We are what we do every day and all that. ​ At least that's my 20 pence.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:45 PM
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