Jamesanity1337 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
148	Thank you Seddit!!	Jamesanity1337	/r/seduction	27/07/19 02:08 PM
2	Going out solo?	Jamesanity1337	/r/seduction	03/08/19 06:18 AM
0	[FR] Should have thought with my dick!	Jamesanity1337	/r/seduction	29/09/19 12:23 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Do you find abstaining from masturbation before going out at night or on dates useful? When i bust a nut i generally feel unmotivated to make escalation.	/r/seduction	03/10/19 12:14 PM
4	Gents, need some ideas on how to transition from the "Netflix" part of the night to the "Chill" part of the night. Just cuddle up with her and watch for a bit, when she is comfortable she will start to touch your hands, rest her head on your shoulders or chest etc. Each time you should take a step forward aswell. At some point you can say "stop doing that im trying to watch the movie! Ahh fuck it" then start making out.	/r/seduction	28/09/19 07:40 PM
2	What to do after losing respect from a girl that you considered as a friend? I think it depends on context of the cry but unfortunately its true that men shouldn't cry about their personal issues.	/r/seduction	17/09/19 06:22 AM
2	How to act when girl is sending dry texts but agrees to date? Keep it simple and have fun, don't make her feel uncomfortable about it, go with expectations of just having a coffee with her and do your game. If she is enjoying the company then bounce to other venues and try to do something active like bowling or some shit. Key is to give her a good time without trying to make it like you are trying if that makes sense	/r/seduction	17/09/19 06:17 AM
1	What is your goal with learning about seduction? My goal short term was to lose my virginity, but after awhile it has opened me up to the point where i can't recognize my old self. I now have new goals and ambitions that i previously never would've thought my mind. I still am new to it even though no longer a V. I am comfortable with my own skin and am not afraid of putting my honest views on stuff its been a bit of a revelation. However i do believe I would like to settle down one day but in order to find her i need to keep getting rejected a…	/r/seduction	15/09/19 11:39 AM
1	Difference between ejection and persistence? So here's something I'd like to say. When you enter a set remember they are having a night out and want to do their own thing. Hence its always a good etiquette to just game for 20-30 minutes at most then let them do their thing. Do your own thing afterwards talk to other people etc, then go back to em and carry on.	/r/seduction	15/09/19 07:02 AM
1	Girls look but never smile Gonna sound silly but it works for me. Stick your tongue out like a 5 year old and make a face if they don't smile at you after a long look (you should smile after few secs of eye contact though). If they smile or laugh ill take it as an invitation if not I'll skip to next. Works for me cause i am a cheeky git though so may not work for everyone else.	/r/seduction	11/09/19 05:01 PM
2	How on earth do you make the first move Worse case scenario you will learn : A) She wasn’t into you or you didn’t get her in the mood for it so you will try to get better at that. B) You kiss and it’s bad ? You can learn how to be a better kisser no biggie. C) You kiss and she enjoys it? Win win. Ask her out again for meals at your place and movies or take her there and then!	/r/seduction	08/09/19 12:19 PM
1	Always go for the kiss on the first date Definitely agree, I generally will make small touches here and there to get her slowly in the mood wrap her around my arms with ease but hesitate with the kiss. Until I say I want to kiss. Stating my intent after all the escalation has proved to work for me. Also will avoid awkward kiss rejections this way if she says no you don't look like fool.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 06:38 PM
1	What action did you take that changed your "game" the most? Not thinking in my head while listening. Not trying to find something to relate too. Being upfront and brutally honest if need be. Saying what you want and going to do(actually do what you are saying). Strong eye contact and body language. Little things like that have upped my game. Its gotten me more self respect and confidence which corresponds with alot of inner game and girls can sniff that from you.	/r/seduction	29/08/19 09:57 AM
2	Whats the difference between push pull and a neg ? Neg is basically the push... You request something from her and she doesn’t reciprocate or says or do something you disagree with you neg her then give her more attention or compliments if she does something for you or you approve of. That’s the pull. Sometimes neg her when you kissing and making out, tell her we’re moving too fast or I don’t sleep on first dates etc just to keep her more invested in you. When she does reward her with pull by hugging her kissing her etc.	/r/seduction	28/08/19 10:49 AM
13	What are some typical mistakes guys make that turns off a girl that is totally into him from beginning? Getting clingy, If a girl is into you, show her a small piece of your life (fun parts) don’t give her the whole package in first date.	/r/seduction	21/08/19 04:58 PM
1	Has game improved other aspects in your life? It has made me more empathic person and made me more open to any convo with anyone. New job aswell as new and more social circle which gives me feel good vibes. Overall much more exciting lifestyle.	/r/seduction	15/08/19 05:10 PM
2	How do I pick up a milf if I am only 15? Never thought i would psychically laugh on this sub...	/r/seduction	15/08/19 04:45 PM
2	[Advice] Why am I not interested in girls suddenly? All i can say is... You are 23, if you are in a bad(real bad) financial situation then declare bankruptcy, get a job in your field some where else and start fresh with the experience you gained. There is no shame in going bankrupt. You can recover from this and become stronger. You know how game works. Its not just for getting girls but can also help you meet people who can elevate your situation. Life will always reward the bold so do push yourself out of the comfort of your town.	/r/seduction	15/08/19 03:48 PM
1	Wish I could love fully ASL? Jk. Keep looking you will find it!	/r/seduction	06/08/19 12:20 PM
0	It's really not that difficult I genuinely believe that if you don't think more than the next hour you will have more success in life not just "game".	/r/seduction	29/07/19 09:13 PM
1	How to deal with confidence so low, where you eliminate chances of anyone liking you ? You have to have a good opinion of yourself. Go to gym for yourself, eat healthy for yourself, good hygiene foe yourself, clean your room for yourself, get a good haircut & shave for yourself, study for yourself. Put yourself on a pedastal and raise that pedastal. As for girls, just try to have fun with them. Don't overthink about what you say or do. If she does something or says something you disagree with then say it. Edit: quick note: Change takes along time and you will doubt yourself alot s…	/r/seduction	29/07/19 03:44 PM
1	Advice on Style and Fashion for a college student I do recommend looking at menwithstreetsyle instagram for inspiration. Menwithclass for a smart looks. I browse them very often before i go shopping to get some ideas. Alex costa as a youtuber has good style advice too.	/r/seduction	28/07/19 06:02 PM
1	Thank you Seddit!! Its a long road for change, every small steps should be counted though. You started the process, be proud of that!	/r/seduction	28/07/19 05:11 AM
2	Thank you Seddit!! Thanks but still a long way to go my friend.	/r/seduction	27/07/19 10:02 PM
7	Thank you Seddit!! I personally don't follow him politically but i know some of his followers adhere him to a point which freaks me out so i know what you mean. I won't get brainwashed by him if thats what you are trying to get	/r/seduction	27/07/19 06:40 PM
20	Thank you Seddit!! Yup, i am just more or less taking his lessons in being a man and struggles of change. Thank you!	/r/seduction	27/07/19 05:14 PM
1	New to r seduction not to the PUA community need advice to get started again. You could apply to be a holiday rep. Working locally, if you're speaking is good as your typing, have an understanding of tourism and you have good knowledge of the area then you probably will have a good chance of getting it. Tui is where i work for in Turkey and honestly its a fun job but can be stressful too.	/r/seduction	27/07/19 03:53 PM
1	New to r seduction not to the PUA community need advice to get started again. Morocco is a popular destination for tourism and your english is really good. Try and get a gig in that industry, my advice apply to big holiday companies such as TUI , Jet2.	/r/seduction	27/07/19 03:29 PM
1	How to makeout with a girl at the club? Seperate girl from friends , have a engaging convo , make strong eye contact. If she is biting her lips messing with her hair alot then elevate things up by touching her arm etc and move in. Wait for to to lock the lips tho	/r/seduction	27/07/19 06:49 AM
1	Is faking popularity a bad idea? Dress well, look after yourself get a good hobby. Having x number of followers may get you the bimbos and dumb sluts but 9/10 are something you will need to work on. Research about body language learn how to flirt outside of your school read and watch Pick up books n videos.	/r/seduction	24/07/19 05:37 PM
1	Is faking popularity a bad idea? High school is a different ball game. Everyone knows everyone by some extent via gossip or family friends or whatever. Faking it will backfire if a popular guy knows what you are trying to do and it can be ruthless. All i can say to the first comment to add is be a yes man for social occasions and go with the intention of making good memories and having great time.	/r/seduction	24/07/19 05:17 PM