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| 13 | How did this convo with an actress/model go?Look, again, this will be a good learning experience for you. Every guy who has a girlfriend, a wife, or lots of women today was in the same place as you 15 years ago. You are at the beginning of the journey and currently you don't get the game or women yet. You still believe in politically correct tips from movies like: be nice to her and make her laugh. That worked for Leonard and other guys in Big Bang Theory but it doesn't work like that in real life. I am not saying that you shouldn't be ni… | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 10:08 AM |
| 49 | How did this convo with an actress/model go?You were boring/vanilla in your messages You were giving too many compliments Trying too hard Writing too long messages and still not being able to create any spark or magic in these long messages But, even from her first message it was clear that nothing was going to happen. When you read between the lines, your conversation looked like this: You: Hey! I am sending a message because I haven't seen you in a long time and I really like you. Her: Hi, thanks You: How are you? What are you doing? He… | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 02:48 AM |
| 9 | How to have masculine “energy” in a charismatic way?Who told you to be enthusiastic and to smile all the time? It's an old school advice, but ask yourself: how would James Bond talk/react in this situation? He surely wouldn't talk in a high pitched voice and smile all the time. That is creating some friendly-needy-eager to please-I don't argue with people-vibe. If you don't agree with something, just say it. And lower your enthusiasm to neutral levels. Don't smile like a puppy. That's some weird advice. It is good for making platonic friendships … | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I’ve done everything I can to become sexually appealing but women in college won’t just give me the time of dayA set of rules which have shown over years to raise your chances with women. From the simplest: Stand straight Don't look down Don't wear clothes which don't fit Muscles are better than zero muscles Having friends is better than having no friends Being successful in sports/job helps Don't bomb her with messages Don't use childish emojis in messages Don't say: I like you before or after the first date Don't ask her for the second date during the first date Don't ask: do you like me Etc Now, try t… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like I’ve done everything I can to become sexually appealing but women in college won’t just give me the time of dayIf you still go to school, then the game is different. You can't randomly approach girls like in a day game because you'll look like a weirdo and you'll soon get a bad rep. In school, the game is different and you should make connections through friends, playing some sports, being liked by guys and girls (social proof) etc. You don't even try hard. Just be normal, have friends, have hobbies, be relaxed, have fun. And girls will notice you. School game, bar game and date game each work differentl… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like I’ve done everything I can to become sexually appealing but women in college won’t just give me the time of dayYour ratio also improves. With no game, 1 in 30 girls will like you. With game, 5 in 30 will like you. So, it's a numbers game in both cases, except that with good game it's "a numbers game with a higher success ratio". | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 12:26 PM |
| 4 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?You are looking for a relationship. Majority of posters here (50 dates in two months) are just playing the numbers game, trying to date any girl who is attractive and their end goal is just to have sex and move to the next target. In that sense, when you ask: where do you work, you are honestly asking that question to get to know the other person. For men from this topic, it is mostly: be fun, be mysterious and cocky, don't reveal too much, keep your frame, escalate, take her to bed. They are no… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests - what are they? When are they being asked? And how do you pass?Agreed Something like: 1. guys are good guys when they start and they don't get any girls 2. Then they start to be dcks and they get some girls 3. A few years later, they find something in between The same is with game. 1. In the beginning most guys don't know how to talk to women at all 2. With some tips and tricks it starts to work 3. But after a lot of years, you stop using lots of these tricks since they are childish, phoney and often cringe. It doesn't mean that all the game is fake and bad… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backIf she lives near you, you don't have to go for a date right away. I mean, she lives near you, you'll see her eventually and you can build it up in a slower, natural tempo before calling her out. She is not some girl whom you have approached (daygame) and where you'll never see her again. I know, you probably heard replies like: don't text too much, call her out. Texting is not for chatting but for arranging dates. Well, that works for a daygame and online dating. If a girl is your friend, a nei… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Think I fucked it by texting backI wanted to write the same. Thanks for letting your dog play with my dog I'll text you tommorrow Sorry this, sorry that I am free whenever you want (wtf? It sounds as if you don't have a life and you are only waiting for her message 24/7) You are acting as if she is a celebrity and you are her fan for 20 years. As some others have suggested, just imagine that she is not a pretty girl but your male friend. Would you send these weird messages and apologies to him? Or imagine if she is some unattra… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 3 | When is an opener considered “too strong” or is the person just not into me?A few questions: 1. How handsome are you? If you are handsome, you can pull it off even with a mediocre game and texting. I have made several tests on dating apps over years. For example, once I made 3 profiles on the same app in a smaller town. My profile (I am of average looks), a hot looking guy and an ugly guy. My profile got 20-30 matches, hot guy got 100+ matches, an ugly guy got 2-3 matches. But look further: I got only 1 girl texting me first (average guy), while with a hot guy, like 30-… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | When is an opener considered “too strong” or is the person just not into me?So, effort is low value but saying: I like you from the first message is not a low value? I mean, if it works for you, do it that way. But don't blame women, Tinder and everyone else then for weak results. A number of options doesn't change the basics of the game. About the part: if she likes you, she'll reply... Why would she reply? The only thing which she can see are your photos. So, we might say: if she likes your looks, she'll reply to your low effort message. On the other hand, there are t… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 06:37 AM |
| 0 | When is an opener considered “too strong” or is the person just not into me?A mix of interesting, witty question about her based on her bio and pic. You could also add some teasing. If she likes traveling, you can open with: have you been to Tokyo (some place where she probably hasn't been)? If she likes running, you can add a light teasing like: are you faster than me? If she likes music, you can troll her with: have you heard any of my songs? She'll say: are you a musician. You: no 😎 And find your own style of jokes/banter/witty. You'll see that it is way better than:… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 13 | When is an opener considered “too strong” or is the person just not into me?Each person has a different style. Imo, the openers where you give a compliment right away are SOOO BAD. Every attractive girl gets 100 of those messages every day. Why on Eearth would she pick you out of 100 guys with the same opener? Further, when you say that she is your type, she'll ask herself: why? You don't even know me at all. You haven't spoke to me at all. Am I your type because of my looks? Anyway, I don't see a logical reason why would you ever open with a compliment. You are making … | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Ideas to bet something with the girl and get a date with herYour goal with women is to be a win for her. Going out with you or kissing you should be a win. If you chase a girl = you are needy and not a win. If she is scared of you = you are not a win. If you are creepy = the same. In your example, making a bet feels similar to "tricking her". So, there is no natural attraction or her thought: "wow, this guy is a win". Instead, she'll feel as if she has been tricked into a date with you. It will end bad either way: 1. either she'll reject your date/offer … | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How should I proceed with this girl?Logic answers => Flirting => Call her out Don't go straight from "How was your day?" to "Let's go out!" An analogy: if you take a girl home, you need to kiss her, have some nice time before having sex. You (usually) can't just open the doors, say: this is my room, go there, take off your clothes, we'll have sex now. You need some transition in both cases. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:19 PM |
| 27 | Women are visual creatures tooYes and no If looks is that important, how come that women like drug dealers, Mick Jagger, tribe leaders in cavemen days etc? If we'd go into extremes, if women had to pick between the most handsome guy ever and the bravest guy ever, majority will pick the bravest guy. Also, how many times can you hear from women that some guys are pretty but just don't have "x factor", or they are boring, needy etc? Being handsome helps. But so does game, money, social status, an element of danger. If you are a… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:38 AM |
| 4 | Girls always flake on me from online dating and just in general I’m a good looking guy who’s tall and have gotten flaked on 10 times in a row now what’s going on?Cute is not too good. It is leaning towards: you are so nice, I like you as a brother. Personally, I would rather get a negative remark or no remark at all than being called cute by women. Puppies, children and girls are cute. Men should be manly if you want to get dates. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls do this?Maybe you are a normal guy. But tons of guys are weird and the more a girl replies, it's harder to get rid of them later. If she just ghosts him right away, majority of guys will leave her alone. But if she exchanges a few texts and THEN ghost him, guys will send tens of new messages asking: hey, why, what happened, why are you not replying, I thought we had a good chemistry. Further, women often explain that if they say: sorry, there is no chemistry, lots of guys don't accept it and continue wi… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:53 PM |
| 8 | Discussion about beautiful girls and not looking good guys in the clubIn movies women prefer guys who look movie-clean (like models). In real life, tons of women prefer more manly looks, beards, not "too perfect looks". Btw. you don't sound too confident yet. These guys probably have a better game, more charisma, an element of danger. Attraction is not only about looks and chatting. Add: money, social proof, charisma, bad boy elements, elements of adventure, game. A nice shirt and a nice haircut are only a small part of the attraction formula. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle the "what are you looking for?" question?It depends in which country you live and how old are you. If you are from Western countries and texting with a 20 year old girl, chances are 50:50 or 33:66 that she wants something casual. If you are texting a 40 year old woman, 90-95% of them are looking for something deeper. Also, if you are not from Western countries (but from Eastern parts of the world or more religious countries) 90-99% of women are usually looking for something more serious, even on dating apps. I am not going to tell you … | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 171 | Does smoking weed get you laid?Guys doing drugs have some sort of a bad guy/an element of danger vibe = attractive for a lot of girls. If she likes drugs and you like them too = you have something in common. in terms of social status, girls who are into money will like rich guys. High school and college girls will like popular guys from their social circle, girls who are into art will like painters, art teachers etc. Girls who are into EDM music will like DJs etc. My point: in each social circle, based on her preferences = a … | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why girls says that shit and ghosting?As others have said: if she says "no", some guys will get angry other guys will ask: "why? Give me a chance, you'll see that I am awesome once you get to know me" All in all, ghosting men or giving flaky answers is the simplest way for women to "run away" and they hope that you'll "read between the lines and leave her alone". | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 08:24 PM |
| 37 | Should I text her back?Don't ask her why it took her so long. Wtf It's so needy. Send her a message and hope that she replies. You don't ask: "why don't you like me" type of questions. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?A lot of guys show too much interest right away and that is a turn off for a majority of women. Like: omg, you are sooo amazing, I already miss you, sending 50 messages every day etc. Maybe it's not a turn off for you, though. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:53 AM |
| 5 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?I don't know if we are allowed to paste links here, try to Google: studies on playing hard to get. Here is a conclusion from science daily: "Findings A person who is perceived as hard to get is associated with a greater mate value Study participants made greater efforts on/and found more sexually desirable those potential dates they perceived as hard to get Study participants made greater efforts to see those again for whom they had made efforts in the first place Says Reis, "We all want to date… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 18 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?If you are texting, you can say: you are ok-ish/not as bad as I thought, let's go out for a drink 😉 Don't give her any compliments besides that one. If she ever asks you: do you like me? You reply: you seem like an interesting girl, we'll see where it'll go from here. Basically: I like you, but I am not 100% sure yet. You have to convince me/you need to offer something more besides being hot. And as you see, you'll be different than 90% of guys who are chasing them/totally losing their heads aft… | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 09:41 AM |
| 35 | Is it best to show interest or make her guess?Actually both. Show her that you like her, but not how much. You have the best of both worlds. You have both showed intent and made her guess (how much do you like her). | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Following up an ignored DM openerOk, if you are following her, then fine. But still, she knows you to some extent and she didn't reply anything. That says more than enough about her interest. I thought that you don't know her at all. Lots of guys just spam DMs of 100 unknown cute girls and then wonder why don't they reply. Anyway, the story of you and her is probably a lost cause, sorry. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Following up an ignored DM openerDMing random girls on social media is the same as daygame approaching. A lot of women don't like that, no matter what Pua guys say. In that sense, if you have DM'd an unknown girl and she hasn't replied back, then leave the poor girl alone. Every restricting order story starts the same: "but I just wanted to show her that we would be a good couple if she only gives me a chance." She is not interested. Respect that. ** one more tip, women in general are not too crazy about texting/meeting random … | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Following up an ignored DM openerIn general, you are dead in 90% of cases if she doesn't reply to your opening message. But, on dating apps, you can try one more time since at least you have matched. On the other hand, if you are DMing someone on Instagram who never gave you any hints that she wants to be approached, then you are borderline harassing her. For dating apps, if you'll ever want to send the 2nd message after no reply, try to send something interesting/funny and hope that she'll eventually reply. Your reply from you… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | I dont get it. I constantly see guys in relationships with females absolutely mogging themFor younger girls, "a typical game" from internet PUAs is what attracts them. As they get older, it is less about looks, cockiness, djs, players, confidence and more about money, being successful at your job, being able to pay bills and have a good life, being a good husband/father, having similar interests, giving them peace, "fighting together" against the world/bosses/bills/health problems/mental stress etc. If a girl is 18 or 21, your muscles, height, Instagram profile or being popular at yo… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 08:54 AM |
| 84 | A girl started repeatedly hip bumping me. Is that considered a sexual move?Yes Girls don't touch men whom they don't like at all. Especially with their hip/ass area. If you are her friend, she'll touch your arm or treat you like a son/brother. When she touches your ass, that is a different story... | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Actions don’t match her words, just want opinions.If she is mentioning FWB option, you surely have a chance. Do your thing and lead her from now on, she'll probably follow you. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | how far in advance agree on date and what to do in the meantimeYeah. I'm not missing right away. Something like: texting for one night (she has a nice time), don't text her for 2-3 days. Text her again 5-10 messages forth and back. Don't text her for 2-3 days. This is a high risk behavior. You might lose, but if she falls for it, her interest level will be quite high on a date. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 11:41 PM |
| -1 | how far in advance agree on date and what to do in the meantimeI often go missing for 2-3-4-5 days. In my experience, a lot of girls get hooked even more. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 08:59 PM |
| 10 | how far in advance agree on date and what to do in the meantimeDon't text her everyday. For example, if you talked on Tuesday and agreed to go out on Saturday, I would text her on Friday with: Hi, how's your day? And after that: tomorrow at 6 at xx place? That's it. If you text her too much after setting the date, you are moving towards Friendzone. Less is more. Let her miss you. Attraction happens when she misses you and wonders about you, not when you text her every day. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:11 PM |
| 34 | Do girls get more attracted to us if we have a nice body and workout often?They are popular due to a social proof = they are insanely popular. If you are a celebrity, you can survive without muscles, humor or even without any game. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Flake Out Of No WhereTrue. On internet, we usually hear: she moved on because you were weak, needy or easy to win. Sometimes it sounds that if you act like a man, every woman will want you and there is no other way to lose a woman except if you are weak and needy. In this case, the author hasn't made mistakes. But still, maybe she didn't like his personality, maybe his tempo of asking for sex was too fast, maybe her newly found religious views don't comply with modern dating. Not being weak and needy is the first st… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:15 AM |
| 4 | Why do women reject you if they’re attracted to you?Agreed, very bad advice | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Dont UnderstandWhen girls want to ghost you, they do it in one of 2 ways: 1. they ghost you right away after your move 2. or they send you a few messages and THEN ghost you like some sort of "gentle ghosting" This gentle ghosting often happens if you work together, you go to the same school or you've been friends for years. In those cases a girl doesn't want to be a total jerk, so even though she wanted to ghost you right away, she still texts you for some time. And she hopes that you'll read between the lines… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | imma be honest it seems like you need to be a narcissist in order to be attractiveEven in cavemen days, the strongest warrior was the ultimate alpha of the tribe. So, nothing has changed. Women were always attracted to men who are: 1. physically strong 2. mentally strong 3. leaders 4. brave/adventurous 5. confident 6. successful in something 7. popular/admired in your social circle/tribe These are the things which create the first spark (attraction) in a woman. Only after that she will test your IQ, whether she can trust you and whether you are a good person. Being a good and… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Failed a really big/obvious shit test on 3rd date, I think. What happened?Stop asking yourself whether it was a shit test. Shit test is just an invented PUA term. Some will say that it was, some that it wasn't. It's irrelevant. you made a mistake with remarks about her car she made a wtf reaction after that (she is also strange) you made even bigger wtf move after that Regardless of shit tests, in the future be more careful with teasing. Some girls will like you even more, some won't like it at all. So, try to "feel" her. Also, your reaction was over the top. Even if … | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How does a regular guy get laid?Friend of a friend way, bars, online dating, approaching | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Ghosted after first dateIntelligent and less intelligent women are attracted by the same things. That is like saying: "smart guys don't like big boobs". Well, they do. And in the same way, intelligent women also don't like guys who are needy or easy to win. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 6 | Ghosted after first dateIt sounds counter-intuitive, but don't text her after the date that you had a great time. I know, people don't like games, but you need to play games on the first few dates. If you don't play games, you'll end this way = ghosted or friendzoned. As some others have replied: during the date you had to talk, have a good time but also you should have added some man to woman chemistry/vibe. After the date, you don't send anything. You text her after 1-2-3 days. In your case, sit and wait. You can try… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Am I bad at texting?Those type of questions are killing the interaction unless she is crazy into you. Try to ask something more original and more interesting. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 02:01 AM |
| 291 | A girl that ghosted me after the first date is now going to the same gym as I am. Should I say anything the next time I see her again?Ignore her or nod your head/say hi if she says hi first. Don't talk to her first. If she starts to talk to you, engage but don't jump like a puppy. There is always a slight chance that a girl changes her mind after rejecting you but you need to change your behavior and she needs to make the first move. If you make a new move after being rejected, nothing will happen in probably 95% of cases. Be cool, move on and do something only if she makes the first move. But even then, be cautious and don't … | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | It's all the same now...There are a lot of tips on the internet, but a lot of them are so-so with some bad tips. Some proven basic rules are: Be confident, don't be needy, don't be creepy, don't be aggressive, don't be jealous, don't try too hard, don't be too easy to win, don't be too funny, don't be too serious, change topics from fun to serious, then fun again, then serious (you want to go up and down to spike her emotions, don't be just funny or serious all the time), stand straight, talk calmly and more slowly, do… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Getting back on the horse"I don't care mentality" attracts women. It's counter-intuitive, but that's how it works. don't care about the outcome and talk to her as you would talk to your friend/or unattractive girl A pure magic | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 15 | It's all the same now...Imo, it is way easier to get sex than a relationship. A lot of people think that if you get sex = that is a win. If you only wanted sex, then ok, it is a win. From my experience, to get sex, it requires less skills than to get a relationship. To get sex: you "only" need to learn some game, improve cockiness, confidence, avoid some basic mistakes, learn to lead a semi-decent conversation, not be needy/a creep/too emotional, escalate and that's it. You will get some results. If I would use numbers… | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to girls at work who keep asking if/who I'm fucking?It's a social proof. If women know or think that you have a lot of options, they'll also want you. Don't overdo it and say: yes, I have 20 girls. But you can tease them and reply: you might be on the right track regarding your guess ;) And let them wonder and think about you. They'll be yours in a week or two. Simple. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 10:25 AM |
| 3 | A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected?Yeah. Guys will hit on your girlfriend wherever she goes, forever. Sometimes even if you are around. Especially if she is hot. Deal with it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Got the let's be friends text...Astro guy gave you the good advice. You are planting the seed by not doing anything, not with chasing her, offering yourself or giving a witty response. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:50 AM |
| 16 | Got the let's be friends text...This sounds so needy and desperate. Don't do that. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Should you respond to "have a good evening" textIf you have just started to text her, you don't want to look needy, too emotional, too agreeable. I mean, you can do it, but it is leaning towards slightly trying too hard, being too invested already or being too easy to win. This example might sound stupid, but imagine someone for whom you think is the coolest guy on Earth regarding flirting. For example, I'll pick James Bond. Now, imagine James Bond texting some woman, she says: good night, I gotta go now. Can you imagine him clicking heart/li… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Should you respond to "have a good evening" textDon't heart messages if you are not dating her | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Need a pickup lineGirls want a genuine guy BUT also a guy who doesn't do things which turn them off. So, pick up lines won't work, but learning what to avoid will work. For example: avoid too many compliments, don't be needy, don't be creepy, don't talk about sex right away, don't be scared, don't ask her about religion/politics/your ex etc. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to talk about sexual partners with a girl?You are chasing her too much in your replies. Ok game, but not world class. 6/10 It will work on some girls, though. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I asked her out, she said she doesn't know me muchGo back to chatting, don't rush things. And then move to flirting over messages. Imagine as if you need to earn 10 coins to ask her out. You are currently at 5 coins. When you get to 8 coins => move to flirting. When you get to 10 points => ask her out. If she says no, don't ask her anymore. You tried twice. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What should I reply?I agree This line would have worked for you if it is consistent with your overal style. But if the poster was bad in texting for weeks, he can't pull a winning line anymore. Advices from the internet are good imo, but as you said, you need to adjust your whole game, not just insert a winning line here and there between 1000 lines of bad texting. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | What should I reply?Okish, but too much talking and witty replies. It won't work, especially in this case. He is too deep in the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What should I reply?It still wouldn't work if she sees him as a friend. Your suggestion is perfectly good, but you can't talk with a girl for weeks in a friendly way and suddenly ask her out. Btw, her reply is really bad. It sounds as if he was deep in a friendzone and she didn't even consider him as a date option. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 4 | How to turn matches into dates?Women don't respond to linear predictable conversations. A fun topic, a serious topic, a fun topic => let's go out, is a way better way to go. Unless you look like Brad Pitt or if you are filthy rich, flat short convo won't get you too far. Especially among 30+ women who are looking for something serious. Short convo might work among younger girls who are mostly up for fun and are looking for a random date/hookup tonight. (Paired with your good looks, of course) | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 06:44 PM |
| 39 | How to turn matches into dates?No Level 1: not asking them out Level 2: asking them out right away Level 3: asking them out after a few messages consisted of a good opener, a witty conversation and some light flirting | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 10:52 AM |
| -4 | How to reply to corny message ?If she is a confident/attractive girl, tease her with: "I'll give you a chance in spite of that. But you'll need to be perfect in everything else." If she is shy, insecure and a rookie in dating, don't tease her, just say: "lol, ok, see you at 8." Or any random corny joke in general, but don't tease her because she might lose her confidence and cancel the date. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Women are more superficial than menMen care about women's looks plus some personality, women mostly care about manly and winner-DNA traits like height, looks, muscles, being successful, social proof, money, interesting lifestyle, adventurous hobbies, some danger in your life. Plus some personality. Some guys will say that it is not true. I would say that this is especially true for women who are chased by 1000 guys. A woman with tons of options will usually pick these type of guys. On the other hand, if a woman has only 3-4 optio… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 2 | i need to escalate but can't figure out how.Start with flirting/more sexual topics here and there. Touch her, hug her, but not in a creepy or scared way. More like: I'm hugging you because I want to and you'll also enjoy it, trust me. Eventually, a kiss will come in "one thing led to another" way. Go step by step. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 01:04 AM |
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