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6

I’m a woman. A high value man had morals, ethics, principles, treats women well and values them, has goals and ambitions, is good with money, tries to be the best he can be physically, in grooming, sexually. He has depth. He has intelligence. He is classy. He is not chasing “tail”. He wants and values deep monogamous relationships with women. He listens to his woman and gives her what she needs sexually; if he really satisfies her she will never stray and love him more for it. I’m 64, been aroun…
/r/seduction01/06/23 04:16 AM
33

Ding ding ding
/r/seduction23/05/23 03:08 AM
3

Yes and own it
/r/seduction05/10/22 10:31 PM
3

I’m a woman and I’m only attracted to 1 in 10,000 men.
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:39 PM
3

I had a guy call me a fat cow when I rejected him.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:29 AM
2

I’ve been insulted by a man when I rejected his offer to hook up. It was so pathetic. He came off as such a loser.
/r/seduction22/07/22 12:27 AM
10

But remember very, very few men are handsome. That is a door opener. What happens after that is up to your skills.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:43 AM
1

Sports, bragging about yourself is super boring
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:14 AM
-7

Just follow the Trump, Epstein dirtbag formula.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:39 AM
1

I am a woman. You can be short or not that good looking but if you are very well groomed, well dressed, smell ice, have a great personality and can carry an interesting conversation you can get girls. Extra points for witty, cultured.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:46 PM
5

I love the way men just hit up on girls that they don’t really care to get to know as unique people but just as a goal to fuck you. 90% of the men that come on to you just want to fuck and there will never be any real relationship. I think most men are incapable of ever being able to get to know you and have any real feelings for you. We are just bangmaids to men. That is why women reject you so much. They know that is your game. We are just a game to you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:18 AM
2

Love this
/r/seduction06/03/22 09:58 PM
6

If someone won’t make or keep direct eye contact they aren’t interested or they are hiding something
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:41 AM
3

You are a game player. Not good
/r/seduction10/02/22 03:52 AM
2

You can be fascinating and exciting and not boring but be nice as the same time. You can also be exciting but a real prick and asshole.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:05 AM
0

No they don’t. They like people with nice personalities more.
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:53 AM
17

Maybe it is your personality
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:59 AM
1

Atlanta is very diverse
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:51 AM
0

Those are all really good
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:01 PM
6

It seems low class and desperate
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:25 AM
1

I wear caftans with no bra at home because it is comfortable. If a neighbor came to my door I would be wearing that. And I would not be trying to come on to my neighbors.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:00 PM
2

I don’t wear a bra at home. I’m not trying to come onto my neighbors.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:05 AM
1

Women are not some alien creatures. Talk us like like you would another human being.
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:04 AM
19

Why do men care about quantity of how many people they bang instead of trying to have relationships and sex with depth? It is so shallow and narcissistic.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:30 AM
1

Yes we have to be perfect. They can be ugly, fat, slobs and they think we are supposed to feel so lucky to go out with them.
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:44 PM
1

I hardly ever see good looking men. They are unicorns.
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:14 AM
-5

Women don’t rate men 1 to 10. Maybe we should start. Except most men are 2 at best.
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:41 AM
0

That is very misogynistic
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:25 AM
3

Here is the good part, several years after that he got really bad cancer and died young!!!! There IS a god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:26 AM
39

I knew a doctor in Atlanta that my friends said had hidden cameras in his house and filmed himself with many women and they didn’t know it. He would show the videos to all his guys friends when they came over. How disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:31 AM
49

He probably uploaded the videos to PornHub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:28 AM
39

I dated a small dick guy like this. He cheated on me with tons of people. He was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:36 AM
23

Best wishes to all you Korean women. I am proud of you for looking out for yourselves and having high standards and not letting your self be slaves. I am American. I wish my American sisters would have high standards like you do. We can learn a lot from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:58 AM
26

Fu*k that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:45 AM
90

Who would ever want to get married there with all this crap. The woman gets absolutely nothing out of this. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:45 AM
3

Definitely the gel paper spray
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:03 AM
15

I live in GA and have a gun, knife and pepper spray in my bedroom. If they come in they are going down with me. Also ladies if you have a gun, please go regularly to the gun range and practice. In an emergency you need to be very comfortable using your gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:56 AM
4

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:43 AM
18

I was banned from the datingoverforty sub because I probably said something a male moderator didn’t like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:15 AM
50

I only understood FDS after I turned 50 and had been burned by men so many times. I learned through the school of hard knocks. I was so happy to find the FDS community on here. It is wonderful and will help so many women. When I was young there was no way to tap into this collective knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:57 AM
19

Yes don’t tell me you date about how bad your LVM father. They will use it against you and not respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:47 AM
87

I went off at 19 to a foreign middle eastern country with a much older man in 1978. He could have killed me or done god knows what to me. My horrible mother let me go with him. Thank god I told I him wanted to come home to the US before we were supposed to get married. I broke up with him when we got home. I think about this often over the years, I am now 63. I thank god the man was a nice, decent , kind person. If he had been a bad person, evil or abusive, I might not be alive right now. I was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:06 AM
4

Pink ghetto does not minimum wage. They are jobs in corporations mostly held by women. Men never take these jobs because there is no career path and they don’t pay enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:42 PM
1

Ok sorry
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:40 PM
2

You question put her on the defensive. Like she had to defend why sh3 was on there. You are the asshole
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:55 PM
14

Very well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:12 PM
4

Women should stop taking these pink ghetto jobs where you are not paid well and have no career path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:01 PM
26

That’s why we should stop having their kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:21 PM
737

Ted Bundy did this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:37 AM
76

He looks like a loser. I bet he used getting her away from everyone on that trip alone to abuse her and she had no where to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:33 AM
186

So much bullshit we have to put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:38 AM
69

Amen sister. That is the good thing about being in my 60s, I’ve seen it all and heard it all. I only do what the fuck I want to. Wish I had been like that at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:39 AM
2

I know a guy that met his wife taking dancing.
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:00 AM
4

Men seemed to value me in my early 20s. When I reached 28 not so much. In their mind I was not as desirable only due to my age. I actually looked much better at 28 than 20. It was a very sad and big disappointment to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:06 PM
20

Sad but true. I think most men are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:00 AM
5

He seems gay to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:43 PM
2

Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:44 AM
3

What is doxxed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:39 AM
27

I second this. I’m in tech and people get paid very well. Go into tech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:07 AM
1

I love Bale. He is one of the finest a tors of his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:01 AM
2

Yes, it makes it worse that you feel shame and it is shameful to tell a man at work that you are in agonizing pain. Not that they would care at all. It was awful. I was so happy to go through menopause as all the pain ended then. Then I had to deal with terrible hot flashes all day and night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:16 PM
2

I had intensely painful periods that got way worse after 40 due to fibroids. I would curl up in a ball for a day or two in agonizing pain. I had to call in sick when I was younger. I think they held that against me at work. I worked for men. You couldn’t even tell them what was wrong with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 12:29 AM
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Absolutely. We are always at risk politically of having our rights as women taken away. Don’t fool yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:37 AM
12

It’s always a lose lose for us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:31 AM
15

I’ve felt fireworks and intense sexual attraction to 3 or 4 people. But in the end that is all it was and there was no basis for a relationship. Unfortunately, the men who have loved me and treated me well, I never had that intense sexual spark and attraction to. Life is cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:25 AM
25

I’ve never met one. They all want the patriarchy to Perpetuate itself because they benefit at our expense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:22 AM
28

Personally I like a big dick. It gives me good stimulation. Little dick guys are always trying to justify why they are good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:23 AM
5

Yes. Or they shit all over the movie because it is not all about men or the subject is too interesting to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:23 PM
2

I don’t know. I think some of their wives don’t know and some must.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:21 PM
57

Many movies are male propaganda designed to perpetuate the patriarchy. The older I get the more they make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:07 AM
3

Men at work were terrible gossips. They loved to dish any dirt they could get on women to make them look bad. That is why I never wanted to date I guy I met at work. They also gossip about men and backstab everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:59 PM
17

Working in a male dominated industry for 40 years has made me understand how manipulative, lying, cheating, misogynistic assholes 90% of them are. I feel sorry for their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 11:57 PM
1

Height matters to me. My ex was 5’6”. I’ll never date a short shrimpy man again.
/r/seduction03/08/21 11:39 PM
38

We have nothing to choose from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:28 AM
1

I did. Ha ha..
/r/seduction01/08/21 05:27 AM
-3

You know jack. I got divorced in my early 50s and had lots of dates and boyfriends and LTRs. Women don’t “expire” when they are older. You moron.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:37 AM
68

I see attractive men maybe once every few years….most of them are ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:49 AM
15

You Can never win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:28 AM
1

How come the main reason he likes her because she is a 10. That just objectifies her into a thing. People are multifaceted. Women are more than their looks.
/r/seduction31/07/21 03:53 AM
108

Men were bad in the 60s, 70s, 80s but they are much worse the last 30 years after so much online porn. In the 70s-90s they were just happy to get to fuck you. Now they want weird kinks, bdsm, prostate massages, pegging and all kinds of shit. They expect you to look and act like a porn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:56 PM
2

What you want todo seems very manipulative
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:26 AM
26

I wish I knew this when I was younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:41 AM
10

Thanks. I hate places when men in their jobs have positions of authority over you and your body. Always say I do not consent to you giving me an internal exam. Also, always say if you are getting an operation, that you don’t want the intern doing the surgery. A lot of times the real doctor you met or know does not do the actual surgery. He/she watches while the intern does it. They never tell you this. Last time I had surgery I told my doctor to his face I wanted him and not the intern doing my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:15 AM
285

I’ve worked in corporate American for 40 years. So many men cheat on business trips. Or make up reasons for business trips and take mistresses with them. I’ve been in big hotels in Vegas and have seen all the hookers coming out of their rooms at 1 am. It is sickening. So many men travel way more than they really need to to get away from home so they can drink and cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:51 AM
319

I had a medical student in the emergency room at Northwestern medical center in Chicago give me an internal exam without my consent. He really hurt me. It seemed as if he had never had an anatomy class on women. I was not in there for female trouble so they shouldn’t have let him practice on me. I complained to the attending physician. This is assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:10 AM
1

How shallow
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:03 AM
2

I roger that sister. So true.never lay all your cards on the table. I’ve done that and been cheated on and gutted. Now I trust no man. I always snoop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:28 AM
27

See even guys like that cheat. You never really know in the end who will cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:11 AM
1

No not dating apps but if I’m in a bar or restaurant or other.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:06 AM
3

Because I am bored and want to talk to someone
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:48 AM
23

Never divulge personal information to co workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:39 AM
46

Add to get a gun, get inside cameras
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:52 AM
42

The older I get the more I hate the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:58 AM
23

Amen. I met one and they are attracted to your light and want to suck it out of you. They are dangerous people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:17 PM
8

Just stop doing stuff for them. They aren’t worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:39 PM
1

Why are you surprised? Men ask women all the time why their bra size and talk about how big their ass or tits are. Women are objectified, why it men?
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:44 AM
1

Just remember. You are the 1% of men that are good looking. Most men are the 99% meh or ugly. You have an advantage over 99% of them . Don’t forget that. You gave a huge advantage now go do something about it.
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:21 AM
3

We can never win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:38 PM
18

I hate the fucking patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:43 AM
16

God do I feel lucky. When I was very young and I experienced, I dated 2 much older men. One when I was 18 and he was 30. The other when I was 20 and he was 34. They both treated me very well, did not manipulate me. They were very kind. They both asked me to marry them and I said no. I realized after the second one that I never wanted to marry someone so much older than me. I feel lucky that they were both very,nice, decent people. Things could have been very different. I feel like I dodged so ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:39 AM
9

Love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:45 AM
12

I wish I had known that when I was younger. I was too honest. This is great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:57 AM
5

Yup
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:43 AM
4

I’ve hear pilots are the worst cheaters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:59 AM
6

I don’t get harassed anymore because I’m a 62 year old female and invisible to me. So just wait and you won’t have to worry either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:06 AM
20

I’m so sorry. I have had this happen to me. It guts you. I was shaken for weeks. I was so shocked as I thought mine was a HVM. You deserve better than this. I know you are very vested in this relationship but I doubt he will ever not cheat again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:58 AM
2

Get the Pomeranian
/r/seduction06/06/21 05:16 AM
51

That is because most of them don’t give a shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:16 AM
40

It’s more than 1% and a few bd apples. There are a lot of shitty guys out there. More shitty than good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:13 PM
4

I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:34 AM
3

Amen. Should raise all kids the same regardless of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:46 AM
21

I know a stupid pick me older woman that always did that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:20 AM
26

When I was in college at 21, I broke up with an older guy that was 34. When we broke up, he told me I would never ever meet a nice guy like him in the future. Ha ha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:02 AM
4

I dated a drop dead gorgeous movie star looking guy and he was the nicest guy and he did not have a huge ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:16 AM
12

Add to this 8 inch cock
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:02 AM
3

You are clueless about real women’s lives and dating
/r/seduction23/05/21 05:25 AM
17

Men weren’t like that in the 50s. They were very chauvinistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:01 AM
1

So true. I’m a woman. Body language is very important.
/r/seduction22/05/21 12:21 AM
1

Good advice
/r/seduction22/05/21 12:21 AM
13

I always kept my name. It is mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:15 AM
31

I’m 62 and in a male dominated field. I’ve been working in this field since I was 22. The men get promoted a lot easier, make more get mentored by other men. I always felt frozen out and tolerated. I had to fight for every promotion I ever got. So sick of it. Nothing ever changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:39 AM
5

He is a sociopath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:39 AM
44

Men don’t respect women who pursue them.they devalue you every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:23 AM
66

The problem is the 2% of good looking men out there are desired by 100% of the women and they know they can have anyone they want. So we are all fucked again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:50 AM
1

Saying for your age sounds snarky like a back handed compliment. Men are so judgmental about how women look.
/r/seduction30/04/21 02:56 AM
1

That is good and unique
/r/seduction14/04/21 02:19 AM
20

Just wait till your older. En in their 50s and 60s look like shit. Their faces get so ugly too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:18 AM
1

Thanks so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:02 AM
1

There will always be women who want to hook up with 5% of men who are good looking just as men always want to hook up with the hot women. So.
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:28 AM
1

These guys don’t deserve us. Besides not taking care of their appearance they are boring and not good conversationalists, with some exceptions of course. They just want to show up looking meh and put in minimal effort and then we are supposed to be so bowled over by them. Such ego.
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:26 AM
2

Hell yeah
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:21 AM
35

Yes there is. A guy can be fair or even ugly but if he owns it, dresses well, is well groomed, has a personality, has humor that can go a long way. If men talked to women as if we were human beings and not objects to conquer you might get further. Men who know how to show interest and have a real conversation with a woman are the good seducers. Don’t use stupid lines or canned shit to say to us. That is BORING and does nothing to differentiate you from all the others slobs out there.
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:16 AM
9

I just don’t do it. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:06 AM
6

Facts are: 90% of the men I see walking around look fucking ugly to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:56 PM
6

The movie is misogyny at its finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:09 AM
60

90 percent of men are fucking ugly. Yuk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:49 AM
45

Happened to me twice. They got abusive after the wedding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:55 AM
3

Yeah and in my 30s the quality of men available went way down from my 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:23 AM
24

I made the mistake of dating a medical student during most of my twenties. He told we would get married when he got done. He finished and went into private practice. Then dumped me at 30. I lost my best dating years. Then I was 30 and men thought I was picked over and there must be something wrong with me because I was still single. To my younger self I would say date around and don’t stay with a guy unless there was a firm commitment otherwise they are wasting you time. I learned the hard, pain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:33 AM
5

I’m over60. I don’t give a fuck. I dress for myself, eat what I want, do what I want and could care less what anyone thinks especially a man. Men’s opinions don’t matter to me anymore. I realized they are not as nice as women, are super selfish and mysogynistic . I’m way over living my life for some bullshit standard imposed on me. I’m much happier now than in my 20s and 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:25 AM
3

In the 1960s a guy walked into my grandmother’s house in Atlanta. She was lucky she was not robbed and that was eons ago when Atlanta was safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:48 AM
5

I’ve been told pistols and shotguns are good protection weapons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:47 AM
4

I live in Georgia. I got a Glock pistol in 2004. In Georgia it is easy to get a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 03:46 AM
12

I always lock my doors when I’m home. Have cameras inside in 3 places in my house and an alarm system that is on when I’m asleep. I also have a chime on my security system so it makes a noise if one of the exterior doors is opened. When I was 22 a guy tried my door in the middle of the afternoon. Then he banged on my door saying he was with the NSA. I did not open it. I also have a gun in my bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:17 PM
14

You had an AWESOME mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:47 AM
31

My dad was a spoiled brat. He was emotionally abusive and cheated on my mom all while they were married. My mom left him when I was 2. He never paid any child support for me and my sister. We struggled and barely could pay the bills while he lived the life of a merry bachelor. Men are scumbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:39 PM
145

That happened to me. A guy married me. I found out he didn’t love me at all. Yes they can fake marriages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:43 AM
1

I used a diaphragm for 25 years. It never failed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:11 PM
-10

Why go through all this pain. Just use an easy diaphragm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:37 AM
30

I have always gone out to eat alone to high end restaurants. I’m not waiting for a guy to take me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:11 AM
22

Hell yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:59 AM
5

The divide is made up bullshit by the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:18 PM
18

True. I was very thin in my 20s. Very pretty. I did not get hit up on that much. Now that I’m much older and chubby I have been hit on a lot. Especially by black men. I’m white. So weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:01 AM
3

I feel your pain. I attracted a lot of these guys over the years. Why me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:52 AM
4

Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:50 AM
15

My college psychology professor made a pass at me.he was 47. I was 18. His wife was another professor there. I told him no. Why would I want to have sex with him when I can have all the sex I want with college guys my own age. I am sure he propositioned other students before me. He was pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 01:55 AM
0

I appreciate you sharing your experience. I’m glad the hijab works for you. I grew up in the US. I never felt objectified and did not have boys staring at me in high school. Maybe because I was very skinny and my breasts were small. Even as an adult throughout my life I have never felt the male gaze was intimidating. I guess I have been very lucky. I’ve have for the most part been always treated respectfully. Sometimes I think whatever vibe you put out there affects the vibe you get back. In my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:01 AM
10

Amen sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:28 AM
1

These are big ugly loser scooters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:18 AM
69

Yes they hide behind their ultra strict conservative wasabi Islam. But many of them fly western and Asian women in for orgies. And they drink. I knew a bunch of Saudis in university. They all drank a lot. They commit all kinds of sins against their religion then do honor killings against their women and abduct and exfiltrate their women who manage to escape to other countries. They are the lowest of low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:59 AM
6

Costco, Ross Simons and others online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:10 AM
6

I’m in tech. A lot of women make over 100K.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:58 AM
7

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:46 PM
25

Ha ha ha. He is such an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:43 AM
38

I’ve had incredible sex with two huge guys. They did it slow and did not ram my cervix. I had mind blowing orgasms. But that said they were egotistical about having a huge dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:52 PM
2

You have a good attitude. There are a few good ones out there. You have time to meet someone. Just take you time and make sure if you do find some that he is up to FDS standard. The worst day of being single is better than the best day in a bad marriage. Best wishes to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:42 AM
20

I got married for the first time at 31 and the second time at 40. I found people to date in my mid thirties but the dynamic was so different after 30. Most of the people to date after 35 were older divorced guys with kids or never married player types. It was a lot harder. I gave up and made the mistake of marrying a guy when I was 40 that was well below what my standards were. I ended up miserable and divorced at 50. Then I had to start all over again at 50 and the guys to date were AWFUL. They…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:59 AM
19

Oh but they can have fucked up baggage and sometimes there is a good reason they are divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:02 AM
2

I had a bad female gyno in my 20s. Then I had a good male for 30 years. Now I’m back to a female gyno. I think women are better because they have the same anatomy and experiences and can understand and relate better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:46 AM
63

I’ve heard I talk too loud and I laugh too loud from a lot of people. No one ever says that to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:56 AM
11

I’ve dated a lot of Muslim men. They are definitely more sexist than American men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:41 AM
13

US men are very sexist but not nearly as bad as Muslim men. There still is a long way to go here in the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:07 AM
9

I am over 50 and I’m not bitter. I just wish I knew about FDS when I was in my 20s, 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:29 AM
15

I want an intimidating dog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:55 AM
26

I hate men who try to impress you with how successful they are. I had a first date with this guy several years ago. He just had to tell me that he was on the board of several companies and one of his last girlfriends was on a board with him. What am I supposed to do with that information? Feel like a loser because I’m not on a board? That I’m so so lucky to be in his his presence? What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:20 AM
11

At 19 and 20 I dated much older men. They were 13 or 13 years older than me. I felt like I was a trophy, a thing. I broke up with them an never dated a much older guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:01 AM
9

I never had kids. It was never an option for a guy with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:29 AM
17

I had this. I kept being with emotionally unavailable people. I guess it was due to my shitty childhood who emotionally abused and neglected me. It has been the hardest thing in my life to overcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:03 AM
27

My boyfriend’s son has something like it. He is 30 and is about to get married. I know a woman in her 40s who had it. She has a colostomy bag. She got married 10 years ago and is very happy. There are people out there who will love you no matter what. They exist. Hang in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:08 AM
5

He’ll probably do the same thing to this new girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:41 AM
3

Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:10 PM
9

I feel your pain. I was abused and neglected by my parents and didn’t know my worth. I put of with things from men in my 20s that I shouldn’t have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:09 PM
2

These look just like scones my boyfriend makes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:53 AM
18

I had a guy who was 30 do this to me when I was 30. How cheap. He was a lawyer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:16 AM
52

Amen. Never surrender yourself to a man financially. He can ruin your life and leave you homeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:47 AM
17

I had an absent father. I grew up with my mom and sister. I feel like I was naive about men when I was younger. I’ve had to learn everything the hard, painful way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:51 AM
2

Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:54 AM
60

Better to be single at 27 than in a bad relationship with an asshole scrote. I was single at 30 and felt like my friends had passed me by. I rushed into a marriage at 31 because I felt like it needed to be married. That was a huge mistake. After the divorce I was 34 and single. You never know when the right one will come a long. They are worth waiting for. Stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:51 AM
2

I’m over 50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:27 PM
6

Eharmony was very expensive and horrible men. I never met anyone I wanted to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:51 AM
2

Hang on to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:10 AM
5

Maslow was a man so this is a male view
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:18 AM
46

Are so sure he really lost it or did he hide it so he didn’t have to give you half. Men are very slimy and sneaky hiding money in divorces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:19 AM
6

That’s why I never wanted that “job” of wife, cook, maid, child carer. Women do have a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:17 AM
9

f*ck the patriarchy. They just use women. They only care about themselves and their power over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:25 AM
18

I used a professional matchmaker. It was a waste of money. The men were awful and I had nothing in common with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:18 AM
11

I was young and naive. I dated a guy when I was 18 who I thought was 25. He later turned out really to be 30. I was in love with him. I think he really loved me but he was from Iran. He asked me to marry him. In their culture they marry very young girls. I broke off our engagement as I realized I was too young to get married.In retrospect, I assume he wanted me mostly because of my age. I dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:13 AM
5

Older sexy men are like unicorns. You rarely if ever see one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:15 AM
9

Lazy cheap ass guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:23 AM
32

I think it could be a red flag. In my 30s I dated some guys who were 38 or 40 and there was definitely a reason. One was on the DL and I think the other one was too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:11 AM
7

Guess where I’m (American female) never going on vacation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:31 AM
47

I an,American blonde woman,lived in a Iran before the revolution. I made the mistake of laughing out loud in public. I was told “women are not supposed to laugh”. That is when I knew I needed to get the f*ck out of that country...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:27 AM
7

I used be when I was 30. It was a waste of a lot money. They didn’t fix me up with anyone good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:42 AM
121

I can go years without seeing an attractive guy. They are like unicorns. There just aren’t many of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:32 AM
56

Why do women have kids with men who are losers? Do they think this is a recipe for happiness and security? Why don’t they use reliable birth control. Don’t have kids unless you can afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:11 AM
75

I can go years before seeing a guy that turns my head. There are not that many very good looking men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:08 AM
7

Don’t be ruled by the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:50 AM
8

I heard in the 90s from some people at CNN that Hilary is gay and that her marriage to Bill was to benefit both their careers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:30 AM
2

He’s an idiot and should not blame you for anything. Run as far and fast as you can away from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:29 AM
12

Why don’t you “forget” to wash the dishes, do laundry, have sex, etc? He is controlling you. Take control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:10 AM
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