Hey Reddit,

Tonight was a knock out for me as I blew my chances with solid 8.5-9 chick. TL;DR at the end.

Basically there was a farewell party at a bar for a company that went bust (our competitors). I had good relationship with few of the people working there and was invited aswell. Party started well all the familiar faces there having a good time. I didn't have too much to drink and was fairly in control of what was going on around me. I was chatting with multiple girls getting ioi's etc feeling good about myself. One of the ladies i knew from running in to eachother was at some point dancing with me and later on sat on my lap. She was also flirting with one of the bar staff and was hella drunk. At one point on my lap we were hugging and she kissed my neck went through my hands, thighs and was quite emotional but i kept telling myself she is too drunk or the moment wasn't right, theres too many people around etc... Afterwards the mood was slowly dying and it just really got in my head. I should have either A) taken her somewhere quiter in the bar. B) kissed her there without giving a fuck about the others.

Tldr: should have gone for the kiss, would have probably even fclosed her as she was so drunk but my lack of confidence fucked it up.